Mithila's Untold Story | Rafiath Rashid Mithila | Soul Connection | Bengali Podcast | Episode 8
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A conversation straight from the heart.
Movies, life and the many roles we play. Renowned actor, and development worker Rafiath Rashid Mithila speaks her heart out on the latest episode of the "Soul Connection Podcast".
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction
04:35 On her professional journey as social worker at BRAC - the largest NGO of the world
12:13 On balancing the many roles in her life (Mother, Social Worker, Actor, Wife) .
18:41 On how being a social worker changed her perspective towards life.
30:02 On how and when Mithila's acting journey begun?
35:33 On working in West Bengal (Film industry).
38:18 On experiences of working in both, East and West Bengal.
42:38 On pursuing PHD on "Early Childhood Development"
54:05 On what music means to her?
56:44 On most influential person in her life
59:46 On struggles after moving to India (Kolkata)
01:02:28 On Srijit Mukherjee
01:08:43 On Feminism and being vocal
01:10:42 On motherhood and her bond with Arya
01:16:20 On social media and trolling.
01:20:27 Mithila in short - Candid.
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এই podcast এর প্রতি সন্মান উত্তোত্তর বাড়ছে। সঞ্চালক ও অতিথি দুজনের কথোপকথন খুব সুন্দর।মিথিলার পড়াশুনা ভীষণ অনুপ্রেরণা যোগাবে বহু মানুষকে।
@farzanayasmin5330
Жыл бұрын
🙏 Mithilar moto Ekta 14 no Most Faltu Mohilar kach theke Asha kori Kew e kichui Shikhbena... Specially Amra Bangladeshi ra...🤮 Mithila 🤮... Hate from Bangladesh
To hear Mithila in this crowded world gives me inspiration.
People are jealous of Mithila. She is a beautiful, highly educated, intelligent, resourceful, well-spoken, well-connected, well-known individual. Not a lot of people in this world are. Hence, the trolling.
@samuelharney1290
10 ай бұрын
With a shitty character
@aslamkarim8682
7 ай бұрын
she is highly overrated!!!!!! she is popular for tahsan and then for srijit...............she is not even half of an average actress in bd.......there are much more highly talented actress in bd.....
@Anindita___
4 күн бұрын
Exactly. Full of power package, flawless lady
অসাধারণ। সত্যি যারা পরীক্ষা দিতে ভালোবাসে তারা প্রতি মুহূর্তে নিজেদের পড়াশোনার মাধ্যমে তৈরি করতে থাকে ভেতরে ভেতরে। এই সংখ্যাটা খুব কম। এটা relate করতে পারলাম নিজের মেয়ের এই একই অবস্হান দেখে। খুব ভালো একটি সাক্ষাৎকার শুনলাম।❤️❤️❤️❤️
আজকে মিথিলার এই প্রোগ্রামটা না দেখতাম তাহলে ওনার সম্পর্কে যে ভুল ধারণা ছিল সেটা ভাঙত না । ধন্যবাদ PODCAST
I love Mithila. How could she do everything with such a motivational way?she is my inspiration.
this is probably the only bengali podcast where the interviewer asks all the right questions giving utmost respect to the guest. Such depth of discussion ignoring all the negativity and personal life dilemmas of the interviewee like the general TV media does! loving this
@user-mu6tl7gi8d
6 ай бұрын
Host is a very knowledgeable and humble person 🤍🤍
খুব সুন্দর সাক্ষাৎকার। এই অনুষ্ঠান দেখে মিথিলাকে খুব ভালোভাবে জানতে পারলাম। নইলে আমরাও ওনাকে সৃজিত মুখার্জির স্ত্রী হিসাবেই জানিতাম।ওনার এই বহুমুখী প্রতিভার কথা জানতাম না। এইজন্য সঞ্চালককে অনেক ধন্যবাদ রইল। মিথিলার প্রতি ভালোবাসা এবং শ্রদ্ধা বেড়ে গেল।মহিলাদের এমন ই হওয়া উচিত। নিজেকে সত্যিকারে জানা এবং নিজেকে সম্মান করা খুব কঠিন জিনিস। কিন্তু চেষ্টা করা উচিত। যেটা উনি করেছেন।তবে একটু ওনার মুখ থেকে সৃজিত সম্পর্ক কিছু শুনতে ইচ্ছা করছিল।
In this interview Mithila had been very candid and honest. Thanks to the interviewer too. This interview will help to dispel the wrong notions that are prevalent about her. It is not that she has to care much about those. Women who look for their own identity face challenges but are revered. Society does not treat independent women kindly.
