What message do you have for Tony Hutia? You can reach him through his number 0701003336. To share your story with us, send an email to yvonne.kawira@tuko.co.ke or eucabeth.mukami@tuko.co.ke.

@amani9823

Жыл бұрын

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Thank you Tony for speaking up.Please hold camps and reach out to our young Adult Men especially those in High Schools,they need guidance.

Am glad we get to hear a divorced man's side of view. Well spoken and explained. Alot learnt. Thank you.

Am glad men are coming out to talk

Marriage fails if the foundation is not right, and a man doesn't know his purpose in his life! I was in a marriage the man didn't know his purpose, I ended up begging all over to provide for my children's school fees, food and needs. I was so depressed.... almost went mad! I got peace immediately I got out... Marriage takes two people to work!

@phillipsidhojapap1461

Жыл бұрын

This is the problem.. thinking it is only men who have issues and bear the whole burden of marriage failure. Your story is not universal. There are many men with bad women out there mama. Just heal from your but don't make it blind you from reality. Women can also be very toxic

@samanthawinslet3825

Жыл бұрын

Very true even women can really be toxic and then they blame men it's not fair really.

@YvonneKawiraTuko

Жыл бұрын

Wow thank you for sharing your story. You're an amazing lady to have overcome that.

@lucynluyali573

Жыл бұрын

@@samanthawinslet3825 majority are the men who are toxic

@jemk6098

Жыл бұрын

Well said and true

Am glad I healed while still in marriage, been separated for a good while now hoping to officially divorce soon

This guy has a beautiful smile

@goldenbazaars

Жыл бұрын

Don't be deceived by the looks.

@isdorahmugele707

Жыл бұрын

@@goldenbazaars which looks are u talking about ?

@toyinaluko9022

Жыл бұрын

@@goldenbazaars which look? If men don't have eyes don't they have brains?

@agathamacharia1983

Жыл бұрын

I thought I'm the only one who noted that

Walalalah!! This guy is handsome and has a very beautiful 😍 smile

@missrono9045

Жыл бұрын

N voice

@africanawang2674

Жыл бұрын

but I have raised 10 red flags by the end of the conversation

@missrono9045

Жыл бұрын

@africana Wang please share the flags.

The smile is very remarkable

I trust the Tuko show has a RIGHT OF REPLY, we need to hear the other side of the Baby Mama

Red flags, antidotes, fertilizer 😀😀 wisdom.Tuko we need more of this content.

@YvonneKawiraTuko

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching

@janetarus6602

Жыл бұрын

Kabisa

He has such a beautiful smile.

@waridim9249

Жыл бұрын

Oh, I'm not the only one that noticed the beautiful, genuinely warm smile. 😊

@izzohizz6858

Жыл бұрын

Hmmm you have nice eyes too

@Willys099

Жыл бұрын

I saw that too...

It's the smile for me. Wee

Up Close and candid.I have learnt a lot.

This was a really good one. I agree with where he says the problems are always there from the beginning just not addressed until they blow up.

Most men ignore that even worsemen have goals and a purpose. You can't force your wife to fit in your goals. If children are there we can't ignore them we must take care of them both of you but most men ignore children

My neighbour in Ngatataek keep it up proud of you .keep it .lucy

Congrats the man is speaking whole truth

Good revelations,now you can listen to Myles Munroe.Understanding the power in a woman

Wisdom, wisdom 👏👏

It's good to listen without giving your I'll informed speculations & assumptions when it comes to someone sharing their marriage life, failures and successes. Just listen, and learn where you have to learn. But Kenyan village analysts will have solutions, expert advice on things they know not of. Thank you Mr. Hutia for sharing your story.

I have learned alot. Asanteni sana

Why do i feel like this man still had a lot to share with us? It will be great if Tuko invites him often to the show. I feel he's got a lot of insight. Also suggestion is if Kingori would engage him so that he asks those manly questions that we women want to hear answers too. I pray my comment is seen and a response got. Thank you from Uganda

@nathaliefuraha4376

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you!! The interview was kinda superficial and rushed though. More time and detailed questions are definitely needed

DNA required in the house. 🏃🏽🏃🏽🏃🏽🏃🏽

Love you and thank you Yvonne

@YvonneKawiraTuko

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for watching.

Keep good work

Was in a church marriage for 19 years, tried everything but failed completely, seperated for six years’ not able to move on with myself and regretting dearly 😢

@annkamau7384

Жыл бұрын

Please help from a Counselor

@susanwagura2329

Жыл бұрын

Me too

@lucymburu155

Жыл бұрын

Please get help. You are not a failure

@izzohizz6858

Жыл бұрын

Society is completely heading in the wrong direction, very sorry brother, I have some insights to share with Kenyans and hope those who will listen can make a difference otherwise if it continues that way our African culture and marriage will be completely shuttered

@izzohizz6858

Жыл бұрын

Almost every marriage now is crumbling we are in a very dangerous age> sorry brother your not alone

As a man if you explain your problems women will start bashing you toxic, patriarchal and playing victim card.Women tend to behave righteous and innocent in marriage.

