My Best Friend Changed Gender And Now We’re Engaged | MY TRANS LIFE

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A TRANS MAN is marrying his female best friend, after years of disapproval from the bride-to-be’s mum. Jamie Raines, who first felt he was male at the age of four, met Shaaba Lotun, both from Essex, when they were 16 and he was still living as female. Jamie, 25, and Shaaba, 24, met in art class and quickly became best friends. They are now set to wed next year after becoming engaged in 2017, with support from both of their families.
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  • @vivelagaia
    @vivelagaia4 жыл бұрын

    If we hadn't seen his pre-transition photos, I never would have guessed that he was born female.

  • @Sarah-dk8je

    @Sarah-dk8je

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah he looks so masculine

  • @Arielmusic

    @Arielmusic

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah he genuinely looked very male like naturally already , he’s a good lookin guy and she’s beautiful

  • @tbobo5198

    @tbobo5198

    4 жыл бұрын

    CptSai he is very masculine. It took me a while of watching his videos to realize he was trans. And I only found out because he said it.

  • @hanamachii_

    @hanamachii_

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@xXSpartan757Xx wow no one would have ever guessed that. amazing hot take. congratulations on knowing something literally everyone including all trans people know.

  • @schuhschrank947

    @schuhschrank947

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@xXSpartan757Xx Jealous because Jamie is more masculine than you? I am a woman and I would definitely prefer Jamie than being with someone who has such an attitude as you!

  • @greenjewelrysparkle1940
    @greenjewelrysparkle19405 жыл бұрын

    Her parents didn't want her to have male friends 🤣😂 the irony

  • @suzanneschulz8479

    @suzanneschulz8479

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's her culture

  • @TaylorWMusic22

    @TaylorWMusic22

    5 жыл бұрын

    Matt T. Abuse?

  • @steveholt9431

    @steveholt9431

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@TaylorWMusic22 if her parents forbid her to have male friends due to culture or religion then it is abuse imo

  • @emmaaxo8409

    @emmaaxo8409

    5 жыл бұрын

    Wouldn’t go as far as to call It abuse however it is extremely strict parenting on their behalf.

  • @bekaanderson5122

    @bekaanderson5122

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂 FACTS. #ironyshiningBRIGHT

  • @selinfever7429
    @selinfever74293 жыл бұрын

    Honestly though can we talk about how Jamie got blessed with such good genes? Those broad shoulders , full beard , Adam’s apple and amazing height for a guy... like dang boi he’s one lucky dude.

  • @billmartins5545

    @billmartins5545

    3 жыл бұрын

    Shaaba is kind of short, though?

  • @beanson2323

    @beanson2323

    2 жыл бұрын

    One word: TESTOSTERONE

  • @mirsolis4992

    @mirsolis4992

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@beanson2323 testosterone isn’t enough to increase height if administered after the bone’s growth plates have fused and its ability to alter clavicle/shoulder width. Genuinely blessed genetics.

  • @jaelgg6264

    @jaelgg6264

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I dont have the same luck

  • @skittles1586

    @skittles1586

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm 4'10 To look cis im gonna have to start cosplaying Danny Devito

  • @ray_ayy
    @ray_ayy3 жыл бұрын

    I just want to take a moment to appreciate how much strength it must have taken on Shaaba’s part to deal with everything with her family. Being disowned, having to choose to move away from toxic and limiting relationships... that’s a really difficult thing to cope with, especially as a teenager.

  • @science3816

    @science3816

    3 жыл бұрын

    Definitely, she's strong

  • @irinanovak1659

    @irinanovak1659

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@drakelondon6849 exactly, sad

  • @chadarcher84

    @chadarcher84

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well, when the person you're with is mentally unstable, alot of things are hard to deal with.

  • @worldsfunniestvideosandbes3684

    @worldsfunniestvideosandbes3684

    Жыл бұрын

    Yep. It’s definitely confusing and difficult to learn that your best friend is transgender, especially teenagers. (Note: I’m cisgender)

  • @carolynatherton4233

    @carolynatherton4233

    11 ай бұрын

    True love 💓❤

  • @severussnape5800
    @severussnape58004 жыл бұрын

    Listen he didn’t change because of her he changed because that’s him

  • @sherylllll3058

    @sherylllll3058

    4 жыл бұрын

    10 points to Slytherin

  • @zeddisdead3239

    @zeddisdead3239

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Grimy_Aaronarr No? That's a man lmao you must be delusional

  • @Eduardo-sz9bp

    @Eduardo-sz9bp

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Grimy_Aaronarr no, I've seen lesbians, they're not like that

  • @fallenstarctat

    @fallenstarctat

    4 жыл бұрын

    1000% true

  • @totallyoutofit6989

    @totallyoutofit6989

    4 жыл бұрын

    PREACH, SNAPE

  • @thevicissan9081
    @thevicissan90815 жыл бұрын

    As a trans man I’d like to say I wish I was that tall

  • @peestorage6110

    @peestorage6110

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same, i'm so short lmao

  • @peestorage6110

    @peestorage6110

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@worshipthecreator9081 no one asked u but ok

  • @sarahwoodall8225

    @sarahwoodall8225

    4 жыл бұрын

    Crazy Driver ok boomer

  • @whitenoise3447

    @whitenoise3447

    4 жыл бұрын

    Alex Jay you can keep telling yourself that, but the thing is, they can and they do, and you can't do anything about it

  • @peestorage6110

    @peestorage6110

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Alex Jay No one asked u either

  • @irishuisman1450
    @irishuisman14503 жыл бұрын

    "We're planning on getting married next year." Me: *looks at upload date* Also me: _Oh no_

  • @ferael0013

    @ferael0013

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, they postponed it

  • @irishuisman1450

    @irishuisman1450

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ferael0013 I get it, you don't have to repeat it three times

  • @ferael0013

    @ferael0013

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@irishuisman1450 I had internet issues when I was replying to you haha

  • @irishuisman1450

    @irishuisman1450

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ferael0013 ah, ok ˆˆ'

  • @irishuisman1450

    @irishuisman1450

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Kyle Simmons I can't tell if that's transphobia or not, but I very highly doubt Jamie's gonna be wearing a dress. He spent years trying to get away from that life, he's not gonna go back to it

  • @avocado3-in-182
    @avocado3-in-1823 жыл бұрын

    Jamie did not transition because of his best friend, he transition because he felt uncomfortable in his skin and wanted to change it because he knew that is him. His best friend just happened to fell in love with Jamie, not because of his transitioned gender.

  • @funkunko

    @funkunko

    2 жыл бұрын

    no one is saying he transitioned for that reason?

  • @kmacgregor6361

    @kmacgregor6361

    2 жыл бұрын

    I actually misread the video title that way too bc when this video came up in my feed I assumed it was from him and I saw 'changed my gender'. Had to reread to realize this was from the friend.

  • @angelosorio1645

    @angelosorio1645

    2 жыл бұрын

    Suuuurree 😆

  • @cono.27

    @cono.27

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@defenderoftruth6526 who hurt you

  • @cono.27

    @cono.27

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@defenderoftruth6526 you are so uninformed lol you have a problem bc someone wants to be happy and wants respect 🤠 if you don't see the problem I can't help you

  • @unicornsdoesexist
    @unicornsdoesexist4 жыл бұрын

    Jammie must be the most unproblematic trans guy on youtube, i love him and shaaba

  • @pzooka

    @pzooka

    4 жыл бұрын

    얌 Booboo The Fool Shaaba daaba doo!

  • @totallyoutofit6989

    @totallyoutofit6989

    4 жыл бұрын

    The rest of them aren't problematic either..... Edit: well some of them are, I just remembered a few but it's not like most of them are

  • @pzooka

    @pzooka

    4 жыл бұрын

    Totally Out Of It you know calling them all unproblematic is equally untrue as him calling them all problematic. Neither one is worse Edit: also he said “the most unproblematic” which doesn’t suggest that shaaba is without his problems. You’re statement was much more exaggerating in saying that none of them were problematic period

  • @unicornsdoesexist

    @unicornsdoesexist

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@totallyoutofit6989 yes they are...

