My Family Rejected Me Because I Married An African Man|| Black in China || Part 1
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In this episode, Esther a Chinese woman married to a African man from Cameroon in Africa shares her experiences about marriage life with her African husband in China. The have been married for 10 years
What challenges did Esther face from her family and friends before and after her marriage ?
She narrates how her family rejected and disowned her for marrying her husband . What was her motivation for marrying her husband ? She also talks about her motivation for marrying the man of her dreams, he cultural differences they face and how they have raised their Mix-Race Child in China
bring you a mind a very sad and blowing story of a Chinese Woman who has been married to an African man
( A Cameroonian) for 10 years .
What happened next ? Did she give up on the love of her lifer ?
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00:00 Introduction
01:34 Esther introduces herself and family
02:49 How did you meet your husband ?
05:02 How would you describe your marriage with your African Husband?
05:55. Did your parents accept your relationship with a Black man ?
07:21. Were you worried/bothered when your parents kicked you out of the house for dating a Black man ?
10:30 Challenges of raising a Mixed Race kid in China
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I pray that there’s no more discrimination, racism & hate whatever nationality we are into. Respect & love for each other!🙏🏻❤️
@winson-vu8kz
Жыл бұрын
This is not about racism. This is about "genetic continuity" in China. Even if he is a rich white guy, her parents will still not accept him.
@afrkleaks4991
Жыл бұрын
Jeppe love has no borders line that being said african making politic with china or west i am opposed to that because nothing good will come out there for African but about love if chinese woman love African 100% that you are more than welcome , love is love, i am black African European i saw chinese in Europe i always look at them not with hate but love not all Chinese i love but i have not hate like racism in my mind and black people don't just hate people like that.
@JoseGarcia-qb1qu
Жыл бұрын
Only under God's kingdom.
@jamesmathebula2323
Жыл бұрын
Not in real world Racism will not end anytime soon for as long as parents continue to brainwash their children
@CoolNumber1
Жыл бұрын
To be fair, there are more men in China than women. The gender imbalance is not helping either. Funny no one talk about this and immediatly assumed it's racism, smh.
He has a great character and it earn him the respect he deserved.
Wow.. this is a beautiful story. It’s good to know how interracial marriage looks like. I like the fact that she was persistent to be with him considering him being a good man and not where he comes from. May God bless them with happiness 🙏🏿
@kingasare3137
2 жыл бұрын
Where there is true love, racism can’t survive . She’s got a very beautiful story with her African husband
Thank you for sharing this. So proud of this woman for being true to her self and living bravely. What a beautiful child and faithful husband. ❤
I love people who are persistent and chose to be with the love of their life. Great story
@kingasare3137
2 жыл бұрын
Yes Persistence is the key ! That’s the power of love . You would have to be persistent to make it successful. Thanks for watching bro
5:49 we need more people like you, people with good heart. You are an African sister and Chinese, no doubt about that. God bless you because you are a pure hearted human. SELAM to you from ERITREA ASMARA
You must tell your daughter to ignore people telling her about color because people are ignorant ,continue spreading LOVE
Let me say this here and now: being rejected by your family is one of the greatest blessings ever, only if you're independent and strong enough to live without them, you'll be so happy they rejected you.
@sharoneastwood.1025
Жыл бұрын
💯🙏🤗 YESSSS ITS THEIR LOSS.
@sikedude5160
Жыл бұрын
Bullshut i would never leave my 2 brothers and parents for anyone. How you cucks think otherwise I don't understand.
I don't care who you married to your kid is freaking beautiful
@leedza
Жыл бұрын
She is cute.
@sharoneastwood.1025
Жыл бұрын
🥰🙏💯 YESSSS LOVE IS LOVE.
This lady is strong as rock mountain Buddha statue. I respect her deeply. Her daughter looks cute & smart to overcome any obstacles!!
You have proved your parents that you married a good man. You have a beautiful family so you should cherish your husband and children ❤
No one cares what your parents think. You are an adult who can make his/her decisions. It’s always great to do what’s right for you not what others think . One thing I am requesting from the brother who married this woman please respect and support her to the best till death. It’s not right someone to lose the support of their family and not get the support of their spouse. So cherish, love and give all you have to this courageous woman who sacrificed for you.
@slashsaussier
Жыл бұрын
U don’t know what ur talking abt , in china family means everything,and parents means a lot for the kids, that’s the culture there ,so don’t come here and try to give lecons. She did chose her man and that’s all matter for her I guess.
@Adm9464
Жыл бұрын
@@slashsaussier keep your racist culture to your self , if you guys are that biased , others will do the same friend
@bjmt1585
Жыл бұрын
Easy said than done. Culture plays a huge part in most Chinese families where most females don't have a voice of themselves. It's sad in many ways, and it's a living proof that some families and cultures will never consider women's feelings, opinions, and own choices. They don't realize and refuse to accept how their ways of life can impact women. Lack of education and upstanding is the problem here. But I'm clad this woman stood tall for herself and strong enough to think of herself first than anything or anyone else. Good on her
@yvonneachieng6742
Жыл бұрын
Very true. She has created a family with her husband and children. This is her new nuclear family. She deserves all the support from him and his wider family. It is such a pity that her parents are losing the relationship with her nuclear family.
