Most abusers will never admit they are abuser.

@aaishaaa76

28 күн бұрын

Then play victim in a situation they created. Then using the law against the target for speaking up and using children as a weapon is the biggest form of abuse too.

I pray that all the women and men that are going through emotional abuse. May God grant you peace in your marriages and may he make it easy on you ❤

@yasminemungul8289

Жыл бұрын

Aameen ✨

@salimpeerally8811

Жыл бұрын

Ameen

@kamilathassen7276

Жыл бұрын

Ameen

@sajvealam1892

Жыл бұрын

Amin yarabbülalemin🕋🇷🇺 may Allah SWT guide all us as well🇷🇺🇨🇳 🇺🇸on the straight path🕋🇷🇺 Amin yarabbülalemin🇷🇺🕋

@AJS-2023

Жыл бұрын

Ameen

Some people never accept their mistakes and will always blame the other person 😢

So true and children also learn this behaviour from their fathers and treat their mothers disrespectfully. Later they grow up and treat their future spouses like that. Sometimes words cut deeper than knives. May Allah SWT softens our hearts and purifies our tongues.

@sajvealam1892

Жыл бұрын

Âmin Rabbülalemin 🕋🇷🇺

@faridaaali6170

Жыл бұрын

So true

@nadiawahedy9639

9 ай бұрын

Ameen 🤲🏻

A true gentleman is so rare !

@jackfloc0

Жыл бұрын

i will never hit my wife ever

@xpwarlord8829

Жыл бұрын

@@jackfloc0 Mashallah. May ALLAH protect you from the all evil.

@zeinobees2495

Жыл бұрын

@@jackfloc0 IN'CHĀ'ALLĀH ! ĀMEEN !

@zeinobees2495

Жыл бұрын

@@xpwarlord8829 ĀMEEN ! Shūkran Jazīlan !

@Glamstvr

Жыл бұрын

​@@jackfloc0 Good brother! But it's not just about not hitting your wife , you should also not disrespect or degrade her

27 years of every type of abuse …. Divorced and it gets worse through using the children …. He has no fear of Allah , Death or accountability! Just hellbent on being an enemy…. Waiting for life to end feels comforting!

@Souchi-ito

Жыл бұрын

May Allah lessen your burden, sister. Ameen

@inzykhan415

Жыл бұрын

Finish him off or get him taken off this earth

@faridak2194

Жыл бұрын

Each will get their reckoning. He will answer for every demeaning behaviour towards the one he has been given a trust to take care of. That Day will come , there is no doubt. But too often these hypocrites somehow don't fully believe thus. Otherwise they would not do this. That's why we have the Day of Judgement. They will be judged and given their due. You will get through it sister and be stronger for it. Cos those who commit these acts most certainly aren't. They would never behave like this with another man! Cowards !

@user-eb3wu7oo9y

4 ай бұрын

Been through such since 9 years and felt I’m the only one dealing with such but hats off to your sabr MashaALLAH

@Magiccmeadowss

3 ай бұрын

Sister i want to talk to you im in same situation i want us sisters to talk with eachother and share our situations on any platform like insta or whatever

May Allah eradicate this hypocrisy within Man

@genejohnson8631

Жыл бұрын

How about within women???

@fatemad4012

6 ай бұрын

Allah can't fix this Allah is useless

@iammar1159

2 ай бұрын

@@genejohnson8631 Stop deflecting.

@s.afra_f

2 ай бұрын

And within women too. Aameen

The Prophet ﷺ said: “Whosoever eats food and at the end, says: اَلْحَمْدُ لِلّٰهِ الَّذِيْ أَطْعَمَنِيْ هٰذَا ، وَرَزَقَنِيْهِ مِنْ غَيْرِ حَوْلٍ مِنِّيْ وَلَا قُوَّةٍ Praise be to Allah who has fed me this and provided me with it without any power and might from me. all his past sins will be forgiven.” (Abū Dāwūd 4023, Tirmidhī 3458, Ibn Mājah 3285)

i am hafeza ayasha ❤️❤️ I love allah i love muhammad❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@miss.ayni1439

Жыл бұрын

Assalamu Alaykum hafiza Ayesha, hope you are doing fine with the grace of the Almighty. I am ayna, I am memorising the Quran and completed half of the Quran. Please pray for me that I have to complete the entire Quran in 2023 in sha allah.. Please add me in your prayers 🛐 I.a Jazakallahu khayr !

