Once you stop caring what people think, it honestly puts you so much further than a lot of people in life. Not a lot of people can actually be themselves because they care about what friends or family think.

@jaheim_theboss7167

11 ай бұрын

That's honestly how I feel with my family. I'm fr learning how to stop caring.

@bmoe4609

11 ай бұрын

Yes its hard

@DaeshjiaVU

11 ай бұрын

One day, y’all will get tired, and it’ll come naturally. A person can only take so much from people. I’m transexual, and do you think I care what people say about me? It took me a long time to stop caring what others thought, but one day I just had enough. It’ll happen for all of you to live freely; you only have one life to live.

@luisencarnacion3965

11 ай бұрын

period.

@iameli330

11 ай бұрын

It's unfortunately not that simple when you don't have a lot of support. I try to not care but it never works because I end up ignoring my true feelings. I just gave up trying to not care because it doesn't work for me 😕

Im 15 and bi, i came out to my dad on accident. I wasnt ready for it and he was like your confused and like you wasnt around it and its social media. I had my phone stricted away from me and all. Im still sayin im straight when im really not. And its depressing and hard to keep it in for the people who talkin stuff about people and even my dad wont support me. I was so depressed and still kinda is but this video made me believe i can be what i wanna be. But when im at the age when i get my own place imma be me. Happy you can live in your true feelings and colors.

@caeleb07

11 ай бұрын

i did the same literally yesterday 😭

@timothypauling5790

11 ай бұрын

From a big brother to a lil brother ,it's okay to be you im 41 and I just recently started to become open with my sexuality. It's ok to be who you are ..Love your life and forget what people have to say..Even when it comes down to your parents .. It don't even matter what they say either at this point ..Sometimes parents want you to live the life THEY want you to live .But do what makes YOU happy ❤️..I promise you will be OK.LIVE LIFE

@caeleb07

11 ай бұрын

@@timothypauling5790 🩵

@jackslife19

11 ай бұрын

I almost typed out my whole story but that was to much to read but long story short never trust anyone with your secrets, and always make sure you have a backup plan in case things go left. I’m here if you need someone to talk to bc I already know how it can be. Just know that when you finally do come out your smile is your best asset 🩷 and that you’re truly at peace with yourself. Btw I was outted my 11th grade year of high school and I just stopped going and eventually got withdrawn from school. I came back when school started back and made up all of my work for both 11th and 12th grade and graduated with my class. You can do this tho 💕

@caeleb07

11 ай бұрын

@@jackslife19 im in 11th grade rn and im waitin till i turn 18 to come outtttt as biiii

I really hate that people feel like they have to "come out" in this day and age. It's mostly due to the parents lack ot communication skills. My brother came out to me first and I had to let him know, I don't give a damn lol. "I don't see you any different and I love you the same. Your sexual preference is none of my business so be happy." Long as yall ain't hurting nobody I really don't see the need of coming out to anybody. Family and friends should respect who you like or move around. Life is way too short to let someone else feeling stop you from being happy.

@Igivegdparent

11 ай бұрын

you are correct but it does get annoying when you have people mainly family always asking at functions where is your gf, when are bringing one around, you getting married to a girl anytime soon and having kids sooner or later you have to shut them up 😅 or stop showing up to the functions

@user-zg3ww7pv4v

11 ай бұрын

Literally ppl don't get it, if heteros don't have to come out as straight vice versa

@hmmnothanks5038

11 ай бұрын

Speaking facts 🙌🏼

@ebsii9031

11 ай бұрын

THISSSS!!! LIKE I DONT NEED TO KNOW WHAT YOU DO IN YOUR BEDROOM

@Blingy

11 ай бұрын

@Igivegdparent So true I had an older cousin joke about how I'm gonna pick up girls in college but I was so uncomfortable bc I'm gay 😅 And I felt like I couldn't tell the ppl in the room

Coming out unlocks a new level to your life. You’re 21, enjoy your youth. Explore who you are.

@J-Sizzle

11 ай бұрын

Some of the best years of my life. Only up from here!! 👍🏾

Your not “coming out” your INVITING us in and thank you! You’re Queerness is beautiful

@jdg7515

11 ай бұрын

Respectfully, let people use whatever terms they choose for themselves. And as someone who has let people in, I do think there's a difference.

