In school I was bullied relentlessly. However, home was worse. One day my mom sent me to school with my hair half braided for a punishment. I didn't even remember what I did. It was a setup. That day the girl that had bullied me for over 7 years asked if she could finish my hair. Out of options, I agreed. She braided it nicely, hugged me and never bullied me again. The bullying continued at home, not at school anymore.

@susannwambugu4939

Жыл бұрын

Wow!So sorry for that.

@lizard944

Жыл бұрын

So, did you grow up to become a successful person? It appears that you did by your perfect grammar. Would you be in the same situation if your mother ignored you when you screwed-up and let you roam the streets at night completely undisciplined?

@jkeelin1_

Жыл бұрын

@@lizard944 you’re weird for trying to make it seem like what she did was normal.

@haunai7140

Жыл бұрын

@@lizard944 You people will try to do anything to condone these types of behaviours.

@Blazeinbluebecausewhynot

Жыл бұрын

@@lizard944 I’m going to assume you were probably disciplined that way too, and you're just now coping by trying to defend this type of disgusting so-called "discipline."

The hair will grow back...the relationship will never be the same. I hope she heals from this humiliation.

@t.j.7789

Жыл бұрын

Actually, hair doesn't always "grow back." Some women have trouble with growing hair!!! This was all a ploy for views on social media!@!! Not real at ALL!!

@indiaannarie6023

Жыл бұрын

Hair will now grow differently

@Rosemarykaranja

Жыл бұрын

@@t.j.7789 oh was the girl in on it!?

@Rosemarykaranja

Жыл бұрын

@@t.j.7789 even worse if the hair doesn't grow back and the relationship is still ruined...but it would be even more sad if this was all for views and the girl was in on it

@Marie-yv3pd

Жыл бұрын

She may hate her mother for life after this🤦🏽‍♀️ She thinks she’s teaching her the right way, but this can create deeper insecurities. As a parent I get exhausted with repeating myself HOWEVER, I can’t scare my kids for life.

"I told you to stop being prettier than me", is what she really meant.

@JD-ob2ci

10 ай бұрын

That Part

@tina3038

10 ай бұрын

Nothing but FACTS !!!

@sissylopez4468

9 ай бұрын

She’s jealous of her

@Scratchingforcash

4 ай бұрын

Nope

@Sandyoo6026

4 ай бұрын

*yep

My mom humiliated me as a teen. She slapped me in front of all of my friends and classmates, because I walked my cousin home after a party. I was in the 7th grade. I still hate her for that this day, and I’m 49.

@gwenmloveskpopandmore

Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry u had to go through that

@Sunshinedoesmusic

Жыл бұрын

Heal.

@kingman1330

Жыл бұрын

*You should be ashamed of yourself!!!!!* Your mother hit you bcz she loves & worried about you!!! At the time you didn't understand the danger you put yourself in!!! These streets will est you alive. You need to forgive your mother & apologize!!! Life is too short for you to be focus on that!!!

@20maxilo

Жыл бұрын

Girl heal.. me too. Had a bad mother. But u can heal

@Bianca0414

Жыл бұрын

You probably deserved it! Child,I did allot when I was younger and my momma got me straight. Psh,now that I'm older I'm grateful my momma put me in my place .

Humiliating your child is never okay

@Maui_Gyrl_

Жыл бұрын

I hope this mother goes to jail or is charged with some sort of crime. Kids should have rights too! And this is a LATINA WOMAN NOT BLACK‼️‼️‼️‼️

@kimberlywilson422

Жыл бұрын

Never!

@janepatton8100

Жыл бұрын

Peer group humiliation can be a very powerful tool to subdue an unruly child. The lie is that it's inherently wrong. But I dare someone to explain why, and by what standard are they judging wrong. A child needs boundaries and discipline. Most discipline doesn't include humiliation. However, if peer group acceptance is causing them to act up, then the threat of peer group humiliation will cause them to pipe down. This absolutely kept me and my six siblings in check. So I'm not taking it off the table, regardless of what the "status quo" says.

@kimberlywilson422

Жыл бұрын

@@janepatton8100 It can also cause a child to commit suicide . If she do that for the world to see I can't imagine what she do at home.

@janepatton8100

Жыл бұрын

@@kimberlywilson422 Imagine that, chopping off hair that will grow back can cause someone to commit (sui- cide)... smh. This generation is in trouble.

My mom did this to me when I was 13. My hair was always long and down my back until then. She cut it into a tiny afro. I didn't understand why then. I have a much better picture now. But yeah, that's jealousy disguised as discipline yet really abuse!

@justspeakingthetruth4371

Жыл бұрын

Teachers lie too don't take everything for the gospel and the truth this is such a shame this mother has cut off all her daughter here and humiliated her like this to be blessed to carry a child nine months in the womb and then destroy her mentally there's no telling what this young lady may do to her when she's older or she may just cut her mother lose but this is very heartbreaking everybody make mistakes like the man just saying this is what kids do they make mistakes adults make mistakes and we learn from the mistakes that we make when we're older even the Bible says in 1 Corinthians 13 11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. THIS IS HORRIBLE AND SAD ON SO MANY LEVELS I FEEL SO SORRY FOR THIS YOUNG LADY WE DON'T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED BEHIND CLOSED DOORS IN SCHOOLS AND DON'T KNOW THE TEACHERS WERE HONESTLY TELLING THE TRUTH OR THE MOTHER JUST SAID THAT WE DON'T KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON SOME OTHERS ARE JEALOUS OF THEIR CHILDREN IT SEEM LIKE IT THESE DAYS BUT THE BIBLE DID SAY Luke 12:53 53 The father shall be divided against the son, and the son against the father; the mother against the daughter, and the daughter against the mother; the mother in law against her daughter in law, and the daughter in law against her mother in law. AND WE SEE IT ALL THE TIME THESE TEACHERS SOME OF THEM ARE OUT OF CONTROL TOO SHE MAY HAVE BEEN DOING HER WORK SIT DOWN AND TALK TO YOUR KIDS AND SEE WHAT WHAT'S GOING ON IN THE CLASSROOM AND WHAT'S GOING ON BUT IT'S SAD WE JUST GOT TO WATCH AS WELL AS PRAYING KEEP GOD FIRST OF ALL THINGS SO NOTHING IN THIS WORLD MATTERS BUT GOD KEEP HIM FIRST AND UNDERSTAND AND KNOW THAT YOUR CHILDREN ARE A BLESSING OR WHY THE CHILDREN YOU GOT IN YOUR CUSTODY OF CARE THAT YOU THE GUARDIAN OF THEY ARE TRULY YOUR BLESSING DON'T TAKE YOUR BLESSING FOR GRANTED

@minahtheweirdo

Жыл бұрын

My mother did the same to me when I was about 8. It still affects me till now. She was jealous of all her daughters.