Allaah'humma Salli ala Sayidina Muhammad Salallahu Alayhi Wa Sallam

This is video very nice 🙂...I am from Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩

@TR-vt1tm

Жыл бұрын

I think now in Bangladesh wives beats the husband. the women prime minister takes matters regarding women very seriously.

@wheniamanightcoreanimearti5391

Жыл бұрын

me too

@Azbasaeed

Жыл бұрын

It is nice…… I am from Pakistan 🇵🇰 🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰

@syedtwasinalfahimarabi9027

Жыл бұрын

Barakallah,💖❤️ This video is very nice. I'm from Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩

May Allah spread Subra in our hearts Amin 🤲🏼💚

@sajvealam1892

Жыл бұрын

Amin yarabbülalemin🕋🇷🇺

It was narrated from Hudhaifah that the Prophet (ﷺ) used to say between the two prostrations: “Rabbighfir li, Rabbighfir li (O Lord forgive me, O Lord forgive me).” [Sunan Ibn Majah Hadith 897]

This is so true I am going through this in my life right now,mental torture, abusing my family,my husband breaking all the showcase hurting himself I am fed up now, enough is enough

@Safwaneditsz

8 ай бұрын

I am also sis,are you going to leave sis

@Magiccmeadowss

3 ай бұрын

Sister i want to talk to you im in same situation i want us sisters to talk with eachother and share our situations on any platform like insta or whatever

Amin.

thank you for posting this ♥️

Subhanallah

Salam. Very important speech to help people in their marriage. Please could you make subtitles in Arabic, French and other languages. Thank you.بارك الله فيكم

THANK YOU 😊

jazakAllah khair 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

Thanks!

This is great video . Emotional abuse is something I'm dealing with now .

Alhamdulillaah Respected Sir jazakallah hu khairan katheeran.. Aameen Allaahumma Aameen

Alhumduallah

Ameen 🤲🏻❤

JazakaAllah kher for posting this. May Allah help and guide us all, ameen.

Very very good video Marshallah,please bring more like these videos!Thank you very much may Almighty Allah reward you!

Thank you à lot for this video 😢❤❤❤❤ for this very important message. It’s important to inform men of this primordial value in Islam.

Allah'uma aameen May Allah SWT reward you for this message

بے شک میرا اللہ دعا سننے والا ہے

INFORMATIVE, THANKS

Thank you shaikh

May Allah help us all Ameen

Sadly and quite often it is the husband’s parents; usually his mother who emotionally abuses the daughter in law. It’s insidious and difficult to recognise and even more difficult to stand up to when the victim has been beaten down and has sunk into depression and anxiety.

Ameen

Men being abused shouldn't be a side note. This is a serious issue. I know two men abused by their wives. They are living in a hell! May Allah have mercy on them.

@canonaler

11 ай бұрын

Stop deflecting

@ZiZiMorgan

11 ай бұрын

@@canonaler are you ok?

@canonaler

11 ай бұрын

@PCM77Thick sometimes im okay, sometimes not, why ?

