Men, Please Listen.

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  • @JaceyWaceyFN
    @JaceyWaceyFN Жыл бұрын

    Dude is one of those rare creators who actually care. i fucking love you ali.

  • @CarGeek668

    @CarGeek668

    Жыл бұрын

    FUCK YEA!!!!!🎉😄

  • @owensilly2265

    @owensilly2265

    Жыл бұрын

    YEAH HE IS! 🎉🎉

  • @potatogod7417

    @potatogod7417

    Жыл бұрын

    HELL YA

  • @David.Ramire

    @David.Ramire

    Жыл бұрын

    @@CarGeek668 FUCK YEA RIGHT

  • @mr.reject6210

    @mr.reject6210

    Жыл бұрын

    Your goddamn right I love you guys

  • @nampamom
    @nampamom Жыл бұрын

    I never thought about that before. 100% success rate of making it through the bad times. Thank you for supporting men. They absolutely deserve it!

  • @TheAliKoca

    @TheAliKoca

    Жыл бұрын

    You haven’t failed once in your dealing with bad days, never forget that

  • @anthonymort5202

    @anthonymort5202

    Жыл бұрын

    Like I keep on saying yeah the message is cool and all but he did it on international women's month he's either stupid or tone deaf

  • @eurhondamaxey8042

    @eurhondamaxey8042

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TheAliKoca sometimes I wanna give up n watching ur videos make me wanna keep going so inspirational 😢

  • @Doing_Your_Mom

    @Doing_Your_Mom

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@TheAliKoca w

  • @Dark_Giyu

    @Dark_Giyu

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@TheAliKoca yo Ali i can swear to god that there will be some 8 year olds who will say "Ali is not gigachad"

  • @skywalkersus9797
    @skywalkersus9797 Жыл бұрын

    As a woman I’m so glad this video exists. Men deserve love too. This dude is amazing. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @carter8054
    @carter8054 Жыл бұрын

    This made me cry. I have always been harassed by women as a boy, once when I was young a group of girls called me a pervert because they yelled inappropriate and sexist words directed at me. The leader of the goons punched me in the face and I couldn’t retaliate because of my gender. Thank you for helping restore my humanity. You really are wonderful

  • @keithjohnson1830
    @keithjohnson1830 Жыл бұрын

    My wife sent me this and it was very much appreciated

  • @hipie379

    @hipie379

    Жыл бұрын

    She cares about you, the both of you are lucky to have each other

  • @Tokorii33

    @Tokorii33

    Жыл бұрын

    You have one of kind girl

  • @percythelittlegreenengine1507

    @percythelittlegreenengine1507

    Жыл бұрын

    now she’s the one for you man keep going my good sir

  • @mylittlebrony2130

    @mylittlebrony2130

    Жыл бұрын

    Sounds sweet

  • @cm1jon610
    @cm1jon610 Жыл бұрын

    As a woman I think this is a great message, woman hear this message often but I never heard a guy give this type of inspirational talk to other men. I hope it helps and gives comfort to many! ❤

  • @c00lio_362

    @c00lio_362

    Жыл бұрын

    i agree :)

  • @foamprojectiles

    @foamprojectiles

    Жыл бұрын

    Ur the best woman ever

  • @KurayamiRyu

    @KurayamiRyu

    Жыл бұрын

    Still doesn't undo the damage you ladies keep doing to us good men.

  • @amabelgarnetyanson7337

    @amabelgarnetyanson7337

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank You

  • @Haydenormous

    @Haydenormous

    Жыл бұрын

    Embrace masculinity

  • @Ali_Xx775
    @Ali_Xx775 Жыл бұрын

    Make this guy the next president.

  • @_no_9378

    @_no_9378

    Жыл бұрын

    Fr fr

  • @BreloomBanana

    @BreloomBanana

    Жыл бұрын

    He can't, he was born in Turkey and only people born in USA can be president

  • @turki_2009

    @turki_2009

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@BreloomBananaturkish president?

  • @Jis4jaycob

    @Jis4jaycob

    Жыл бұрын

    Dude deserves to be canada’s next prime minister Edit: yeah he would be a turkish president since he was born in turkey. But I’m sure he would be a better Canadian prime minister than Trudeau, and I know for a fact that he would be a much better U.S president than Biden.

  • @BreloomBanana

    @BreloomBanana

    Жыл бұрын

    @@turki_2009 He wouldn't beat Erdogan

  • @xboxworstgamer4
    @xboxworstgamer4 Жыл бұрын

    No matter how much I cry as a 15 year old boy, this gives me a tear in my eye of how motivational this guy is. Every boy needs this.