@seekeroftruth1484

Жыл бұрын

Straight envy! I pray for her daughter to be rescued from her insecure ass momma! My gay brother did this to me when we were children and my mom whooped his ass!

@portiaparker1669

Жыл бұрын

😮 my mom took me to a “babysitter” of whom she & her daughter had short hair & my mom claimed that upon her return to pick me up the sitter had cut off all of my hair. I was too young; only months old; too remember. However, I do know that mom has always had waist-length hair & most likely; my intuition tells me; that she paid her to do it because she KNEW MY FATHER WOULD PROTECT/ Defend ME.Seeing me as a threat because everyone said we looked just alike; until recently & she was fearful of losing her throne position, in her mind 🤦🏽‍♀️ I am sorry that you experienced that abuse. Be Blessed and in good spirits, like myself 🙏🏽 💜🙌🏼

@fsco7153

Жыл бұрын

Sorry that happened to you 😢

A good mom would NEVER do something like this. What a beautiful girl. How traumatic, very traumatic for a teen to go through this. Narcissist Mothers, please seek counseling, your child DESERVES more.

The mom is a narcissist. She raged because her daughter wasn’t being the perfect reflection of her. My mom was like this too. I hope the girl is okay. ❤

@AnAdorableWombat

Жыл бұрын

Wrong! The mother is the other being jealous of her daughter. The mother was once the cute one and now that the daughter is getting attention, she subconsciously resents her daughter and tries to destroy her daughters beauty

@20maxilo

Жыл бұрын

My mom was narcissistic too. Couldn't please her even If I tried

@eisenhower9069

Жыл бұрын

​@@AnAdorableWombatnot everything is about jealousy. How can a mother be jealous of her own daughter. Women. Every cause of a problem has to be jealousy. The mother is simply what the comment above said she is. A narcissist

@just2genders668

4 ай бұрын

Shut up dude. You sound like you cry about every little inconvenience. Literal tears when something you don’t like happens.

How about taking time to study with her instead of humiliating her?

@janicerichards8959

Жыл бұрын

Bingo !!💯💯💯 Thanks Dear♥️♥️♥️

@traquilasmith831

Жыл бұрын

Exactly help her with her homework.

@MrsAmy24.7

5 ай бұрын

Exactly, children and teens are interested in what you seeds you sow interest in them.i sat with my children since babies and toddlers drawing coloring reading and even taught to sing.now they draw and sing better than me, the fruits show eventually they can try but they not going to be perfect.

Her daughter will never forget what her mother did to her..especially on live for millions to see.

@georganastabler7465

Жыл бұрын

Nor should she. The woman has no excuse.

@princelips3980

Жыл бұрын

Disgusting clout chasing pos

@lalah6157

Жыл бұрын

Good. She needs to respect her Mom.

@sayhello5377

Жыл бұрын

Well, mom has no one to blame by herself, and she’s never allowed to meet her grandkids and ends up in the worst nursing home.

@gwenmloveskpopandmore

Жыл бұрын

@@sayhello5377 heck yeah

This is how children learn how to use evil deeds to settle disputes. It's taught by parents. The act was uncalled for.

Don’t be surprised if the daughter goes low contact or no contact with her mom once she turns 18.

This happened to a girl I went to high school with. She came to school with a scarf and one of the other kids snatched it off. She was sent to the guidance counselor office and Cps was called and they removed her from her family. It’s abuse for anybody agreeing with the mom.

@janepatton8100

Жыл бұрын

CPS is also taking kids away from families that refuse to use their made-up pronouns. So that's no indicator of whether or not this was right or wrong. Will it create the outcome that the mother wants? That's the question. Hair can grow back, but an unruly child got one life to lose. But that's hard to explain to a generation that worships hair.

@iamabundant618

Жыл бұрын

@@janepatton8100 If you agree with the mom just say that.🙄 It’s abuse plain and simple take your rant to another comment.

@janepatton8100

Жыл бұрын

@@iamabundant618 Lol... that's exactly what I said.

@iamabundant618

Жыл бұрын

@@janepatton8100 K.

@tanyagivens4338

Жыл бұрын

@Iamabundant I don't believe in public shaming, but a parent can choose to cut their children's hair. What bothers me about the whole situation is the amount of people that act like the girl is no longer pretty with short hair. I am more worried about the vanity and limited foresight of the call CPS generation. Mom probably should have been encouraged to get her a decent cut to help her adjust to the change. Kids usually adapt quickly if you don't make it an issue.

The therapist nailed it talking about this behavior acting as a pipeline to abusive relationships. My mother was similar to this, she didn’t do this exact thing, but LOVED to humiliate me, was abusive, would giggle and sing songs about my sadness while I cried (as a child!), and I found myself in abusive relationships into my mid twenties. We accept the “love” we think we deserve.

@kassiestevenson6806

Жыл бұрын

Hope that poor girl gets some therapy

@tinaisrael118

Жыл бұрын

Haley G sad to hear you went through that. Curious, are you and your mom close now?

@xLadyBastet

Жыл бұрын

I know how you feel. I’m in my twenties now and I still get made fun of by my mom and brother for being very depressed. I listen to music to keep myself calm and my mom and brother still laugh at me for it.

