She seems like she cares alot about her son tho? Like she instantly got her baby somewhere safe and the second she thought about hurting him she got help and got somewhere safe

@sianedwards7493

Ай бұрын

The title is somewhat misleading. Most mothers who are sleep deprived and without proper support will have intrusive thoughts at some point. But very few will act on them. A more accurate title would be 'Mother worries her child isn't safe'.

@plsnocrowbar

Ай бұрын

i think this is the episode where it turned out she had a condition (some kind of tinnitus, i dont recall) it made her baby's cries physically agonizing for her. that was why she couldnt stand his crying

@kiraweaver8039

Ай бұрын

That is the reality of post partum depression. The ones who snap didn't not love their baby. They normally end up hurting themselves if they hurt their kid because they weren't able to get help fast enough.

@lisasophiekaps

Ай бұрын

@@kiraweaver8039 also postpartum psychosis. It’s less known and thus mothers often don’t know why they all of the sudden feel what they feel and experience what they experience.

@mary-janereallynotsarah684

26 күн бұрын

What episode???

Everyone gets intrusive thoughts at times. Being sleep deprived, exhausted and anxious makes them worse.

Parenthood, especially motherhood, is so over-romanticized that we don't talk about parents who go through most-partem depression an intrusive thoughts or we shame those who do. That needs to change.

@becky2235

Ай бұрын

I really hope it does one day! Why do you think motherhood is so over-romanticized?

@novanettle7497

Ай бұрын

I think it's hard killed gender stereotypes that put alot of pressure on new mothers. Taking care of a baby while juggling work, her partner and the household? It's close to impossible, but still women are supposed to just handle it. Not to mention that post-partem is a medical issue. You can't just think happy thoughts and it goes away. You need medical treatment. I'll tell of the sadest outcome I've heard of, but it's graphic so... Be warned. . . . . . . . . In my home town there was a woman who killed both her baby and herself because of post-partem depression. I really don't know if anyone, like her doctor or husband, knew about it beforehand. So I don't know if something could have been done or if it just blindsided everyone - because both scenarios could be true. The husband came home after work to find them. The wife had drowned her baby girl in the kitchen sink and then hung herself. Absolutely awful and entirely tragic.

@misslanapaulford

Ай бұрын

They also don't talk about the thoughts you have during your pregnancy, especially with the insomnia and not getting comfortable and always tired and the itchy skin, where you just wanna rip it off or literally constant need to pee, like all the time and feeling suicidal.. No one and not one book mentioned any of those and not one film or program mentions any of those. Women especially mothers need to stop romanticising and lying to other women about the GENUINE REALITY OF PREGNANCY and no NOT ALL women's pregnancy are the same..

@misslanapaulford

Ай бұрын

​@@novanettle7497 OMG men put so much pressure of their wives and mothers to be perfect or bounce back or to be able to breastfeed, well your a women you should know how to or you've had the baby you can go back to your normal self and normal weight. It's hell.

@sapphireseptember

Ай бұрын

I've luckily not been too itchy, but feeling constantly tired, various aches and pains, overwhelmed, emotional, morning sickness, worrying about your health and that the baby is growing properly, all takes a toll. Some women cope amazingly, I've struggled quite a bit, although my mental health has been alright. I've been referred to the mental health obstetrician because I've had mental health issues in the past. Glad they're being proactive! I'm very grateful I live in the UK and have the NHS and paid maternity leave. My local hospital has a good maternity unit as well. Not all are as good, but the women I've known who've given birth there are happy with their treatment.

She is a excellent mom, she asked for help.

Intrusive thoughts are nightmarish. Especially when you try not to think about it and end up thinking of it all the more.

My mum had horrible thoughts about putting my sister in the washing machine just to get some peace. She told me it was like, a split second thing, and was always horrified right after. Can't imagine how terrible new mothers must feel when it is normal because your body is just, angry at the thing not letting you rest.

