🔰Lesson 23: 0:00- Intro 0:40- Causes of low aspirations varies between individuals 1:50- There is a strong relationship between high aspiration and low aspiration 3:00- *1st Reason for low aspiration: The Person’s Nature* 4:40- They don't try to achieve high aspiration *This is the problem* 5:45- On one side they do not try to lift themselves, on the other side they start to go down more and more 6:30- *2nd Reason for low aspiration: The Upbringing and Nurturing at Home* 7:15- The first school is our homes 7:55- A statement of some of the scholars *The upbringing is not only a right of the children, but also a right of the society* 9:30- *If you want to succeed, divide your child's life into three* [physical, mental and spiritual] 11:30- Watch the series titled "The Muslim Family" by Ustadh Muhammad Tim: kzread.info/head/PL2dRQaGGWZOBYFF3KWlJALo5jkUBjkJnu 11:40- Nurturing three parts continued 14:35- A beautiful method of nurturing the mind 15:50- Your child should read atleast a page or something every night and a proper way to do it [Quran, Seerah of the Prophets, Sahabas, Beautiful Stories from the salaf] 17:25- Many of the children's devi_ation, destr_uctions goes back to their parents 17:35- A gem from ibn al-Qaiyyim(rahimahullah) 19:10- *A child's life is divided into three(powerful)* [regarding the age] 23:10- *A very powerful sentence we all should ponder on* 23:30- Fathers are many times responsible for their children's devia_tion [because of not giving much time, neglecting etc etc] 24:10- A sad article 24:55- Another sad event 26:45- The reality of the stars that the children are following today [rappers, musicians, singers, dancers etc] 28:20- Disciplining children through fear not a good at all [very sad] 30:00- Do not scare the children of their fathers or teachers! 31:00- We must not raise our children upon laziness and luxury *Rather teach them that nothing comes free* [steadfastness, courage and bravery dignity, sharing & caring etc are lost] 33:30- Do not nurture the children like animals that only eat and drink 34:40- We should not become too strict either! 35:40- Do not belittle the child's efforts *Show appreciation* [a story from Ustadh's life and a good lesson from it] 37:45- Do not ignore your children 38:50- Summary and conclusion

@afreenafreen6390

3 жыл бұрын

May Allah swt bless you .

@humbleuser7

3 жыл бұрын

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته اخواني I desperately need this online madrasah how can I register my self.Please help

So many parents fail. Nowadays it's all about being modern. But don't realise why their children going the wrong path.

@ThexXxXxOLOxXxXx

3 жыл бұрын

Sad but true people should learn real knowledge Islamic and otherwise, to understand the goals of these countries who chose to label themselves as liberal and secular.

May Allah destroy those who blame Islam and the prophet peace be upon him and protect and elevate the Muslim Ummah. Ameen

@luqmanjadama3856

2 жыл бұрын

May Allah guide them.

Love you for the sake of Allah

@AlMiftahulIslam

3 жыл бұрын

May Allah love you too

@tidianehaidara3907

3 жыл бұрын

Amīn

@youtubeaccount0x073

3 жыл бұрын

@@AlMiftahulIslam may Allah love you too

A lot of wisdom here. Parents need to realize the importance of the first few years of the child's upbringing and how that can shape them for life.

I'm a non somali, but you make me want to be one. Thank you Sheikh!

@nasraqaali7050

3 жыл бұрын

Masha Allah tabarakallah

@hamzamohamed6748

2 жыл бұрын

Mostly every Somali children learn Quran so well MaShaAllah.

Sobhan Allah, I don't know, how I bumped into this lecture most needed. I needed this lecture a long time ago. I have the same belief, but couldn't explain it to my wife, because she doesn't follow what I say. She listens to others.

@hz1056

Ай бұрын

Sadly this is an issue with many. But also sometimes we need to be better leaders and lead by example.

31:05 this is so important too!

15:55 very important.

MASHALLAH TABBARAKALLAH,my favourite sheikh may Allah bless u

Alhamdulillah! Such a good reminder, baarakAllaahu feek!

May Allah reward you immensely Ameen. I love you for the sake of Allah. All praise and glory is to Allah above all that is associated with him.

Jazakum Allah khair for your great efforts! One of the best episode of this series, mashAllah! I like this type of topics, so please make more videos of the tarbyyiah of the children according to the Qur'an and Sunnah.

بارك اللَّه فيكم

ماشاء اللَّه، بارك اللَّه لكما، تبارك اللَّه، اللَّه اكبر

جزاك الله خيرًا

سبحان اللّه Such a beneficial episode!! May Allah help us to nurture our children in the light of the Qur'an and Sunnah .

Barakah'Allah fiqhm

The biggest fitnah today are devices

@zeeali2565

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed. One generation ago it was TV. I mean when the child spends more time with devices than they do being raised by their parents, the device is raising their children more than their parents are. Children need different things at different stages of their development, otherwise they can be lost forever.

Peace and Blessings 🥔🥔🥔🥔🥔🥔

اللَّه اكبر

JZK Ustadh

Ya Ustadh, I have such a great love for you for the sake of Allah. May Allah bless you and your family. The end is very important. It is ok to expect to high things from our children, but if they do not succeed despite putting in their best effort, we need to show that it's appreciated. (Ex. Congratulating a 90% on their test, and not saying "why isn't it 100%. Then we have some who say "why isn't it 105%, there was extra credit")

We are losing ourselves that's why

32:30

19:13

Glory to be Allah 🥘🥘🥘🥘🥘

Jzk

heartbreaking 25:50

The recitation at start of video is beautiful. Who is the reciter and where can I hear a longer version great video

@zeiabib

3 жыл бұрын

Search Recitation of Laamiyah for the full poem recited by the ustadh

@IsaChowwPK

3 жыл бұрын

Zeinab Mohamed thank you sister

@cunugyaris6525

3 жыл бұрын

JazakaAllahu khairan for the name. I love the recitation at the beginning of the video as well and was looking for the name of it.

Report all the spam bot accounts, everyone.

@limitedquantitysufiyyahexp3913

3 жыл бұрын

Which ones?

@Onlineintrovert

3 жыл бұрын

@@limitedquantitysufiyyahexp3913 there was one spam comment on here before me.

@AlMiftahulIslam

3 жыл бұрын

@@Onlineintrovert yeah, I always try to report them Alhamdulillah! They are so much annoying! May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala protect us