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@missLeamon2023

3 жыл бұрын

Whats that ?.

We got married super young 37 years ago. We are still so happy, still so in love, and we have such a wonderful relationship.

I was 18 and my husband was 20 when we were married and we had our first son when I was 19. We grew up together. We had hard times and we had very good ones and 2 more sons. We were married 53 years and my husband passed away almost 2 years ago. You two act a lot like we did. Have a very long marriage . It takes a lot of work. But you can do it!

@flower18777

2 жыл бұрын

I got married at 18 and he was 20 . We are still growing together after 15 years. Very blessed to have met and married my husband at a young age, i definitely agree, it does take a lot of work and never ever giving up. 🙏God bless you.

I got married when I was 18 too...and we have been married 13 years now and I am more in love with my husband now ...you grow in love as the years go by.

Biggest pro I know of you two, is that you both have the Lord in your lives :)

My husband and I married young 22 & 23 We’ve been together 29 years. Ups and downs. But always together. ❤️

Even though you live together, our minds grow in different ways individually. I understand what Jenna means. Watch out Leo cuz women grow faster than men (mentally) 🤣☺️😊.

My husband and I married at age 19. Work hard at your marriage. It’s worth it. We will celebrate 50 years of marriage this October

I think these are good. Being 33 and divorced. One of the most important things I think that I have learned is really praying about it and letting God work on me and my future next spouse. I wasted so much time investing only in myself and just assuming it was God without praying and I think we were both selfish at times, especially me and just didn't grow like I should have. Obviously it's different for everyone with backgrounds and stuff, but yeah. I wish you guys so much happiness and all of the blessings. I think you guys are so wonderful!

I’m 21. Hoping God will help me meet the right person for me. You both give so much love, light, and hope to me. Thank you.

Jenna you are absolutely correct about getting married young and growing apart. As you grow older your view on life, the world your opinions etc change so dramatically!!! The challenge is to grow together.

I was 29 & hubby was 32 when we got married. We have been together for 12 years & married for 6 years. My advice to you both, love each other every day, make sure you both say I love you (as you don’t really know when it will be the last time), don’t ever go to bed on a fight & solve the problem by talking about it. Plus also speak up towards each other. But deep down you two are awesome & beautiful together 🥰😇. God bless you both 😇🙏🏻

We got married at age 20. I was 28 weeks pregnant with our first. A lot of people thought it was because of the pregnancy but it wasn't. I wanted to marry him but the baby sped it up a few years 😉 9 years later we have 4 beautiful daughters and I love seeing him with our girls and makes me so happy that we have our own family and how much love their is in our home. We really grew together as individuals but also as a couple. We are very lucky we had our girls so young now I have fertility problems and can't get pregnant anymore and that really hurts our hearts. No one was happy for us because we got our kids young and we faced so much judgement. And knowing of we waited we never would have had a baby makes us sometimes a bit angry because God really gave us a family when we could.

We get to "crow" together 😂😂😂 Ya'll are so cuteee😭😍

I got married when I was 22. I found my and my husband's family interfering a lot in our marriage because in their eyes we were still children. Of course they wanted to help but in my eyes it is definitely another #con!

"If God put you together, then just take that leap of faith". I learnt a lot from this video, Leonardo and Jenna. Thank you

I was married at 19 en stil married for 35 years.

I am happy to have found a couple I finally can relate to! I married my husband at 21 (he was 20) and this year we're 4 years together, he was my first boyfriend and I was his first girlfriend. It's great and I would never exchange my life for something else but sometimes it's hard to find understanding from the outside as this is rather rare! I wish you guys all the best! ❤️

It doesnt matter how old you are guys, life is always a learning curve..your never to old to learn..everyone learns different things each day depanding what they are doing of course....and 30 isn't to old to have kids...stay safe guys. Love from Tasmania Australia xoxo

It would be actually really interesting to hear your thoughts about waiting till marriage!

I know what Jenna meant it happens I’ve had two friends who married young but are divorced now because they grew apart no hard feelings towards each other it is not a bad thing but it happens people grow apart

Because people can grow out of love Leonardo. They can grow out of love and in turn grow apart!

