This was the best follow-up from the show. Grown adults, open communication, and transparency. They both know what they want without bending on their beliefs. Two good people overall.

@shae.the.gymini

21 күн бұрын

Well said 👏🏾

@dgator57

21 күн бұрын

Agreed

@datruthwillsetyoufree8033

20 күн бұрын

I so agree. Was just saying the same thing. Maybe just maybe for these two. They do seem to be feeling one another

@jorjahdivine9622

20 күн бұрын

I love the way this young lady is into her God / faith and won’t shake it for nothing. It is true when the word said, believer should not be yoked with an unbeliever. It can become uneasy as no one really wants to let go off their spiritual beliefs. Wish them luck but I say to the young lady…Never let go off God. The stance I take is that I don’t need to search for the truth of something I can never see physically. All I need to do is believe by faith because faith is believing in that which I cannot see regardless. I choose to believe by choice as I have nothing to loose but everything to loose when I exit this world and what if I confirm that there is indeed a God who will judge me of my life on earth. But if there was no God I have nothing to loose but if there is and I did not believe or wavering I would have lost out. All the best ❤

@brown283853

18 күн бұрын

Disagree. He allowed her to disrespect him

Finally two mature people my goodness can’t everyone be just like them. Bring more people like them, Arlette, no games no immaturity, no waste of time. We need people like them to be more intentional, transparent, mature, and honest.

@beautifulbre5887

21 күн бұрын

Yeeeeessss!!!

@krabba_7

21 күн бұрын

Nah we need a little messy here and there for entertainment lol

@natesamadhi33

21 күн бұрын

@@krabba_7 Right. How Arlette gonna get her views if we don't have some Dr. Elom-type dudes on the show every now-and-then 😂 there needs to be a balance.

@krabba_7

21 күн бұрын

@@natesamadhi33 you feel me! I need some true characters standing in that line 😂😂😂

@Slavocean

20 күн бұрын

PIN THIS COMMENT!! 👏👏👏👏👏

She has such a kind and put together spirit and he seems humble and down to earth.

@MsHnBK

21 күн бұрын

All of them❤

@Db.blessed

21 күн бұрын

@@MsHnBK Yes, Arlette is doing a great thing by putting this together and being poised and thorough with the guests through this process.

@iAdden

15 күн бұрын

Why is he not kind and put together as well?

@Igetsitin89

13 күн бұрын

Right & if u look at her from the first look u would think she be a bitch ....can't judge the book by its cover

@Db.blessed

10 күн бұрын

@@iAdden Just different things I noticed about each person.

I love the respect and maturity. This is what adults do!

@tonethevirgo

21 күн бұрын

Facts!! Both are interested in knowing each other , Seems like that had deep intellectual convos neither one talk about how Much pressure need to be applied and How their DMs are Popping none of that Nonsense

@chipstowe2490

21 күн бұрын

This is what mature people do

@tonethevirgo

21 күн бұрын

@@chipstowe2490 agreed 💯

@katiamotley9407

21 күн бұрын

yes 🙌🏾

@richardeverett757

21 күн бұрын

He can't pass on her

This was the maturest interaction out of all of em.

I feel like the experiment is less about them finding love and more about them finding out what they like, what they need to work on, evaluating their own preferences, etc.

@kitcowool

8 күн бұрын

This is why I love to see return cast members! Expect Dr Elom lol

Arlette has been WOOORRRKIING lol all these drops. I love it

@KekeEspo

20 күн бұрын

We love a working Queen ❤☺️

@rae2443

14 күн бұрын

she needs her own show!

@jetcrews97

14 күн бұрын

She’s a great host 💯

@jetcrews97

14 күн бұрын

@@rae2443she has her own show

Arlette the only one who don’t look different 💀

@Brittaney1300

21 күн бұрын

I thought it was just me. The women always look so different. I do not be recognizing these people.