@iamsh0t0

11 ай бұрын

@@jdg7515 umm respectfully NO. at the the end of the day whatever term he is comfortable with he should definitely use. However using “coming out” indirectly suggests something is wrong with him and it’s not. Lastly what your NOT about to do is come under MY comment and ruin a moment that suppose to be encouraging and lifting him up. Everything don’t need to be a discussion or argument… simply make your own comment and leave mines alone. Thank you

@jdg7515

11 ай бұрын

@@iamsh0t0 You're making it an argument I was calm 🤣 and talking from a queer person's perspective 🤷🏿‍♂️

@iamsh0t0

11 ай бұрын

@@jdg7515 I’m really not … not only was I calm I was still respectful in letting you know your commentary wasn’t needed under MY comment cause your shifting the energy. I’m queer as well so your point exactly? 🙄Anyway have a nice day sir

@jdg7515

11 ай бұрын

@@iamsh0t0 You have a nice day as well sensitive Sue

KUDOS to you man. I wish I had came out at your age . Now live freely. Live for you and do what makes you happy. RESPECT ! 🙌🏽

@lavender123u

11 ай бұрын

It's s sin bro..devil is lie

As an older gay dude I'm so happy for you. I stand on the shoulders of LGBT+ people who came before me and you can do the same. Just by being you, you can help young people to "come out" to their full and complete selves. As a black man it's important to hear black gay voices in a community that is not always supportive of queer sexuality. You rock, here's to your best life!!

Congratulations!! Although I don’t personally know you, being a black gay man I am incredibly proud that you have found the courage and who you are. Go out and conquer life.✊🏽❤️

@dabigd1860

11 ай бұрын

@demes. Yes. I pray that this young man stays mentally and physically healthy. This lifestyle is not always rainbows and unicorns. 🌈🌈🌈🌈🦄🦄🦄🦄🦄

@Dimi374

11 ай бұрын

@@dabigd1860 This is so true, just when we thought it was getting better it has changed. People really like to brush over it, but being a black gay man is very difficult. We have it coming from every directions. What saddens me the most is that a large portion of the Black community will turn their backs, when these young men need support on so many levels. Our Black men from day one should feel whole and maneuver in life without fear. Love to all my Gay Black Brothers and Sisters.❤️🏳️‍🌈✊🏽

@Dimi374

9 ай бұрын

@@samudramanthan8645 The fact that he did it for himself you old queen!!🫤

@Dimi374

9 ай бұрын

@@samudramanthan8645 How many S’s are in pronounsssss ?, YOU 🍆🫤

As an older person in my 30s, let me tell you young brutha, this was a GREAT time to let people know what it is, I spent a GREAT deal of my 20s still hiding & sneakin, and worried about what I’d “loose” and that is time you will NEVER get bck! I’m happy that u won’t have to go thru that, you can actually have a relationship (if you so choose) and not be romantically stifled like so many of us that grew up in a time where you literally couldn’t survive if you “came out” I know you’ll be jus fine

@BlaQSheep

8 ай бұрын

Listen I just said the same thing. He’s so courages to do this at 21. Especially being a masculine male. Im the same way, played football hang with the guys an all. I’ve wasted my entire life not being who I am out of fear. An here I am at 31 still haven’t lived, or loved smh no one should be mentally imprisoned like this. It’s so exhausting. I honestly don’t even kno how I continue to go on.

The way I relate to this so much took 18 whole years for me to be honest with myself and seeing you be happy with who you are makes me so happy you keep doing what you’re doing king 👑👏🏾

I love that you made this video fr. I’ve been following you on social media for a while and I’m glad that decided to acknowledge your true self and not live for no one else’s validation but your own💪🏽💯. This can inspire others. Excited to see what’s next. 🙏🏽

That relief is everything man…once you tell who you feel you need that validation from, Shidd nobody else matters. I’m proud of you bro❤ Live it to the fullest ✊🏾

Much respect to you man. It’s such a relief when you can be yourself unapologetically. For me, it’s been 5 years and I would never change a thing. I have so much peace within myself. Ofc you get hate but the positive outweighs the negative bc you can help others too. Cheers to being you 🩷🤝🏽

Proud Of You! You’re So Strong At A Young Age, Don’t Let Anyone Make You Feel Ashamed❤

So much love to you brother! Its not easy hiding yourself to people because you feel like people will love you less. I've still only shared with a few people I truly trust and im older than you. Much respect ✊🏿

Glad you're being yourself. I felt the same pressure when it came to coming out and truly being myself, but honestly, you just gotta live and be yourself. I love that for you homie, hope you keep your head up and enjoy life. ❤🙌🏾

It's good that you were able to find yourself this time in life and you being able to tell us and make an announcement just shows how strong you really are and I promise you life is gon get 10x better so proud of you❤!!

