My Family Rejected Me Because I Married An African Man|| Black in China || Part 1

#livinginchina #blackinchina #Blasianfamily #lifeinChina #china #interracialcouple
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In this episode, Esther a Chinese woman married to a African man from Cameroon in Africa shares her experiences about marriage life with her African husband in China. The have been married for 10 years
What challenges did Esther face from her family and friends before and after her marriage ?
She narrates how her family rejected and disowned her for marrying her husband . What was her motivation for marrying her husband ? She also talks about her motivation for marrying the man of her dreams, he cultural differences they face and how they have raised their Mix-Race Child in China
bring you a mind a very sad and blowing story of a Chinese Woman who has been married to an African man
( A Cameroonian) for 10 years .
What happened next ? Did she give up on the love of her lifer ?
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Black in China, Being Black in China, Living in China, Inter-racial marriages , Blasian Family, Blasian kids, Mixed Raced Kids. Life in China . Blessy’s World , Chinese woman Married to African man, Africans in China . African Marriages. Busola Deborah, Jane Benat, Kojo films. TAKASHii from Japan
00:00 Introduction
01:34 Esther introduces herself and family
02:49 How did you meet your husband ?
05:02 How would you describe your marriage with your African Husband?
05:55. Did your parents accept your relationship with a Black man ?
07:21. Were you worried/bothered when your parents kicked you out of the house for dating a Black man ?
10:30 Challenges of raising a Mixed Race kid in China

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  • @Yuppers20
    @Yuppers20 Жыл бұрын

    I pray that there’s no more discrimination, racism & hate whatever nationality we are into. Respect & love for each other!🙏🏻❤️

  • @winson-vu8kz

    @winson-vu8kz

    Жыл бұрын

    This is not about racism. This is about "genetic continuity" in China. Even if he is a rich white guy, her parents will still not accept him.

  • @afrkleaks4991

    @afrkleaks4991

    Жыл бұрын

    Jeppe love has no borders line that being said african making politic with china or west i am opposed to that because nothing good will come out there for African but about love if chinese woman love African 100% that you are more than welcome , love is love, i am black African European i saw chinese in Europe i always look at them not with hate but love not all Chinese i love but i have not hate like racism in my mind and black people don't just hate people like that.

  • @JoseGarcia-qb1qu

    @JoseGarcia-qb1qu

    Жыл бұрын

    Only under God's kingdom.

  • @jamesmathebula2323

    @jamesmathebula2323

    Жыл бұрын

    Not in real world Racism will not end anytime soon for as long as parents continue to brainwash their children

  • @CoolNumber1

    @CoolNumber1

    Жыл бұрын

    To be fair, there are more men in China than women. The gender imbalance is not helping either. Funny no one talk about this and immediatly assumed it's racism, smh.

  • @felnluvwithyou505
    @felnluvwithyou505 Жыл бұрын

    He has a great character and it earn him the respect he deserved.

  • @kojofilms
    @kojofilms2 жыл бұрын

    Wow.. this is a beautiful story. It’s good to know how interracial marriage looks like. I like the fact that she was persistent to be with him considering him being a good man and not where he comes from. May God bless them with happiness 🙏🏿

  • @kingasare3137

    @kingasare3137

    2 жыл бұрын

    Where there is true love, racism can’t survive . She’s got a very beautiful story with her African husband

  • @patriciajohnson4393
    @patriciajohnson4393 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this. So proud of this woman for being true to her self and living bravely. What a beautiful child and faithful husband. ❤

  • @KINGKWESI
    @KINGKWESI2 жыл бұрын

    I love people who are persistent and chose to be with the love of their life. Great story

  • @kingasare3137

    @kingasare3137

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes Persistence is the key ! That’s the power of love . You would have to be persistent to make it successful. Thanks for watching bro

  • @betrihaki3884
    @betrihaki3884 Жыл бұрын

    5:49 we need more people like you, people with good heart. You are an African sister and Chinese, no doubt about that. God bless you because you are a pure hearted human. SELAM to you from ERITREA ASMARA

  • @shereem3291
    @shereem3291 Жыл бұрын

    You must tell your daughter to ignore people telling her about color because people are ignorant ,continue spreading LOVE

  • @patrickjensen5602
    @patrickjensen5602 Жыл бұрын

    Let me say this here and now: being rejected by your family is one of the greatest blessings ever, only if you're independent and strong enough to live without them, you'll be so happy they rejected you.