@TheFitTechGuy

21 күн бұрын

They get super done up for the show like it’s their birthday or prom, then look CLOSE to their regular selves on the catch up 😂

@Lilap369

21 күн бұрын

@@TheFitTechGuy facts lol

@ashleykaoje3908

21 күн бұрын

I figured out one of the reasons why! I think it’s because we are watching them from the side angle 🤔

@AnomalyBelleza

21 күн бұрын

@@Brittaney1300 😂😂

Arlette is giving us real life glimpses into how hard it is to make worthwhile authentic connections out here in these dating streets.

@MsHnBK

21 күн бұрын

So very true. I keep trying to explain THIS to ppl but now I can just show them.

@asdfxcvbn746

21 күн бұрын

dating could be really simple, but women overcomplicate it.

@Sh8kS

21 күн бұрын

@@asdfxcvbn746 ding ding ding!

@Babybacktillery

20 күн бұрын

​@asdfxcvbn746 EXACTLY! Treat each other right and enjoy life together! That's all it is to it!! All this praise God exactly how I praise him and all this other stuf is straight wild. Do you and let ppl do them! who knows, after a person see how things go when you worship, they may wanna try it later down the line. don't make them have to agree to try right out the gate or it's a deal breaker, let them see how it goes over time😢 and even if they don't come around to it at all, that's kool too long as the person is treating you right. Stop putting all these roadblocks in the way to make you end up missing out on having a great person in your ljfe

@asdfxcvbn746

20 күн бұрын

@@Babybacktillery ikr

Marvin truly knows how to carry himself & comes off as very secure in who he is. That’s how a real man moves. And he doesn’t bend to others because he’s on his own spiritual journey. Very internally strong dude 💯

@davnoble8472

6 күн бұрын

Factsss can tell he’s a stand up dude

The noises arlette makes when displaying excitement for others is so feminine and sweet. Every time hear it I Can’t help but smile 😂

@pacifique3943

18 күн бұрын

We goooot a maaaatch!

@user-js9kq3gr7r

16 күн бұрын

Yup that’s why she’s married

She’s really beautiful, respectful and mature

Alexis seems like she has internal peace. She’s silent the entire time others are speaking. Not even a peep. That’s rare.

@depitrius

21 күн бұрын

Not that rare, but they are certainly a minority, especially when the girl is beautiful, the beauty often goes to their heads. Which is unfortunate because they have no idea of the competition they have. I value girls with this type of personality, they are my preference without a doubt. Assuming that you are the girl from the photo if you have this kind of personality, you can leave the Insta.

@MrLayz_DaPipe

20 күн бұрын

💯 rare 🎉

I feel like Alexis was fishing for him to ask her out again, I really do think she is feeling him a lot but she's so strong in her faith that it bothers her and holds her back from him ultimately.

@BNG2510

21 күн бұрын

Exactly! I think he is feeling her too but doesn’t want her to think she can change him or lead her the wrong way. I really like their vibe together.

@MagicCityWD40

21 күн бұрын

They should just be friends

@mablem.9094

21 күн бұрын

I don’t believe it’s her faith. I feel she said that because she understands that he isn’t interested in taking it further with her.

@michellebarnes1511

20 күн бұрын

yes i do think that she like him he kept saying every thing first but she wanted to say another date one day

@kaymoore6467

20 күн бұрын

Bingo!!

He is the ONLY guy who did the right thing and had the date immediately, and she's the only woman who wasn't solely clout chasing and canceling plans. Also, the only match that seems to have both individuals mature and level-headed. I wish they weren't incompatible in religious values.

@daowonimdee

21 күн бұрын

It's hard to not be incompatible when a bible-thumper thinks you're "broken" and wants you to bible-thump with her.

This was my favorite follow up episode so far! Maturity. Respect. All of it. Both beautiful people who genuinely seem to want to understand each other.

This guy is stoic lmao. I think its his personality plus the air force in him too

I'm not gonna lie; this was an unlikely duo! Despite them just deciding to be friends, this was my favourite match so far. I love their maturity and openness. I also loved his initiative to take her on a date. I wish the best for both of them!