@bushrakhan620

17 күн бұрын

It's relatable for me too after being a new mom, whole day is a mess , my baby sleep at 4:45 am regularly wake up at every 2 hour for milk , I'm exhausted and i think I leave him but next as he cried I forgot each of my terrible situation I just love him I truly love him ❤

@73cidalia

13 күн бұрын

It's not always even an urge. Oftentimes, intrusive thoughts are just a flash of a mental image. Partly due to sleep deprivation, but also maternal anxiety about her baby's safety. It's not so much "I'm fed up; what if I threw this baby out of the window?" Sometimes it's your brain saying, "Hey, I know how much you love your baby and how fragile they are; what if this horrible thing happened to them?" Nightmares are like that, but while you're sleeping. Your brain presents you with your deepest fears. And Lord knows, postpartum, you actually are half asleep.

My midwife always said: it is totally normal to think about throwing your baby out of the window. It is not to actually do it.

@TheKrispyfort

26 күн бұрын

Mom was discovered before my younger sibling could be dropped out the second floor window. The families should have just let us be adopted out when she asked

@melaniekendall4903

13 күн бұрын

Why would you think about throwing your child out of the window?😐

@saysomethingaldcsbiggestfa792

12 күн бұрын

@@melaniekendall4903you can’t HELP it. It’s very common for lots of women to experience intrusive thoughts after having a child. The thoughts are extremely disturbing and scary to them, as they don’t genuinely want to do it.

@egglet8265

7 күн бұрын

It’s an intrusive thought. Some people have them some don’t. It’s kinda like sometimes when I’m driving I have a thought like “what if I cranked the wheel and drove off that cliff” it kinda just pops into your head without any warning and you really can’t control it. They can be really scary sometimes.

@strawberriebuns

21 сағат бұрын

@@melaniekendall4903it’s an intrusive thought from overwhelm and exhaustion, a baby screaming and crying for hours and refusing to eat or sleep for consecutive days is a lot to handle especially if you don’t have support from family, friends or a partner

intrusive thoughts are genuinely terrifying sometimes, but you arnt your thoughts

@Edriely

Ай бұрын

Right? Like we've all had the "let's jump off this cliff" or "what if I walked into oncoming traffic" ones, but then there's the ones where your holding a dinner knife and think "I should plunge this into my family members chest" or "I should suffocate my cat in his sleep" ones and it's just like "why the hell would I think about killing someone that I love?! What kind of horrible person does that make me?" And it's horrifying and terrifying. We know we wouldn't do it, but for the thought to enter our minds to begin with makes us question who and what we really are.

@speedude0164

17 күн бұрын

@@Edriely Sometimes I'm driving and I think something along the lines of "you know, I do have the power to just swerve into the other lane and cause a massive pile-up" and it makes me fear that I could be insane even though I know I would literally be incapable of actually going through with it. I think about it though and come to realize the same thing Sharon brought up: you wouldn't hear of someone having these thoughts and expressing them outwardly; everyone would think they're crazy. It's nice to hear something like this depicted in such a way on a show, cause if I ever became a father, I could see myself doubting my ability to care for my child for these reasons. If you ask me, this woman immediately rushing to a hospital as a result of such a thought shows how much she loves her son and wants to keep him safe, even if it's from herself.

As a single dad, I hate to say this rings so true. You love them but they can be so infuriating when you're sleep deprived. That's why it takes a village. They'll still love you even if you hand them off for a break

@TheKrispyfort

26 күн бұрын

Mine tried to drown me in the bathtub. I only remember being confused with why he wasn't able to lift me out of the water. I believe my mother has been holding that over his head for the past 45 years. He doesn't know I already know, and she doesn't think all the snippets haven't fallen into place. My parents were teens and parenting is hard enough under the best of resourced and supportive circumstances.

FINALLY THE RIGHT CLIP, THUMBNAIL AND TITLE 👍👍👍👍👍

@Jo-er6tw

Ай бұрын

Right!? I was honestly expecting it to be wrong again lmao 😭

Intrusive thoughts or volatile mood swings from PPD, don’t make you a bad mom, not if you seek help before acting on it. This lady’s a good mom because she didn’t want to hurt her baby & prevented herself from doing so.

It's admirable that she got the help she needed. She also got the reassurance that she needed from Sharon being willing to connect her with other young mothers

Yay. They got it right 3rd time.