  • @Tan2bia
    @Tan2bia Жыл бұрын

    I swear you deserve an award. The fact that many people in the world aren't like you just makes me sad.

  • @Miori_the_cat23407

    @Miori_the_cat23407

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree

  • @greenpeaman1085

    @greenpeaman1085

    Жыл бұрын

    @3v3n gr8er bumble bee guy what are you talking about

  • @IAMJBC1001
    @IAMJBC1001 Жыл бұрын

    Sir, you are a Legend!! This is the motivation some men need. bad days are a challenge, getting through a bad day should be seen as an achievement. If you can get through the worst days, then the good days are still to come 🙂

  • @TheAliKoca

    @TheAliKoca

    Жыл бұрын

    Most definitely man, you got this, no matter how much sweat it takes

  • @RankKnight16

    @RankKnight16

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@TheAliKoca I love your content and thank you

  • @toast3564

    @toast3564

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@YCSM.E Kenny hi dumb

  • @tangtiger834

    @tangtiger834

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TheAliKoca pin Apple C’s comment please

  • @robertcamble3543

    @robertcamble3543

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@TheAliKoca🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲 here .My father taught me where there's a will there's a way as long as you have life . Never believe in the word " can't".As Bob Marley would say "a man will always face trials in life . Hang in there real men . Big up Big Al ✌️✌️✌️

  • @_no_9378
    @_no_9378 Жыл бұрын

    I would like to say that as a female I mean all this to all the guys I know but we never say it and I think it needs to be heard I have never really had anyone of any gender really open up to me but I would like to tell everyone that I DO care and that I'm here to listen.

  • @killianrutherford4285
    @killianrutherford4285 Жыл бұрын

    This was nice to see. I'm going through some depression right now so it is nice to hear someone say this.

  • @carstacks71

    @carstacks71

    Жыл бұрын

    Same, its been so stressful these past days for me, just today my dog had to get put down, its either something bad or just boring also i hope your alright with your depression get well soon

  • @bw1667
    @bw1667 Жыл бұрын

    Once again, Ali is an amazing person in every aspect

  • @Duncan9910

    @Duncan9910

    Жыл бұрын

    yes

  • @weirdbutok8188

    @weirdbutok8188

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Dont_click_this_profil3 ok

  • @justacat2

    @justacat2

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Dont_click_this_profil3ok

  • @the-duck
    @the-duck Жыл бұрын

    Thank you my man, you’re an absolute W of a human being ❤

  • @chrispypotato399

    @chrispypotato399

    Жыл бұрын

    fuckin A right

  • @Darisfaw
    @Darisfaw Жыл бұрын

    I'm happy my girlfriend sent me this video. Especially after my friends left me just for crying and being vulnerable. They claimed I shouldn't be crying as an adult. But after watching this I feel so much better! Thanks so much!

  • @gaminganimators7000

    @gaminganimators7000

    Жыл бұрын

    They ain't real friends.

  • @Mac1And1Cheese
    @Mac1And1Cheese Жыл бұрын

    I think that you are a king. All men are kings. I am a girl but, I still think equality is amazing. Thank for being someone who actually believes in equality.

  • @cobalt7248
    @cobalt7248 Жыл бұрын

    I really needed to hear these words today... Thank you, Ali 💙

  • @TheAliKoca

    @TheAliKoca

    Жыл бұрын

    Of course brother, I gotchu

  • @cool_whiteboy_john

    @cool_whiteboy_john

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@TheAliKoca 👑legend

  • @NicholasShilabro

    @NicholasShilabro

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@TheAliKoca thank u pal

  • @jenniferd264
    @jenniferd264 Жыл бұрын

    As a Woman who has men in her life that I love, thank you for that! Real men need all the encouragement they can get ❤

  • @Ishatmyself1
    @Ishatmyself1 Жыл бұрын

    As someone who’s going through a kinda rough time and watches your videos everyday I think this one’s my favorite.

  • @AvectusExolir101
    @AvectusExolir101 Жыл бұрын

    "Don't be sorry, be better" - Kratos

  • @keithedwards7882
    @keithedwards7882 Жыл бұрын

    WOW! You would have no idea how badly I needed to hear this today of all days, thank you brother, blessings for you 🙏

  • @ezesalvary9288

    @ezesalvary9288

    Жыл бұрын

    Me to

  • @Ilikebananasouioui

    @Ilikebananasouioui

    Жыл бұрын

    Tbh I wasn’t feeling up to waking up this morning I didn’t want to continue but I needed this thx Ali

  • @MoaiSigmaGod

    @MoaiSigmaGod

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m better than Ali Cocoa puffs, My content is better!