Arlette is a class act. I'm digging the growth of this platform. The maturity of the conversations is definitely a breath of fresh air.

I think everyone looks “different” because the angle during the “Pop the balloon” video is from the side and the catch up video is a front view.

@Radiance230

21 күн бұрын

Naaaahhh. There are big differences in hair styles and clothing styles. We generally get the same angle at the point they match.

@Sheabuttahbaby

21 күн бұрын

​@@Radiance230Buts she looks the same from her episdoe

@Radiance230

21 күн бұрын

@@Sheabuttahbaby agreed she looks the same

Being friends is the first step. Good vibes with these two, wishing the best for them.

Such a mature conversation. I’m glad, she is rooted enough in God to test the spirit by the spirit, talk to him, and come to a final conclusion on her own. She is a sweetheart. And he was very respectful.

@timekabolden5309

20 күн бұрын

Yassssss!!!

The way they showed mutual respect is what I admire. You can tell they both are very mature compared to most of the catch ups.

Arlette is the perfect personality for this kind of job - she’s a people person who is able to dig and get messy and hype but remain classy the entire time and keeping the order

“Do you believe a man can lead without God?” that’s an amazing question and the type of question that need to be asked on dates

@TyroneGladden

21 күн бұрын

Definitely!! God doesn’t make men shit to lead it’s your upbringing and morals, values and integrity your parents apply in you. It’s through your ancestors which apply within your parents. Military helped him also with discipline and he accepted the discipline. That’s why I think is a part of him so serious 😅

@daowonimdee

21 күн бұрын

The better question is: "do you believe a man can lead without the God that YOU were brainwashed to believe in?" Don't bother going on dates with non-churchgoing men if you can't answer that question.

@9525joe

21 күн бұрын

The answer is yes. Plenty men have done it before in the past.

@josiahdandre

20 күн бұрын

@@9525joethe answer is incorrect the man can for sure lead you right to hell

@goldengirl7625

20 күн бұрын

@@TyroneGladden🙄

I like that they went on a date right afterwards. Not straight to social media posting pics and etc talking bout "I'm busy."

We definitely need a follow up with Terrance and the woman he matched with

@rottenhead8385

20 күн бұрын

Yes Please. The blind date right? I want to see that man married..

@idaliablu8754

19 күн бұрын

I just posted this lol I need to see how that's going...

@emmanuellasajin7599

14 күн бұрын

Someone finally said my mind!

@inheardfashion

13 күн бұрын

Yes! We did not forget, we need an update. Lol

I don’t think he seems gay. I think we need more exposure to a variety of masculine aesthetics. He reminds me of the guys in my office, really manicured and precise. He seems thoughtful. She is also extremely intuitive and emotionally intelligent- she knows what she needs in a relationship and can ask for it! How wonderful?!! This couple gives me hope for the state of relationships in our culture. They nurtured that so sweetly 🥰

@andrewanderson5948

20 күн бұрын

Bw unable to know the difference between a gay man and a straight man

@iAdden

15 күн бұрын

Sorry what are you responding to?

I love his communication style. Direct, easy to understand and respectful.

This is probably one of the most mature adult conversations I’ve heard in a minute. This is a hard topic to navigate and you two look like you’ve done it marvelously. Bravo and good luck on your dating journey ❤️💕

His straight face. HE be looking serious af

@ThePacemaker45

21 күн бұрын

bruh I noticed that in the original episode. Dude barely broke a smile on it I was like damn lmfaoo

@1stplacetay800

21 күн бұрын

He is serious that’s why 😂

@candyxox

21 күн бұрын

It's a military thing

@BenevolentDictator13

21 күн бұрын

Yall want black men to cheese ear to ear and do backflips

@geraldtone5914

21 күн бұрын

4:04 bro had the Kanye face.

