My Dad's LAST DAY In The Philippines (British Family's Thoughts)

MY DAD IS LEAVING THE PHILIPPINES.
It was an emotional last day as we remembered the trip and even the years before. But it was a worthwhile one all the same.
From Filipino classics for lunch (what does my dad think of bagoong?) to pasalubong to searching for fruit out of season, and of course my dad's honest thoughts on the Philippines!
It's an emotional goodbye - and until next time!
From Davao, a few days later, I moved onwards south with my Australian friends (‪@travellingsticks‬) and David aka Bell Boy (‪@TravelingTutor‬)
We're headed to T'Boli for a few days where we met David No.2 - the man, the myth, the legend!
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  • @user-jj2qj5ie5z
    @user-jj2qj5ie5z3 ай бұрын

    Hopefully your Mom too in the near future! Your Dad's words saying how happy you are now KD made me cry. He is the happiest Dad ever witnessing his son's journey.

  • @user-kk1vp9lm7s

    @user-kk1vp9lm7s

    3 ай бұрын

    I felt that way too; I was in tears (of joy) watching and listening how precious his son's condition now. May they back someday with Daot's mom.

  • @bluesnowconeplays5362

    @bluesnowconeplays5362

    3 ай бұрын

    That very short statement from lolo daot 😢😢😢

  • @zzzzzsleeping
    @zzzzzsleeping3 ай бұрын

    I'm very happy when your dad says to you; that the last time you were in, YOU ARE IN THE DARK SIDE. NOW, YOU ARE BACK AND NORMAL AGAIN, very precious to me ! I'm SURE while on the plane GOING BACK TO UK, HIS HEART is jumping for joy.. You might have added 40 years of extended life to your parents.

  • @ehwankho9042

    @ehwankho9042

    3 ай бұрын

    👍🙏❤️

  • @ziggarillo

    @ziggarillo

    3 ай бұрын

    "the dark side" means something completely different in English.

  • @alreyes1877

    @alreyes1877

    3 ай бұрын

    @@ziggarillo It all depends on the topic. Try to digress what it really meant.

  • @rexcorro2486
    @rexcorro24863 ай бұрын

    I feel so sad for Kumander’s father who was probably trying to conceal his tears while leaving him and his family behind. The Kumander himself although was laughing and smiling appeared sad for his father’s departure. Boun Voyage Sir.

  • @mannyc4224
    @mannyc42243 ай бұрын

    You have been blessed with a caring and loving father

  • @sugarstreet9070
    @sugarstreet90703 ай бұрын

    KD is full of positivity despite his past experienced.. Lily is a gift❤

  • @myralyng.5288
    @myralyng.52883 ай бұрын

    Back to your old self is precious to me,, Awww what a beautiful dad could say to a son, Anselm you are blessed to have a dad who loves you so much… Hope he will come back again soon…❤❤❤❤

  • @apollo19970
    @apollo199703 ай бұрын

    As your subscriber we are happy to see you kumander D and for what you become now and succeeded...truly you deserved all of this surrounded by all the positive people from your dad, mom, your own family and your friends...and thank you kumander for always giving us a quality, knowledgeable, cinematic content., God Bless you and your whole family.

  • @rommelvelasco28
    @rommelvelasco283 ай бұрын

    Saying goodbye to Dad was heartbreaking. Hope to see Mom and Dad together visiting the Philippines…..Beautiful scenery!! Nice comraderie with the bloggers…. Enjoyed the tour…. Power on Kumander DAOT!!

  • @einryms8335

    @einryms8335

    3 ай бұрын

    I think both his parents visits him last 2018,,

  • @yelnil
    @yelnil3 ай бұрын

    Glad to have seen your dad in your videos. He's very charming. Here's to seeing him again in your vlogs soon!

  • @christopherturco197
    @christopherturco1973 ай бұрын

    How good to see your Dad so proud of you and visibly relieved at the progress you've made in your journey to good health again, which I know he'll be so thrilled to share with your Mum. I'm so happy he had the time with Lily and to begin to develop that relationship with her, too. Lily really warmed up to him in a short time. I can't say it enough how cute she is, and so smart, too.

  • @richardlovetravel2573
    @richardlovetravel25733 ай бұрын

    Your dad is so cool and he is happy to see you getting better. Hope he stay more longer to travel the PH.

  • @user-xy8ol7sj8v
    @user-xy8ol7sj8v3 ай бұрын

    We are all precious in the eyes of our parents. So, don't let them down.

  • @Felona971
    @Felona9713 ай бұрын

    British people are so kind ,they have a good heart .I remember I had a friend from UK he has a good heart.