@slashsaussier
Жыл бұрын
@@yvonneachieng6742 what u mean by Nuclear family? Stop saying non sens sh…..t
Gracious words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body. Proverbs 16:24 ESV
@bamdingayan3906
Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
Man, this china lady is nice and makes interesting chat about love and family 👪 I can't understand why her parents were against her married. I believe love can overcome racism ✨❤
@celianeher7637
Жыл бұрын
As someone in the very same situation I can understand it but done condone it. For some parents it is the fear that their children would suffer and that their children in turn.
@nmg1909
Жыл бұрын
The problem is the father is too tight on his custom and not willing to have a transracial family. It could also be the racist sentiment.
Indeed true love matters. After all God created us as one despite race. We all one in God's sight
I'm Chinese and my dad said same thing to me aftrr he found out i was pregnant he came to apologize to me he said it was nothing but his insecurity. My kids are mixed look so beautiful and exotic my kids are tall and my son got my dad frames not skinny.
@reshilalldhanraj7216
Жыл бұрын
Who would like that .I would never accept that
@reshilalldhanraj7216
Жыл бұрын
U look phaaaalll
Such a beautiful love story. Love conquers all, indeed.
Love conquers all things.... One love keep us together 💝💝💝...
What a great love story. I appreaciate the commitment level from both of them. If you are commited enough for your love, you will have a successful and nice marriage. May God bless this family.
Absolutely amazing!!!!👐🏻🙌🏻..keep up the good work dear
@kingasare3137
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching
Such a beautiful love story... Great job done .
@kingasare3137
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching dear
Great video. I hope that couple stays together for many more years. Big challenges will bring them together as a family.
Love knows no color ❤
Great conversation King Asare. First time on your channel and I love it!!❤
A must watch interview. Great work brother
I really love this story im filipino black and yes older generation usually prefer marriage within the same race especially Chinese, Japanese, Korean, but that's why it's really important for more Africans go to Asian countries and mingle and gain their trust most of the older generations look at blacks bad because of the movies they see on television and myths. I really appreciate all my African brothers for going to those countries and treating them with love and respect I want to marry an Asian woman one day.
@jlau979
Жыл бұрын
People are so dam dumb to judge a whole race of people by watching some stupid movie. They just hate Black people because of the color of their skin. I don't know why they think their skin looks any better.
@wahiawabound808
Жыл бұрын
@@jlau979 yeah true that I guess another thing that plays an important role is the history with the whole blacks are only good for being slaves so older generation tend to follow the trend then comes gangs sex and drugs which they see on television so automatically it puts a mark on blacks it's a sad sight but that's what was fed to the world.
@wahiawabound808
Жыл бұрын
Yes true I appreciate & respect your comment🙏🏽
@Flower-ck2bs
Жыл бұрын
Why asian? This about a true love. It is not for sale. You can find a sincere woman in all races. Anyway still to see mixed couples is something still so different in many people eyes. For me both the mixtures accross races are beautiful and the mixture within the same race too.
@wahiawabound808
Жыл бұрын
@@Flower-ck2bs if you read my comment again it states why. It's about Asians trusting blacks and that we're not bad like how media and television puts us out to be. It's really not about love It's about trust.
Very Educative.. Enjoyed everybit of it
@kingasare3137
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks man
Beautiful story ❤️ blessings to you and your family.
Love overrides everything.
@kingasare3137
2 жыл бұрын
Yes 🙌 yea
🌺💐Their daughter is beautiful! What a beautiful love story. It definitely was meant to be. #1. They already had a lot in common.#2. They both are serious people. #3.They dated for 3 years, a very decent amount of time. I pray for the best for them.💝🌞🌺
Amazing I really love this story
What a lucky couple 😊. May our Creator and ancestors bless you.
Welcome back Bro. Beautiful interview
@kingasare3137
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so so much for watching Mr.Adjei
That's nice ..I love watching you
Beautiful story ❤
new subscriber...salute the brother for these videos
That is a wonderful, sensible woman !
Your daughter is beautiful!
People should be able to marry whoever they love. She is a lovely, strong and determined woman. Their daughter is Beautiful and I wish her and her husband the best in life. ❤
What a beautiful couple love is very good for everybody period.
Thanks for not discriminating dear I also wanted to marry a foreigner, I'm black African from uganda single and searching for a serious woman.
Awwww very touching story.
This is a real mature Chinese woman very sincere lady
A great experience, wow they made a beautiful family: What a cute daughter…..!!
What a beautiful story.. That's why I also love sharing black experience in the Philippines.