  • @Angel-uk6dm

    @Angel-uk6dm

    4 жыл бұрын

    Totally Out Of It there's a lot of problematic trans youtubers. example, Kalvin Garrah and Blaire White

  • @parkerhahaha
    @parkerhahaha5 жыл бұрын

    Jamie high rolled with that cis male height

  • @sammierose1150

    @sammierose1150

    5 жыл бұрын

    Natalie xx he’s like most trans guys dream height. I’m a 6’1” straight woman and I always get approached by cis men and trans men saying “please give me a couple inches of your height” (I would if I could)

  • @kimisea

    @kimisea

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@sammierose1150 I'm not quite as tall as you (I'm 5'10") but I can definitely relate!! People are always saying they wish they were as tall as me but I honestly wish I was shorter lol

  • @shatakshimishra417

    @shatakshimishra417

    5 жыл бұрын

    What is cis male?

  • @kasiachojnacka4433

    @kasiachojnacka4433

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@jazminee3601 born male AND identifies as male. Cis means that you identify with the gender that was assigned to you at birth

  • @jazminee3601

    @jazminee3601

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@kasiachojnacka4433 oh ok thank you! sorry for the misleading information

  • @MxNEWCASTLE
    @MxNEWCASTLE3 жыл бұрын

    Update: Though the wedding has been postponed due to the pandemic, Jamie and Shaaba are doing great! Shaaba also has a dress now 😁

  • @firegamerxoxo7713

    @firegamerxoxo7713

    2 жыл бұрын

    And I don't know if he had one at this time he has a youtube channel and I reginised him

  • @sw.7519

    @sw.7519

    2 жыл бұрын

    Is she pregnant?

  • @defenderoftruth6526

    @defenderoftruth6526

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sw.7519 lol! How on earth would she get pregnant? That "man" has a vajayjay

  • @cono.27

    @cono.27

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sw.7519 no, but they made a video about having a kid in the future kzread.info/dash/bejne/dWWqlaSCedLeYLQ.html

  • @sw.7519

    @sw.7519

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@cono.27 from skin cells?

  • @shadowswirl637
    @shadowswirl6373 жыл бұрын

    I love/hate how he apologizes for identifying and transitioning to a gender he is comfortable with because his fiancé’s mum didn’t approve and she just gives the chillest nicest like “it’s alright..” like they are so cute togetherrr

  • @perfectlyimperfect2368
    @perfectlyimperfect23684 жыл бұрын

    Her family: you can't be friends with boys Her: loophole challenge accepted

  • @MyGreenNest

    @MyGreenNest

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bahahaha

  • @sarah-beruriahbattzion28

    @sarah-beruriahbattzion28

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂🤣

  • @user-pp9df6ml6i

    @user-pp9df6ml6i

    3 жыл бұрын

    Finds a trans guy*

  • @macscott2458

    @macscott2458

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Blue_910 I’m a potato. If you don’t call me a potato ill sue you. What? I’m not delusional. How can one say there the gender there not and expect everyone to agree and act like they are. It’s absurd and absolutely crazy. Remember back when what I’m saying was common sense. What crazy madman did this to us.

  • @Blue_910

    @Blue_910

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@macscott2458 oooo someone’s triggered snowflakes are so pretty ❄️

  • @undLiebeZitrone
    @undLiebeZitrone5 жыл бұрын

    „I don‘t hold it against her, I am just glad she has moved on from it.“ - wow, what a great way to look at it - especially when there was so much pain and heartache involved for her.

  • @CeciliaLopez-ce6tc

    @CeciliaLopez-ce6tc

    5 жыл бұрын

    @bye girl it's called preferences dear, grow up or at least evolve a little

  • @CeciliaLopez-ce6tc

    @CeciliaLopez-ce6tc

    5 жыл бұрын

    @bye girl wow i didn't you were able to meet all of the white men in the world. That must have been hard

  • @CeciliaLopez-ce6tc

    @CeciliaLopez-ce6tc

    5 жыл бұрын

    @bye girl not bitter, just amazed by your knowledge of the whole white male population

  • @CeciliaLopez-ce6tc

    @CeciliaLopez-ce6tc

    5 жыл бұрын

    @bye girl trends do not apply to every single person honey Maybe you know a lot of guys who like asian women or whatever, but that doesn't make it the rule for everyone Really tired of this conversation already. Have a nice life dude ✌

  • @smittenbycats3822

    @smittenbycats3822

    5 жыл бұрын

    @bye girl um, hello? Priyanka and Nick, everyone?

  • @redheadedgypsy1939
    @redheadedgypsy19393 жыл бұрын

    So fortunate to be best friends before lovers - many years of love for you two!!! Congrats on the engagement!

  • @21shrutiguria93
    @21shrutiguria932 жыл бұрын

    I don't believe in soulmates but then there's Jamie and Shaba. 😍

  • @amygriffith8224

    @amygriffith8224

    2 жыл бұрын

    I believe in soulmates, your soulmate is a gift from the universe, even though you may never find them, everyone has one, (thats what i believe you dont have to believe it.

  • @willsolacemahsaamini8681

    @willsolacemahsaamini8681

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah hehe 😅

  • @petrichor8093
    @petrichor80934 жыл бұрын

    took me a good 10 seconds to realize that this wasn't jamie's channel

  • @despair5958

    @despair5958

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same here!!

  • @goldybays8654

    @goldybays8654

    4 жыл бұрын

    I thought it was shaabas! Lol

  • @pennilessdeity2198

    @pennilessdeity2198

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sameeeee

  • @stobit6040

    @stobit6040

    4 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @thunderusnight

    @thunderusnight

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @Angel-uk6dm
    @Angel-uk6dm4 жыл бұрын

    i hate the title of this video. it makes it sound like Jamie changed his gender because of Shaaba. Jamie didn't change his gender, he just realized that he wasn't a girl. stop making it sound like it's a choice, it's not a choice

  • @changedusernameaagain1676

    @changedusernameaagain1676

    4 жыл бұрын

    Most titles on this channel do that. It's so annoying

  • @selfperformedsparagmos

    @selfperformedsparagmos

    4 жыл бұрын

    THANK YOU. The moment I saw the title I cringed.

  • @Hinona.

    @Hinona.

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@xXSpartan757Xx Shaaba an is a girl Jamie is a boy

  • @Hinona.

    @Hinona.

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes exactly I thought he same thing, we trans ppl dont changes our gender we just figure out who we really are. Loved your comment.

  • @fluffyunicorn3907

    @fluffyunicorn3907

    4 жыл бұрын

    Just An Uncreative Username well technically it is a choice you can choose to take testosterone or estrogen just like how I can choose to not take care of my body and become obese

  • @thatgoshdarnblep2726
    @thatgoshdarnblep2726 Жыл бұрын

    3 years later and they are married!! Congrats you two❤❤👩🏽‍❤‍👨🏻

  • @irneaa

    @irneaa

    Жыл бұрын

    After sometime they'll suffer like Jazz jennings

  • @byebyedislikecount939

    @byebyedislikecount939

    10 ай бұрын

    cope@@irneaa

  • @Quantum36911
    @Quantum369113 жыл бұрын

    Their story is an absolute triumph of the heart! So glad they were able to make their love official and live the lives that truly make them happy, just being together without having to fight the world!

  • @dawnschnack3576
    @dawnschnack35765 жыл бұрын

    That girl speaks very calmly and is so well adjusted for a young adult

  • @MITHILASREE

    @MITHILASREE

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dawn Schnack that is to be expected when you have awfully strict parents xD

  • @merncat75

    @merncat75

    5 жыл бұрын

    That's how all people her age and older should conduct themselves.. at age 17 people always thought I was in my late 20s because they said I was so "mature and well-adjusted" I think it's just because these days it seems people stay immature much longer and for some reason, very irrational and emotional. ( I mean the reasons are actually obvious from a cultural and psychological point of view) I've been living on my own since I was 19 so I guess it was just a normal process for me but I cringe when I meet 30 year olds who talk and act like they are teenagers.