Mom in a nursing home :"why doesn't my daughter talk to me any more?"

Straight up CHILD ABUSE . Disgusting made me sick to my stomach to watch that! As a hair stylist with a daughter the same age I know how important it is to a teenager to feel they look good ! what the mother did hear is emotional abuse! The worst kind! Although this beauties hair will grow back the pts will stay with her forever! 😢

She could have confiscated her makeup and taken away some other privilege until her grades improved. The mom didn't have to post that online, but she is thirsty for attention and wanting to go viral.

@angelinimartini

Ай бұрын

You’re likely right about the mom wanting attention. It’s just so hard to disciple some kids though. I see it at the store. The kids really have the parents in a chokehold. It kind of sucks but I kind of get the hair getting cut off. They used to make women cut their hair, albeit not all the way, in the military back in the day. More lenient now. My aunt had her hair chopped off and then forced to keep it shoulder length when she was in the military. Then when her kids would act up she would sometimes chop off their hair. Forces a certain compliance when it comes to certain problems. All kids need to be disciplined differently. My mom would yell at me and she would break my things… not a way for a parent to act but it forced me to comply. Love my mom but I don’t like her till this day. But it shows that as a parent you need to stay on top of your kids in terms of expectations when they are young. When they are older it won’t be much of a problem because they had a good foundation.

@user-fz7kt6cy5t

Ай бұрын

Take the phone away ​@@angelinimartini

My grandmother did this to me when I was 13 for no good reason. Yeah, the hair grew back and she never touched my hair again after that, but I will never forget what she did or how she ignored me when I went back to my room and cried.

@heather4089

6 ай бұрын

My paternal grandmother used to humiliate me for the simple fact that she hated my mother . Calling me names like poor $girl, not having class for my moms side not having $, she was so evil, when she died I didn’t bother to travel for her funeral.

@somethingisbaking2401

Ай бұрын

"No good reason". For sure

If that a child ends up pregnant and bringing in another child into the world. It’s because she felt like she was alone, had no one to talk to, nobody on her side and nobody to protect her. Disgusting. Should not call herself a mother. You’re a horrible human being. You scared that child for life. I hope you go to jail ma’am

Says "Being cute ain't shh" With a filter on the video. She is jealous of her daughter. And she needs to be watched closely by cps

@Black0bsidian

Жыл бұрын

Yes

@verreal

Жыл бұрын

That was the most bizarre part. I was delighted that my kids were better looking than me. And their father regularly said "We did make beautiful babies. The sum is greater than the parts."

@christinasapp162

Жыл бұрын

She is very jealous of her daughters beauty. So sad your still beautiful baby girl

@crystalsherman8896

Жыл бұрын

He daughter needs to be taken away now

@patremagilbert8787

Жыл бұрын

Agree

These types of parents are pathetic.. They be the ones setting rules and standards for their kids that they can’t even abide by themselves… If your child isn’t doing well in school, as a f**king parent it’s your obligation to help that child receive special care and attention versus just saying, “you better get your grades up or else!” Uugghh some people should never have kids!

@sarcasticallyrearranged

Жыл бұрын

They’re lacking in emotional intelligence and can’t understand providing a solution,instead they think everything should work out with sheer desire!

@hfrt29

Жыл бұрын

Yes because all they're doing is instilling fear. We need compassion not power trips

@ladybobbi7678

Жыл бұрын

Well said x

@zianeshkasparen4358

Жыл бұрын

These are not parents. She us a Narcistic Ahole.

@myahill7475

Жыл бұрын

That woman is a narcissist! She wants to be only pretty one. She’s bothered that her daughter is trying to explore her social environment and physical attractiveness.

The way she just let her cut it off and was complacent makes my heart hurt, girl no one should ever touch you like that, not even your mamma. And momma, please learn YOUR lesson, this was abuse, and not ok, learn and move on, take care of your baby.

@georganastabler7465

Жыл бұрын

Child needs to be removed from the home. Period.

@aracelivaldez9941

Жыл бұрын

I was in an abusive relationship and after sometime I would just surrender like she did. She is used to being treated like this.

@madisonwrye11

Ай бұрын

@@aracelivaldez9941 TRUTH

People who are going through this same situation that this young girl is going through....YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!! YOU ARE LOVED!!! And most certainly.....YOU MATTER!!!!!

Social media is the biggest curse of modern society.

@KingofgraceSARA

Жыл бұрын

If it were not for SM, this would have happened in private and no one would know that Jezebel is a monster.

@malikholmes5045

Жыл бұрын

@@KingofgraceSARA wait so who's side arev you on???? Thats a fuckin child!!!

@theorigin1891

Жыл бұрын

100% kids, adolescents, adult all need attention just sad

@indescribable3865

Жыл бұрын

Only because we know more about how the world actually is! If social media existed in the past they would have been saying and doing awful things in there. The world just got smaller and we can see what’s actually been happening. The world hasn’t gotten worse, you just know more about what’s actually happening.

@PhoenixMoth

Жыл бұрын

Yes and no, it’s a blessing AND a curse.

It's the mom that needs to be punished.

@user-hv9vn4fi4w

Жыл бұрын

Mom is normal

@sexysenior8934

Жыл бұрын

Immediately...🤨

@octaviawalker823

Жыл бұрын

I wish I can give her a makeover because she is in need of it. Her face is not attractive versus her daughters. I am pretty sure she will get a lot of backlash on this one.

@kevinboudreaux7860

Жыл бұрын

its a painless punishment that won't soon be forgotten. if there was proper warning, and she hadn't taken video and posted it online, its not unreasonable.

@K7nnyy

Жыл бұрын

I heard the kid got taken away and cps was involved

Every kid deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a kid

I really like this therapist, a lot!! Thank you for letting people know that public humiliation is NOT a good thing...ever!!

The mother could've found out why she got bad grades and got her a tutor public humiliation is terrible

@godslove7928

Жыл бұрын

Agreed she should have gotten her a tutor...are see if the school had assistance for one

@adrenalene5098

Жыл бұрын

The girl is probably getting bad grades because she seems to be getting mentally abused at home.

