Another great episode! Scott is a legit expert who is surprisingly captivating

@littleblossom7827

24 күн бұрын

I cackled at the crudely drawn “SAD” 😂. High quality acts of mockery are top humor to me

@mariakleine5935

24 күн бұрын

Git it Scott! 😻

@wackadoodle12

23 күн бұрын

Tky, on the toe curl thing. How I survived for 60 years without that information is well...what it is. Better late than never!❤😂

@dilafng

23 күн бұрын

Oh, I’m not at all surprised how captivating he is. 😊

@wackadoodle12

23 күн бұрын

@@dilafng it's impossible to talk about it without being it.😆

Scott has a soothing voice. He is the Bob Ross of body language 😅

@princessskennnyy

24 күн бұрын

Totally agree!

A lot easier than spotting a psychopath or narcissist is learning how to respect yourself and keep boundaries. We don’t do enough of teaching people, girls, especially, how to do this.

It just took me 30+ years to realize my ex husband was a narcissist. He was so loving, kind, bought me gifts, etc. when we were dating. Once the ring was on my finger, bam, he turned 180. I hightailed it out of that disaster 2 years later. I got out quick, but I couldn't understand why he was like this - now I realize who he was.

@denisep9497

22 күн бұрын

My very first love was a sociopath. He love bombed me hard and after we were in a full on live relationship, he turned. Emotionally and physically abusive.

@9094nancyj

22 күн бұрын

@@denisep9497 Sorry to hear about this. I can empathize with you.

@Joshualuv13

10 күн бұрын

Is a narcissist often a phycopath, and is a phycopath not always a narcissist?

I love the fact that you brought up the cycle of abuse to include the dopamine addiction and why we get addicted to these abusers that literally would brutally murder & jump up and down like a 2-year-old throwing a temper tantrum, I have so many people opening their big hole with why don't you just leave it's so simple. They have no idea the intricacies of any of it.

Several years ago I was told by my counselor at Scott AFB Family Advocacy to read up on sociopaths. She had seen my ex's medical record and of course couldn't tell me what was in it but that I needed to read up on it. That's why this is interesting to me. He's long gone and I'm getting ready to marry a wonderful man so life is good. Lesson learned!

@nocapbussin

25 күн бұрын

I did 2 enlistments and in my experience, 90%+ of domestic problems were caused by the wife; that's why spouses aren't always treated the best because we've seen it all. The myth is that the men are these unhinged and violent animals when in reality the wives did everything from cheat consistently to making up false domestic abuse charges. I cannot tell you how many times I've seen guys wives at bars, clubs, and on dating apps while the husband was away and these same women all concocted the most evil plots one could imagine to finally leave their husband's while making him look like he was a total savage. And I cannot tell you how many investigations I've seen where the husband was proven to be innocent after his name was dragged through the mud and his life and career destroyed. So you said your ex was a problem and because he is currently unable to defend himself from your accusations here, I think it's necessary to make it very well known that there is and has been a campaign to make veterans look terrible on all angles. Truth is, most of the outbursts that cause veterans problems are the result of severe psychological torture (not even war) put on them by the military organization itself and made worse by absolutely VICIOUS women. Imagine working a high stress job with severe sleep deprivation to boot and on top of that you are coming home to a cackling harpie wife. Yes, that is enough to make a man snap. Does that mean he will get violent? No. But he may say things in anger and all you need is one recording of a man who is venting frustration and now you have every feminist, psychology quack, and simp saying "THIS MAN IS A MONSTER!!!". It's not right and men have to take a stand and put up a fight. When you have a naive young man who is emotionally vulnerable believes in the "women are angels" and happy family myth told to them by society, it makes him makes him a target for truly evil and sick women. I've seen it over and over and over and over again. And because we have a feminist society that "Believes all women", these naive men often pay for their naivete with their finances, reputations, and their lives. And so who knows, maybe your ex was a problem. But that still begs the question why you got with him in the first place; and knowing women as well as I do because I have a lot of experience, in the beginning he probably checked all your excitement checks on the checklist and once he was no longer exciting and fun that gave you carte blanche to start laying the ground work for making an exit while saving your own reputation. And so now you use his medical record (which is private information) as your weapon to say "He was fucked up, I know, I saw his personal and private medical information".

@cristineconnell7803

24 күн бұрын

​@@nocapbussinTo suggest it is always the woman is the epitome of ignorance with all due respect! Retired Lay Crisis Counselor/First Responder 45yrs, it very much depends in the person/people! Each case is unique!