  • @Alda1821

    @Alda1821

    5 жыл бұрын

    merncat75 Why is it bad for 30 year old people to act like teenagers? They are young and live their life. Where’s the problem?

  • @merncat75

    @merncat75

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Alda1821 It's different to live life as a teenager rather than conducting themselves as clueless, immature, juvenile, naive fools.. my opinionl

  • @jordiflower

    @jordiflower

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dawn Schnack YEP

  • @CastleVaniak
    @CastleVaniak5 жыл бұрын

    Shabba is so humble and forgiving even though her mum rejected the relationship and kicked her out! I hope her mum accepts Jamie what a humble guy with an kind mum

  • @hannawalsh8409

    @hannawalsh8409

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yu Suzuki her moms ok with it now you can watch their YT channel

  • @CastleVaniak

    @CastleVaniak

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@hannawalsh8409 Thanks I just subscribed to both of their channels

  • @hannawalsh8409

    @hannawalsh8409

    5 жыл бұрын

    jochem post Does it upset you that a Trans man is just as man as you are? Shame

  • @hannawalsh8409

    @hannawalsh8409

    5 жыл бұрын

    jochem post you’re probably a 12 year old boy anyway 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

  • @jochempost4095

    @jochempost4095

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@hannawalsh8409 it upsets me that we are just ignoring the simplest biology these days, because we are scared of hurting someones feeling. Im upset that we are seeing this as a solution and a good thing with knowing that this just leads to an increased number of depressions, identity crisis and suicides. But why would you understand this, you are just an ignorant woman 🤷😂

  • @stillhere1425
    @stillhere14252 жыл бұрын

    He’s very cute! I mean really really. I’d have no shame being with a man like him. I hope their families can see him who he is.

  • @defenderoftruth6526

    @defenderoftruth6526

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are delusional.

  • @datgaydangernoodle1315

    @datgaydangernoodle1315

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@defenderoftruth6526 no you

  • @datgaydangernoodle1315

    @datgaydangernoodle1315

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@defenderoftruth6526 no im not a girl. I am genetically female, but no im not. I date people for their heart. Their personality. Not what is between their legs.

  • @thatpoorsandersy32yearsago36

    @thatpoorsandersy32yearsago36

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@defenderoftruth6526 should people's happiness be dictated by what's in their pants?

  • @_old_man_

    @_old_man_

    2 жыл бұрын

    "like him"

  • @tayajaneway4628
    @tayajaneway46283 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful story ❤️ I look forward to the day that we don't need to have videos or stories describing how people had to put themselves into the closet or hide their relationships. It's getting there, but I really do look forward to the day (and hopefully I will be alive to see it) when everyone just accepts everyone else for who they are. This video made me smile and I am so glad that they found each other.

  • @gracejenkins8886
    @gracejenkins88864 жыл бұрын

    the video where he came out to his fiancés little sisters was absolutely adorable and i recommend that everyone watches it

  • @zeldahandel6211

    @zeldahandel6211

    4 жыл бұрын

    I know! It is the cutest video ever!!

  • @LittleIcarus

    @LittleIcarus

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ikr so cute!!

  • @naryainc

    @naryainc

    3 жыл бұрын

    I thought J and S were so cringey and confused in it.

  • @LittleIcarus

    @LittleIcarus

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@naryainc What??? How?

  • @LittleIcarus

    @LittleIcarus

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Parveen Sud Why "eew"?

  • @lunaticspleen
    @lunaticspleen5 жыл бұрын

    They're like old souls who must have been together in a past life..

  • @yasmeen2915

    @yasmeen2915

    5 жыл бұрын

    @bye girl you dont make the rules

  • @yasmeen2915

    @yasmeen2915

    5 жыл бұрын

    @bye girl sweetie, where have u been living? under a rock in the 18th century?? u are absolutely wrong to say "ALL" white men because i have seen many happy white and indian couples and they are LOVELY together.

  • @lampm0th452

    @lampm0th452

    5 жыл бұрын

    @bye girl I’ve seen white men with Indian woman together in a relationship, I’m also a white male and don’t agree with you at all? Don’t assume things that’s just flat out rude

  • @feyiplus4500

    @feyiplus4500

    5 жыл бұрын

    @bye girl Girl!!! If you don't take your ugly heart somewhere else. You are just mad nobody is into you, so you are projecting your insecurities on other people. You seem like the girl to spread those legs far and wide to get validation from a man. Self hate much!!

  • @pinkglitter93

    @pinkglitter93

    5 жыл бұрын

    @bye girl And here we have an insecure, racist Asian girl who thinks that her race is better than everyone else. NOT.

  • @millsykooksy4863
    @millsykooksy48632 жыл бұрын

    They’re sweet, chill and they love each other. How anyone can be mad about this I’ll never know.

  • @mightbeavampire
    @mightbeavampire3 жыл бұрын

    yesssss jamie and Shaba!! when you look at their KZread channels it's adorable to see how much more they've grown as people

  • @rubynichols1373
    @rubynichols13734 жыл бұрын

    for people who watch him on youtube HES SITTING NEAR THE CHAIR BUT NOT ON THE CHAIR

  • @nanakigamer9852

    @nanakigamer9852

    4 жыл бұрын

    Why would he lie to us??!! Omg, i have to sit down, i am devastated

  • @stobit6040

    @stobit6040

    4 жыл бұрын

    OMG yur right bruh!!!!

  • @patiencen1280

    @patiencen1280

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nanaki Gamer lmaoo

  • @thunderusnight

    @thunderusnight

    4 жыл бұрын

    All of us the spuds are disappointed

  • @-isthatso-

    @-isthatso-

    4 жыл бұрын

    The spuds are sad now

  • @catsaidcronchy395
    @catsaidcronchy3954 жыл бұрын

    Jamie and shaaba: we are gonna probaly get married next year 2020: corona virus 😐

  • @NoName-ld7gg

    @NoName-ld7gg

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Mia Smith Jamie posted a video where they pick out her wedding dress. It was quite recent, actually.

  • @abracadabra2395

    @abracadabra2395

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know, right? My heart aches for them, but they made the right choice postponing to keep everyone safe.

  • @glamouranth
    @glamouranth3 жыл бұрын

    The comment section shows why people need to learn the difference between chromosomes, biological sex and gender identity. They do not always align.

  • @exploringtogrow8296
    @exploringtogrow82962 жыл бұрын

    Love is love, is love is love. Thanks for sharing your love story; we need more love in the world. Loads of blessings to you both.

  • @royalaza

    @royalaza

    2 жыл бұрын

    That is true. Have a good 2022 :)

  • @thomasbohlen1138
    @thomasbohlen11385 жыл бұрын

    I’m a simple man. I see Jamie. I click.

  • @drewmiller8825

    @drewmiller8825

    5 жыл бұрын

    Right lol

  • @drewmiller8825

    @drewmiller8825

    5 жыл бұрын

    @bye girl you're literally the only person looking at race right now

  • @aidenoliver1681

    @aidenoliver1681

    5 жыл бұрын

    bye girl stop being racist I’m gonna report you

  • @Elena-ib5gf

    @Elena-ib5gf

    5 жыл бұрын

    @bye girl no one asked

  • @Elena-ib5gf

    @Elena-ib5gf

    5 жыл бұрын

    @bye girl *they're At least Indian women know what grammar is

  • @celia8709
    @celia87095 жыл бұрын

    Great couple but can we talk about how cute is that cat???