My first marriage I was 20 and my ex husband was 21 so we were pretty young too. We met at 16 (him 17) and only dated each other until we got married. We had 2 kids together who are now grown up. We had a lot of cons though. We weren't as mature minded as you two are and that is very important. I started maturing more after we had our first child but he wasn't maturing on the same level as me. After our 2nd child was born we really grew apart. We tried counseling and all but we ended up divorcing after 11 years of marriage. I think, (imo) that putting God first and being both on the same page as far as faith goes is the key to a lasting relationship. I am Christian and my ex husband was Jewish so we weren't on the same page with our faith from the start so we didn't have a good foundation. I am re-married now and I know God put me and my husband together. He is faithful like me (Christian). We pray and attend church together. Something I never did with my ex husband. You both have such a firm foundation in your faith and it's plain to see God definitely had his Hand in you both meeting and getting married. It's so refreshing to see two people so young and yet so mature and faithful. I look forward to watching your videos and seeing you both grow as a family. 💗

I watched this Video because I wanted to understand why you two got married so early. And it did help me understand. You come from a very conservative religious background, so it totally makes sence for you. And i hope very much that it works out and your relationship makes you happy. I think it all depends on your social background. For example, when you said being married young, you can grow together. For me that did not Sound like a pro. Because I think that it is better to grow on your own first, do your own Thing and become an independent Person. But you seem to have no desire to do this and seem perfectly content to be kind of dependent of each other. So marrying young fitted your desires well:) i think how mature people are is not necessarily connected to whether they are married or not, but rather whether they moved out of their parents home or not. At least that's my experience:) So I watched this Video to understand you two and to understand a different way of life. Though there is one Thing that I cannot agree on: it is not scientifically proven that waiting with sexual intercourse until you are married is healthier. Could you please link your source for that? I guess you said that because you have a very different aproach to christianity than I do:) i wish you all the best:))

@poetryforyou1981

3 жыл бұрын

I think these young couple will not answer your question as due to some very religious insights such topics are not talked freely with the outside world. Because due to the ancient religious ideas such topics are taboo. Anyway through the years of living together everyone in the couple understands that the most important is relationship, is the true feeling towards each other and not only physical pleasure.

@paulas7414

3 жыл бұрын

@@anapaumisil thank you! I thought there must be something like this out there:) it is not "proof" of course, but what it indicates is very interesting!

I can totally relate to what yous are saying! Got married with 18 and never ever regret. We have 3 children now and I love my husband more than ever, especially since I see him as the loving dad he is to our girls 😍 Beautiful video, thank you, god bless you!I😘

Hi thanks for the video! I hope it opens other people minds that are against marrying young. I'm 19 married and pregnant....you can imagine what comments I got. But in the end I'm happy with my current situation, and I don't wanna go back in time, and people have to learn that there are always pros and cons about EVERY stage of life Lots of love💗

Very good points Jenna. You are very realistic pointing out both the pros and cons. My parents were 16 and 17 when they married.

Much love, support, respect and blessings to you both.

This was such a lovely blog 💕

You guys honestly are looking happier in these recent videos. You seem more comfortable than ever with each other. You are growing beautify together xx❤️

Honestly this speaks so much to me but sadly my other half doesn’t thinks like this .. I wish I can achieve this level of Relationship soon 😊

My husband & I got married young (he was 23 & I was 19). We just celebrated our 20 th wedding anniversary and 25 years of friendship. We have 2 beautiful boys and grow more in love everyday! We have become best friends and a strong couple through our adventures. I completely agree with your thoughts and wish you both nothing short of health, happiness, & love. Life is an adventure and walking it together is a wonderful thing!

All of your cons sounded like pros to me!! Loved the 'learning in action' on rasberry drink lolz. You guys are so blessed ♥️

💜💜 Loved this! Congratulations on your 2nd. Anniversary! I remember those early years. So happy for you both! 💜My husband and I met at church and became friends, fell in love, had a 6 month engagement, and got married a week after I graduated high school. I was 17 and he 19. I got pregnant around my 18th. birthday, about a month later. We just celebrated our 40th. in June. Love watching you grow as a couple! Love your vlogs!