@SpecialEdTalk

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely 100%! Assessments to see if she had a learning difficulty, otherwise get her a tutor.

@KlodFather

Жыл бұрын

Fear and humiliation work... My son brought home crap grades, I told him I was going to school dressed as Jed Clampet to help him with his school work... He brought home all A's and one B and was apologizing for the B... Because he was CERTAIN I would do it LOL. I mean what I say and I have no shame ha ha. They were pretty good kids and are good hard working adults now. This little girl is exceptionally cute and is even cuter with it cut... I think it backfired. There are better ways to embarrass your kids into compliance.

@hollowyishere4955

10 ай бұрын

​@@KlodFathermy mother has the same way as that and I dont agree with you at all, he may have fixed those mistakes but it was out of fear, and it is also a way to make a kid feel threaten and humilated there are better ways to handle it. And i always hated it how she says those things and she still does with my sibling, and it does not help at all and it hurts alot even tho they dont show it, but remember it alot of it.

Abuse ! She's still beautiful even without braids.

I might’ve posted this before but that girl is one of prettiest girls I have ever seen. She doesn’t even need hair.

It’s so angering when the perpetrators try to “smooth things over” by not taking any kind of accountability for their actions and placing it solely on the victim.

Some people don't deserve to be parents.

@angelathomas7184

Жыл бұрын

Boom you hit the nail on the head. People having children that’s broken themselves. Haven’t healed themselves this young Queen now gonna have to deal. With her’s and her mom’s brokenness at the same time. Mother this ain’t the way especially to get to the matter. Why is the daughter doing what she’s doing anyways mother ask yourself that. Before going cutting her hair off this really takes the cake. Women and Men heal before bringing a life into this world. Or the cycles is gonna keep on repeating itself.

@rashonnedveirin3931

Жыл бұрын

Right

@Plumeria808

Жыл бұрын

Yep

@antonioalston1074

Жыл бұрын

Right!

@pushi1735

Жыл бұрын

Not some. Most. Good parents are in movies most of the time.

So basically the daughter is popular in school and people find her attractive… the therapist literally said the mom said “you’re at school thinking you’re cute” so the mom was jealous that her daughter was beautiful? And to punish her is to cut off her hair to tarnish her beauty so she can make herself look better then her daughter… which was considered a competition in the moms eyes

@alvisbondwinchester7757

Жыл бұрын

TRUTH💯💯💯💯

@aGwEENapple

Жыл бұрын

Supposedly because she has a beautiful face. Can't take her beauty away!

@jaeeluv

Жыл бұрын

💯😤 I really wanna square up with the mom bruh

@Maui_Gyrl_

Жыл бұрын

Her mother wasn't jealous of her damn daughter. She wanted her to focus on her education not her beauty. But she did this "lesson teaching" the wrong way. She is the one who need therapy and parenting skills.💯 Where is her dad??? And isn't these the women Black men say are the better women and better moms, ie.. the cooperative Latinas and Whyte women?🤔 Well thanks to social media, we see that is NOT the truth‼️💯💯🤦🏾

@kimberlywilson422

Жыл бұрын

@@jaeeluv Me to.

Genuine question - why does the daughter just stand there and allow it? I’m a mother of 3 beautiful, polite and respectful, well disciplined teen girls (who often struggle to prioritise the things they should like getting schoolwork done, so normal teens) and I can guarantee if I tried anything like this they would yell and scream at me and physically try to stop me. She doesn’t even put up a fight. Is she in shock? Is she too afraid to stand up for herself because of past experience/abuse? This just strikes me as a really odd response. I at least expected her to pull away and say “mama no! Please no!”

@tnyamusic4769

8 ай бұрын

The little girl tryed stopping her mom at first but then she gave up. It is a shock response and also an unhealthy fear response of her mother because the daughter does go through other types of abuse from her mom as well. I can tell by the video the daughter deals with this type of behavior from her mom all the time.

Omg, do you guys even know the story? If not don’t assume, the daughter had it coming to her the mom told the daughter that if she continued to do what she did then she would cut her hair off and record it and post it. so the daughter knew this was coming she just wanted to test her mother. And if you guys wanna argue with me go ahead I don’t care just don’t assume next time, next time make sure you know what is going on and what the reason was. The mother only said that her daughter was on some apps that she should not have been on and she was skipping classes and the mother told her daughter that for 3 MONTHS!! But the daughter didn’t care she keep getting a new account after her mother found her old ones. The mother did not let her daughter go to school like how she is now she let her daughter wear a wig so she wants embarrassed. The daughter said that she had it coming for her and she said it was okay and that she learned her lesson. It’s not like the mother hit her or anything like that you have to understand that backstory before assuming things!

That mom is attention seeking. You don't broadcast your punishment of your kid online unless it's constructive and this was not constructive. If she was really concerned with her education her punishment should have been a book report or doing hours of math problems. Her hair had nothing to do with teaching your child.

@iTranscendx

Жыл бұрын

Constructive or not why put it online! Keep it at home!

@lisanewton8237

Жыл бұрын

@@iTranscendx agreed but some parents share with others parents. I don't agree with it in most cases but there might be a handful of cases that don't involve the parent's ego.

@luluah1198

Жыл бұрын

Looks fake to me and the daughter is checking out her new look. She Seems to be in fake lashes And make up and ready for the so called punishment . What don’t believe it

@iTranscendx

Жыл бұрын

@@lisanewton8237 makes sense!

@shailayajohnson1072

Жыл бұрын

Right my mom used to have us do something similar to that. Had to do Math problems, written sentences, we had no phone. But this right here is just upsetting 🥺

She's not into physical abuse but proceeds to physically cut off that poor girls crown. How she thinks that was normal or ok is beyond me?