  • @Critical_Reaper
    @Critical_Reaper Жыл бұрын

    Damn this punched me in the heart so hard thank you for the beautiful encouraging words

  • @JmKrokY

    @JmKrokY

    Жыл бұрын

    Ok

  • @Corrupted-_-807
    @Corrupted-_-807 Жыл бұрын

    as a young man i lived one of the most worst and hard days and i never gave up thanks Ali for helping me by your video ❤😊

  • @babirussa5877
    @babirussa5877 Жыл бұрын

    As a woman i just wanna say - thank you for this video. Im sure all men need to hear this message.

  • @fishydog2173

    @fishydog2173

    Жыл бұрын

    I really did thank you for knowing that not only you and other women have it tough

  • @_no_9378

    @_no_9378

    Жыл бұрын

    As another woman same

  • @Terminator4810

    @Terminator4810

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m depressed lmao

  • @_no_9378

    @_no_9378

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Terminator4810 samezies

  • @JesseDietPepper

    @JesseDietPepper

    Жыл бұрын

    Same women aren't import were just tools for *men* we only need to get married cook and clean.

  • @XShadowCatzX
    @XShadowCatzX Жыл бұрын

    I needed this today. I have surgery on the 30th and I feel really sad, stressed about school, and anxious. Thank you. edit: Thank you everyone for the support and kindness, I’ll try to remember and update you guys afterwards. edit 2: Typing this maybe 5 minutes after I got in the car. It went excellent. I have a ton of gauze in my mouth to where it hurts, but it was not as bad as I thought it would be. Agagin, thank you for the support.

  • @TheAliKoca

    @TheAliKoca

    Жыл бұрын

    Head up brother, you’ll get through it

  • @justin2_official

    @justin2_official

    Жыл бұрын

    Good luck bro hope ful you will be ok

  • @lpzmarkus564

    @lpzmarkus564

    Жыл бұрын

    Goodluck my bro you can do it I believe in you

  • @XShadowCatzX

    @XShadowCatzX

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TheAliKoca thanks man, you the true gigachad

  • @justin2_official

    @justin2_official

    Жыл бұрын

    Good luck bro hope ful you can make it and your surgery is successful stay positive 😊

  • @ntsindisomajezi7596
    @ntsindisomajezi7596 Жыл бұрын

    Man, it's like you know exactly what I've been through😢!! Thank you brother ❤❤!!

  • @Twiin_Armageddons

    @Twiin_Armageddons

    Жыл бұрын

    True... He has done more for me in this video than my therapist

  • @AustynPlays
    @AustynPlays Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes women say it’s OK to share our feelings, but then the second we open up to them they just say man up already or something like that, thank you for making this video to anyone who’s reading this comment, you matter no matter what anyone says

  • @Yasir-25

    @Yasir-25

    Жыл бұрын

    They don’t want to hear it from a woman since they ruined our lives enough, I’m not listening to no female other than family, first they do KAM and now they say they don’t need us, man what have girls come too before they wanted voting now they want men to die because of 1 bad guy or their ex that broke up with them, woman are so complicated they get angry over 1 bad guy it’s not all men that are bad

  • @yelikaratnayaka3904
    @yelikaratnayaka3904 Жыл бұрын

    This man is the real concept of SIGMA

  • @vortexsux

    @vortexsux

    Жыл бұрын

    “sigma” has lost its meaning nowadays but this guy is the definition of what a sigma used to be

  • @ufenufen2134

    @ufenufen2134

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@vortexsux no theres still real sigma's in the world other than him theres like 100 sigma's in just one village

  • @MD_Uzi02

    @MD_Uzi02

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ufenufen2134 No, you don't understand. They're right, the word lost its meaning.

  • @nzeditz5812

    @nzeditz5812

    Жыл бұрын

    Yep

  • @ufenufen2134

    @ufenufen2134

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MD_Uzi02 😥

  • @donkaymaster9511
    @donkaymaster9511 Жыл бұрын

    Ali, Thank you so much for those words. It made me really grateful and rejoiced to hear them.

  • @MayDay43
    @MayDay43 Жыл бұрын

    I'm a girl, but I still took this to heart. I just kinda ignored when he said king. (No. I'm not saying that men don't deserve this statement. They definitely do.) This is the best thing I've heard all day.

  • @hipie379

    @hipie379

    Жыл бұрын

    He would make an excellent motivational speaker

  • @MayDay43

    @MayDay43

    Жыл бұрын

    Definitely

  • @brendanperkins9594
    @brendanperkins9594 Жыл бұрын

    The man brought me to tears... with the struggles of life all it takes is one person to hit you right in the feels. This man is so sincere... keep on keeping on folks!