No one can take care of a baby alone. It's a twenty-four hour commitment that requires a team taking shifts.

@ThaliaCrow

Ай бұрын

Say it louder!

@Kokolamar

Ай бұрын

Well wrong. They can and they do. Is it normal? No but it’s common and more than doable. Sadly first world countries fail at one major thing - there is no fkn village. And if you ask for help your baby gets taken. It’s a no win situation

@lakeofalltrades1453

Ай бұрын

Village is absolutely needed and the way in the states it’s designed to be alone to keep us weak, makes us weak. It’s not natural to do it alone so yes you can but you’ll end up barely surviving yourself and not giving your children your all because it should be spreaded upon both parents and whatever ext village you have, that’s why we have these janky adults now🤷🏾‍♀️

When i was a baby my mom couldnt produce enough milk to breastfeed so i was constantly crying and she was trying to feed me every hour for weeks getting no sleep. She hates to admit it, but there were times that she desperately wanted to do something, anything to shut me up. I know my mom loves me and my brothers more than anything in the world, and she felt so awful for those thoughts that she broke down crying in front of my nana (who at the time didnt particularly like her being married to her eldest son but since became her favorite child in law, though no one ever actually said that out loud) who assured her it was fine, she was just tired, and told her to take a nap, then handed my dad a bottle of baby formula and i put that away and we both slept for 8 hours straight. My mom woke up halfway rested and terrified because i was quiet for the first time ever, but i was sleeping and happy. Theres just so much pressure on new moms especially to do things a certain way, or to feel a certain way, and no one talks about the struggles, so the moms feel so much worse when they cant be the supermom who has it all together all the time and their babies never have any issues and are always happy and giggly and smart and healthy.

We finna got it right so proud of u Chicago!!

The hard part of being a parent is what no one tells you. I became so happy when people shared their experiences with me. It felt so good knowing I'm not alone. Raising a child alone, for any parent, can feel so limiting and mental health can only handle so much exhaustion.

I had a moment with my baby, didn’t hurt her but felt like I could, completely exhausted. She’s grown and is so beautiful, my pride and joy and I’m still struggling with that moment. Mothers need more support, it’s a hard job but the only job I ever wanted, I’m very blessed, I have 2 daughters, lost my first, but 2 going out into the world, my loves always ❤❤ Please stop calling us birthing people, we’re mothers 😢

For Mother’s Day The ugly truth Thank you

We finally get the video 😭

Yaaay we found the baby and the mom. Finally. I'm so glad.

It is so true that people don’t tell you that life can be hard with children and that there are times when you just get so frustrated

FINALLY!You get the thumbnail and Video correct

Why do i feel like i walked in after an argument happened 🤷🏼‍♀️😂 The comments section made me chuckle, even if i don't know what happened 😅

@TheBoringEdward

Ай бұрын

tl:dr Whoever is in charge of the channel made a mistake when adding the title to a recent video. The last three videos are related to that mistake.

@averycheesypotato

Ай бұрын

They put this title on completely unrelated clips from the show

Love Chicago med

Finally, the upload of the clip from the storyline they promised but did not arrive until now

They got it right this time!

I've had intrusive thoughts for decades. I'd prefer not to even try to count how many times I've, for absolutely no reason, had the thought of getting the biggest knife from the kitchen and murdering my partner in their sleep. And thoughts like that are blessedly easy to dismiss, because they're terrible ideas on every single level with absolutely zero conceivable benefit. It's the more subtle ones, the ones that are like "no-one would ever know", that are harder to deal with. For the longest time I thought I must be a terrible person because of those thoughts, but then I realised that for all those years, I almost never acted on those thoughts, even the harder ones, even when they were drumming in my head for days or weeks at a time, and that was far more telling of my character than the thoughts that just popped into my head and I did nothing on.

@speedude0164

17 күн бұрын

That's a great way to put it. Your thoughts are just ideas. It's the ideas you choose to act on that define your character.

