This is why they lay it on in the beginning. When they get board you won't see the same person. Because they aren't motivated and entertained by you any more they start finding faults in you instead. Sad but true.

@erikawithee

Жыл бұрын

Truth

@th-vy6rc

Жыл бұрын

So true

@tahminajaved6760

Жыл бұрын

true that ..Most of them show how perfect they are for you to hide their weaknesses and then when you highlighted their mistakes they started played blame games and victim cards!

@diannecooper8072

Жыл бұрын

@@tahminajaved6760 exactly!

@razeltaleon1639

Жыл бұрын

Very true!

They may show you a superficial good time, with No emotions attached. They are emotional vampires, STAY AWAY.

No wonder they rush you into marriage after a few dates. Because if they give you more time, you will figure out something is wrong with them.

I always knew that I have narcissistic tendency... But this was like getting caught red handed

A lot of guys do or are taught that nowadays though. Npd, bpd, aspd, hpd, social anxiety, plain old immaturity, any external validation thing. Materialism and social media makes everyone a lovebomber. Making it about performance, prestige, status or whatever instead of just loving the woman in front of him. The narcissist flag would be leaving you hanging, having the same conflict cycle, never apologizing, things like that.

Had a convo the other day where I told him we don’t date anymore and my favorite date was when we had a picnic by the pond in my neighborhood and watched the ducks. He literally told me that was not my favorite date and that my favorite date was when we went an expensive restaurant that overlooked the city and then tried to tell me why. And I’m literally like no….. I’m a simple girl. That was a nice date but not the most memorable. You can’t tell me what was most memorable to me! He thought I should’ve been impressed enough by that for it to stand out more than something more sentimental and it wasn’t making sense that it wasn’t. He doesn’t really know me like he thinks he does.

@AkiyuriDesu

11 ай бұрын

Yea, they create their own narrative of you and go ahead doing things while deciding who you are and what you want. Thank you for sharing your personal recount of this experience.

They truly do go all out

I am one of those narcissists and I am ashamed for it. Me and my ex hit it off because I really impressed her. As the relationship went on tho I did change my behavior. I wanted to impress HER. But other narcissistic tendencies I had drove her away from me. She’s an avoidant so she never told me the my narcissistic behavior was an issue let the relationship sink. Looking back on it I was so inexperienced and oblivious to things. I wish I can do it over again the right way. I really love and miss her. She says “maybe in another universe” but I wanna think that it’s at least still possible in this one at a later time, when we’ve detached and changed. I don’t know, and I shouldn’t care… Ugggggh

@YHWHJ316

Жыл бұрын

You wouldn't care if you were are narc just sounds like you suffer from selfish behavior as we all do at times. Just try be better bro for the next one

@stillcursed5168

Жыл бұрын

you wouldnt reflect on your behaviour like this if you were narcisist. Wanting to impress someone is also normal behaviour on first dates or dating in general. Its a special evening where you be a little more romantic then usual, go somewhere nice, buy flowers etc. Dont be too hard on yourself. U dont need to change if this is the case. Ur feeling guilty and blaming yourself for everything in the relationship. Move on in life and find someone new when youre ready

@karenjones3559

Жыл бұрын

You have no idea what you narsacist do to people if she as any sence she should say not even the next life

@stillcursed5168

Жыл бұрын

@@karenjones3559 uhm, ur just being mean here KAREN.. or should i call u miss JONES?

@s.9806

Жыл бұрын

Believe me and the others here that you are not a narc! Don’t worry about it.

Abundantly true! Scary hearing it spoken like this ... thank you for sharing your insight. I needed this so much!

Agree 100! Learned it the hard way!