@Rebecca-hc5ju

Жыл бұрын

Then pushes her face into the camera!!!😡😡😡😡

@kerenjeanne3556

Жыл бұрын

Right the physical will heal but this is even more traumatic. She need parenting skills. This is NOT cute

@klarabess4995

Жыл бұрын

She doesn't have a crown. That's something only people of color have. Yep I said what I said! She has hair on her head that's it.😏

@TheDoors777

Жыл бұрын

@@klarabess4995 she is of color...are you blind?

@yolandalcheek462

Жыл бұрын

Then yanks her head down

Glad this made the news. This woman is crazy and needs to be criticized in every where possible. And yes, she did traumatize her daughter, that girl was in shock and disbelief

@diamontedaswan645

Жыл бұрын

Definitely crazy

@georganastabler7465

Жыл бұрын

@@diamontedaswan645 abusive and cruel. I hope the girl hates her for the rest of her miserable life.

@mssocial9086

Жыл бұрын

Yes, she was clearly stunned.

@yolandataylor267

Жыл бұрын

This person so call mother is crazy to do this hateful act of abuse to her daughter , Is this her daughter is she adopted regardless this is a cruel and an unusual punishment shame, shame on you what did your mother do to you that was so bad , did she on purpose put you up for sale because you were acting to pretty because I just can't get my mind around this , but that you are evil

@KlodFather

Жыл бұрын

@@yolandataylor267 - SO what would you do? Have a talk with her? Really? Yea right. Completely ineffective. When they ignore you and defy you... its time to take more drastic approaches. Delete their social accounts. Take phones and computers. Nuke their social sphere. And the sky is the limit. I am a father and Eddie Murphy said it best. THis is my house... and if you don't like it, get the F out. I am not kicking out the kids... But I will make it a living hell for non compliance. No Fun. No treats. No TV. No internet. School, Work, Sleep, Eat, Study. And NO FUN of any kind till it gets straightened out. You are all too soft then you wonder why the jail house is full. Full of kids with no consequences.

I feel so bad, but even though her hair got chopped, she still looks STUNNING! ❤️ praying for her🙏🙏🙏

There relationship will never be the same again

My mother was abusive and she used to threaten humiliation I’m still damaged from it. Can’t imagine if she had had access to the internet. That mom is abusive. I remember a father doing this to his son years ago. And the therapist is RIGHT as an adult I got into abusive relationships because it felt “normal” I’m all for discipline but it shouldn’t be scarring abuse. It should be a lesson that teaches them something productive. What did that teach her? If someone don’t do what she wants she can do something to them.

@RicardoMartinez-ib5kv

Жыл бұрын

When i was at a young age my mom did a pony tail and send me to sleep i believe now she gave me something cause i didn't recall till i woke up the pony tail was not there anymore..Then in middle school i was shaving my legs she cought me and she finished doing it rough shaving taking part of my skin with it and send me to school in skirt...but whatevere cause the teacher there i cant say nothing,if u interrupt the class the teacher with the pen poke on top of my hair till she reach my scalp..it was a tough growing up process...

@RicardoMartinez-ib5kv

Жыл бұрын

Im a woman but using different phone i just wanted other woman to know u r not alone in this...just make me more tough..im most defensive.

@ASurfgirl

Жыл бұрын

@@RicardoMartinez-ib5kv sorry you went through that and yes I completely understand. Some ppl shouldn’t be parents. Why I never wanted nor will have children. I never wanted that level of responsibility one but also I do not want to put a human being through what my parents put me through and then expect them one day to be functioning adults that can take care of themselves. I feel bad for this girl also the little boy I saw his father do this on a FB post awhile ago. It’s like a whole other level of humiliation that’s on the internet forever. Bad enough she did it but to record and post it for likes and views is sick! I hope that’s the extend of her abuse towards her daughter but I HIGHLY doubt it where there is smoke there is fire and this is what she’ll willingly post on the internet. My mother would beat us in public and nobody did anything and she was FAR worse behind closed doors. She posted it as control not to teach her any actual valuable lesson. It’s sick. I hope CPS doesn’t get involved but I mean they can be pretty useless too.

@blackking2291

Жыл бұрын

Actually being cute is more important than education if she wants a good husband when she grows up... What's even more important is being polite and respectful.

@octaviawalker823

Жыл бұрын

Ocean Mergirl I totally agree with you on this one. This really ain't teaching her a thing besides being humiliated on a screen where millions of people can see. I learned talking to a child, teen and mostly an adult just takes a little bit of talking to. People can relate when you talk to them being calm not escalating the situation. The mother is triflin and looks like a clown. Why cut her hair, why not take her laptop away? or taking her cell phone away, or even telling her to stay in her room without any activities or a week. The mother could of had her daughter write a letter of how important it is to change her behavior. There are so many other ways of discipline. No, this clown taken the most precious thing from her and that is her hair. Well the good thing is hair grows, the bad is these actions will always be within her daughter that will make the situation worst when it comes to communicating. Bad home to grow up in. I can only imagine. The mother is suffering herself. Maybe counseling for the family. It's never too late.

The daughter may look like the father so much that her mother takes her anger for him out on her.

@SharonStainer

Жыл бұрын

That is one reason my Momma abused and let others abuse me like she did, was because I looked like my sperm donor and because I wasn’t a boy!! SMH 😢

@misn757

Жыл бұрын

@@SharonStainer I'm so sorry that happened to you 💔😢 Sending a virtual hug 🫂

@lindaj7167

Жыл бұрын

@@SharonStainer you're not alone. My mother did the same with me

@flashylights

Жыл бұрын

Not always women can be incredibly cruel to other women (even their own daughter). Happens more than you think.

@justtubing767

Жыл бұрын

The father should punch the mother in the mouth for embarrassing and traumatizing his daughter. She would be missing teeth if that was my daughter.

She not only traumatized that girl she broke her own child spirit in front of millions of people. They need to take her out of that home. Something is wrong with that mother to do something like that. Wow.😮

😱That woman is not going to change!!! She needs to face legal consequences!!!!

Yes that mother is a whole mess the daughter was still beautiful after her was cut. Beautiful face, jaw line, eyes all that.

