I feel the pressure even though I’m way older than you. My goals: to make a habit of reading Qur’an daily, build a house for my mom(have been saving for it) and to get into nursing school next year. I feel like the problem is we have to so much desire for this world and forget about our Akhira. May Allah make it easy for us🙏

I always advise my self that if i have home then there is some one who is homeless if i have something to eat , there is some one who is starving in some where , if i am not the level of beauty that i need to achieve then there is some one who is in that same level i want but not happy or see their self beauty , and most important i am lucky to have family and apart of all of that i am lucky to be a muslim woman which is priceless , so don't think what u don't have or get in this live , think of what u have are truly what makes you u .

@stacyokie6280

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True been told by you.

@safanaelan2730

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😍😍

There’s this thing that always helped me with time and achieving things, and I think I got it from my mum like she made sure that nothing is ever associated with time even when they say nursery shall be by the age 2/3 that isn’t a must or when they say being done with high school at the age of 17/18, she was always against the concept that a human being shall get something or be done with something by the age of that and that. You can always start at whatever age works and is written for you, as long as you have a goal and a plan to follow the rest shall be left to Allah the ultimate result shouldn’t be our concern as much as just focusing on the start and be consistent to that plan. But obviously I fell into believing that achieving any goal is related with certain age cause my surroundings and the entire world act like so, however, I do always remind myself that is just not it and I just stick to my plan I could care less if I got it at the end or not as long as I tried and worked forward it, lemme not even get to those serotype of getting married at the age of 30 or having your dream car by 25 whatsoever! Bruh nah I mean is this a duty given by Allah so they say such ?? I feel like getting closer to Allah and knowing much about our religion can help with our depression when it comes to time cause knowing stories will teach us to be patient.May Allah make it easy for us and may we stick to the words we make to ourselves 🤍🤍

“I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day, and I believe in miracles.” Audrey Hepburn

Girl I gained a lot of weight this year,uni is scaring the pressure of taking care of Hoyoo is there..my skin is bad my hair is bad am not good with my deen.am planning to fix everything step by step I.a

I’m always stressed and overthinking. My mental health isn’t good as it once was. But in shaa I will be better. Everyday I am learning to leave my affairs to allah, he is the best planer 🙏

I want to work on my mental health,studies & my hair too!!!!I hope it gets better for all of us

I see alot of people pressuring you to go back to your other channel , but I think that your English content is more authentic and intimate isagaanba ku haystaa, and honestly I relate to this , and what I what I wanna focus on this year is to get closer to Allah Inshallah also I am doing MBBS and it is not east so I will try to study like daily and to stop procrastinating by watching your videos Lol . Wishing all the best inshallah 🖤❤️

@fartunslifestyle1501

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May Allah make it a smooth sailing journey. I prefer here too. I want to release my inner thoughts can’t be asked to entertain 24/7

i guess eveyone gets the pressure but what is funny is you acheive one thing will lead to wanting another and you will never feel the satisfaction so do what you can and leave the rest to god

I just turned 25 and i never felt more pressured and the mad thing is nobody is pressuring me. It’s all in me. Pressuring myself to get a job that will help me help my parents, finding the perfect man, be the best friend and sister. Long list girl that i lost myself so yeah ilahay ha inoo gargaaro. If we keep it to this rate we are the ones who will be looking for diseases.

I recently read and reflected on ayah 24 of surah Al-Kahf. It has opened my eyes. There is no destination or an ideal place to be in life because we will be always be on a journey. Really coming to terms with this will help your priority be to do better then yesterday which then hopefully makes the goal of getting to that ‘perfect’ place in life now less of a worry. The way I put it doesn’t even if do it justice so I would highly recommend looking up ayah 24 of surah Al-Kahf, preferably the deeper look section on Bayyinah done by Nouman Ali Khan. May Allah make it easy for us to focus on the important things in life, ameen!

