her 'widest point' is not her shoulders, it is her ego

@qhluvr77

Жыл бұрын

👏👏👏👏

@lynn6221

Жыл бұрын

👏 👏

@juliehughes1258

Жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more. Good one.

@marynorton6068

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@agnesdix-dehert9454

Жыл бұрын

Where I come from, the equivalent of being 'big-headed' is 'having a thick neck', and the equivalent adage is that "They could never hang X"... for obvious reasons. 🙄😂

That Zane wedding dress is 1000% better than her Markle dress!!

@rsent4026

Жыл бұрын

I came here to say this, too! I know she had to have covered shoulders in the church, but in Suits with that dress and hair, she looked more like a princess than in her actual wedding. It's too bad she couldn't have had something more inspired by the Suits dress.

@chocciechocchoc1

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same thing lol

@glenncheatham1320

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely. 🤗

@picilocarnal

Жыл бұрын

The difference is that for the show, the producers and director called the shots on her wardrobe, Meghan, at her wedding, picked her own dress.😅🤷🏽‍♀️😰

@martina5296

Жыл бұрын

@@picilocarnal It was custom made. She had professional help. No excuses for that dress. Only if she refused help from the designers.

Suits had a dresser. Meghan became her own dresser in the royal family and she has really bad taste

@notever_everytime5074

Жыл бұрын

Which is so ridiculous, she could have had an excellent wardrobe assistant as part of her royal team. Catherine has had the same wardrobe consultant / manager since she got married, and it shows: all her items are specially tailored to suit her figure. Meghan just decided she knew better than everyone else, and that the best way to dress herself was to spend as much money as possible on luxury brands (tailored? In sizes to suit her measurements? Ha! That's not how the rich dress, decided Meghan.)

@EvelynElaineSmith

Жыл бұрын

@@notever_everytime5074~ Meghan was also merchandising the clothes she wore on "Meghan's Mirror", so they couldn't be altered to fit her better.

@judywright4241

Жыл бұрын

Supposedly Jessica Mulroney stayed to help her as a stylist. What it seemed, in retrospect, she broke every rule she could to go back to California. She needed a 🪝 to convince Harry that she needed HIM to save her! Some feminist. Harry hated England and his place in the BRF, he didn’t need such virulent acting out to achieve that.

@user-nt6cj6nw7w

Жыл бұрын

I believe she had the offer of a LOT of help. Also a list of do's and don'ts. She dismissed the lot and seriously pushed the boundaries on purpose.

The costume department did an amazing job on dressing her and helping her to look professional. I didn’t realize this until she tried picking outfits herself.😂😂😂thank you Beebs. Ps your right about narc traits😂😂😂😂

@marykali3603

Жыл бұрын

Definitely looked smarter in suits.

@andrearoyd2942

Жыл бұрын

I think for what has been said - replay of a recent interview with Meghan and the other main female character (sorry didn't catch her name) the garments were mostly DESIGNER !

@carolyndymond4065

Жыл бұрын

It's amazing how much of a difference it can make.

@daronykoy8244

Жыл бұрын

She 👀 trashy wearing sophisticated clothing. But she 👀 more commonly when wearing hole jean or tank tops

@juliehughes1258

Жыл бұрын

Wow, Meghan really did look so much better on Suits, with professional styling and a dresser. Shame she threw all of that away after leaving the series and, once again, thought that SHE KNEW BETTER as she "styled" her own looks as a royal and post-royal. She's a disaster in every way. Thanks for this excellent video, Beebs.

How on earth did she go through however many years of Suits, being dressed by stylists in a way that flattered her (surely it’s impossible for her stylist to not give her tips and tricks during that time), and yet turn around and pick clothing that made her look wider, shorter, frumpier?

@cheriem432

Жыл бұрын

Go figure. It makes no sense to me either. Then again, she doesn't listen to anyone . . .

@georgeedward1226

Жыл бұрын

The title went to her head.

@daughteroftime8047

Жыл бұрын

She literally thanked the wardrobe department for teaching her all about fashion and then went on to do this 😢

@two-toned9645

Жыл бұрын

Jessica Mulroney, her stylist friend, hated her.

@martina5296

Жыл бұрын

@@daughteroftime8047 Like the same way she calls herself a "foodie" but only ever talks about the damn roast chicken being a "game changer" bringing it to a dinner party. She never talks about any other food. Just that roast chicken. That barely feeds two. She served it for dinner when they had William and Kate over for dinner. I bet they went home hungry.

As an attorney, I can tell you that whether you are in court or at the office, you do a lot of sitting. Wearing a skirt that tight would not work.

Her hair was styled better on the show, too. It was softer and very natural looking. And I'm gonna show my age here-- but the side part is more flattering on most faces versus the center part.

@afquan9211

Жыл бұрын

That center part is very Brady Bunch and Little House on the Prairie. Not flattering for most of us.

@Jez48

11 ай бұрын

100%!!!!