I love that epidode❤

Whilst I was going through PPD with my daughter I would have thoughts of hurting her, or running away from her, to some extents I thought god I’m a terrible person and I would leave her crying in her crib whilst I began to hit myself hard, hard enough to leave bruises while asking myself what the F is wrong with me. I got help and we’re all a lot happier for it. I found out that she has Autism and one of the early signs can be they want constant attention, constantly to be entertained other wise they just cry constantly. And now I know why she behaves the way she does, now I know the best way to help and to care for her.

Amazing mum :)

IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE! TURN IT UP!! 🗣️🗣️🙏

These things need to be spoken about more especially to new mums

I had the same thoughts of taking my newborn by the ankles and slamming him against the wall. This episode made me cry so hard. No one takes your thoughts seriously unless something actually happens and by then the damage is done. I was terrified of getting PPD again with my second but it never happened, and I felt cheated all over again of the motherhood I should have had with my first because its NOT normal to want to hurt your baby, its NOT normal to sit their focused on not harming your child and all of your willpower stopping you from flinging the baby away while they eat. You love them with all of your heart and still simultaneously want to kill them. Its not fair. The fact she went for help and is still being dismissed makes me so mad.

This kinda relates to OCD , I have suffered although the compulsions provide a bit relief but you fall into that cycle again and again and feel like you'll never get out of it.

It's true... Being a medical practitioner is a calling😊

For the leader of the free world, the US has horrific maternity policies. No maternity leave is inhuman and cruel. The absence of a social support system makes it even worse. My god I cannot imagine having to work and take care of my newborn all alone!

Hey the clip finally fits the title and thumbnail!

I get episodes a little bit like that. One time my mum yelled at me for taking the cat off of the counter which made her knock the open food bag over. I was already tired that day and I only gave them a little bit. I then brought the cat up to my room and wouldn’t let her sit on my window sill or sit or lay down and i was constantly picking her up and dropping her from small heights (maybe like one-two feet). I picked her up and she scratched my face which prompted me to pick her up and shake her. I then threw her on my bed and I sort of snapped out of something. I felt absolutely horrified afterwards, I was stroking her and I fed her half the treat bag afterwards. I get thoughts of murdering people for tiny inconveniences too but I never act on them because common sense.

You arein pain and tired and sore and the baby is just relentless; I understand it can be terrifying. What is even worse is if you have auditory processing issues like brain to ear connections that don't work well or work far too well that can cause you to have pain from the baby crying, ear pain, migranes, the works.

This is such a serious matter that needs to be talked about. When my first baby was around 9 months old, he was teething really bad and was crying non stop... after two days and with a total of 4 hours of sleep for me, I was again awake at 2am trying to make him sleep and this thought came up to my mind of throwing him against the wall with all strength in my body... I got so horrified that I ran up to wake up my husband and all I said was " you take him, I'm not ok", he went to the living room with the baby and I stayed crying my eyes out in bed think what a horrible mother I was for thinking of such monstrosity. Later I talked with another mother about this, but she looked at me like I was a monster... after that, I just didn't talk anymore about it until now... that was 6 years ago.

Not everyone deals with sleep deprivation the same way. My husband thought babies slept 12 hours within mins of birth

My mother struggled with PPD when she had my brother in 1993. She only got 2 weeks off, and my dad didn't get any time at all. But my dad knew there was something wrong and forcibly brought her to see someone. She didn't want to admit that something was wrong with her. She thought she was a terrible mother because of the thoughts. If these problems were normalized, she would have gotten help sooner. And so would a lot of other women.

You what they say, third times the charm😂😂

Wait a minute a mustasch!!! Cool 😎

Definitely know what this feels like. It happened only once, I felt like I could just shake my son to get him to just stop crying… it had been hours and he would not stop. I then started crying and we ended up kind of soothing each other in a way but it sure terrified me and I still 7 years later feel like an awful mother because of it… I know it’s an intrusive thought but I don’t know if I could ever forgive myself for thinking that at the same time.. :/

My situation is different my thoughts are just vivids of me walking, tripping or dropping the baby and hurt him that makes me don't want to go outside

ocd is horrible, the loud thoughts that just go on and on and on and the counting and irl they just throw antidepressants at you, which are better than nothing, but it would be nice to have some sort of therapy that'd help.

