Maybe Feminism is affecting how men relate to their children | Dingaan Khumalo

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  • @makaumasetla4576
    @makaumasetla457610 ай бұрын

    The fact that this guy has been solving problems of fellow South Africans while he is also having these problems is just something else. Hope his issues gets resolved as well.

  • @SandisoGonise

    @SandisoGonise

    3 ай бұрын

    I agree bro ,i like him and understand his side but i think in this case he could have tried more to engage with her child.

  • @bellatalkssa405
    @bellatalkssa40510 ай бұрын

    One of the best interviews....thanks King David and crew. Dingaan is so authentic, I love men like his step dad, I have a friend who also met her strpdad when she was 3, she's 35 today, she sings only praises for that man. I remember the other time 3 yrs ago pur manager gave her a very hard time, she took her phone went outside and called her dad(stepdad) crying, and after that call she took her things and left because her dad said we didn't chase you from home. You'd swear in that moment she'd have called her mother, but no, and the dad didn't disappoint her. She has respect for 1000 lifetimes for her dad....she says this man met me and fell in love with me when I was 3 till today. And oh she knew her biological father was in Soweto, she went to meet him but guy was still not accepting so she said anyway I was not lacking father's love so keep your cold heart. So men like Dingaan's stepdad actually do exist and I wish God can make morr of them. Thx David

  • @zanelemofikoe4800

    @zanelemofikoe4800

    10 ай бұрын

    This just made me cry, some humans are truely special yazi!!!

  • @moremogolomoremogolo5328
    @moremogolomoremogolo532810 ай бұрын

    Wow. What a great interview. Story of Dingaan resonates with me. I like how Dingaan speaks so well of his stepdad.

  • @shakesmudau167
    @shakesmudau16710 ай бұрын

    King David is truly a King on meaningful conversations. Thank you DSK for sharing your story with pride. I resonate a lot with it.

  • @hlonni_chelsea6711
    @hlonni_chelsea671110 ай бұрын

    One of the grootmans who will talk to you like you are their neighbour. This grootman is humble, i feel like i am watching Ntate Mashabela interviewing himself. Thanks Ntate Mashabela for this interview.

  • @thembabambani4555
    @thembabambani455510 ай бұрын

    Still remember that episode at SPEAK OUT.... WHERE ARE THE POTS😂😂😂😂😂

  • @senzizwane8635

    @senzizwane8635

    10 ай бұрын

    I made the pots to be made or something like that 😂

  • @thembabambani4555

    @thembabambani4555

    10 ай бұрын

    Remember it like yesterday

  • @trosh5783

    @trosh5783

    10 ай бұрын

    The Pots😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @user-rb5pz7xm8f

    @user-rb5pz7xm8f

    10 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @thembabambani4555

    @thembabambani4555

    10 ай бұрын

    😂 😂 😂 😂 "i don't know where are the pots"

  • @manny8042
    @manny804210 ай бұрын

    There's so much I've learned in this interview. Big respect to Dingaan man, very real and authentic african man.

  • @sandilekhenisa9689
    @sandilekhenisa968910 ай бұрын

    Being a father is hard. My brother keep pushing for that relationship to your child. Your kid will one day find you. Big up to being a stand up guy and not speaking bad to the mother ❤ keep pushing my guy

  • @beautifulblessed5445
    @beautifulblessed544510 ай бұрын

    I swear the caliber of guest you bring us is 10/10 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🤞🤞🤞Weather I'd be artists /politicians/entrepreneurs/religion etc. One always take something from that podcast. Keep it up.

  • @NoloMamps
    @NoloMamps10 ай бұрын

    To speak so highly of your dad ❤ love this

  • @mmerekomoshomo5412
    @mmerekomoshomo541210 ай бұрын

    Mr Mashabela , well done on the jacket , from K-Way to Mashabela , good branding ....