@carolray9156

9 ай бұрын

I agree with you 💯

In her book about style, the movie star Sophia Loren (who grew up dirt poor in postwar Italy) wrote that she learned everything about style from professionals on film shoots. "It's impossible to be dressed by designers without learning something about style". Well, dear Meghan found it impossible! I watched Suits, loved the clothes. I'm so glad you analyzed this, Beebs!

So actually she had great examples and probably valuable advices for years while working on Suit, and she still manages to be a big mess. Amazing!

Another spot on analysis! The only thing I would add is that wardrobe made sure her underpinning were correct. You can see she worn shape ware, T-Shirt Bras when needed, and a slip to make sure certain shirts/dresses did not suck in between her legs. Also, did you notice that her shoes actually fit!

@jgfreer8322

Жыл бұрын

Spot on!

@toolegittoquit_001

Жыл бұрын

Although properly fitting shoes probably hurt her bunion-laden hooves

@oldnan6137

Жыл бұрын

@@toolegittoquit_001 ok, you just made me laugh out loud.

It looks like she was wearing better bras back then!

@vialogan

Жыл бұрын

I agree generally but noted in one of the Suits pics (think she's wearing a white top) her right breast is far over towards her underarm, quite a bit lower than the other, and her nipple is prominent. I wasn't analyzing the pics this deeply overall but it stood out to me!

She definitely had better looking clothes on Suits than in real life. They were much more professional looking. That being said, her wardrobe on suits was pretty boring compared to what the actresses who played Donna and Jessica wore. Those two ladies wore some beautiful clothes.

@nan7503

Жыл бұрын

Well they were higher up in the cast. She basically shuffled papers from her desk and carried them to offices. She was sixth in the ensemble.

@cheriem432

Жыл бұрын

@@nan7503 And . . . she is Meghan. Just that statement says loads about her. I find it amazing that she can't figure out that she is her worst enemy.

@marblehead2500

Жыл бұрын

They were more central to the story lines, more visible and important characters, and they played women who had more true power than the character M played.

@janparish8055

Жыл бұрын

Their characters earned more money and could afford more expensive clothes.

Part of her attraction in suits comes also in my view from a sort of "inner tension" due to discipline. Her expression is "I need to succeed, I need to overcome obstacles, I want to apply my moral ideas to society". There was a drive. As soon as she harpooned her prince, it was all about: look you all, I made it, look you all I have him round my little finger, look you all what (strange) outfit I wear today....look you all, what I dare.... So honestly, discipline was gone and the show she put on was a S***show!!!👠👒👑🔍

@MC-yi3zp

Жыл бұрын

What you say makes a so much sense. She stopped pretending and showed her true self.

Some of the boundaries the Queen put on the wardrobe of the ladies was to help with being photographed all the time. Down to crossing your legs so you are not flashing, low cut dresses and wearing hose to give legs a finished look and it helps clothes move over the torso. There is usually a reason for protocols. Great analysis today. Cannot wait for comments on the humbug dress. 😅

After seeing how horrible Mee-Mee looked while in the RF, it has given me a much greater appreciation for Catherine. Like the late Queen, she seems to never put a foot wrong. She is fantastic. ❤

@afquan9211

Жыл бұрын

In photos, Catherine really engages with another person. Looks at them with full attention. I'll bet she has no problem dealing with advice and she's respectful to everyone who wants to help. And as a consequence, everyone will be glad to be of service to her.

She looked better on Suits because she had to wear what she was told. Once she was a free agent, she made her own decisions with frequently disastrous or comic results.

Beebs you are the master at tact and diplomacy when addressing NPD traits. Of course none of us are professionals and capable of diagnosing others, but after working with a narcissist for many years I agree. The constant lying, assuming another’s identity and history, gaslighting, and total lack of empathy are flashing lights for me. I had never heard the term narcissist before working with this woman for 7 years. I got a real education and can now observe these traits quite quickly.

@sharonalbanese8084

Жыл бұрын

Totally true. I listen to HG Tudor a lot who goes into this because his channel.is all about narcissism and she definitely is a middle range narcissist. This explains a lot of her behaviour.

I notice that the wardrobe department dress the three women on the show differently. Gina Torres' character (the boss) is in suits, Sarah Rafferty's (legal secretary) is in dresses, and Rachel Zane is usually in a top and pencil skirt. It seems to be a tactic to differentiate the characters.

@blueskysummit6153

Жыл бұрын

It's not so much to differentiate the characters but more to reflect their personalities and individual style. I love Gina Torres, but even she can't make me watch Suits. 😁

@glacey4906

Жыл бұрын

Rachel Zane was quite skanky wasn't she?

@jujubee463

Жыл бұрын

​@@blueskysummit6153 I was mildly curious, so watched a couple of seasons, and didn't think it was too bad. Nothing I would run home to see, but I liked the chemistry between Harvey and Donna. I was a little surprised though, I was led to believe MM was THE star of the show, yet she had very few scenes.

@blueskysummit6153

Жыл бұрын

@@jujubee463 LOL Yeah, that's what they'd like people to believe. I'm a stubborn (petty?) person. If I don't like a performer I don't "support" any of their efforts. And I don't like MM. She may only be a bit player in Suits, but her narcissism leads her to believe it was her show, so...no.