  • @sharoneastwood.1025

    @sharoneastwood.1025

    Жыл бұрын

    💯🙏🤗 YESSSS ITS THEIR LOSS.

  • @sikedude5160

    @sikedude5160

    Жыл бұрын

    Bullshut i would never leave my 2 brothers and parents for anyone. How you cucks think otherwise I don't understand.

  • @babyghost78
    @babyghost78 Жыл бұрын

    I don't care who you married to your kid is freaking beautiful

  • @leedza

    @leedza

    Жыл бұрын

    She is cute.

  • @sharoneastwood.1025

    @sharoneastwood.1025

    Жыл бұрын

    🥰🙏💯 YESSSS LOVE IS LOVE.

  • @timfoinc.6879
    @timfoinc.6879 Жыл бұрын

    This lady is strong as rock mountain Buddha statue. I respect her deeply. Her daughter looks cute & smart to overcome any obstacles!!

  • @teresajorge5533
    @teresajorge5533 Жыл бұрын

    You have proved your parents that you married a good man. You have a beautiful family so you should cherish your husband and children ❤

  • @Adm9464
    @Adm9464 Жыл бұрын

    No one cares what your parents think. You are an adult who can make his/her decisions. It’s always great to do what’s right for you not what others think . One thing I am requesting from the brother who married this woman please respect and support her to the best till death. It’s not right someone to lose the support of their family and not get the support of their spouse. So cherish, love and give all you have to this courageous woman who sacrificed for you.

  • @slashsaussier

    @slashsaussier

    Жыл бұрын

    U don’t know what ur talking abt , in china family means everything,and parents means a lot for the kids, that’s the culture there ,so don’t come here and try to give lecons. She did chose her man and that’s all matter for her I guess.

  • @Adm9464

    @Adm9464

    Жыл бұрын

    @@slashsaussier keep your racist culture to your self , if you guys are that biased , others will do the same friend

  • @bjmt1585

    @bjmt1585

    Жыл бұрын

    Easy said than done. Culture plays a huge part in most Chinese families where most females don't have a voice of themselves. It's sad in many ways, and it's a living proof that some families and cultures will never consider women's feelings, opinions, and own choices. They don't realize and refuse to accept how their ways of life can impact women. Lack of education and upstanding is the problem here. But I'm clad this woman stood tall for herself and strong enough to think of herself first than anything or anyone else. Good on her

  • @yvonneachieng6742

    @yvonneachieng6742

    Жыл бұрын

    Very true. She has created a family with her husband and children. This is her new nuclear family. She deserves all the support from him and his wider family. It is such a pity that her parents are losing the relationship with her nuclear family.

  • @slashsaussier

    @slashsaussier

    Жыл бұрын

    @@yvonneachieng6742 what u mean by Nuclear family? Stop saying non sens sh…..t

  • @MyConfession__
    @MyConfession__ Жыл бұрын

    Gracious words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body. Proverbs 16:24 ESV

  • @bamdingayan3906

    @bamdingayan3906

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @joelpayne1193
    @joelpayne1193 Жыл бұрын

    Man, this china lady is nice and makes interesting chat about love and family 👪 I can't understand why her parents were against her married. I believe love can overcome racism ✨❤

  • @celianeher7637

    @celianeher7637

    Жыл бұрын

    As someone in the very same situation I can understand it but done condone it. For some parents it is the fear that their children would suffer and that their children in turn.

  • @nmg1909

    @nmg1909

    Жыл бұрын

    The problem is the father is too tight on his custom and not willing to have a transracial family. It could also be the racist sentiment.