  • @Didyoustart
    @Didyoustart Жыл бұрын

    This man can speak better than smarter than 99% of all politicians, thank you Ali.

  • @mikekemper9112
    @mikekemper9112 Жыл бұрын

    Wow. Man, you're such a blessing. This came at exactly the right moment. My life just fell apart right before I saw this. My wife just left and is staying at her mom's house after she literally tried to scratch my eyes out (she is Bipolar 1 in her defense) and I just got released from my job today after some medical problems I had. God bless you brother.

  • @allyash925

    @allyash925

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry you’re going through that. I recently lost my husband and he was a kind, amazing, handsome man. I hope things work out for the best for you.

  • @mikekemper9112

    @mikekemper9112

    Жыл бұрын

    @@allyash925 Thank you so much for your support Ally. I appreciate it so much.

  • @MoaiSigmaGod

    @MoaiSigmaGod

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m better than Ali Cocoa puffs, My content is better!

  • @deborahdonut9522
    @deborahdonut9522 Жыл бұрын

    As a girl I truly feel like men need to here this more often. I really wish more creators would do stuff like this. This is so important and everyone pretends like it doesn’t matter. Ali really is a once of a kind creator

  • @Musava

    @Musava

    Жыл бұрын

    You will hear this again. This is a third reupload of the same video

  • @lazerchicken7090

    @lazerchicken7090

    Жыл бұрын

    Women don't exist online

  • @Bos_Sentinel

    @Bos_Sentinel

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@lazerchicken7090 shut up

  • @Bos_Sentinel

    @Bos_Sentinel

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Musava doesn't make it any less nice

  • @lyraglam4604

    @lyraglam4604

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@lazerchicken7090guess I'm not a woman anymore

  • @YourlocalAthiest
    @YourlocalAthiest Жыл бұрын

    Your life means *everything* You serve *every purpose* *YOU SHOULD BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. NOW*

  • @malimolikalaluka8343
    @malimolikalaluka8343 Жыл бұрын

    As a lady, I appreciate you for reminding our men that they are amazing and matter❤

  • @waka_wallgaming3181
    @waka_wallgaming3181 Жыл бұрын

    "You have a 100% success rate for surviving your bad days" goes so hard

  • @lratioman690

    @lratioman690

    Жыл бұрын

    We do until we don't, at which point it instantly becomes a 0% rate

  • @angelo08280

    @angelo08280

    Жыл бұрын

    I remember that one day I was contemplating about ending it all. 4 years ago

  • @Imakittencat
    @Imakittencat Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much you brought tears to my eyes

  • @TheFrenchNarrator
    @TheFrenchNarrator Жыл бұрын

    14 year old kid with a video call, the final call that decides whether my mentally abusive father gets custody of me. Thank you. I will get through this.

  • @bigdaddysbaked
    @bigdaddysbaked Жыл бұрын

    God I needed that, I have a lot of bad days. It sucks, but it really helps to hear this. Don't really have anyone to talk to about things like this, felt some weight off my shoulders tbh

  • @GdBrba

    @GdBrba

    Жыл бұрын

    yes

  • @Oliver-wt4zm

    @Oliver-wt4zm

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @Dooraemonn

    @Dooraemonn

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too bro

  • @deanhosick6835

    @deanhosick6835

    Жыл бұрын

    Guy ...there is someone for all of us that need to talk to just takes longer for the help I still haven't

  • @tefi7393
    @tefi7393 Жыл бұрын

    Thank Ali, I really needed that. I’m in a low right now, mental health struggles, and physical struggles.

  • @Salena905
    @Salena905 Жыл бұрын

    Totally agree, Men suffer just as much as women do, they stress, they get abused , they feel pressure and just as women are you are made to fit into a certain image and persona that society has tried to make you fit into for years. But you're all individuals and can be who you really want to be.

  • @WahekDoe28
    @WahekDoe28 Жыл бұрын

    This man is the kind of content creator that makes me listen to them genuinely without any doubt of it, and I love yters like these when I’m in my hard times, I question myself why I think this, then I see him, and I realize that some people do care even if my body forces me to do stuff I hope you a good career, good life, good luck, you make me wanna cry in good tears, I hope you a good day, week, month, year, decade, century, life.

  • @boatymcface155
    @boatymcface155 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this, I'm currently going through some really hard times with my mental health and I really needed to hear this

  • @TheAliKoca

    @TheAliKoca

    Жыл бұрын

    You got this my man!