@mariamak3207

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1. Protect your five daily prayers NO MATTER WHAT 2.Make Qur’an apart of daily routine 3. Surround yourself with good company I know it is easy said then done but I want all of us to remember that we all have things during our day that we make time for. Any time yourself lacking, ask yourself what I have done today that was so important and will be a good reason to tell Allah

I feel the same when it comes to relationships 😕..I ghost friends for months and I will even struggle to maintain the same energy in the relationship. But I'm working to building my self esteem and confidence 🙃 and maintain a consistent level of energy in relationships

Totally agree with the social media part, but live goes how the way Allah wants it. We need to put our trust in him, and work hard for our dreams.

love how honest u are fr! mashAllah

Fartun, you're an amazing woman I literally wanna hug you and have this conversation with you rn🥺 My goals for here on are 1) to be a woman on her deen, literally study and finish the Quran Insha'Allah 2)drink a lot of water daily and exercise and 3)do well in uni & graduate with distinction Insha'Allah. I hope your goals get fulfilled, Ameen❤

I love the fact you have the courage to be open and vulnerable on here. Hope to watch your journey to achieve your goals. I think we are often doing better than we think. Everyone has a different journey and different starting points. Some people have fewer disadvantages when they start their journey and they may be able to reach their goals faster than their peers. Don't forget to look at what you have to overcome to get to where you are!

I understand you sister, may the Almighty make it easy for all of us 🤲 ❤️

@fartunslifestyle1501

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Amin ya rab

@hodanqurux8388

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Aameen yaa rabi 🤲

Such a beautiful soul! You're the big sister that I never had literally, go you sis!! You know we always got your back, onto better and bigger things 💃🏾

Soo right especially lived here in Somalia life really hard to us women some times like people all sudden in your business like unties asked you marriage job and you not even close some times every thing happen Allah timing wlhy that gives you alot struggle but you have to move never quit

I appreciate your honesty I really do😍. I feel like we are all struggling trying to achieve things in this world and as you said the pressure is real, but sometimes what helps me is trying to look back and seeing everything you’ve accomplish just from last year today and now. Looking back and seeing the things that stressed me out work it’s way out for the better helps. Never sleep on any kind of accomplishment even the smallest ones cause those are the things that will matter down the line. I really enjoy your video and your honesty, we all have struggles in this life, that’s how Allah designed it and that’s why Jannah was created. May we all reach there in shaa Aallah.💕

i feel the same way walhi thx for sharing i was so confused this days i was so unmotivated i'm struggling alot but i.a i will go through it alone i got this may allah make for everyone how they want don't stress over small things

Hey Fartun, I have been watching you from day one and even interacted with each on Snapchat. I love that you are being your authentic self here and letting us in Mashallah. The three things you have highlighted are ALSO my must goal in the last year or so. I mean trying to pass driving practical test ain’t easy believe me (already failed 3 times 😂) but we can DO IT by the will of Allah hun. We love you for the sake of Allah. May Allah make the journey easy for all of us…amiin. Keep shinning!

I also have habit of ghosting and not showing affection to my friends and people it’s stressing me

I really appreciate how honest you are.

Yes I can absolutely 💯 relate to this I keep trying to advice myself and accept that everyone have their own pace

Sis Masha’Allah I love the way you wear hijab. May Allah reward you for it.

I feel you sis 💯❤ May Allah make all our matters easy for us and grant us the best in this dunya and akhirah. Ameen

I just got out of Med school and all my high school mates are either married with children or earning salaries from their jobs. I feel a bit late. I want to build houses and buy cars for my dad who’s old and spent every coin to put me through school but with his health issues I’m too afraid I’ll lose him b4 I have the opportunity to do that. I feel like there’s too much to do with too little time😭 but in shaa Allah kheir

I think the main pressure i have to deal with now is relatives telling me to get married or I’ll be too old. Keep in mind I was 18 when they first started mentioning marriage. Ignoring isn’t working nowadays so maybe one goal can be figuring out a way to tell them to leave me alone without sounding rude. I also had a similar thing with my hair. I’m happy to announce I cut it all out and am doing great with a hair routine. Even when I’m feeling down and unmotivated I try to at least do like one routine on the list. For instance, just running a comb through it or just putting oil in it. Sometimes watching something helps me bypass the “don’t want to” stage. Still I have some days I absolutely can’t bring myself to do anything and that’s fine. As long as you try and do it whenever you can it’s ok to miss a day or two. Wish you luck with your goals!! 💜

Thank you for being raw with your feelings. It was heart warming to learn about your positive thoughts. Masha'Allah. It's incredible how resilient you are. I wish you all the best with all your goals. May Allah swt make all your affairs easier for you in every way, and for your family. Ameen. It's sometimes really hard to get through a day, where you feel lost, but trust that Allah is capable of changing your situation, and He is the best of providers.

tuuney i can feel you pray more often inshaAllah you will achieve your goals ❤

I’m 21 and I have no idea what to do with my life I just feel lost right now my goal was going to uni and become a nurse but we are not financially stable so I had to stop 2 years If someone reading this comment plz pray for me hopefully things work out cause I’m depressed 😞💔💔

@yasminospite3758

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May Allah grant all your wishes

@hayatabdi8496

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I feel you we all been there once in our life where you don’t know where to go from here. I will make dua for you may Allah subhana watalla guide you to the right path and make your journey easier.

