The longer I was married, the more she made it known that she eventually didn't want to work... but... she also wanted to be in charge of the household and checkbook. In other words, I was to be the worker bee..I already felt like a indentured servant...no way...she could justify any purchases, but not me. She left and now works three jobs. I couldn't care less.

@neomacchio4692

Жыл бұрын

Same here… she eventually got to a point where if I wasn’t doing EVERYTHING for the family then I was a POS. I had to do all of my duties and she wanted me to do all her shit too. Extremely entitled and selfish. And get this… SHE left 😂😂😂 I truly believe she’ll end up like yours… working multiple jobs.

@ricardoh87

Жыл бұрын

​@@neomacchio4692 she did you a favor when she left

@dwightdow8495

Жыл бұрын

She needs a slave

@naomiorbach1987

Жыл бұрын

Couldn't of gotten a better result, now you can finally live and if you do want a partner make sure she gives you validation!

@ExAppeal100

Жыл бұрын

Good for you man. She deserves every bit of that hard lesson! It'll hit her sooner or later.

The moment you pay for 80-100% of a woman's lifestyle, you open up the full wrath of divorce court.

@kingblack3378

Жыл бұрын

Yup and women know this and men still fall for it

@vanderumd11

Жыл бұрын

Yes, NEVERMIND you will go days in your own house.. jerking it off in the bathroom because even though you do everything to maintain the home... They are still waiting for the first date butterflies to return

@OT_concerned_citizen

Жыл бұрын

Damn. I forgot

@Krogtheclown

Жыл бұрын

I can't believe he said he paid for women's lifestyle and he was OK for it I think hes a complete idiot

@tracksmanbeats1467

Жыл бұрын

And the full wrath of an alimony shortly after

Never listen to women. None of what they say matters if they are attracted to the guy. He can do everything wrong and still get the woman if she likes him. Never listen to women for dating advice. 11:58

@thewarroom007

Жыл бұрын

🔥🔥🔥🔥

@roninsjourney7560

Жыл бұрын

Based

@YungJay216

Жыл бұрын

10 times out of 10 what women say and what they do contradict themselves every time.

@JohnBeezy3

Жыл бұрын

If a guy she isn’t that into takes her to a museum on a first date, he is boring. If a guy she is into takes her to a museum on a first date, he is sophisticated.

@workingonmyself

Жыл бұрын

@@JohnBeezy3 💯

Don't listen to what they say, watch what they actually do.

Why would a man want to go through all this for a modern woman? Most modern women are ran through, fat, narcissistic, have horrible personalities, everything is about themselves and what they want. All I hear here is what a man has to do for her. We have to give up other women, we have to protect her, make her feel safe, provide for her and her children (even if they are from other men), give up our lives for theirs if necessary, all while looking at the pendulum of doom that is divorce court… yet men can’t even ask that her body count be kept under four figures because otherwise we are misogynistic… Brother just smash and dash… the vast majority of modern women aren’t worth even a tenth of what they demand. According to them being passed around is empowering, so I suggest that’s what we keep doing

@shanekc3738

Жыл бұрын

Took the words out of my mouth.

@thatisabsolutelykooooge2211

Жыл бұрын

💯 I’m starting to get annoyed off of podcast episodes like this. Who cares about women. Smash and dash like you said and let’s get back to brass tax

@SpartanMGTOW1

Жыл бұрын

💯%

@Jerry-mf1yx

Жыл бұрын

AMEN

@bingochoice

Жыл бұрын

exactly right Roberto

Corporate Girl on Tic Tock: "I don't wanna go to work!!" And I don't wanna be called misogynistic and toxic for being a heterosexual male with a conservative leaning mindset. We all have our crosses to bear.

@IHateNicolasCage

Жыл бұрын

Imagine being tired of going to work……. IN YOUR 20’S! You have plenty of years to go, GirlBoss

@antiGravity74

Жыл бұрын

@@IHateNicolasCage It's all cap. Women have been working since the beginning of time. First they were gathering while men hunted, then they were helping around the farm and sewing things, etc

@strydyrhellzrydyr1345

Жыл бұрын

​@@antiGravity74 it's not even about women.. doing.. work... And.. uhh no.. it is ever so different.. that example... And talking hunter gathering timea

@Leonhart_93

Жыл бұрын

@@antiGravity74 It's about the amount of work. If you want to live a life of luxury, you have to be prepared to sacrifice an easy work life. They clearly aren't prepared to climb that ladder when competing with monsters.

I’m glad I’m happily married. Can’t even imagine dating today

@todayisagoodday5027

Жыл бұрын

Throw some gas in your trash can then set it on fire 🔥. Then swipe the lid left. That’s dating today.