  • @seamandongtv

    @seamandongtv

    3 ай бұрын

    Depinde sa tao d kung ano nationality nya naka base ang ugali..

  • @Felona971

    @Felona971

    3 ай бұрын

    @@seamandongtv cguro nga pero most of them are very open minded and optimistic

  • @FaithNaga

    @FaithNaga

    3 ай бұрын

    Colonial empire left the chat

  • @gramo63

    @gramo63

    3 ай бұрын

    I think the Brits may have other good body parts. Like lungs, livers and kidneys -- and Brits make ideal organ donors.

  • @esperanzagilpo2714
    @esperanzagilpo27143 ай бұрын

    Your Dad’s endearing comment about your change life touches ❤.Thanks for sharing his thoughts 😊🇨🇦

  • @clauthequeen
    @clauthequeen3 ай бұрын

    What a beautiful message from your dad. I hope he comes to visit you again soon. The ice candy looks yummy😮

  • @mcabural732
    @mcabural7323 ай бұрын

    KD you made me cry in this episode. Your Father is so lovable😂

  • @juliuspalamos7863

    @juliuspalamos7863

    3 ай бұрын

    Did your dad buy jackfruit for his pasalubong in UK?

  • @dennismartinez9671

    @dennismartinez9671

    3 ай бұрын

    I feel you mate 😇

  • @dennismartinez9671
    @dennismartinez96713 ай бұрын

    I'm pretty sure KD your dad will remember these happy memories for a lifetime & even cherish it every now and then 😊😇🥰

  • @agnusborealis9362
    @agnusborealis93623 ай бұрын

    Youre blessed KD cuz you have a strong support system - your awesome Dad, youre loving wife & mom Nhell, your cheeky daughter Lily and your wonderful local and foreign friends. Hearing your Dad said that youre much better now, you rose above from a dark moment of your life is precious. He goes home knowing that his son and family are all good. Continue spreading love and possitivity to your loved ones, people around you and your followers. Great vlog as always!

  • @bebotvice4887
    @bebotvice48873 ай бұрын

    At least your dad experienced life in the Philippines, I hope he enjoyed his two weeks ,hopefully, see him again in the future 🙋‍♀️🙏👍👍

  • @El_.5794

    @El_.5794

    3 ай бұрын

    It’s his second visit already. First time was with mom

  • @Heptadic
    @Heptadic3 ай бұрын

    Safe travels back to UK po, KD's Dad. Looking forward to your next visit with KD's Mum. God bless your whole family, KD.

  • @paulmarks8979
    @paulmarks89793 ай бұрын

    Kumander daot is always a happy guy, luv it so positive good vibes.

  • @mapsdg8591
    @mapsdg85913 ай бұрын

    Your Dad loves you very much. Lily is such a sweet girl. Your friend from Tiboli is so energetic and funny like you.

  • @leonasialana4726
    @leonasialana47263 ай бұрын

    Have a safe trip to your dad back to UK Kumander.

  • @AkilezNewEngland
    @AkilezNewEngland3 ай бұрын

    Your Dad is right on the money. In my own interpretation the Philippines made you a better man and a great Father. Speaking one of the hardest main language in the Philippines is a great accomplishment Sir Daot. We are all proud of you Buddy!❤god speed!

  • @ireneogerodias8515
    @ireneogerodias85153 ай бұрын

    Happy trip back home!

  • @BojasFamily
    @BojasFamily3 ай бұрын

    Sir KD l am as l,am sure all who are always watching your blogs never get bored because you are always smiling and laughing they erase my stress and depression. Thanks.

  • @annehiggins5958
    @annehiggins59583 ай бұрын

    Dad has had a beautiful time with you and family , it was sad saying goodbye dad , kumander your videos are always very interesting love from your Scottish friend xx

  • @arlenekiepek5616
    @arlenekiepek56163 ай бұрын

    I think you have a wonderful Dad. He is so open to new things and experience. Glad he got to meet ur family.

  • @alexcortez3007
    @alexcortez30073 ай бұрын

    Hope you come back Dad!

  • @furiousrose1011
    @furiousrose10113 ай бұрын

    I'm glad your dad confirmed what we've all been seeing on your vlogs. That you are in a much better state now than when you last went back to Wales . Proud of you KD and your wife for getting thru those challenging phase of your life.

  • @nightwing4065
    @nightwing40653 ай бұрын

    Good times. It was fun while it lasted, hopefully your Dad will be back soon or you could visit your parents back in the UK.