Thanks 😊 Fartun this English channel is good for my listening and improving my English 👍.

This is amazing Fartun 🥰 can relate ❤️

Babesss you got this♥️♥️

Such a relatable video!! I completely feel the same at age 29 the pressure is real. But also you are 25 wow! I never expected that Mashallah

@banandababa

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Oh sorry didn’t hear the part where you said your nearly 30! But yeah sis being focused on Allah and remembering how blessed you are and helping others really helps with these negative feelings.

You have no idea how much I appreciate you for making this video. I honestly started crying when you asked " How are you really?". I love you and appreciate you from the bottom of my heart sis.

I'm loving these little diary episodes keep going abaayo. I can definitely relate to everything you said here . The learning how to drive part made me laugh bcs I use to drive like 5 years ago like a month then I had to sell my car bcs I became a full time student and couldn't afford it anymore. Now I'm scared to drive again by myself after 5 years😭😂 if you start driving make sure you drive regularly don't become like me

This was Absolutely Amazing Fartun, Iove the idea of you creating this channel

When I watching your videos really i get more advice thanks you sister,

May Allah bless you and allow you to reach your goals. Ameeen. I loved this video fartun its really important for us all to remember that as long as we try with the support of Allah then we will achieve many things.

Always remember you'll leave everything behind in this 🌎. So there's no point of stressing yourself and comparing others with yourself. Put God first ❤️

You can do this! I want you to remember you can achieve anything you put your mind into. Ilahay caafimad hakusiiyo always macaney ♥️♥️Love u..I hope you look back at our comments and remember walal gang is rooting for you always 💯♥️

@fartunslifestyle1501

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Amiin Amiin I honestly think me talking about my struggle is a healing method for me. I’m tired of oppressing my thoughts and struggles.

@hibaaqey

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@@fartunslifestyle1501 absolutely!! Yes it is 👏🏽 Goodluck iA. Let this channel be where you let it all out. Your safe space with your walal❤️❤️

@ria.abdull

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@@fartunslifestyle1501 let it out sis! iska nafis 💕

Sis if your friends are people that you instinctually shut out when life and your emotions get difficult then RE-evaluate those people. Friends should be a support system and people who you can confide in and be there for you when you are down not ppl to only celebrate with when your doing well. May Allah help you achieve your goals especially in getting closer to him.

@fartunslifestyle1501

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I agree Alhamdulilah situations I have been through has shown me who my friends are. My circle is getting smaller by the day 😅 Amiin Amin

Fartuun isku hadaf ban nahay inshallaah allaha no fududeeyo ina is caateeyo iyo ina gaari wadis barto 👍😍

Wallah I needed this video! Mashallah u worded it perfectly coz we constantly comparing ourselves with others but not in a jealousy way. May allah help us become better people🤲🏽

Fartun, love your honesty, 💗 my goal next year would be memorizing half the Quran InshaAllah

Am studying psychology, am stressed 😩 there's alot that i want to archive inshallah i need to help my family that's biggest goal i have , And may god make it for all of us inshallah i love you so much fartun and everything will be perfect 😍

@fartunslifestyle1501

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May Allah make it an easy journey for you 🤍

☺️ wow ma sha Allah just saw these channel i have loved it plus the comments are just lit ❤️🔐

@fartunslifestyle1501

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They so wholesome ! I love it here 😭

rule number one dont tell pple you next move coz 9/10 it would not really happen cuz of the bad eye

Mashaallah my sisters iam see know your chanel iam one of the fans of your another chanel iam happy to see you speaking English because iam in Somalia 🇸🇴 moqdisho I love Somalia people especially to is speaking English Language want learn more 💖 ❤ 💗