Beautiful family God bless you 🙏 ❤ 💖 ♥
Wow it’s amazing how the Chinese culture works ..very educative video .. thank you for sharing this video !!! Thumbs up !!!
@kingasare3137
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching this episode. Remember to each the next episode next week Saturday
Insightful Blood 😘😘
@kingasare3137
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro
Their daughter is beautiful🥰
Wonderful story
Nice one there
Esther is beautiful. Lovely
That’s a smart Chinese woman
WOW!! .GOD BLESS YOU 🙌 🙌 🙌 THE LOVE ❤️ IT'S VERY VERY IMPORTANT...... NOT COLOR!!! LOVE ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
God Bless this Family
Gd bless your family and may your love last so long for life
Waoow🤭😍Interesting
@kingasare3137
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching
It's good you followed your heart
I jxt subscribed because of her story,, coz i wanna b part of their family Lov u guys 💓 💗 💛 💖
I'm Brazilian married to a Japanes, I have four beautiful, smart engineers girls. I had great in laws in Tokyo that I missed a lot because now they are with the Lord in heaven.
@kingasare3137
Жыл бұрын
That’s a beautiful Story sir . However I’m very sorry for the demise of your in-laws . Indeed , they are resting with the Lord
This is beautiful
Eish look to the very very beautiful daughter for them..is good blessings from above .
Sounds good dear
Idk how many times I hear this. It’s like they would prefer their love ones miserable with one of their own, instead of being genuinely happy with with another race, sad a lot of us do this.
This is a very good enlightenment video King Asare . But next time , try to make the video longer enough . I like the fact she’s helping Chinese people to change the negative narratives Chinese people have about Black people. Well done King
@kingasare3137
2 жыл бұрын
Ok , I will make it longer in the next episode. Thanks for watching
❤God bless and be more blessed ❤
its sad in 2023 we are still having these conversation seems a bit old school lol good for them moving on
Am happy for that dear 🙏
I did not miss hearing he gave her his bank account. It is important raising family.
Forgive them and move on. Making decisions in family settings is always difficult.
I just wish I understood why people from other cultures from around the world look at us like we're less than dirt. If you aren't black plz don't come over here being dismissive & saying I'm playing the race card because I'm not. It's very painful. I'm a very proud black woman. Wouldn't want it any other way.
Grandchildren always kill the grandparents. Who can relate? If they have any hint of love in their hearts, the grandchildren will just melt them.
A man who loves you and a beautiful daughter......thats your family right there.please have a wonderful life.your previous family are the ones who are losing our if they never meet your child!!!!!
Wooow it's nice and exciting to see a black Chinese with camera eyes😂❤
Man I got to know your Channel through Kojo King
She was thinking he is responsible, good man/great with kids and she can make a life with him. Those were her first reason for dating and considering marriage. The basics
He is cute. Great choice🎉🎉🎉
YES BLACK COLOUR IS NOT THE PROBLEM. IT IS THE MINDSETS
@CoolNumber1
Жыл бұрын
China has more males than females though. It's a problem because it's causing gender imbalance.
@thefriendlypsychopath3894
Жыл бұрын
RACE IS THE PROBLEM SHORTBUS.
@myrnabonafede5258
Жыл бұрын
absolutely
@lenoraramos777
Жыл бұрын
So TRUE
God will Bless you
❤❤❤ love comes from the heart
Well come home my beautiful daughter in-law I'm a 73yrs old ghanaian and by the traditional you are my daughter in-law and I love you (RESPECT ALWAYS)AKWABA ❤❤❤❤
What a beautiful baby!!
I'm your new sub from Uganda, and you
Lovely woman.
Respecting older people is the root of African Culture. What you husband is doing to his stepfamily is just natural to him. When you can understand African culture, you can love Africans.
@Flower-ck2bs
Жыл бұрын
Not all africans. It is more common in Africa but it depends from person to person. Her husband is doing it because he loves his wife and respect her family.
She has very beautiful personality
Cameroon 🇨🇲 is number 1 🎉 welcome to Cameroon 🇨🇲
I had a similar story with a Cameroonian man
What a sweet little girl
Love conquers all… ❤❤
Just subscribed
The Bro her husband is representing Cameroonian Bro s very well.
This happens a lot everywhere ,it’s common in Jamaica for blacks and Asians to mix and when it happens the Asians face discrimination form there own and are outcasted for reproducing with black Jamaicans
I would love to see the day when a Black family kicks out a member for marrying someone of a different race
This is good, can I get a Spanish subtitle?
Beautiful couple
Respect was one of the African traits in history. We, as African descendants need to bring it back to the forefront of our lives and culture. I am not telling anyone to let themselves be trampled by anyone, use the intelligence with the respect. That was how the Africans traversed the world without sparking genocide and extending diplomatic relationships all over the globe. We need to get back there.
Have a beautiful daughter ❤️
Long time bro. Keep it coming
@kingasare3137
2 жыл бұрын
Ok , I will do
Very beautiful kid❤