As a Dutch person, another thing I'd add to the list is that Dutchies should stop confusing directness with rudeness. Too often I hear the excuse of 'I'm just saying what I think' to be rude and actually offend people. I do really appreciate directness in terms of expressing needs and expectations though, I find it helps to save time and bring clarity in work projects and to prevent conflict.

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Oh man, this is a big one I missed haha. Would've been a great point for the video.

@a.e.gresel312

8 ай бұрын

Its simple dude, you have to adapt to us.We don't adapt to your personal needs. Where do you think you are? Fantasy land?

@7CH-912-CC3

8 ай бұрын

as a Dutch person, maybe you should stop being a fucking snowflake

@Peacefrogg

8 ай бұрын

I agree. Big fan of directness and honesty here. But insulting ppl or acting entitled or even discriminating, and then saying you’re just being honest and direct, so not ok.

@Lilygirl283

8 ай бұрын

​@a.e.gresel312 no, not true, we have plenty of negative things in the Netherlands, you are being a A..hole, how's that!! He can still.point out those things, you are not direct, you are rude!!

Ah yes, you're complaining and thus, becoming a Dutchie! 🙂 Love your videos mate.

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Haha, thanks!

@xXTheoLinuxXx

8 ай бұрын

I was about to say the same thing :) The better you are with complaining the more Dutch you are LOL

@Ralfscho

8 ай бұрын

@@exploringtheforeign Doe noâhmaal man, wat un k*t video, je denk toch nie dattik me rugzak voâh iemand weghaal en de plek mot deile met wellich iemand die stink.En al die bùitelandâhs die hun ège taal spreike in de bùiteluch nie te doen gewaun. Zeggie nâh dat we nie teige kritiek kunnûh? Wat un onzin. En warom zâh ik me hande wasse na ut gebrùik van un aupebaah plei? Alles wattik daahna mot anrake is toch sowieso al vies. En nie zau zèke, as iets nie maugelijk dan is ut nie maugelijk, zau makkelijk is dat. En asje nie klaagt krèggie nauit wat je wil. Dus laat ons maah lekkâh klage en bemoei je mejje ège zakûh. E asje mèn baudschap nie met un korrel zâht neimp, hebbie gein humoâh.

@paulwee1924dus

8 ай бұрын

@@exploringtheforeign What did your father or grandfather do in WW2? We are curious. Was he a Red-ball expresse driver?

@ytwos1

8 ай бұрын

@@paulwee1924dusWtf? Doe normaal.

From a Dutchie: all true, but having lived abroad I find the most annoying trait is the inability to say sorry when you bloody well know you're in the wrong.

@mirrrie

8 ай бұрын

I don't know where that comes from. I don't know anyone who has any issues to say sorry. Just only when we are sorry. Not for bs reasons

@tomracingplays808

8 ай бұрын

Als Nederlander ben ik het een met alle punten’ vooral het klagen

@daisyspanhakbon1364

8 ай бұрын

Yes! I have lived abroad too, and saying sorry is just common decency and not a crime! Here it's simply unheard of and just creates so much negative feelings towards each other when a simple Sorry would just be enough🙏💯🫶

@daisyspanhakbon1364

8 ай бұрын

@@mirrrie Well, lady, your bs reasons might just be your own ego...and THAT is exactly the point.

@CenarosNL

2 ай бұрын

@@mirrrie Je bevestigt wel lekker het punt waar het om gaat 😆

In restaurants and shops I don't mind the "not possible" rule so much. In America the customer is considered king, but in the Netherlands you're a guest. I like that mindset much more, because some people take the "customer is king" mentality to the extreme. Having the feeling you're a guest means your shopping/restaurant experience we'll be much more pleasant and humbling. Respect the people that serve you, that kind of mindset. And of course that respect needs to go both ways. Be generous and kind to your guests.

@kaasmeester5903

8 ай бұрын

I prefer something in the middle. The "customer is king" mentality definitely leads to some rotten behaviour in the US, but the "not possible" (or as I prefer to see it, the "what the hell do you want") attitude from Dutch store clerks isn't great either. We've never had much of a service oriented culture here. But things are improving though; compared to 20 years ago most store clerks are way more friendly and helpful.

@echoisaway

7 ай бұрын

Imo there should be a middleground, as Kaasmeester said already. I think changes should be possible for people with allergies etc etc, but the customer shouldn't be allowed to just ask for so many changes that the food becomes a whole seperate dish :)

@RenABFF0

7 ай бұрын

Would the presenter have been willing to pay extra for the additional workload caused by their request? If not, why should a business go out of their way without being able to charge a higher price. If you have a more “reasonable” request (no cheese please), they are generally accommodating even without you having allergies

@femkevanwageningen6068

7 ай бұрын

My grandma had a shop for a while. She used to say"De klant is koning maar ik ben Keizer" and I absolutely love that statement. (The customer is king but I am Emperor)

@druffgeldmacher8352

7 ай бұрын

that is wrong, the customer is king because the customer is paying YOU, the food isn't free you are not a guest you logic is flawed

As a german, I never knew, how similar dutchies and germans are at some points. Like complaining, rudeness/ directness or speaking english with foreigners who try to speak our language 😉. When I watched 'Ted Lasso', I thought, the american film makers just confused the germans and the dutch. But now I see, maybe they have a point. But for me, the dutchies are very nice people, much nicer then some germans 🤗 Allways love to visit your country ❣️❣️ Greetings from Berlin 😎

@Goatjeniksoan

8 ай бұрын

Haha what u say about ted lasso. I see also in a lot of american movies or shows that when they say they are dutch they speak german or otherwise

@Pimmie0132

8 ай бұрын

As a dutch person I really like the nickname Dutchie

@karinadevries8185

8 ай бұрын

Juwen7908 als ik Nederlands praat in Nederland krijg ik zelfs al commentaar van Duitsers dat ik tegen hen Duits moet praten in mijn eigen land. So what you said that the German people switch emedaily to English is not true

@leontineketting97

8 ай бұрын

Most people which are NOT from The Netherlands or Germany mixed these 2 things up, it's annoying and funny at the same time😂😂😂

@Snibble

8 ай бұрын

Most Germans are way more polite then most Dutch. But nothing beats a rude German in my opinion.

As a Dutch person, I mostly approve of this message. I get annoyed when I have to tell my order in English. Now it is true Dutch people will a lot of times answer you in English. However, there is a flip side. I have seen international students and expats put an arrogant tone of why don’t you just speak English towards me attitude. In Hospitality, it is a great opportunity how to learn to take an order in Dutch. I speak 6 languages and I always learned the languages in the countries I lived in out of respect as a guest in that country.

@zaljoseph9799

8 ай бұрын

Yes I agree, it is not that I mind speaking English althoug we are in the Netherlands it is the tone and arrogant attitude that bothers me. As if it is strange for me to talk Dutch instead of English

@nicomeier8098

8 ай бұрын

My thoughts exactly. helping a tourist in English is fine (normal) but ordering a beer in English? No.

@randomsam83

7 ай бұрын

Yes can I have 1 war fries and a Mexican with mayonaise.

@joostvanderlee9569

7 ай бұрын

exactly! my country so i wanna speak in my language

@Masterchief070

7 ай бұрын

@@joostvanderlee9569I refuse to speak back in English. My country indeed. Zijn ze godverdomme helemaal gek geworden!