@PaintWithWheat

24 күн бұрын

@@cristineconnell7803 thank you!

@nocapbussin

24 күн бұрын

@@cristineconnell7803 With all due respect, read what I said again. I didn't say "all" women are the problem. You twisted my words. I said "90%+", and I say that from both anecdotal experience of knowing men personally who've gone through hell with a former spouse or girlfriend as well as knowing of cases that were made public where the man had no other option but to record his wife, ex wife, or girlfriend. Example: Johny Depp and Amber Heard. How many people were drooling at the opportunity to destroy Johnny Depp and then it blew up in their faces when he was proven innocent and Amber Heard was an absolute maniac? There is video after video of vindictive women threatening men with very serious criminal charges that weren't true, and in some of these videos the women are so psychologically twisted that they even say things like "no one will believe you". The internet is a blessing and a curse, but one of its blessings is showing young men female behaviors that were once thought to be fringe at best and it is the exposure of this reality that's a HUGE reason why men are opting out of marriage, and some are even leaving the US entirely just to have a normal life with a healthy family dynamic. The fact you are a " retired crisis counselor" means that you arent someone who could be trusted as a reliable source because of how politicized Family Law has become. Your entire career field was established as a result of what was called "The Duluth Model". The Duluth Model was the brainchild of 1970s misandrist feminist activists and since then they have successfully incorporated this model into most states family law policies. I highly recommend people read The Duluth Model because its diabolical to say the least and the fact it was even entertained by government to begin with is enough for anyone to entertain the possibility of conspiracy or foul play. I digress. We have case, after case, after case, of good fathers AND good mothers terrorized by your goon squads and their children kidnapped. And I will use the extreme language of "kidnapped" because when you wrongly take another human being by force, that is by definition kidnapping. Just because someone works for the government doesn't mean they are noble with good intentions. It is because of the weaponization of your profession that is a HUGE reason why everything from false domestic abuse to false sexual violence accusations are absolutely rampant. Your former career field is so filled with misandry that taking your opinion ("experience") is like asking a Klansman his opinion on slavery. Are there men out there who are absolutely horrible? Yes. I never have and never will deny that, but there are patterns to those men. As the saying goes, when there is smoke, there is fire. If you have a man who has a history of anti social behaviors, constant run-ins with the law, kids living in filth, kids showing signs of physical and mental abuse (real signs, not speculation because a goon with a clipboard was given power and therefore can play god with peoples lives she or he doesnt like), that's one thing. But when you have what we have today where it's a fashionable trend for women to be victims and play the victimhood Olympics where in today's social environment they are rewarded for it, thats when men have to start standing up and calling foul and questioning these accusers more thoroughly. The concept of Due Process is all but lost on the common American woman nowadays because of how easy it is to say "HES BAD!" and society, media, and government will snap-to and immediately come to her rescue.

@Justice1911A1

24 күн бұрын

@@nocapbussin I read you post twice just to make sure I took in what you said and didn’t misinterpret it. I was also enlisted and have seen a lot. I am female and yes, have seen good men taken to the cleaners by their partners, I have also seen good women destroyed by their partners. I think putting 90% of the blame back on women is over reaching at best. I have seen many married men bonk anyone who will give it up when out drinking with the boys… is that the woman’s fault or is it a weakness in the man’s character. I have been married 25 years and believe I have a kind and gentle husband. He has never raised a hand to me and if he did, I would walk away. We support each other through tough times and forgive each other when it’s needed. I agree the psychological stress a soldier undergoes is a contributing factor but I don’t believe that excuses poor behaviour in either party.

I worked for almost a year in an audiotech in Quebec City. My job was to read texts on different subjects of interest to members of the organization who are blind people. My two employers, a woman and a man, were both blind from birth. It's true that the duration of the expressions on their faces did not often correspond to what we are used to. I would say, however, that their ability to decode what messages people's voices convey impressed me. They had a very developed sensitivity to the emotions conveyed by the voices of the people who spoke to them.

A friend taught her babies simple sign language and by the time they were sitting up, it cut down on a lot of crying because they could communicate.

Narcissists care only about themselves not you. Sociopaths really hate you. And psychopaths absolutely don’t care at all.

@DANDYJANEASMR

3 күн бұрын

THIS IS TRUE!

@sarahs413

3 күн бұрын

Exactly. They fall into "obsession" NOT "love" -- HUGE difference.

I wonder how many times I’ve come across a psychopath in my lifetime and not realised? Fascinating stuff!

@jak9483

22 күн бұрын

I think the ratio to the population is one psychopath in every five people!