@vanderumd11

Жыл бұрын

Dating these days is sex everyday.. that's the main bonus. Literally getting my pants ripped off or pulled down at dinner. Never lasted in a relationship... End up with days/weeks in between.. blowing smoke and all

@Basquesi68

Жыл бұрын

Same - 18 years married good to go

@e.p3509

Жыл бұрын

Lucky you, it sucks

@David-Co

Жыл бұрын

It's brutal out here Derek.

Why would a man making $80k+ waste his time with any western 304s when he can go to Cambodia, Colombia, Croatia or any other third world country and get a woman of far better quality?

@4lugan

Жыл бұрын

And these girls from Croatia are more beautiful by the way

@kennethsmith6367

Жыл бұрын

@@4lugan They are more beautiful in all those spots.🤷🏾‍♂️

@carlwide6594

Жыл бұрын

Hi from Croatia, gentlemen. Escaped from the UK to where women are still women and God still matters. For those that can't escape: start building a new future amongst yourselves. Men built this world, and the effenists hand destroyed it, time to build another one without their input.

@robertopon

Жыл бұрын

@@carlwide6594 how much money would you say is neccesary to make per year in order to get a good croatian virgin girl to commit to you?

@MEGA1FILM

Жыл бұрын

Be careful in Croatia, they are there, but much western influence and choose wisely. Many want a scholarship..

So, basically, if you’re an average guy working a 9-to-5 job, then you’re not ready to date in todays landscape, lol, got it.

@michaelholguin142

Жыл бұрын

Pretty much

@todayisagoodday5027

Жыл бұрын

Your passport is ready for you.

@watamutha

Жыл бұрын

Yeah that's way too much work for a first date.

@endofexistence2149

Жыл бұрын

It's okay, just save your money working that job and go overseas where you dont need to leap over a skyscrapper on the first day just to have a 50/50 chance of getting a decent relationship from a western woman.

@Starkiller12481

Жыл бұрын

Let them die alone im putting all my cash in the cat food and cat toy industry it's about the skyrocket

Girl in white at 5:48: "WOMEN DON'T WANT TO SUBMIT." Same girl at 13:40: "Women want to surrender and submit." You can't make this shit up.

@bradleyjackson7168

Жыл бұрын

My two cents....men trying to win her over. My value is 5 times these used up ladies. She needs to prove to me if I married her, that she's not taking half. It's all pandering to her ego. Some hot guy at the bar, fucked her that same night. What are you getting? Bar guys come inside her. Why convince her to be with you? She ought to be begging you to retire her

@darkfatekod3962

Жыл бұрын

5:48 was a response about WHY they don't submit, i.e. Beyonce, Cardi B, being a modern woman, society etc. 13:40 was more about the natural state that women want to be in, and how men can achieve this.

@darrenadair6733

Жыл бұрын

@@darkfatekod3962 but these women have submitted. Beyonce is with a husband who out earns her and cheats. Cardi is at home cooking and cleaning for her man. These women sell a lie that they don’t live.

@JS-bw6ux

Жыл бұрын

For some its a fear to submit

@darrenadair6733

Жыл бұрын

@@JS-bw6ux agreed. I think much of that fear comes from picking terrible partners in the past who have tainted a woman’s view of men. But also equating submission to slavery. There maybe other issues but I think this 2 are the biggest factors.

Hearing how these men who dated the women on this show WASTED their money ... Lord! He got me a drink, "I didn't drink" He took me to a outing, "I didn't like" "But I was so happy I didn't have to think" Fellas these women have suked dozens of rods, they CANNOT build a genuine connection so you're now just entertainment. Save yourself, make them pay their share

@endofexistence2149

Жыл бұрын

Tney are oblivious to their own bad behavior but still get put on platforms like this to tell men terrible advice on how to get into a good relationship.

After watching this I’ve learned that women live an exceptional privileged life and desire the man to lead. (privilege of not having responsibilities)

She had me in the first half. But breast feeding untill 7 years old is crazy as hell. Someone call the police

@jrr7031

Жыл бұрын

Wasnt that a bit in the movie "Grown ups" ? Lol

@stuarteastman5623

Жыл бұрын

That boy is definitely gonna be a tit man.

@AustinKloud

Ай бұрын

And the cop show up and say, “can I get some of that?”

Heck, some of us men out here don't like to work for corporate either, but here is the difference between the genders. We do it anyway regardless how we feel. Women start to cry, lol.

@vanderumd11

Жыл бұрын

This is what I say time and time again. Work sucks, suck it up or hit the lottery

@jamesdotson1080

Жыл бұрын

Well let's be honest, they cry then they find a beta Bob to marry them. They get bored....and cry....then divorce him and take half his shit.