@Folakanbi

Жыл бұрын

Bang lady, you got that straight on!!! I often asked myself asking why she chose a skirt and shirt a lot! Of course, this was before I knew anything about the styling of the acting world... I fell in love with Gina's and Sarah's clothes the most... I say this looking back to 2016 when I watched suits!!!

Beebs, That blue dress she wore that you could see right through was what scandalized me. The skirt of the dress was as sheer as sheer can be with just some blue panties (it looked that way to me) underneath. Just repulsive and low class.

@terryKessler42719

Жыл бұрын

With all her money….. She can’t buy class. It’s something one is born with. Agree??

I love your analysis of MM because I have her body type including the chicken legs. It's helping me to eliminate certain styles and shop for others. You are always so kind in your critique! Ty!

@vialogan

Жыл бұрын

Me as well!

@applepie297

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same. I have broad shoulders, a short torso, but no chicken legs 😂. And I never ever wear belts on my waistline!

@afquan9211

Жыл бұрын

There aren't many of us who can say we have a figure like Margot Robbie's. Small waist, long and curvy legs. For some of us, it's all we can ask to find clothing that we don't look more ugly, in.

@noeleen5250

9 ай бұрын

I bet. Now can we find a badly dressed 5ft 9 , slightly overweight. Big boobed with a leftover baby belly woman to critique so I might learn some...lol

Oh boy, I can’t wait to hear what you say about the hamburglar outfit for her birthday, lol

You did a great job describing your use of the word narcissism. Well said! I thought the fit of her outfits AND of the female "lawyers" on the show was much too tight. It was unnecessary and unrealistic. Long, long work days in skin-tight clothes and sky-high spiky heels. 🙄 I'd guess MM thought she looked a m a z i n g ! ! ! in them but they weren't expensive enough to her liking. Once she got the prince and the unlimited clothing allowance she wore the most expensive outfits whether they were suited to the occasion or not. She often looked like a kid who wanted to wear their favourite party frock or Hallowe'en outfit to school.

@luciafidalgo296

Жыл бұрын

👍👍😎😎

@A_random_nerd_with_braces

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree. She looked much better on suits and those styles certainly suited her - and the clothes were neat and ironed, which definitely helped. Overall though I found the womens’ outfits as a whole quite ridiculous - the stuff of fantasy, really, and for anyone who’s worked long hours on an office, a seriously uncomfortable fantasy at that.

@kimberlyperrotis8962

Жыл бұрын

I agree, these looks are unrealistically sexy and tight, we women professionals don’t dress like that in the real world! This look is all about catching men’s eyes, but real working women have to be professional, not sex objects.🙂

@caseyhill636

Жыл бұрын

Clothes for TV (especially an office law procedural) are fit to an actor within centimeters and aren’t designed to be able to move around and be comfortable. Any wrinkle, bump, seam, if not absolutely perfect and fit closely will glare on camera and look messy. It’s not real life but we could learn a lot from the theory.

@afquan9211

Жыл бұрын

Not just high heels, but stillettos. A shorter block heel would been a tad more comfy, and a less tight skirt would've been kinder, in real life.

Just because an outfit is expensive doesn't mean it will be flattering

She loves to remind us that she played Rachel on Suits for 7 years. Sadly, she seems to have retained little about her body type and best styles. Odd.

Nice fashion breakdown. I always thought the professionals on Suits gave her the great looks she had during that production. Thanks for confirming.

@sarasullivan4897

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for a great, informative video!😊💜🧡

@sarasullivan4897

Жыл бұрын

I just say that MM is a nut job, and very mean. IMO

I have a PhD in psychology. Not having interviewed her, I'd bet serious cash on any of the Cluster B PDs. One of the lovely things about PDs is you can have more than one! Cheers from Canada.

@titian-red

Жыл бұрын

MA in clinical psych here. I think you'd win the bet but wouldn't win much money because the odds are even. 😆 Seriously, though, she's given PD vibes since she came on the royal scene.

@andrearoyd2942

Жыл бұрын

I trained and worked as a psychiatric nurse, I never did forensics ... dabbled in a few psychology courses as part of training & ongoing updates egistration. I almost consider her personality and many of the traits she exhibits to be almost those of a psychopath she has no empathy or conscience whatsoever, never learns from her mistakes. I think she is becoming a very dangerous person. I do not undervalue her intelligence, bigger the fool that does!! I would put her IQ \ quite high, another trait of the con artist. Although there is a lot of internet gossip and a few books written about her - NO ONE GOES REALLY IN TO THE HISTORY and family dynamics \ particularly Doria. What is under seal? What is a family confidence that binds the Markle family but also keeps them apart. Meghan's history is almost on a need to know. She was reborn on 19th May 2018, and gone by November 2019 from the Royal family & UK. Something just doesn't hang right. Those that have encountered her don't seem to feel free to talk.

@chrisf1202

Жыл бұрын

She's not a serial killer. Doesn't have mens bodies buried somewhere. 😂 she's not a felony gang leader. 😂 she was rude and arrogant, but the Queen was strong. Survived WW2, princess DI death, and Andrew. I don't think anything MM did would phase her.