@crimsonite1524

Жыл бұрын

thats why modern men shouldnt marry too early, you need to develop yourself as a man first, learn women and the time you are in. you cant marry at 25 like some are doing because then you dont understand the contrast of our father's time and our times. in our grandparents time all women were basically the same, if she wasnt sleeping around then for sure she was wife materail and they had an understanding of their role, nowadays theres no end to the types of women out there, and they will agree to be married even though they have different goals and wants.

That smile ooo

Proud of you son.

Thanks Tony,please seek a forum to narrate your story as from it many can relate more easily.Seems yhe questions are good but denying us your 1st marriage wholesome story.Through the story we can pick up the red and green flags.

Woiye interviewer! This interview needs a mature person with a broader understanding on marriage and also to ask the right questions unwise🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

@angelinemuriuki7384

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree...I prefer shared moments with Justus for its rawness and Lynn Ngugi also tries.

there's always the other side of the story! marriage is more than what you didn't get.....I hope the other party can also have a platform to say what you also did or did not do...its rather skewed

@sbaraza5823

Жыл бұрын

😂😂 When a man speaks you question but if it was a woman you would stand with her.

@judithmuseve1845

Жыл бұрын

There is always the first one to tell their story........the issue is a collective responsibility of the two persons involved. We just lost one man who just slipped away in such circumstances

@crimsonite1524

Жыл бұрын

you know you are right, people divorce for very heavy and tough reasons, and what gets out is often just the tip of what really happened.

Enjoyed listening to this man.Bless him.

Its depends, dirvoce always tires one side depends on what happened and who cause it.

Thanks Yvonne, I feel like we've heard what Men did to women but also men go through a lot please letanga story zao more

@victoriamalaki8673

Жыл бұрын

Huwa hawataki kuongea... wanajikaza as we have been told.

@YvonneKawiraTuko

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching

True they hurt soo mch

Am also a divorcee,encouraged sana

@izzohizz6858

Жыл бұрын

But why is this rate of divorce too high in today's world?

@mirriamnthenya6899

Жыл бұрын

@@izzohizz6858 there are so many factors leading to separation and divorce.

@izzohizz6858

Жыл бұрын

@@mirriamnthenya6899 These many factors some of them humans we are willing to create them

Tony has a lot of good advice.

Wow!

True my case is vice versa. U heal when u talk it out🙏

Sauti ni ya Frankie Just Gym it...I wish he could talk to the boys in my School...and tell them that it's okay for boys to cry...

@tonyhutia

Жыл бұрын

organising for School boys mentorships

Tony Hutia, are those in hopeful relationships welcome in your mission of Divorce Care ama they'll feel out of place? If so, how can one join in?

but what l know the first wife ni wako according to bible watoto wanakosa motherly love huyo wa pili ni mwizi...

@soniroberts6865

Жыл бұрын

Ongeza volume Abigael...

@eunicenjeru215

Жыл бұрын

Says who and which Bible do you read?I agree on children suffering but divorce is very much allowed in the Bible where infidelity is yet the same Bible says God hates divorce.And people stick to the latter without considering the former.However, the law of Moses need to be understood in context.

@shazzysymon6835

Жыл бұрын

Abigael l guess we share the same pastor correct .na tell them ndoa NI roho if you have the spirit of divorce mazee inakugongah nje .na watu watafute kusikia true gospel

@tuforu4

Жыл бұрын

Leave the BIBLE ALONE plz

@tuforu4

Жыл бұрын

@@eunicenjeru215 we not bother with gods or bibles to be vivilised in EUROPE

Men hunyamazia mengi and hold in their heart woiyee

@jemk6098

Жыл бұрын

That is why they should stop messing up

@izzohizz6858

Жыл бұрын

its true mamaa we hurt too much

Ati certain community started flocking in and you had to move 🤣🤣🤣

WISDOM WISDOM WISDOM

na vile tunatafuta msee anatamani awe anapigiwa simu hata akiwa kazini,Hadi ukiwa chooni nikuulize kwani babe ni kokoto unatoa huoni nimeshakumiss😁😁bt hizi story za ndoa kuanguka zimetuvunja roho hatuna Imani tena😢

@izzohizz6858

Жыл бұрын

Mimi napenda kupigiwa simu sana hata nikiwa chooni bora nawe nikupigie pia.Usife moyo there is still hope

@tamarikimani5701

Жыл бұрын

Its better a pet🤣🤣🤣i read one of your comment

@izzohizz6858

Жыл бұрын

@@tamarikimani5701 Mmm my comment was soo bad?

@tamarikimani5701

Жыл бұрын

@@izzohizz6858 no,we are sailing on the same ship dear

@izzohizz6858

Жыл бұрын

@@tamarikimani5701 wish i could just chat with need someone to enlighten each other

That's why I don't go to church

I like your efforts for the men, applause....but the test of "come we stay" falls short on women....Should he get a Green card to the US, and the only way you can show you are legally married to him is by way of a Legal Marriage Certificate LMC and you cannot produce one....and he has to leave you behind what do you say to yourself then? .... When he dies and you need to legally prove you are a spouse by way of a LMC for the purposes of securing marital property and you cannot, what do you say to yourself then? If he picks another woman to marry and asks you to leave immediately, and you have to prove your legal marriage status by way of a LMC, what do you say to yourself then ? Food for thought 🤔

good man ,finally comes out, but he is talking too much in his vernacular language, which some of us don't understand it

Sisi wa eastlando...tukopamoja

Laaakini hiyo kofia….eeeiii!!