@rukshanaali4958

7 ай бұрын

More women get abused than men

@jakia2020

5 күн бұрын

@@rukshanaali4958💯

Aameen ya Rabbul’alameen jazakallahukhair brother

What led you into Hell Fire? They will say: 'We were not of those who prayed.'” (Qur'an 74:42-43) 🌹Don't forget your five daily prayers 🌹

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JazaqaAllah khaira brother May Allah reward you abundandly Sometimes you think to take that decision but when you come to see Dont have any financial way and you have kids alhamdullilah so at the end of the day you just decide to sacrifice your self with this situation

how can someone abuse his wife i could never

@dw4690

10 ай бұрын

May Allah protect any one man or woman from abusive relationship

@jackfloc0

10 ай бұрын

@@dw4690 Ameen

Where can I find the full lecture? barak Allah feekum

@saratabatabai32

Жыл бұрын

Salam Alaikym! I believe it is this khutbah you were asking for. kzread.info/dash/bejne/Y2Stq8WelcSbeJM.html

17 years dealing with this

@shabnam.ansari_the_queen

Жыл бұрын

As you can see from the video that our Islam forbids it so end it. help yourself and Allah will protect you.

@mrd7765

Жыл бұрын

Assalamualaikum...I will pray for you sis .. Insha Allah everything will be fine.... Don't worry...Hope u r okay .. don't loose hope in Allah no matter what situation u r in . Allah will surely reward for your patience and ask Allah for a solution. Allah is All hearing . Allah would never ignore a dua.Allah is Rahman and Raheem ( kind and merciful) ....😊..

@mrd7765

Жыл бұрын

@@shabnam.ansari_the_queenyeahhhh...

@latinalife2458

Жыл бұрын

@@shabnam.ansari_the_queen I am dealing with a real evil, I can’t even say exactly . Plz brothers and sisters ask allah for me and my kids.

@shabnam.ansari_the_queen

Жыл бұрын

@@latinalife2458 no evil can do anything when you have Allah. Have courage and have trust in Allah . You have to seek help to protect yourself and the children. When you'll take some few steps surely Allah will make many ways to protect you. he is with you always. You don't have to care what anyone will say or do if you're the victim, you deserve help and justice. Inshallah everything will be good. May Allah protect you and give you peace.

As a young child I shall remember what u said in this video.

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11:19 to 11:23 > Ameen 🤲🏼!

Why are these guys having to be told this? Why some guys are slapping wives and emotional abusing their wives? My husband realized some of those guys were doing that and he was not happy. He told them you do not beat your horses; but you act in a poor manner with your wives ?! 🇺🇸🇸🇦🤷🏻‍♀️

@5pointview717

10 ай бұрын

You married a good man and he has the courage to speak up and tell others to stop MashaAllah - we need more men like him who speak up and tell abusive men to stop & hopefully change worldwide.

Please open more shelters for women with children. And cops don't care about emotional abuse.

@marcoshuayai3995

9 ай бұрын

Thats how muslims are, they dont have feelings

Alot Of Women Do Dis 2Men!!🤘🏽❄️💯

@SC-sn3xs

Жыл бұрын

Stop lying

@papitrapstar1575

Жыл бұрын

@@SC-sn3xs Ong no lies sadly💩 Das y Most Men Commit Suicide Cos Of 'women' B❄️

@rukshanaali4958

7 ай бұрын

Then you should.marry carefully.

@rukshanaali4958

7 ай бұрын

Where are all the good men gone ?

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😢😢

Emotional damage

Didn't the prophet have 12 wives? Also awesome video and it really touched my heart

Allah (swt) repeatedly says in the Quran to show love, kindness and warns that they should not harm their wives even after divorce. Allah (swt) has even forbidden us to call each other by bad names and to humiliate. The abusive behavior does not reflect the kindness and love for their spouses.

Brother I think it would be 11 Blessed Wives of Rasul( s a w)..... ????

Also , I work pay my own bills & but my own food & clothes

As-Salaam Alaikum

Wish we could talk about the Abuse Women do to men too. Mentally, emotionally and physically as well.

@faridwiser5441

3 ай бұрын

We can, and they made a video on it with men.