  • @OfentseMMM
    @OfentseMMM10 ай бұрын

    i can identify with so much in this interview, i am at the for of the road of my life and this kind of got me teary and got my heart heavy and it reaffirmed one stement i always say: "if you have not walked a mile in my shoes and looked at life through my windowpain you never understand why i am the way i am today"

  • @sollynkgalabimankga6012
    @sollynkgalabimankga601210 ай бұрын

    When it comes to marriage I agree with Mr Dingaan 200%

  • @goitseoneseleka5162

    @goitseoneseleka5162

    10 ай бұрын

    @solly my grootman can we please meet

  • @bulihlongwane4893
    @bulihlongwane489310 ай бұрын

    Mr Mokebe is a real gentleman 🎉

  • @sibongisenisakhele3114
    @sibongisenisakhele311410 ай бұрын

    So painful to hear how willing fathers are unable to raise their children. The system and our culture needs to adjust.

  • @sejomonoane9226
    @sejomonoane922610 ай бұрын

    I can actually relate to this, its so painful.😞

  • @mercy903
    @mercy90310 ай бұрын

    The problem with baby mama's is they walk away and regret afterwards. Then they develop a lot of anger, wanting you back when it is no longer possible. She still wants you back, and lives with regrets, disadvantaging the baby in the process.

  • @user-rj5yd5zr8v

    @user-rj5yd5zr8v

    25 күн бұрын

    Let us not pretend like men don't do anything wrong in these scenarios. Men act bad and expect good results. Guys, don't be an asshole and expect roses.

  • @KaraboMasemola6408
    @KaraboMasemola640810 ай бұрын

    I can empathize with Dingaan's perspective, however, it seems that his past traumas have influenced his outlook on the future, much like the belief that marriage is a sacred institution created by God and should be followed according to His guidelines. Personally, I have been married for 5 years and while it certainly has its difficulties, the rewards and joys are remarkable. It is important for individuals to enter into marriage for genuine and heartfelt reasons.

  • @pulengbrigitte7646
    @pulengbrigitte764610 ай бұрын

    DSK very intelligent and i must say, i am proud of you for saying that you acknowledge the fact that you might have had an impact in the break up and the situation with the mother of your daughter. It takes maturity and a whole lot but it takes nothing away from you

  • @Ziqelekaziiii
    @Ziqelekaziiii10 ай бұрын

    Every interview is profound.. Loved it!! Thanks to Dingaan for bring vulnerable, hope God restores his relationship with his daughter!

  • @thulindhlovu4672
    @thulindhlovu467210 ай бұрын

    i think the secret is with King David himself, this guy is the greatest host. love it for him. his guests get so comfortable

  • @Mr.ExtrodinThinks
    @Mr.ExtrodinThinks10 ай бұрын

    This is the interview I didn’t know I needed but I know it’s the one I deserve. ❤🎉 Dankie bra David le bra Dingaan.

  • @abtshoni
    @abtshoni3 ай бұрын

    These are the type of conversations that need to be had because for the longest of time, black men are always portrayed as failed fathers especially in the media space, so shedding light on those who want to do better even when the odds are seemingly stacked against them brings about another dynamic which is positive.

  • @user-ed9uq1fr9t
    @user-ed9uq1fr9t10 ай бұрын

    What grootman Dingaan is explaining about marriage and relationships, its maturity only, he is absolutely correct to a larger extent.👌 ❤

  • @mercy903
    @mercy90310 ай бұрын

    Dingaan you truly have a deep sense of gratitude. Not all people do what you do. You don't even choose sides? I'm really surprised. No wonder why you are this successful. God bless you more and more. 😅

  • @nathitshabalala5414
    @nathitshabalala541410 ай бұрын

    That "Pause" on the marriage question. Marriage is not for people who don't know what they are doing.

  • @innocentglenn8627
    @innocentglenn862710 ай бұрын

    Mr. David, we really appreciate the content. Can I say, today alone I listened to 2 episodes; Dingaan Khumalo and Jerry Mofokeng. Yesterday I listened to Bonang Mohale. I really enjoy the content. Thank you.