@andrearoyd2942

Жыл бұрын

@@chrisf1202 Sadly was dying, shouldn't have had to cope with all that extra and most UN-NECESSARY STRESS.

@afquan9211

Жыл бұрын

Ugh. Comorbidities of awfulness!

I've lived my life as a victim of narcissists. I've lived it. I have an honorary degree in the topic! Ain't no one gonna tell me I'm not qualified to know a narc when I come across one!

On the television show, she had to listen to the costume crew and lighting directors. If she had learned from them, it would've served her better as a public persona. However, the Broom Pilot knows better.

Another element of how her Suits wardrobe flattered her, compared to her own choices: they primarily put her in very soft colours. She has a very soft skin tone despite the high contrast between her hair and skin, so many of the ultra bright colours she chooses (whether pure white or emerald green) look harsh on her. Whereas the soft whites, taupes, grey blues etc in Suits were really flattering.

@jgfreer8322

Жыл бұрын

Great observation!

@afquan9211

Жыл бұрын

Subtlety is not Meghan's style. She goes for what is new and shiny. She wants to stand out. What she doesn't realize is that someone who looks good in quiet colors, looks good. And refined. She just has to bring attention to herself with something too dramatic.

@unicornL

Жыл бұрын

I think she looks good in brighter colors but the boring beige is so awful on her. It makes her look like she wants to be a Kardashian from a few years back

@detectivefiction3701

11 ай бұрын

Afquan9211. Looking good in bright colors or jewel tones doesn't necessarily mean you're "unrefined.".

@jgfreer8322

11 ай бұрын

@@detectivefiction3701 I was referring to her ratty dishevelled hair, consistently poor style choices and ill- fitting undergarments and shoes - not the colours she wears. All jmo based on what I have seen in her photo-ops.

Why would anyone want butt pads! 😂

@Aussiemoon1952

Жыл бұрын

I’ve spent my entire life since my teens checking my butt was not too large!! Still do it now , and I’m 71. 🤣🤣

@sahdogwrangler5594

Жыл бұрын

Somebody that had no butt? Guessing because I have no idea. It's a nightmare to shop for jeans when you're bottom heavy.

@dawnochs2018

3 ай бұрын

@@sahdogwrangler5594I have a big butt and smaller waist. I’m never happy with jeans.

@user-nt6cj6nw7w

Ай бұрын

I'd be "suck it out! Suck it out!" 😄

Hi Beebs, I hope you will be doing a video on that horrible striped beach towel dress Megan wore on her birthday! It was truly awful. Oh, and those sandals and those feet😳

@yasmeen6790

Жыл бұрын

YESSS PLEASE!!! The moment I saw it, I wanted Beebs to tell us all about it 🙂

@erinpalmer383

Жыл бұрын

Ditto!@@yasmeen6790

@CampLJNC

Жыл бұрын

I Know! I thought of Beebs immediately, lol. The royal rogue actually used someone's suggestion, and photoshopped the dress to change the black to white and white to black. That alone made it look 10X better. Although, still not a good look on her!

@stacey8420

Жыл бұрын

​@@CampLJNCYes, I saw that too on the RR. The dress was a poor choice, either way, because it was just plain ugly! And those sandals!!!! Yikes. And the purse that didn't match anything.

@savannahsmiles1797

Жыл бұрын

@@stacey8420 with feet like hers, WHY sandals...or spend the money and get those feet taken care of.

I like how you explained the many reasons that she looked better on Suits. That the fact she didn't look as polished in the Royal Family was not entirely under her control. She did have the ability to have to hire a stylist. When posing for staged Royal shots, she could try to remember the techniques that Suits used to get the best shots of her. I liked her wedding dress for her character a lot better than her Royal wedding dress. I was very disappointed in her wedding dress because she had a very large budget and again the ability to take advice from a stylist to select a better dress for her entrance on the World Stage. I also appreciate how you explained that you knew you weren't and can't diagnose Meghan with npd.

@agnesdix-dehert9454

Жыл бұрын

The key phrase here is "the ability to take advice".

@agnesdix-dehert9454

Жыл бұрын

@@chockie62 That was the label she put on Jessica, her 'bestie' [for as long as that lasted - as Ninaki Priddy can testify] so she could take her then-friend on the Monarchy's paid-for trips around the world, including their first official tour to Australia [where she complained about not having the entire Governor General's Mansion at their disposal, rather than 'just a wing', threw hot tea at a staff member because 'it didn't taste right' and screamed at Lady Cosgrove, "F*** off! Don't you know who I am?!", then between the 2 American 'ladies' labelled the official tour "Tour Cr*p"]. She couldn't very well have her accompany the royal party as 'friend of the bride', so Jessica - who aided and abetted in bullying 3-year-old Princess Charlotte - became 'her stylist'. Not that it made much difference to how she was turned out.

@jgfreer8322

Жыл бұрын

She was given a stylist by the Queen - she declined her help.