Am feeling so pressure right now but I hope everything will be oky izha allah 🙏

I like your style today you look great

MAANSHA ALLAAH Fartuun Horry U soco habo noloshu Kuma ciisho

Hey Fartun! You are so brave. I am amazed by your openness. I pray that you achieve all your goals 🥰❤️

Really I didn’t get chance like my peers so I cut them all cause I’m still struggling with the first step and they finish everything they finish there study and get married so it’s really depressed,now I have big target and It’s depending on god until that i am working on my deen side praying all the “suna’s” and wetir get closer to allah ,working on my hair to make my self busy until I get what I am praying for

Fartuuun I love you for the sake of Allah 💞💞 Alle ha ku dhawro sis

I like the videos like this❤❤ only you tqlking to us❤

I want to take care of my family in the future by becoming a dentist,I also want to get closer to God

From top to bottom of ur story feels like ya talking about me wlhy even am the only daughter as ya 🥺💋😂 bea good things take time lol insha allah it well be ok

Masha allah sister allaha ku sahlo hamigaga sis aniga cabsi an goal kayga gaari way sanahay and I need help walahi it become worst and worst 😢

Comparison is the thief of joy

Keep going fartuun abc

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Soft life 🙈🙉🙊

I think you are a such authentic and brave person Masha Allah. Keep going sister ♥️, I know it's not part of our culture but try to put yourself first and make it a habit, and remember it's not a selfish but self-care, your physical health, your religion and your emotional well-being. May Allah guide us and protect us all.

@fartunslifestyle1501

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Thank you abaayo. This year I will definitely do more things good for my well being than anything else 🤍

Fartun 👌👌

Garlic or fenugreek water (forgot which one) help with diabetes n high blood pressure

ARE YOU OKAY!! My niece always used say that 🥲🥲

Fartun...if you have been in state of a yoyo, I would advise you to invest in a life coach. You need a coach who has creditential on behavior change. People who have life styles that suit them is because they have learned how to manage their weaknesses and master their strengths. Advice of a counselor 😘

@fartunslifestyle1501

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I honestly do need a life coach! I can never maintain anything I set my mind to. I procrastinate a lot ! Advice taken

I really like your honest fartuun as usual. I get what your talking about, I want to do so much for my mum (my dad died recently) but I am struggling. For 1 we live different countries (the curse of somalis😔), and the comom easy country we could live together is Somali but at the moment that will not suit my 3 year old. Every time I try to pack my bags something happens. I also, feel my mum is trying to avoid blame that she took her only daughter away from her husband. I have so much I need to work on (confidence is zero 😢 thought I hear about your chanting about motivating yourself 🤣). Even my work needs improving, I struggled with my first professional job, then went o to study more 😭. To others my cv is impressive, to me I am thinking who will employ me. So my goal: 1) become confident driver who can go anywhere instead of just A to B 2) find good employment before the end of uni 3) tell myself every day that I am capable and worth of good life/work 4) read at least 30 min about my field of study everyday to get comfortable and confident

@fartunslifestyle1501

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May Allah make all those and more come true for you. May Ilaahay grant aabe jannah and give you all sabr. Is tough out here walaahi but we got this. Let’s keep setting goals for ourselves. Even if we don’t achieve at least we were trying 🤍

Hi fartuun ani wa fahma English lkn waxkasta ma ku qori karo ani hda imaday qurbah lkn carur yar yar ba heysta aqoon sar ma so baran familki baka fakara walahi wadank dadka joga lcg be raban kuligod ana maba awoodo carur iyo kiro aduunyo na sugayo. Maxaa sameya ninkayga intas ma bixin karo talo please thanks fartun I love you sis depression dadkena mayaqanan

I laughed when you said hair and I touched mine coz I just cut them last month 😂😂😂 😭

Inshallah i am 18 and i want to learn how to drive, get closer to allah and get into med school if god wills inshallah