  • @margaretimukuka3326
    @margaretimukuka3326 Жыл бұрын

    Indeed true love matters. After all God created us as one despite race. We all one in God's sight

  • @citizenm9590
    @citizenm9590 Жыл бұрын

    I'm Chinese and my dad said same thing to me aftrr he found out i was pregnant he came to apologize to me he said it was nothing but his insecurity. My kids are mixed look so beautiful and exotic my kids are tall and my son got my dad frames not skinny.

  • @reshilalldhanraj7216

    @reshilalldhanraj7216

    Жыл бұрын

    Who would like that .I would never accept that

  • @reshilalldhanraj7216

    @reshilalldhanraj7216

    Жыл бұрын

    U look phaaaalll

  • @everyonesview
    @everyonesview Жыл бұрын

    Such a beautiful love story. Love conquers all, indeed.

  • @techwork...
    @techwork... Жыл бұрын

    Love conquers all things.... One love keep us together 💝💝💝...

  • @terefetafesebezuneh9214
    @terefetafesebezuneh9214 Жыл бұрын

    What a great love story. I appreaciate the commitment level from both of them. If you are commited enough for your love, you will have a successful and nice marriage. May God bless this family.

  • @akuaserwaa2526
    @akuaserwaa25262 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely amazing!!!!👐🏻🙌🏻..keep up the good work dear

  • @kingasare3137

    @kingasare3137

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching

  • @vidaessel1534
    @vidaessel15342 жыл бұрын

    Such a beautiful love story... Great job done .

  • @kingasare3137

    @kingasare3137

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching dear

  • @dorcielngonda4537
    @dorcielngonda4537 Жыл бұрын

    Great video. I hope that couple stays together for many more years. Big challenges will bring them together as a family.

  • @margieescarsega2842
    @margieescarsega2842 Жыл бұрын

    Love knows no color ❤

  • @larissastalczynski7813
    @larissastalczynski7813 Жыл бұрын

    Great conversation King Asare. First time on your channel and I love it!!❤

  • @yohaneaboagye8986
    @yohaneaboagye8986 Жыл бұрын

    A must watch interview. Great work brother

  • @wahiawabound808
    @wahiawabound808 Жыл бұрын

    I really love this story im filipino black and yes older generation usually prefer marriage within the same race especially Chinese, Japanese, Korean, but that's why it's really important for more Africans go to Asian countries and mingle and gain their trust most of the older generations look at blacks bad because of the movies they see on television and myths. I really appreciate all my African brothers for going to those countries and treating them with love and respect I want to marry an Asian woman one day.

  • @jlau979

    @jlau979

    Жыл бұрын

    People are so dam dumb to judge a whole race of people by watching some stupid movie. They just hate Black people because of the color of their skin. I don't know why they think their skin looks any better.

  • @wahiawabound808

    @wahiawabound808

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jlau979 yeah true that I guess another thing that plays an important role is the history with the whole blacks are only good for being slaves so older generation tend to follow the trend then comes gangs sex and drugs which they see on television so automatically it puts a mark on blacks it's a sad sight but that's what was fed to the world.

  • @wahiawabound808

    @wahiawabound808

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes true I appreciate & respect your comment🙏🏽

  • @Flower-ck2bs

    @Flower-ck2bs

    Жыл бұрын

    Why asian? This about a true love. It is not for sale. You can find a sincere woman in all races. Anyway still to see mixed couples is something still so different in many people eyes. For me both the mixtures accross races are beautiful and the mixture within the same race too.

  • @wahiawabound808

    @wahiawabound808

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Flower-ck2bs if you read my comment again it states why. It's about Asians trusting blacks and that we're not bad like how media and television puts us out to be. It's really not about love It's about trust.

  • @palokeyz2987
    @palokeyz29872 жыл бұрын

    Very Educative.. Enjoyed everybit of it

  • @kingasare3137

    @kingasare3137

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks man

  • @annejecop2892
    @annejecop2892 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful story ❤️ blessings to you and your family.

  • @citizentvgh4935
    @citizentvgh49352 жыл бұрын

    Love overrides everything.