কথাবার্তায় অনেক চেঞ্জ চলে এসেছে,,,কলকথার ভাষা প্রকাশ পাচ্ছে ওর কথায়,
তাহসানের সাথে ডিভোর্সের পর থেকে উনাকে মানুষ খারাপ কথা বলে। কেন বলে আমি জানি না আমার উনাকে খুব ভালো লাগে।উনি খুব স্বাধীনচেতা।
@jinafaaktertanni2273
Жыл бұрын
আপনার মা বোন ওয়াইফ এমন অনেক গুলো রিউমার্সের মধ্যে থাকলে তখন ঠিকই কষ্ট হত ভাই
@jinafaaktertanni2273
Жыл бұрын
ইফেন সেগুলো সত্য ছিল নারী যত স্বাধীন তত অশ্লীল নারী হয়ে বলছি
@saidulislamsaimon3455
Жыл бұрын
অন্যের সাথে বিবাহিত রিলেশনশিপে থাকা অবস্থায় পরকীয়া করলে কেউ তু আর ভালবাসা সু করবেনা।
@fchowd5866
Жыл бұрын
I started to liking her after her divorce. Before their divorce she was known as a House Pets of Tahsan ‘s household. Now seems like she is very comfortable with her world.
@user-vw5nm7sc9p
10 ай бұрын
কিছু লোক মিথিলার প্রশংসা করছে একটা কথা বুঝতে শিখো সে একটা মুসলিম মেয়ে হয়ে ভিনদেশে গিয়ে তাকে ধর্মান্তরিত না করে কিভাবে হিন্দু লোককে বিয়ে করে? আমার প্রশ্ন সে জায়গায় এ ব্যাপারে তার কোন ভুল অথবা অপরাধমূলক কোন প্রতিক্রিয়া দেখিনা সে কোন ভুল স্বীকার করতে রাজি না, তার গুনগান গেয়ে যাচ্ছে তোমার এসব ডিগ্রী অর্জন সব বৃথা তুমি হিন্দুদের শাঁখা সিঁদুর পরে বাচ্চা কোলে নিয়ে দাঁড়িয়ে আছো চমৎকার দৃশ্য। আমাদেরকে অবাক করেছে এখন মন্দিরে গিয়া পূজা কর হিন্দু স্বামী যা বলে তাই করতে হবে চরিত্র প্রয়োজনেঅর্ধ উলঙ্গ হইয়া বিছানার দৃশ্য ধারণ করেসিনেমা বানাতে হবে
I can spend my life listening to Sondesh podcast. I have never heard actors aware of Piaget's theory. Her background is very interesting. Meeting her in person was a real delight. Her politeness is her factor actually that attracts people to know more about the other world altogether.
@Sondeshtv
11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. This really matters. We are glad that you not only enjoyed watching our podcast but also took out time to shed a light on what what is it that you liked. We really apreciate and are grateful to viewers such as you . These detailed feedbacks gives us the motivation to keep going and trying to add some value. Loads of love from team Sondesh.tv. ❤️❤️❤️
At last, we got to hear at length from Mithila about herself. All our curisity about Srijit Mukherjee's divorcee, 'mother of a child' Bangladeshi wife who's cursed heavily within her own Bangladeshi community, got addressed!!!👍👍👍
Mithila is magical! It was wonderful to listen
she is very inspiring.. love her 🤍
I like Mithila.. I get motivated by her
Ami mithilake anekdin age theke chini jani . Karon bangladesher natak er asepashe ghurghur kore diner anekta samay. Uni khub acopot . Apnar ei podcast aneki dekhabo. Amar biswas amar mayerao onek bhabaner bishay pabe. Bhalo thakben.