Please make a generalised videos it's not always about husband and wife

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جزاكم الله خيرا. A very serious topic well handled by Brother Yasir as always. Now, I know there are men that are simply animalistic and tyrannical in how they are treat their wives, these men need to be beaten with a stick(A sheikh said this) the opposite also happens although it's rare... However, I fear some women might take this as a green light to go ahead and divorce their husbands or disrespect and disobey them for the smallest of reasons... e.g "my husband did this today, I think he's cheatin, or he did this maybe he is hiding something, should I divorce him?..." Everyone has their faults, and we all make mistakes, always have good thoughts about your muslim bretheren, as long as he is praying, and is JUST in what he does, and nothing was heard about him, Then be patient with him, same goes for the men.

@t0xiic_mxchi

7 ай бұрын

yes but if your husband hits you and you see bruises you need a divorce. its very common for the men to hit instead of the women but it doesn't mean they don't do emotional abuse actually women are really good at it but still abuse is abuse no husband should lay hands on there wife and even the uran says strike them and people say with a miswak I think just striking alone or even touching her without conncent or bad intentions should not be allowed

Am facing the same problem twenty years of marriage no happiness and am still leaving in a single room with six children who are now grown

@miss_8thwonder

Жыл бұрын

@@GingerNinja007 my mom is a covert Narcissists abused me and destroyed me and she has been into it for 35years of narcissists husband (he is basically an animal so i dont wanna use the word husband for him ever) because I know I don't need such father figure to be my anything along with backward religious abusers family who are narcissists as well

@bassimal-kour3147

Жыл бұрын

Leave and get away from toxic people wallah u deserve better

@genejohnson8631

Жыл бұрын

How is this emotional abuse! Did he stop you from leaving? Fear Allah and dont be ungreatful to your husband!

@miss_8thwonder

Жыл бұрын

@@genejohnson8631 you are not her, she has experienced it all!

@purplelove3666

Жыл бұрын

And you stayed for 20yrs? For what?

I went through a difficult time, connecting with so many English and westwern European females from School, College, Poly/University. Mother was simply homely Muslim person looking up to me from a family of underachievers so maybe this was the reason her wishes were fulfilled and I married a beautiful women from Pakistan although she could have been from UK. Sex was ok but not great as there was little education about pleasures and performing in bed. Then for unseen reasons my son had a very serious accident brain injury at 8 month, wife became a full time carer leaving full time employment. Moving on we separated approx 12 years ago due to the stress, when you suffer from psychological scars it affects the relationship physically and emotionally. For myself I am going through a sexual awakening after being dormant for so long going all the way back to 1991, going through a mental crisis coming to terms with life. We are independent thinkers going forward , ultimately what makes you happy is Relative and Subjective.

How about wives who abuses their husband ? Can you pls post a video regarding this.

@genejohnson8631

Жыл бұрын

He would not because it will go against the grain.

@rukshanaali4958

7 ай бұрын

Because more men abuse than women

And compromise

And brothers can be abusive

I’m on my deen & my husband is not he told me he was Muslim before we were married but we married legally & I never seen him pray he treats to nice then he acts like I don’t exist we been married for 13 years , I feel stuck , I don’t have enough money to rent a house … I separated myself to n another room so I won’t be around his weed use or alcoholic , I don’t know what to do how long do I supposed to wait for him to get on his deen ?

@AliMakaveli

5 ай бұрын

Take that first, difficult, almost impossible step, and leave the rest to Allah, He will most certainly help you if you rely solely on him and make that intention at least. Stay strong.

What is this man is name

@farahhansen8206

Жыл бұрын

Yasir Qadhi, he is very good MashaAllah

@fatumaabdi979

Жыл бұрын

@@farahhansen8206 thanks

When its parents and not husband. When its right from childhood, and has become a part of your life.

Please some one transfer this to tamil language

Physical abuse too....i left him...