"I know that God put us together"😊😊

Congratulations on your two year anniversary. I was 19 years old and my husband was 28 years old when we got married. We were married 37 years before his passing two years ago. By the way, I love watching 90 Day Fiancé too. You are a lovely couple.

You're a beautiful couple ❤ this is precious.

You make such a great marriage, I admire you guys! Keep it up and hope you still being happily together. ❤️❤️❤️

Love your families videos 💓 sending peace ✌️ and love ♥️ your way

I think getting married young is a brilliant thing I got married at 18 years old and now 15 years later still very much in love and the best of friends I think you both are a sweet couple best of wishes to you both xx

You made a really good video. After being married for almost ten years now, I look at these points with a bit more wisdom and insight than you two have, but I still find your thoughts quite good (although a bit superficial). I met my husband when I was 18 and he was 30. It took us some years until we were a couple and several years more to marry, though, because we lived in different countries by then and I wanted to complete my university studies first. But we also didn't have much of "relationship baggage" because we both didn't have more than one relationship with another person before we met and we also waited until marriage before having sex. It's a decision you make and doesn't necessarily depend on marrying young. Yes, I think it's easier to stay pure when you marry young, especially when you are already in a relationship for quite some time and get to spend a lot of time together. But I think it's also helpful not to "date around" but only start a serious relationship when you think that this might be someone you want to marry. Bearing that in mind, you won't have several relationships before meeting your future husband/wife. The danger of "growing apart" is something that's always there in a relationship, no matter how young or old you are. It happens when you stop talking to each other and start to put your partner into a box. I agree that it's more likely to happen when you are young, especially when one of you is very insecure and quiet and is still searching for his/her identity. But as long as you talk to each other about your thoughts and ideas and allow the other one to discover the talents and character traits God put in them (even if it's something that surprises or even bugs you!), you should be fine.

Very interesting vlog, you two obviously adore each other which is fantastic. Xx

Love you both ❤️

I just adore you both so much!! Y'all are my favorite couple!!

Joo, todellaki tehkää video niistä terveysvaikutuksista, joita naimisiin odottaminen tuo! 😊 Tää oli niin hyvä ja tärkeillä aiheilla höystetty video! Toista luomustanne odotellessa. 😊

You guys are so good for each other, we can see the love through your eyes. God really knew what he was doing when he put you togheter. Love you and i hope i have a relashionship like this one day💕

That is a wonderful video! By the way - what is the name of the music in the backround?

That's so beautiful and impressive. God bless you!❤

My step mother did this reading at our wedding, she picked it for us & it's now one of our favorites. We got married 3 years ago this coming October 💖 Again thank you for your open and honest look into your lifes. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 NLT Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.

@matthewmoore1743

3 жыл бұрын

My wife and I have been married 3 years on August 2nd. Happy anniversary for October

I'm the result of a teenage marriage my mom was 18 and my dad 20 when they got married and got a child. It's not always bad and I think there not so big differences to getting married older.

Luv u guys😘💕

A really good video

I wish my husband and I could have married sooner. It really is a blessing to be married young.

Nice couple and Jenna is cute, just like Leonardo keeps saying. Hope you prosper in life 💕

I understand what you were meaning Jenna with the potential for couples to grow apart xx

I am 34 and have one child - absolute love of my love. I was 20 when I had him and the biological father left me in pregnancy. I understand exactly how awesome it is to have raised my son at that age. Now at 34, I understand aspects of life that not a lot of other people my age do and I can only put this down to them not being parents. I know this sounds pompous but it is not my intention. Being a single mum was something that was out of my control but I don't know how it would have turned out if the other person stayed. He chose his path. I grew into adulthood with this beautiful boy in my life and this is an absolute gift. I had a lot of 'firsts' on my own as an adult, it's sad but also, I love being able to be in my own thoughts and opinions when experiencing something new. I hope you guys have a baby and all the best. Take care you sweet people!

Good adviseyou guys are so mature

Adorablest couple ever!