Kub intelligent ekjon ovinetri... interview ta bes inspiring...
EXCLUSIVE !!!
মিথিলার কথা গুলো বেশ সাবলীল ছিল।ভালো লেগেছে।
Multi talented and multi faceted lady... kudos to her commitment and focus
Love is ' myth ' ...Mithila literally killed the interview
She is beautiful from her skin and her soul. Awasome,great.
Thanks Mithila Apu anek kichhu shikhlam tomar ai interview theke..
নাটকটির নাম হলো হাউজফুল। অসাধারণ নাটকটি
কোনো কাজ কে ভালোবাসলে সেই কাজে succesful হওয়া almost guaranteed । Mithila is a big name in Bangladesh। I am curious about her next phase of journey in India। I hope she can etch her name as an actress in India as well। I wish her all the best.
Many thanks for this podcast ... I never heard about Mithila, other than a wife of a Bengali Movie Director .. First time I am hearing some details about her .. she seems to be a great woman who will inspire the younger generations for years to come .... I wish her all the best ...
Khub sundor laglo Mithilar kothagulo.
I highly adore her after watching this podcast. Thanks for this
One of the best interviews in respect to both interviewer and guest.
NICE CONVERSATION INDEED❤❤
I love to see Mithila ❤ I like her acts❤️ Let'r go ahead😊😊❤
অসাধারণ!!
soooo inspiring ❤❤❤❤
মিথিলা সত্যিই জিনিয়াস।
Excellent inspiring life
আপনি ফিল্মমেকার তাই বলছি - মিথিলার জীবনের যাত্রাপথ নিয়ে একটা কাহিনীচিত্র তৈরি করুন! তথ্যচিত্র নয়, কারণ সেটা বড়জোর এই পডকাস্টের একটা সম্প্রসারণ হয়ে উঠবে! এই যাত্রাপথের চিত্রায়ন আপনার ড্রিম প্রোজেক্ট হয়ে উঠতে পারে! এমন মানুষ আজকের দিনে কেন, কোনোকালেই খুব বেশি দেখা যায় না বা যায়নি!
Really inspiring!!
Mithila apu ,you are so inspiring.♥️♥️♥️♥️
One of the finest podcast. Love to hear the conversation. I find Mithila to be a great speaker. Great to hear her journey so far. She is certainly an inspiration not only for female base but that also includes male. I would have one request for her. Please make yourself more visible and speak about life and its value system. It will be a great healer for all of us. Further I have one more request that to see you in any film or OTT which is being directed by Srijit M.
দক্ষিণ সুদান আর আফ্রিকার জীবন নিয়ে একটা মুভি বানাও মিথিলা। তুমি আমাদের বাংলাদেশের গর্ব।
সব সময় ভালো লাগে। love u mithila afo
Darun podcast..joto dekhchi ei channel er fan hoye jacchi..
Kub valo laglo ato sundor akta interview
In one word, it is really impressive ❤
Bishaal Kyeti. Damn ❤. Inspirational
If possible then please have some conversation with writers like sirsendu mukhopaddhay,or any kind of classical singers and ask them about future of those profession.
Enjoyed
MR. SRIJIT MUKHERJEE DON'T DESERVE YOU MADAM..... YOU ARE A SUPER WOMAN...... STRONG SMART SENSIBLE AND PRETTY...... BEST OF LUCK FOR YOUR WORK.💐
Salute Mithila..