Finally

It isnt good that mothers dosent get the help and surport they need. Pray for them 🕊

@Mimi-cq4bg

Ай бұрын

No. They don’t need fkin prayers. They need tangible support and help. Paid maternity leave, universal healthcare, public health nurses and assisted day care. These are all actual things that can help a parent.

@dianagonsalves

Ай бұрын

What mothers need are stable family systems. Bring back traditional marriages. As a tradition in India, we sleep for 40 days after delivery. There's a nanny who takes care of the baby and the mother. Family members hang around to help. Why should women be forced to work. This is where feminism has screwed up society

@Foxtrox7616

Ай бұрын

​​​​​@@dianagonsalves no, feminism gave them a choice to work. Before that they were forced to do something - to be in a traditional marriage. Now they still very much have that *option* . At least in most countries I know of. Idk where you got the forced work from. Or do you mean forced mother's work when you're a mother? That does happen, I suppose, but it's not feminism's fault. Rather just fathers being overworked and not having the time to care for baby, leaving all the responsibilities to the other parent instead of splitting them. Even if the mother is overworked too, it all ultimately falls to her because she's assumed to be the main caretaker.

@solroos6428

20 күн бұрын

@@Foxtrox7616 she is the main caretaker and thats a beatifull thing to be becasue it makes you and your child close and you can be sure that your child knows that she is loved. But the system we live in (in i think moster Western contries for exemple sweden) dosen make it an option anymore for mothers to be a traditionol housewife that takes care of the save space we all have and love and call home.

@solroos6428

20 күн бұрын

@@Mimi-cq4bg agreed that we need to support mothers by giving them the tangible support they need. But I cant do that and I do believe in prayers, so I am gona do what I can for them. Which in my cease is pray. 🩵✨️🕊 God bless your day and you life and your parenthood (if you are or ever become a parent)

Amazing, amazing acting. Really touching scene 🩷

i thought it was post partum psychosis

@venomousbunny9875

Ай бұрын

That's a thing?

@dtetv8499

Ай бұрын

I was sure it was PPP. Unfortunately intrusive thoughts aren't talked about enough to make new moms understand they aren't crazy and that it doesn't automatically means PPP

The thing about intrusive thoughts is that they dont make you dangerous or a liability, they actually prove youre a good person. Intrusive thoughts exist because you worry about them coming true so you cant let them go. Everyone has these thoughts but they dont hold onto them. This woman was worrying about them because the idea of harm coming to her baby was the worst thing she could think of, not because she wanted to hurt him or that shes capable of harming him. Intrusive thoughts exploit our worst fears

I miss dr choi

I know I could not be a good parent because of the anxiety that would come from not being able to soothe my baby and the baby would pick up on that and also be stressed. I would eventually go into sensory overload and just leave the baby in the crib to get some quiet. Yes, once in a while you should just let the baby cry it out, but that is after they exceed a year of age.

This is why we need good fathers

Suddenly realising that throwing my 3yo into traffic was an option. Tried to seek help immediately and was told that was not drop-in day. Me, Mr-3, and Miss-6mo in the car. I just drove the car around all the back roads local until I was sure husband would be home again. The kids didn't fuss when driving, and I have excellent car piloting skills (iykyk). I felt so horrific.

i need a show with just dr. charles

My baby’s 2 months old now. And he has colic. It’s incredibly hard to get him to sleep. I’ve had thoughts of throwing him off my balcony and jumping after him myself. I didn’t actually do it but the thought scared me so much. He’s my first baby and I’ve been feeling like I’m never enough or I will never be a good mom.

@emmaroebuck7637

24 күн бұрын

Are you doing okay? Have some help/ support?

Intrusive thoughts - we all have them. We just don't talk them.

While they got the correct title this time, they put the wrong episode in the description 👍 This is actually Season 8, Episode 6 - "Mama Said There Would Be Days Like This"

I had perinatal depression and post natal/ post partum depression. It is very hard. Especially since my first child had feeding issues. I had to supplement feed and pump milk in between every feeding. But I had supply issues... All in all I would get about 15 minutes of sleep in between each feeding. It was brutal. Thankfully I had lots of support and I was told it is perfectly fine to put the baby down in a safe space like a crib and walk away from the room for 15 minutes to calm down, take a deep breath and try to re-center myself. Baby will be safe and fine. They will keep crying, but they will be fine. Take a deep breath. You got this.