Several years ago I was working for a bit in the Netherlands. I found I really enjoyed it so I started trying to learn Dutch on Duolingo. I tell the client I'm working with and he's like, "No, don't learn Dutch. It's useless. Nobody speaks Dutch." He was dutch. I really picked up more Dutch from getting food at hole-in-the-wall Indonesian and Turkish places since they didn't speak any English.

@daisyspanhakbon1364

8 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@martinbasten192

8 ай бұрын

With a lot of us, we think it's cool that you want to learn our language. We really do appreciate it, but most us wouldn't like to teach you all that much, because "Why would you?" Learning English, French, German or Spanish, we understand, because those are some of the biggest and most used languages in the world. So we struggle a lot when people are learning Dutch 😂

@Necoy666

8 ай бұрын

He's speaking the truth tho, we have a higher percentage of English speakers than America (USA). So yeah, just stay with English, Dutch is useless unless u wanna go to Afrika.

@jannetteberends8730

8 ай бұрын

The last sentence was very funny

@NemuruYama

8 ай бұрын

A lot of workplaces have international people, and since basically every Dutch person knows English, we simply speak in English at our Dutch jobs.

Ha ha dankjewel dat je ons een spiegel voorhoudt. Ik moest erg lachen om jouw opmerkingen! (Thank you so much for holding up a mirror so we can see for ourselves how annoying we are!)

@daisyspanhakbon1364

8 ай бұрын

You, we...erm, you...😂ARE BLOODY ANNOYING!!! But more so to each other than to visitors, I think.

@edwin.jansen

5 ай бұрын

You forgot to translate that you got a good laugh out of the remarks in this video.... 🙂

Ja, zucht...., ik denk dat als je ergens lang genoeg woont, je niet alleen de voordelen zult leren kennen, maar ook de nadelen. In elk land is er de mix van goed en slecht. Nederland is geen paradijs, bij lange na niet. We proberen echter wel de voordelen in verhouding tot de nadelen te laten preveleren. Ik kan nog veel meer nadelen opnoemen omdat ik hier ben geboren en ik hier ben opgegroeid. De mentaliteit hier echter is wel zo dat als we bij elkaar gaan klagen, je medestanders zult vinden en door middel van collectiviteit kan trachten het probleem op te lossen. Klagen is aan de ene kant voor sommige mensen een manier van leven, maar aan de andere kant heeft het ook een sociale functie: Als je genoeg medestanders kunt vinden kun je er met elkaar iets aan doen.

As a French person, based on what you said, I find us extremely similar to the Dutch! Except maybe for the part about automatically switching to English (it really depends on the person and the city). But even the doe normaal concept is prevalent in France!

@royvankan2723

8 ай бұрын

If I as a Durchie visit France, 80% of the people, you may say, refused to speak English. Especially when you asked in French if they speak English. The answer I mostly get is: “Why? You speak French already.” 😂. Beautiful country though. 🇫🇷🇳🇱 (Did you notice that actually the French did a 90° clockwise rotation of their flag, because ours was already taken, by …. us. 😅

@marlonmarquez4798

8 ай бұрын

i feel like french people are less welcoming then Dutch people. they (dutch people) can be pretty direct, maybe a bit rude, but they are usually willing to help. or at least treat you like an equal.

@RhythmAddictedState

8 ай бұрын

@@marlonmarquez4798 French people are definitely not rude and put a lot of emphasis on being treated as equals. I have a feeling you're talking about Paris, which is a busy capital city. Outside of the Parisian region most people are more relaxed and therefore "nicer". I live in Paris and my parents live in small cities in another region, and you can definitely tell the difference when going from one region to another. I've also lived in another country and it's the same story (the whole capital city vs the rest of the country dichotomy).

@juulridicuul2539

8 ай бұрын

Yall dont be switching to english cuz most of yall can't speak english😭😭

@RhythmAddictedState

8 ай бұрын

@@juulridicuul2539 I kind of doubt you've ever been to France, darling

As a Dutch person I approve this message

@chilling-boy

8 ай бұрын

A a Nederlands person I do not

@Peacefrogg

8 ай бұрын

Ik ben nederlander en ben het eens met alle punten. En oh ja, doe niet normaal (…eh…maar ook niet arrogant of brutaal ajb…)

@anneliesS04

8 ай бұрын

I agree. And I'm Dutch

@Franco_Bagarella

8 ай бұрын

Alle punten nee eens? Lul niet zo stom man. Wij wassen onze klauwen niet? Geen kritiek op nederland? In een restaurant niet dingen kunnen wijzigingen? Blabla

@Peacefrogg

8 ай бұрын

@@Franco_Bagarella eh.. ja in een kroeg zie je regelmatig dat mannen plassen en weer doorgaan. In een ‘echt’ restaurant kun je wel iets bestellen met een of twee aanpassingen (stuk lastiger bij eetcafe’s, buurtcentra e.d.), maar ook restaurants vragen vaak om speciale dieetwensen bij de reservering al aan te geven. En als je tijdens de dinerdrukte met een hele waslijst aan aanpassingen komt, en daarmee een gerecht compleet kapotmaakt, worden ze echt niet blij van je. En dat we niet goed met kritiek om kunnen gaan,bewijs je nu zelf…

The production quality on this video is through the roof!! I always enjoy your content so much! 😃

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Really means a lot to read this!

I'm a brit living in NL for nearly 10 years and agree with everything, so you got a laugh from me. The only thing I'd say is, for number 7 I am way worse than the Dutch! Some things I'd add would be: * How difficult it is to be spontaneous with Netherlanders as they always seem to have something on their agenda when you *feel* like doing something * On a similar topic, it can be hard to just go out to grab some food last minute because, again, the restaurants have every table reserved for the next month, even if the place is super basic.

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

I agree! I typically would've mentioned planning, but I've discussed that concept in previous videos, so I didn't wanna repeat :)

@thijsgerhardus8672

8 ай бұрын

computer says no 🙂

@Blackadder75

8 ай бұрын

well, I don't go to Michelin star restaurants, but I have no trouble walking in without a reservation, unless it's the busiest night of the week.

@BTMovieSecondChannel

8 ай бұрын

The first point is so true! But even for me as a Dutch person, it is sometimes hard. Whenever I can, I try to be spontaneous and allow people to come to my place last-minute, knowing it is uncommon in our culture.

@Lilygirl283

8 ай бұрын

​@@thijsgerhardus8672computer is dumb...

Where is that unsubscribe button? 😝😉 Nice video Sam. You can tell us the truth. Most Dutchies can handle it. Ignore the crowd with torches and pitchforks at your door. You are still one of the most positive people on the planet. ❤❤❤

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Haha! Thanks, Michel!

Ik vind het zelf ook heel irritant dat ik in Amsterdam in het Engels aangesproken word. Ik voel me dan net een toerist. Ik begrijp de kritiek dat als een buitenlander mij dan aanspreekt in het Nl mijn eerste reactie inderdaad is om een taal te zoeken die we gemeen hebben, meestal Engels. Dit heeft er niet zozeer mee te maken dat ik geen Nl wil spreken, maar op zo'n moment is de prioriteit dat je zo'n persoon helpt. Met een buitenlandse vriend daarentegen spreek ik het liefst Nl, omdat dan mijn prioriteit is dat ik een diepere connectie met zo'n persoon maak, en dat lukt mij het beste in mijn moedertaal.