  • @dawn5662

    @dawn5662

    5 жыл бұрын

    That's Apollo! :)

  • @dexa6623

    @dexa6623

    5 жыл бұрын

    They have KZread channels, and sometimes you can see the cat :D Jamie's is JamieRains and Shaba's is Shaaaba (I think).

  • @cynthiaisako

    @cynthiaisako

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ikr

  • @zani3306

    @zani3306

    5 жыл бұрын

    dexa it’s jammidodger

  • @hisokasstickybungeegum4397

    @hisokasstickybungeegum4397

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@dexa6623 Jamie's is JammiDodger and Shaaba's is just Shaaba.

  • @vivigoesusa
    @vivigoesusa3 жыл бұрын

    Petition to change the Title! 🔽

  • @puzzlepizza9992

    @puzzlepizza9992

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hell yeah

  • @sandramartin2535
    @sandramartin25353 жыл бұрын

    All I see is a happy, beautiful couple in love. We need more of this in the world!

  • @goodmom1

    @goodmom1

    2 жыл бұрын

    Weird for many. I find it super bizarre!

  • @finmiles965

    @finmiles965

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@wghmnb9136 Spot on, thankfully Jamie doesn’t have to lie anymore and can stop pretending to be a woman, now he can say truthfully that he’s always been male and transitioned to better reflect that!

  • @finmiles965

    @finmiles965

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@wghmnb9136 well that’s basically the definition of being transgender-the point is his gender (male) did not align with his bio sex (female) at birth, therefore the transition. Sorry I should have explained what the term means and not assumed that you (or others here) knew, my bad. And just so you know Jamie uses he/him pronouns, I almost thought you were referring to his girlfriend for a sec! This goes for anyone but there’s absolutely nothing wrong with respectfully asking questions if you want to know/understand a topic that’s new to you, I think it’s always best to learn about a topic like this from someone in the community or experts if possible, that way you can help prevent myths and inaccuracies from being spread around instead. Lmk if you have any more questions, just trying to help. Happy new year!

  • @finmiles965

    @finmiles965

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@wghmnb9136 Whoah there, no need to spam replies, I saw them :) That’s an interesting phrase but there’s: not really pretending involved, what you may be thinking of is called “transitioning” but can be physical, social, etc. and this is the process of a trans person aligning their physical traits and other stuff to better match the way they are comfortable presenting themselves and how their gender should be expressed (since a lot of trans people were forced to fit in a box determined only by their genitalia).

  • @finmiles965

    @finmiles965

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@wghmnb9136 you’ve been arguing on a bunch of other threads so I’m sure this isn’t actually questioning how being trans works, but gender is determined as more of a mental/neurological identity as an inner thing whereas sex is categorized by your genitalia/sexual characteristics at birth: hence the term “cisgender” being someone whose gender aligns with their biological sex and “transgender” indicating non-alignment with that like Jamie whose gender (again, sense of self and brain chemistry since studies have found that trans people’s’ brains are more likely to be similar to their gender’s brain chemistry instead of their biological sex’s, there’s a mismatch sometimes), and “cisgender” is when gender and sex agree with each other. This isn’t a belief, this is how some people are, and they’re not forcing their identity on others like forcing people to be trans. I’ve already explained gender multiple times and how it is different. According to Oxford, “gender” is defined as “either of the two sexes especially when considered with reference to the social and cultural differences rather than biological ones”...if you’d prefer another, WHO defines it as “their characteristics of women, men, girls and boys that are socially constructed” and Merriam Webster cites it as “the behavioral, cultural, or psychological traits typically associated with one sex.” But you didn’t care to look up a simple definition because it doesn’t support your argument? Looks that way. But yeah there you go. Sexual characteristics determine sex at birth, yes, biologically, but those do not always align with one’s gender, hence the term “cisgender” referring to those whose gender matches their sexual characteristics and “transgender” defined as one whose gender does not like up with their sex. Their biology also decides brain chemistry and studies have shown much more similarity in brain chemistry and makeup between trans people and their actual gender than trans people and their sex (such as a trans man like Jamie having ,for in common neurologically with cisgender men than cisgender women.. But isn’t that cool? Science is great when we are able to find out more about ourselves as humans! So yeah it’s not pretending or a performance, please don’t intentionally twist my explanation to cater to your outdated and uneducated opinion. Trans people are their gender, they’re not pretending anything, just being themselves. Anyway yeah there’s your definitions, I’d encourage you to read up on the subject since just because you believe something isn’t a thing doesn’t mean it suddenly ceases to be. I’m sorry you can’t accept that Jamie and other trans people are their real gender but historically and scientifically you’re wrong. I’m happy to provide literature for you so you can educate yourself! Let me know, I know this is a scary topic for some people because they can’t accept anything differing from their beliefs and I genuinely want to help you but I can’t if you won’t listen. Would you like to trade studies to read and consider?

  • @job5236
    @job52365 жыл бұрын

    She has all the reasons in the world to be bitter with life and her Mum, yet chooses to be forgiving and understanding. Very mature and strong!

  • @patiencen1280

    @patiencen1280

    4 жыл бұрын

    yess!

  • @nublessed8993

    @nublessed8993

    4 жыл бұрын

    I wish i could be like her but i dont think i can forgive

  • @yjbts253

    @yjbts253

    3 жыл бұрын

    Her mum is muslim and in our religion this is forbidden so I think she could understand that her mum reacted the way she did because she didn't want her daughter to sin. But she could have just talked to her alone rather than humiliating her in front of the whole house.

  • @veroniquecastel9582

    @veroniquecastel9582

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@yjbts253 religion destroys great things.

  • @stoicazoo7845

    @stoicazoo7845

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@yjbts253 it was her choice to follow a hateful religion to the point of mistreating and disowning her own child, so she was responsible for it. Don't use your religion and beliefs as an excuse to be terrible people, that's gross.

  • @noahgentili1433
    @noahgentili14334 жыл бұрын

    it's weird not having a video w/ him not starting as "hey spuds"

  • @stobit6040

    @stobit6040

    4 жыл бұрын

    tru tho

  • @junowood5951
    @junowood59513 жыл бұрын

    seriously this is so wholesome to watch... you two seem to be made for eachother. wow. such a radiating love that it is really soul soothing to watch you guys! all the best for you!

  • @georgiaburkhart285
    @georgiaburkhart2853 жыл бұрын

    Y'all they're not married yet. Covid got them screwed lol. I love you both Shaaba and Jamie. I hope they have a great wedding once covid is over.

  • @eb.3764
    @eb.37644 жыл бұрын

    Wow even when talking about him in the past she said "if only he was a guy" never once misgendering him

  • @patiencen1280

    @patiencen1280

    4 жыл бұрын

    ikr good on her

  • @XerKoro_neo

    @XerKoro_neo

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's what it's like to love a person as themselves. She knows who he is

  • @maggotscave9345

    @maggotscave9345

    3 жыл бұрын

    True love and respect right there

  • @l-3832

    @l-3832

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@macscott2458 no ♥️

  • @l-3832

    @l-3832

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@macscott2458 no ♥️

  • @jaimebaird5699
    @jaimebaird56995 жыл бұрын

    Cute couple. Jamie is a cute guy. And his fiance is gorgeous.

  • @loveyouall9595

    @loveyouall9595

    5 жыл бұрын

    You are also gorgeous. ❤️

  • @parkerxd9422

    @parkerxd9422

    4 жыл бұрын

    @bye girl your on crack! race, gender, mental disorder , ect. Shouldn't have anything to do with love and who should and shouldn't be together

  • @spitsoup911

    @spitsoup911

    4 жыл бұрын

    @bye girl what?! are you nuts?

  • @enderzebak2863

    @enderzebak2863

    4 жыл бұрын

    bye girl u have a grudge on them? Did they do anything to u?

