I came out when I was 25 and met my partner at 27 . I struggled also being I was a construction worker. I'm now 59 and still with my partner 32 years now. I'm retired after 30 yrs of being in construction. Good luck on your journey. We both are masculine men. People can't understand how we are gay! Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. Best of luck.

@markanthonyagna5511

4 жыл бұрын

wow congrats

@KingKiaXXVII

4 жыл бұрын

ah :"

@hdrik66

4 жыл бұрын

William Armstrong the stereotype is that masculine men can’t be gay ...........weird

@65NART

4 жыл бұрын

And if you were not masculine was that really such a problem?

@acebagsshopping9776

4 жыл бұрын

Wow ur partner must be very happy

Congratulations on an excellent video Taylor. I am 76 years old and have been with my husband for 58 years. We got married in 2006 on the first day that it was legal in the UK. I wish you all the best for your future happiness. Be yourself is the best advice ever. Take care, Ian

I came out in 1981, AIDS was on the horizon. People were dying and we couldn’t even talked to anyone. Our grief, our pain and loss was stuffed and we lived in fear. Somehow, I felt I had to get right with it, I had to speak my truth. My Dad had already passed away so my worry was my family and friends. One friend of my mothers said the worst thing ever, : “You save your soul, I will save mine”. I left in shame. Then another friend , my mom’s best friend, told me she loved me and that my mom would love me regardless. It wasn’t easy, but it was courageous, just as you are! Be true to yourself, love yourself be kind Nd, forgiving and accepting but most of all honor your sexuality as a gift. You are helping many people. All the best! John

Kids can be so mean. I use to be called gay a lot by my peers and even my own family (brother). The times I have cried because of something I didn't even truly understand at the time still makes me anxious to this day. I'm glad I have never hurt myself because it. Because we have come so far as a community. Stay beautiful inside Taylor xo

@MP-yz6sb

5 жыл бұрын

Greg Louis stay strong Greg 👍

@greglouis9621

5 жыл бұрын

@@MP-yz6sb

@Owen2256

5 жыл бұрын

chow tt - I cannot imagine spending time trolling Gay people on KZread to spew ridiculous bullshit. chow Tt, you need a life. Preferably one which doesn’t include bigoted harassment of others.

@Owen2256

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah, the biggest assholes in the universe are teen boys. No contest. They treat others, girls, each. Other like shit. Ugh.

@gashugicedron2724

4 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️

The world needs more wholesome content like this. Bravo

@teatravis

Жыл бұрын

We Love this too!

“Ok...that’s cool”. Hahaha what a remarkable mom!!!

Coming out is hard. Also, this man is insanely, almost unbelievably hot.

@ajgdabs

3 жыл бұрын

Hes like a mix between Patrick Dempsey, Bradley Cooper and Sean O'pry

@happylenny7953

3 жыл бұрын

^Said what we are all thinking

@Mcfreddo

3 жыл бұрын

What it says that may be for men, it doesn't matter about looks, they'll still hate you the same. It's known that good looking people can get further from other people that see them as favourable, but gay and you see some turn?

Recently I apologized to someone who used to be one of my closest friends because some of his friends had bothered him for having a gay friend, then I really regretted the position in which I had put him and also felt extremely bad for being gay and being the way I am. This video has opened my eyes in so many ways, now I realize how confused I was and that I do not have to regret for being myself, further, I do not have to apologize to anyone who is not smart enough to realize how valuable someone is regardless of the sexual orientation. I’m really glad you are inspiring people with your content and being an example of getting over hard situations to truly live a joyful life. I’m grateful to you, I definitely needed this video. Hugs from Colombia

@juanvelez8564

4 жыл бұрын

If you could use a few more arguments, or if you have problems for religious/cultural reasons, this can help you: “On Human Suffering and the Concept of God” - the psychological origin of religious beliefs. neomodernistpoetry.blogspot.com/2018/11/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html or homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2018/06/on-human-suffering-and-concept-of-god.html About homosexuality: homoeroticpoems.blogspot.com/2014/04/to-community.html