@sarahs413

3 күн бұрын

Most likely MANY.

When this guy said at the beginning if you're dealing with dopamine hits from your significant other to be careful I'll say this. If you even think you're dealing with someone like what he's talking about don't bother with being careful, run, as fast as you can. Get away. Rip off the band aid cause the longer you wait the harder it's going to get and the more dangerous it's going to get. Trust me. I've had one person literally ruin my life and that hasn't been enough for her so I've also been shot at because of her and recently ran off the road by one of her lackeys. Not to mention i have kids with her that I'm not even allowed to see which kills me and she knows it kills me. She also knows it hurts them and she doesn't care.

@jak9483

22 күн бұрын

She is causing child abuse, if only you could secretly record her and then tell the Court system.

My narcissistic sister never answers questions. She is too busy asking them. As a result, she’s got a lot of dirt on people.

THEY ARE CHARMING until they aren't

Summary on Narcissists, Psychopaths, & Sociopaths (Hope I got it right): -The DSM doesn't mention the terms "psychopath" or "sociopath," so technically there's only anti-social behavior. But that's how people may popularly refer to them. -All psychopaths are narcissists, but not all narcissists are psychopaths. -Quite often, they want to have a position of power (e.g. politician, leader of the clergy, CEO, police officer, etc). Clinical Narcissists: -They're right up there next to a psychopath. -Their brain may read fairly normal on an FMRI and can still be able to experience some empathy. -Most of the time they look pleasant and charismatic. -They can act "too nice" in order to be likeable and love-bomb people at the beginning to pump their ego and make them feel good. Then they cut it off, but people may still follow them back (because they already became addicted to the dopamine and oxytocin release). At that point, they start giving just breadcrumbs and would only love-bomb again if they need to "fix" the relationship after getting in trouble. -They're glib (i.e. answer questions or talk about things as if they actually knew about that and making it sound very important but without any real depth). -They're capable of being very mean and treating people horribly. Psychopaths: -They're unable to feel empathy or sympathy at a neurological level (some parts of their limbic system don't work properly, in particular the amygdala). -That makes them capable of doing mean, horrible things. -Most of the times they are already born a psychopath. In exceptional cases, they are not born that way, but later in life they experience damage to parts of the brain because of something like an accident or the use of drugs and become psychopathic. -They might not have a specific cue and say or do anything right out of the gate that would get your guard up, so they're hard to "spot in the wild." -They share the same traits listed above for clinical narcissists (except for the first two because again, all psychopaths are narcissists but not the other way around). Sociopaths: -Their brain may read fairly normal on an FMRI. -They're born without any neurological problem keeping them from feeling empathy or sympathy, but that part doesn't develop as well because those emotions are not nurtured by their environment. -Most of the time, they grow up without loving caring people around them but rather exposed to violence and cruelty. -They often become hardcore criminals and might end up killing someone violently (by accident or on purpose). Recommended Readings: "Without Conscience" & "Snakes in Suits" by Robert D. Hare

My ex is in prison after committing a triple homicide.. I always believed he was a narcissist sociopath so these videos are right up my alley

@yvonnemccullaghward361

21 күн бұрын

Glad you got away in time x

People keep following the narcissist, many times, because they weren’t loved and weren’t appreciated and the narcissist is a professional people study here… Did every single thing he or she thought would give you the impression that they are the one who finally “gets you and loves you.“So… When they leave, you are looking to correct whatever went wrong in the “relationship “ without realizing YOU were the only one who was IN the relationship!! 😳😬 RUN, RUN, RUN!!!!

Thing is: READING A PAPER….is relaxing. Our population has forgotten the relaxing part for the Quick Fix.

We had an awful little boy living next door for a summer. He delighted in hurting other children. It gave me chills when I saw his slow smile after surprising another by hurting them. The worst was when he was throwing rocks in between cars parked on our street. He would do this when he saw a car driving down the street and would encourage his 3 yr old sister to run after the rocks. She was almost hit and the drivers would get out in search of the parent. My question...Sociopath or Psychopath

@paulf2898

24 күн бұрын

Psychopath's tend to enjoy hurting people and small animals

I passed a sign today that said “fresco” and all I could think was 2 frescos and a plunger. 😂 Thank you 🙏🏻

My son was married to a woman for two years. She immediately moved in a younger man, once that one left, another. My son believed that it was a money saving decision. He had issues with his computer so he tried to get into hers, which he knew the code for, she had changed it and wouldn’t tell him the new code. My family are tech savvy and got in. The looked at her search history and she had been looking up ways to kill your husband. There were so many issues that we saw before that. So glad he found out before something happened.