I met Marvin on Episode 7 and our backstage interaction was so good he is a genuine person every guy on episode 7 was amazing

They have good energy between them. They are both very thoughtful and sincere with their intentions too. It is ironic they actually have qualities that make them great for each other.

Standing ovation for Arlette you’re spoiling us❤. Wow, I’m impressed with them both. Very mature, respectful, positive and intentional. I just would say the whole “friend” thing is wild 🤷🏾‍♀️ let them go and move on to someone who matches what you want.

Although this initial match did not work out, Marvin and Alexis are a great example of two people that are ready for a relationship. It's great that Alexis was true to herself and recognised that she needs someone of like faith, never try to force it. The respect, mutual understanding, maturity, intellectual curiosity and willingness to communicate clearly shows that they are both serious about their dating journey, best of luck to them.

This is by far my favorite catch up episode!!! The maturity was chef’s kissssssss🙌🏽 they are both very great people and I hope they find someone for them!!

They’re so mature and handled this so well ! Very refreshing!

Shout out to Arlette what an incredible host, her feminine energy is so radiant. Always smiling ,always well dressed !! BRAVO 👏🏾

The way there communication and respect for each other already is … man they’ll be a BOMB ass couple real solid

Why does everyone look different!😂😂😂

@sweettangel9256

21 күн бұрын

Ya 🤣

@aidanwm7498

21 күн бұрын

Because we black we change hair styles all type of stuff lol

@alexia8365

21 күн бұрын

The camera angles sometimes don’t get their full face

@relaxwithme3398

21 күн бұрын

She looks the same to me, but he definitely looks different lol

@kymoranash8549

21 күн бұрын

@@alexia8365yup

This is my favorite channel for love and dating! So entertaining & perfectly produced!

@Lilap369

21 күн бұрын

Thx for the positive comment ❤

@regalsylvester

21 күн бұрын

It’s the best. She’s the best host

I love them. Maturity at its peak.

No cap I do relate to the face Marvin have it’s kinda like a defense mechanism to prevent being socially awkward but ends up being socially awkward lol

Best Match so far!!!!!! They're Both genuine and Mature! I hope it works between them!

I love Arlette. She presents herself as a wonderful person. Alexis presents herself as a great person also.

@Meechie4

21 күн бұрын

What about marvin ? Lol

@daughteroftheking3220

21 күн бұрын

@@Meechie4 he does too they are all good people.

Wow, these two are the biggest example of not to judge a book by its cover I've dealt with in a while: I had the impression that he couldn't be any less non-plussed by her (or women in general) during the show, yet he's been extremely deferential to her in this video. And she's very thoughtful as well. Wow! Thanks for what you do Arlette, I think you're repairing young, jaded, hearts, one balloon at a time!

All I can say is wow! 👌🏿 I love the fact that they came into an agreement and transparency. Best follow-up so far.

5 months ago you made a decision to do something different and that 5 years of KZread really paid off! YOU ARE AWESOME I SEE YOU GROWING SO MUCH BIGGER!! 💓

Because of the way they both handled themselves here together and the fact they agreed to be amicable actually makes it almost seem they could be in relationship

I love seeing intelligent people interact kindly, for all to see❤. This was too sweet, even tho it didnt work out, theu are so kind and respectful. Im here for normalizing this type of enlightening communication between people ❤

This is a great example of effective communication people. Neither of them assumed something about the other, they both were vulnerable and transparent about what they felt. I love it.

It’s takes a level of discernment to recognize that good for her. He needs to find himself, before a woman

@BNG2510

21 күн бұрын

He didn’t say he didn’t believe in God. He said he is not religious & he may never be.

@Haattuf

20 күн бұрын

Wrong he believe in God but not in a Christian terms he may become Muslim, as he mentioned before he is looking into different religious texts. That's what made them not go forward. She want him to be a Christian and he not willing to do that cuz he used to be one.

I must say that I certainly respect this match. Very mature and refreshing and a great encouragement for me to continue watching the show.