You don't get "Doe normaal". The Dutch are just sober, we usually don't like the fake, overexaggerating, "American" fakeness. While they are sober, they achieved great things. It's one the best countries on the planet. Especially Brabant. The weather can be a bit better.

@CatBloom42

7 ай бұрын

Just want to let you know that the word you're looking for here is not "sober", but "down to earth". Sober is mostly used when talking about alcohol use. Especially since you mentioned Brabant, since sober isn't the best way to describe us beer loving Brabo's ;)

@randomsam83

7 ай бұрын

@@CatBloom42 Act normal because that's crazy enough and keep them in the holes!

@timonheidema6837

7 ай бұрын

@@CatBloom42 Sober CAN be used to describe the nature of people that way; it is an actual definition in the English language, too. It's not just as common as it is in Dutch. :)

@CatBloom42

7 ай бұрын

@@timonheidema6837 Notice how I said "mostly", not always.

@literallyjustgrass

4 ай бұрын

Nah we kunnen echt wel raarder zijn, zeker in brabant. Is toch niet goed dat je een nieuwe haarstijl probeert en binnen een uur heeft ons mam en het hele dorp het er over

As a Dutchy: 1. Yes, correct backpacks on chairs sucks indeed 2. Correct too 3. This is true, we never speak back in Dutch 4. Disagreeing on this one, for the simple fact that a big part of the Netherlands is now an expat or a local with a different ethnic background and they complain and complain about us for decades already and it's really tiring. If we are welcoming and receiving "we are too happy" if we stick to our cultural habits "we are too grumpy" it's never good enough. 5. I always wash my hands and always hear, mostly from women, "oh, you DO wash your hands." so going to agree with this one. 6. We love to be structured, no one should feel special enough thinking they can break this structure - you are like the rest of us (that's the mindset). 7. We complain and never do anything about it, this is indeed dumb. And lastly, your video feels like genuine feedback and not like an insult - thanks a lot for that, this is really appreciated.

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Love this response; thank you! And to be fair, for point number 4, I can also see it from your perspective!

@BTMovieSecondChannel

8 ай бұрын

Yeah good thing about point 6! I think for many Dutch people, asking for a special treatment (making a customization) is considered pretentious or conceited.

@mtcsypkens

8 ай бұрын

Number 7: why would we do anything about it? Then we can't complain about it anymore 😂

@WonHakWoon

8 ай бұрын

Number 1 is what I do on purpose. I don't want anyone to have a seat next to me, they have to ask first. I do so too if I wanna sit somewhere. I'm a person who is about ''people must ask for permission for anything if they come near me'', because I don't trust people one bit

@thefaramith8876

28 күн бұрын

@@WonHakWoon Its public transport, you have double digit IQ.

The last time I saw one of your videos, I was miserable and in the US. Now I’m seeing you again and I’m finally in the Netherlands :-)

@dustylong

8 ай бұрын

Welcome!

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Wow! How're you liking it?

@nuljeon

8 ай бұрын

@@dustylong bedankt 😊

@nuljeon

8 ай бұрын

@@exploringtheforeign still getting used to everything but I’m really happy to be here!

@teaser6089

6 ай бұрын

@@nuljeon I hope you learn to Cycle, it's the best mode of transport :D

Ik ga stuk! Echt om te genieten deze video 😂❤

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

😂😂🙌🏾

@sandechoir

8 ай бұрын

hoe veel stuk heb jij 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

1. The backpack one is so frustrating and a lot of people think it is, yet everyone does it. 2. The 'doe normaal' mindset is more about not bragging about your wealth or accomplishments, we like to think everyone is the same and you can also see that in the hierarchy at work. 3. You are completely right about that one, I always do it and I have foreign friends that struggle to learn Dutch because of this. 4. I agree on this one again, but I think it also depends on the subject. 5. Personally, I always wash my hands. But I agree a lot of people do it and it's kind of gross haha. 6. I think you are right, but I'm Dutch and I love my structure :D 7. Yep, we do complain a lot haha.

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Thanks for the feedback! And for the "doe normaal", I knew some people may not agree with the example, but what I felt Tygo was showing from his response was not wanting exagerrate the potential of or expect too much from the video promotion. And I feel that that ties with putting limits on oneself and not wanting to stand out too much from others. But that's just how I saw it! *and this isn't a diss to Tygo* haha. I believe that this article here explains it well: fitbeauty.nl/waarom-de-doe-maar-normaal-mentaliteit-frustreert/ it's point number 4 under "Deze uitspraak weerhoudt.."

@PreptiossAble

8 ай бұрын

I was typing up my comment, then I realised you mostly said all the things i wanted to say.

@dustylong

8 ай бұрын

​@@exploringtheforeignGreat article 👍🏻

@pimdegroot9656

8 ай бұрын

Agree on the backpack on the side thing. But when I ask if I can use the seat, I mostly get a smile. Or even a “sorry”. It’s also a habit because of the train floors being so untidy and downright dirty.

@jeroenrat6289

8 ай бұрын

Nr.2 well said, hierarchy is less present as is in other countries. Koning, keizer, admiraal, poepen moeten ze allemaal😂

Some valid points. One i'm finding to be mistaken a lot is " de doe normaal ". For me it just means don't overdo, you have my respect anyway. For me it doesn't make a difference if you work for sanitation or be a high up man in business. ❤😊

@litchtheshinigami8936

8 ай бұрын

this for me it mainly just means don't act like a buffoon in public and respect people

Echt heel leuk om jou perspectief te horen, als een Nederlander kan ik hier nog veel van leren!

This video is so well thought out! The consistent centered composition, the little zooms, the seamless transitions, the amazing intro. It was splendid to watch! And yeah, I have just realized I spoke in English 😂. Over het tassen op de stoel leggen: het is vaak inderdaad een manier om te zorgen dat je alleen zit, maar soms is het ook gewoon prettig om je tas dichtbij je te hebben of niet op de vieze vloer te leggen. Het is een soort luxe!

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Heel erg bedankt!

@dustylong

8 ай бұрын

Inderdaad, als het niet druk is zet ik ook m'n tas naast me. Dan wordt ie niet vies, kan ik 'm in de gaten houden en hoef ik 'm niet op schoot te hebben 😅 Zit wel zo lekker. Maar is idd een luxe ja 🤗

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Haha ja, als ik zei in de video, ik snap het als de trein niet vol is, maar vaak is het zo dat ook als de trein vol is, mensen zetten nog hun tas op de stoel.

@BTMovieSecondChannel

8 ай бұрын

Huidige situatie in de trein: drukke trein, elke zitplek geblockt door een tas 😂. Je hebt de Nederlandse cultuur goed geanalyseerd!