I love the chair idea! Will pass it on to my grandson. Another idea involving a chair is when someone is calling you names or telling you how horrible you are when you aren't being that way, think, 'if someone calls me a chair, does that make me a chair?' Keeps a person from reacting.

Yes, there are healthy narcissists along with unhealthy ones. Healthy ones are confident in the work that they do while they are helping others. You DEFINITELY want someone confident and capable of their job if they're messing with your health, a surgery, or something else. (Commenting a lot due to the fascination with this video. VERY nice to have stumbled upon this!

@ScottRouse

5 күн бұрын

Hey, you comment all you want, Sarah. There’s no “comment limit” here. I’m glad you’re here. And I read ALL of the comments. 👍🙂

@sarahs413

5 күн бұрын

Thank you, Scott! When I dive into the thoughts and learning of these things from a professional -- after making sure they're a professional which I do before I learn from anyone online of any serious topic -- Even the smallest details are crucial to a Case. That's always fascinated me. It's nice to hear it outside of the Hollywood spin on these things to get their ratings, no doubt! You're appreciated!

I just saw you pull The Wallace & Gromit face @3.33. 😆😆 Thank You very much Sir... 😊.. seeing someone else use it has made my day! 😊🌠

Some of the nicest and most sensitive aware people are these peoples sons and daughters. Usually just one, so strange.

@shelleyjackson8793

24 күн бұрын

I should have read this before I posted my comment!

52:20 Great point. The body never accepts lying. Even after a long time of lying. That's interesting to know about how we're constructed, lying never gets assimilated. Thanks for that.

Hi Scott, so glad I found your channel! Interesting quote.." all psychopaths are narcissist, but not all narcissist are psychopaths "! Wow that was an eye opener. Learned alot scott, thank you 😊

@RationalNon-conformist

23 күн бұрын

HG Tudor speaks about this, he’s really good at what he does.

I am the ONLY one who knew my mom was both of these things! She cleverly hid her real self to everyone but me. She also made me the scapegoat of ALL of her problems! Its taken a live time to come to terms with this.

@lorisepulveda-cory2703

11 күн бұрын

We must have had the same mother

For whatever reason, people just spill their guts to me. I ask nothing, and people just start talking. I feel like a walking confessional.

@ScottRouse

24 күн бұрын

😮

@nancythane4104

24 күн бұрын

@mtorres4445 You too, huh? 😁 My wife laughs about the fact I can talk to *anyone*. From Hell's Angel to Mother Theresa~~they all talk when I give an opener. Not a bad thing, overall. Makes for LONG phone calls! 😂

@susanwofe9334

23 күн бұрын

Same. I had a guy say to me randomly, and note I have been in the public building for 7 hours, what year is my Cadillac.... First of all how he know what I drive? And I said which one I have two. He then says I thought you sold the other one? I said no a pastor asked to buy it I said no.... 😮

@rosannacellini2158

21 күн бұрын

It must be my demeanor, but people seem to like to talk to me, and in the middle of a pleasant conversation, they tell me about parts of their life, which is fine with me. Guess I'm a good listener. Sometimes people feel alone and need to talk to someone who is understanding. I feel like another dear Abby. 😊

I’ve been known as a human lie detector. I think part of it is natural, but I also think part of it is a result of my long term SA in childhood. Unknowingly,I learned to watch out for danger and to read intent from micro-expressions, body language and verbal speech.

@susang2535

8 күн бұрын

I'm hyper vigilant from childhood abuse (sadly all sorts of abuse). I know when someone is lying but couldn't tell you how. I also know when someone is about to be violent. I'm sorry that you went through abuse. It's hideous and awful.

I'm a Nurse and get so stressed up about a lot of things, My therapist told me to drink ice water and also put this ice bottle against your carotid nerve at the side of your neck... And it really works ❤

Wooo! Love this 🤩. Thank you ever so much Scott!

Although we are watching for the content which is great, you have such a lovely way of communicating, it's calming.

@ScottRouse

24 күн бұрын

Thank you, Selena. I really appreciate that.🙂

Chris Watts Sermon on the Porch was really telling though wasn't it? I would love to know why my husband has two personalities when he talks to me (he's guarded) and when he talks to his work colleagues (unguarded). We have been together for thirty two years; although I saw this stuff in the beginning but I didn't trust my instincts! I should have walked then! but all these years later I only see it more because he works from home and I hear him talking on line! He's Masking! and it makes life really hard living with a Narcissist. He actually turned my Sons into bullies, and he would have a wry smile in the background when they attacked me, he would be the victim and innocent of course! Now they blame me for raising them badly and won't talk to me anymore..but him? oh he's their 'Pal'.