  • @Randomguys693

    @Randomguys693

    Жыл бұрын

    Were man and we never give up

  • @Lucasthepro-pc3kw

    @Lucasthepro-pc3kw

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@williamafton637 if you dont wanna do it then they arent friends

  • @MiScusi1980

    @MiScusi1980

    Жыл бұрын

    Keep marching forward brother things will get better ride the storm 🙏🏻

  • @LouX453

    @LouX453

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@williamafton637 I think you need better friends

  • @bedwarsisfun7362
    @bedwarsisfun7362 Жыл бұрын

    MAN this was needed, i have been having such a terrible day because of school stress sicknesses, even getting punched in my eye so seeing this made me cry. i have been watching u for like 2 years now so thank u so much

  • @TheNonameHousehold

    @TheNonameHousehold

    Жыл бұрын

    Who punched you and why? 😢

  • @LouX453

    @LouX453

    Жыл бұрын

    *loads shotgun* tell me the names and/or adress, i'm gonna "talk" to them

  • @bedwarsisfun7362

    @bedwarsisfun7362

    Жыл бұрын

    @@joshuahedetniemi3187 nothing lmfao just my big brother

  • @bedwarsisfun7362

    @bedwarsisfun7362

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TheNonameHousehold my big brother hes just a jerk sometimes

  • @EpixClodz
    @EpixClodz Жыл бұрын

    Than, you Ali. I have a bandage on my foot because i tripped and landed on it funny yesterday(yesterday as of writing this) and this is the motivation I needed. Truly, thank you

  • @SAMnELLA-1
    @SAMnELLA-1 Жыл бұрын

    You NEED to be a motivational speaker!! Damn that was inspiring & amazing energy. I'm a woman & really felt the men of today needed to hear this because there is a lot of negative energy about men in society today. So well done to you SIR👏💗🇨🇦

  • @flameshadow5062
    @flameshadow5062 Жыл бұрын

    Saddest part is that women tell us this but when we open up they say “Idc” or “man up”😔

  • @RDBBREWER11

    @RDBBREWER11

    Жыл бұрын

    so true and i hate that im love that us men are better can better understand all other men in every catagory

  • @demarcuscousinsthe65th

    @demarcuscousinsthe65th

    Жыл бұрын

    Duality of women

  • @aziflabs8118

    @aziflabs8118

    Жыл бұрын

    I am aware of this dilemma, however, I am lucky to know a woman who isn’t like this, and treats me like a human being, as I treat her the same

  • @Naka-wc3yo

    @Naka-wc3yo

    Жыл бұрын

    yeah its sad, but its due to a society where they are raised to find those men undesirable. Crying is not inherently weakness by nature

  • @demarcuscousinsthe65th

    @demarcuscousinsthe65th

    Жыл бұрын

    @@aziflabs8118 thats great, make sure to take care of her bro👍👍

  • @RUSS-Wolfwrestlr
    @RUSS-Wolfwrestlr Жыл бұрын

    Wow, cheers. That meant a lot. As much as I enjoy being able to care for my family and be some one who is in charge, being someone to provide and not expect much back it is good to know that there are people out there who acknowledge it. ❤

  • @cherryblox2936
    @cherryblox2936 Жыл бұрын

    I am not a man but it warms my heart hearing this!! I showed my bestie (a guy) this and he started crying! Your amazing ❤❤❤

  • @jaydenlucas7115
    @jaydenlucas7115 Жыл бұрын

    Wow I needed to hear this.I just lost my car, place and job and have a billion things I gotta do

  • @RoxieCarrol215
    @RoxieCarrol215 Жыл бұрын

    As I women I want you to know, alot of us still love you guys 💜💜💜

  • @finnfan428
    @finnfan428 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Ali, I needed this. And I love how you use this platform not to just praise yourself but you also do it to make sure people know they’re important. 👊

  • @Iliveonearth969
    @Iliveonearth9695 ай бұрын

    Im only 11ys old and still this brightens my days

  • @alexie369
    @alexie369 Жыл бұрын

    As a lady, this video is amazing! Many people think ONLY WOMAN are able to feel these emotions, and only woman need this support like this and think "Oh, men are fine!" but they're not. Men deserve this support and positivity!

  • @JacoblikesPorsche

    @JacoblikesPorsche

    Жыл бұрын

    W woman

  • @mrmarcellmusic
    @mrmarcellmusic Жыл бұрын

    Bro really woke up and decided to cheer up his entire fanbase like the king he is 🗿

  • @Viivlet

    @Viivlet

    Жыл бұрын

    Excuse me I'm a woman and part of the fanbase and this video did not cheer me up!!!! Ugh.. 🙄😒😡 (Lmao the replies made this comment even better, keep going)

  • @yttptrolloperationsuperunion

    @yttptrolloperationsuperunion

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Viivlet women☕️

  • @Thy_Emperor_

    @Thy_Emperor_

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Viivlet women ☕️

  • @malteseguy8451

    @malteseguy8451

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Viivlet women ☕

  • @mrmarcellmusic

    @mrmarcellmusic

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Viivlet jokes on you, I fear women and therefore run away before I can hear their opinion

  • @Aarbitraary
    @Aarbitraary Жыл бұрын

    Words of a Wiseman, there. My husband lives by this!!