@afquan9211

Жыл бұрын

We cannot diagnose NPD. But we can say that acting with some common narcissism is being unable to reference outside of ourselves. Being obstinately, "I know best" and "I will do what I want to do" and making bad decisions and excluding help, is being hubristic. Especially if the same person prides themself on having excellent taste.

@wintersojourn9356

11 ай бұрын

I read a quote from her about her Suits wedding dress, but I don’t recall her words exactly. I believe it was something like she thought it was beautiful but her own choice of wedding gown would be very different if she were to marry again. I think she said her character on the show (Rachel) was a perfectionist or highly driven & she herself is more California laid back & then mentioned loving Caroline Bessette Kennedy’s wedding dress. She didn’t use word minimalist I don’t think,….I do believe her that she envisions “effortless elegance”, her 1st wedding dress was also fairly minimalistic, (& imo did not do tons for her either, it was better than the royal dress but not great). The Suits gown is the best wedding look to me, too, like many say here. I do truly find her to be a very beautiful woman, esp when younger, but her first wedding dress didn’t accentuate her beauty either imo. Thought it was better than the Givenchy though! My opinion with no basis but my feelings, is that her Royal wedding dress style was also partly in reaction to Catherine, POW. I have a feeling she wanted everything to be opposite of C, like no eyeliner, minimal makeup, hair up but also disheveled, no lace, no form fitting, blindingly white white… I’ve read a lot & noted some say she kept changing her mind & that obviously limited the designer. But I do believe she chose & wanted that neckline & the overall bare/stark look with the special silk/s. She was maybe thinking Audrey Hepburn, but… it ain’t effortless unless our Good Lord created you similarly built. With fashion, you gotta play the hand your dealt. It is too bad she cannot consistently release this inner vision she has of herself. She is so beautiful & was dealt a great hand by Heaven. Sometimes she got it right when royal, like to me that green flower print dress, with jacket I think it was Self Portrait maybe? Or vampires wife? I don’t know these brands but I read a lot & have always loved fashion. That look was so cute on her or the light blue dress she’s wearing in a photo that HMTQ (may she RIP) had displayed at one time in her office. But, to me again just my suspicion, she wanted to not be pretty in that feminine way she associated with Catherine POW’s look.

I agree that her "Suits" outfits were very good on her, much better than the couture garments she has worn ever since she caught Harry's attention. I think what she wore in private life at the time was also better than what came afterwards. Maybe after she was given a clothing allowance from then Prince charles, she started to look only at the designer labels rather than at flattering fit.

Great video. I really enjoyed this one. Yes, as someone who was in a long term relationship with a clinically diagnosed socio narcissist, by a qualified Psychiatrist with extensive experience, I totally agree with your comments about her personality. And I completely agree, the most challenging part of the narcissistic personality is the very fact that their behaviour to them, is just FINE, they see YOU and everyone else as the problem. Why would they need help or to see a Dr about their behaviour when clearly, it's everyone else who has the issue? So they go undiagnosed with those around them suffering. That was exactly my experience, and the actual diagnosis in my situation came because the person went to a Psychiatrist after an appointment was scheduled to discuss somebody else's issues. They only went to the specialist to prove how correct they were. It seems to me that many narcissists are diagnosed by accident. They're going to the Psych because they perceive that they're correct and right about something, and they're accidentally opening themselves up for clinical assessment! Rather than being proven correct as they believe themselves to be, they exposed themselves, the mask slipped, and they were diagnosed with NPD. It's a beautiful but rare thing😂🎉

she did look good on that show. I can't WAIT for your comments on the "dress" she wore out for her birthday dinner. I thought I was going to have to bleach my eyes!!!

@BeebsKelley

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣 it's coming!

@qhluvr77

Жыл бұрын

Oh yes!!It was truly awful on her, and for her!!

@karyannfontaine8757

Жыл бұрын

The Bumble Bee tight beach towel dress!

I think people who get mad when you say she is a narcissist is because they are fooled by her constant smiling. They think she’s nice. It’s a totally fake smile just to get her way and to disarm people.

Your analysis is always spot on. The only thing you miss is the problem that is Meghan herself. She believes she is always spot on herself, never wrong & is incapable of taking advice from anyone but one of the multiple advisors in her own head.

The stylists on Suits did a great job at showing Meghan at her best. You did a great job at pointing out how they highlighted her good points whilst minimising her flaws 👍

WHY did she not take to the "Rachel Zane" look...because overall it was so much more successful than the Markle SHOCK AND SCHLOCK. Beebs, you are so gracious...but I am so NOT. Dressing MM must be a nightmare...and heartbreaking for a Stylist stuck trying to make a silk purse out of that Sow...'s ear.

Hi Beebs, I was hoping you would pop up after MMs prison cosplay birthday dress! You look great today BTW!

@hsmd4533

Жыл бұрын

Yes, I’m dying to hear Beebs’ opinion on the black and white tube dress!

@wjl3138

Жыл бұрын

@hsmd4533 it was really something! Between that and her weird T-Rex hand posture - wow!

@americaneclectic

Жыл бұрын

Beach towel wrap.