  • @kingdavidstudio1

    @kingdavidstudio1

    10 ай бұрын

    Wow, thank you very much

  • @luckymajova6528
    @luckymajova652810 ай бұрын

    I have a friend who is going through this child situation and looking from outside youll think he is the problem and he doesnt care, but because he is close to me ive been there when we walked to the babby mamas house for him to see his son and they didnt welcome us very nicely, i was there when he delivered a birth day toy and it was damaged the very next day. i was there when he got a protection order openned against him because he wanted to see his kid so bad that he went to the house unannounced. These are very tough situations.

  • @msimemelochristofferoloba9366

    @msimemelochristofferoloba9366

    10 ай бұрын

    Such stories break my heart. Anyway I hope your friend has been been transferring money and keep proof of payments or slips. The money reference must be specific. Reference: Son Maintenance. School fees, Christmas deposit, son Laybay dip. He must never Eva give the month in cash. This is to have proof of his contribution to his child. Communication must be done via WhatsApp texts and voice notes. He must just do that for 12 months bra. Then approach the court for a formal legal arrangements.

  • @takalaniteddymanyuha9039
    @takalaniteddymanyuha90399 ай бұрын

    I grew up in mavimbela section the same section Dingaan's home is situated. I used to see him walking whilst he was an extra on generations and most of the time I will pass him washing his golf, he was an inspiration and a guide on how to handle success. And his young brother Hloni used to visit my home so often without boasting that his brother appears on TV. Wow I'm still glad that nothing has changed and success keeps on rooting it's way❤

  • @user-ed9uq1fr9t
    @user-ed9uq1fr9t10 ай бұрын

    With regards to the issue of grootman Dingaan and not being able to reach his child, I would advice that the matter should be taken to Social Workers, they will resolve it in line with section 21 of the Childrens Act 38 of 2005 or an application to the high court in terms of section 23 and 24.. (Childrens court)

  • @manyamamashakodavid4104
    @manyamamashakodavid410410 ай бұрын

    It's a pity to hear that even the mediator (Mme Lilian I guess) could not succeed in reconciling Dingaan and the mother of his daughter. Overall, I enjoyed the interview and I am inspired by Dingaan.

  • @andiledladlaad
    @andiledladlaad10 ай бұрын

    He is from Limpopo because of Muvhango 😅

  • @SenzoHD
    @SenzoHD10 ай бұрын

    Long live Dingaan, long live Mntungwa. What a gentleman.

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali10 ай бұрын

    Love that you are vocal about your daughter. She needs to know she’s loved and wanted. I hope she get to see this and hear how much you want to be in her life. Blessings and all the best! ❤🙏🏾😢

  • @ziyandaduka8798
    @ziyandaduka879810 ай бұрын

    Seeing a different side of Dingaan & I'm happy that he's addressing the Tsholo issue. I was so shocked and saddened when the Kaya FM thing happened on Mapaseka's show! 😢

  • @gomotsegangkhunou2062
    @gomotsegangkhunou206210 ай бұрын

    "And i wanna say this to you now" King David's fav line

  • @Mbalings
    @Mbalings10 ай бұрын

    I need the jacket 🥹 the exact one on King Mashabela 😍 I enjoyed every minute of this episode! Wishing Mr Dingaan all the best with his daughter. 🙏

  • @kgothatsomothata3443
    @kgothatsomothata344310 ай бұрын

    The power of believing in yourself by Dingaan Khumalo calculating his moves for being in front of the cameras

  • @zakesnyambose
    @zakesnyambose10 ай бұрын

    What a great conversation, thanx grootman David ❤

  • @Mr.ExtrodinThinks
    @Mr.ExtrodinThinks10 ай бұрын

    I think bra Dingaan forgot the storyline. Masebobe gave Sonny the lotto numbers and money but Sunny forgot to purchase the ticket. Dingaan saw the numbers and wrote them down then went to purchase the ticket and won. I remember the beach scene clearly. Dingaan said “ah, if only my fans could see me now”. 😂😂😂 Also there was a classic scene where Dingaan accidentally dropped a tomato sauce bottle and some sauce was spilled on his face. Sonny thought Dingaan was seriously injured. Lol it was a funny scene. They both played it well. I think the reason I remember these moments so well is because my sister and my cousin loved the character so much. To this day whenever the topic of what I would do with the Lotto earnings comes up I always think about Dingaan especially when he spent it quietly because he knew if he told his family they would suck him dry.