  • @TheAliKoca

    @TheAliKoca

    Жыл бұрын

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @coopercostin5981

    @coopercostin5981

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TheAliKoca I love you so much, I needed to hear this today

  • @charlieknight5065
    @charlieknight5065 Жыл бұрын

    I start my day by listening to this video each and every day, Thank You my friend

  • @ZestyyappernamedH4LO
    @ZestyyappernamedH4LO Жыл бұрын

    I just sent this to my dad my stepdad my great grandpa and my grandma and they balled their eyes out on how kind this is so I wanna say thank you.

  • @cryflamereaper
    @cryflamereaper Жыл бұрын

    Thanks man I needed this because my mom was almost on her death bed because she has pneumonia and after that she had a brutal bacteria virus in her blood attacking her white blood cells and she was in there for a week and then my dad said he didn't love me but we made up and now I feel a lot better and I didn't know if I was doing something wrong or if I was a bad person but you reminded me that I do matter. Thanks.

  • @mctheobeymebunny190
    @mctheobeymebunny190 Жыл бұрын

    Yes men!! You MATTER CONGRATS YOUR NOT A SOCIAPATH YOU FEEL PAIN!! NOW GET OUT THERE AND SLAY ALL THESE HARDSHIPS!! I BELIEVE IN YOU❤

  • @katlovegood4921
    @katlovegood4921 Жыл бұрын

    Yes! Men deserve happiness and respect. they gave feelings too ❤

  • @The_Freddy_show
    @The_Freddy_show Жыл бұрын

    This really help me through the hard time you’re content is amazing 🤩 Thank you 👍

  • @TheAliKoca

    @TheAliKoca

    Жыл бұрын

    Happy to hear that!

  • @StoleSomeCookies
    @StoleSomeCookies Жыл бұрын

    I'm not a man, but this is such a sweet thing to do. I've seen parents say "Stop crying, that's not manly/that's gay" and I just can't imagine saying that to someone.

  • @SpiritArcticfox

    @SpiritArcticfox

    Жыл бұрын

    Ikr it's disgusting (I'm a female)

  • @Iwanttoblowmybrainsoutrn

    @Iwanttoblowmybrainsoutrn

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah my dad tells that to my brother, and I'm a girl and it just saddens me. Sometimes I hit my brother first like play fighting and he hits me back, but my dad was like "omg you shud never hit women!!!11!!111!" I defend my brother and say that I hit him first, therefore he has the right to hit back. And I tell my brother that if anyone hits him first, he should hit back, whether it's a guy or girl

  • @camacaron06

    @camacaron06

    Жыл бұрын

    And that’s what toxic masculinity is in a nutshell, people saying that stupid bs that we aren’t suppose to cry or express any emotion whatsoever.

  • @robertsenior8330

    @robertsenior8330

    Жыл бұрын

    Some of us never had to be told that… we just knew it was not acceptable. As for being vulnerable to a woman? I did that 25 years ago when i got married and she’s never respected me or treated me right since. I wont fall for it again. Just what it is

  • @maxylikesmen

    @maxylikesmen

    Жыл бұрын

    yeah, once my grandma screamed in my face saying "boys don't cry" over and over, fucking ruined my perspective of her

  • @aidengalati
    @aidengalati Жыл бұрын

    Dang man, I really felt that message. Thanks bro! You have no idea how much I needed that. Appreciate it brother ❤

  • @Thatgamingdiary

    @Thatgamingdiary

    Жыл бұрын

    Same.

  • @NelsonTimo

    @NelsonTimo

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @jonathantrevino8673
    @jonathantrevino8673 Жыл бұрын

    This video always makes me cry and smile no matter how many times I watch it. Thank you Ali.

  • @kelseykhaotic1
    @kelseykhaotic1 Жыл бұрын

    I’m a girl but MEN AND WOMEN MATTER EVERYONE MATTERS❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @AssortedGarbage23
    @AssortedGarbage23 Жыл бұрын

    Its always good to see someone speaking out for the right causes Thanks, ali

  • @ChrisCD3256
    @ChrisCD3256 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Ali,as someone who's been and still going through alot,this is the boost I needed

  • @TheAliKoca

    @TheAliKoca

    Жыл бұрын

    You got this my dude

  • @potatogod7417

    @potatogod7417

    Жыл бұрын

    i hope you get through it man

  • @geno7690
    @geno7690 Жыл бұрын

    I think imma save this message for whenever I’m feeling down. Thanks for the support Ali!