Thank you for pointing out the details in WHY we all perceive that she looked more polished and put together in photos from her days on Suits. It’s still surprising or confusing that she didn’t retain the tips and tricks - or just chose to disregard them - when she was dressing for arguably a higher caliber of appearance. Even if she had shown up for occasions wearing slim skirts and blouses, she would have looked better than the belted dresses and balloon pants. And in the Suits pics we never saw her undergarments. That alone would have been some good knowledge to carry forward. Oh well - thanks to you, those of US with a boxy shape will never get caught looking stumpy and frumpy.

You know I’ve wondered about that. If someone has spent a fair amount of time in a setting where experts are helping you find the look best for you, how then can you ignore all of that and wear clothes that just don’t help you achieve your best look. I have a narcissist in the family and you learn to recognize it in others. Not a happy world to live in, not for anyone. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. ♥️🇨🇦

@BeebsKelley

Жыл бұрын

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OMG 😱 please do something on the bloody awful bumblebee tube dress she wore for her birthday dinner. What the heck!! And if she paid more than $12 for those sandals, she was robbed!! 🤦

@mbalingcamu1550

11 ай бұрын

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@merriemisfit8406

10 ай бұрын

I don't need to see the truly terrible. I'm still "tee-hee"ing at that dress covered in ghosts. 15:00

I really love listening your delivery. You are honest with your assessment, but without being mean or condescending. Agree that M looked much better in Suit. Sadly, I think with her new status ....she feels the need to reflect that through expensive outfits without having an understanding what look best for her - and she definitely won't listen to any advise. Well, I am happy to learn and get expert advice on to make myself look good 😀

@afquan9211

Жыл бұрын

I appreciate that about Ms. Kelley, very much. Her honesty and her diplomacy. The consideration. She's commenting about clothing's effect on the 3-D geometry of a woman's figure. She's commenting on everything as a learnable moment. I think Ms. Kelley is brilliant.

She had advice about what to wear when in the royal family but she didn’t listen to them and thought she knew better and I really think she deliberately wore the opposite of what she was supposed to as she didn’t like being told what to do

Everyone needs to refer MM being on Suits as almost a “DECADE” ago. Her last episode had to be taped in late 2017 since it was aired in April 2018. That makes it about 6 years ago which is closer to a decade than not. Thanks for your great reporting

I'm looking forward to your take on the black and white striped number she wore for her birthday pap shots.

And the program had an IRON! Plus megawatts has a magic mirror that always tells her she looks amazing!!!!

As a physician, I can tell you that anybody who can follow a recipe can diagnose a personality disorder. The DSM5 has a ist of traits and symptoms that are required for the diagnosis. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist.

@spiritmatter1553

Жыл бұрын

Yes, but her disclaimer may have been necessary for legal reasons.

@kkdoc7864

Жыл бұрын

@@spiritmatter1553 I get that officially, one has to defer to so-called specialists to diagnose. But what do you think “professionals” use to make a diagnosis? That’s why I don’t have a great deal of respect for that specialty. Another reason I’m not wowed by psych people is because you can ask 10 of them to give you a diagnosis, and you’ll get at least 3 or 4 different conclusions. Because the diagnoses are so subjective, you can’t rely on any accuracy. That’s why the public can do just as dood a job.

@GetYourCrayCray-On

Жыл бұрын

So true! The Dsm5 basically spells it out! It lists clinical symptoms and if x are present and symptoms are on list, who is to say person reading it is wrong? They can always say this is how the pros diagnose,it's really that easy least! After I became a nurse and saw how the go to manuals are used to diagnose and treat were made for anyone of almost any age,I was so mad I didn't get my psych degree as planned! Booo me!!!😅😅 How Ling would ot take a imposter to get caught on YT playing as a psychology grad? Took the one well known guy quite a while! Kinda scary w hwn you think about it in that sense yet on 2nd thought not so much! That's prob the norm in any psych professionals world!! Lmao!

@MK-cc5ve

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! This is exactly how I figured out my mother is a narcissist. If you can identify the ingredients you can figure out what it is.

@llamasugar5478

Жыл бұрын

I don’t see how anyone gets through life _without_ making amateur diagnoses. I consider it in my best interest to recognize the unhealthy people around me, because some of them are not safe.

More please, that was fascinating. Never knew angles were so important. Seeing Meghan wear what she’s told to wear was interesting. The Suits wardrobe did correct her flaws, which I suspect she can’t see. Great work Beebs

Im looking forward to your critique of the striped tube sock dress

@sahdogwrangler5594

Жыл бұрын

If they were socks they'd be the ones the witch wore when Dorothy's house fell on her & they curled up & disappeared!

How is her fake wedding dress more princessy than her real one? She could've just borrowed that one since it was already fitted for her and everything.

Nice thorough video! Suits costumer did for her what you've been saying all along! So obviously, she knew how she should be dressing for her body type. Why didn't she?

@nan7503

Жыл бұрын

And her hair with a slight part gave her the soft look. She's got those extensions that just look straggly now. Yeah, she's a mess.