@andre1987eph

Жыл бұрын

I was institutionalized at age 9 to 17, when my mom died and placed into children's home. I am allergic to corporate institutions because of it. Never took the medicine either. I learned early they will try to drug you up.

@andre1987eph

Жыл бұрын

@@jamesdotson1080 please get rid of 50% idea. Usually it's 75% to 90% a man losses in divorce.

@jamesdotson1080

Жыл бұрын

@@andre1987eph Brah, get a sense of humor. It was an OBVIOUS joke. Insert what the ever f*ck you want to as the percentage and be amused.

Our society has become too materialistic. If you wanna be with someone , you’ll be with someone . getting married , having jobs and getting an apartment is all that is needed in your starter kit ❤

@infotechsailor

Жыл бұрын

Okay I was with that lady till she said she breastfed her son till he was in second grade

@andre1987eph

Жыл бұрын

Stay single til 50s or 60s. Contoll yourself and save/invest all your earnings.

@andre1987eph

Жыл бұрын

@@infotechsailor I taught elementary school. Had a third grader whose mom had him drinking from baby bottle. She had MAJOR character issues. We learned later she used to taint the food she brought in to our class.

Women are going to complain in both situations[Corporate/House Wife]. Remember, we got here because women were complaining about being house wives.

@richman7833

Жыл бұрын

Bars! 🎼

@johnsonbobo2376

Жыл бұрын

No shit dude. Lol

@bugeyes5396

Жыл бұрын

Yep no matter the situation, they will be complaining and trying to change some shit.

Women seem to be hung up on this word "submit", for some reason. They think, incorrectly, that it means they will act like some BDSM slave, or something. It simply means, when the man is with her in a relationship, she accepts the he is going to do things that she must follow along with, and that these things are for the couple's benefit and protection just as a matter of course. He does many things to keep her protected and safe, and she must accept his protections. She may not even be aware of some of these items. Hearing women blow up in the presence of this word is disturbing.

@williamwallace410

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, it is completely irrational, they have been brainwashed.

@itsenergybob8917

Жыл бұрын

I think a better word would be, 'cooperate.'

@HypnoticHollywood

Жыл бұрын

@@itsenergybob8917 Cooperate just means agreeing to make decisions together, and the word submit means to follow the man's lead...big difference.

@YungJay216

Жыл бұрын

@@itsenergybob8917 Cooperation and submission are not synonymous. A woman can be cooperative and not be submissive.

@itsenergybob8917

Жыл бұрын

@@YungJay216 That's a contradiction. First you say they're not synonymous, then say they are. Cooperation is more voluntary than submission.

Did she just drop 'Breast feeding a school boy until age 7?' 🤣

All of what a woman says she wants in a guy is only regarding her dream guy. She is saying what she wants that guy to do. But in reality, it doesn’t matter because the guy she is into can get away with almost anything.

"I breastfed my son until he was 7" 😳

@khanhcao3123

Жыл бұрын

Nothing wrong with that bro.

@andrewevans7992

Жыл бұрын

@@khanhcao3123 uhh the kid has a mouth full of teeth lmao

@FatalS420

Жыл бұрын

​@@khanhcao3123yes bro. Thats gross. Way too old. 5 max

@danielread8549

Жыл бұрын

If your kid is old enough to be in 2nd grade.. he shouldn't be on the breastfeeding still.. Plenty wrong with it..

“You can't turn a hooker into a housewife” Tom Leykis

I think it starts with I don’t need a man / I’m independent 99% and after some years it reverse to somebody help me / I need a husband 99% . The submission and accountability for women is really the major issues .

Breastfeeding a child until 7 is crazy 😂 everything else i agreed with though

@rickytan3529

Жыл бұрын

😅 agreed

@18aplateindoors

Жыл бұрын

BIg facts had me like 🧐 lmaoo.. and then talking about how emotional he is..that math wasn’t mathing

@hrhopeful1120

Жыл бұрын

Lysa Arryn joined the panel today.

@bjarnisigurdsson1911

Жыл бұрын

Historical norm for humans was to breastfeed until 5-9 years old, few cases until early adolescence. It wasn't until 15 or 1600s they started to reduce the duration by giving other animals milk as a substitutes. I pass no judgement on duration personally other than in modern times it's too short and substituted too early.

@302ec

Жыл бұрын

That is crazy and problematic. She is excited that her son is emotional. That is not a positive thing in my opinion. She raised her son to be feminine just like most single mothers. Fyi I was raised by a single mother who raised a man. So I have love for single mothers

Stop saying "submissive" Cooperative is what we want. Cooperative kind supportive and loyal.