  • @siyabulelanoyo3338

    @siyabulelanoyo3338

    10 ай бұрын

    😂😂

  • @Makumz_
    @Makumz_10 ай бұрын

    I feel sorry for Dingaan maan , no man should be denied access to their offspring. I hope Tsholo get over whatever it is she has against Dingaan resolve it and let Dingaan have a relationship with his daughter. P.S David whenever you ready for marriage I'm here boo ❤

  • @user-ru3yq5bf6g
    @user-ru3yq5bf6g10 ай бұрын

    Great interview King David and Bro Dingaan, so much respect for you MaGrootman❤❤👍👍👍

  • @thabo5015
    @thabo501510 ай бұрын

    David, this is beautiful, if people look forward to be called as Dingaan puts it, wow

  • @SamDaZain9843
    @SamDaZain984310 ай бұрын

    Wow,Dingaan so inspirational...His gave great advices.... Thanks for the wonderful interview. And to KingDavid,u held this interview like a king as always..like i felt how you got skills of being a psychologist,social worker and a real mediator..danko

  • @drivewithmat
    @drivewithmat10 ай бұрын

    Enjoyable and on-the-line interview. I missed some parts of it as I was busy doing some stuff. The marriage part till the end, hit home. I hope nobody comes for this man's truth. Bra Dave should've asked more about the amapiano song Dingaan has😅😂to dilute the mood even more. Bra Dave is a natural.

  • @valentine_b_ndlovu
    @valentine_b_ndlovu10 ай бұрын

    Amazing conversation with Dingaan 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽chilled guy and brutal honest 😂love love him 👌🏼

  • @tiisetsomalunga2457
    @tiisetsomalunga245710 ай бұрын

    I love his honesty.

  • @tembisamkunqwana7497
    @tembisamkunqwana749710 ай бұрын

    Powerful Dingaan! Your stepfather is one of a kind. Be blessed abundantly for acknowledging him. We need to hear more stories like that of your step-dad. 🙏 🙏 🙏

  • @jabulanibaloyi9402
    @jabulanibaloyi940210 ай бұрын

    The question technique the style and the respect in which u ask its brilliant thank you bra D

  • @maitemogelocorporatesoluti3093
    @maitemogelocorporatesoluti309310 ай бұрын

    King Dave o bogale bathong. This podcast concept is making sense.

  • @kingdavidstudio1

    @kingdavidstudio1

    10 ай бұрын

    Thank you very much

  • @zinhlenkosi5202
    @zinhlenkosi5202Ай бұрын

    Beautiful story about growing from having to everything that you are and have today. Incredible how you help South Africans solve their problems while you got your own going on. You sure depict "DO NOT LOOK LIKE YOUR PROBLEMS" very well. I hope someday your issues will be solved someday...

  • @elizabethmahlodinchabeleng4750
    @elizabethmahlodinchabeleng475010 ай бұрын

    I respect 🎉🎉🎉 you Dingaan your such an amazing person ❤️ 💛 💖 what a humble beginning praying you meet with ur daughter ❤️ ♥️ 🙏🏼

  • @phumlanindlovu5653
    @phumlanindlovu565310 ай бұрын

    1:42:15 the contradictory of how we raise children 🤞🏾😭💯

  • @Lightrifumo
    @Lightrifumo10 ай бұрын

    He has to come back for another one, this was amazing

  • @klevayerasta2023
    @klevayerasta20238 ай бұрын

    Bra Dave you brought one one of the brightest and intelligent stars of Mzansi. This man is grateful, its a breath of fresh air to listen and watch a man who is this positive about his parents!