She tended to have a side part to her hair. Much better than a center part for her.

I never thought I would enjoy videos on fashion but I totally love the way you present the dos and don'ts for Meghans body type. I have learned a lot from You to apply in my own fashion choices so your channel is one of my favorites.

@BeebsKelley

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! 💛

And now we have the zebra crossing dress to add to her list of fashion faux pas. Thanks so much for another insightful and interesting video, Beebs ❤❤

That blue dress looked great on her. So sad they don’t style her still.

Have you seen Mrs. NARCkle's birthday dress? She coordinates well with Hamburgler.

They were a great costume department and that white cardigan one is just lovely and the looser fit blue dress was ideal for her figure ..Thankyou for this you point out a lot of helpful things as to whatever figure someone has

Great video. The part about body skimming vs tight was interesting. Someone used to tell me that my clothes were too loose, even though many of my dresses were seen using the pattern size that I measured for by an experienced seamstress. I think the other person was in the “tight” school of thought. You have to be able to move in your clothes. In sewing, that room to breathe is called “ease.” It jumped out at me that on Suits, MM’s facial expression looked normal or at ease. In the royal pictures and any other ones to this day, her expression has this odd vibe of “I’m begging you for your approval, ok?” I am not a fan of hers by any means, but it is kind of sad.

Lesson from this: Never shop by price tag! Stick with the basics (including basic colors) and play with one fun element in each outfit by adding fun jewelry pieces or a one colored piece if clothing, pair of shoes or bag.

Have you seen the Castle episode she’s in? She basically plays herself, an entitled, lying, villainous manipulator. And, even though the role required little range, she was really stiff.

@afquan9211

Жыл бұрын

Oh, yes! An analysis of her character and wardrobe there, please, please, please!

i recently started watching suits for the first time and one of the FIRST things i noticed with “rachel zane” is how stylish and flattering her wardrobe is and what a CONTRAST to real life (camera angles aside). girl, all your videos are amazing and especially on fridays 💛 edit: i had to come back and add that her hair look infinitely better on the show (not so long, chunky, and obnoxious). specifically i’m thinking of that awful magazine cover where they shrunk harry 😂

@afquan9211

Жыл бұрын

I loved those two photos with the woman in the blue bikini. Full frontal versus the angled pose photo. One is meh and the other one is "wow!."

@Ginger57

10 ай бұрын

The show gave her character a sense of warmth to endear her to us. The behind the scenes stuff was alllll Meghan. I did enjoy the series alot🔶️🔷️⚖📁

It looks very stylish when she listen to the professionals. I've never seen Suite. But from what I've seen, the stylists did a good job.

Also amazing what proper undergarments make to the fit of her clothes.

Huh, I have to admit I only saw one episode of Suits via a reaction video. I couldn't watch more. 😐 From the pictures I've seen I'd say she *hated* having people tell her what to wear. But I admit it was better than her as a Royal. Not really good, but okay. If she had continued with looks like that I think people wouldn't have been so harsh on her. She has a completely different body type in her mind when she dresses herself.

@vialogan

Жыл бұрын

To me, Suits was like General Hospital meets soft porn lol I watched two episodes and stopped. Pretty vapid.

@spiritmatter1553

Жыл бұрын

The irony is that if she dressed for the body she actually has, she’d look like she has the body she wants.

@summechumme

Жыл бұрын

I believe it’s her narcissism that made people hate her. The way she dresses is only secondary. And if only she wasn’t a liar and a whiner among other things, I don’t think people would be as harsh on her.

Thanks Beebs, that was interesting. She does wear nice clothes, its just unfortunate that they dont suit her (no pun intended). She does have a slender figure and is very pretty, so its odd that she chooses not to work her best assets. I always thought that was taught at drama school; clearly not. I don't understand her colour choices, beige, latte, cream and other beverage colours seem her go to palette yet the jewel tone blue of the dress was amazing on her. I though every Californian girl had her "colours" done as a teenager... She must have been having a spa day that day.

Of course Nutmeg didn't learn a single thing from professionals.

The other 2 women towered over MeGain at 5’ 2 or 3”😂😂😂

Rachel Zane’s hair was polished and professional, too, not just-rolled-out-of-bed messy.

@marinashear3818

Жыл бұрын

And she wore better undergarments, too.

As you said, one and done on the suits wardrobe. Those outfits all looked the same to me.

I like the balanced analyse on her. You give praise when deserved

The costume department has complete control over what she wears, how she wears i. She has no control over makeup, hair, clothing or ironing.

Do you think she went with the outfits she did, once she was with H, because she now had the control & went with things she wasn't 'forced' to wear like on the show? The show had a costume dept, writers, etc that had a vision & they controlled the clothing choices.

@vialogan

Жыл бұрын

She often tried to copy the looks of Princess Catherine, Zara Tindall, several Kardashians, even Bella Hadid. A vast range of body types for one person with one body type! I think Beebs has discussed this although I can't point to a specific video.

@nan7503

Жыл бұрын

She's basically a messy person. You can see it in how she just prides herself in the hair being messy, the shoes not fitting the dresses too big, too small, too much belting and her makeup is usually orange! Sheesh! She loves it!

