Interesting and very valid points. Actually it’s supportive to listen to people working to be their most evolved selves have a chat about it. I am 55 and would love to have a good husband. I know it would be a true gift. Thank you.

Thank you for being bold enough to make a video like this! I came to the Lord two years ago, and I am still learning what it means to be a godly wife! I am very guilty of many of these points, but I am working daily to humble myself and be transformed into a new creation in Christ. I want to walk in the spirit, and not in the flesh but sometimes it is so difficult especially now because I am unequally yoked! This message was a beautiful reminder of the things I need to continue to work on! Thank you again to you and Daniel for your amazing messages! I have learned so much from both of you! God bless you both!! ❤🙏🏻✝️

Thankyou so much. As a mother of two young adults I can forward this video of a few minutes to help them see their fleshly nature and spare them the time wasted away in searching for these issues in marriage as I had to do. Would love to hear your wisdom on familiarity brews contempt and what causes this in marriage and how to avoid this from happening. I am in desperate need of knowledge and wisdom on this to share with others to avoid this trap to...

**NIKITA, THANK YOU!! I'VE BEEN TOGETHER WITH MY ROBERT, FOR 46YRS. EVERY YEAR, I THANK THE LORD FOR ANOTHER BLESSED YEAR WITH HIM. WE'RE NOT PERFECT + "WE" MAKE OUR SHARE OF MISTAKES - BUT WE WORK THEM OUT!! MY ROBERT, LOVES ME AND TELLS ME EVERYDAY, AS I DO TELL HIM.

Yes if there s no communication , or to try, it is finished

So good! More of these videos would be great. ❤😊

Marriage is blessed sacrament Spiritual connected to God Emotionally connected to each other Physically connected to each other Lord bless all the married couple Proverbs chapter 31 is❤❤❤

Very well said and put! I praise God for my husband of 23 years! He is a wonderful man and I appreciate him so very much! Even with his imperfections, because I have my imperfections myself. We are all under construction, one day we will be perfect because God is perfect! Have a blessed weekend!

@NikitaJoienWomensLifestyle

Жыл бұрын

Amen mom that loves! 😁🤗

Excellent! Thank you! You & Daniel are a powerful force & a true asset & blessing to this broken world. ❤️

@NikitaJoienWomensLifestyle

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Dominique 🤗

I looooooove this so much!!!!!! Completely 100% agree with all of these! Me and my hubby have been married for 19 years and I love learning always and growing as a wife ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

"you are missing the point lady!"loved the way you said it. And yes you are serious😁loved the content and the editing.

Thank you very much for this video.

Wife , show your husband you love him Give him honor and respect Listen closely when he's speaking Acts of kindness don't neglect Vice versa

Excellent advice!

Thank you. I agree.

Thank you!

Awesome Niki...you explained in a nice and understanding way

Great video ! 😊Thanks ❤✍🏽

@NikitaJoienWomensLifestyle

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Natasha 🤗

AWESOME video as usual Nikita! 👏 ❤️

@NikitaJoienWomensLifestyle

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Romans 🙏🏻

Great video Nikita. Spot on❤️👍

@NikitaJoienWomensLifestyle

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Mpho 🙏🏻

That's amazing niki

I believe and feel that your video has all the Godly and moral foundations to make a marriage or relationship work and I have always been what my friends call old school in this department - but these values won't work unless both parties are willing participants. Ive been in the past a stubborn, stuck in my ways, wanting to be right kind of woman but I believed this relationship was sent from my Heavenly Father so I decided to do things differently. I was truly inlove. 3 yrs of submission. Something I never thought I could do and shocked people around me. I saw his controlling tendencies, manipulation, jealousy outbursts, gaslighting but I had already chosen to love him & so I was going to compromise & work through it - but until what extent? He was getting all this attention from me and I was getting nothing, to the point where I wasn't even sure I was important or beautiful or fun to him anymore. He told me I was the glue that hold us together while he kept trying to break it down. Roles were reversed, I felt like the man because he didn't step up and then I would hurt his feelings. I was changing so much that I was truly disliking who I became while he stayed the same & true to himself. How many times can a person submit & not correct or disrespect their partner in front of people when the words spoken are repeatedly a disrespect on you. Lastly, I feel believe you shouldn't gossip or talk smack about your partner. Eventually you will forgive & get past it but your loved ones will always hold that grudge; but let's be real, if you are that close with family they see the change & they worry, at the very least you need to reassure them your ok. And to be honest, you truly need to be able to confide in at least 1 person otherwise you will go insane especially when your partner doesn't see anything wrong. I know the above is most likely a different video and I love your videos Nikita but I fought daily to be the partner, woman, wife God intended for me to be but I have realized that no matter the advice given, or the videos you watch or the effort, no matter how much you follow scripture if it's not reciprocated it won't work. I felt like this needed to be shared with other men & women that follow your channel that may be experiencing similar things so they don't beat themselves up thinking it's their fault, they are doing something wrong. The worst thing a person can do is lose the masterpiece God created them to be for a relationship that doesn't reciprocate or align with God's will and purpose. Happy Feast of Tabernacles

@NikitaJoienWomensLifestyle

Жыл бұрын

I fully agree Mary, this advise is for both parties, wives as well as husbands! 👍🏻

That's Amazing

Wonderful couple

A few good points...