I have been married since one and a half year. Ny husband stayed only less than two months with me.. In this time period we didnt develop any good bonding.. He used to blame me for several things and used to show inconvenience towards me... He went to abroad leaving me to his sister's home there i got no ri8s as a married women... N during this time period he used to blame me show his dislikeness against my love he used to abandon me and he used to torture me in several emotional ways.. My Father died and his behaviiur was still blaming i got angry and stayed with my brothers now its been 4 months several elders tried to resolve our matter first i said i dnt want to live in marriage where my husband always show hatred toward me n i refuse to live with his sisters who are married and have their own home kids... But now i wish i wont get divorced my husband is ready to divorce me n he said come and get your dowry 😢😢😢😢 uff i loved him soooo very much now i am feeling deaf inside plzzzz pray for me and advise me i am feeling alone and breaking i know Allah pak is with me whatever will happen it will be good for me but i am feeling sooo much pain em dying

@LK-sk2wv

8 ай бұрын

Asalam alaykum sister, please stay strong, I have been in a similar situation, and what you’re feeling is rejection and abandonment and it’s ok to feel this, but please remember you are also Allahs creation, you are also someones daughter, respect his decision and take care of yourself. Allah is with the heartbroken. Put your trust in Allah, Allah tests the ones he loves and please be patient. Allah is fair, people are not. May allah ease your pain, and give you strength, ameen.

@Safwaneditsz

8 ай бұрын

Assalamualaikum sister,don’t worry allah will show u a way..

@touseefshaukat98

8 ай бұрын

@@LK-sk2wv ameen thanks for consoling me I wish the same for u dear sister

@LK-sk2wv

8 ай бұрын

@@touseefshaukat98Jazakhallah sister.

@fatemad4012

6 ай бұрын

Islam even can't fix Muslims what a useless religion

It is also bad when the husband sits back and allows the mother and father in law to abuse the wife telling her to just suck it because it is his parents and then you will be rewarded later by Allah for having patience.

SubhanAllah if he would have a little taqwa he would have a shame and wouldn't be an abuser. What are you saying brother, it's common sense.

What if a woman has lots of kids and have no family or friends? How will she survive leaving abuser's home? Even women start distancing from such victims. No help man, no help.

@AliMakaveli

5 ай бұрын

Allah and His Angels are with you always, literally. You're never alone. Make that stride and rely on Allah to provide and He will.

Out of the 9 wives, why did Zainab say he killed her father and that’s why she was poisoning him? Puzzling

@Kekesfoodlab

6 ай бұрын

lol Zaynab wasn’t the wife of the prophet SAW. She was a jewess. May Allah SWT guide us all, Aameen 🤲🏾

@BQ900

6 ай бұрын

@@Kekesfoodlab lol all you want: Zaid bin Haritha came to him complaining about (his wife). The Prophet said to him, “Keep your wife with you and fear Allah.” He said, the verse: “But (O Muhammad) you did hide in your heart that which Allah was about to make manifest” up to “We gave her into your marriage” (33.37) was revealed about Zainab.[11]

Don’t hit her on the face? But it’s ok to hit on the body??? Someone please explain

@Nope991

Жыл бұрын

I have to ask you a question first. Are you genuine or a troll?

@alaynalavelle

Жыл бұрын

no it’s not okay, but it’s worse to hit on face

@Souchi-ito

Жыл бұрын

Light tapping not hitting. It's like tapping on shoulders. Even 1 year old child hits you more hard than that.

@inzykhan415

Жыл бұрын

If she steps out of line or is rude then a slight body shot to the stomach or ribs is better then striking the face 😅

@kaveesha3213

Жыл бұрын

What a shitty minded religion right ? 💩

A woman does best to just leave this backward faith and just live her life without these abusive believers.

@atiqazi

Жыл бұрын

So she can be a modern day heathen? Look at your own statistics first and see how it’s working out on your end.

@davidgreen8431

Жыл бұрын

So... You're saying atheists can't be abusive?

@purplelove3666

Жыл бұрын

Please delete your comment,it didn't make any sense

I k so sorry but women are doin the same

I agreed with him intil he said call the police, because the law in the country is on the women's side!. Rather than tell the woman to leave, he is encouraging muslim women to call the one sided law on their husbands! Women, dont listen to this bad advice. Call your family and leave the home if your life is in danger! FYI, women commit more emotional abuse than men, while men commit physical abuse than women. I dont know where hes getting his data from!