  • @kingasare3137

    @kingasare3137

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes 🙌 yea

  • @jklmnoqr
    @jklmnoqr Жыл бұрын

    🌺💐Their daughter is beautiful! What a beautiful love story. It definitely was meant to be. #1. They already had a lot in common.#2. They both are serious people. #3.They dated for 3 years, a very decent amount of time. I pray for the best for them.💝🌞🌺

  • @susankoroma3870
    @susankoroma3870 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing I really love this story

  • @ackack9419
    @ackack9419 Жыл бұрын

    What a lucky couple 😊. May our Creator and ancestors bless you.

  • @niiadjeteyedmundadjei5095
    @niiadjeteyedmundadjei50952 жыл бұрын

    Welcome back Bro. Beautiful interview

  • @kingasare3137

    @kingasare3137

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so so much for watching Mr.Adjei

  • @eugenefreeman5590
    @eugenefreeman55902 жыл бұрын

    That's nice ..I love watching you

  • @jeanvillefittness1763
    @jeanvillefittness1763 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful story ❤

  • @joethakidddhk83
    @joethakidddhk832 жыл бұрын

    new subscriber...salute the brother for these videos

  • @ramishrambarran3998
    @ramishrambarran3998 Жыл бұрын

    That is a wonderful, sensible woman !

  • @imjunyd686
    @imjunyd686 Жыл бұрын

    Your daughter is beautiful!

  • @comfortosunsami7780
    @comfortosunsami7780 Жыл бұрын

    People should be able to marry whoever they love. She is a lovely, strong and determined woman. Their daughter is Beautiful and I wish her and her husband the best in life. ❤

  • @bellohadiza9414
    @bellohadiza9414 Жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful couple love is very good for everybody period.

  • @nsambastevennickel6186
    @nsambastevennickel6186 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for not discriminating dear I also wanted to marry a foreigner, I'm black African from uganda single and searching for a serious woman.

  • @akumawuena1409
    @akumawuena14092 жыл бұрын

    Awwww very touching story.

  • @tochika3598
    @tochika3598 Жыл бұрын

    This is a real mature Chinese woman very sincere lady

  • @paulinbill1568
    @paulinbill1568 Жыл бұрын

    A great experience, wow they made a beautiful family: What a cute daughter…..!!

  • @blacksinthephilippines9476
    @blacksinthephilippines9476 Жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful story.. That's why I also love sharing black experience in the Philippines.

  • @tsegaberhane8690
    @tsegaberhane8690 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful family God bless you 🙏 ❤ 💖 ♥

  • @nafisaramjee403
    @nafisaramjee4032 жыл бұрын

    Wow it’s amazing how the Chinese culture works ..very educative video .. thank you for sharing this video !!! Thumbs up !!!

  • @kingasare3137

    @kingasare3137

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching this episode. Remember to each the next episode next week Saturday

  • @ebenezerenyimbir1196
    @ebenezerenyimbir11962 жыл бұрын

    Insightful Blood 😘😘

  • @kingasare3137

    @kingasare3137

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks bro

  • @Flower-ck2bs
    @Flower-ck2bs Жыл бұрын

    Their daughter is beautiful🥰

  • @beatriceowusuachaw6210
    @beatriceowusuachaw6210 Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful story

  • @castrolee8189
    @castrolee8189 Жыл бұрын

    Nice one there

  • @DoreenNitusiima
    @DoreenNitusiima Жыл бұрын

    Esther is beautiful. Lovely

  • @user-ti5um5ek1t
    @user-ti5um5ek1t Жыл бұрын

    That’s a smart Chinese woman

  • @vvvccc8820
    @vvvccc8820 Жыл бұрын

    WOW!! .GOD BLESS YOU 🙌 🙌 🙌 THE LOVE ❤️ IT'S VERY VERY IMPORTANT...... NOT COLOR!!! LOVE ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