@user-hv9vn4fi4w

Жыл бұрын

... face, jaw lone.... 😆

@sarcasticallyrearranged

Жыл бұрын

*sow Sew is what you do to repair a piece of clothing.

@everybodytalkstodemons5892

Жыл бұрын

@@sarcasticallyrearranged sow what? Who are you talking to and what are you talking about? Lol

@lashannawilliams7721

Жыл бұрын

Beauty has nothing to do with it... What if she wasn't as " easy on the eyes" ? How would we respond? Abuse is abuse....

@ayoutubechannel.1733

Жыл бұрын

This so called "mother" is definitely envious of her daughter's beauty.

My mom did this to me as punishment “bet that boy ain’t gone like you no more” and my step dad held me down while she cut.. definitely not a punishment

@whateverheather655

Жыл бұрын

By the looks of your picture, your .mom was probably jealous of you and didn't want step daddy looking at you . Sad but most likely true . Its not fair you had to suffer like that. I had a mother, which is jealous of me, and it is very painful . Normal things you want to share with your mom you can't because it will be met with negative remarks . Hugs sweety 😘 ❤️

@feliciaboston6365

Жыл бұрын

That is disgusting

@insertnamehere9154

Жыл бұрын

Heartbreaking😢virtual hug🤗

@groovykindoflove8055

Жыл бұрын

Sorry 😞 you had to experience that

@toniesedrick691

Жыл бұрын

No, it's a brutal crime, scissors and all.

You can discipline your child, but recording a posting it online is just ego play

U know a parent is a controlling freak when they say “u don’t do what ur SUPPOSED to”

My mother did this to me about age 12,it wasn't discipline,I had long beautiful hair,she took me in and got a pixie haircut,I was devastated.What's really bizarre is she kept my long ponytail in a drawer for decades.And this was in the 1960s.I still think about it.This mom has a beautiful daughter, I hope she heals from this trauma.

@1_star_reviews

Жыл бұрын

I watched a dear friend of mine mother do this to her and I was disgusted but as a 12 year old there was nothing I could do to help my bestie. She grew up to become a very violent adult and I think that day was the day that the switch clicked. She cried for weeks and we hid out in the middle school bathroom for the first 2 weeks because we couldn’t beat every person that decided to bully her.

@gwenmloveskpopandmore

Жыл бұрын

@@1_star_reviews yeah reminds me of my cousin she’s being abused now cuz my dad’s dad was abusive and it wound up making his brother abusive

@V.E.R.O.

11 ай бұрын

She kept it as a trophy.

Honestly my twin cousins dad did this to them when we were in high school. I was scarred for life by this. The fact he had to do this twice with two twins was mentally traumatizing. Not to mention they both came to a small community high school the next day looking like they were butchered … I never forgave my uncle

@Failureisnotanoptionever

Жыл бұрын

Please forgive him now! For you…

@janepatton8100

Жыл бұрын

🤔... If you never forgave your uncle over a haircut, you got some issues unrelated to hair.

@tanyagivens4338

Жыл бұрын

It wasn't your hair.🤔

@dalmaus

Жыл бұрын

@@janepatton8100 imagine him holding not one but TWO beautiful sisters down and humiliating them in front of our entire small high school… no IM SORRY you have issues and think that’s ok…

@dalmaus

Жыл бұрын

@@Failureisnotanoptionever imagine him holding not one but TWO beautiful sisters down and humiliating them in front of our entire small high school… no IM SORRY you have issues and think that’s ok…

She should be charge with hate crime smh. Spreeing their hate onto children calling it discipline Poor gal was shocked. She’s so disgusting and feel rage watching this. Nothing but hate in her heart

That is just messed up, you are a HORRIBLE MOTHER! A ladies hair is very valuable, but what's even more valuable is your counseling, love and RESPECT! 😡✝️

I feel so bad for that poor baby 😢😢

@Youcandoitto

Жыл бұрын

😢😢Me too!!!!😢😩😢

@perfectpitchmeow7470

Жыл бұрын

Same here! 😢

@lixm_is.thebest5196

Жыл бұрын

@@perfectpitchmeow7470 Same she looked so shocked the other videos were worse it showed her daughter with a wig and she was literally gaslighting the daughter and you can just tell the mom was forcing her to answer these questions making it seem like the daughter was in the wrong and that just made me even more pissed off but all i gotta say is even without barely any hair that child is still very beautiful her mom really thought she was gonna take her beauty away by chopping off her hair

@traypeachez6

Жыл бұрын

And you wonder why these kids are killing their parents because behind closed doors or maybe in the public it's on social media they embarrassing their child. children don't know how to deal with that kind of stuff especially from their parents ...

@erinmccarthy1275

Жыл бұрын

I do but I don't .... Sry....I think the daughter probably kept pushing her and the daughter didn't think she was serious when she warned her with this prior. Do I feel bad? 50/50. I say that bcuz the 2nd video made it seem like it was a whole joke with them laughing and hugging each other.

The mother violated her daughter’s RIGHTS. No one has Any Right to Cut her hair OFF. She is GROWN, Not a baby. Her daughter is Grown Enough to Decide how she likes to wear her Hair.

And this mom will wonder why her daughter hates her.

Disgraceful. She just completely traumatized her daughter for life and she will never forget this. If there’s one thing girls get insecure about is there hair, so for her to do some sh*t like that on top for the world to see is disgusting. My daughter tries to hide her hair in school when she feels it don’t look good enough, I could NEVER do such thing. That’s horrible! This pissed me off!

When mothers destroy how their daughter look it makes it seem like maybe she was jealous of her.

@SapphireDragonflySpiritual

Жыл бұрын

Yes! I agree

@ayoutubechannel.1733

Жыл бұрын

She's definitely envious of her daughter's beauty.

@janepatton8100

Жыл бұрын

Or the child was unruly and unwilling to listen like she said.

@Khadijahsmama

Жыл бұрын

Not maybe, definitely!

