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@danielndai427

2 жыл бұрын

Pp0

@Lissa.__0089

2 жыл бұрын

000 pp 0l lol opp

@eunicekirigo56

Жыл бұрын

000000ll Po l

Me I left home at 18yrs.at 24yrs Nikaoa ,at 27yrs I had 2 children.now at 2*.sasa Niko na mali yangu settlement and Gari and affording three meals a day.wonderful to God .

Mom needs to let her son to depend on himself ajue nyumba hilipwa, ajisimamie mambo yake. If he dont work to get food he will go hungry for a day, the second day he wil work to get it. Ati pocket money at 28 na anaenda tu kukunywa huko?

Mwanake ucio ni gitunio, kwaja kuhea heo mbia onagara itithiraga nadaranogera, ira mutumia usio darateithia Njenga onahanini

@kate4kanini

2 жыл бұрын

Kabisa.

@jaynemevo1297

2 жыл бұрын

I agree

@cecilianjogu6249

2 жыл бұрын

Nampea akifanya kazi

@janewanjiru6533

11 ай бұрын

​@@cecilianjogu6249,

The problem is you are trying to fill the gap you didn't raise him but it's not going to work because he is taking advantage of you .....you can take him to rehab then you do canceling together that way you can bond and build relationship slowly by slowly..you are a good mother and you are doing what you think it's right and he is behaving like a child because he is finally with his mom he doesn't hate you ...I'm sure he is a good son ☺️☺️

Waheo ciana njega na njathiki ni tha CIA jehovah

Mother you have spoilt your son. He keeps coming back to you, because you are always there for him.

The problem is not Njenga and alcohol....its you, mother.

Well done Symo K very practical advice to mum.ona mukuru nieragwo no kurumwo atarumagwo.🛐✝️✍🏽🙏🏽📖📖🙌🏽🙏🏽

I understand the mother's love, it's hard to see your son suffer. BUT mum you should understand the best love you can give your child is prepare him for tomorrow. Life is unpredictable kesho hatujui mahali tutakuwa. Simo is correct tough love is the best gift you would ever give to your child. Aende ajitafutie from scratch akilala njaa leo kesho the next day akili zitaamka aanze kujipanga.

@cecilianjogu6249

2 жыл бұрын

Kweri

Mom niahe wira ngire njenga eno namanga ndimihurite haro njeke ta uthi, nie ndaumire hee aciari akwa ndina miaka 23

@mikembugua2079

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

Mwanake ucio nimutuniye,muno ni mum washana na huyo kijana

I must share with my dad hii story just to appreciate him coz he would take us to good schools then ukimaliza he would literally chase us and we thought it was bad but now I understand coz he was teaching us to be grown and fight with world.I love you daddy

Symo ira nyina wa Njenga ethe councilor na kuma hau aingate kimwana kiu gwake ..ni kunana niundu wa guikara a comfort zone

Njenga is badly brought up...he doesn't know the meaning of the word poverty, Mum yes he's your son but he must man up. Let him be independent huyo ni mwanaume mzima. And if he's an alcoholic he can be taken to rehab.

@kate4kanini

2 жыл бұрын

The mother is referring to him as 'ka njenga', like he is still in diapers.

@cecilianjogu6249

2 жыл бұрын

Sawa

Mama Njenga I am way older than you, so please listen: Symo is giving you a truth you don't want to hear - you are a problem too. You are justifying every correction point Symo brings up. You are actually very defensive of your position. I'm sorry to tell you that YOU ARE THE ENABLER. Yenda mùno ìkùraga rùrìra. Ngai akuonekanìrè.

@kate4kanini

2 жыл бұрын

Very true.

@florencekariuki6232

2 жыл бұрын

Pray for him and leave him in the hands of the Lord eat and sleep tight he is taking advantage of be careful next he shall bit you for your money earlier the better love him but you are spoiling him

Let him go to rehab first there is counselling sessions, but keep praying for him,let him stand on his own so that he can be responsible, he is still young he can put his life together if he want there is still room for improvement all the best mom

So sorry Wanjogu.. A very hardworking mum here in namanga, mungu atakupigania, namanga sijui kuna roho gani ya pombe.. njenga needs prayers n mpelekeni rehab

Pole mum woyee na vile umejitolea kusaidia huyo kijana,Na sisi huku ni kustruggle kai guthiaga atia maa.

The boy needs counseling, the actions of parents affects the children, it is good you are repenting on his behalf , keep on praying for him.