I love that you felt so comfortable to share such a vulnerable and real part of yourself just know your most definitely accepted!❤

Thank you for being you! Living in your truth gains you respect 💯🙌🏽

Yesss! I'm so happy for you and I can hear the relief and see it! It's really only up from here, and you have so much greatness ahead of you. Enjoy your 20s being you every single day ❤❤❤

Glad you getting support from your fam and friends. That’s all that’s important fr. And that u living authentically. Stay up we here for you and jus know everything is sm freer

Good for you!! Livin in your truth and that’s good. Best of blessings to you!!

Nothing wrong with speaking the truth we support you I had to go thru the samething it take time we here for you!!!

The fact that you’re not only doing this, but doing this on a public platform makes you WAY more of a real 🥷🏾!!! Congrats💕

That’s what’s up Been there and got nothing but love for you my guy!! Never stop being your true self

Yes I love this, coming out and living your truth really dose make you glow and I’m so happy for you. I felt the same way when I came out and introduced my Bf to my fam.

hey congrats!!! Coming out is very scary and not at all easy to do. You definitely are gonna over think your situation but as soon as you say those words to someone your gonna feel so relieved and proud of yourself. I came out at 9 years old and now im 16, life gets better

I’m so proud of you, this actually makes me so happy for you! Stay safe and be blessed pookie!❤️

I was randomly scrolling and wanted to stop and watch your video. I don’t know you personally but I’m so incredibly proud of you. I’m glad you’re happy and In a good space. So happy for you luv. ☺️

One thing I really admire about you is your confidence and how you carry yourself. Trust me, there are people much older than you who wish they could be that sure of themselves. I'm very happy that you took this step, are helping others who might be struggling with the same thing, and, most of all, that you're still here. Nothing but love being sent your way, man. ❤️

@dabigd1860

11 ай бұрын

@chatwithyoo Yes! Especially @ "how you carry yourself." I feel that the LGBTQ community is losing a bit of decorum. Actually a lot of decorum, tbh. I hope this beautiful young black man continues to "carry himself" just like he does now. #KEEPITMASC

Thanks for sharing your story - it's such a strong and powerful message that everyone needs to hear. It took me over 30 years to come out and I relate to everything you said. The pain - the fear - but once it's done your whole life changes for the better. You can now be your real self and true love and support will find you and carry you to heights you once thought you would never get to. I wish you all the best for the future. A big hug (and much love and respect) from an old gay man in Australia.

Being your true self will make you stand out more, more attractive, and more confident! Keep being beautiful 🩵✨

Not being able to sleep is what led to me coming out too fr, shit was rough. Glad you were able to

Mad respect for you bro!

mannn this dude needs to be around the world bc he explains himself is in he explained who he is and it’s soo hard for ppl to do that in todays society and i really just found my new bsf he is a representation of “greatness” and for the ppl who dont support him and bring him down…take a look in the mirror and look at yourself then look at him…two different ppl🤷🏾‍♂️ ive been watching you since the first video and i love you with all my heart no matta who u are i hope u find someone that will be the luv of ya life❤

you're such a sweet guy. wish nothin but blessing for you on your journey. i just came out in my late 30s. coming out to yourself on your timetable frees the world up in a magical way. TIMING IS EVERYTHING!

You are definitely Worth it ❤ Being free is everything

You're so damn gorgeous bro! Peace and blessings on living in your truth, I totally understand how you feel because I was once there myself. The "hard part" is now over, you can breathe, be free and do you holistically! You deserve to live your life comfortably in your skin man! Big ups to you my guy 💯💘😁

I’m a young male and all I can say is I love you bro don’t let nobody judge you because of who you are bump what other people think of you ain’t nobody in this world perfect 💯 be yourself and live your life

Respect you for speaking your truth king do you and even the women still gone love you cause you handsome as hell you gone be good regardless

I love this for him! This is only the beginning of this happiness! Proud of you. ❤✨

You got this!! And the support will always be there!

Thanks for sharing and coming out your comfort zone with us bro. It definitely can be nerve racking but we got you! Forget what all the haters say. We love and support you. Keep it coming! 💯💯

The big take away to me is 'timing is everything' as you said. Glad I stumbled on your video and subscribed as I like following folks' life story.

So PROUD of YOU ! 🥹💛

Thats whats up!! Congratulations!! 💪🏾💯💯 I came out right after the pandemic!! Dont worry you will be alright!! you gotta live your life the way you wanna live your life!! I just subscribed to your channel jawn!! Keep doin your thing💪🏾💪🏾💯💯 God Bless you🙏🏾🙏🏾

Much power to you brother. Be proud of yourself and explore your feelings. Is not easy but after you glad with your self. You did feel releaf.