খুব ভালো লাগছে এই সাক্ষাৎকার
Don't give up right path by falling on wrong decision... Afterall we have to go
Podcast ta ke time onujai chapters a bhag kore dile dorshok hisebe onek subidhe hobe, thank you🙏
@Sondeshtv
Жыл бұрын
Done.
Just once she talk about her x husband Tahsan."I was married to a musician" 56.10
Onek smart❤🎉
Wanna see Jaya Ahsan, too,@ podcast❤️
মেধাবী একজন মানুষ। ❤❤❤❤❤
আমাদের বাংলাদেশের ছেলে মেয়ে অনেক টেলেন্ট মিথিলার কথা শুনে তার জন্য গর্ব হচ্ছে
Hindsight of Brac NGO, I mean Brac micro finance is not known to many people. There are many wrong doings, dirk sides perpetrated by Brac NGO , especially realising, small debts from millions of poor. However, wellbeing programmes are many also. One of the other unpalatable things of brac is that it’s broad is totally controlled by family members of sir Abed. These people take exorbitant amount of in the name of salary & emoluments.
Beauty with brain
Host and speaker both r awesome 🤍🤍
সৃজিত পরিচালিত ছবিতে মিথিলাকে দেখতে চাই।সৃজিত দা বাচ্চা-কাচ্চা কবে নিচ্ছে?
@sirazkhan5067
Жыл бұрын
সৃজিত হিজড়া সে পারে না পরে মেয়েকে নিজের মেয়ে চালিয়ে দেম
Nice discussion
She is my crush ❤
house full মিথিলার প্রথম নাটক সম্ভবত ইউটিউব এ আছে দেখবেন আপনারা।
Ami joto tuku dekhechhi financial independent na hole decision er dam paoa khub kom...
Sweet lady
❤
@raniraima
9 ай бұрын
উনি তো প:বঙ্গের সিনেমা জগতে সুযোগ পেয়েছেনই সৃজিত মুখার্জীর স্ত্রী হিসাবে;না হলে তো বিয়ের আগেই প:বঙ্গের সিনেমায় ওনাকে দেখা যেত.যেটা বাস্তব সেটা তো অস্বীকার করার কোন জায়গা নেই.উনি তো তাই জন্যই এই জগতের প্রতিষ্ঠিত মানুষকে বিয়ে করেছেন..
আমায় রাখতে যদি আপন ঘরে বিশ্ব ঘরে পেতাম না ঠাঁই। ❤🙏❤
Veryinterestinginterviewilike 33:29 33:43 33:44
তোমরা এত জানো অথচ নিজের জীবন টা নিয়ে কি করতে হয় তাই জানোনা। আমরা সাধারণ মানুষ জানি আমাদের জীবন টা নিয়ে কি করতে হবে।
She was never known nor got any offers before marrying Tahsan….. liar 😏
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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sections add korben dadaa please...
@Sondeshtv
Жыл бұрын
Nischoi korbo. Thank you for your comment.
@Sondeshtv
Жыл бұрын
Done.
Bangladesh failed to treat their women right .. hoping for the best
Relax! Over productivity syndrome.
Mithila Mukherjee,it is her name.
@shahrunislam7361
Жыл бұрын
Her actual name is rafiath Rashid mithila
@sarbanidey5550
Жыл бұрын
@@shahrunislam7361 akhon to Mukherjee
@ShahiNoor-xr5lk
Жыл бұрын
মুসলিম ধর্মে স্বামীর নাম জুড়ে দেয়া হয়না মেয়েদের বাবার নাম জুড়ে দেয়া বাধ্যতামূলক
@nsfoodles8902
8 ай бұрын
She is still muslim.