  • @Haazziee
    @Haazziee Жыл бұрын

    Even though I’m a woman, I found this amazing. Men need encouragement too. It’s amazing you’re giving that to them. Regardless of what anyone thinks, we wouldn’t be here without you!

  • @MrMusic367
    @MrMusic367 Жыл бұрын

    This is what we all needed to hear, lately it's been feeling like everything I do is a losing battle but this reminded me that I can break through it all at the end of the day. Thx dude.👍

  • @nooneimportant8991
    @nooneimportant8991 Жыл бұрын

    Oh man, who's cutting the onions? Seriously though, thank you. I've been finding myself in a very stressful situation as a student and in my personal life and this is so reassuring. Reminds me that I have always survived every single hard time. Thanks man

  • @miadmahshidi8101

    @miadmahshidi8101

    Жыл бұрын

    Hope ya get better

  • @The_Real_World558
    @The_Real_World558 Жыл бұрын

    Yk as a guy, I only see girls with these type of messages. And usually in them they say something bad about men and how we are the source of the problem. Your the only person I’ve seen who has made a support video for men. Thank you

  • @ThyRandomOne
    @ThyRandomOne Жыл бұрын

    I needed to hear this today. God bless you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @shawnwenzel1890
    @shawnwenzel1890 Жыл бұрын

    Oh my God! Thank you SO much for posting this. My husband is struggling so badly right now, with his mental health and his addiction.. I'm going to send this to him.. ❣️

  • @crawshbonte211
    @crawshbonte211 Жыл бұрын

    God i need more encouragement like this in my life. Going thru horrible hell atm

  • @personalremixes

    @personalremixes

    Жыл бұрын

    Same my only complaint of the year

  • @TheFlukeHimself
    @TheFlukeHimself Жыл бұрын

    The last couple of sentences got tearin up, thank you Ali

  • @alexcline2448
    @alexcline2448 Жыл бұрын

    Amen. You are a beautiful soul. God bless. This is coming from a mother, that has a son and grandson. I tell them that all the time. thank you.

  • @febrezebottle
    @febrezebottle Жыл бұрын

    If only we had more people like Ali. This guy is really going to make difference. Ali, please, become the prime minister. You would be the best leader. And, you'd look goated in a suit

  • @richiewesson4051

    @richiewesson4051

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey no. He needs to move here. And be president.

  • @Mommadonkey6

    @Mommadonkey6

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen brother

  • @BrotherRed53
    @BrotherRed53 Жыл бұрын

    As an advocate for mens rights and mental health I fuckin love and appreciate you so much Ali!!! Men cover 80% of suicide victims and 70% of the homeless population. 22 veterans kill themselves every day and 21 fathers kill themselves every week due to not being able to see their children and just one of each of those is 1 too many. Thank you for not only these words but for all of your words and content. Please dont change and keep up the fantastic work brother! Love ya!

  • @Kazmir1542
    @Kazmir1542 Жыл бұрын

    It’s good to find someone who actually cares not only about his Likes and sub, but his fans as well. Thank you. This made my day.

  • @questionmark521
    @questionmark521 Жыл бұрын

    Even as a women I'm really moved by your words. Thank you

  • @joela.hadikusuma1663

    @joela.hadikusuma1663

    Жыл бұрын

    The best women on earth.

  • @MoonLanding1969

    @MoonLanding1969

    Жыл бұрын

    im a men and i feel happy by his worf

  • @bootylicker90000

    @bootylicker90000

    Жыл бұрын

    Even as a newborn woman i’m really moved by your words

  • @chiggathegod

    @chiggathegod

    Жыл бұрын

    She/he?? is a ladyboy. 😂😂😂

  • @maysaaalrefaee6102

    @maysaaalrefaee6102

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too.

  • @syamelkiller5804
    @syamelkiller5804 Жыл бұрын

    Just got bullied today, this helps alot

  • @sewermonster6162
    @sewermonster6162 Жыл бұрын

    You should make a separate channel entirely dedicated to motivating people!

  • @user-ue2jk6th8i
    @user-ue2jk6th8i Жыл бұрын

    This is one of the times that I really needed this. It this society it is not ok to open up so I just hope that everyone here has a great day and a great rest of their life. And Ali koca is one that actually has no filter and spits facts and cares about us.