So true, that's spot on

Soooooo true, very impressive

I see it Tucker and i get so sad and shocked that they break under pressure. Because speaking the truth is like walking a lonely road and very few people can handle that journey of one and people treat you badly because you speak the truth. Jesus spoke the truth and no one liked him . ❤

The Narcissist go out of their ways to impressed people at the moment with no plans and within 1 hours they forget what they about what they promised

Love bombing overload 💯

Exactly 💯 that's who they are honestly my boyfriend is just like that sometimes I feel like going off the relationship

@julieling1212

Жыл бұрын

Think there so pro whan he lives in town I would liketo put him some that sometimes that makes him looks so stupid than say though u were a pro

@julieling1212

Жыл бұрын

He would be able used the underground in London that would be a lugth

I like when narciss is not smell ambre

My ex husband was a narc...It was alll about him and the show he put on for others...I think this is worst person to be with, he took everything away from me as a woman/ person...Ill never let this happen again..Self love ❤️

Yes they put on an amazingly impressive performance - their Oscar winning performances whole have you fooled - world's greatest actors and actresses.

That is actually too simplistic. Frankly, all people dating want to leave an excellent impression when seeking a relationship. A decent person can give the "date of your life" while not being a narcissist. The narcissist, in contrast, is spotted more often by self absorbed importantance, arrogance, and even megalomania with often an absence of awareness of the unique human traits of the other person in a date (versus superficial values like stressing money, obvious sexual appearance, status, or authority in society).

It's funny because while I have no dout I was involved with a narcissist a few years ago, never got the winning and dining experience.

I was always worried about being a narcissist since as the only daughter of 2 narcissistic parents. But luckily I hate the attention, noise, avoid to be seen like show off and can smell the so called impressing others acts

bye week 2= you're no longer impressed= it's too difficult for them to keep up the ACT of acting like a nice person= they are Tear eating demons!

That's exactly my ex boyfriend's description... But a bit about me too :))

That's all I dated

I’ve never been impressive I just am and everything else just happens

But it's a show and they can't keep this up... it's exhausting do be this all day every day and eventually you will have gotten so played...

No untrue. Narcissistic is a personality disorder. It’s not just these traits.

Yes. The good part. But why they cannot cut the negative part? It is sad.

Shout out to narcissists for putting on one hula good first date 😘😘

Narcissists will talk about what narcissists do.

@mirac8803

Жыл бұрын

What even are you trying to say with this comment? That no one should educate about narcissism on the internet because everyone who does is one themselves? So all the shared information about narcissism is misleading, false and useless or something? Dafuq.

@zhhrah

Жыл бұрын

Is that why you’re talking about narcissists and what they do?

So what's the difference between a narcissit and a people pleaser🤔

You have to distinguish between male and female as they are completely different.

How to find out if a guy is a narcissistic without dating him.

And for all of you thinking “this isn’t my significant other”- just because they don’t have this trait, doesn’t mean they arnt a narcissist…. Your welcome 😏

No not at all

mne nravitsea cogda narcissi ne voneaiut

SHE WAS HORRIBLE !

No, not all narcissists… there are some very unsophisticated one out there

@kungfujoe2136

Жыл бұрын

were you bullied? just watched this thing about bullying on the jolly heretic

@pegahpegaie8520

Жыл бұрын

9

Wow

Or I'm good at faking

And WHAT ?! Hah 😂 (Teach - How to LOVE to narcissist... ))) Are u great psychologist ? 😅 99% of the world 21 c. population - We are narcissists 😘 ...children of the damaged parents

Velma makers

Facts

No thanks ugh

This is so wrong. Wanting to impress people we like is just our nature as humans. Ofc we dont want to look boring and like we have nothing going for us. Its our socialization. So to deem that as narcissistic is damaging, you cant just throw these words around. Because on the other end you say 'instead of being impressed by you' which i think is closer to being narcissistic because its like youre looking for something that will better your life instead of doing that for yourself--instead youre using people to move up in life or they have something you covet. I think wanting to impress is more healthy and endearing because it shows you care about how others are feeling vs how others make you feel. If wveryone wanted to be impressed instead of being impressive then we wouldnt get anywhere.

They are not impressive I am not believe in your words

@benithacalloway8286

Жыл бұрын

From the start

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