@MEGA1FILM

Жыл бұрын

When the chips are down submit is from God. And if there is no spiritual respect of God first.. keep preparing for a quality find.

This provider thing… if, you’re never wanting to marry, or have kids, it doesn’t apply. I’m not going to just pay for everything because that makes me a sugar daddy / mug!

These women want to marry a man that is wealthy enough to hire a maid and a cook and maybe even a nanny for the kids. So she can be a stay at home wife and mother but not do anything. They are entitled headaches and men deserve better. The passport Bro's is not just a few men talking it is a movement and American women are going to notice it more and more that men are ignoring them and traveling where they are treated better.

@mobydick3895

Жыл бұрын

Even love and dating is a market.

@hunterbidensaidslesion1356

Жыл бұрын

Kevin Samuels got into with with a woman who wanted to marry a man who was rich enough to be able to afford a nanny, so that she could keep working at her $50k/yr "career" (job, really). He very astutely noted that any man rich enough to be able to do that would prefer to just marry the nanny, instead of her.

@rbfarrell1

Жыл бұрын

@@hunterbidensaidslesion1356 Women don't get it. Just because a bunch of horny guys are messaging her does not mean much. As I have become wealthy it is easy to rent the best part of most women. And you find most women just overpriced themselves. A hole is a hole. What else does she have to benefit my life?

Thing is when this man presents himself as the ladies explain, what makes you think that you deserve him now or that he will keep you long term if you don't present what he needs and wants. I think this is actually the better discussion because believe it or not , many men are opting out of marriage nowadays at its not stopping anytime soon

Everything so crazy these days in the west. Noone trying to do all this for some used kitty... I see why the passport bros are starting to be more and more popular each day.

Wait what!? Did she say she breast fed her son until he was 7!? Rewind!

@Lilac914

Жыл бұрын

She’s obviously trolling lol,. No normal person breast feeds their kid until grade school

If you don't want me when you're at your best, don't expect me to come save you when you're at your worst.

The easiest way to make a woman submit, is to take charge in the bedroom. Every time, all the time. This will make her stress down, relax, enjoy herself in her pleasures and just give herself to the man. After a while she will notice she is more relaxed and content with him taking the lead and it will eventually spread outside the bedroom and she will let go of all the hustling or whatever is going on in her head and just leave everything she considers stressful to the husband. It may take a while, but she will get there, where she wants to be and where he wants her to be.

@HammBone950

Жыл бұрын

Good luck with that

Men here's a tip if you are still not aware enough to try and get married. I'm one of those guys who had a clear plan for my life and because my mom was one of those who came from a poor family she sabotage all of my success and the gov and Democrat party helped her. So the tip is actually look for a wahmen from a middle or upper class wahman who has some humility about her. Otherwise she will never trust you and will continually sabotage and sheet test you while never truly being present and making your path load a little less. By 18 I was already a millionaire and she gave it all away because she didn't trust me with my own wealth. That's what's sad about our lives today the gov loves ruining families

Really ladies it's not that hard of a choice. Either stay at home and be taken care of while you spend maybe an hour or two a day cooking and cleaning or go to a soul crushing job for 9 hours a day and then have to still come home and cook and clean for yourself and have no man.

I warned them 15 years ago…and got called a “woman hater” for doing so. Reap what you sow ladies.

Adam is getting better at this 💪🏾

You, as a human, are in complete control of your feelings. If you don't want to feel something it is possible to work toward a mindset that wont feel that emotion. Take control of yourself.

Too many hoops and bullshit to go through for a guy. He's got to play all these roles as leader, breadwinner, spiritual confidante, sex whisperer and guru. Oh yeah, and paint a picture of your future together all the while battling hookup culture online. You can't be serious. For what and why? It's fucking ridiculous. Enough already. I want to be myself. I want to be met half way. Things are going to get a lot worst folks. I want to enjoy my life and be myself without all the bullshit. I am not superman nor do I want to be. Men are going their own way for good reason.

@roninsjourney7560

Жыл бұрын

Yessir. Men are waking up. We won't see the impact immediately, but I believe it will show within the next 10 years.

@owusuFree

Жыл бұрын

Just be billionaire Christian Grey bro. Just get a pagani and be a pagani bro, bro. So simple, simple formula.

@watamutha

Жыл бұрын

That's what I'm saying. I was like "all this work just for some sex?"