JUST TO LET YOU KNOW I WAS 18 & MY HUSBAND WAS 19. AUGUST 1,1980 WE MARRIED. (We have only known each other. Never been with another) THIS AUGUST WE WILL HAPPILY CELEBRATE OUR 40th ANNIVERSARY WITH OUR TWO GROWN DAUGHTERS & ONE GRANDDAUGHTER AGE 9. WE DIDN'T START HAVING CHILDREN UNTILL I WAS 25. WE HAVE GROWN TOGETHER WITH EACH PASSING YEAR. OUR SECRET. LOVE GOD & FAITH FIRST WITH ALL YOUR HEART. THEN US & THEN FAMILY & FRIENDS.. GOD'S BLESSINGS ✝️🙏 FROM WEST-CENTRAL INDIANA FARMLAND USA 🇺🇸🚜

Ooh yea...Hello Jenna😁❤

You two are amazing together xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I was married at 17 to my 1st. husband; however it did not work out :( .... He wanted someone to be "home for him" but still so "single" things. I am now married to a man that wants to grow old with me :) We have been together now, for 23 yeas. The 2 of you are so great with each other, I am happy to see you both grow in your new life, together :)

You should do some "who knows who better" game, the married version

Oh my goodness, 90 day fiancé is my favorite show too. You're a beautiful couple and can see the light of Christ within you.

Omg.... you are the cutest lovies, ever! God sure knew what he was doing when he created you two💕🥰🥰

Hi Jenna👋👋👋👋👋

God continue blessing you always

Jenna is right. She hit it dead on the money. You could love someone so incredibly deeply. And spend all your time together. But you can still grow apart. You change. And realize you don't feel the same way about that person.

Could you do a video about purity/waiting until marriage? It would be such a positive example.

Dear folks. This video was so special and wonderful. I really liked it because it was very off the cuff and I felt I got to see the two of you in your real light. Your love for each other is profound. Your commitment to followers in God‘s path is profound. If the world was filled with young folks like you, we would be a better place. May God bless and enrich your life in all ways and always. Deborah from Washington DC. Deborah Cavenaugh.com

God bless you

To many years beautiful couple

marriage is good if you earn money already , with or without child, u have to eat, rent an apartment , pay bills 🏡

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Jenna is right nr2 cons

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at age 27 literally everything about me did a 365. it is inevitable. i'd love to see more of that glass porch thing.

I think the important part for any marriage is you need to have the same focus on each other. Like in the bible. Trying to make each other happy. I think if you can keep that as a priority the rest can work itself out even in less great times.

I'm 40 I'm still single 😂

@1DennisK

3 жыл бұрын

Then you've no doubt seen a lot of couples' relationships disintegrate. Not many people have 'fear of missing out' when they watch somebody else's partnership crash and burn. Though some people would rather have that kind of pain than no pain at all. People are different (duh). Some like horror movies, others prefer musical comedies. I'm 64. My ex-wife and I were 40 when we got married. First time for both. We lasted five years. The breakup was sad, but largely my fault: I was asymptomatic with MS, so I was doing a lot of 'bucket list' type stuff and ran out of money. Every relationship is as unique as the two people who are in it. It kind of becomes an entity unto itself. It's like there's a third person in the room. Even though it didn't work, I'm glad our marriage happened. Epilogue: She's remarried to a guy who has grandkids, and they moved to Florida. They've been together for fifteen years so I'm guessing that they're basically happy. I ended up in a wheelchair, but believe it or not, I'm pretty happy too. My typical day is about the same as it was before covid: Lots of screen time, and I talk to friends as much as I want. I live alone and take care of myself. I'm not some poor woman's invalid husband. Everybody ought to at least try a 'practice' marriage. Good luck out there. I'm rootin' for ya.

@gracev2995

3 жыл бұрын

@@1DennisK I'm glad you're going well. My mom's bf left his wife and she has MS. This was years ago. I understand your situation is different. But it always bothered me that he did that. And I hope that it wasn't because of the MS. Because that makes me sick to my stomach. If you ever need to talk please comment and I'll send you my information. You sound very wise.

Married at 18 can't be the most interest thing you did in your life. I mean u can study something/university. I know that you can!