  • @cristinascott5756
    @cristinascott57563 ай бұрын

    Very nice to have your Dad he really enjoyed it and very happy to have you and your family, and I hope your Mom will joined him next time!!😘fan from California

  • @aurorasarmiento4694
    @aurorasarmiento46943 ай бұрын

    I know that I'm not the only shed tears KD, this is so heart warming to say goodbye to your Dad, and his words will last forever...saying he's happy to see you in your journey....hope that your Mom together with your Dad will visit you and your beloved family....regards to your princess Lily and Neil...take care always and God bless.

  • @davidthompson2085
    @davidthompson20853 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing the truth of your highs and lows with your global family Ansel, inspirational as always :)

  • @Livewellwithtia
    @Livewellwithtia3 ай бұрын

    Mate great video so good to for dad to see your progress as well 🙏🏼

  • @Cons2911
    @Cons29113 ай бұрын

    5:47 as a father, although a younger one.. I felt this. I guess you don’t even need to be a father, just knowing that a loved one is doing better.. it’s priceless

  • @holdmie4ever
    @holdmie4ever3 ай бұрын

    i can't hold back my tears seeing your dad depart from you but i know how overjoyed he is seeing you again in your normal self...God bless

  • @danilobaxa1655
    @danilobaxa16553 ай бұрын

    I'm an avid followers of yours, I enjoy seeing your vlogs, your antics, jokes & comments all is natural and comes from the heart. Live your life and cherish it.

  • @mimiblitberg
    @mimiblitberg3 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤ your dad’s message was so heartwarming! ❤❤❤

  • @MaRiafromCA
    @MaRiafromCA3 ай бұрын

    This was a very touching video!! Hopefully you plan soon your dad again

  • @NeoKrypton21
    @NeoKrypton213 ай бұрын

    I so love this Vlog and Video! See you again soon, Dan. Bon Vayage and Safe Travel back home! Another fun re-union down here. What a wonderful day, Guys!

  • @robadventure8007
    @robadventure80073 ай бұрын

    Your Dad looks so happy how you grew in Philippines for the better! God is good🙏🇧🇭🇵🇭

  • @cathyjones1989
    @cathyjones19893 ай бұрын

    What a lovely visit with your Dad!!

  • @offthecuffadventureswithjamie
    @offthecuffadventureswithjamie3 ай бұрын

    It was great to see your dad. I’ve enjoyed those videos and his way with words. Lol 🤭 45 days until flight day and back to DVO!

  • @elisaconoso2016
    @elisaconoso20163 ай бұрын

    I hope your dad enjoyed his visit in your place. He is happy seeing his his son and family in good hands. Davao is a nice place with bountiful food and fruits. Nice climate and friendly people in Davao. Always watching from Cebu City, Philippines

  • @huntjoanne8419
    @huntjoanne84193 ай бұрын

    Your dad got a fabulous tan!! It’s been an absolute treat to watch your adventures with your dad 😊

  • @mOc92918
    @mOc929183 ай бұрын

    So Happy for you & Your dad! God bless your Beautiful Family💖🌸

  • @denisemartha
    @denisemartha3 ай бұрын

    A Dad's farewell. This is emotional for me, KD. Watching this made me miss my father so much.

  • @santigodelacruz1672
    @santigodelacruz16723 ай бұрын

    Bye daddy daot you’re son is great be proud of him ❤❤❤❤

  • @Raymondlopez08
    @Raymondlopez083 ай бұрын

    So happy to see you enjoying each other 😊

  • @nancyfrederick6364
    @nancyfrederick63643 ай бұрын

    great to see you with your Dad, family and friends,goodah

  • @pjgpsychologicalservices9946
    @pjgpsychologicalservices99463 ай бұрын

    It was great to see your Dad's views of the journey you have been on - remarkable. However, it's the new you, you can never go back. Lifes a constant journey... I'll watch with interest, new challenges, and new opportunities that will come your way. ❤

  • @rainieresguerra6519
    @rainieresguerra65193 ай бұрын

    Thank you for visiting the Philippines. Have a safe trip back home.

  • @julimabecite-lomocso1025
    @julimabecite-lomocso10253 ай бұрын

    Oh I feel your father message for you. He loves you so much and he is happy to see what youve become.

  • @nildas.1723
    @nildas.17233 ай бұрын

    Amazing shot of scenery, beautiful!❤ Heart warming dad & son bonding😍

  • @midlifewanderings
    @midlifewanderings3 ай бұрын

    You have a good dad, Kumander. I'm sure he's happy to see you "back to your old self and happy." God bless him.

  • @nordeguzman
    @nordeguzman2 ай бұрын

    Your dad really loves you. Seeing his concern for your well-being is really very touching

  • @AFSHomestead
    @AFSHomestead3 ай бұрын

    KD, it was great to be with your dad for 2 wks. The closing was fun with your friends.