You won’t realise how young 25 is until your in your later 20’s Lolol

Hi ladies and Fartun, please be kind to your self, ladies please be patient for you are on your own journey of growth. Set boundaries with other and yourself. Start walking and doing minimum of 10,000 steps and on Sunday’s prep food for the week ahead and have overnight oats in the morning and go for a walk before work and check in on yourself. The small moments in the day you set for yourself now will only mirror the life you will live in the future. If you can’t set time aside for yourself as a single woman what makes tog think you will do so with a spouse and in sha Allah offsprings?. We all have to rewire our conditioning and unlearn, if Allah has taken someone, there be it a friend or more Allah wants better for you. VERILY THERE WILL BE EASE AFTER HARDSHIP. Be patient with yourself as if your a child and safeguard yourself even from yourself. I am writing all this for myself too so do t take it as a lecture x . I’m in my late 20s and have been humming for years then since the pandemic I have been dealing with depression which has set me back and I am having to start over but in sha Allah I will like the me I sculpt with Allah’s help mindfully and physically. In sha Allah. I have brought a camera since 2017 and was spoken out of filming because it’s so haram right to train and inspire other women ? But I will do just that over on TikTok and the other platforms and follow my own path. As far as friends I have lost all my childhood friends since making dua to be around supportive people since Ramadan and I feel so much more lighter. Let’s normalise growing up and flourishing into the person we are not the person people expect us to be from there own place they have placed us in- for the own insecurities. No one will come and tell you, your worth , but from the last video Fartun you said your a words person so I take it as you’re a words of affirmation- write down all the things you want to become and manifest that life as if it’s already yours because it is. Thank you for showing this side I have been in the background for years but never knew you .. please don’t look back seize the moment and run with it .. this is your time of true growth x Aisha

@fartunslifestyle1501

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Love this ! May Allah ease our journey x

fartunay aniga wn maseray abayo anaga noso noqa anaga ku jecel oo walalaha ah

Luqadan English ka inaa barto rabaa ku hadal keeda aad ii dhibaayo qof iga caawin kara ma idinku jiraa fadlan ?

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I want to get a job to pay all my bills and get marriage insha Allah 🤲🕊❤

Alx I want be big KZreadr inshallah

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Love your real ness sis, may Allah give you complete health 🤲🏿 I too need to work on my hair, check out Miracle hair powder by habo Fadumo Hashi. Take care sis 😘😘

Fartun masha allah abyo i wish our lord helping us for struggling the life but i share with you two or three things that helps you to improve your prediabetic stage becouse i am medical doctor 1.first its very important to lose wight bcz weight and insulin resistant is connected and every where is over weight the diebetic is there so do some weight loss 2.the other things is to think central obesity wich is the abdomen abdominal fat is more dangerous then any thing there is what they called( metapolic disorder) metabolic disorder ( diebtic high coletrol high blood presure and so on )largest risk that cousing is abdominal fat so before you think the other body weght loss just lose the weight of abdomin it helps you more and more 3.do some activity that will be great achievement 4.hope you healthy life style abyo

Yaaah saaanaa hadii lisnacaa saan maaliskunacaaa hadaan ku qaniini kftn

@fartunslifestyle1501

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Abaayo waa soo saray labo video chanelka kale 😅❤️

@ibramoha1674

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@@fartunslifestyle1501 yaah abaayo aa ar adiyaaa kuxumeen miyaa farta hhh😝✌

come back ex acounty sisterey 😂😂😂😂 English wku dhib qabna wa is qasbonayeH

@fartunslifestyle1501

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Abaayo soo firi waa soo saray labo video 🤣

@nashmimahdi7790

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@@fartunslifestyle1501 wa fiirsaDay wa iguso yaradeen xbbtih Dillemma nosoo badi ciwanka kle🥹🥹❤️‍🔥

Mugoo ani English ma aqaan lkn inaan kaa bartaa rajeynaa ee fadlan waxa ha boobsiin inta aad iskeen bartaa English aan aqoon nooga soo dhuumatay 😂 wlh inaan kaa hareen Fartuney ❤️❤️❤️

Even if you left us there I’m here too my Lovely 🥰 sister

Fartuuney anaga waad na nacday miyaa maxaa nooga soo tagee waan daalay saan ku sugaaye wlhi 🥺😭😭😭

@fartunslifestyle1501

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Abaayo video baa soo saray xalay

@ramlaahmedxazan4417

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@@fartunslifestyle1501 waan dawaday lkn ayaan ayaad naga maqneyd

İ truly needed to hear that fartun,am on about almost 25 next year ,and i see myself stuck in my mind but Alhamdlilah am going trough healing journey and by sticking to ALLAH rope 🤍 My goals is to find my enthousiasm to work and have better lufestyle