I did mine when i was 27, i felt like it was the right time. You know yourself better than anyone else. All those things you said, were the exact things going through my mind. Your a great attractive guy. Wish you luck, happy i found this video today.❤

I respect you for doing that, I know it was hard for you but you did it! happy for you bro

inspirational asf, always feels great to unapologetically be who you are

Subscribed, this story touched my whole heart, I'm so proud of you, an now it's time to live your life to the fullest and fill it up with nothing but happiness, protect yourself out here, I'll be waiting for your next vid 🌈

This warms my heart. So happy for you.

Congrats this is a big step to accepting who you are 🖤

very good young man, to live with hiding part of yourself and being sad all the time aint no joke glad you are good youngster

I love this and i definitely know the feeling and you will definitely know when the time is right I came out to my family by making a post on Facebook and when I say it felt like weights were lifted off me I felt so good about it and never regretted it at all and the love I got from family and friends were absolutely amazing and beautiful. Love you bro keep ya head up and continue being yourself. 💙❤️💙❤️

You are a strong young man. Nothing but respect for you. I am glad that you are happier with yourself sense you invited people to know you better. Always respect yourself and your feelings. You are helping others just by being yourself and living your life honestly.

Congratulations baby!!! I know you don’t know me personally but I love your spirit and your energy. Looking forward to witnessing your greatness and impact on this world. God bless honey 😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️

Standing in your truth is powerful and healing ❤️‍🩹

Live your truth young man!! ❤

Thank you for sharing this. I have been sharing coming-out KZread videos every day on Twitter as Oct 11th is coming-out day. Just came across yours which I plan to share tomorrow. As I didn't see a Twitter handle for you I just wanted to thank you for sharing your story with us.

So happy and proud of you bro can’t wait to see what you do next fr you got my support ❤

Congrats on coming out bro I’m proud of you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾you’re so brave. Keep up doing what you doing and don’t and be yourself no matter what and don’t let nobody take that away from you ❤

Im glad that you did it for you it does lift a weight off your shoulders. I came out ln my late forties and missed all of my youth I look at the Young generation and realize that I missed so much. Most of my friends and family kind of knew I had to come to an acceptance of myself like yourself I am straight-acting in appearance and still have to tell people that I meet that I am gay. You have your whole life ahead of you live it and love yourself first, you're an amazing young man with a beautiful soul the real people will be there for you and those that walk away weren't your real supporters. Love you young man wishing you all the best on this journey that we call life ♥️💯✌🏾

Congratulations king! I support you! I am also apart of the community and will be following your journey. Keep up the good work and do what makes you happy. Bless you ✊🏽👑♥️

I’m glad u living your truth Jose u are glowing way better

Thank you for your transparency, you are helping others do the same! Although we shouldnt have to b put in this position, it shows the amout of respect and integrity you embody when it comes to your own wellbeing- yass kinggggg lol

Happy for you!!!! Cant wait for more vids from you! Much love ❤️ 🫶🏽

I love how you love. You are a King 👑. Thank you for sharing. You are amazing, & helping those to make a difference in their lives. You have my Love always 😘. Timing Is Everything 💯.

Im proud of u Jose thank u for trusting us I also came out thanks to u, u helped me to believe in myself and to be myself

I am so happy for you for your confidence and determination it's not easy coming out I remember my first time coming out and it wasn't easy to talk to anybody or tell like my siblings are my family especially but a lot of times I realize there's obstacles that we had to get through and I think that you delivered that in the most greatest way that you knew how to I'm rooting for you you're a great person I just clicked on your channel and I saw the title coming out and I watched it for that 3 minutes or 5 minutes and I'll say it relates to me so much

Congrats even thou I knew but glad u are living your truth. This will not be easy but please reach out to your community for help if u feel like it’s too much to handle, we got you!

bro thank you i really needed to hear that and one day i will be at that phase

Be more you than you ever been, Keep Your Head Up King!🫶🏽♥️

I’m scared tbh but I look up to people like you. Thank you for being you and hopefully I can do the same without losing everyone around me.