@skabuoy

8 ай бұрын

Ik zit in de trein zelden in een coupé, en bijna altijd op een stoeltje bij de in- / uitgang. Ik kan mijn tas dus alleen kwijt op de stoel naast me, of de grond. ALS ik in een coupé zit, doe ik mijn tas ook niet in de opbergruimte. Ik lees / puzzel altijd in de trein. Als ik iedere keer moet opstaan om mijn tas te pakken omdat ik stop met lezen, en wil gaan puzzelen, of omgekeerd, word ik gek, en de mensen die naast me zitten ook. On a side note : Als je niet wilt dat mensen naast je gaan zitten, laat je tas dan thuis, en stop gewoon met douchen. ;-)

My nationality is Dutch, although I'm nowhere near like a Dutchy . The " No, that is not possible ", especially with scrambled eggs instead of fried one😤😤😤 makes me hella mad. People expect things to happen like spoiled brats 😂😂 What I learned by myself was that culture is infinitely facetted and has beauty , if you are willing to listen 😮 Difference does not mean good nor evil, it means other values are applied because of living environment.

@Tamster1988

7 ай бұрын

Zoiets Nederlands om te zeggen dat je een Nederlander bent maar niet zo een Nederlander 🤪 Grapje 😇☺😉

@joostvanderlee9569

7 ай бұрын

i think you are entitled if you want something else

I am so upset! Your list is upside down!

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

haha

Content getting better and better 💯💯

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Thanks, fam!

As for 'this isn't possible': people who work in government and/or are not connected to their place of work, will all too easily say your problem does not fit their system and therefore is not their problem. However, there are loads of compassionate people around here who do think along with you. I phoned with some of them within the bureaucracies of the local government, my phone company's customer service, and the national tax office. I always try to provide nice custom solutions for people in my own work. If you think it's bad here, try Germany or Norway. I think on the whole, we've found a nice balance as a society.

@EdwinHofstra

8 ай бұрын

In Belgium I once stopped at a station in the early evening, feeling a little peckish. The local sandwich shop was only open during lunch hours, so I went to the snack bar, which was run by a Chinese family, and asked for a 'broodje kroket' (admittedly not a staple in Belgium) and the person helping me answered, we don't have that. So I'm looking at the snacks on display and I'm thinking, there are the kroketten, there are the buns, where is the problem? I think it's in accounting.

@Fh8919

8 ай бұрын

Yeah agreed. In restaurants and whatnot I've never experienced unwillingness to go off-menu. Government however... ugh. Or huge companies

That beginning got me 🤣 This is some high quality content Samuel 🔥 Doe niet normaal! I love it

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Haha thank you!

Some really valid points that I see in my daily life! Good video!

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Thanks, Roy!

Amazing production. Videos keep getting better and better!!

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Thank you!

I was also born and raised in the Netherlands and i remember when i used to take everything so super duper serious, i realized life really wasn't all that fun about taking everything so directly until i changed, now instead of getting mad or angry at one little thing, i often just find an appropriate comment to say and just continue the conversation and be happy i'm talking to said person as they're comfortable to make such remarks if they're in a good will of course. Everyone can be themselves so i'm just happy to have realized that early on in life and not too late to become a grumpy old man. Still wonder where the mentality comes from.. Parents? Schools? I mean we're told to say no to strangers but i think it's dialed up to 11 here

This was hilarious, Sam!!!! Loving your videos and that you are always respectful of the people of The Netherlands even when pointing out the things you’re learning about the country as an expat. At the end of the day it’s still one of the coolest countries in the world! 😂❤

Haha, I think I agree with all of your points! Only in restaurants, I don't encounter so much the 'not possible' attitude, often the restaurants I visit are quite flexible. But great video!

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Thank you! And interesting to hear your experience has been different😃

@joostdriesens3984

8 ай бұрын

Perhaps the most popular, touristy places have a kind of fixed menu for costs and efficiency and more mature places are more flexible?

Nice video man keep it up 👍

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Thank you!

Wat een leuk filmpje, heel herkenbaar! Wat grappig ook dat veel mensen in het engels reageren hieronder. Klagen en doe maar normaal zijn 2 interessante dingen, de generatie van mijn opa en oma had als instelling: niet lullen maar poetsen (hard werken en niet klagen). Er was amper ruimte voor plezier, je moest vooral nuttig zijn. Heeft dit te maken met ons handelsverleden? Met het feit dat we het kapitalisme hebben uitgevonden (het komt van de voc om investeringen in schepen minder risicovol te maken)? Of door het calvinistische geloof? Het lijkt iig haaks op het klagen te staan. Ik zie klagen vooral als iets makkelijks, je kunt zo je frustratie over je leven afreageren op iets buiten jezelf. Ik verwacht dat de komende generaties voor verandering gaan zorgen, door de mentale problemen die steeds meer mensen hebben gaat er hopelijk meer ruimte komen voor ontspanning en zelfontplooiing, minder focus op presteren. Dan is het misschien niet meer nodig om zoveel te klagen en hoeven we ook niet meer per se normaal te doen. Ik heb een droom ;)

If you ask me to, I'll speak Dutch instead of English. So, here we go: 1. Klagen is heerlijk en helpt dingen verbeteren. Het zou wel beter zijn als we ook vaker dankbaarheid uitspraken. 2. Van dat 'Dat is onmogelijk' wil ik ook af. (Laatst was ik in de bus en iemand wilde met de bus, maar had alleen contant geld. De buschauffeur had met zijn eigen bankpas een kaartje voor haar kunnen kopen en dan het geld kunnen aannemen, maar dat deed hij niet. Natuurlijk voorkomt zulke striktheid corruptie en fraude: Als de buschauffeur bijvoorbeeld zomaar het contante geld had aangenomen en haar had laten instappen, had hij waarschijnlijk al het geld zelf gehouden in plaats van dat het ook werd geregistreerd en gedeeltelijk naar het bedrijf ging. Toch gaan we hierin te ver.) 3. Veel mannen vegen niet af na het plassen en wassen daarom hun handen dan ook niet, maar als vrouw vind ik dat ook een vies idee. 4. Ja, het is jammer. Nederlanders vinden het makkelijker om te klagen dan gewoon dankbaar te zijn voor hun land, dus moeten ze andere landen neerhalen om hun trots te laten zien. 5. Als je zegt in het Nederlands te willen praten, doen we dat, maar als je dat niet zegt, kun je overkomen alsof je vreest dat ik geen Engels kan, maar veel liever Engels praat. 6. De 'doe normaal'-mindset vind ik wel lekker makkelijk, maar als iemand wat meer afwijkt, vind ik niet dat mensen dat mogen veroordelen. 7. Rugtassen op stoelen moeten inderdaad niet kunnen in een drukke trein.