@spiritmatter1553

Жыл бұрын

The TV show also had a budget! 🤣💸🚫

@DeborahWohlfeld

Жыл бұрын

@@spiritmatter1553 so true so true!! I still think it's a control issue & she knows best

@qhluvr77

Жыл бұрын

Agreed! Once she got access to (then) Prince Charles wardrobe funding she just went nuts. ( In 2019 MM spent £975,000 on her wardrobe, Catherine spent £103,000, which was up from her previous year of £88,000) And MM has never learned that how expensive an outfit is doesn’t matter a jot if it doesn’t fit or suit you!! The outfit I have that garners the most positive comments is a “me made”, so it is tailored precisely and the actual cost is about $40 plus my skill. And I do have designer clothes but not a standard models body. (Okay, not any kind of models body 😂😂😂) I learn so much from Beebs about why things do or do not work ❤

When you brought up how important camera angles are, it makes it even more clear how gorgeous the princess of Wales is that she always looks so good in so many angles!

One clothing item that carried after suits was the button shirts, rolled up at elbows. The shirts sometimes while on suits were intentionally styled a little less tidy (not tucked in all the way, etc)

Both Harry and Meghan suffer from severely underestimating how much work behind-the-scenes people did for them. They seem to think that it was them all by themselves making them who they were; this goes to show that it’s all the people working for them that make the magic happen. Once they came out from under that protective shield, it became obvious how oblivious they are.

Very interesting your pointing out the differences from MM being professionally dressed and not. Thank you!

She definetly looked better fashion wise on suits.

Do we have photos of the original wedding dress to Harry???? The one she cast aside at the last minute to throw everyone off?!? And she had an excellent stylist, but that best friend got thrown under the bus.

Lack of empathy. She shows it every time she opens her mouth.

Dr Grande, who is a therapist/psychologist, called her a narcissist but said he is not diagnosing her. Edit: Another great video. I also thought she looked better in images from Suits. I do see know that the angles and postures see to account for the difference.

Enlightening as always, Beebs.

I can’t believe she didn’t take this information with her once the series ended. I agree that she looked better while she was working

On Suits she was told what to wear and now she bosses stylists and designers

Regarding MeAgain's narcissism... I'm not an environmentalist but I don't need one to tell me the sky is blue. Whoever can't see that MeAgain is not only a narcissist, but a psychopath as well, needs a professional themselves.

love your show Beebs, and agree with what you say, I can't believe what MM wears! you got a mention on the Royal Rogue

I doubt she had any say over what she wore on Suits. It all goes wrong when she is the one making decisions in her life, no matter what those decisions are.

Good video! It was a great way to compare what she has worn since being in the Royal Family, and what happens when you have a professional dress her.

The earlier seasons she weighed more. With her short torso you could see it more in her midsection along with having a rounder face; hence the butt. She couldn't walk in heels on the show; always looked like her ankles were gonna snap. Also, Rachel Zane hardly ever wore shirts with sleeves. Drove me nuts. Same with Donna. LoL

She had some help from her friend who traveled with her. But she did not like anyone say they styles her and insisted that she styked herself. Ego got her trapped in a situation that a good stylist could have helped her avoid.

I guess when she was in Suits they told her what to wear and she did what she was told. However, it seems like when she was in the royal family, she thought she knew better. There was probably a deep lack of trust on her part so she did whatever she thought. Since she's obviously not a stylist, she spent a lot of money in designer clothes that didn't fit and/or flatter her, resulting in frumpiness to the nth degree. She's still in that mode.

I too have extremly slim and lanky legs. I have always felt very selfconscious about them and never, ever wore skirts or dresses.

I’d not seen the television show either. This shows clearly that Rachael Zane dressed better than Rachel Markle. Without a doubt.

I’m wondering if part of her Royal Family clothing was a big FU to the RF

Love your videos. You are so right about Suits wardrobe opposed to what she wore as a royal and now, thanks.

I just can't get my head around why anyone would to make their backsides look bigger. Weird.

@vialogan

Жыл бұрын

Can't stand that huge butt look. Most of us prefer to diminish this body part!

@spiritmatter1553

Жыл бұрын

Not so much bigger (though some people like that) as shapelier. I’ve never done it myself, as a thin woman, but have known enough other thin women who have “padded” for special occasions. To each her own!

@savannahsmiles1797

Жыл бұрын

I could NEVER understand why women would purposely dress to resemble a cow. Let be a floor rug, a tablecloth, curtains, etc.

@Rogue.29

Жыл бұрын

Some women feel it makes them look more feminine.

@trixi1608

Жыл бұрын

To look sexier, I guess.

Great video! You’re amazing! Agree with the fact they used great direction to look good. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@michanone

Жыл бұрын

I completely agree! The costume designer wasn't paid enough! 😅

Thanks again Beebs for a great video explaining styling concepts. I always learn a lot by watching. I am going to do more research on the universally flattering pose to help to photograph better. 🎉❤

I wouldn’t mind a part 2!