@karenaltschwager5929

22 күн бұрын

Oh I feel you. I divocred my narc. I could never do good enough for my son's. I nursed their dad when he died... we had been divorced 15 years. My youngest son is the image of his dad and a nasty young man. Ever so charming to the outside world. Ugh

@readg4fun

21 күн бұрын

I’m so sorry, this situation sounds heartbreaking.

Actors are sooooo easy to trip up. I have to live and work with professional film/stage actors. Acting is a group effort in a room full of supportive people. Not the real world. Often, actors look and sound really dumb during filming. But then in the edit, close up shot, with music…they are so amazing and powerful.

NOT wanting to sound like a narcissist with to many compliments, I love your videos, very informative. I also love your voice & calm demeanour. You would do amazing reading Audio books. Definitely had me calm after a busy day. Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤🥰💯🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

@ScottRouse

24 күн бұрын

Thank you so much. That’s so nice. 🙂

@investigator77

24 күн бұрын

I just make a playlist of his videos from The Behavior Panel channel, and listen with my big headphones on all night! I wake up often thru the night, and Scott's voice always lulls me back to sleep

@Coopie144

24 күн бұрын

Couldn’t agree more!

@sbeddo1

24 күн бұрын

@@investigator77 Check out his sleep meditation videos! You'll love them.

@susiej1032

24 күн бұрын

@investigator77 Might try that lol He has an amazing calming voice

Don't look for signs to label a person but, in a few minutes, the feeling from the words , eye contact, gestures, presence, lets me know everything about a new encounter. Scott you're amazing. It's rare that men understand that men and women have different ways to process information. Thanks.

@ScottRouse

24 күн бұрын

🙂👍

You are wonderful to listen to and watch. Very relaxed. Professional expert in this field.

Hi Scott! I'm sure not an expert on spotting a psychopath, but I'm pretty good at spotting a phony. Something in their eyes and smile, when they give someone praise, for whatever, that creeps me out a bit. I ask myself, if I maybe misjudging. I usually have strong intuition. All I know is, I want to be far from a sneaky, killer/narcisist. Lol. Thanks Scott, you enlighten us with great insight. Always a pleasure. 🤩👍😎👶

“Sometimes they take something with em..” Scott grabs his finger, I think is going to say a ring/jewellery… “Sometimes a body part.” 😮😅😂😂

I really like your voice and your calm presence. I doubt you would need to interrogate anyone Lol 😂

@ScottRouse

24 күн бұрын

Thank you so much. 🙂

The Ladybird Lake killer has not been found. A guy was arrested in February on one of them, but the killings have continued. Very informative! Thank you!♥️✌️

@user-co5yp2jr8n

23 күн бұрын

Some are ritualistic like jack the ripper

“Lurlink” 😂 That was a good one. Also, the analogy that they see is like we’d see a bunch of insects or robots is pretty creepy. Another good illustrator.

I could listen to Scott and/or the Behavior Panel forever. I’ve picked up a lot from each guy and they say what mental health professionals don’t. My psychologist says “oh, you figured that out? Okay “. My tell is can they smile, laugh, hug, cry or pray?

I've never heard the tip about curling the toes before. Well, thanks for that bit of help! I'm going to try it since I have PTSD and anxiety, so I get overwhelmed and tense and anxious. I'll try whatever tip, no matter how little and pass it along if it works for me.

Curl your toes in your shoes???? How did I not know this for 60 years??? Thank you. ❤😂 Well at least I'm better late than never. Subscriber.

I successfully chaff and redirected my brother recently, based on him yelling at me about something. I'm scared of his wrath, but it worked!

@VelveteenRabbitinRedFern

23 күн бұрын

Thanks for the ❤ Scott, but I learned how to do it from YOU!

CEO's, surgeons, police officers, psychopaths are drawn to these professions.

@cht2162

24 күн бұрын

Psychopaths love wearing uniforms. Military, clergy, physicians, nurses, police......