Huyo mtoto mwishowe atamua mamake coz ya kumbembelezwa .....Mama unalea nyoka hapo.fukuza yeye akakufie mbali.

its hard for many women to be strick on their children.dont blame mama njogu. its hard, very hard. i know this woman though i dont know njenga. but she tries. kikuyu saying- mundurume ni mugambo. the presence of a dad is voice is very important. i was also chased by my dad. he told me to stay very far from him and neither could i go home to mum. i decided to go to mombasa and looked for a college and we became friends with dad again. otherwise i could have been a a pain in the neck in my family if dad was not tough. symo- your advice is good. let mama njenga take a step , although its difficult. especialy for a woman parent. pole mama njogu.

Big up Symo wakiaria ta athuri atano maikariire njug'wa

Ooh waoh,1st time to see someone I know on this interviews! Pole Cecilia wa Njogu.

@cecilianjogu6249

2 жыл бұрын

Asante

At 28 there are Men who are still relying on their parents upkeep Mama Njenga accept what Symo has told you niutunitie Njenga ATI unaenda kumuamsha wwcha aamshwe na shida zake.

Mom let him go stop spoiling Njenga

Mum, why let this boy control you mpaka hukuli ,leave them ata huyo dadake she is not wise kwani you have strong shock absorbers than their dad who raised them brainwashing them.wakwende ukae na njogu who this dad discriminated.

Ucio mwanake ndangiteithika tondu wa kuhuritaniyo na mum wao. Very sad he needs rehab and counseling sessions to help and support with prayers and fasting and delivarence before it's too late 📖🙋🛐🙏🏽😭

May God have mercy on us

Symo very good advice 👍. Niathie agacarie ta arume aria angi!

Woooi hakuna kama Mama may God hear your prayers mama Njenga 👏

Mother, you have SPOILT your son PERIOD. Mother you are an enemy to your son not a friend. You don't like him, because, you are messing him up.

@Janekenda9

2 жыл бұрын

@Line Wangui, I agree with you 100%. Hii ni upendo ya kuharibu. The mother should not be guilty of her marriage not working, she did her best and now that the children or this Njenga knows her mother's pain, he tries to hide under the shadow of this pain. Well, it might have impacted on his mental health and emotional health while growing up but he should be faced with the reality that he is now an adult and choices have consequences. The mother faced challenges, but she made lemonade out of it and slowly picked her pieces. Why inflict more pain to her while she has healed and moved on? This guy has been baby sat, and he knows the mother will always look for him..

@jaynemevo1297

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you 💯 per cent, tough love works , it worked with me.

@wanduikamau7458

2 жыл бұрын

He is using reverse psychology against the mum ati mnanichukia and the mum let,s it affect her

Nilifukuzwa home at the age of 17 nikiwa na mtoi wa 2 years. Greetings from Ludwigshafen Germany

Dependency can be chronic. Mother's become victims of such children because of their nurturing nature. Children with such behaviour should be ashamed of themselves. They are sheer exploiters

Pia Mimi napitia hio stress watoto wangu wame gro kwa baba yao.. wame lundi juzi kwangu but mambo na pitia ni mungu too

@cecilianjogu6249

2 жыл бұрын

Mungu akupe nguvu

Umemuongelesha vizuri symo .

We will pray for him. Be blessed mummy. U have tried

She needs to let her son work for himself and know how to manage his own money, Mom there’s tomorrow what about if you not there? You’re spoiling your son!

@cecilianjogu6249

2 жыл бұрын

Sawa

Mama. Please don't spoil your son. "You are the cause of all this.

Waiting. Pole sana mum.

Mimi kijana yangu alinipeleka kwa chief ati simpi food nilambiia chief hata bibilia imesema lazy bones wasipewa chakula na nikamuacha nikaenda majuu Sasa akitaka pesa lazima kwanza anifanyie kazi ndio apate yangu imagn siku Ile utamnyima utaona Kanyoni WA Ngethe

This is the way to go symo. Good advice.

Symo umeuliza a good question that I intended to ask Am a mother of adults, I have passed through the same but I became hard to them and I know what am saying. The rest is history

Please mother, you spoilt your son You gave him food, even when he was working and could feed himself.

@salomenewsome4188

2 жыл бұрын

He grew up with dad

@florenceflora5031

2 жыл бұрын

No.hiyo ni sauti ya Guka yake akirudi kwao atabadirika

I'm sure the other lady was jealousy that's why she was conspiring with your husband be careful with friends

Symo....umepeana very good advice.