@justtekina6709

Жыл бұрын

I kind of find out it’s because of boredom really, women think all those extra things will make for realtionship that is interesting and fun. And it’s why women say they want a guy with intelligence women are just serverly bored. All this talk comming out of these women mouth is stupid. Like none of them add married I bet like it’s all pointless shit because it’s not true. --she said it all has to connect in a sexual way. Women don’t know what they want. The only way to win is not to play the game. She had to play your game and she wants to. Because it could be fun. Ehh --she just said fake it to you make it and she said it was weird that if the guy was a virgin at 26

There's NO dynamic that will make a woman totally happy

Adam asking all the right questions. Actually trying to dig deep.

The only way to win, is to not play the game.

"I don't want to have to think." This right here is the sad honesty men. Even the smart ones still want to be there whether you want to or not. That is the default position.

Adam Im not going to lie if you marry a high maintenance woman you will end up paying more of coarse. If you find a beautiful atttractive woman but who is humble than your better off that way. Personally for me It doesn't take 600 to do my hair that is so beyond exaggerated... Most women are simple and not heavily into superficial stuff. Its maybe just the women in Miami or major citites because of coarse its more expensive to live there.. Im happy just wearing shorts and t shirts. I consider myself attractive but Im not at all high maintenance. My monthly expenses are usually around 2k and thats including hair and nails. I dont need alot to be happy. N to be honest if you want to marry a woman you should marry one that isnt about money and things.. Thats crazy. I think society manipulates women to seek material things . At the end of the day what matters is someone who is humble and thankful...Unfortunately those women are harder to find. But they do exist

@David-Co

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for giving some of us guys hope. :')

@benvella1728

Жыл бұрын

This is probably just the American standard, but my wife gets by on maybe 50 bucks a month in hair products, and natural nails, no makeup. Doesn't include our cost of living of course, but that's what she'll typically spend for her own purchases, and even then that's mostly cute shit for the kids and useful stuff for the house. She works part time and will possibly stop entirely soon since I've ramped up enough in income to cover everything comfortably with ample savings and accelarated debt removal.

@bingochoice

Жыл бұрын

your statement that women are "simple and not heavily into superficial stuff", is hilarious..I don't know what planet your from, but that is beyond ridiculous..Women ARE complicated and totally obsessed with superficial things..But the funniest thing you said is that your not at all high maintenance, but your monthly expenses are 2K a month and in your delusional mind you're not high maintenance??? I don't know what you've been smoking, but tell us what are you spending that 2 grand on.??.Someone is in dire need of a reality check..

@garljr

Жыл бұрын

The only issue is finding a woman like that is rare today. A humble woman does not exist to me today. At least so far maybe Ive only met 1-2 women.

@yesterdayseyes

Жыл бұрын

If it costs a woman $600 a month to look beautiful, she is not beautiful.

LOYALTY. FIDELITY. VIRTUE. If these three words are foreign concepts to you, MOVE ALONG. You are made for the STREETS and most definitely not for 30+ years of marriage to one man whose whole life philosophy is built upon the BEDROCK of THESE THREE THINGS.

Bruh, this planning and stuff is when dating women 25+ and if you pull it off she immediately starts planning to baby-trap you... Personally I only do this with girls who have earned better treatment!

After hearing what Iv heard. I can’t help but think our society is doomed, I’ll give it three more generations before the wheels come off this train.

I don't want to work either but my feet pics ain't getting me no bread

When The Guy Said “Have A Vision Of The Future”, He Hit The Nail Right On The Head. My Parents Always Said THINK LONG TERM.

@georgejung5429

Жыл бұрын

Yeah just tell them what they want to hear. There’s a reason men fall in love with what they see and women fall in love with what they hear, that’s why they wear makeup and we lie

I truly cannot grasp why some (these women said most) women have such an aversion to cooking and cleaning. As a single man I cook and clean every day for myself. It's not that hard! Especially for people who are health conscious and already want to cook their own meals. Also, why so damn materialistic? This just pisses me off.

@MijoShrek

Жыл бұрын

The embedded feminism of seeing men as someone to always need to be contended with. That it sounds like the guy only wants some 50s housewife slave to just do his bidding. Thai is what I've gotten from them when they argue on this point and have never interacted with a man in ways of being of service to your loved ones in wanting to do those things for each other. A lot of perpetually single people out here having a lot of emotional baggage having been hurt and dragged through the mud from so much dating that's been so easily accessible to more people. It sucks but I stayed in my lane with women and knew the materialistic princess were hot, but would be nothing but issues for me. I tried for like a week with one who was most physically attractive women I've ever had access to but knew I had to get my ass outta there. As I got older, I now see the errors in that guys will choose badly.