@ayoutubechannel.1733

Жыл бұрын

@@janepatton8100 That doesn't warrant this horrible abuse. There are many effective ways to discipline a teenage girl. The "mother" is clearly envious of her daughter's beauty.

That was not discipline. That was jealousy. It's hard to watch.

The hair will grow back but the trust and respect is totally gone

The look on the child’s face is sad, the child is in shock😢 praying for their family. Love/care from a parent should not be associated with shame.

@janepatton8100

Жыл бұрын

I wander will it create the desired outcome.

@shunlondamccall1967

Жыл бұрын

@@janepatton8100 i highly doubt it, if anything it may make it worse, beauty is not visualized just by hair!

Mom is jealous of her child. Unfortunately… daughter still beautiful af!

@user-hv9vn4fi4w

Жыл бұрын

Mom is normal

@umagnus77

Жыл бұрын

@@user-hv9vn4fi4w ....and thats scary

@DeepBreathingMeditation

Жыл бұрын

@@user-hv9vn4fi4w you must be her. No that's was sad and pathetic. Hope daughter doesn't accept abuse later on

@ceceprincess4758

Жыл бұрын

Look like mom

@Maui_Gyrl_

Жыл бұрын

The mother isn't jealous!! She wanted her to focus on her education and stop being bad but she did this the wrong way!💯 She can rot in h*ll. And this is a LATINA WOMAN NOT BLACK !!

The shock on this child’s face!!! I cannot & will not EVER in life do this to my child or anyone else’s!!! This is just awful & heartbreaking & this child will NEVER be the same!

@KlodFather

Жыл бұрын

She will get over it and will be OK. This is a minor bump in the road compared to failing a grade or a run-in with the law. This little girl needs to learn to OBEY her mother 100%... and as a father I would tell her, You do what your mother says. No exceptions. You have a complaint? You raise it to me respectfully and I will explain it and deal with it if there is a problem. That is how it should be done. But trust me that girl will be OK. This situation between these two probably would not have happened if there was a dad in the home.

@MayaLVL

Жыл бұрын

@@KlodFatheri doubt she will just get over it. she's cut her head right upto her head and she for YEARS will struggle with her hair whilst remembering what her mother did. i am telling you this because it happened to me when i was 13. and i never forgot it.

@KlodFather

Жыл бұрын

@@MayaLVL - I agree with you that it is traumatic, but I also assure you that as a 13 year old boy who loves girls like this one, I would have been very pleased to see her and have her as GF. She is really cute with her braids and would be equally as beautiful if her head was completely clean... I know because my on friend, her mother buzzed her bald the same way... And I loved putting kisses on it. The girl hated her bald head but would giggle that I loved kissing it and hugging her. I hope this girl has some support system other than crazy karen mom. I wish I knew where my friend was today. I pray she is happy and well. (I know I am a stupid sentimental simp sometimes)

That’s not discipline, that’s jealousy… The mom’s boyfriend probably kept telling her how pretty her daughter was.

My mom did this to me … it’s traumatizing! I’m not healed from it years and years later

@gwenmloveskpopandmore

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry u had to go through this hugs 🫂

This goes further than what we see.

😤That Brought Back Memories Of My Own Narcissistic Mother And Her Emotional Abuse Towards Me At Times 😒💅🏽🤦🏽‍♀️🙏🏽Lord Protect These Kids In These Last Days We Live In…

This is traumatizing. It was done to me when I was 9yrs. I was traumatized to the core and bullied at school as a result. That is child abuse!

Never discipline your child when you’re angry !!!

@angeleyes3386

Жыл бұрын

Right that’s my rule of thumb.

@basiccake2805

Жыл бұрын

I got discipline when my mom was angry. My mom had hit me because of my cousin I was a teenager at the time.

@ceceprincess4758

Жыл бұрын

True but that's hard

@latyshal.2286

Жыл бұрын

Never ever!

@lidyaafework4116

Жыл бұрын

I don’t think you got the message.

The daughter may go along with her mother’s actions now as an adolescent but when she turns 18, sadly this will be at the height of a discussion the minute the mom and daughter has a disagreement about something. No matter how much the mother tries to make up for this, the daughter will instinctively react from the emotional abuse. The mother won’t realize what’s happening at first but eventually, she’ll start feeling it and by then, the damage to their relationship is already done.

@janepatton8100

Жыл бұрын

I see that happening too, but only because most on social media are framing this as abuse. It's a freakin haircut... I promise you it'll grow back.

@Simplysharon

Жыл бұрын

@@janepatton8100public humiliation

@tinaisrael118

Жыл бұрын

@@janepatton8100 it's not about it growing back, it's about her humiliating her.

This is heartbreaking. She did not deserve this. From the looks of it, the mother allowed her to be "cute." Her daughter won't be the same after this. Sad. God bless you, lil sis. I pray you have a beautiful life moving forward, in Jesus mighty name. Amen

This was hard to watch. My parents used traditional discipline, and it was done in private, as opposed to this new age nonsense of chastising your kid on social media for likes and views. It doesn’t even matter whether that was her real hair or not, the way she went about “punishing” her is wrong. All she did was display her bad parenting skills. It’s a wonder this stupidity is still trending. I hope DCFS gets involved because this could escalate into something more.

This is outrageous! As a parent, yes, you can discipline your child, but why would she do this on a video? Now, this poor baby will have to go to school to be bullied. I think CPS should intervene there's probably some deeper issues going on in the house. This is not how you discipline a child!

@sonialawton4010

Жыл бұрын

So true if a man came in the house and did that to the mother he would definitely go to jail on that abuse

@sheriklein7971

Жыл бұрын

And then shove her head into the camera. Her mom has some mental issues in my opinion. Ground the daughter. Take her favorite things away. Get her help on her schoolwork.

@y-oyoo

Жыл бұрын

@@sonialawton4010💀⁉️

I’m a strict parent, a child of strict parents. But they weren’t cruel. That was not a good move Mom. Expect long enduring emotional repercussions. Pray your daughter doesn’t hold grudges long term and in later years does not seek to wreak revenge. Hope you can afford family counseling. That was ugly. The kicker is that your daughter’s beauty is even more apparent.