  • @modiredipelekekae6034
    @modiredipelekekae603410 ай бұрын

    When two elephants fight the grass suffers🙉🙉🙉🙉🙉🐘🐘🐘🐘🐘🐘

  • @user-fr3pg2uc1x
    @user-fr3pg2uc1x10 ай бұрын

    i love this, King David you're giving us beautiful content grootman

  • @mzikayisentuli4449
    @mzikayisentuli444910 ай бұрын

    Great interview .When you talked about the guy offering you to steal from his work, i am remaindered of the same incident where they offered me to pay through back door at far cheaper price .When i came back 2 month later to buy again , the business was closed .This thing of stealing from your employer is backwardness as the business losses money, and the employer will start to cut work hours ,retrench or close the business.

  • @Mank_Mindset
    @Mank_Mindset10 ай бұрын

    Sensational🔥❤️... Yeses! I resonated so much with this interview. A true life is him Bra Khumalo thanks so very much. #KINGDAVIDstudioprodcast

  • @nombekomagaswana2020
    @nombekomagaswana202010 ай бұрын

    KingDavid thank you so much for this platform.

  • @matlou-ka
    @matlou-ka10 ай бұрын

    An episode i didnt know i needed😊 love the relationship convo nkare Malome James o hurtilwe mo bophelong😂

  • @maswanamagagane1702
    @maswanamagagane170210 ай бұрын

    Bafowethu, these relationships needs more than love, but bana ba tla gola and they always do.

  • @ntokozolizwimkhize8340
    @ntokozolizwimkhize834010 ай бұрын

    He Mr Khumalo was the only reason i started watching Muvhango. My parents made sure of that

  • @realtalkwithamu
    @realtalkwithamu10 ай бұрын

    David was enjoying this interview, he was so relaxed in this interview, beautiful interview this was though.

  • @isaaczulu3761
    @isaaczulu376110 ай бұрын

    Brilliant interview King David, DSK is crying for help here, Tsholo please reconsider what ever issues you had for the sake of your daughter. Life is too short.

  • @drlovelife9096
    @drlovelife90968 ай бұрын

    What an amazing interview.

  • @mandisabitterhout7584
    @mandisabitterhout758410 ай бұрын

    This is beautiful conversation. Thanks Digaan for opening up. Please reach out to your daughter. Die trying. She will always wonder why me, what if. Thanks King David I am also listening to Radio 200 12h00 to 15h00. My King. In my mind I am ur number 1 supporter

  • @MrCharlesMega
    @MrCharlesMega9 ай бұрын

    What a mic drop closing. 🔥🔥🔥 thank you Groot man DSK! That Andrew story. RiP

  • @luciatsotetsi3026
    @luciatsotetsi302610 ай бұрын

    He shared so much of himself ❤

  • @mphosikhakhane1668
    @mphosikhakhane166810 ай бұрын

    hmmm. This interview made me realise something about this life. Sadly Siyabonga, some hurts are beyond an apology. If in a moment of anger and "wanting nothing to do with the other" some things are said or done that can never be taken back, no apology can erase the aftermath. A betrayal of trust where things are thrown in ones face that make people re-live childhood traumas or difficulties that they had no control over and tried all their lives to sort and work through leaves the other knowing for a fact that they want nothing to do with you. Just sharing, maybe a littel bit from a personal experience. It is even beyond wanting access to your child. I wonder how many things were said one to the other. Some words leave wounds that no amount of apologising can heal. I wiped away tears hearing you share about your difficulties with this lady. I wish you well and more than that I wish your daughter well.

  • @edmundsishange3608

    @edmundsishange3608

    10 ай бұрын

    Tswanas say "lefoko ga le bowe" which is basically what you're saying, words are indeed very hurtful and one may never totally heal from what was said, I know it all too well.

  • @matlou-ka
    @matlou-ka10 ай бұрын

    May i also add that i like how the interviews dont feel like they are interviews ❤love the bromance between the two gentlemen ❤

  • @Tshidisothebe
    @Tshidisothebe10 ай бұрын

    Thanks for this interview Bra Dingaan.