  • @bluesnowconeplays5362
    @bluesnowconeplays53623 ай бұрын

    Yeah i know what your dad was talking about that dark place and you're back in great shape. Thanks to your wife and daughter. That part was so emotional. Thank you for showing us this episode of your life, of course we have learned a lot from it. God bless your dad, hope to see him again.

  • @dhennis888
    @dhennis8883 ай бұрын

    Glad to aee your Dad in the Philippines. I wish him well

  • @donkeysmile4205
    @donkeysmile42053 ай бұрын

    This is a touching vlog kumander. Hope your mom and dad together visit Phillippines soon.

  • @iamjaccu5905
    @iamjaccu59053 ай бұрын

    I really miss watching your videos kumander. You rarely uploaded videos this past months. Looking forward on your adventure in NV. You should have given grandpa one of lily's toy so he has something to hold if he misses his granddaughter.

  • @agnescurrie697
    @agnescurrie6973 ай бұрын

    Kd Cherish the memory, thankful your dad was able to travel the other end to witness what life you have become, some parents would love to do it but they can't physically. Hoping your dad and mom can come together for another memory.

  • @melvingonzalocortez86
    @melvingonzalocortez863 ай бұрын

    U are truly a FILIPINO already..u even know d local dialect.u have adjusted pretty gud.ut jus makes me emotional seeing ur dad leavin Phils..hopefully he enjoyed our country and wishing him d best..Please let him visit us again..❤❤

  • @westerntrend
    @westerntrend3 ай бұрын

    Kumander, I can see your father is so happy and proud to see you right now. I'm proud of you man.

  • @angelotiu4784
    @angelotiu47843 ай бұрын

    I think the dad was happy to see the granddaughter and to see his son in a good place. Great trip for him❤

  • @ChrisDeLeon-jy2yp
    @ChrisDeLeon-jy2yp2 ай бұрын

    Your DAD is Proud of You!!! In his words, you're a Survivor and a Man with strong character. God Bless and regards to your Dad.

  • @erquelieshirleymaala7416
    @erquelieshirleymaala74163 ай бұрын

    I like this video showing Mindanao cultures and its peoples. Thank you Kumander for bringing those foreign visitors in Tboli. ❤❤❤

  • @KumanderDaot

    @KumanderDaot

    3 ай бұрын

    Always love to share my favourite places with friends!

  • @bolenarribe1789
    @bolenarribe17893 ай бұрын

    Great talk by your Dad.... I too am happy you are back to your old self... God bless Kumander Daot

  • @dennisdlc5842
    @dennisdlc58423 ай бұрын

    It’s heart warming to see your dad visit you in Mindanao.❤

  • @georgegolamco2102
    @georgegolamco21023 ай бұрын

    I always watch ur vlogs all the time . Enjoy ur interaction w the lovals . Unlike certain vlogger .so happyto see uand ur dad together

  • @joyceesays9919
    @joyceesays99193 ай бұрын

    Thank you Daddy Daot for visiting! Hopefully both you and Mum can come back! Anselm, Nell and Lily - always wishing you the best! Dad echoed your supporters sentiments - we're glad you are where you are now - and we're here in spirit in tough times, rooting for you. Daot fam!

  • @alreyes1877
    @alreyes18773 ай бұрын

    You are one lucky dude, everyone loves you and for Dad to be a bit emotional in welcoming your new horizon. Bring your Mum next time.

  • @jerrylingbaoan3006
    @jerrylingbaoan30062 ай бұрын

    Good day kd. you really highlighting mindanao. its laidback culture and genuine vives without funfare. Thanks for loving the philippines.

  • @hodophileDavao27
    @hodophileDavao273 ай бұрын

    Am truely happy Ansel that your dad having a great time here in the Philippines and his happy to see u getting better right now. I know its never be easy living in a foreign country away from your family even though u have your own family here but yet our parents and family is dearly to us hope your whole family can come and visit you here so they can experience here too. Glad you have more foreign friends here who shared the same interest with you blogging showcasing the Philippines. Really guys you made the Philippines become known in the world by showing how beautiful this country is been called by the others a 3rd world country. Stay safe sa byahe ug amping

  • @yudzvlogs6770
    @yudzvlogs67703 ай бұрын

    Grabee ka daot uie! Tawa pa lang. pero enjoy kaau Hope someday,KD dad will visit again

  • @mizsaigon
    @mizsaigon3 ай бұрын

    Oh 2 weeks was too short. I even thought he'd relocate here 🙂

  • @tnctakenotechannel8420
    @tnctakenotechannel8420Ай бұрын

    I really your love your connected to our local guys keep safe buddies God bless you all.