You can’t run a three legged race of faith with someone content to cheer from you on the sidelines. Avoid being unequally yoked. Much respect to both of them to nipping it in the bud. 👏🏾

This was a great one, probably the best catch up yet! They both were mature and thoughtful of one another which was refreshing to see. Seems like they would be a perfect match, but they’re just not equally yoked and that’s ok. I hope they continue to get to know each other and build a friendship.

Definitely the best follow up interview so far. I was really just wanting back to back pop the balloon episodes, but this interview has kind of changed my mind 🤔🔥

I can see both parties are ready for the commitment, ready to go all in and making things work !❤

Best update you all have had yet. They tried it, they enjoyed it , but it was just an underlying layer they just couldn’t come to an agreement with at this time and that is fine. Things such as religious and political views can mean more to some people than others…especially if you’re seeking something long term. Loved it

She brought the strongest testimony by who she is. Sis, 💪🏾 Love the adults being adults on here. Shout out to both of you. 👊🏾👊🏾

The was so refreshing to watch. Love the maturity❤️

I likeee them! Soo mature and poise. They both deserve the best

Love the maturity in this catch up!

This was the most mature one by far. I love they’re energy

Finally, an adult follow up. I was confused why she matched with him when it was clear from the jump they wouldn’t be yoked spiritually. We are all at varying levels of maturity in our spirituality, however when dating, not believing in the same God should be a non-starter. They both seem sweet and I hope they find a match soon. More specifically, I hope Alexis is firm enough in her faith to make that requirement in her mate a nonnegotiable.

@dcm2dcg

5 күн бұрын

💯💯💯 it seems like maybe she's willing to settle or shift her own foundation for the sake of being partnered. But then Marvin also seems indecisive or unsure about a lot of things in his life and also could use therapy around his childhood trauma/wounding.

this is the best catch up thus far!!!!

I could peacefully fall asleep to them talking- in a very good way. The energy was soothing & calm between them.

This was so beautiful and encouraging to watch both at the same time. I was in a similar situation like this a year ago and it was so jard to walk away from because the person was so amazing minus a relationship with God. What i loved about then is that they stood their grounds abd didnt go into it inspite of their differences, cause it would have been such a difficult situation. Kuddos to them and I wish them all the best ❤

Why can’t I remember these people until I see a glimpse of their previous matching videos ? They look different esp the girls.

Arlette on way to 🐐 status she got somethin wit this 💯

This was one of the best after show interviews. Super emotionally intelligent and self aware. Seems genuine.

Finally, a mature catch-up! What a stark difference this intetview is from the others. Wish them both well.

Absolutely, beautiful.... God sends you people to assist with that walk .... I love it! Alexis is wholeness, beauty, she is a wife... A proverbs 12:4 type of queen.... Her husband is on his way and I'm glad she has discernment on her course,❤✨🧘🏽‍♀️

This the type of sit down we been looking for❤ Arlette slay every time 💚💛💚

I’m loving these back 2 backs. Sealing my evening. Gone Arlette!

They really like each other but religion is very important in a relationship and for them to identify that before hopping in something serious was very smart for them to wait until they can find a mutual ground with each other. Very mature people!!!!

The women on this show clearly only come to play games and promote things

@deneciajp

21 күн бұрын

I agree 100%

@daberry9159

21 күн бұрын

Yupp

The only two that actually came to take a shot at love . And not clout …. Respect to yall for coming and respecting arlette show .

This was the most mature and reasonable follow up I've watched yet. They had a date talked about life and where they are at and made a decision to be platonic, this is definitely my favorite episode.

Mutual Respect & the best relationships start out with a foundation of friendship and grow from there.