I was a single mother at the age of 20 and I was all alone.... I slapped my baby twice when she was 3 months old but thank god I realized that my mental condition is not ok whatever I was doing was wrong.... In India mothers don't get help if they are single.... Neither medical nor social but thank god I did meditation and prayed to God.... And I passed that phase but it was horrible I was about to kill my baby but my love for my baby won....

Took them long enough lol

Intrusive thoughts freak me out. Even thought its not often I get them. My self control for a few seconds is non-existand for some reason so probably child trauma and ptsd responce tbh still the thought of doing something before I avtually think about it, is creepy. Thankfully I'll most likely never have kids.

Millions of new mothers: drop crying to the floor

When I first became a mum my midwife said to sleep when baby slept. As a newborn he could sleep up to 6 hours at a time but the midwife said to wake him after 4. When he got sick he was sleeping 2 hrs at a time

I had DMER when breastfeeding my twins. I swear to god something was happening chemically to make me feel like killing myself. Like a switch. Nothing psychological. It happened everytime we did a feed. So I had to stop and go on formula and the thoughts went away.

People don't understand how hard it can be looking after a newborn, especially when you're doing it on your own. It doesn't make you a bad mother though if you have these thoughts imo, you're barely functioning and desperate for some peace and quiet.

WAIT...What happened to her face!!?? Why did it droop like that??

@gemmaluescher-verseckas1243

Ай бұрын

She developed Bell’s palsy

did you guys see that the actors switched

Intrusive thoughts are awful, they can psychologically torture you. I remember being so scared to tell anyone when I had intrusive thoughts as a child because then they would know what a horrible person I was. The worst things I could think of, my mind would try to convince me that is what I was. Eventually I told my mom, and she was not shocked at all and assured me my mind was just tormenting me and I was not a bad person. My mom told me that if we could be arrested for our thoughts, we would all be in prison. I remember I was so incredibly relieved, and the psychologist explained it as any thought that is unpleasant will stick in your head and the more you tell it to shut up, the louder it gets. A friend of mine once confided to me that she was afraid she was a sociopath because she was having trouble bonding with her baby. I will never forget the look of relief on her face when I told her that it is not uncommon to take time to bond, that the rush of love does not always happen right away, and that I was not at all shocked.

in b4 they change the title

People need to make conscious decision to have kids. Use protection. Don't have kids if not ready. This kid deserves better. Mother shouldn't be left to raise the kid by herself without support. She needs support.... dead beat dad ran away. This kid deserves better.

@Framokamc

Ай бұрын

Plenty of women have children because they desire to be mother, that doesn't change the fact that postpartum depression can happen to every mother, and not for that it means she didn't want the baby, my mom had postpartum depression while she desired to be a mom, the dark side of motherhood is that you can get depressed, sad, angry, but they can't talk about it because society has ruled that a mother has to be a good mother a 100% , is like the saying " life is color pink" life is not perfect, parenthood is not perfect, people that have children are allowed to feel bad and not for that it means they don't love their children

@rupertperiwinkle4477

Ай бұрын

@@Framokamc My statement is valid. Conscious parenting over unconscious parenting. Having kids when ready / stable. Not popping out kids by "accident". If you don't have the emotional intelligence nor regulation skills then don't have kids. Most people are a disservice to their little humans... They meet the child's physical needs, but fail to meet their emotional ones. Alas, many children grow up with low self worth/esteem issues, insecure attachment issues, emotion dysregulation, ETC. Not to mention it is very expensive to have a child.

@Framokamc

Ай бұрын

@@rupertperiwinkle4477 half the world shouldn't have children then

@rupertperiwinkle4477

Ай бұрын

@@Framokamc Yep, they shouldn't.