  • @sayanidutta741

    @sayanidutta741

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm Indian...and I'm proud enough to see them together ♥️♥️

  • @personone1382
    @personone13823 жыл бұрын

    FOR FUCK'S SAKE IT'S NOT "CHANGING YOUR GENDER"

  • @sugabuin
    @sugabuin2 жыл бұрын

    I have watched his transition long back and I'm so happy that they are still together supporting each other ❤

  • @aslan.c0m
    @aslan.c0m4 жыл бұрын

    4:21 “I did genuinely love you as a friend” *when she friendzones you after being together for 7 years and planning a wedding*

  • @mkisdumb

    @mkisdumb

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yo I thought the same thing 😂

  • @noanook

    @noanook

    4 жыл бұрын

    @bye girl whats wrong with you

  • @noanook

    @noanook

    4 жыл бұрын

    @bye girl no you're just being a little ignorant..love is love and people fall in love with whoever they fall in love and they can't help it

  • @noanook

    @noanook

    4 жыл бұрын

    @bye girl and then why is wrong or disgusting..it's preference

  • @harshitabhuyan8892

    @harshitabhuyan8892

    4 жыл бұрын

    @bye girl You know what's disgusting? Your tiny brain. You're not even ignorant you're just downright racist.

  • @RealMexFoodShouldntGiveUDrrhea
    @RealMexFoodShouldntGiveUDrrhea5 жыл бұрын

    They are both ridiculously beautiful.

  • @monmayor1467

    @monmayor1467

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Angelo Stevens i thought the woman is the trans one

  • @colouredcactus2071

    @colouredcactus2071

    5 жыл бұрын

    Angelo Stevens omg roast 100

  • @norastifler

    @norastifler

    5 жыл бұрын

    mon mayor who hurt you?

  • @monmayor1467

    @monmayor1467

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@norastifler no one..

  • @sunuprnt2246

    @sunuprnt2246

    5 жыл бұрын

    literally

  • @agnesbiswalo1593
    @agnesbiswalo15932 жыл бұрын

    This was so wholesome. Their love, their joy...it is almost tangible.

  • @salomahoney2675
    @salomahoney26753 жыл бұрын

    When he said that she was the first person to never make a mistake with the name and pronouns I literally cried. I am non-binary and have known for almost 7 years. My boyfriend was the first person I ever told and I was nervous as HELL. At the time, I'd known for 6 and a bit years and told nobody. I kept this hidden from everyone - even from myself at times - for over 6 whole years. He has always gotten my pronouns right ever since (people have been calling me by my name - not my deadname - for almost 7 years, I introduce myself using my actual name anyway so nobody really gets my name wrong anyway). I remember what it felt like to hear someone refer to you using pronouns that do actually apply for you. This couples story reminded me of similar moments between my boyfriend and I. I'm so happy for these two. They look so happy and seem to make a wonderful couple.

  • @Penguin_Animates
    @Penguin_Animates5 жыл бұрын

    I KNOW WHO JAMIE IS! he's helped me through my own transition

  • @elliot8588

    @elliot8588

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same :)

  • @ashened_1256

    @ashened_1256

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah he really helped me figure things out about myself and how I feel. :)

  • @idrankthemilk9870

    @idrankthemilk9870

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same , I’ve learned who I really am because of him .

  • @confuseddiluc4972

    @confuseddiluc4972

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same! But my mom thinks trans people can convert cis into trans :/

  • @okalright3941

    @okalright3941

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@branielsolano8358 nope

  • @SeymourDisapproves
    @SeymourDisapproves4 жыл бұрын

    As someone who has watched Jamie and Shaaba's content and has heard their story from them, the title of this video feels purposefully inflammatory and clickbaity.

  • @NoName-ld7gg

    @NoName-ld7gg

    4 жыл бұрын

    I mean.... it’s a worldwide TV show w/ a KZread channel, what’d you expect?

  • @librabearxox7470

    @librabearxox7470

    3 жыл бұрын

    I thought the same thing. It implies that Jamie changed his gender so that they could be together, not that Jamie was a closeted trans male beforehand.

  • @noorykorky5056

    @noorykorky5056

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@librabearxox7470 Oh, I didn't realize that implication existed... oof That is so horrific and yet so invisible... Hmm... 🤨

  • @conlon4332

    @conlon4332

    5 ай бұрын

    Really? I watch them too but I didn't think so. What's your problem with it?

  • @AJ-kk9xi
    @AJ-kk9xi3 жыл бұрын

    I have a lot I want to say, but I don't even know where to begin, so I'll just mention that some of these comments are disgusting. Jamie is a guy, and trans people are valid and should be treated as the gender they identify as. As someone who identifies as non-binary, and has been through a lot of mental health struggles because of the fact that I appear too feminine, people saying things like "if you are born a woman you will always be a woman" or "if you are born a man you will always be a man" is incredibly saddening and angering for me. It shows such a horrible understanding of biology and gender identity. Sending my love to everyone who identifies as something other than their birth sex. You are valid, don't let people try to tell you otherwise

  • @joellundstrom6477

    @joellundstrom6477

    3 жыл бұрын

    PREACH sibling!

  • @bru2298

    @bru2298

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank u. I'm a unike person so stop trying to tell me that I'm something that I'm not just because of my body. God bless (:.

  • @Dartanian-sc3ej

    @Dartanian-sc3ej

    2 жыл бұрын

    I bet you practiced that speech

  • @AJ-kk9xi

    @AJ-kk9xi

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Dartanian-sc3ej Ah sorry, didn't hear about the new rule that the longer a comment is, the more invalid it is. But I'm guessing that's only true to you if you disagree with its point

  • @lisachatham8690

    @lisachatham8690

    2 жыл бұрын

    I was born female and identify as female but I also was born with a overabundance of testosterone. I grow a beard and had many issues with getting pregnant and other things. So to say you are born as what you are meant to be infuriates me because although I am female and identifying as female I have many male characteristics. It made my life hell and in my book if you are happy and have no body disphoria then no one else has any right to say anything about it!!!! LET PEOPLE BE HAPPY WITH LIFE AND THEIR BODY!!!!!

  • @erinchillmusic8930
    @erinchillmusic89303 жыл бұрын

    OMG. I didn’t know much about transgender before stumbling apon these videos a few days ago. This video had me in tears. So romantic and sweet. Best of luck to this beautiful couple. Marrying your best friend! What a blessing. And Jamie looks completely male. I would have never known if I didn’t know the back story. Please post your wedding videos!

  • @PCmonke
    @PCmonke5 жыл бұрын

    Omg he was litteraly born to be a trans guy look at him he is so damn handsome

  • @chris-od5cd

    @chris-od5cd

    5 жыл бұрын

    what?

  • @chaolinchao8332

    @chaolinchao8332

    5 жыл бұрын

    That's disturbing

  • @marchforth3515

    @marchforth3515

    5 жыл бұрын

    I mean... well he /was/ born to be a trans guy lmao

  • @tealafoster2334

    @tealafoster2334

    5 жыл бұрын

    ?

  • @moustache1411

    @moustache1411

    5 жыл бұрын

    She's*

  • @rutituti678
    @rutituti6785 жыл бұрын

    I wouldn't have known had I not watched this. He looks great. Good looking couple. Best wishes

  • @cazturr

    @cazturr

    5 жыл бұрын

    That’s a she lol.

  • @rutituti678

    @rutituti678

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@cazturr I respect your opinion. Our views may be similar but in regards to other people's lives it's not my business to dictate how they should or shouldn't live..whether I believe it's "right " or not.

  • @sadyeehaw4986

    @sadyeehaw4986

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@screechingonions2365 y'all big mad

  • @pinkpink-kb6dl

    @pinkpink-kb6dl

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@screechingonions2365 watch contrapoints video on pronouns. We dont use pronouns based on genitals in real life. You would have to check every person before you used a pronoun if pronouns are based off genetalia. Pronouns are a verbal tool to identify someone. Its practical, not biological.