Ooh my dear, i feel for this lady, l feel her pains, The Dad needs to be in this guy's life, like live close to him, it is well, keep praying,

@cecilianjogu6249

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks

@stephenwainaina1573

Жыл бұрын

Uyo Jamaa anahjty counseling

Symo k.that is a good piece of counsel to her son!!!.

I'm talking through experience my son was like that for many years wakati nili mwekea cavew now he is standing like a man

Pole sana village mate

Mugambo mi muru muno wacha arudi kwao juu ya sauti ya guka yake am witness wangu nilimuacha juu.ya.hiyo sauti na ako sawa

It shall be well, mama Njenga.

Pole sana

NDUGU ZANGU WALILIGAIWA, MASHAMBA, NA BADO WANAISHI, KWA WAZA NA WAMEZEEKA, WAKO JUU YA 60YEARS,

Symo good advice bro!

Mwanake usio orire gwa ithe tondu nionire mami wao niaramunyita muuno niguo njenga niasoke gwi ithe asoke eritire wira atekuheo onaki ethukumire

Tough ❤️....love, works, l did that with my son, ako poa sasa.

I thank God because I know this mother she is a very hard working mother in manga town

That is guilt tripping by the daughter and father and he needs to be shown the door to grow up 📖🙋✝️🛐🙏🏽

Sometimes wanaume huharibu watoto then wanawatuma wa wanawake kuwasubua may God remember you mama

@cecilianjogu6249

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks my sister

Symo that's the best advice. Hugo mama amedekeza njenga

Symonds umeongea vizuri sana this lady akusikize huruma yake ina mumess mwanawe.She seems to listen to people's opinions.God bless ha

Nowadays earth is different. May God bless you mom

May God fight for you mama This looks like venye tu umesema mugambo wa guka wao...

@cecilianjogu6249

2 жыл бұрын

Mungu yupo

May be the boy was spoiled by the step mother, pray

Symo that’s a totally solid advice to the mom

What you need is to pray for your son's and daughter cos those second wife they come to destroy you and your kids.

@cecilianjogu6249

2 жыл бұрын

Nikweri

Ngoma inanagio niguthijiro let him be a man

Helping your son at this age will only make him dependant. Keep him off your property strictly, don't set any business for him now, do it when he reforms. Haki wamama kuchezewa na watoto.

That's a grown up person

You are creating an environment of him being supported by you. You have spoiled him. You have refused to let him being responsible thinking you will look a responsible and loving mother. Take him to rehab first. But let go.

Waah! This lady is my neigbour in my working place ,,, ifeel for you mama njogu bur at the same look for acouncellor to guide your son but also you have tought your son the wrong way of life let him go and hussle like other men bur hyo yakumpea food , pesa nani mtu mzima si mgojwa na ako abled apana , anyway all the best and may njenga reform and stop giving you sleepless night .

Symo I second you.

Mother's love is special but sometimes love yourself first. My mum has high blood pressure coz of my brother.

@benjaminnderitu4616

Жыл бұрын

same here,mlifanya aje?

Thank you SYMO I feel sorry for this lady. One from the beginning of the whole story this lady is the one enabling her son. He is a grown young man he should be taking care straggling like the mother is doing. Rehab first before buying all what you are planning to do. He has to change let him hit the rock bottom. Sorry mum your love is not helping. Don't feel guilt for those talks.

@mirriamwanja1085

2 жыл бұрын

Pole mama njogu kwa yale jenga amekupitisha,naelewa huruma ya mama kwa mtoto Lakini usijali Mungu yupo na ana uwezo wa kubadilisha.

Njenga enagikundi kiuru kia raha na dawa Ngai aromiririkana

May God bless u more hugs mum symo ranjoz alienda wapi we miss him 👋 👋

@cecilianjogu6249

2 жыл бұрын

Asante

May God bless mum, it's well, But I think your son needs some sort of help as he is drinking and using miraa, his age does not matter when it come to addiction, As you suggested could be his dad might support him or even take him to rehad and also check about that voice you mentioned, good luck mum!

A twenty seven year old man agirirwo ni kwiikaria na ucio Ti thina waku mum ukurwara na umutige o akinyua macohi make

Mum Niko side ya symo Njenga ni mwanaume wewe niwe uratuma anyue juu Hana kitu ya kufanya na pesa utamlipa nyumba mpaka lini mum akuna mtu hapendi mtoto yake mache apelekane na wanaume you have done ur part

Njenga is extremely a spoiled child, he needs the earth's lessons.