@ojgfhuebsrnvn2781

8 ай бұрын

I will answer in english because i cannot yet answer in Dutch and since i am on phone its bothersome to type and use translator for some words on same device. The problem with the idea of "if you ask to speak dutch then we will" is that it works only for actual conversations with but most interactions alwith strangers are short. Like if i buy a coffee, 90% of time just seller speaks in english to me despite i asked in dutch. You wouldnt ask them to speak dutch because the conversation is about to end. Those interactions are short but help a lot with breakong language barrier because you wont suddenly speak good dutch, you need some very simple practice first. Generally its good if dutch talked in dutch with foregners who talk dutch to them (even if its absolutely awful). My mom doesnt speak english and learn dutch but they just simply try to speak english with her. For example in hospital when they see she doesnt speak english and her dutch is still very bad, they simply ignore her (in a sense that they dont engage in questioning her in any way even though she can answe some things like name, date of birth etc (and that is what they needed)). Anyway. Dutch first, english later is a good approach. P.s. if you have desire to answer: what is the fundamental difference between eens, maar and even when talking imperative? Internet has very loose explanation of these and generalise it. So i would like to know how to determine what each of them brings to the sentence

@infj4w511

8 ай бұрын

Ga eens naar buiten! 'Eens' implies that it wants the listener to follow immediately, although it won't deal any consequences for ignoring it . 'Ga eens naar buiten! Het is tijd!' = 'Ga naar buiten. En wel nu, alsjeblieft? Het is tijd!' Ga maar naar buiten. 'Maar' turns the imperative into a helpful suggestion. 'Wil je even uitwaaien? Dat is goed. Ga maar naar buiten.' = 'Wil je even uitwaaien? Dat is goed. Ga naar buiten, als je dat fijn vindt.' It may be used in a more sarcastic manner. 'Laat maar zitten.' = 'Het zou beter zijn voor iedereen als we dit onderwerp laten zitten.' The (emotional) context explains the reason. Ga even naar buiten. 'Even' means that following the imperative shouldn't take too much time (and effort). Therefore, the imperative is not too much to ask from the other. Therefore, the other is expected to follow it willingly without long consideration. 'Die ruzie van net? Volgens mij zit je daarmee nog steeds in je vel. Ga even naar buiten: even afkoelen.' = 'Die ruzie van net? Volgens mij zit je daarmee nog steeds in je vel. Ga naar buiten. Dat kost niet zoveel moeite. Dan kun je afkoelen. Dat kost niet zoveel moeite.' 'Ga maar eens naar buiten.' = 'Ga nu direct naar buiten - als je wil.' 'Ga eens even naar buiten.' = 'Ga naar buiten. Doe het snel. Zoveel moeite kost dat niet.' 'Ga maar even naar buiten.' = 'Ga naar buiten als je wil. Zoveel moeite kost dat niet.' 'Ga maar eens even naar buiten.' = 'Ga nu direct naar buiten als je wil. Zoveel moeite kost dat niet.'

@ojgfhuebsrnvn2781

8 ай бұрын

@@infj4w511 Wow, that was actually really good explanation and with excellent examples. Thank you for your help =)

@infj4w511

8 ай бұрын

No problem! I'm glad to hear it was helpful@@ojgfhuebsrnvn2781

As an American who has lived in the UK the past 25 years and has spent a lot of time in the Netherlands... the British do all these things/think this way, too. I'm going to throw some Dutch directness at you and say, I think it's very possible that these things stand out to you as Dutch *and strange* because you haven't travelled widely enough yet to notice it's ingrained elsewhere. It's not just the Dutch! In fact, I'm beginning to think it's Americans who are weird. 😉

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

I've been to quite a few places, but I've only lived in a handful. So indeed it's hard for me to draw a connection with the culture in the Netherlands to other places because I haven't experienced them on such a level. But I could imagine that a lot of this isn't exclusive to the Netherlands😃

@Lilygirl283

8 ай бұрын

​@@exploringtheforeignSam, the Brits complain a lot about the weather too, the weather patterns are very similar, i am dutch, but live in Australia, i had to get used to some strange things they do here, and yes, they also complain...😅

@joostdriesens3984

8 ай бұрын

@@Lilygirl283 Do you say 'yeah nah' a lot now? 😅

@thomasschumacher5362

8 ай бұрын

​@@joostdriesens3984yeah nah not a problem

Great video, and I too, as a Dutchie can attest that this is all too accurate. More dutchies should see this, because your approach is very honest, yet gentle. Would do lots of us good to see this video!

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Thank you!

I did not expect you to have a clip in Heerenveen haha, caught me of guard! Nice video!

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Haha, you never know where I'll end up in these videos!😃

@ThijsJonker01

8 ай бұрын

@@exploringtheforeign If you are ever in Heerenveen again during winter, I think it might be a very cool experience to watch a speed skating game in Thialf!

Great video! And what a great personality you have! Subscribed!

@exploringtheforeign

7 ай бұрын

Thanks! I appreicate it!

As a Dutch person going by train to and from work in rush hours it's not that annoying to have to deal with people placing their bags next to them. just ask if you can sit there and they'll move it 99.9% of the time. what IS annoying however is that people will always, and i mean ALWAYS, stay in fron of the train doors in a group making it impossible for people to get out and while you're just trying to exit they will all try to enter at the same time...

@teaser6089

6 ай бұрын

Real

@jeanmaryemer5430

6 ай бұрын

Moest laatst de trein nemen in Leiden, ik zat al 20 minuten te watchten in de kou door vertragingen, de trein komt aan (het is spitsuur dus perron is propvol) en het was maar één treinstel di al vanuit schiphol is gekomen, BESEF hoe druk het was Ik liep elk deur langs en er leek geen plek te zijn, mensen stonden letterlijk gelijk met het deur, maar als je door de ramen keek zag je de coupes nog leeg! Snapte niet waarom mensen gewoon niet door lopen

Goe bezig maat groeten van Gent België 🇧🇪 🙌

i love this video, you brought it so well!

@exploringtheforeign

7 ай бұрын

Thank you!

Love you bro ❤, de manier hoe je deze video zo respectvol mogelijk maakt en altijd met een glimlach

@exploringtheforeign

6 ай бұрын

Dankjewel man😢🙏🏾

as a dutch introvert, no i will not stop putting my backpack on the seat next to me and if you sit down next to me i will get up and leave

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

haha!

@Joylibelle

8 ай бұрын

Whahaha, da's a goeie, gelijk heb je😂👍🏼

@Tyrope

7 ай бұрын

Ik ga tegenwoordig niet eens meer zitten (maar reis ook eigenlijk niet langer me de trein dan het stukje Den Haag CS - R'dam CS); leun wel ergens tegen een trapleuning of muur aan.

Nice content! #2 on the list with the 'not possible' mindset, Dutch people contradict themselves a bit here. I've worked in many (asian) restaurants and it's only the Dutch customers who wants to alter things on the menu. Like your example with the fried eggs, they often want things to be added, changed into something else or removing it, which in most cases, the restaurant will comply with it. But if it's a Dutch (western) restaurant, they will not comply with your request with 'it's not possible'. Think this one goes a bit hand in hand with the complaining and if the complaint is redirected to them, they have a hard time accepting it.

Nice one! I watched another vid just now, the one on what not to take for granted..and something occured to me.. The "doe normaal" and "its impossible" limiting mindsets might be an unwanted sideeffect of the "not keeping up with the Jones" thing. I love the " work to live dont live to work" lifestyle and for there to be no need to "be better than.." its a comfortable place to be... but it might make us a little too comfortable at times. Where it gets weird if you dare to want more. And it might even make some people unwilling to do anything more than the bare minimum required. Which would explain the " its impossible" mindset. It can be limiting and annoying to be around haha it good to have them pointed out like this! Kinda fun to consider these things.. thanks! Appreciate a healthy dose of constructive criticism like this vid it helps us stay openminded and connected.

Bro I am with you on the backpack thing. I always pick those seats to annoy the person putting their backpack there.