@luanminitti1177

11 ай бұрын

You’re not “losing” anything if people decide to exit your life because of how you choose to live your life. Says way more about them than it does about you. Don’t feel any rush to come out asap, because this is YOUR journey. If your concern is with your parents accepting you, understand that if your parents truly do love you and if they are truly good parents, they wouldn’t abandon their role as parents because of your choices. And please be patient with them while they process the news… it’s really not a bad thing. They had this ideation of your traditional future for so long and certain things may go a different direction than they thought, but good parents will understand that their kid won’t always grow up to follow the same paths as them. You will know inside you when you’re ready to tell people, and I hope this message serves you well ❤️ best of luck to you

@Death_itself223

11 ай бұрын

@@luanminitti1177 thank you 🙏🏽

@JJ-zb7id

11 ай бұрын

Good luck. I used to feel the same way but now I don’t really care whether people view me differently or not. You only have one life, might as well spend it doing what makes you happy. I would try to make friends with people in the lgbt community if you haven’t already. It gets a lot easier to accept yourself when you’re surrounded by people who you can relate to.

Yessssss be happy 💯❤️❤️ your life only finna go up from here!!!

i’m so proud of youu

its so awesome ! Love yourself for being you ! Its a big step and you nailed it . proud of you bro, hugz

So glad you are now comfortable with yourself because self is the best love! I first came out at 16 in year 2000. It was a wild and winding road to love and respect in myself. Now at 39, is the most comfortable I have been since before puberty. Keep being you.

Your amazing !!! ❤🩵💜💛💚💙🧡🩷🩶

Congratulations to you young king I’m so proud of you that you took the highroad and just be yourself I wish we had more young men like you who can openly and be honest about their sexuality they are so busy worrying about what others may think and worry about what people may say about them but at the end of the day it is all about you as long as you love yourself don’t worry what others think I am so proud of you young man live your life and live it to the fullest and don’t worry about what nobody has to say at the end of the day is all about you. You have my full support may God bless you and keep you and may the right person come in your life and love you for who you are and not what you can do for them God bless you you have my full support 1000%

I’m so proud of you standing firm in your truth. It takes a lot to be open about it. Honesty looks good on you! ❤💯

I’m so Happy and Proud of you. I didn’t come out until I was older. When I started telling my mom and family. They said they already knew. 👏🏼

Living honestly is the only way to do it 🙌🏾 congrats 🤙🏾

This is amazing!!! Thank you for sharing this story!! ❤❤❤

Its good to see other masc presenting man tell their stories and b4 y’all attack me ion have nothing against fems its just so exciting to see someone represent you.

@dabigd1860

11 ай бұрын

@jay-jl7ee Brother, i am right there with you on this. I don't know why those of us that admire, love, support and desire a more traditional presentation of masculinity seem to be so under attack right now. If i wanted or desired anything effeminate or feminine, then i will go after and pursue THE REAL THING. And trust me i can pull em. But i am a MAN that is attracted to MEN. Sometimes i feel like the space for us men that love other men is becoming smaller and smaller. Like everything is about flamboyance and effeminacy now.

@Robert-vf6ny

10 ай бұрын

​@@dabigd1860there are masc men coming out now more. I'm 52, masc and am discreetly out.

We’ve all been there, be proud of yourself because it takes courage to come out. 😍😍😍 you have a sweet & pure heart, protect it🩵✨

Love you. Don't let anyone tell you any different. Accept you. That's what matters.

Good for you man . Much respect .

congratulations on coming out, i consider one of the masculine factors of real men are being their true selves no matter what. You achieved just that!💪🏾🌟

This reminds me of a time ago when I came out and it wasn't easy but so worth it. Congrats! ❤️✨

I love this! ❤❤

Congrats my boy 🤞🏽

I haven’t seen any of ur content but u seem like a real and I like ur vibe

I’m genuinely happy for you❤️

Ur not alone. Keep ur head up high. Luv u. That's all that matters

So proud of yah dude as a fellow older brother from a Muslim from Pakistani origins living in England it’s not been easy at all . I wish we get Intouch but I don’t use Facebook , you make me so proud bro ❤

Stay strong…there is more to coming out than just coming out. More love ❤

Yo I remember when I first time coming it was definitely scary and overwhelming so I know how you felt I cried because I thought nobody wouldn't love me or wanna be around me no more but I had to realize it didn't matter what othe ppl think and I know how u feel my circle is very small I came out at 17 so I understand I felt same way I just had wanted to end it all cuz I just got tired of hiding it but I want you too know your not alone and you got ppl who will be there for you congratulations on coming out though I support you 💯❤🫶🏾

Happy 4 you brother 🙏 coming out is not easy ❤🎉congratulations 😊

I have soooooo much respect and admiration for you! There are sooooo many men in society that have the same exact situation as you, but they do not have the courage to stand up, and be true to themselves, and true to who they really are! You are a shining example of honesty for yourself, and for others congratulations bro! Vegan Chef KESS