Yoooo im crying at that girl from the tiktok saying come and get me lmaoooo

Safety and vision, such crucial steps in being a good leader in fostering trust. Openness and honesty is also important for followers to know who they are following. Love and care is then what ties it all together and allows your follower to fully surrender.

@richman7833

Жыл бұрын

Means nothing when your follower is constantly looking to use you as a stepping stone.

@JK-kh9ek

Жыл бұрын

@@richman7833 A good leader is wise and will know the difference and even if they are deceived it doesn't mean that you don't be a good leader, thats a weak mindset. And a good leader knows if they are being respected and respects themselves enough to not waste time on someone who is not willing to trust.

That was an honest, interesting discussion. It still exists!

"Then, when the edumacated first world women quit their jobs, we just tax those still working to create UBI." -The Govt. and corporations.

Exceptionally good discussion.

6:11 breastfeeding your son until he's seven is fucking *creepy*

@khanhcao3123

Жыл бұрын

No bro, no.

Guys just bust your ass and work. Establish YOURSELF FIRST with the intentions of being able to take care of somebody else also. Once you’re confident that you make enough find yourself a younger girl that isn’t already high maintenance. When she sees how you’re already living and can see herself just moving in then you got it. It’s not that hard to find a chick that will want to be with you after you’ve already taken care of yourself. However if you’re an ugly guy then you’re screwed. Sorry. Or look for ugly girls.

@David-Co

Жыл бұрын

This is what I'm trying for. Just maximizing money, muscles, game, and frame and seeing where that takes me. I heard mid 30's are the prime years for us guys.

@Murphator

Жыл бұрын

Working on the finding one and money part lol

@MijoShrek

Жыл бұрын

Have you interacted with Gen Z women? Lol, y'all are trippin. Dude you guys have got to stop selling the concept that people can have it all their way. The people that only focused hard on thing were who? That's what the millennial driven women did and now the men who wanted a family and are husband material are not trying to be out in these clown world streets as they get older. Even the guys who are doing good are having their struggles too. Most of the time, meeting a good woman has a ton to do with luck out here. If you wait until your older and financially stable and the women only notice you then. Then there's only one reason they're looking over at you, lol. There are no solutions. There's trade offs and choices to every decision in this life.

Working isn’t the problem, especially part time in a job she likes. It’s NEEDING to work to pay bills that many women hate. Stress and competition.

What they are talking about isn't submission. Submission isn't accepting what you already want. Like a man planning a date and taking care of a woman. Submission is really a woman accepting what she doesn't want because he says to.

Breast feed a grown man that can go and buy his own milk😂

No lie, I married a woman whose career trajectory was the reverse of mine, and as soon as she became the primary earner, the relationship dynamics changed. I had to go back to work to save the marriage.

//: Ain't nothing wrong with equality, equality is wonderful, work till you drop.

It's like listening to two patients arguing in a psyche ward. One is right...one is crazy!

I think all of their opinions on this are right because women can truly want something and at the same time not act upon what they really want or have the option to get what they really want.

@danielhamilton5094

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@wmd13194

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🙄 women sound exhausting

@danielhamilton5094

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@@wmd13194 They are. Most can't even tell the truth to themselves, much less to anyone else

Intuition never trumps logic and reason.

@draganpetev4677

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Wrong! When you are trully intuitive you come to the conclusion almost instantly...

@SC-gw8np

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Logic and reason are a good way to rationalise one’s delusions. Intuition is the only way to the truth.

The hilarious thing is being a stay at home dad was awesomeness itself and sooo easy low stress

This is just ridiculous. Let's ignore the fact that over 90% of the WORLDS population will at no point in their lives reach an income of 100k, or 80k at 26....or older. The rest of the points is just as messed up. Sure, I can take the lead, plan dates, make the decisions, and - overall- play my role. But being constantly in that "business mode", having to convince her, understand her, paint a picture, showing her, yada,yada. Do they even listen to themselves? And in return you get a ran through, entitled, arrogant aging women that can at any point in time use the law against you. And don't you dare ask that women what she can do for YOU. No wonder that less than 30% of men still want to get married. No wonder that quite a few of them use their passports for that reason. No wonder that almost 30% of young man don't even want to date anymore.

Financially, emotionally, spiritually, physically safe. That’s too much to ask of one person. Very unrealistic. Movies have lied and told them these people exist. They do, but not for average everyday women.

This is some great stuff from Stirling!

@luissobalvarro4943

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Stirling name? Last name

The two ladies were actually in agreement all the way. Just from different perspectives.

They want to submit, clean or make sandwiches. I can't believe she hit it on the head. I just left this exact situation

How don't you have a link to the full episode in the description?!