I was 19 and my husband was 20. We’ve been married 31 years and I wouldn’t change a thing. I loved growing up and growing old together. Having Jesus as the Lord of our marriage has been important

I kept watching only because of her. She could make a video with any old stooge and it would still be a good video.

U 2 are cute. I dont think that its a bad thing to get marry in a much older age. It can happen nd be a good thing and it can happen in a young age. Even tho from the young age it is importabt to look everything positive to not get bored from eachother...and honestly im for that that u should have a baby,its not like rushing its just a nice thing that can happen to u guys. Im sure your mariage will be much stronger with the baby aswell. And its not just a question that u can fill with Jennas words. Its also Godes will to have a baby. So better now than late. 😊 So this is my opinion for u guys. I wish u all the best. Life is interesting, u never know. 😊😊

Been together 26 years, but married 10

Cute couple goals lol❤️🇧🇷🇧🇷

Hahaha it's so cute because Jenna does say 'crow' instead of 'grow'. He finally just let her talk. Her English is great. I would like to say as much as y'all might want a baby, please please wait a few more years. Get your careers in order and money saved up

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U literally can do all of this without marring...

@chavafrenkel8009

3 жыл бұрын

You are funny, so what does it make to you a difference? Marriage makes 2 souls in 1. That is very special

@gracev2995

3 жыл бұрын

@@chavafrenkel8009 I think they're making the point that you don't have to be married to have this. I have two children with my partner and we've been together 4 years. We won't be able to marry because of health insurance and all of my medical problems. But we still have everything that he and Jenna do. We have a mutual understanding that together we are forever and each other's first and top priority. Other than our children of course. I wear a wedding ring even though we won't be able to marry. And I don't call him my bf. I call him my partner or significant other.

@chavafrenkel8009

3 жыл бұрын

@@gracev2995 I'm sorry to hear that. Thanks for telling me! It is just that so many people are just against young marriage, and it just annoys me.... I wish you all the best! And I'm happy for you having a partner and children!💖

You guys have the time take at least 5 years for you guys to be just you guys before having kids

How many videos have you made about being married at 18!? We get it...

@JennaLicciardoToivola

3 жыл бұрын

Well, what videos would you like to see then? 🙊

@roesi1985

3 жыл бұрын

@@JennaLicciardoToivola Hey Jenna! Although I think Rainy Midnight's comment is a bit harsh, I think I know what he/she is trying to say. Your videos are very sweet and you are still learning, but there's really not much content. Leonardo and you are a sweet couple and I think a lot of teenagers will relate to you, but you don't seem to do much with your life except getting up, eating and going out occasionally. That's not really interesting to other people, to be honest. Instead of just filming everyday scenes that don't really tell much, you could use your videos to answer important life questions (as far as you have figured out answers for yourself yet). You could use your range to show how your faith in Jesus is a huge help, escpecially when you are insecure and afraid of the future like a lot of teenagers are. This video is a good start, I think (although you might have gone a bit deeper with some topics, in my opinion). Another thing people really like to watch are informative videos. What are you passionate about? What skills do you have? Do you love cooking or sewing or gardening or sports? Or do you have a special skill? Try to make videos that do not only show you doing things but explain what you are doing, how you are doing it and why. (Don't forget to do a lot of research before you start filming the video so you won't end up telling stuff that's not true or people get the impression that you don't really know anything about your topic!) People also like some kind of continuity, so try to make several videos with the same kind of topic, for example make a video series explaining different recipes or different workouts or make a series talking about several questions and anxieties that bothered you as a teenage girl. It's also helpful to use the same title and the same design elements within each topic, so people recognize at first glance what kind of video they are watching. Hope this helps a bit. Be blessed both of you and continue on your way with Jesus. It's beautiful to watch your growth.

omg i am the frist comment

WHY does he eat his BURGERS SIDEWAYS

It is actually scientifically proven that the more sexual partners that you have, especially with women, you are less likely to bond with your partner.

@randomdude245

3 жыл бұрын

prove ?

You want 50 or 15babies???? 😱😱😱😱😂😂😆😆😆

Sex "being the best part" definitely shows your age... let's see what you say about that in 20yrs..lol