In the ame church Nairobi Chapel l have seen all types of groups but not a single one on singles. Why?

Thank you

Traditional marriage( contract/ business) does not work today. If I want to be a unit with you, why must I sign a contract? A contract that benefits the woman who decides to leave more than the man.

Bwana Hutia what word do you have for the men who divorce and forget the children and move on?

@tonyhutia

Жыл бұрын

It's Not right, even man should take care of His Seed as much as he can not unless his not able to. But he should try as much much as he can

kawira ! " that's actually a thing ? " ooh hell yes

I like his boldness, I don't support how the church discriminated against him. instead of giving him a chest to lean on. Keep pressing on Tony and thumbs up.

@teejayangel6638

Жыл бұрын

Women also go through the same discrimination, the Church has really failed in so many ways when it comes to real life issues. It's no wonder so many pple have left Christianity.

Do you go around saying you're a divorcee when you are remarried? I thought a divorcee is a single divorced man. I feel bad for his current wife. imagine that situation

@judithmuseve1845

Жыл бұрын

He is both a divorcee and married. Divorced simply means you left a marriage legally irrespective of what you do thereafter. He remarried thereafter.....so he is married

@DrizzyDrake254

Жыл бұрын

Who tole you wife yake pia sio divorcee

but some dont want to see nor support the kids....

@DrizzyDrake254

Жыл бұрын

Soem.women with MMS Malicious Mother syndrome prevent dads from aceessinf kids just to spite ot hit back at the dad

@tonyhutia

Жыл бұрын

and that is very unfortunate

The interviewer need skills ..this interview could have been much better ..

@kawiramurega

Жыл бұрын

True ✅

@mandepatricia6610

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for noting that too

@beatricewangare8864

Жыл бұрын

poor interview

@beatricewangare8864

Жыл бұрын

I wish ni rene

@tuforu4

Жыл бұрын

15 minutes is ENUF.

NOW WHAT HAPPENED TO THE TWO THE WAY THIS GUY KNOWS THE WORD OF GOD OF WAT I LIKE? HE IS PLANTED IN THE CHURCH OR NI ININI SASA ANYWAY

sultana 27th October 2933

Smile yake ni ile wanasemanga inatoa nyoka pangoni

@lillianodhiambo2575

Жыл бұрын

True!

@Lynn we need more insight to this story. Invite this man to your show.

I want to hear the wife's side. I detect chauvinism.

@tonyhutia

Жыл бұрын

🤔

Tony is not telling the whole truth.Many people know him from church and he knows how he treated his beautiful wife and left her for another.

@TabithaM44

Жыл бұрын

Let the former wife came and talk, I know the show has a right of reply...... Tuko do something

@Jane-fi8on

Жыл бұрын

😮

@christineochuchi7448

Жыл бұрын

He is not putting blame on anyone . its a collective fail .it takes two... he did wrong she did wrong , Lets learn from them ; The truth can be taken to court if need be. Mambo ya watu wawili ngumu.

@pmosigisi5421

Жыл бұрын

@Jessy I don't think she needs to speak. Speaking as someone who has been mudslung by the ex in all levels of media, I have learnt to let everyone do what they need to heal. If this is healing to him let him do it but in truth. When truth is compromised no real healing hallens to the liar. He isn't affecting her. He is affecting himself

@tonyhutia

Жыл бұрын

Really???...

Pls speak English. You have international audiences. Pls

@tonyhutia

Жыл бұрын

Much apologies should get the translation to some of the things we are saying.

The waman who is interviewer you She needs to go to school to learn how to ask duestion. How can you ask ,he will go to the third one. She don't know how to ask duestion.

@alicenyambura1130

Жыл бұрын

Si uanze programme yako! Dont trash other people. Grow up!

@mercymukanda320

Жыл бұрын

how about you start by checking on your spellings before telling others what they should do Mrs perfect

@ShaffikAbdul

Жыл бұрын

Of all the issues being discussed yani ww waona interviewer asking wrong qns.. How mean can people be

@margaretnjeri4064

Жыл бұрын

The fact is I love Yvonne she humble gal with time she will be gd with it😘😘

@YvonneKawiraTuko

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Joseph for your feedback

I have seen your reason for divorcing. You married a single mother, which was a red flag.

This guy has losts of knowledge to share , Just needs a mature interviewer . ( Ask the difficult questions ) Prompt properly .

@nathaliefuraha4376

Жыл бұрын

My thought exactly!!

@faithwangari487

Жыл бұрын

Lynn ngugi

The lies on this channels 😂😂😂

RUBBISH COMPLEXITY GUY.