That’s such a sad life not having true feelings for people and animals and the World in general

@ferguson8143

20 күн бұрын

Only weird to someone that had something then try to make your brain make up a version of you that doesn't exist

Not related to tbe topic. I just want to share.... I experienced a human interaction decades ago that remains one of my most treasured memories. I was in a Kansas (City) airport. Drained after a demanding business meeting. Single, no children, at the time, btw. A mother, father and twin boys around 4 yrs of age were in a small waiting area with me. An empty seat was between Mom and me. One of the boys ("Joe") was with her. Dad and "Matt" were together in seating adjacent to us, facing us. I was quiet and smiled at the family. Matt was cranky; Joe was content. Mom and I talked quietly and sporadicly; I didn't speak to the kids at all (unusual for me). Joe was listening to Mom and me. He wasn't talking tho, entertaining himself quietly while he was standing. He started moving closer to me (Mom and I exchanged glances and i could see she was fascinated; I later was told he was a shy child). He took out his little suitcase and opened it on the seat between Mom and me. That's when I quietly started murmuring oohs and ahhs about his belongings. He didn't say a word. He moved closer to me so his body was against my leg. Mom and I marveled. Next thing I know, he leaned back over my lap (I dont remember if he was looking at me) and I held him. After 30 seconds I said, againly quietly, "Well, if we're gonna hug each other, I think we should know each other's names." I think that's when we looked at each other. We introduced ourselves. It was such a sweet quiet human connection...

This is great Scott. Thanks heaps. I'm glad I found this channel.

Thank you for answering!❤ One more great video!

Thanks Scott. And plus 2 for "curl your toes up", it works.

Thank you Scott! I pray you are healthy and happy! I am learning so much from you and the other Fab Three Much appreciated

I am fascinated with your lessons Scott. I am learning, not judging... to me it's about arming myself with knowledge so I can surround myself with healthy people who don't want to harm me.

This is like having a fascinating conversation with a wise friend. I appreciate your willingness to share your knowledge and experiences. Thank you for creating this content!

You’re AMAZING, Scott❣️ Thank you for your generosity!!!

I’ll be missing it Live but can’t wait to watch it later today. Thanks Scott.

Scott, i've been watching the Behavior Panel since day 1 and i've only just discovered your own channel.. I just wanted to say, i really enjoyed this format. It feels much more intimate and you ooze sincerity.. The photo of Greg at the back of the plane had me in stitches, so funny.. Look forward to more of your q & a's, absolutely fascinating.. 🎓 Thank you..

I love how Scott goes off on a tangent, I’m the same, 😂

I am beyond fascinated with your work and understanding of so many aspects of the mind and body of so many different kinds of people. Thank you for sharing your insights with us as I believe it can teach us more awareness for our safety and the safety of others around us.

One of the first things you will notice about somebody who is immoral, which can very well be a psychopath, is a penchant toward lying which can sometimes come out in just the first few hours of knowing them. It's safe to say that if you notice someone lying to you about things right after meeting them, it would be probably be best to leave asap and never look back. It is very difficult to succeed in any type of relationship with someone who is perfectly fine with lying to you and doesn't bat an eyelash at doing it. If they are willing to spin a web of deceit right out of the gate, it's probably one of the worst signs. I know from experience that being with a pathological liar is nothing other than a consistently rocky road. There is no stability.

Someone i knew said he can now tell who is lying after watching a body language video over and over… i dont think its that simple…

@ScottRouse

17 күн бұрын

Wow. That must be a really long video.

Scott you have for such a nice calm voice. Really. You guys are just great. All 4 🌷

Thank you so much Scott. I was glued to this video. You make everything so interesting and fascinating and I love your funny asides! You have such a warm way of presenting, I feel like you’re in the room talking to me!❤️

@ScottRouse

17 күн бұрын

Thank you for that. I’d rather hang out than just load you up on the technical side of things.

I hate when my ex used to tell me how I was being paranoid or just overthinking when I would explain how this person or that person was acting odd or gave me a strange feeling. 97% of the time, evidence or proof of this person(s) would arise that solidified that I was right for feeling the way I felt. But at that point, my ex would then say “I don’t remember you saying that. I don’t know what you’re talking about. You might have thought that in your head but you never expressed your concern to me!” 🤬

@Hi-Phi

24 күн бұрын

This sounds so similar to my experience. My ex used to say, "You read too much between the lines!". Turns out, I was making HIM nervous and he didn't want me to read between HIS lines.

@rosannacellini2158

24 күн бұрын

I can relate. If I get a creepy feeling about a person or situation, I keep my guard up. 😊

@ScottRouse

24 күн бұрын

He has no idea how much more information your brain takes in an sifts through. Nor how fast that happens. 👍

I really love how engaged you are in the comment section.. 🙂 Love these episodes!

Great insight. Thank you for covering this subject!