  • @cazturr

    @cazturr

    5 жыл бұрын

    He*

  • @lenkavisnich4228
    @lenkavisnich42282 жыл бұрын

    If they happy together,how we can judge them?They both so adorable 🥰

  • @varnavenu8995
    @varnavenu89953 жыл бұрын

    Their bonding is soo pure n genuine ❤️

  • @cjd3053
    @cjd30534 жыл бұрын

    trans people living their best lives make me so happy. I am very trans and very sleep-deprived and tearing up because love and acceptance is beautiful!!!

  • @NoName-ld7gg

    @NoName-ld7gg

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m an insomniac myself, lol. But I hope you get some sleep soon!

  • @idiomatic444

    @idiomatic444

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @sunxxso4438

    @sunxxso4438

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am not trans but all love to them, I feel happy seeing people become who they are meant to be and seeing them happy♥️ they deserve to be accepted and loved

  • @archaichermit3566

    @archaichermit3566

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Brennon bennett lmao biological sex and gender aren’t the same. Gender is all in your head.

  • @archaichermit3566

    @archaichermit3566

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Brennon bennett apparently you struggle to even grasp that concept

  • @zrszrs2405
    @zrszrs24055 жыл бұрын

    Can we please talk about how Shaaba has the most beautiful hair on KZread though?

  • @jankyjeans7203

    @jankyjeans7203

    5 жыл бұрын

    Screamin' Icecream Demon it’s so thick and shiny and wavy 😍 hair goals!!!

  • @Buttersweet1

    @Buttersweet1

    5 жыл бұрын

    Meh

  • @lnlyby_yt

    @lnlyby_yt

    5 жыл бұрын

    You haven’t seen many KZreadrs hairs hun

  • @WillyEckaslike

    @WillyEckaslike

    5 жыл бұрын

    maybe but she still has a fat behind

  • @ingiewingie

    @ingiewingie

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@WillyEckaslike Which is very, very nice to look at 😍🍑

  • @loism1965
    @loism19653 жыл бұрын

    Jaime was in the wrong body from day 1. He has many male characteristics starting with his height. I'm happy for them because they compliment each other well.

  • @martindehavilland-fox3175
    @martindehavilland-fox31752 жыл бұрын

    I don't think I've ever heard a story more that proves love conquers all. My heart is with you and may you have all the luck in the World!

  • @justsomerandomfangirl6084
    @justsomerandomfangirl60845 жыл бұрын

    Is it wrong I was confused about who was the transgender at first 😂 they are both a gorgeous couple 💖

  • @Princess_Belle_

    @Princess_Belle_

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@SCP_173 rude

  • @nekura

    @nekura

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@SCP_173 ikr

  • @leenoorhazellepcha3241

    @leenoorhazellepcha3241

    5 жыл бұрын

    Namjoon’s Left Man Tiddy same same even I was thinking maybe it’s the girl, never thought it was the guy tho 🙈

  • @sojagul29st

    @sojagul29st

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @bukankeseharianfitri6513

    @bukankeseharianfitri6513

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yea, jamie's kinda cute lol

  • @olivia4394
    @olivia43944 жыл бұрын

    Okay, this is my issue with their relationship.. Why the f*ck is their ketchup on the shelf and not in the fridge?!?

  • @georgeofakind1710

    @georgeofakind1710

    4 жыл бұрын

    you're an offender if you put ketchup in the fridge

  • @olivia4394

    @olivia4394

    4 жыл бұрын

    GeorgeOfAKind the bottle literally says refrigerate after opening

  • @eriktheparadiseman3746

    @eriktheparadiseman3746

    4 жыл бұрын

    Vegan Squared do you want cold, lumpy ketchup? Or smooth, room temp ketchup? I’d say it’s a matter of preference. No disrespect

  • @olivia4394

    @olivia4394

    4 жыл бұрын

    Erik TheParadise Man tbh I don’t even like ketchup, but it says to be refrigerated for health reasons...

  • @eriktheparadiseman3746

    @eriktheparadiseman3746

    4 жыл бұрын

    Vegan Squared fair enough.

  • @moremartin320
    @moremartin320 Жыл бұрын

    What are beautiful couple. Thanks for sharing. I'm glad to hear that your familys eventually accepted you too as a couple. Love always wins! ❤️

  • @ashurholt29
    @ashurholt292 жыл бұрын

    Jammiedodger is honestly one of my favourite trans KZreadrs because I love his story and how he has grown being trans and how he inspires other people, especially young trans people.

  • @Ye1diamondOfficial

    @Ye1diamondOfficial

    Жыл бұрын

    Indeed

  • @xenanimates3188
    @xenanimates31884 жыл бұрын

    i literally screamed "JAMMIE!" when i saw him He is one of my fav trans youtubers

  • @schuhschrank947

    @schuhschrank947

    4 жыл бұрын

    He is one of my favorite youtubers!

  • @HSdirectioner5

    @HSdirectioner5

    4 жыл бұрын

    Literally, I love him so much

  • @XtremeDestroyer

    @XtremeDestroyer

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@hanscrou8733 him*

  • @totallyoutofit6989

    @totallyoutofit6989

    2 жыл бұрын

    same! :D

  • @lightrayy

    @lightrayy

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @progressivepagan5575
    @progressivepagan55755 жыл бұрын

    God, they make a perfect couple. Definite relationship goals

  • @ph4ntomsoldier

    @ph4ntomsoldier

    5 жыл бұрын

    lol, you're funny.

  • @wynn7110

    @wynn7110

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@OhItsJustMe2 I am ashamed of you and who brought you up. Are you aware people like us, transgender people, are transgender because when we were physically in our mothers womb, our brains developed to be more like the other gender. Whatever gender you two are, Jamie had got more heart and soul then you two combined x10. People like you disgust me. It's 2019 people, plus, Jamie being trans isn't affecting you. If it's bothering you two so DARN much then don't watch him. For people like me, I find his information very useful. I could never imagine people like you on this earth. Shame

  • @wynn7110

    @wynn7110

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@toomuchtruth Same to you, your the one who is mentally ill for rooting about in other people's business and judging them for who they truly are. I find such shame in this behaviour

  • @kazs6529

    @kazs6529

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@OhItsJustMe2 Please...please...PLEASE...don't have children!!!!!!!!!! Save this world!

  • @progressivepagan5575

    @progressivepagan5575

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@toomuchtruth "Can't have real sex"? Damn, your sex life must be vanilla as hell. Sex is way, way more than "penis goes in hole". Which, he had bottom surgery, so yeah... he can do that too!

  • @Phoenix-tq7cs
    @Phoenix-tq7cs3 жыл бұрын

    He looks so cute. If I won't know his channel I won't be able that he is transman. A lots of Love from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @Silesia-uv4de

    @Silesia-uv4de

    2 жыл бұрын

    She not he

  • @billgatesballsack

    @billgatesballsack

    2 жыл бұрын

    Also thanks for being so kind, sending love from amarica! ❤

  • @YogeshKumar-kf3yl
    @YogeshKumar-kf3yl3 жыл бұрын

    8:12 Jamie saying "We are Planning on getting married next year" and this video was released on 2nd May 2019 made me Laugh out loud I mean he has no idea what's about to come it's so cute lol... My new hobby is watching people before 2020 making plans for 2020...

  • @theolestersmith8701
    @theolestersmith87015 жыл бұрын

    It’s so great seeing all the positive comments ... usually don’t get that on these sorts of videos

  • @love.wildly.live.fearlessly

    @love.wildly.live.fearlessly

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been sitting reading through comments for like 20 minutes looking for one bad and I haven’t found one yet. Every other barcroft show always has a mix of both and and good but Jamie and Shaaba have such peaceful souls I feel like no matter if you hate transgender people you’d still find Jamie and Shaaba adorable and in full blown love even after all these years together.