👣👣👣👣
Ato kicho bangladesh thaykay paya aakhon bangali accent boltao loja lagchay!! Amra onek basi khushi je Bangladesh apner moto lojja hin manush nai akhon. Manus tar kotha joto jai hok rakay ar apni Akhon to apner chaya porimonike basi somanito lagchay. Jodio se apner moto sikkhito na .
bro, did BRAC sponsor the podcast? 😬😬
Mithila kolkatar accente kotha bolena. Bangladeshe onek jaygay ebhabe kotha bole
muscle man it to manushle mati Divo
বুঝলাম না, মিথিলা কলকাটার accent এ কথা বলা শুরু করল কেনো? C’mon Mithila! Atleast don’t change your accent.
@fchowd5866
Жыл бұрын
I am not her big fans but I always liked her fearless attitude towards everything about this world. She showed her that side of unstoppable strength by dumping her good looking famous singer (but very stubborn dumbo typed of half dead husband) instead got married to a well known cunning and famous characterless brilliant film producer of Calcutta!!! Now she is pretty much occupy of picking up West Bengal’s Bangla accent too. Eei jemon- Erom -sherom( Bangladeshi accent:Erokom/ sherokom).Aachay, thig-aachay (West Bengal Bangla accent)… besides these she has said one more word in her sentences. Something like Giyecheelum…
@rushmilarifah
Жыл бұрын
@@fchowd5866 I didn't understand your point. Are you supporting her for speaking in Kolkata’s accent no?
@fchowd5866
Жыл бұрын
@@rushmilarifah I am not discouraging her for catching up with that Bangla. I just said, I have noticed her this little changes but it is always smart to learn new stuffs when you are living in three different parts of the world. I always leaves positive comments under the commentary section by praising the Calcutta’s actor by the name Rishi Koushik, who is doing really great in Bangladesh tv dramas. Beside that I criticized his Calcutta’s accent which has ruined the 50 % of that beautiful comedy drama’s smoothness as he played a Bangladeshi Bangla speaking another brother of Apurba. Still I enjoyed his acting all the ways since the contents of all dramas were absolutely beautiful !!! He still can’t get rid off his Calcutta’s accent. But all his hard works gets praised by our Bangladeshi audience. I believe Mithila would be able to conquer the West Bangla ‘s film industry soon with her talented acting skills. I didn’t liked her acting at all the very beginning of her early acting carrier but ever since she has left behind her good looking stubborn husband I felt curious about her and since then I started following her works and her posts on KZread. She is brilliant, smart, and holds / carry the boring beauty of Waheeda Rehman. Let’s wait and see her works and achievements. I have a feeling that she holds the highest potential to become the top actress of West Bengal’s film Industry. Insh’Allah she will reach there.
@shamimajahan7682
Жыл бұрын
Her adoption of the accent is too slight, can be ignored. At least not like Faria! If stay in USA, UK, Australia your accent will be accordingly. The more you hear the more you catch up with the accent. And people do mockery for that which is a sign of ignorance! If you get to talk daily with Chittagong, Barishal or Sylhehi people, your will be a slight changed. When We are alive, we change.
@figojustice
Жыл бұрын
Kolkatar accent to ekebarei noye, eta ke borojor Standard bengali register e kotha bolchhen bola jete pare, jodi ল er uchharonbe taan achhe, kintu mojar kotha, bangladesh er sokol manush mone koren sara wb e kolkata accent chole ar WB er lok mone koren bangladesh e bangal bole sobai, Je bhashae uni bolchhen, ta kolkatar modhyei onek jaegar manusher ghorer bhasha jemon dhorun south kolkata jadavpur garia ei onchol, karon sorti karer kolkatar adimanush bolte ja bojhen, dhorei nin jodi tara WB er medinipur, bankura, hooghky ei jela theke esechen, tahole tader mukher bhasha o kolkatar city language theke alada, Kolkata ekta cosmopolitan city , dhakar onek age theke kolkatae bibhinno desher including bideshi manusher somagom, tarai gore tuleche kolkata ke, including BD refugees, oi je bollam jadavpur garia anchale ashen taile na bujhben ke ki bhabe kotha koy. tai ektu bhabun ki bolchen, ar standard bengali register bujhte sikhun
😅😂he he 😅😂 1:18:33 Ei kothai bhebe shantona peye ja 😂🤣😅🤣😁😂
Mithila kolkatar accente kotha bolena. Bangladeshe ek ek jaygar ek ek rokom bhasha. Eta Bangladesher shuddho bhasha. Onek gelay ei bhashay kotha bole
You bangladeshi , born , brought up in bangladesh , living whole life in bangladesh apart from last few years in kolkata but u talking or trying to talk with the accent of kolkata!!! Why ??? Do u really need that ?? That's disrespectful towards your own identity being a Bangladeshi .😢 At the same time You said u don't like when people call or add or mention your husband name before your name as it is not defines your own identity. This two opposite mentality doesn't go together. Isn't lady??