Think about that chair! Love it 🤣

Thanks for this stream, Scott.

What is scary is when it's your husband and your family is charmed by the creep and take steps to make sure their tie with him isn't broken.

@GinaHarrisToo

19 күн бұрын

What is scarier is when 1/2 the American population is conned by a sociopath, send him money, commit crimes for him, and believe his lies. He’s actively destroying the country while claiming he’ll make it great again. That’s what’s scary.

Great video, Scott ❤ even though I've heard your talks on psychopaths that much that I remember a lot you've taught us about them now, I always get excited when you bring them up 😂 it's always good to refresh our minds or learn new things entirely 😊 we appreciate these videos so much!

Please do a vid on these types of people in the workplace

@thedevilandhertrumpets4268

21 күн бұрын

They’re going to be in a lot of management and leadership positions.

I just cut off a dude i was going to go on a first date with, bc he kept going on about being a good friend, and putting his friends first, being there for these girls he knows, and this stuff...but way to often. I know it sounds weird but it came off as fake and... Virtue signaling. Do y'all think i was wrong? It was a constant thing, him talking about what a good person he is. It hit me weird... My gut just said to look out. He pushed this narrative. Maybe im paranoid.

@justkiddin84

23 күн бұрын

You were right, good job. Actually nice folks don’t toot their own horn like that. ‘I’m an empath’ ‘I’m a great friend.’ ‘I always help everyone I meet.’ For real? Never have a bad day or get angry? Suuuuuure.

*I LOVE this content🙌🏻 they’re so fascinating. Thank you so much for this video Scott🙏🏻 your hard work & dedication doesn’t go unnoticed or unappreciated💕*

@ScottRouse

24 күн бұрын

Thank you Claire. That’s very uplifting. 🙂

Thank you,I really enjoyed your captivating reading..Greating from England😊

Thanks for another excellent episode Scott! Great differentiator between psycho and socio-pathic!

@ScottRouse

24 күн бұрын

Thank you so much. 🙂

Thank you so much for that episode!! You activated my excitement to learn neurons many times and especially with the deaf/ASL conversation. I started my career path as an ASL interpreter and quickly switch into a ASL therapist...not much ASL therapy any more but loved the 15 plus years I got to live and work in it...I love the excitement I hear in your interest and hope and pray you pursue it. It is such a rich and fascinating language and culture. I remember a lot of my training was around learning how to tap into non verbal communication because we are taught to quiet those signals as hearing people. My humble suggestion if you want to pursue in the realm of your professional interest, and you might already know this, is to find a reputable DI (deaf interpreter). They could have insights you would never come across otherwise. Thank you again for your sharing and declared interest in ASL...and all the other wisdom you shared!! Thank you!! :)

Thank you for doing this one...

The first thumbnail I thought showed it so clearly to me. I'll be there

I have been in contact with many narcissists, both covert and overt, wether it be in the family in which I was born or boyfriends, (ex) husband. There is one thing they have in common. I don't know if it applies to psychopaths but my guess would be yes!! And that's the way they drive cars, motorcycles, etc. They often drive fast and recklessly. I find it very dangerous to be in a car with an angry narc driving.... They often don't even care if there are children in the car. They are the "King of the Road". No respect for other drivers. I also have had the feeling that they consider they have put you in a cage when you got into the car and they are going to show you who's the boss. They will play with your emotions. Sadistic and dangerous.

Awesome! Thank you!

I love that you love little babies crying on the plane! I always feel so bad for the parents and want to help but I'm never close enough--I would want to hold them the whole time!!

@ScottRouse

24 күн бұрын

I know that feeling very well.

@deborahlester4018

24 күн бұрын

Maybe I'm too pushy but on several occasions I have walked up to mom and said, "We are on a plane. I can't run off with your baby. Let me take them while you go back and wash your face and take a few minutes. A crying baby is no big deal." The baby almost always stops crying for me. (My family calls me the baby whisperer. I have my little tricks.) Mom gets a break that calms her down and, surprise! all is well.

@anitaholst7671

11 күн бұрын

​@@deborahlester4018 lovely

I loved your analogy on Behavior Panel video where in you talked about a guy going to pick up food, sees accident and cannot understand the people's reactions to something horrific - later going home to practice reactions he witnessed to learn how to act. You are so adorable btw🤩As one Southerner to another (me in Texas), I just adore your turn of phrase. Especially, "that's crazy talk." Cracks me up everytime. It's Lady Bird Lake after the former First Lady and LBJohnson, and no one has been caught.