@janepatton8100

Жыл бұрын

But still bad as heck, not that it matters. Apparently, in this Society Beauty trump's character.

@plumpbird.

Жыл бұрын

@@janepatton8100 whats ur obsession with hair and beauty geez storming every comment copy and pasting the same thing

@janepatton8100

Жыл бұрын

@@plumpbird. You actually read all of those.... weird much.

Girly is not a child. Don’t get it twisted. She is just about adult status. If she wants to act adult then accept adult responsibility or punishments.

She needs to be arrested. She violated her daughter’s body. I hope the father steps in and gets his child.

Please stop disciplining your kids on social media or any other public platform!!!! Just stop!!!!

That mother is so wrong for cutting her daughter's hair and what makes it so bad she did it on social media. #Abuse@it'sfinest #jealousmom

Any parent who shames their child online should have their visitation rights revoked.

This is a terrible mother. You never disrespect your child on a video. I’m glad she isn’t my mother.

That made me cry. I feel bad for that girl. Sending prayers to her 🙏 ❤️

I was a strict parent but I would of never cut my kids hair.

You don't know what the daughter is guilty of! I support the Mom because this could save the girl's life; online dangers from men are serious. The jails are FILLED with people whose parents thought discipline was unnecessary. The graveyards are full of young girls obsessed with attention from men. Pedos always tell the girls how attractive they are.

This is abuse. Straight up abuse. What is wrong with parents who do this?!

I can't imagine what else she's done or will do to that child...abuse

@user-hv9vn4fi4w

Жыл бұрын

Don't overplay

@sexysenior8934

Жыл бұрын

EXACTLY

I saw this earlier in the week on another platform, it made me angry and so upset. What that mother did was cruel and wicked and there was no reason for going to that extreme. She said she doesn't believe in physical violence but what she did is physical as well as psychologically violent. There are so many other ways the child could have been punished, for example take way her phone, her privileges, ground her, perhaps confiscate some of her favorite outfits for a while. I felt so sorry for the daughter, she looked helpless and vulnerable, imagine what that has done to her confidence as a young girl. How would the mother like someone to chop off all her hair and post the video on Social Media for the whole world to see?!!

@nedstuson1255

Жыл бұрын

That Is So WRONG That Mom Is So Evil Her Daughter Will Never Forget What She Did To Her In Front Of The Whole World OMG THAT POOR YOUNG LADY I JUST CAN'T IMAGINE WHAT HER SCHOOL CLASS MATES WILL CLOWN ON HER AND HER MOTHER KIDS ARE SO COLD BLOODED WHEN THEY WANT TO BE MEAN OMG SO SAD

@sonialawton4010

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely!!

@pennPi

Жыл бұрын

I seriously doubt the girl did anything wrong. With a narcissist parent you are programmed to walk on eggshells. Narcissists give impossible standards, probably used anything as an excuse for punishment. Mother did this out of jealousy.

That is no reason to cut the daughters hair off.

Wellness check. Remove the child from the home. She's unfit.

That girl is sooooo pretty that even with a short cut, she’s gonna turn heads. ☺️

@none360business6

Жыл бұрын

Yes she is 💙💙💙💙this went to far awwwww man

My mother did this to my sister and I when we were kids... As a result, when I had my son, I didn't cut his hair until he was nine years old... This was traumatic for my sister and I and embarrassing.... My heart goes out to this young lady.. This is clear abuse and I hope the mother suffers consequences.... This just brought back memories for me... 😭😭

@ashleyrebora2168

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry y’all had to endure that 😔I wish you guys nothing but the best in life❤️sending love

@lashannawilliams7721

Жыл бұрын

@@ashleyrebora2168 Thanks💓

@micheleingrassia7061

Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry😟

@janepatton8100

Жыл бұрын

Did it work? That's the question. Hair can grow back, but an unruly child got one life to lose. But that's hard to explain to a generation that worships hair.

@omg3544

Жыл бұрын

@@janepatton8100 thank you. I thought I was the only one who see it the way you do. Everybody's like oh she's a terrible parent, but humility can save a life, youknowwhatimean?? You said exactly what I was thinking, that this generation thinks it's all about hair and lashes and making faces with the peace sign. Like, y'all are cringy asf. I cannot with this bot mentality. And everytime these influencers hop on camera and it's a bad hair day, they can't even concentrate and get to the point without keep stopping to pet the hair and say ' omgod, I look a mess y'alllllll'. Too cringy for me

That Mom is just a nasty person! She was wrong totally. To humiliate your child on the internet can have drastic effects. This was terrible. 😭

I simply want to hug the girl and say look you're fine, I'm here, and I'm damn proud of you.... you'll continue to grow.. And you're so pretty you deserve the world

a mother should not want to break her baby’s spirit. she’s beautiful regardless of her hair. in my culture your hair is your strength, a connection to your ancestors. my heart is broken. baby girl you are pretty, mom get some help!

@ayoutubechannel.1733

Жыл бұрын

This so called "mother" is definitely envious of her daughter's beauty.

Wrong as 2 left shoes.

@shaylalauren

Жыл бұрын

And she don’t even know it!!!

Humiliating child on public is not it. This 'mom' is making it about her instead of her child

She will never heal completely. I would never trust her again.

Abuse! Period! I have a teenage daughter and cannot imagine doing this to her.

@sonialawton4010

Жыл бұрын

I may have felt like doing that, but I could never... love my daughters too much and I know the anger/annoyance is for just a moment. Get it together and I'd tell them what I'm passed about.

Don't cut her hair. Just throw all her make up away if she is too focused on her looks over her education.

This mother definitely needs to be turned in you don't humiliate your child on social media where the world can see!!!! Who does that.... what caring mother does that???!!!!!!!!

How she thinks that was normal or ok is beyond me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This nothing but child abuse. The woman in this video that calls her self a mother, should be arrested ASAP!!!!!!!!!