@magiv4205

Ай бұрын

While I agree that people should only have kids when they're stable and ready, it's also unfortunately true that you can be as ready as you'll ever be and still face post-partum depression and those incredible stresses that nobody ever REALLY talks about. So instead of condemning people for having children, we should meet them and the children with compassion. Not everyone has the same lot in life, and none of us ever know what's around the corner.

AHHHH0😢

I hate that people only really talk about the bad thoughts in terms of PTSD. It's just not how it works. Say you're the mother who gave birth: in the weeks immediately after, you're recovering from severe bodily trauma (which in any other case is weeks of bed rest), and on top of doing right by yourself, you now have a tiny little thing that has no way to eat, drink, bathe, regulate its temperature, can't sleep properly, and doesn't have a way of telling you what's wrong. Not to mention this little thing is, what is it? 5x more sensitive than everyone else around it? So _everything_ can and will set it off; light, sound, smells, tastes, textures... _Anyone_ would struggle in that scenario. And anyone who says they wouldn't/haven't is a liar. So of course everyone, whether Depressed or not, is going to reach their breaking point. Enter the intrusive thoughts. It is SO normal, and I hate how taboo it still is to talk about it.

This is why I dont ever want to be a mother. Because I know that I will def have PPD or at least my temper would be at its shortest. I like kids. My nieces and nephews I like to hold them and play and talk with them. But I cant imagine being their main care taker. I sympathize with these people so much. It takes a huge toll on any parent, esp if youre alone. Parenthood is too romanticized, esp for mothers although it can take a toll on the fathers too. Penelope is a good mom and Shannon is so right.

This should be talked about more how hard parenthood is. maybe even just motherhood cause 9/10 times it is still the women who have to deal with this more.

Can someone explain what's happend to her please ?

@fathimacassim7698

Ай бұрын

She had a stroke

@pvm0708

Ай бұрын

@@fathimacassim7698Bell’s palsy isn’t a stroke.

May The Almighty grant our mothers happiness for their sacrifice❤🥹

This hits a bit hard, Reeeally pregnant over here.

@mjsimm

Ай бұрын

It may not happen to you. It did to me, I was eighteen when I had my son. Single, going to college, working part time and staying with my parents. Some nights I would wake to him crying and want to throw him out the window, or shake him till he stopped. More anxious I got the more he got. This was in 1980, never heard of postpartum. Never told anyone. I gave him up for private adoption to his father's parents. It was the most heartbreaking thing I ever did. Years later I was at a Dr's appt and was reading a parenting mag. An article about postpartum, married Mom, same horrible thoughts. I was so mad, heartbroken and still full of guilt. I bawled my eyes out for hours. I wish I had the courage to talk at the time. I wish I had the support I needed. You will, you are aware, and it may never happen to you. BTW he's now 43 married and a Dad and knows what happened. I talked to him honestly about it when he was in his 20's. He understands and has forgiven me. I will never know what would have happened if I had raised him. But he is the most amazing person I know. I like to think I made the right choice for him. I still struggle with guilt and depression, but he loves me and knows I only wanted him to be safe and happy. I love him and his family with every fibre of my being.

The face affect is so weird.

She clearly cares and was concerned and wanted help. This title is problematic and perpetuates harmful ideas about PPD as not everyone watchs the full video. She isn't the problem at all and deserves all the help she can get. However as someone who recently had a baby, care for PPD is non existent sadly in many places

What happened to her face 😮

@xcrosslan8207

5 күн бұрын

Bell's palsy affects the face and makes it droppy pretty sure i had it on one side of my face but it effected the other side instead idk was years ago and You lose sensation in part of the face I had it Years ago I recovered. Look it up on google if you want to know more. I don't know alot about it

So not cool man

Capitalism is insane. We used to be able to have family members help take care of the children while others searched for food.

Sbe😅

Early

6th here

Yay!! I’m the first one here. 😊

@FrostyFusion1

Ай бұрын

Mope

@Theyluvvkeira11

Ай бұрын

@@FrostyFusion1yep

@Eric4bz

Ай бұрын

Nope

@Theyluvvkeira11

Ай бұрын

@@Eric4bz yea

@Eric4bz

Ай бұрын

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