@purplelove3666

Жыл бұрын

No,I think she should call the police, your advice is very dangerous and you should delete it .

@busrakilic9075

5 ай бұрын

What are you talking about?? Of course I will call the cops if my husband tries to choke me duhhh

Blah blah always about women lol

@soysauce4087

8 ай бұрын

When will Muslim stop beating their wives lol.

@faridwiser5441

3 ай бұрын

Astaghfirullah, he talks about men and women.And to undermine so many spouses hardships is disgusting of you!Shame on you ya akhi

Most of the time husbands misbehave because they are compelled to do so. Tell women to behave the manner they want their husbands to do, husbands will behave accordingly without even asking.

@genejohnson8631

Жыл бұрын

I agree with tou! He is making women as this innocent people who are abused by evil muslim men! SubhanaAllah. This guy is an ICNA guy, a progressive muslim hiding behind islam. He is twisting it to please the circular non-Muslim community!

@aliadnanchowdhury9129

Жыл бұрын

@Moondust keep crying.

@purplelove3666

Жыл бұрын

​@@aliadnanchowdhury9129 get help, your comment doesn't make any sense , get help and stay far away from women .

@aliadnanchowdhury9129

Жыл бұрын

@@purplelove3666 common senseless and spineless people wouldn't know how it does make sense. Get accountability.

@Glamstvr

Жыл бұрын

​@@aliadnanchowdhury9129 the way you are speaking shows your mentality. This is not a way a Muslim should behave. Sick!

If she puts me in situation where I gotta abuse her in any way she’s out the door! Their are women who will fear Allah in how they deal with their husbands because they understand he’s responsible for her entering Jannah…..

@Souchi-ito

Жыл бұрын

You think you know better than Rasul (saw)? Maybe you should take your own advice and have fear of Allah. Your lame excuse to hurt your wife won't hold water in the day of final judgement. Justifying haram things is also a sin.

@Souchi-ito

Жыл бұрын

Also who's going to enter Jannah is entirely upto Allah SWT, not you or any other human beings.

@AlMumineen6641

Жыл бұрын

Auzu Billahi Minash Shaytanir Rajeem, brother dont say this ,its a whisper a trap from shaytan ,brother Allah give us instinct and intellectual to know what is wrong and what is right , O brother before u make a decision ask urself that, "would Allah will be please and happy if i do this ?" and brother do u know why when before we recite surah ,we should say first bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem ,in The Name of Allah, The Entirely Merciful , The Especially Merciful ? ,because Allah knows everything as He knows you, Allah the creator who would forgive us when we repent sincerely He's the most Merciful because He knows what's our pain and He's a forgiver because He knows we makes mistakes and we are built this way by Our Creator for a test, We are sinners but The best sinners are the one's who ask forgiveness to Allah sincerely after they realize they done mistakes , O brother I hope u see this, Assalamu Alaikum ❤

@purplelove3666

Жыл бұрын

We will enter Jannah by Allah's Mercy, don't kid yourself ,if you think you would be the reason why someone would go to Jannah, delete your comment

@candy6265

11 ай бұрын

It’s always the ‘men’ who actually don’t know how to be a man and a family leader that say to their wives “you can’t enter jannah if i’m not happy with you”. Not a single man from the time of the prophet threatened their wives with this.

Do you know just what are you preaching? have you ever been betrayed? Like time and again? you talk about divorce? Have your partner committed ZINAH!!! for years and acted so innocently? you are here to preach about Islam and laws. and have the audacity to tell and give instructions? AS THOUGH YOU HAVE LIVED AND EXPERIENCED THIS PREDICAMENTS AND TURMOILS OF A RELATIONSHIP, A MARRIAGE? SHAME ON YOU YASIR QADHI!!!

Subhanallah

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