  • @minibang2543
    @minibang2543 Жыл бұрын

    Ali is one of the few content creators I have respect for thanks man! I sometimes do feel like the world is leaning on my shoulders but it’s always good to get messages out like this 👍🏻 Edit: So you guys know there will always be at least one person that cares about you so whenever you are feeling down just come back to this video because there will be this awesome guy that appreciates his subscribers

  • @TheAliKoca

    @TheAliKoca

    Жыл бұрын

    You got this man, no matter what it is, you got this

  • @Nothing13484

    @Nothing13484

    Жыл бұрын

    The other day we were watching a very sad movie ( I forgot what it was) but I started crying and 3 girl said I was not strong and a real man but this video helped me a lot thank you

  • @oofio4805

    @oofio4805

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks I really needed this

  • @potatogod7417

    @potatogod7417

    Жыл бұрын

    ali is one of the small precent of creators that care about the viewers

  • @defialdchildwithligma6669

    @defialdchildwithligma6669

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TheAliKoca omg it’s him the cool guy

  • @BazingusBoi
    @BazingusBoi Жыл бұрын

    thank god we've got people like this to counter the toxic men who believe men should never show emotion

  • @sethozera4246
    @sethozera4246 Жыл бұрын

    Dude.. I’ve recently fell back into addiction. Only a few weeks clean right now.. This is my third time going down this dark , lonely and self destructive road. I’m lucky enough to have family who care, but that doesn’t stop the feelings of worthlessness and flashing thoughts of self harm. I’ve hurt people I love, I’ve stole from them, I’ve blown up at them for literally no reason at all, so in my mind I’m a pathetic piece of trash. Which I think is true, but it doesn’t have to be. I need change, and one of the biggest things I’ve learned is vulnerability isn’t a weakness. It’s a strength a lot of people don’t have, especially men, and especially men on both sides of my family. Guys, it’s not weak to show your weaknesses to people who care, it’s strength because you’re taking that step to heal and forgive yourself. It helps those who you have hurt to forgive you as well. I have so much work to do, but I’m working on it. Thank you for this message my man, brought tears to my eyes because I needed to fucking hear that.

  • @TFM57
    @TFM57 Жыл бұрын

    Man you dont know how much I needed it I cant even explain it. for REAL thank you, this was so helpful. Keep up man

  • @johnforhan7087
    @johnforhan7087 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you man, I honestly needed this. It definitely wasn’t what I expected to hear. I watch your shorts all the time, thank you for entertaining us.

  • @vn9574
    @vn9574 Жыл бұрын

    It's okay to be weak, but it's not okay to stay as one. Thank you, needed this.

  • @HeroMemesYT
    @HeroMemesYT Жыл бұрын

    Every now and then, i come back to this video to remind me who i am

  • @dominiquedavis6313
    @dominiquedavis6313 Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes men act like they are tuff but in heart men are human and have feelings I love this massage and I hope alik reach 1million ❤❤❤

  • @gavintheamazing
    @gavintheamazing Жыл бұрын

    Dude I’ve had a rough day and started tearing up watching this. Thank you.

  • @Qwerzxcv954
    @Qwerzxcv954 Жыл бұрын

    You're a legend, I needed to hear this today

  • @carstacks71
    @carstacks71 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you ali, this is the perfect time to see something like this, because my dog had to get put down, he had spleen cancer and more, it sucks because we all knew he would have to go at 10am, but we’ll have his ashes he was such a good dog with a pure heart, he never wanted to fight he just wanted friends, at least he didnt die alone with strangers in the vet, i really do love you ali and this is coming from a aussie, you’re a true mate to me.

  • @Brs11111
    @Brs111119 ай бұрын

    The crow of judgment deems you worthy

  • @RUXXKIT
    @RUXXKIT Жыл бұрын

    The fact you legit made tears come out of my eyes really says how much I needed to hear that. Thank you brother ❤

  • @NoelleThePhone3982

    @NoelleThePhone3982

    Жыл бұрын

    the waffle house has found it it's new host 😅

  • @NoelleThePhone3982

    @NoelleThePhone3982

    Жыл бұрын

    the waffle house has found it it's new host🤣

  • @NoelleThePhone3982

    @NoelleThePhone3982

    Жыл бұрын

    the waffle house has found it it's new host🎉

  • @NoelleThePhone3982

    @NoelleThePhone3982

    Жыл бұрын

    the waffle house has found it it's new host 🎉

  • @NoelleThePhone3982

    @NoelleThePhone3982

    Жыл бұрын

    the waffle house has found it it's new host 🎉

  • @jakesteele4620
    @jakesteele4620 Жыл бұрын

    Brother...I needed that more than I thought I did...much love ❤

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