  • @africaisacontinent2149

    @africaisacontinent2149

    4 жыл бұрын

    They are clearly being deleted but hey "facts don't care abt ur feelings "

  • @neftana8

    @neftana8

    4 жыл бұрын

    Almost all barcroft videos has such toxic comments. Im glad this one doesnt

  • @stobit6040

    @stobit6040

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@love.wildly.live.fearlessly Sigh, I know right, but there are a bunch of hate comments and fights in the comments, when you click the replies, people just be goin' 'bout either insulting Jaime, Being rascist, Calling people mental and more :( :( :( :(

  • @HSdirectioner5

    @HSdirectioner5

    4 жыл бұрын

    Idk, I’m seeing a LOT of bad comments..

  • @itstoorainy
    @itstoorainy5 жыл бұрын

    these two are very clearly the definition of soul mates. no matter what bodies you are made in, you still find each other.

  • @unknownusername5111

    @unknownusername5111

    5 жыл бұрын

    1000% accurate comment. That's so sweet

  • @rutituti678

    @rutituti678

    5 жыл бұрын

    Wow... Said beautifully 😍

  • @betha.6279
    @betha.62793 жыл бұрын

    This was a very informative and sweet story. Thank you for sharing!

  • @withsarangpriyos7329
    @withsarangpriyos73292 жыл бұрын

    Love has no boundaries. Happy pride month loves, and I'm proud of you all🏳‍🌈❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @pashley2135
    @pashley21355 жыл бұрын

    Jamieee omggg. I didn't think he'd ever do one of these

  • @Genesisramseyy

    @Genesisramseyy

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lil Ashley u know him ?

  • @pashley2135

    @pashley2135

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Genesisramseyy lol he's a KZreadr I watch

  • @rayindahay

    @rayindahay

    5 жыл бұрын

    I think I saw one of his vids a while back but I'm not sure - but this is so sweet

  • @pompompurinsbutthole

    @pompompurinsbutthole

    5 жыл бұрын

    he was on buzzfeed too and he’s a cool guy

  • @autistic_gaymer

    @autistic_gaymer

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@cazturr hey can you get your unwanted comments outta here thanks

  • @cloudisred
    @cloudisred5 жыл бұрын

    *You can tell that they're soulmates*

  • @SuperButterflies20

    @SuperButterflies20

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bang Yongguk's shiny black perm 100%

  • @JuMixBoox
    @JuMixBoox Жыл бұрын

    Their wedding looked so beautiful! I think they were really surrounded by people that loved them. Although when Shaaba talked about people RSVPing yes and then cancelling last minute to show their disapproval of the relationship and hurt them emotionally and financially and about how she thought she wouldn't be allowed wedding henna, I got a bit teary-eyed. I also didn't see her twin sister in the wedding vlogs yet, but hopefully they were there and just not in camera.

  • @ommeloise6309

    @ommeloise6309

    Жыл бұрын

    Well, Jamie did talk about gender ideology with Shaaba’s younger sisters when they were only 9 years old. Then exploited it for views. I can see that possibly being a problem with the family.

  • @vexologist

    @vexologist

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ommeloise6309 how did he exploit it, per se? he posted *one* cute video on the matter, and most likely with the parents’ permission as well. when thinking of family issues, I think the *disapproval* of the *relationship* falls less on the topic of a 4 year old KZread video and more on their opinions on Jaime being trans. Also, if blatantly wrong gender stereotypes can be forced onto children, so can the idea of expressing yourself comfortably.

  • @Sparkl4860
    @Sparkl48603 жыл бұрын

    I truly love this story and I wish you both only happiness. Thank you for sharing this story.

  • @lindseyh9048
    @lindseyh90485 жыл бұрын

    Why is their ketchup not in the fridge? Do people not keep it in the refrigerator? Having I been doing this all wrong? I’m questioning my whole life now.

  • @rysquid

    @rysquid

    5 жыл бұрын

    Literally never heard of ketchup in the fridge. Not sure how I would feel dipping my food in chilled ketchup lmao

  • @user-rc1my2xc3s

    @user-rc1my2xc3s

    5 жыл бұрын

    If you're going to take a while to use it up: fridge. But it's fine to have it at room temperature.

  • @miffy888

    @miffy888

    5 жыл бұрын

    You are doing it right, they are doing it wrong

  • @theviewer6889

    @theviewer6889

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@rysquid That's the only place I've ever seen ketchup. Maybe it's a British thing?

  • @michaelandrews4323

    @michaelandrews4323

    5 жыл бұрын

    I asked my mom why we don’t keep ours in the fridge even though that’s what the bottle says. She replied “You go through it so quickly there’s no point” lol. We’ve never had ketchup expire on us so I guess it doesn’t matter.

  • @idkman6403
    @idkman64034 жыл бұрын

    This reminds me of my girlfriend and I. I haven't started my transition yet though, but once I told my her my pronouns were he/him she never messed up once. We've been dating three years now

  • @TiffLane

    @TiffLane

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sounds like you've got you a Shabba lol you better keep her. Jk 😂

  • @karen5916

    @karen5916

    2 жыл бұрын

    Awww ! My gf and I are both trans too ❤️

  • @EstebanW-zu8xb

    @EstebanW-zu8xb

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Iksvomid wow bro really your gonna pull that out you got anything better to do like I dunno go make some babies cry maybe push a old lady down some stairs or something

  • @navreetkaursidhu5042

    @navreetkaursidhu5042

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm sure you gf loves you to the moon and you are a courageous man yourself. I hope you guys don't face many hurdles or hatred tho. We love you!

  • @Ye1diamondOfficial

    @Ye1diamondOfficial

    Жыл бұрын

    Epic wish you a great transition when you decide too medically then

  • @lastwesker6384
    @lastwesker63843 жыл бұрын

    Rofl at the transphobes and other bigots in the comments. Can't imagine how compressed your brains feel because you choose to be so narrowminded. Love to the other fans of Jammie and Shaaba, as well as to those who are simply part of or support the LGBTQ+ community. Love truly does conquer.

  • @katieamarsh
    @katieamarsh3 жыл бұрын

    What a sweet and loving couple. I’m glad her mom came around and can love her som in law. 💕

  • @pratikshadas
    @pratikshadas5 жыл бұрын

    Isn’t Jamie the guy who made that video of him transitioning by taking selfies everyday. That was an amazing video. This too. Lots of love to them xx

  • @febs3501

    @febs3501

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes, it's that him..

  • @jofx4051

    @jofx4051

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ah yeah, I now remember that

  • @Chan-me5wg

    @Chan-me5wg

    4 жыл бұрын

    He still makes videos

  • @garnet2307
    @garnet23074 жыл бұрын

    “MY DAUGHTERS A LESBIAN” that part got me 😂

  • @marshmallowcat1889

    @marshmallowcat1889

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kyle Simpson Jamie is a guy, not a lesbian.

  • @garnet2307

    @garnet2307

    4 жыл бұрын

    Marshmallowcat18 Jamie mentioned that her mom said that in the video while laughing

  • @fabreo4041

    @fabreo4041

    4 жыл бұрын

    Y'all are stupid its a he*

  • @infernalsunflower8435

    @infernalsunflower8435

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@kylesimpson3669 Jamie is male. He may not have been born male, but his gender is male. Gender and sex are different things. Gender is mental, sex is biological and can't be changed. Look up "dysphoria" and get back to me.

  • @Tendo641

    @Tendo641

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@kylesimpson3669 even if Jamie *was* a girl (he's not, no matter how much you want to tell yourself he is) he's not even just into women. he's bisexual. so either way, you're wrong.

  • @heather000burton
    @heather000burton2 жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful couple! I love to see the happiness they share together. Such a beautiful thing. You’re both so very lucky to have found each other. I hope you both continue to live your very best life ♥️

  • @tlouitas
    @tlouitas3 жыл бұрын

    Jamie is just so wholesome though and they are so cute together it’s all around adorable

  • @jiannamariel
    @jiannamariel5 жыл бұрын

    OMG it's Jamie and Shabba! Fell in love with these two after I found Jamie's channel a few months ago.