  • @nozipholuthuli2318
    @nozipholuthuli23186 ай бұрын

    King David youre such a pleasant interviewer! really you ask all the relavant question and just you can remain steady, really trying to understand the PERSON.....and and and. thank you so much

  • @Mr.ExtrodinThinks
    @Mr.ExtrodinThinks10 ай бұрын

    Wow time went by so quickly. We need a part 2

  • @SIMPLYKESA
    @SIMPLYKESA10 ай бұрын

    I love Dingaan weitse..a humble man❤

  • @nonhlanhlamonama6011
    @nonhlanhlamonama60113 ай бұрын

    Trully loved this interview, the honesty from Dingane. We all can relate.How the boy child is pushed to the side in SA is a heartbreaking reality. Hope he gets to see his child soon❤.

  • @deedelicacy6674
    @deedelicacy667410 ай бұрын

    Wow what a marvellous talk, Bra Dave you are in your own level, or in your own lane! Uhamba wedwa👌🏾🤟🏾🙌🏾

  • @kingdavidstudio1

    @kingdavidstudio1

    10 ай бұрын

    Wow, thank you

  • @LcMaqekoane
    @LcMaqekoane10 ай бұрын

    Great Interview Mntungwa took out a few pointers from this interview to apply it to my life ....

  • @asantsimango2891
    @asantsimango289110 ай бұрын

    What a wholesome interview🥰🥰❤️🥰🔥🔥🔥

  • @Lebzlee
    @Lebzlee9 ай бұрын

    Throughly enjoyed this episode, great guy 👌🏽 Ke kopa Florence Masebe if she accepts the invite . I always enjoy it when you have artists ,the story telling of their lives and the experience is just unique 👌🏽

  • @user-im6ej3vl7o
    @user-im6ej3vl7o10 ай бұрын

    Big up to the Camera man, And the quality... damn it's out of this world, let alone content. Damn🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @kingdavidstudio1

    @kingdavidstudio1

    10 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much

  • @pietmaphoto566
    @pietmaphoto56610 ай бұрын

    17 __25 . minutes. he's telling my exact story how I grow up ..😥😥😥 grow up under survival not love ...I hated that women...she use to abuse me ...

  • @sechabadiphoko6465

    @sechabadiphoko6465

    10 ай бұрын

    Askies for ur situation my brother.

  • @phutikgafela
    @phutikgafela10 ай бұрын

    Nice show learned a lot.

  • @leratomatlala9716
    @leratomatlala97169 ай бұрын

    This one was a conversation between friends, thanks for being vulnerable Siyabonga..

  • @wilf_moyo
    @wilf_moyo10 ай бұрын

    I like the honest about Mam'kete. There's nothing good to say about her 🤞🏿

  • @KaraboMasemola6408
    @KaraboMasemola640810 ай бұрын

    Thank you, King David, for bringing us this extraordinary platform and conducting yet another fantastic interview. Your platform provides a unique opportunity for people to express themselves and shed light on the aspects of celebrities' lives that some may overlook. Having had many friends in the industry, I understand that celebrities are just ordinary individuals who happen to work in a job that garners public celebration. Your platform allows fans to connect with their favorite celebrities in a way that is truly special. Thank you for providing this outlet for both the celebrities and their fans.

  • @ReshoketsweMthombeni
    @ReshoketsweMthombeni10 ай бұрын

    Dingaan! What a gem of a human being! My long term crush❤️ thank you David for this interview.

  • @zuzilezungu5899
    @zuzilezungu589910 ай бұрын

    My heart goes out to you, Dingaan. Kuzolunga mfowethu 🙏🏿

  • @KaraboMasemola6408
    @KaraboMasemola640810 ай бұрын

    The conflicts between Dingaan and Tsholo can potentially be resolved if they prioritize the well-being of their child and work together to overcome their differences. Dingaan should not let his past experiences dictate the course of their relationship; instead, he should focus on healing and addressing his personal issues. Misunderstandings often fuel most relationship problems, so Dingaan must persevere and not give up. Both he and Tsholo bear responsibility for each other's pain, and it is my hope that they can find healing and create a loving and peaceful environment in which to raise their child.