@mamatrop

24 күн бұрын

It's a sad, crazy story!

Scott, you most definitely have a way of explaining things. Between your empathy and compassion, you are able to communicate in a way that's very helpful. Your suggestions and advice are incredibly helpful. Thank you for taking the time to post these amazing segments. I also very much enjoy watching the BEHAVIOR PANEL. Again, the analysis is very insightful. Continued success, my friend! Looking forward to your next episode!! ❤❤

@ScottRouse

24 күн бұрын

Thank you, Deborah! I’m having the best time doing these things.🙂

@mamatrop

24 күн бұрын

I couldn't agree more!

Sign language includes facial expressions! 😲

Really been enjoying hearing your point of view Scott! Thanks for the videos

12:46 until they destroy the relationship or youve personallly been broken and learned and came back. Then you start to see in hindsight and notice I n real time every single thing they say or don't say, do, don't do and so on

Thanks for the video❤

your guys friendship is adorable

Scott, I'm learning so much from you. Thank you! 😊

@ScottRouse

24 күн бұрын

Yay! 🙂Thanks again for watching Susan! 🙂

Thanks Scott, this video was really informative. I’m really enjoying learning about body language.

@ScottRouse

23 күн бұрын

I’m so glad Kim. Thank you for telling me. 🙂

I shared your video on Facebook and added a little story from my childhood and my life watching people. It's pretty fascinating for me to go back through my memories and take mental notes of certain things I have watched

@ScottRouse

20 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing that. I truly appreciate it. 🙂

Thank you for your incredible insight! I'm fascinated by the relationship between the mind and the physical brain, especially since I developed a neurological condition. Tfs and have a great day

Thank you! ❤ this was super duper helpful. Unfortunately my family are the kind that need interogation by police. I guess I was unlucky 🤷🏼‍♀️but luckily I was nurtured and loved by our neighbours Mum and kids 😊

@gointothedogs4634

4 күн бұрын

😱

As a lifetime signer/ASL teacher and Interpreter first I want to say I commend you for taking the time to try and learn ASL. ASL is one of those languages that you need to practice with someone who also knows the language (It's not just hand signs but a actual language so there are rules that go along with ASL) but I would encourage you to take a class on ASL vs learning from an App. Many of the apps out there are either incorrect on a lot of the signs, or are created in Canada who although they primarily use ASL many of the signs may very from your local area. You also have what's called regional signs so there are signs in New York for example that may be different than those used in California or even the Carolinas. This is common all throughout the US, so I would recommend learning it from either your local Deaf community and hope they aren't teaching you wrong just to get a good laugh, or take some classes at a local community college/university so at least you'll know you're learning it correctly for your "region".

I watch your videos because I learn how my father saw the world. It helps me to understand that his abuse wasn't my fault. He treated everyone the same. I wish I could talk to Scott because I'm pretty sure dad was a serial killer. Everything about him was right for it. I never met a more evil, debased person in my life. He had zero will empathy. He only understood emotions in connection to himself or how to manipulate others. My childhood was hell. I've had nearly 30 years of therapy to heal. My father was one of the monsters.

@htmc2022

23 күн бұрын

So your dad & my mom - so sorry you lived through horror & fear - you survived - got therapy - be well!

@anitaholst7671

11 күн бұрын

Such a sad tale. You don't mention your mother, but 30 years of therapy speaks volumes. I wish you well.

I really like this one. Very good, useful content. I have a B.A. in Psychology but this is a good rundown of the differences between the two. I'll remember that about the toes inside my shoes. I'm so empathetic that parts of life can be really difficult. But I pray, go to counseling, meditate and take some meds, so I have a good life overall. I can't wait until TBP can examine Kohberger. I think, if he's really the guilty one, that he has symptoms of psychopathy. Thanks for the video.

Scott! Congratulations on 1M views, that's a million people who've learned from you. My son turned 14 today🎉🎉 He's been here since 12, you're never too young or old to learn this stuff.❤

HEY why didnt I know about this channel lol :) HI SCOTT! Im getting busy watching all your videos posted, Brilliant Mind

Scott, I live in one of the suburbs of Vancouver, British Columbia - major city, large population, etc. Most of the suburbs here still maintain a weekly newspaper with region-specific as well as provincial news and advertising. Mostly these are publications that are delivered to each home or included in postal box deliveries (as most of our snail mail is no longer home delivered and goes instead to so-call 'community mailboxes' where about 60 - 120 boxes are housed together on a nearby street corner. We definitely still have newspapers that can leave ink on our hands!