Must Do's to Protect Yourself in Divorce - Men's Divorce Coach Rene Garcia

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We’re going to be discussing the 4 must do’s from the second, the very second your wife says she wants a divorce. First we begin by establishing your state of mind because experience has taught me if anything that in divorce, the one consistent emotion you’re gonna have is confusion. When getting divorced, you’re in what in military terms is called the fog of war. You don’t have any kind of situational awareness. You don’t know who’s coming at you, where they’re coming from, when or if they’ll attack nor with what. You don’t even know if you’re at war and that’s gonna cause paranoia leading to some expensive mistakes because you’re in survival mode now son and what you think is logic is just your imagination acting up. This first piece of advice is both urgent and important because it’s much more common than you think making it a complete must do because your spouse “hacking” your accounts is much more common than people think. Change your passwords on all your accounts. The next thing you have to do is acknowledge that denial is your enemy. Don’t fight it it’s only holding you back and mind messing you. Remember you’re in the fog of war, you’re going to make mistakes and this is one of them.
Chapters:
0:00 Introduction
0:19 Establish Our State of Mind
1:29 First Change Passcodes
2:40 Second Acknowledge Denial
6:20 Third Begin forming Barriers
7:33 4th Research Attorneys
10:04 How to Get a Hold of Me

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  • @Mensdivorcecoach
    @Mensdivorcecoach4 ай бұрын

    Click on link below for free 90 minute consultation. I'm not a commercial, I keep it real. I ask a lot of questions but very little about what happened in the breakup. I leave that to therapists. I ask about you, where you're at and move forward. Reach out and change your life today. Here's the Link: calendly.com/renesance/free-consultation

  • @Tstorm-il5ih
    @Tstorm-il5ih4 ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @megasoid
    @megasoid4 ай бұрын

    Great message Rene, thanks.

  • @LazAustin
    @LazAustin4 ай бұрын

    Great content, Rene! The audio feels a little off though.

  • @Mensdivorcecoach

    @Mensdivorcecoach

    4 ай бұрын

    Thanks Laz and this is a genuine question that I don't want to answer for you. In which way is the audio off? Asking because I think you know what you mean but I also don't want to assume.

  • @LazAustin

    @LazAustin

    4 ай бұрын

    @Mensdivorcecoach I actually suck at audio and video editing. So I'm not the best person to ask. But I've been watching a loooot of KZread videos lately waiting to start a new job. And most of the others are "bolder" and crisper. Like yours seems hollow, like you're really far from the microphone maybe? But i see one on yoir collar, so could be the settings or thr microphone itself. Or, more likely, there's also some reverb (maybe a slight echo?). Many I know soundproof/insulate their rooms, but many don't, so I don't know if that's it. But if it's poorly insulated or a fairly big and empty room that would explain the reverb and the boldness. It might help to put the microphone directly under your chin, that makes a big difference sometimes too. Sorry I can't be more specific, comments help the algorithm, so I thought I'd say something constructive. And I'm really rooting for your channel to get big.

  • @tbarnum6315
    @tbarnum63154 ай бұрын

    Women fall out of love months to years before they acknowledge it fully to *themselves* and pursue a divorce. So they have that stealth time to stew and prepare.

  • @JustinRyan-ct7tq

    @JustinRyan-ct7tq

    Ай бұрын

    Clearly. My wife just left me after being together for 17 years, I waited for her while she was in school for 10 years and not working, we moved out of Quebec because we don’t speak French and were struggling. She liked Ontario wasn’t to far from home but better for us. We got engaged before covid and then struggled to get out wedding planned and had to cancel it twice. Finally did 3 years later she’s leaving me now just last week. For a year I can sense her changing and becoming way more disconnected then she already was. I was so young an experienced when we met I had no point of reference as to what a healthy relationship is and missed a lot of red flags I didn’t think were important at that age. After 7 8 years range I was way to in love with her to walk away and always just felt she had a more introverted reserved personality but Apperantly she was just unhappy even tho she had 12 years to make up her mind prior to getting married and buying a house and getting a dog all within 4 years. I’m very angry that if she felt this way all along as she claims why the hell did she marry me in the first place and buy a house with me. It would have hurt had she broken up with me before all this but would have saved me a solid 5 years of my life and a lot more hardship in now dealing with

  • @stevenbaumann5911
    @stevenbaumann59114 ай бұрын

    I have watched Red Pill content for 6 years. The one thing I learned is don't get married ever. It is not worth it. There is literally no benefit for men. You have all the responsibility, but none of the authority. Your kids aren't yours, even if they biologically are yours. Men are the walking ATM in marriage, and nothing else.

  • @Mensdivorcecoach

    @Mensdivorcecoach

    4 ай бұрын

    I appreciate your comment and Red Pill was my entry point into Men's Rights but they end with "It's the system". OK, it's always something. It's always something else. "Some people don't like me because I'm short, others don't like me because I'm Latino, a few don't like me because I'm overweight, girls don't like me because I don't make money". Blah blah blah. Brother, SFW. You'll always have some kind of handicap. What I hear is that you haven't found your talent and built upon it. Your comment about kids is accurate but like I said on the video, that again means you just have to work harder and men just don't prepare as well. I hope Steve you talk to me, I hope you reach out. There's a better version of you. Please don't take my response as talking down to you that's not my intent. I just think we short change ourselves and rather than blaming others, just acknowledge that you made a bad decision. Hugs brother.

  • @stevenbaumann5911

    @stevenbaumann5911

    4 ай бұрын

    @Mensdivorcecoach I have never had a girlfriend, much less been married. A lot of my experience comes from people I know and the internet. I do have my own experience dealing with the child support agency, but that was because of my dad. The short version is that the kid was never 100% proven his. But he still had to pay child support, and that put me, my mom, and siblings way below the poverty line. So that was my crash course into red pill long before I heard the term.

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