Who wouldn’t want to date that crying screaming chick 😂😂😂

I love this podcast 💯👊🏽

In traditional societies, marriage is a group affair. Lots of people were vetting the potential groom, especially the father. They were actually invested in the success of the marriage. Modern societies sees marriage as a personal individual choice. It's a DIY affair. Even parents have little to no say to the match. So the risks of making poor choices rise significantly.

Until 7... Now thats really healthy

The economy is so damn bad that us men literally cannot take care of these women the way they expect us to. It’s not worth it. Women have to equally bring all the finances to the relationship to actually get ahead in life. We can absolutely pay for all the bills but then we don’t have enough for our retirement and the lifestyle that women want. So in order to have these other things, a woman must offer all her money as well and if she’s not financially offering anything then she’s nothing more than a debt liability.

Expect many more of these videos....

When I was 20 years old I had already saved up enough money to travel overseas and look for work that paid better. I wasn't complaining about having to work to anybody. I spent 4 years there, polished off my Spanish and got a cultural experience that made me cultured and open minded. On return I settled down and got married, had our son then stopped working to homeschool him. My 4 years living overseas on my own prepared me for motherhood. It made me appreciate my life, my future and helped form my goals. How can you be tired in your early 20's of working??? Why did you focus on your career instead of being a wife and mother.

You have been asking for equality for decades, here you have it, enjoy the stress. When you pray for rain you gotta deal with the mud !!

That sounds like allot of work on the part of man. “ get your passports fellas “!

Woman = Debt 💰

@JuanAlvarezPurposeWarrior

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Facts!

They're both right. It's the age of the woman that determines it. Young women are like what the second woman (in white).said. But after they hit 30, they start to rethink it because they want kids. And when they start closing in on 40, then they enter the, "I do need a man!" stage and claim they'll submit, but really they can't submit, because they're way too damaged by trying to be masculine for so long and they've been independent and making all the rules with everything in their home being done their way, that they just can't share a home, let alone submit to someone else in it. Especially if it was already her home! And FYI, more single women are buying homes than single men are today.

My mother is housewife but my mother also have a work she is the Law of our House and the law is a law no one can break the law of my Mother, but my Father is a Provider my father decide everything with the help of my mother. I love my mother and my father. My mother said to me work hard and earn money for your Future life and build a Solid family that no one Girl can break it and find a girl who can support You and accept you no matter what you have and what youv'e done. Yes my mother is a TRADITIONAL WOMAN

It's pride, and pride alone that prevents women from acknowledging they were lied to, and they believed the lie. Most women cannot admit this and would rather die alone. I'm not joking, and this isn't hyperbole.

Women need to adjust standards to reality. True, that women today have been surviving without men and it is scary to let a man become the provider when they find one that is willing to take care of them. However, it won't happen unless they take that risk. And it won't happen if your expectations are so high and unrealistic that probability dictates most women won't find what they want or are looking for even at the low side of their standards.

in every conversation about women submitting to a man, they forget to mention that it's only the top 15-20% of male earners who could afford to take care of a stay at home wife. The man HAS to be making $80k plus just to start. He HAS to be making $120k to buy a solid house. He HAS to be making $150k to raise 2 or 3 kids. - so it makes sense why women don't submit 80% of the time. In 80% of relationships the woman HAS to have a job so they can afford rent, a mortgage, student loans, a kid or 2. So yeah it makes sense that 80% of women are much more masculine than they should be. - they're in survival mode just trying to make it. then add the last part where her average man is overweight, spends all his free time behind a screen, has little ambition, and can barely get it up because of all the p*rn he watches. - yeah, she's going to start to fell that "she don't need no man." my point is, even on the base level of provisioning with finances, 80% of men don't make the cut. add on the boss babe, feminism, societal pressure to be an independent woman, and you have a recipe where women are "delusional" because they both 1) can't submit to a man (because most don't make enough for them to) & 2) they don't want to work, but the culture has enslaved them into thinking a career is what will make them happiest. ill add this, women take realllll offense when a man says he ideally wants an 18 year old virgin. - the women say, you just want that cause she's easy to manipulate. - what they forget is that 18 year old girls are being manipulated... by feminist, society, Disney movies, Cardi B songs, ect. so that manipulation is okay, but not a top 20% mans leadership. riiiiiight. lmao.