  • @rebeccaj
    @rebeccaj3 ай бұрын

    Got me all emotional when he said how precious it is to see you doing so well! I may have teared up🥰 So lovely for you to spend that time together and for him to get to know Lily. Going to pop over to your friends channels, any content to do with the Philippines is always worth a watch. Dont get too drunk on that gin! 😜🍹🍻🍹

  • @rosaliaordona3646
    @rosaliaordona36463 ай бұрын

    Tatay talaga! Papa visited the son just to check on him if he is ok… you are loved KD!

  • @rosejarns5576
    @rosejarns55763 ай бұрын

    Have a safe trip to your dad back to UK

  • @killersparklesj6150
    @killersparklesj61503 ай бұрын

    Spoken like a true Dad.

  • @abgeebssr7344
    @abgeebssr73443 ай бұрын

    Kare-kare and bagoong go together like love and marriage; you can’t have one without the other.

  • @gg_Javier
    @gg_Javier3 ай бұрын

    🇬🇧 DAD's trip back to UK: * Fruits from PI are welcomed in UK, Kumander? I don't think fruits are allowed in US. * for your MOM: what items did you send her? I'm curious since you give the best pasalubongs, yet we didn't see any in the vlog. * Any bottled Calamansi to UK? * So, Anselm, will you be bringing your family to UK in the near future?

  • @bevrogers1412
    @bevrogers14123 ай бұрын

    Grandpa bonding with Lilly ❤. Great seeing your Dad enjoying his visit with you😊

  • @cestlavielife7305
    @cestlavielife73053 ай бұрын

    Nice blog with all positive vibes,smiling and happy friends.Your trade mark is really Daot hehhehe makes me laughing and relax upon watching all your blogs.Thank you KD with all your friends,family.

  • @joeycoloma
    @joeycoloma3 ай бұрын

    babye to your daddy cool...see you again sir! 🤗

  • @mariem.1771
    @mariem.17713 ай бұрын

    you sound and look so much happier these days Kumander Daot :)

  • @rjnlongs
    @rjnlongs3 ай бұрын

    Awesome video 👍😎 Kumander Daot, great seeing you you’re doing great and out of the dark past... precious like your awesome dad said. Thumbs up for sharing happy moments with your wonderful family and great friends. Keep making videos, lots of positivity. God bless and take care ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏

  • @c.t.8769
    @c.t.87692 ай бұрын

    Wow you're lucky your Dad still with you. I remember when I live in Manchester before in Salford Quays... I miss also my life in UK... specially where I live in Manchester

  • @alexanderreyes8355
    @alexanderreyes83553 ай бұрын

    Good job Kumander. It's your daddy last day in the Phils but definitely not the last. Bud farewell to your loving papa. Hope Mom will visit you soon? Together hopefully. Sending our❤ and embraces to all.

  • @EvSerenade
    @EvSerenade3 ай бұрын

    All the best 💖 to your Dad and to💖 you KD and thank you for awesome vlogs!

  • @thetruthspeaksvolumesq4351
    @thetruthspeaksvolumesq43512 ай бұрын

    I pray your amazing parents moves there with you soon brother ❤

  • @gharyanthonychanel8334
    @gharyanthonychanel83343 ай бұрын

    Am i seeing steve austin with camera!? Proud Daddy of yours, KD. Im happy for u.

  • @7Archie4
    @7Archie43 ай бұрын

    Coooollll Dady!... Take care...

  • @rexmascarina2169
    @rexmascarina21693 ай бұрын

    My prediction Daot Father 👨 he will be back for good in the Philippines.

  • @TitaMariamSaladBowlC02
    @TitaMariamSaladBowlC023 ай бұрын

    Y’all soo funny. Haha 😂 Happy to see you back sa Gensan. Kakamis kaayo. ❤

  • @iancooper2213
    @iancooper22133 ай бұрын

    Great shot of Mt Apo, only saw it like that a few times over many years in Davao

  • @LoKi-sa
    @LoKi-sa3 ай бұрын

    Kumander daot and becoming a Filipino (kulas) is my favorite foreign vlogger in The Philippines) Padayon lang amigo! I hop I can see you soon when I come home in December. I am a silent viewer of yours. Currently working in canada! Payts (fights) amping !

  • @ronniecomoda39
    @ronniecomoda393 ай бұрын

    Its therapeutic to see a father or a mother. Kare kare is not complete without shrimp paste though haha. Von voyage to your Dad. Just subscribed to your channel KD. Dont worry Daddy, your son is in good hands here in Ph.