"Mom, I was suicidal and needed your help" "Oh, yeah... Well, too bad so sad, I was busy that year. Deal with it"

First story, she's too nice. Kept saying baby needs to be raised in a better home and it was God's gift to the cousin, I'd be like, if god wanted her to have kids, he would actually let her...

S1: The cousin is so nuts, how does she still have a husband??? S2: The siblings might be able to be saved, but the mom is an enabler. I bet the stepdad will just attack another minor and she'll still stand up for him 🤦🏽‍♂️ S3: Sadly those with autism don't often get the support that they need. My incubator often yelled at me for simply having autism and being "different". The trauma from that just made these worse. Anyway, good on OP for choosing to pour into the people that poured into her.

@Olimar92

11 күн бұрын

For the first one, Religion! There are a lot of Christian couples that are absolutely miserable, but stay together because Divorce is seen as a terrible sin. There's likely other factors, such as the Husband being to scared of losing everything in the Divorce. The system heavily favors Women, and their word is worth a lot more even with an evident truth. I mean, I read a story where a woman abandoned her son for 15yrs to flee with a new boyfriend to another country. The Judge gave her custody because "She's the kids mom". She didn't even know who the kid's father was!

Third story: OP’s mom is a therapist and is truly next level manipulative and cruel and co-parenting in a dysfunctional family.

@dogguy8603

Күн бұрын

I feel bad for her patients

Why are babies treated as objects now adays?

@Kennisaurus

11 күн бұрын

They always have been sadly. Just we have more recorded proof of it

@peepawfart

11 күн бұрын

Because babies don't talk or have opinions or stand up to adults. They just sleep and cry and sit around to be cared for

@madalice5134

11 күн бұрын

People have always treated children like property. Even now with the birthrate decline, some public voices haven't even tried to hide the fact that they want to encourage people to have kids for the future workforce, as though people are just soulless automatons for profit. It's one of the reasons child abuse isn't taken seriously enough. Slap the hell put of an adult and it's assault, slap the hell out of a child and you're excused with bs like, "spare the rod, spoil the child." People have always treated kids like property, punching bags, ready made workers and worse.

@FatinChibi

11 күн бұрын

Because want money

Third story: "Mom, I was feeling suicidal and you did nothing to comfort or help me." "LULZ, sorry champ, I need a mulligan on that one." BRUH, ARE YOU 🦆'ING KIDDING ME 😭😭😭. That poor woman deserved a much better family than she got.

Aunt was plotting a kidnapping when her aunt showed up.

Why did her aunt take her in after her mother died when her father was still alive?

@adyashanayak7958

11 күн бұрын

Aunt never took her in, she was a motherly influence.

Story 2: Oh my god… I want to hug her

First story the police needed to be involved like yesterday.

Story #1: OP = NTA Restraining Order ASAP

@brainbomb.

11 күн бұрын

The third one too.

A lot of people who go to church do not live by what they can freely read on their own.

@DrakkonPyre

11 күн бұрын

It's a freaking epidemic you wouldn't believe how many "Christians" blindly follow what their pastor/priest says, it's very ridiculous.

@amazingdoorbob5458

11 күн бұрын

This is the exact reason I left the church. I'm still a Christian and I still follow Jesus teachings. But the church is all about looks, not following the word of God

@shudere

11 күн бұрын

many people seek religion to stay away from sin,yet the amount of poeple commits sinful acts in the name of religion is astonishing

@cornbread12987

11 күн бұрын

@@amazingdoorbob5458 Im prettybad at going to church myself. However. 24 And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, 25 not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another-and all the more as you see the Day approaching. The church is like a hospital. Its full of sick people. Jesus used to get accused of being wrong because he hung out with drunkards, prostitutes and tax collectors. However the doctor had to go where the sick were. Im pretty sick myself.

@cornbread12987

11 күн бұрын

Edit: Hebrews 10:24-25

Story 1 first thing tell the hospital where the birth will take place that security may be needed.

@gregorywilks1036

11 күн бұрын

Only thing that needs to be said is...... DON'T START NONE, WON'T BE NONE.....PERIOD!

Aunt and cousin are certifiably insane.

@lindalmiller429

11 күн бұрын

People like this drive people away from Christianity in droves. It’s a shame.

Story 3: (After the updates) This is not the first time that I've read a story like this, and one of the sh***y parents turns out to be a counselor and/or therapist. I get the feeling that the profession attracts people who want to play savior, and as a result, ends up releasing that negativity onto their family, and/or they ignore or even enable the abuse going on at home to keep up an image. Glad OP cut those people off and finally told off her mother!

@UrbanHermitKat

11 күн бұрын

A lot of people in power over others have psycopathic traits (even bundy worked in a self harm hotline)

@shells500tutubo

11 күн бұрын

@@UrbanHermitKat Worse, it was a rape hotline.

I’ve heard this story before but not the update I hope op makes sure her aunt and cousin never see the baby and also just cause she’s more “godly” and if it were me I’d ask what kind of stable and respectful demands a mother gives up her baby and also it sounds like her partner is jewish and her aunt is horrible about that and as for that pastor pressuring her to make reconcile is probably hoping to gang upon her to make her give up her baby don’t know what church this is but it deserves a dose of reality And her cousin well I honestly think a baby isn’t going to help anything she sounds unstable and I think her stable marriage as aunt said is probably not that stable as aunt and cousin refer to having a baby will fix everything I’ve never heard of babies really fixing relationships

Email the police and media about that pastor. Hes a little too eager to get ahold of another young congregant.

It's probable that OPs mother in the last story is on the spectrum as well. OP should continue NC and get therapy.

Story 3: This is almost exactly my experience. Autistic, misdiagnosed/undiagnosed in childhood, finally diagnosed in my 30s. My family did the same crap hers did, and more....stop beling weird, are you stupid, you're overreacting. When I informed them of my diagnosis, they felt that since I act so "normal", they did me a favor. Like OP pondered, I gave up. LC with them. You actually CAN pick your family.

That aunt and cousin are twisted.

Third story "how can i fix myself". You are not broken, so there is nothing to fix! Your parents are disrespectful and just awful. Stay away from them. You deserve better.

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11 күн бұрын

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5 күн бұрын

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2nd story, I really hope the fire d that figured out what she was trying to do and saved her with that text, goes to her mother and blasts her saying, "your daughter tried to unalive herself becasue your sick husband sa'd her and you being a pos mum threw her to the curb."

Story 1: sounds like op needs a restraining order and protection for herself and her child....

The 3rd story pisses me off. God damn them.

I feel for the cousin in the first story. I get that she suffered so much loss with her two lost angel children. I can’t even IMAGINE the pain. However, that does not mean she can act like this, acting like she should get the baby. And the mother did NOT help.

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"has struggled with infertility and witnessed its ups and downs" infertility has ups?

This is insane. When you don't deal with grief you lose your mind. The cousin was going to go psycho regardless. Because she refused to get help

3rd story: so the mom is a therapist and never thought that what she was doing was messed up?

3rd story op stay nc thst level of toxicity isn't good in ur life keep up progress and live happily ever after 😊. Entitled toxicity bye-bye

Story 3: you werent mean to them. They were horrible to you.

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First story, people are fucking DERANGED

Is this a joke because you can just go on social media and bust them out

*Where's The Video With The Rest Of The Updates To Story#'s 1-3!*

@SecretVoices25

11 күн бұрын

We are up to date as of now

@codyjones8153

11 күн бұрын

@@SecretVoices25 Ugh.

God damn that woman.

S1: this woman is stupid she could have ask for surgatot help instead she's burning bridges left and right.