"Hey, listen to me. You be yourself" Brought tears to my eyes. Love your mom! ❤️❤️

“Coming out” is soul crushing. Utterly demeaning. The fear that you carry to where it feels “liberating” when you can finally be open and feel accepted is absolutely absurd. Everyone has a right to live their true, authentic self without having to live with fear of being “exposed” for LOVING someone. To the entire LGBTQ community, I apologize for the ignorance that continues to plague us as a people. I hope the day when “coming out” and fear to love is a thing of the past. Live YOUR best life!! I stand with you 😘

@vengxance

4 жыл бұрын

you my lady are what we call WOKE

@thatdigoryguy

4 жыл бұрын

Totally agree

@kristiangomes3273

4 жыл бұрын

Robert Ward please shut up. No one cares about your beliefs. You or your god have no right to make ones sexual orientation invalid.

@lindasmyth2231

3 жыл бұрын

♥️🏳️‍🌈♥️

@Mcfreddo

3 жыл бұрын

@@kristiangomes3273 So what happens when- his post is not here- This must be a deletion? Often those kinds of offensive accusations from a book of belief only, someone must delete it?

I never write on you tube - ever. I had tears in my eyes when you were talking about your discussion with your mother. Thank you for sharing your experiences - good and bad. I may not know you and may never know you - but it's awesome to be able to hear the perspectives of such a fine young man. Thank you again for sharing with us.

The way the kids bullied you is seriously mean. Glad you become a strong and happy man.

I don’t know why but I started to cry watching this

Taylor, thank You for sharing your story and hurts, tears and triumph! I came out 16 days ago to my wife as a gay man. It took me 33 years to come out of the closed. I' a pastor in a german conservativ church and it was a hard way to pretend that I'm a staight guy and husband. Man like you encouraged me to take the steps an now I discover my true self an will live a honest and authentic life! I wish You all the best.

@skurinski

Жыл бұрын

wow I feel terrible for your wife, 33 years of deceit

@digbycrankshaft7572

11 ай бұрын

​@@skurinskistupid comment. Don't judge others unless you've been there. 🤡

@Neil070

11 ай бұрын

​@@skurinskiI feel terrible for you, you have no empathy and cannot understand what it is like living in a society where gay people are persecuted, or despised. Even liberal advanced countries like Germany have homophobic people

you have a great mom! Thank her again.

really enjoyed watching this

@n2smt111

5 жыл бұрын

yesss queeen!! ilu

@ruthkreutner5844

4 жыл бұрын

and now you're out :)

Thank you Taylor for sharing your story🙌. That inspires me a lot to coming out and being my authentic self🤍

"Do whatever make you happy." This is true. Stay happy Taylor ❤

When I came out to my parents, my dad always told me to proud of who I am and not ashamed as how other see me! That's probably one of the few pieces of advise that I remember from my parents.

Taylor, you look gorgeous and sound great. May God bless, protect and keep you in His love for ever.

Being happy within yourself is priceless, glad your being true. Cheers to you mate

i'm gay Muslim thank you so much for this i needed to hear this

I have being surrounded my entire life by so much homophobia that when he said that his mother said he was doing the right thing by living his truth I was literally shook for a second and then I remembered some people’s parents are actually supportive.

@mic_chad0076

Жыл бұрын

Yes it can be completely the opposite of what u think if u true to urself.Peoples can feel each other's pain so why not liberate 1 another.We all want to feel better n it's not like we gay people r Unstable mentally.U change the world's perspective.Own It!

He is gorgeous, lucky Jeff! 😍

I’m so happy for you!! Thanks for sharing your story

This hit hard! Thankyou for sharing and being a gay role model that is not so cliche, it means more men can be ok with being gay.

This was amazing! Anytime seeing someone cry, it shows how genuine the feeling is. Your mom is most definitely so proud of you!