I feel the need to say this to all of the contestants on the show. The mission of the show is to pair men and women together for a potential relationship that's both beneficial and rewarding for the couple. Finding a suitable mate is very nerve wrecking and daunting. My expectations as a viewer is for them find an attractive person, go out on a date, get more personable through communication, take an assessment, go out on more dates. Then, come back to the show and update the viewers of their current status. Sounds simple, right? In real life, these things takes time. Whatever your station in life with your journey, purpose, hopes, dreams, etc, finding a significant other is very complex. Not to mention, fate, the spirituality, emotional, aspirations the other person may have or don't have. Are people willing to compromise? Are people just the "open/shut" types? So far, this is as good of a favorable update status that actually went out on a date following the show. I hope they can find what it is that they're looking for in one another.

@TheVio888

21 күн бұрын

Absolutely spot on comment. You just described what realistically goes on with the mature adults in the real world, including myself. Very well said, indeed.

@MsPinkyyy717

21 күн бұрын

Well said!!

@minahpoohbear7579

21 күн бұрын

@@TheVio888 Thank you. I really enjoy the show. If this show is Arlette's idea, then she is a gorgeous genius. 😊😊😊

@minahpoohbear7579

21 күн бұрын

@@MsPinkyyy717 Thank you. I love this show because it's so entertaining. These young people are quite brave to put themselves out there like that. 😊

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 kudos to these two. Real life on display

I really like them both. Two adults actually acting grown, while communicating and being transparent yet accepting.

This was a good one. Nice interview 💕

Damn...how many episodes do we need create to recognize this model don't work lol...I'm kidding. Great production. Entertaining show. Keep em coming.

@meneedmoney

21 күн бұрын

Damn what y’all want this like swiping on tinder

@jennifers4392

21 күн бұрын

It’s just life’s nature. Most of the people we come across will not be our life partner. Its okay. It think it can help people gain inspiration or insight about dating. This is like people watching in the park to me. There will never be some magical formula to match people up. Some platforms work better than others.

@kingtryton

21 күн бұрын

It’s all for entertainment 😂😂

@AuntieSy-Sy

21 күн бұрын

If ppl barely stay together on Millionaire Match Maker, whyyyyy put such an unrealistic standard on our sista Arlette's platform?? This is classy, fun and just a really nice (and sometimes hilarious) show❤

@jodezod

20 күн бұрын

@@jennifers4392 true but to an extent. Some people have inflated egos and when presented with good people they always want more than that person.

The most mature conversation on this show!

This was so refreshing to watch. Grown. Love to see it.

Arlette is giving us quality content fr fr.

@jetcrews97

14 күн бұрын

She’s awesome 👏🏾

Very good looking couple. Both seem mature and level headed. All the best to them.

This follow-up was great! Both very mature & agreeable! Sometime you gotta be friends first before lovers!

Finally 2 ppl that r not using this show for just there own selfish personal gain.....n I love that the things they said during the show was actually true n not some bs for the camera good job

I see him realizing how great a woman she is one day. I wish them all the best. Sometimes great relatirelationships start with great friendships and I appreciate both of them being honest with each other. What a great basis for a great relationship they have already built even if it will be just friends. But, I definitely see more on the horizon for them.

WILL ANY OF THESE MATCHES ACTUALLY WORK???

Aaa nice!! I love this! And i must say : FINALLY 2 grown ups that actually communicate!

I love how they talk to each other even though they agree to disagree . I wish a lot of the others could have a health conversation when communicating.

Ouuu love me some b2b content! Thanks Arlette

I like this, in my opinion it’s bringing a lot of melanated people together. Just opening up lines of communication and helping see the importance of mutual respect.

Marvin has taken time to work on himself...it's evident. Well done brother. 🫡

Nice to know there are at least two contestants that have the maturity and respect to be able to have a date, and conversations without the clout chasing , shade and general mess. Had to watch it twice for the positivity factor.

These "Catch Ups" are more like "Mismatches" ...

@YungMillz26

21 күн бұрын

😂😂😂 no lie lol

I want to see a successful relationship from the show 😢lol

@lifeofthasha

19 күн бұрын

Me too