You and your husband act the same lol soo cute 🥰

17. Temper .. is definitely NOT a female problem in All my life.. also, males helping around the house chores is unheard of

@NikitaJoienWomensLifestyle

Жыл бұрын

Well I'm glad to hear that you don't have a temper problem my dear, and as for males not helping with chores, then you've most certainly never met my husband 😊

When you have children, it changes everything

You have a good God fearing husband Nikita..the only thing that keeps my marriage going and married to a narcissist... Is that I'm definitely a prayer WARRIOR and God hears my voice.... thanks for your great videos..gina s.

@NikitaJoienWomensLifestyle

Жыл бұрын

You are in my prayers too Gina 🤗

I have a very social family so I struggle with not discussing personal things. I’ve noticed though if I keep it surface level or minimal when I discuss my marriage with my parents there is a lot more peace with everyone. I like your videos btw and I watch DLM Christian lifestyle also. ❤

@NikitaJoienWomensLifestyle

Жыл бұрын

Hey Vickie. I'm in the same situation my family is very social, but I learned very early in my marriage to not discuss personal things with them because they are also still human, so incorrect assumptions might be made about my marriage or my husband and I'm not going to be the cause of that because I had the urge to gossip about him or a personal matter. You are your husbands helper and his supporter and together YOU are now one family too 😘 Glad to hear that you have have learned the same as me, to discuss less 🤗 God bless your marriage 🙏🏻

I’ve finally found your youtube channel 😃

@NikitaJoienWomensLifestyle

Жыл бұрын

Yay! So happy and thankful for the support 🤗

That's cool

How about used lie detector?? Joke, thanks for the info💐

Hi Nikita u look beautiful. I like yours hair look 😍😍😍 this is something important topic which u have explained 👌👌

@NikitaJoienWomensLifestyle

Жыл бұрын

Thank you CK for the wonderful compliment and for the support on my channel! 🙏🏻

👍👍👍

It'd be nice if you made a video of how you and Daniel met and fell in love and the challenges you faced as a couple during your dating period and in marriage. If you don't mind.😊😊

@NikitaJoienWomensLifestyle

Жыл бұрын

Will definitely put it on the video request list, thanks Jessica x

How do you deal with your husband if he does these to you? Disrespecting, making assumptions, etc? How do we as Godly women navigate that and harsh words? Of course they need grace and forgiveness just as we do...but how do we react in those situations? I struggle to keep my mouth shut when I'm in those situations...I'd love your input and wisdom please?

Nikita, I have a pretty big problem i needand would love your opinion on. I love my husband of 10 yrs now dearly, although this past year i have became a completely devoted reborn Christian and get so excited at times to share the gospel with him but even though he says he believes in God he doesn't want to join me in church or sometimes even gets annoyed at my new complete devotion to loving God first and foremost. I've tried to explain how it's only going to strengthen us but he's very resistant at times 😢 and it's worrying me not just above all for his soul but for our marriage. Any advice you could email me would be greatly appreciated?!!

@NikitaJoienWomensLifestyle

5 ай бұрын

Hi Lindsey I am so glad to hear that you are pursuing the Lord more and more but sorry to hear about your husband not being so devoted as you are. The best advice I can give you now is just to keep pursuing the Lord and let you love shine through your works towards your husband, and most importantly, keep praying for him! If he sees you devotion and how you stay consistent in your walk with the Lord, he might start to change later too. Your first priority will always be God, remember that. And always following the Bible of what a true woman should be like. A fantastic video that might help you is the book "A woman after God's own heart" by Elizabeth George

Everything you mentioned he does to me and now what

@NikitaJoienWomensLifestyle

Жыл бұрын

Now you remain steadfast in the Word of God and keep continueing the wife that God tells you to be...pray about your marriage and keep praying for your husband. And also pray that the Lord shows you what to do about your trials 🙏🏻

I think blonde hair will suit u so good

@NikitaJoienWomensLifestyle

Жыл бұрын

I've been blonde before, but thank you for the sweet note 😊

@chmaberlaim

Жыл бұрын

Yeah I saw that in your pics u were looking stunning

@tam1729

Жыл бұрын

@@chmaberlaim she looks stunning just as she is now 😊

@tiffanyhamby

Жыл бұрын

Awwww that's sooo kind, I love seeing people be kind to one another 🥰🤗❤❤🤍🤍🙏🙏🙏

I don't want to marry anyone. My parents asked me to marry. I said okay to marriage because my dad said that he will drink alcohol if I didn't marry. I am not happy with my decision. I can't sleep well after my decision. I am not having any peace. Kindly, reply me Mam. I am broken down, already I loved a person he left me and married other person. Please reply Mam

@NikitaJoienWomensLifestyle

Жыл бұрын

Hi Youth Revival Program... The answer is short and simple, if you don't feel peace to marry, then don't marry. It doesn't matter what you parents say or family or friends. If your dad makes the decision to start drinking because of something that you do, then that decision is on him and he needs to take responsibility for his own actions and repent to the Lord. If you don't feel peace to do something, then don't because ultimately you will need to answer to God for the decisions YOU make. God bless and I will pray for you 🙏🏻

@youthrevivalprogram4471

Жыл бұрын

😭😭😭😭 thank You so much for replying Mam. But If He start to drink, everyone will blame me Mam. To be honest, I am so scared Mam.

Nikita your skin is so supple. Like a baby

@NikitaJoienWomensLifestyle

Жыл бұрын

Haha, it's just makeup, it doesn't always look like this!

@sandipankumar7833

Жыл бұрын

@@NikitaJoienWomensLifestyle ohh no no.inner beauty is the real one. Which u have