Absolutely beautifully done, Taylor. Your coming out story comes through so honest and emotionally relatable. Thank you for using your platform in such an uplifting and positive way.❤

Such a beautiful and personal story. Thanks for sharing your story and helping so many others that don’t feel represented!

I love how you seem to be honest and open. I think that your vulnerabilities are your strengths, I feel that I can relate so much to you. Can't wait till Sunday 😘😘

Taylor, your story is so inspiring. I had a similar story coming out to my family and friends. It was not easy, but after the first year or so, things start to get easier. Thank you for being transparent and being true to yourself. ❤️

BEING GAY IS A BLESSING. YOUR STORY IS A BLESSING. LOVED AND SUB. MUCH LOVE*

@alanaban1840

10 ай бұрын

Been gay is a blessing from Satan not from god

That was said from the heart, especially when you told your mother over the phone. Lovely and genuine!

Some days are worse than others, and today being a pretty crappy day, I really needed this. Thank you so much for opening up like this and sharing your experience with us. I never felt like I could relate to anyone else too, and hearing your story changed my mind. Thanks for showing me I am not alone. I don’t know if you will ever realize how much you are helping me. Thank you so much.

I've watched this entire video now. I have one word-beautiful. Taylor, you're a wonderful person, God bless you.

You're such an angel. Literally kindness radiates from you. I'm happy that you eventually found a 'home' and a group of friends that love you.

I can relate to your story so much. Thank you so much for sharing Taylor. You’re definitely my gay icon I look up to and I love you and Jeff together and am so exited for your guys’ lives together!

This is so inspiring and just heart-warming. And I definitely am feeling the struggle you felt when it comes to come to term with who I am and who I like. And it's just great to see videos like this.

omg i cried too!!! ur amazing taylor!!! thanks for being an inspo 💕

My heart, you’re so so strong. And I’m so happy you’re happy!

An amazing video! You have a great mom and your advice about never apologizing for who you are is spot on! Thank you for sharing your story!

Taylor, thanks for sharing your journey with us in such a genuine, open hearted way. All the less fortunate encounters you had have helped make you a stronger person today. It's amazing to see you in a happier place now. Wishing you and Jeff nothing but the best!

Thank you for sharing your story with us. You are a true inspiration for people all around the world. keep up the amazing content ❤️

This video made me tear up. You are a true inspiration. Thank you for sharing your story with us! ❤️

You’re an inspiration, a hero and a survivor. Thank you for sharing. Much love and Respect Taylor.

The great love between you and your mother is so touching. It moves me when you describe, dear friend Taylor. Love wins always. Your mom is so supportive. 🌈🌈🌈

Watched half of it so far and you speak with such heart man

This video gave me the strength I need to get through this day, people like you are what this platform needs, I hope you keep inspiring people through this platform.

You are an incredible person. You can be the role model to lots of other young men. Thanks for putting this out. I enjoy following you. You're amazing!

Omg!!! Just when i was getting hurt and pissed at your so called friends, your mom's words come in and melt my heart.

Thanks for sharing your experience with us Taylor. It does get better, and there's absolutely nothing to be ashamed of or apologize for. You are you!

Taylor, just found you and subbed. As a counselor for more years than you have been alive, I want to thank you for this. You are not only intelligent but also insightful; now only grown up but also mature; not only wise but also loving. Also a big shout-out to your mom. Thanks for this, bro...........love you, man............Ray

Serving up such realness! Great video Taylor! I’m a bit surprised you had so many friends that reacted so poorly to your coming out in 2015, but I’m so glad you told this story. Much love to you!

Just what i needed to hear!! Thank you Taylor!!!

There's "magic in the telling" with/to your story. Thank you for expressing your storyteller side.

Wow thanks very much for sharing this. Lots of us have the struggle of going through this. You’re a ray of light. Thanks for inspiring and being brave.

i just found your channel, all these normal lives i see is empowering. Thanks for sharing, taylor! from Indonesia

I’ve been waiting to see this!! Omg love you ♥️♥️♥️

Love this so much, thanks for sharing your story it’s gonna inspire so many others ♥️♥️

I am so glad I watched this! My heart is full!