Nice and positive video thanks! As a dutchmen (have to complain a little😂) i agree with small things like we switch fast to english when we hear a foreign accent. But we are what we are : opportunistic,direct,structural and if you get to know us pretty friendly (apart from dinertime😜). Really Nice that you take the effort to make this video and to have a open mind in it. Take care !

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Thank you!

The not washing your hands thing makes me go crazy whenever I see it. It’s absolutely disgusting and you have to share things with others. I personally don’t care if someone is annoyed when I tell them to move their bag. You’re moving it and I’m sitting down. I won :) The structure thing also annoys me. I love living my life in the moment and I always take the most odd route possible. So when people “stick” to their schedule and plans and always have this structured lifestyle it makes them seem really boring in my eyes. And if you ever want to see them or interact with them, you have to basically schedule with them like an appointment. And the complaining thing wouldn’t be as bad, if they at least backed it up with real protests. They say so much, but never actually do anything or fight for their rights. It annoys me when we as a majority want change, yet I’m one of the few that actually stand up to do something about it

@tomfoolery7797

8 ай бұрын

It's weird, I live in the Netherlands but haven't really encountered it outside of the most disgusting places

@3elawi

8 ай бұрын

maybe because you're dutch. like a native dutchmen. that makes you less prone to seeing these things@@tomfoolery7797

@sannegodijn301

8 ай бұрын

Did you miss all the protests that have happening here

@3elawi

8 ай бұрын

@@sannegodijn301 You mean the farmers that are being a nuisance to the population? that's harassment not protesting. they were hurting/annoying normal citizens and hoping the government would do something about it. That's not a good protest. Besides that I haven't seen any protest of value

@sannegodijn301

8 ай бұрын

@@3elawi i gues you havent been paying attention also protests are supposed be disruptive we also had alot of bus driver protests for better pay and working conditiones how is that not valuable there have been alot of pretests against the royal family and just because you dont think they are valuable doesnt mean they arent

Great video man, ga zo door! I always says, people who have everything complains the most!

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Dankjewel!

I’m traveling in the Netherlands right now. I thought you would say there are almost not toilet and all non-free. I live in Japan, I’m so much used to go to 7-eleven or a supermarket just for that (even free, all have bidet washlet and warm seat in winter). Good surprise was: even small cities or villages are lively. Just an exemple: Dalen, 4 bars/restaurants, Chinese restaurant, good size supermarket, bakery and dozen of other shops. Dalen barely register on the map how small it is.

As a Scot living in the Netherlands for the last 13 years, yes to all of this lol ... drives me crazy sometimes 😂 Another thing, or two I would add to this list is lack of common social manners, especially in shops, nobody moves for anybody, its so rude, and that people dont look when they are crossing the road, or leaving a shop, they just come barreling right out, whether it be cars, bikes or pedestrians... I almost had 3 incidents on the 20 minute bike ride to my daughters school... one kid didnt bother to check his right while crossing the street so i gad to slow down quickly, then a man on his bike thought everyone around him was psychic, and then a woman stepped right out onto the bike path and didnt step back to let me pass, or the 4000 students behind me, got a dirty look too ...like, oh come on, how am i in the wrong here?!!! .... and dont get me started on cars who just come out of their driveways or pass parked cars on my side, i stop to let them pass, never a thanks is offered lol

@litchtheshinigami8936

8 ай бұрын

omg the social manners one. i'm dutch myself (born n raised) but i totally agree on it i have had moments where i had panic attacks in the trams and metros because nobody would look around to see if anyone had to get off. so instead i plowed trough while being in a state of pure panic knocking people over and treading on toes. like if i'm in there i always look around to see if anyone needs to get off in wich case i will move my way to the side where possible or angle myself differently so they can schooch by (though in some cases i've also had very out of pocket experiences in the same manner of things where i was perfectly on the side but a woman had to take the side i was standing on to exit the metro. the other side near the door was completely empty and would have easily fit her and her oversized crotch goblin carrier, but no she had to wheel it straight over my feet safe to say if the doors hadn't closed and the train hadn't left that probably would have resulted in a fight and a woman in jail for attacking a minor since i was like 13 at the time) another good example was in a store when i needed some new underwear, there were two people blocking the path to the undergarments because the lady and her elderly mother (who had a walker) had positioned themselves in such a manner that they could reach the shirts in the other crate but nobody could actually reach the underwear in the other one. i legit felt like a video game character with a routing issue where i walked back and forth becase i just wanted to get to the underwear.. so my social anxiety (and me being a trans man so i didn't want them to question why i was going for the men's boxers) just caused me to error out completely and have a slight panic attack because if there is one thing i do not know what to do is figure out how to get there or wait till they are gone.. and they were taking their sweet old time.

@mroozendaal

8 ай бұрын

Then go back to Schotland if you miss the social manners.

@melody9843

8 ай бұрын

@@mroozendaal Dit is gw prc punt 4😭😭

@fonepixie

8 ай бұрын

@@mroozendaal And there is that exact dutch politenes i was talking about 😂 Manners cost nothing.

@martinkasper197

7 ай бұрын

In Germany those ignorant people would get a loud "HALLO?"...😂😂😂

Great video as always, I think we complain to pursue change. Just like you are doing currently with this video, you might me more dutch then you would like to admit ;)

I like the waving of both flags, kudos to you! I appreciate your honesty, as always. I can see that the bag on the seat would be a thing in any big city. It certainly is here in New York. But I do understand, there's a lot going on in the world and people don't have the capacity for other people's space, much less conversation. It's a bit of a sad state of affairs, but who knows? Someone who changes your life could be the very person sitting right next to you. All I know is, I don't care how reluctant you are to move that bag, you're gonna give me my seat that I paid for when I got on this ride! 😆 And I can see how "being normal" is a stabilizing concept. "Don't cause trouble", but many forms of "out of the norm" bring big growth to a society. Up-and-coming artists that put places on the map are usually not "normal". So, I am all about "doe niet normal"! I will say this, though, "No, it's not possible": I totally understand that! Even as a New Yorker and a believer in "anything is possible", I don't like to ask for unnecessary customization. It's okay to ask, sure. But I also think, as Americans, we expect people to cater to us (consciously or ignorantly so) in a way the rest of the world doesnt. Perhaps I'm wrong, but I feel like what it says on the menu is what it is. "We don't variate. No, we don't serve vegetarian options at our steakhouse! " 🤭I'm just saying... And the washing of the hands thing, I don't know, you guys need to work that out, 😂. You'd be surprised, that's not a Dutch thing. 😉🤫

@HarrowKrodarius

6 ай бұрын

Honestly. "Doe normaal" is only the first two words of the original statement "Doe Normaal, dan doe je al gek genoeg" which just means be yourself. for me.

Leuke video, en heel herkenbaar!

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Dankjewel!

I think you're spot on with the "doe maar normaal" interpretation. Dutch don't like to see people standing out or bragging, themselves included. But it has two sides and it cabn be annoying or even limiting. Maybe some people wash their hands before they touch there "squire" 😁

"Doe niet normaal" love it. Especially since normal is getting worse and worse.

Thanks for making this video, it's really nice to become aware of such things, because you see the things from your american perspective ! ❤

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Thank you!