  • @thetruth8280
    @thetruth8280 Жыл бұрын

    God Bless this Family

  • @KIRSTYVALENTYN
    @KIRSTYVALENTYN Жыл бұрын

    Gd bless your family and may your love last so long for life

  • @obiyaabridget3723
    @obiyaabridget37232 жыл бұрын

    Waoow🤭😍Interesting

  • @kingasare3137

    @kingasare3137

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching

  • @tellmeastory2323
    @tellmeastory2323 Жыл бұрын

    It's good you followed your heart

  • @Dina-dx4qk
    @Dina-dx4qk Жыл бұрын

    I jxt subscribed because of her story,, coz i wanna b part of their family Lov u guys 💓 💗 💛 💖

  • @kingtiger3058
    @kingtiger3058 Жыл бұрын

    I'm Brazilian married to a Japanes, I have four beautiful, smart engineers girls. I had great in laws in Tokyo that I missed a lot because now they are with the Lord in heaven.

  • @kingasare3137

    @kingasare3137

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s a beautiful Story sir . However I’m very sorry for the demise of your in-laws . Indeed , they are resting with the Lord

  • @TheRJRabbit23
    @TheRJRabbit23 Жыл бұрын

    This is beautiful

  • @loideblessing
    @loideblessing Жыл бұрын

    Eish look to the very very beautiful daughter for them..is good blessings from above .

  • @nsambastevennickel6186
    @nsambastevennickel6186 Жыл бұрын

    Sounds good dear

  • @vonversace
    @vonversace Жыл бұрын

    Idk how many times I hear this. It’s like they would prefer their love ones miserable with one of their own, instead of being genuinely happy with with another race, sad a lot of us do this.

  • @royal1tv464
    @royal1tv4642 жыл бұрын

    This is a very good enlightenment video King Asare . But next time , try to make the video longer enough . I like the fact she’s helping Chinese people to change the negative narratives Chinese people have about Black people. Well done King

  • @kingasare3137

    @kingasare3137

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ok , I will make it longer in the next episode. Thanks for watching

  • @willielee5253
    @willielee5253 Жыл бұрын

    ❤God bless and be more blessed ❤

  • @Toneclark-kk6kt
    @Toneclark-kk6kt Жыл бұрын

    its sad in 2023 we are still having these conversation seems a bit old school lol good for them moving on

  • @nsambastevennickel6186
    @nsambastevennickel6186 Жыл бұрын

    Am happy for that dear 🙏

  • @timfoinc.6879
    @timfoinc.6879 Жыл бұрын

    I did not miss hearing he gave her his bank account. It is important raising family.

  • @sikazwejerry4620
    @sikazwejerry4620 Жыл бұрын

    Forgive them and move on. Making decisions in family settings is always difficult.

  • @conzellaamanda
    @conzellaamanda Жыл бұрын

    I just wish I understood why people from other cultures from around the world look at us like we're less than dirt. If you aren't black plz don't come over here being dismissive & saying I'm playing the race card because I'm not. It's very painful. I'm a very proud black woman. Wouldn't want it any other way.

  • @BlaqRaq
    @BlaqRaq Жыл бұрын

    Grandchildren always kill the grandparents. Who can relate? If they have any hint of love in their hearts, the grandchildren will just melt them.

  • @jimcarroll7829
    @jimcarroll7829 Жыл бұрын

    A man who loves you and a beautiful daughter......thats your family right there.please have a wonderful life.your previous family are the ones who are losing our if they never meet your child!!!!!

  • @itiamekimbui722
    @itiamekimbui722 Жыл бұрын

    Wooow it's nice and exciting to see a black Chinese with camera eyes😂❤

  • @Cleobonny6
    @Cleobonny62 жыл бұрын

    Man I got to know your Channel through Kojo King

  • @Lighted_Path
    @Lighted_Path Жыл бұрын

    She was thinking he is responsible, good man/great with kids and she can make a life with him. Those were her first reason for dating and considering marriage. The basics

  • @piokasekende9214
    @piokasekende9214 Жыл бұрын

    He is cute. Great choice🎉🎉🎉

  • @gideonlord-adem
    @gideonlord-adem Жыл бұрын

    YES BLACK COLOUR IS NOT THE PROBLEM. IT IS THE MINDSETS

  • @CoolNumber1

    @CoolNumber1

    Жыл бұрын

    China has more males than females though. It's a problem because it's causing gender imbalance.