Taylor You are one lucky brave solid human being. Showing us your life is really appreciated.

The authentic you is wonderful. This video brims over with reflection and courage and strength and self-worth. It is also humble and totally genuine. Congratulations Taylor. You’re a good man. ❤️

Thank you for sharing! Your videos are all so genuine I hope you continue producing stuff like that :)

This is such an honest and heartfelt video with which so many people will be able to identify. There will be many a young gay who will see himself in this video. Videos like this are so important for that reason. It is so good that they can see a wholesome and good-looking man who is living a decent and happy life. Your mom's reaction was wonderful and uplifting to hear about. You are, also, right that one does not need anyone in one's life who is not supportive. This is such a good video that I am not just putting it on my "Coming Out As Gay" KZread Playlist, but I am, also, moving it up to be one of the top ten on my list. Lastly, I would say that I hope that some of the people who were so hateful to you in college and who rejected you would see this video, have second thoughts and maybe treat the next person who comes out as gay to them in a better way.

This is probably the best coming out video I have ever seen. Thank you for sharing this. You're amazing.

I'm started to cry when I see u tears up....just remember, u are wonderful person 💗💗💗

You posted this on my birthday, and it was very inspiring! I hope you're in a batter place now and I wish you all the best! Keep it up!

Yes I’ve been waiting for this ever since you mentioned it on insta!!!

Thank you for sharing your story! Even though my family knows about me it is still looked down upon. I hope it just gets better.

@sumguy2581

4 жыл бұрын

Same

You're amazing. It's so hard to open such a painful story especially when you're in the beginning of your KZread channel, my story is really different than yours.. I came out when i was 14 and my family didn't really "liked" it.. but my friends were so supportive and happy for me. Anyway im so happy for you and the place you are now in your life💕 I literally just found you in my recommended list so now im subscribed and im excited to see more of your content❤️

Hi Taylor, thank you so much for sharing your story with us. I also came out in 2015 and dealt with similar hardships as well. I came out during my junior and senior years of high school. I remember when Gus Kensworthy came out and having that knowledge of someone else similar to me as well coming out of the closet also meant a great deal to me. I am so glad that your mother reacted so positively and lovingly to you. It breaks my heart to see sweet guys like you with broken hearts due to the betrayal of people you thought were your friends and having no one to talk to or relate to. I really admire your strength and perseverance through it all though and I am so happy to hear about the place you are at in life now. I’m in the middle of college at an LGBT accepting university in the South where I’m from (wait they do exist?! Lol) so I am glad we’re each at better points now in life where we can finally be ourselves around people. Enjoyed the video and I know you will help out a lot of others by having shared your story 💕😊

This video made me cry. Your story is an inspiration for many. I'm so proud of you Taylor! THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR STORY WITH US

@Saraykm

5 жыл бұрын

the smile at the end tho. Beautiful!

Very touching,thanks,we love u for being who u are❤️❤️❤️

Your mom is so sweet. It made me cry your mom being so sweet and kind to you...what a precious mom you have.... Love you and Jeff..love your videos.

Your story is really really touching and made me cry and I watched till end. You really give me courage to face the fear

Thanks for sharing your story with us. It’s makes it easier for others who are struggling. I hope more and more people do this to create a safe environment for those not out. Great advice to your younger self. #ItGetsBetter.

Thank you for sharing your story, your struggle years with us, i'm deeply touched by your words. Like Gus you're a great example for the community 💜💜💜💜

Taylor 👋🏾 this is such a great story and I’m so happy and proud of you, and I don’t even know you. Those “friends” truly missed out on remaining close with an awesome human being. Continue being authentically you!

Great vid...especially liked story about your mom’s reaction and how that made you feel and your two main conclusions: don’t apologise for being who you are and do it your way in your own time. Well done!