I was at Hoofddorp station right and there is this doner stand i used to come there often so i know the guy who stands there after 5. He is an Iranian and always when foreigners come he speaks dutch to them on purpose. Thats a very nice thing to see. The food is awesome aswell

I'm Dutch and I think all your points are valid. I think complaining comes natural to us because of the wheater 😄 Speaking English in shops annoyed me at first, but as I voted for more Europe I changed my mind😋 Love your enthousiasm in your videos!

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

I appreciate that! Thanks!

@BlacksmithTWD

8 ай бұрын

What has voting for more Europe has to do with speaking English, especially since Brexit? If you are that European minded you ought to speak more German instead, though I'm not that much a fan of the last time more German was spoken in the Netherlands.

@dutchyjhome

8 ай бұрын

@@BlacksmithTWD Ja it has been almost 80 years now. Can we please continue our lives without constantly directly and indirectly referring to WW2..? Thank you! And yes German as a lingua franca is not such a bad idea. After all around 130 million people speak German as their mother language or as a second language. German is the most widely spoken mother language in the European Union and an official language in seven countries. In 42 countries there are more than 7.5 million people who belong to a German-speaking minority. How many people have learned German as a foreign language? 289 million people. According to calculations by Ulrich Ammon, an expert on German language, this is how many people around the globe have learned German at some time in their lives. How well they speak it is another matter entirely. At the moment, 15.4 million people around the world are currently learning German as a foreign language: 90 percent of them are school students and 10 per cent are adults.

@martijn6613

8 ай бұрын

As for the shops I'd say that it is important that people who live here learn Dutch, because it's an important part of integrating into Dutch culture. But as mentioned in the video Dutch people will often switch to English. The solution should however be that we stop switching to English so much, instead of stopping to expect immigrants to learn the language. What seems most sensible to me is to keep English as the lingua franca, and besides that language you just speak at least your native language and the language of the country you're living in. If I were to move to France I'd also be expected to learn French, and rightfully so. And that's nothing to do with being pro-Europe or not, I'm very much in favour of more EU, but that doesn't mean we should just stop learning the language of the places where we live.

@BlacksmithTWD

8 ай бұрын

@@dutchyjhome Seeing how many people are arguing to ignore the neurenberg code now I rather think we should mention and refer to WW2 more often. Though I ought to add that contrary to your assumption I don't constantly directly and indirectly refer to WW2. That aside, I'm glad you at least understood the other part of my statement and provided the substantiation for it.

No you don't get kicked out. We may look annoyed by criticism, but in fact we like it. We do it ourselfs all the time!

@Edodod

8 ай бұрын

Thats why you lose your country!

I agree with most of your points in the video! I am Dutch myself and I can relate with most of them. But I always try to think outside of the box and to stay optimistic. That is a bit different with everyone

Mooie video en fijne dag!

As a Dutch person: Fair enough!

0:54 Look mom I made it into Sam's video! ❤

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

😂😂🙌🏾🙌🏾

Dit had ik niet verwacht, maar 100% eens met deze punten.

Pretty fair critisism overall to be fair. I recognize pretty much all of those things from myself or someone in my direct environment :') #3 is a bit more nuanced though. I don't think most Dutch people mind English becoming bigger in our country at all, the option of English that is. But when bussinesses set up shop in the Netherlands, and especially in big cities this is becoming a problem, do not speak Dutch at all, that does become a bit of a problem. I know two people, my aunt and my sister's husband, who simply aren't super good at learning. They do not speak English so if they walk into a store in their own country and nobody there can even speak the language, that is quite a hinderance. Imagine more and more stores in America that don't even speak English but only Spanish. I bet a lot of Americans would feel the same way about that and I would agree that's equally weird. Sure if you can speak Spanish provide that service to everyone that can benefit from that but at least have a basic understanding of English since that is the primary language of the country you're in. It is kind of weird to need an interpreter to be able to buy something from a store in your own country no matter how many people do speak or even prefer to speak English. Nothing wrong with businesses that can speak both English and Dutch though, it's just the English-only businesses that are quite a problem for some people that literally were born and raised here.

Foreigners don't do this: 1. It's far too busy in the trains, and everywhere else, because far too many people came to live here. 2. Doe normaal is about anti-social behaviour, people thinking they are so special the rules don't apply to them. The habit of not bragging or being overly optimistic should not be confused with that. 3. It's simply rude to not make any effort to speak Dutch when you work in a bar or restaurant. It's also rude to start learning Dutch after two years after you found out there is a difference between proficiency and native language and than believe you can use any random person's time to practice while you haven't put in any real effort yet. The level of Dutch in the video won't provoke a reaction in English. 4. Most immigrants critique on the Netherlands comes from myths that go around in their expat bubbles where no one speaks Dutch. I't ill informed usually, and not fully thought through. There is usually a reason behind things they simply didn't think of. 5. If you know better than the cook, cook yourself. They offer you a dish, not personal servants to tell what to prepare how. It's a stupid American habit that only exists because of underpaying staff so they are dependent on tips, it's rude to the waitress and the cook, everywhere outside the USA, and it's even ruder to bring it from the USA, ditch it. 6. Yes we complain. There is not the tiniest bit of relevance to what other countries do worse, why should that be the measure of things?

As a Dutchman I couldn't agree with you more. Most of us have a toxic mentality which makes them think they're perfect and bette than any country. Well, we're not perfect at all. They're many things I can name that other countries do better at than the Netherlands. And I also hate this "doe normaal" thing. It just puts so much pressure on me that I feel embarrassed to just be outside in even the slightest. I just wanna be myself. But apparently that's not allowed in this Boring society.

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

You gotta just "doe niet normaal"!😁

@joostvanderlee9569

7 ай бұрын

name a few things, please. cause i dont see it

@jaysimoes3705

Ай бұрын

Like what?

I was in Amsterdam in back in 1976, and I saw a man eating a snake at a fish stall. Weird habit.

In general I find your representation of our habits fairly accurate. If these are your biggest beefs with the Netherlands I guess we’re doing great! As are you 😊😊

I think you misinterpreted Tygo's modesty for an "act normal" mindset, and customer service in the US is too much focused on pleasing the customer according to most Europeans (it's not just a Dutch thing), but other than that, I do agree with your points. Most of those annoy me too sometimes...

Over het algemeen klopt het wel. Zelfs het feit dat Nederlanders volhardend zijn om Engels te praten of te schrijven, zie vele reacties. 😜 Leuke video. 👍🏻

Have the same experiences beside ordering at restaurants with small alterations to the menu. But most on this list has a charm to it, so hope it doesn't change.😅

Great points, definitely agree with most of the except 3 and 5,especially point 5. I have known a lot of expats who just don't care to learn Dutch because we are such an accommodating people, they feel like they don't need to learn Dutch

I am just at point 4 and so far all of the points also apply to Germany and I agree, we have to fix that

@toniderdon

8 ай бұрын

Ok not washing your hands is not common in Germany

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Interesting!

Alright, I'm prepared to receive some mix reactions on this one haha. Also, yes I would have planning on this, but I've discussed that topic quite a bit in other videos, so I left it off.

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

For the non-Dutch viewers, I noticed that I missed adding a translation at 1:10 in the video. But there I say "you need to be more optimistic" and "that's such a Dutch response"

@duncandl910

8 ай бұрын

You were more than fair, though at point 2 you reminded me a little of jan peter balkenende hahahaha! As a Dutchie myself I can speak to point 4 as well. Dutch people love to critique Americans but often overlook the fact that they aren't the judges of rationality they consider themselves to be. A little more kindness and less judgment towards everyone would serve us all. Much love!!