  • @brutwhole2039

    @brutwhole2039

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ok so?

  • @silverhiker4549
    @silverhiker45494 жыл бұрын

    Ohhh I love you guys! My daughter is dating a trans girl who is currently going through transition. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈💚💚💚💚💚

  • @redwasanimposter4003

    @redwasanimposter4003

    3 жыл бұрын

    As a teen in the lgbtq community, your support for your daughter and her girlfriend almost definetly means the world to her, and I'd like to thank you for them because I don't get the same support at home. The world needs more people like you

  • @annonamous

    @annonamous

    3 жыл бұрын

    You here, are a good parent thank you .

  • @bepis602

    @bepis602

    3 жыл бұрын

    This warms my heart 🥺 thank you for accepting the both of them

  • @_Hal_9000_

    @_Hal_9000_

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are A+ Parent! Youre daughter and her boyfriend are so lucky.

  • @bepis602

    @bepis602

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@_Hal_9000_ just thought you should know! Trans girl means that the person transitioned from male to female so she would be her daughters girlfriend, not boyfriend!

  • @ChoicesGamez
    @ChoicesGamez2 жыл бұрын

    Looks good! He legit looks like he was born male, I love how happy he is with himself and how happy they are together. We have come a long way

  • @soniaxrp7353
    @soniaxrp73533 жыл бұрын

    omg im crying! beautiful couple! glad her mum came around. its hard to deprogramme yourself after years of being conditioned to think a certain way for some people.

  • @LovelyRuthie
    @LovelyRuthie4 жыл бұрын

    Cannot recommend following Jammidodger & Shaaba here on KZread, enough. They are the best kind of people

  • @art_games_and_writing9778

    @art_games_and_writing9778

    3 жыл бұрын

    me only seeing the first half of this comment: *ready to throw hands* Finishes reading the rest: Oh, never mind. Have a good day

  • @clarab325

    @clarab325

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, they’re amazing!

  • @woahitskay6514

    @woahitskay6514

    3 жыл бұрын

    I had to re-read this a couple times lmao

  • @So_Indecisive

    @So_Indecisive

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@woahitskay6514 same

  • @kmacgregor6361

    @kmacgregor6361

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah you might wanna edit to add the word 'enough'

  • @shaunmeldrum4302
    @shaunmeldrum43025 жыл бұрын

    He would fool me on the street. Wouldn't even think he was trans.

  • @paulma222

    @paulma222

    5 жыл бұрын

    Over Suga I think you misinterpreted what he said. He’s just saying he wouldn’t think he’s transgender. He never said they’re trying to fool anyone...

  • @MiVidaBellisima

    @MiVidaBellisima

    5 жыл бұрын

    Over Suga I think they were just commenting that he could pass as a cismale, not implying that his intent is to deceive.

  • @august1678

    @august1678

    5 жыл бұрын

    The point is to not know in the first place lol

  • @jenniferemmert4163

    @jenniferemmert4163

    5 жыл бұрын

    Over Suga then why are there videos of trans people seeing if they “PASS”? You’re ridiculous

  • @lauramarie8485

    @lauramarie8485

    5 жыл бұрын

    I know right my mind is blown man that is just wow

  • @miewrath
    @miewrath2 жыл бұрын

    OH I LOVE JAMIE AND THERES AN EPISODE AAAA I’M - time to death my life is complete

  • @SCP096.
    @SCP096.2 жыл бұрын

    It’s Jamie!

  • @vincentrose2212
    @vincentrose22125 жыл бұрын

    Some people are shook about Jamie being trans, happy and living life just like anyone else meanwhile I'm sitting here like "Jamie's mum is Scottish I had no idea?!" O0O XD

  • @aidenoliver1681

    @aidenoliver1681

    5 жыл бұрын

    Literally same!

  • @oliviaroberts5673

    @oliviaroberts5673

    5 жыл бұрын

    Omg Yes! itwas such an unexpected !

  • @swift104

    @swift104

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same😂

  • @ChristianDeHadleigh

    @ChristianDeHadleigh

    5 жыл бұрын

    Both his parents are Scottish

  • @Schneeeulenwetter

    @Schneeeulenwetter

    5 жыл бұрын

    wait, so are the two known? bc this is the first video i ever saw

  • @Aj-ov2sz
    @Aj-ov2sz5 жыл бұрын

    His KZread channel is Jammidodger. Seriously suggest checking it out he and Shaaba are amazing 😊

  • @aneeshachacko2127

    @aneeshachacko2127

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank youuu !!!

  • @septentrionalem

    @septentrionalem

    5 жыл бұрын

    I thought he looked so familiar. I have already seen a video of him, but I forgot his channel name. Thank you!

  • @av2319

    @av2319

    5 жыл бұрын

    With your suggestion, I checked their channel.. They r AMAZING. Thank you ❤

  • @swift104

    @swift104

    5 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been watching him forever. Amazing 😁

  • @twitch6664

    @twitch6664

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Flower8 shhhhhhhh

  • @iwannaleave7504
    @iwannaleave7504 Жыл бұрын

    Shaaba: if only you were a guy I'd marry you straight away Jamie: good news

  • @arpitachokroborty381
    @arpitachokroborty3813 жыл бұрын

    My heart is filled with joy learning about you two.a great kinship was oozing out.I can feel it.may you always cherish each other.wishing you a great bliss.love from.india

  • @purplerain1848
    @purplerain18485 жыл бұрын

    Gosh she’s gorgeous with those beautiful locks and I just love their accents 💜💜💜💜!

  • @mr.joshua204

    @mr.joshua204

    5 жыл бұрын

    He

  • @coltonthebeast4372

    @coltonthebeast4372

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@zoey118 he isn't a she

  • @briana_patrick

    @briana_patrick

    5 жыл бұрын

    Shes talking about the girl..

  • @elisewoodworth7323

    @elisewoodworth7323

    5 жыл бұрын

    They were talking about his fiance, who is still female and whos pronouns are she/her..

  • @loveyourselfbts2439

    @loveyourselfbts2439

    5 жыл бұрын

    Y’all got me weak . She talking about the girl, girl.

  • @afergie76
    @afergie763 жыл бұрын

    Damn, let them be who they were born to be. Jamie was born to be a man, he just didn’t have the right vessel.

  • @irisfilmproductions

    @irisfilmproductions

    3 жыл бұрын

    He's not a celestial being lmao

  • @Robins_tea

    @Robins_tea

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@macscott2458 actually he was born a man lmao. He's always been a man

  • @Robins_tea

    @Robins_tea

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@macscott2458 he actually doesnt have woman parts anymore, and trust me, he's happier than ever

  • @Robins_tea

    @Robins_tea

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@macscott2458 this is the better way. And actually depression and suicide rates DO decline after transitioning. Also tho there are some risks to transitioning, there's no pleasure loss overall.. And he did have a lot of therapy before transitioning. It's literally not allowed to medically transition without therapy beforehand. People arent going around transitioning for fun, its often nessicary for their mental health. Jamey actually made a lot of useful videos about this, I suggest you watch them. A lot of the things you mentioned are common misconceptions

  • @Robins_tea

    @Robins_tea

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@macscott2458 Im tired right now but Ill cite my scientific sources tomorrow when I wake up. One of my best friends is transgender so I've seen pretty closely how it all works.. He needs months if not years of gender therapy before he'll be allowed on testosterone and before he can have bottom surgery. Maybe thats a difference in countries? I'll have to look into that first. Goodnight

  • @beetlejuicebeetlejuicebeet3232
    @beetlejuicebeetlejuicebeet32323 жыл бұрын

    I watched Jamie before this and I was kind of excited that he got his own episode with his wife!

  • @Hana-su7zg
    @Hana-su7zg3 жыл бұрын

    omg theyr such a sweet sweet couple. I wish them all the happiness in the world. Shaaba is so beautiful too, absolutely gorgeous .