Love you (like who you are as a person) Thanks for inspiring me. I normally don't comment but I like how genuine you seem, which is hard to find in social media. Wishing you so much love and light

Awww you just broke my heart watching you get emotional I wish he would give you a huge hug ....take care

Thank you for being very genuine with your story, you are an amazing man!! My hat goes off to you and I feel incredibly honored to witness your story!! You have inspired me to be who I am! Please give Thanks to your Mother for truly loving you for who you are!!

Taylor, you have to be very proud of yourself! And thank you for sharing with us your story! All the best for you from a friend from Barcelona 😊✌🏻

Thank you so much for sharing your story! That’s incredibly encouraging, even to someone who has already been out for two years. It really does get better! Also, you’re the most adorable thing, I just… 😆❤️

You're very resilient ! I bet you knew that already. Thank you for telling your story.

Thank you Taylor, what a gift you are. You help me feel more deeply human and alive.

U are such an inspiration and u have my love and support it truly makes me sad that people turned on you! It is your journey your life u matter never forget that

I just want to give you a big hug❤️❤️❤️you’re an amazing person.❤️❤️❤️

I find so many similarities between your story and my own, and it’s for that reason that it’s important we share our stories at any level. A large part of learning who you are comes with a sense of feeling alone (at least for some people), and it’s being able to relate to others’ stories that we get a sense of belonging. So thank you for that :)

Touching stuff hun! Your past made you such a strong and beautiful man with such a big heart clearly

@tiffsauder6457

5 жыл бұрын

He's stunning and can probably whoop your butt

I haven’t even watched it but I’m already excited and so proud! ❤️

Awww, I love your mom. And I'm sorry you experienced that initial rejection from people you trusted. I'm glad you have found your way to the the freedom to be yourself. Thank you for sharing your story.

Taylor! Thank you for these words, you are the best, your videos are amazing ❤️

Bro you are dope and I'm glad you give other people like you hope that life can become amazing.

I need to be confident and tell my family and this video increase the possibilities to do this in the next few months, THANK YOU AGAIN TAYLOR!

@splashpont

5 жыл бұрын

If you live at home, be sure you have a plan "just in case." Also, never come out at a holiday or special occasion (birthday, anniversary, wedding, etc.). This conversation requires its own special day, perhaps over dinner.

It is so nice to hear this. I had a super bad experience coming out and I still struggle with that. I wish I’ve seen this before when I was younger. But thank you Taylor for sharing this! I gives me so much hope and I wish you the best for everything you work on ✨👏🏻

I am so happy that you are in a good place right now! You're very brave for going through all of that. Know that you are never alone in this no matter what's going in your life. We are all here for you.

I can't believe people would ever not be your friend anymore because of your sexuality? Like wtf. Obviously they never cared about you and were using you.

@delirium5381

5 жыл бұрын

Maybe it's because they think they'll fall in love with them -_-

@paullewis2413

5 жыл бұрын

@@Timeless80 Best friend when very young, but clearly not a ``real`` friend.

@ohh5178

4 жыл бұрын

Adam Rohan Not everyone turns on you but the dynamics definitely changes. When the rumours started going around, no one wanted to be around me because they didn’t want others to think they were gay. After a while people grew up a little but I still have anxiety from those times

@RCSVirginia

4 жыл бұрын

Adam Rohan People can be cruel, and they ofttimes will sever friendships over very trivial things. it's sad that it is this way, but it is.

@RicardoSalazarRickSalazar

3 жыл бұрын

Not sure they never cared about him, maybe they lived always in a small conservative town in the South. Some people can not imagine be around someone "different" I was really surprised that people were so conservative and short minded, but they are even now. Feel sorry for this guy, but he moved on and left his hometown, probably for ever. Fortunately his family was supportive.

You are a role model for me. Thank you for being yourself from the bottom of my heart. XO

You are a beautiful soul and a beautiful man. Your honesty about your journey actually has a healing effect on scarred children who have grown into scarred adults who still have no hope of really being happy. The healing is in the acceptance of even that.