@thenewnetherlands22

8 ай бұрын

i was the one from the intro with the orange flag

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

@nnlarmy Hey!! Thank you for your help, man! I hope you enjoyed the video!

😂 Great,funny vid, again Sam. You are absolutely right. And, no way you get kicked out of this country. You are an absolute asset to the country. People like you are so welcome 🙏

@exploringtheforeign

7 ай бұрын

Thank you!! Really kind!

I only put my backpack on the seat next to me when it has been raining (which 9 times out of 10, it has) and the whole floor of the bus or train is soaking wet and I don't want water penetrating through the bottom of my bag

I think most of your complaints are valid. To number 7 you can add people talking in the silence sections of the trains as well. The one I kinda half disagree with is that "act normal" isn't so much about not thinking big, but about not standing out too much. I think it has its upsides and downsides. It can mean that people aren't allowed to be themselves or different (bad), but it can also mean not annoying random strangers and making things about you all the time (good). Other than that, it's all accurate.

@WonHakWoon

8 ай бұрын

Oh yeah, it sucks. It's annoying, I always get extremely mad, when people talk while they are seated in a silence section. I mean, why TF do you think I wanna be seated there?

@tomfoolery7797

8 ай бұрын

Trains have silence sections?

as a Dutch person, I will shed my light on these: 1. yes, sometimes we want to sit alone. But it's mostly uncomfortable to put your bag in front of you or on your lap and when no one's gonna sit next to you anyway, why not put it on the other seat? 2. Doe normaal is not associated with fear of standing out or failing or any fear at all. It's about not wanting to stand out for superficial reasons, desperately trying to gain attention. As you mentioned, many things were accomplished by Dutch people. Doe normaal means 1) don't go around showing off and 2) just behave in a public setting and show some respect. Ex-prime minister said: "Doe normaal of ga weg." Meaning: either adapt and behave, or leave. It's got two meanings, really, but I feel like neither come from a place of fear. it's also quite superficial i think? like, it's about behaviour. you can dream big, but don't show it. put that energy into realizing your dream rather than talking about it (personal interpretation alert) 3. this is a valid point. nothing to add. 4. I think we are pretty good at mocking ourselves. it's just when a non-Dutch person does so, we get so needlessly defensive (this comment of mine being a prime example of course :)) 5. girls mostly wash their hands 6. i have too little experience to say anything about this. we do have a highly customizable menu at McDonald's tho - edit: it might also be more cost& time efficient to not want to deviate from the default. we are a practical country 7. yes, we complain too much. although somehow, we are consistently one of the happiest countries in the world.

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Thanks for your detailed response! To add more context to my point about "doe normal", I feel this article explains it well: fitbeauty.nl/waarom-de-doe-maar-normaal-mentaliteit-frustreert/ Specifically point number 4 under "deze afspraak weerhoudt"

@WonHakWoon

8 ай бұрын

The complaining even continues when the Dutch go abroad for vacation. I go to Austria every Summer vacation and I hear a lot about how panicked the Dutch are and how complaining they can be, yet Austrians prefer the Dutch over Germans. Germans literally ruin everything and are very disrespectful. This is what locals said to us themselves.

Je Nederlands is echt goed man, leuk dat je er bent. Zie net dat je uit Cali komt, de beste plek in de VS, en dan toch hier wonen, wat een compliment!!

@exploringtheforeign

4 ай бұрын

Heel erg bedankt! En ik vind het leuk hier in Nederland :)

Haha, great video man! Spot on :)

stop promoting a country that is full.

Why are you complaining so much? You're becoming too Dutch, now you have to stay here 🤣🤣🤣

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

haha, you're right!

This was so accurate. I live in Belgium but 6 of 7 things were the same. Only diffrence is that sometimes they will adapt something if you ask. The rest 100% same here in Belgium 😅.

Je hebt volkomen gelijk, ik herken dit, als iemand die dagelijks met mensen in contact kom en ik weet dat ik het zelf zo nu en dan ook doe😊

My wife (a Peruvian) always tells me that i complain a lot. And yes, as a Dutch person, i do. That is simply because we have it too good here in the Netherlands which makes us all very spoiled and thus prone to complaining a lot more. Even if everything is perfect, we find something to complain about. We don't do it on purpose and we don't always mean it in a bad way or so. The not washing hands thing still grosses me out and i certainly can't understand why some don't do it.

I am on the floor with laughter...you've got it down in a humorous way. Obviously, these are very small things in this vid - and as with your others - is in the right spirit of appreciation and fun. Well done, guy.

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

😂😂 thank you!

I agree with literally all the points you made here. All the things we can improve and in fact, we need to do this asap. From the bags in the public transport to not washing our hands i have noticed this too and I think it's all true. However, I think we will never let go of our tendencies to critique things, even though, you were completely correct. Like you said The Dutch accomplished great things and I like to think we accomplished most of those things by always striving for perfection and the need to always want to improve on whatever we, or others, created. And I think our tendencies to critique is based on that perfectionism and it's not necessarily complaining, just to complain. Even though it might sometimes seem that way because we are indeed lacking in the tact department. Our forefathers could not have built this country below sea level if they took certain imperfections for granted. I think a typical Dutch approach is: 'This looks great, but "x" would make it better'. And I think this is also connected to: 'Doe normaal'. It's hard to show pride and be proud if you still see things that can be improved upon. And we always see room for improvement and we will always mention this in some shape or form. Either by straight up saying it or some backhanded comment or joke.

@HarrowKrodarius

6 ай бұрын

I mean, Complaining about the weather is a national past time haha

I agree! i must say i do the anti social backpacking when the train is not full. But if i have not dozed off into a sleep, i usually take my backpack away when i can ^^. The "doe normaal" hits close to home. I have such a struggle to just try and be myself and live my life. it is indeed that fear of standing out that stops me. So i think you bring up amazing points!! :3

Message from a foreigner to the Americans, stop doing this as if your way of life is the only "right" way... 😢

To be fair: you're totally right! It's always good to get a different point of view, and these are indeed very common and very annoying habits

The switching to English is so extremely true, I have been a private Dutch speaker and this is a main annoyance for many of my students (to be fair, some should force themselves to speak more, but still it applies).

I'm a Dutch person and I've noticed different things about the language part, but I do live near the German border. I've often that when I try to speak Dutch to foreign people they look at me as if I've three heads, somehow they expect me to talk back in their language instead (often with German). Switching to English even gives the same reaction. Not sure if this is the case in other places though.

You are so right on point. I love it.

as a dutchie, i agree with the list.. although i do some of them myself. I already speak more english than dutch due to my work and hobby.. And after only a pee, i don't always wash my hands... I learned not to pee on my hands.. but when i feel any splashback, then for sure i wash my hands.

Het "doe níet normaal!" 😂 😂 I like your video! 🔆

@exploringtheforeign

8 ай бұрын

Haha, thanks!

Great video, I watched it with a smile. I'm dutch and I worked at a customer service center and yes we had the "its not possible" attitude if customers asked for something that was not according to rules 😄