What’s wrong with her accent ??
সৃজিত এর সংগে এখনও ডিভোর্স হয় নাই ।
এই ব্রাক ব্যাংক এ টাকা রেখে আমাদের টাকা পাইনাই টাকা মাইর গেছে আমাদের।
সুন্দরী ও মেধাবী
Shob mittha kotha mithilas only achievement is she married tahsan and srijit both, used them properly… indian media te ektu porichito hoise ekhon srijit k o divorce dibe.. pura podcast a srijit er kotha kothao nai..
@fchowd5866
Жыл бұрын
Oh! You seems like you know about everything! Ms. KnowItAll!!!
@marziaakther7512
Жыл бұрын
You are a toxic and jealous person who has no achievement 😄
@Tahasinafatema
2 ай бұрын
👠👠👠👠👠👠👠vag kh*ma*
she is highly overrated!!!!!! she is popular for tahsan and then for srijit...............as per acting skill, she is not even half of an average actress in bd .................kolkata people have a tendency to admire half baked bd actors and highlight them as superior ........but there are much more highly talented actress in bd......
I think West Bengal art diaspora is exaggeratedly and unnecessarily obsessed with Bangladesh. There is nothing there man. There is no romance on the other side. At least no extra romance. The same love and hate that one receives across the world, can also be found in Bangladesh, nothing special boss. I know some west bengali NRI public who would try to stand out from the Bangladeshi crowd any time. West Bengal art would gain more if attached to the rest of India rather than Bangladesh. Why can't we make a movie with a plot based in Tirupati? It's the largest and richest temple body in the world. I am sure there will be stories. Having said that its wonderful that Bangladeshis come to India to work. But I find west bengali fascination of bangladesh overrated.
মিথিলা আপনি অনেক কিছু শিখলেন, কিভাবে একজন মুসলিম হতে হয় শিখলেন না।
@mhassan2592
Жыл бұрын
she is an atheist.
@amyshuvra3461
Жыл бұрын
Manush hoite shikhte parlei hobe... World er sob manush to Muslim na? Tai na? So Tara ki manush na?
@aysha6412
Жыл бұрын
Shotti kotha
@pdipu
11 ай бұрын
Oof!
@soumikbiswas4604
5 ай бұрын
মুসলিম বা হিন্দু বা খ্রিস্টান হওয়ার আগে মানুষ হওয়া কাম্য আর উনি মানুষ হয়ে উঠতে পেরেছেন।
তাহসান কে ঠকানো ঠিক হয় নাই।
এত বেশি হাত নাড়াচ্ছে
@arindamsaha735
Жыл бұрын
Practice korche
I am asking everybody...Mithia ki acting jaane...?
@tanzila8063
Жыл бұрын
Jane..ami age vabtam jane na..but recently ekta web series e she has done a brilliant job.. You can watch myself alen sopon..
@jmazadhossain6655
Жыл бұрын
Right, she is never a good actress. She just wanted to get focus on her, eventually she adopted a wrong way of marrying an old haggard like Srijit. Simply a disgusting character she is.
Mithila is not a popular actress. She is underated actress. She was never considered among the top ten TV actress of Bangladesh. She was known as Tahsan's wife.
Shady collusion!