@wayklm9471

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You don't submit because he's making more than you, you submit because he's your husband. His god given role is to be the lead of the household, his instinct to provide and protect is inspired not just because she's a woman but because she's his, with that ideal angelic and vulnerable side men adore. The chivalrous side of men is strongly inspired by a beautiful elegant woman, it's not just natural. He wants to be Not a tyran, not a dictator, but a Leader. Most men take that responsability at heart and proud themself in that role just because it's the natural order, that's why both tend to become miserable when the role are reversed, the husband feel emasculated and the woman lose respect. Today everything equates money , so the breadwinner must be the one making the most, and it can reate an imbalance. I disagree with your description of the average man, but current society brainwashed the females and the males, that's why the average man is factually not even attractive anymore because he lost his masculine drive and purpose, no more muse, a lot of 304, means a lot of sexual stimulation everwhere he goes , everything he watches. But he can even act upon it or he is a creep for not ressembling Brad Pitt or have Elon Musk bank account. A lot of frustration 😅

Rude and Toxic don't mean the same thing to regular people as it does to women.

Yes, they do like money. Also, they are sooooo good with money, making, investing, etc. Good for them

“ how should men operate , to get one of those women to submit “ .. my answer , don’t .. walk away .

Provisional percentage should be based on percentage of income input. For example if our monthly income is 10k and I make 60% of that and she makes 40% of that then the household upkeep should be a 60/40 split. Household upkeep being mortgage, necessarily bills (power, water etc...), food, morgage/rental insurance and anything related to kids basic needs.

@georgejung5429

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FxxK that! Everything is 50/50. They don’t like it, bye bye. I out earn my woman, it’s 50/50 now, 9 years in but last 2 years of our relationship I slowly noticed her taking the piss with almost EVERYTHING, because she expects more from me, that expectation just turns into attitude and everything else that comes along with it, Your example is a road to disaster. Trust me.

100% I'm in my early 30s now but when I turned 29 I realized the feminist movement promoting independent women was a dream that became a lie. I've personally always been an old soul and thought I would settle down by age 25-26 but since I'm racially loyal when it comes to setteling down, that didn't happen because I was on the wrong side of the country🇨🇦 when I finally moved out it was 2 months before I turned 29, live alone now I'm tired of paying everything on my own because I thought if I did move out on my own it would only be for maximum 1 year, but now it's so hard to meet men now a days especially after the pandemic

I was ready to retire my wife but she asked me to quit my job because I was working 70 hours a week. She said she missed seeing me as much. I think deep down she doesn’t want to give up control and completely submit. She wishes she didn’t have to work but she wouldn’t let me make it happen for her. In many ways I am still the leader of the household and she does submit in a lot of ways. For whatever reason she couldn’t let go completely.

@MijoShrek

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Or life is very fragile and fleeting. And wants a life with her husband in the now. There is not a lot of women that are not going to have an issue with being apart from her husband for periods of time when she really loves him. There's guys out here that never had a woman they felt they were giving their all to and made them feel like she didn't care if they were working every waking hour working and she wouldn't tell them she wished he were home with her more. You both should be aiming to retire early and would get there in unity faster instead of feeling like you eased back on the gas, because if her and you don't reach The goals you had set at the time you wanted and this ends up as resentment and misplaced blame from misunderstanding why it is we do the things we do.

@shanebaird543

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@@MijoShrek I happily do whatever my family needs. We are on track financially. I am way better suited mentally to work full time than she is. I love that she wants me around more than she wants me to be the breadwinner. I just wish I could retire her and be around enough so that she wouldn’t miss me to much.

@user-sl4ul4nc3t

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It won't last with her being the bread winner. She will resent you and start to find you unattractive. She may not divorce you, but she'll check out.

@shanebaird543

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@@user-sl4ul4nc3t 15 years in and not a hint of that. She still chases me.

Married 23 years and while my wife and I were dating she told me she wanted to be a stay at home mom. Which told me that if I wanted to keep this amazing women I had better get my ass in gear

As a wealthy blk man in my 40s, No Wife No Kids. My life Is a perfect Paradise 🏖

Woman should start dating for a purpose instead of dating for help

My experience is that women seek potential and will stick with a man that shows aspiration...(the ones that are not into a lifestyle or easy money anyways) At some point, if the man doesn't stay on purpose and let's the woman chisel away at what a man is, that's when the relationship becomes at risk of ending. It's important for a man to have a purpose and direction independent of the relationship... she can come along if she wants, but you have to have something you adore to do whether or not she is in your life.

Women need to get this Disney princess la la land image out of their heads. Stop pressuring men to become millionaires or it’s over for you, no woman will want you unless you’re rich.it’s all about what you can provide (money) not who you are . To much pressure on young men and that’s why they just play the field and look out for themselves.

Lyza Arryn up there 🤣

Enjoy your equality

that is f... up 🤯

Idk her name but the girl in white needs to speak for herself, she's never made a delicious meal that her family loves and it shows.