  • @thefriendlypsychopath3894

    @thefriendlypsychopath3894

    Жыл бұрын

    RACE IS THE PROBLEM SHORTBUS.

  • @myrnabonafede5258

    @myrnabonafede5258

    Жыл бұрын

    absolutely

  • @lenoraramos777

    @lenoraramos777

    Жыл бұрын

    So TRUE

  • @MISS_SHERRY
    @MISS_SHERRY Жыл бұрын

    God will Bless you

  • @ileenehewitt7132
    @ileenehewitt7132 Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤ love comes from the heart

  • @beatricemensah1817
    @beatricemensah1817 Жыл бұрын

    Well come home my beautiful daughter in-law I'm a 73yrs old ghanaian and by the traditional you are my daughter in-law and I love you (RESPECT ALWAYS)AKWABA ❤❤❤❤

  • @TheMightyKingzuru
    @TheMightyKingzuru Жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful baby!!

  • @martinkibet4074
    @martinkibet4074 Жыл бұрын

    I'm your new sub from Uganda, and you

  • @yvettebrown9126
    @yvettebrown9126 Жыл бұрын

    Lovely woman.

  • @jeandedieubangui2617
    @jeandedieubangui2617 Жыл бұрын

    Respecting older people is the root of African Culture. What you husband is doing to his stepfamily is just natural to him. When you can understand African culture, you can love Africans.

  • @Flower-ck2bs

    @Flower-ck2bs

    Жыл бұрын

    Not all africans. It is more common in Africa but it depends from person to person. Her husband is doing it because he loves his wife and respect her family.

  • @agmcroom2374
    @agmcroom2374 Жыл бұрын

    She has very beautiful personality

  • @cedrickana9311
    @cedrickana9311 Жыл бұрын

    Cameroon 🇨🇲 is number 1 🎉 welcome to Cameroon 🇨🇲

  • @user-ti5um5ek1t
    @user-ti5um5ek1t Жыл бұрын

    I had a similar story with a Cameroonian man

  • @newtonpeart8573
    @newtonpeart8573 Жыл бұрын

    What a sweet little girl

  • @rubenreyes4477
    @rubenreyes4477 Жыл бұрын

    Love conquers all… ❤❤

  • @Kof_Believer
    @Kof_Believer Жыл бұрын

    Just subscribed

  • @tombimashri8149
    @tombimashri8149 Жыл бұрын

    The Bro her husband is representing Cameroonian Bro s very well.

  • @Mecca188
    @Mecca188 Жыл бұрын

    This happens a lot everywhere ,it’s common in Jamaica for blacks and Asians to mix and when it happens the Asians face discrimination form there own and are outcasted for reproducing with black Jamaicans

  • @jabaltariq4606
    @jabaltariq4606 Жыл бұрын

    I would love to see the day when a Black family kicks out a member for marrying someone of a different race

  • @anekelawrence2933
    @anekelawrence2933 Жыл бұрын

    This is good, can I get a Spanish subtitle?

  • @TheCritic101
    @TheCritic101 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful couple

  • @BlaqRaq
    @BlaqRaq Жыл бұрын

    Respect was one of the African traits in history. We, as African descendants need to bring it back to the forefront of our lives and culture. I am not telling anyone to let themselves be trampled by anyone, use the intelligence with the respect. That was how the Africans traversed the world without sparking genocide and extending diplomatic relationships all over the globe. We need to get back there.

  • @ryanheinig7975
    @ryanheinig7975 Жыл бұрын

    Have a beautiful daughter ❤️

  • @agodiacrane3460
    @agodiacrane34602 жыл бұрын

    Long time bro. Keep it coming

  • @kingasare3137

    @kingasare3137

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ok , I will do

  • @lyricsfromtheheart2038
    @lyricsfromtheheart2038 Жыл бұрын

    Very beautiful kid❤

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