  • @mrisjuly
    @mrisjuly8 ай бұрын

    Beautiful interview... Very special.... Refreshing. It's always a blessing for me to hear from people from traditional media... Big fan of this new digital world. But being honest. it killed the professionalism and quality content🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @asielsereme2501
    @asielsereme250110 ай бұрын

    M with King David on ths one.....i cnt wait for Ditedu to be out of fashion lenna😂🤣😂😂

  • @jeisonkunene6376
    @jeisonkunene637610 ай бұрын

    I am waiting for a sit down with Proverb it would be great

  • @redeemedandloved5905
    @redeemedandloved590510 ай бұрын

    I tried the same stunt stopping my ex from seeing our son because of my personal anger towards him . I am glad he fought for his son and actually brought him up from the age of 5 . My son is 24 and his relationship with his dad is beautiful they still live in the same house. Looking back I could have deprived him that relationship. Its not about me!! Its not about me!!

  • @Facts_Only_SA

    @Facts_Only_SA

    10 ай бұрын

    I am glad he faught❌ I was stupid and selfish, but the father was able to win against the stupid me✅

  • @nicosekano5942

    @nicosekano5942

    10 ай бұрын

    & you had no right to do that. nobody should have to fight to have what's rightfully theirs, anyhow

  • @sisey99

    @sisey99

    10 ай бұрын

    @@nicosekano5942she realises that and for the child’s sake is happy that he did fight, as their close relationship happened as a testament to his determination. She can see that she would have done a disservice to her ex. It was big of her to give him full custody at age 5. Many single mums must realise that as women we can never teach our sons to be men or our daughters to know the protection of a man without their fathers.

  • @sisey99

    @sisey99

    10 ай бұрын

    @@Facts_Only_SABecause of what she knows now. She is happy he fought because if he had given up then her son wouldn’t know how to be a man that he is now and have this close relationship that he has with his father. She gave him full custody from age 5 and not many single mothers would do that even if the child is 15. We all make mistakes and this lady has more than made up for hers. She didn’t let the pain stop her from healing and letting go. Women go to their graves bitter because of how things turn out. There are pple today going through unbearable pain because their mothers died without telling them whom their fathers are. That is beyond wicked.

  • @MightyMike55
    @MightyMike558 ай бұрын

    Love DSK. He is a voice of reason and has contributed a lot to the media industry

  • @nqobilencube4511
    @nqobilencube451110 ай бұрын

    Eish bra Dave my brother is going through this ya this is a painful story and somehow comforting that he is not alone even though the journey is rough I commeserate 😢

  • @MonicaTyambetyu
    @MonicaTyambetyu10 ай бұрын

    Wow Dingaan what a story ❤

  • @ntuthuzelontantiso5394
    @ntuthuzelontantiso539410 ай бұрын

    One thing I'd say is that, that woman (Dingaan's girlfriend) messed up messed up his father, family, daughter and all of us as men on how we view certain women around us.

  • @hleziphidhlamini1012
    @hleziphidhlamini10129 ай бұрын

    Such a great interview asibonge

  • @bonganimagawula6844
    @bonganimagawula684410 ай бұрын

    Dingaan Khumalo we share the same story i grew up all over the place not my uncle not at home my mom was in durban hustling. so i end up in mpangeni my mother denies me the access to know my father and sad part i met my father and i didnt knew is my father , the surname that im using is wrong im typing this message im hurt , im always crying all the time of my life because my mom fight with me when we get into this conversation . it sad it hard i have kids now one of my baby mama we always fighting i end up ending the communication with my daughter still very young . so everyhting ive been through it affecting me now i wish to be better i wish i can do better but eac and everytime when i have to visit my mom i cant watch her in her eyes due to her dishonesty . this really sad im dying inside i wish i can share this because theres a lot .

  • @teboho_mjglekhoaba1687
    @teboho_mjglekhoaba168710 ай бұрын

    Growing up in senekal, I have never believed your senekal story until now,

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