Hapo symo umemsaidia sana

Spare the rod,spoil the child.A kid should never call the shots,a parent should always take charge. You spoilt the boy..The moment he started to disrespect you,that's when he was supposed to be kicked out of your fold.Afterall he was over 18'

Always waiting to hear from you symo k. Your show is the most watched vernacular show recently. Thank you for the inspiring stories

@SYMOK_OFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks alot May God bless you

@essymumjay2492

2 жыл бұрын

for real btw ata tuko sai wanatoa story uku

@SYMOK_OFFICIAL

2 жыл бұрын

@@essymumjay2492 Glory to God we thank God for this far

Mwanaume mzima hata hana akili kubuf yeye he should manup

Ndure mukuru mama Njenga urio minji minji.

@cecilianjogu6249

2 жыл бұрын

Sawa

I think this woman is right. Let this boy go back to his father. Why did he not allow her to carry the boy. I echo all what she's saying.

Don't ever quit praying for your child. Continue to pray for him and even after you are gone God will answer many of your prayers. Your son will never never as long as he live get away from the prayer of a praying mother and a father. Believe God don't give up.

When children are brought up on abusive environment they suffer mentally and physically and start taking drugs and alcohol to numb the pain

Am for good man see in kenya soon

Remember he have his own choice live him and world

Karega nyina nigukua gakuaga kaga gukua nyina agakua wimenyerere mum

Waciara warira ,waga urire ..kwega niku ..

@Janekenda9

2 жыл бұрын

I understand it's difficult to let go but I see this lady is the problem. She should let Njenga survive like other men. Njenga is an adult. He is solely responsible for his own sins

Symo hapa ni mamake amemuharibu kabisa he is a grown up man wacha afunzwe na ulimwengu and never compare children

Wacha ku spoil Njenga, mwambie atoke aende arakuwa na akili.

@winniemuiga4210

2 жыл бұрын

Mom is the problem not njenga

Ucio kwanza hau aiyaga, angiararaga borithi🤔

Mama njenga,,ndigûgûkua ûru,but 90% ya ciama iria ûrenda ihanîkîre njenga,niwe winasio,,accept you have failed as a mother,na ûrîa wesiragia nî wendo harî njenga nî kûmûte wamûteaga na ndwamenyaga,infact îra Ngai akuohere,,Then mûnengerane harî Ngai, literally,,ûgathie kanitha one of these days wîre Ngai,ûreciragua no icenjie njenga,but nîûramenyire it's all in vain,na no Ngai peke yake ûngîmûgarûra,,,mwîre akûrere ciana,na after that,upigane na roho ya kufkiria na njenga akiuliwa,,ikikuja,unasema kwa sauti njenga will not die but live to see the goodness of the lord in the land of the living,then ukiskia ni mlevi unasema,,Mungu atamwokoa,awe analewa na roho mtakatifu,,Yani unasema opposite ya vyenye shetani anasema,But fight the spirit of fear,,na ûtûeka mûndû wa kîgooco,nunua earphones,,weka nyimbo za kîgooco,,ukiwa job,weka earphones,,usiku,aamka na tikûhoera njenga,but kûinîra Ngai,ndûkareke njenga oe position ya Ngai,the Bible says He is a jealous God,akiona unampatia 80% of your time, yeye mwenye ndiye atakuja kukuliza kama Solomon, Cecilia what do you want,,in fact mwambie ,,Leo sijakuja kulia ama kulalamika,nimekuja kukushukuru,juu hata nifanye nini siwezi badilisha Kijana wangu hata sekunde Moja ya maisha yangu ama watoto wangu,lakini wewe uko na uwezo,that's why I'm here to worship you for who you are.kigooco nikîeheragua stress

Mama is you are too soft on the boy and trust me he will never grow. He has learned of your weakness

Uchio ni mundu mugima niatige guthumbura nyina apelekwe counseling kwanza

Mum is spoiling a grown up man and should not be entertained he needs tough love he will have to work his way out of life . God bless you mum but you are now free to enjoy life and let him grow up. Let him fight, drink and sort his rent get married and before you get high blood pressure. Kindly kick him out and let him suffer like other people. 📖🙋🙏🏽🛐🙌🏽