It is clear the family court system needs an overhaul. When a boy is literally afraid for his life and the court orders he spend time with the man he fears will murder him, there is a serious defect in the system. My heart goes out to the mom and brother. They were completely powerless and now have to carry this horrific burden of Dylan's tragic death. A great cautionary tale. Thank you Dr Grande 🌵🌵🌵🌵

@conorfitzmaurice8959

2 жыл бұрын

It s the same here, these forced visits should have at least been supervised

@cindywho7338

2 жыл бұрын

I agree and wish it were that simple. There’s many, many parents who lie, have their children lie, or downright convince their child that the other parent is a monster. There should be extensive tests before alienating a parent from their child, to make sure the one seeking full custody isn’t doing the aforementioned things. If it’s shown that the parent is unstable, then by all means, a child should NEVER be forced to see them.

@ScumfuckMcDoucheface

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-account-not-found very well said.

@TheGrmany69

2 жыл бұрын

federalism is an art not a science.

@munchmacuchi7502

2 жыл бұрын

If he had a good amount of money and hired a good lawyer this wouldn’t of happen. This is a PSA about the need for more legal accessibility.

I agree, Dr Grande. Mark is guilty. Excellent analysis, but this case breaks my heart. The legal system failed Dylan by forcing him to visit an unfit parent. When children speak we need to listen.

@kellyfelly6645

2 жыл бұрын

AMEN!!!

@thereal4113

2 жыл бұрын

The children have no voices....

@yonyonyon4220

2 жыл бұрын

Heartbreaking

@mcuserton

2 жыл бұрын

@@thereal4113 in Florida (and probably other places) we have something called a guardian ad litem; someone appointed by the courts to be the "voice" of the child. I don't know how well it works, but hopefully it's saved many children from significant undue suffering.

@SofaKingShit

2 жыл бұрын

I used to scream pretty loud when my mother beat me up but the neighbors somehow never heard. I guess they were more concerned with keeping peace and order in the community.

Now the whole world knows about those pictures.

@LCx829

2 жыл бұрын

I would be horrified if that was my dad. The pictures are vile.

@azn1011

2 жыл бұрын

and now i wish i didn't

@MeganVictoriaKearns

2 жыл бұрын

Stephanie Harlowe said there's video of Mark's "activities". She advised against watching it. I was curious, but I don't want to expose my brain to it. You can't unsee that type of thing.

@Gabingus69

2 ай бұрын

Such irony in his rationale for killing his poor son…

“Embarrassing photos” has to be the understatement of the century - outrageous.

"Apparel choices & dining preferences." Oh Doc, touché. LOL

@maureeningleston1501

2 жыл бұрын

Lol.....that one will have me laughing for days.

@merk.9285

2 жыл бұрын

Diapers and poopoo lmao

@merk.9285

2 жыл бұрын

Seriously tho who tf and how tf do ppl get into that shit? Literally..

@rachelgooden9981

2 жыл бұрын

I’m dying hahaahahahahahah

@lorimiller4301

2 жыл бұрын

🤢

I was gonna describe his look in the mug shot as a “shit-eating grin” but then I thought you know, too soon.

@dylswife8048

2 жыл бұрын

😃😃😃😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣

@scar2766

2 жыл бұрын

Lol. Stop it.

@theconsolekiller7113

2 жыл бұрын

tHE bALLS bENEATH tHE BREADMAN

@tat2mommie

2 жыл бұрын

Dammit, I just spit out my soda. 😂😂😂💀

@thereal4113

2 жыл бұрын

And now the world knows about his choice of delicacies 💩

I was washing dishes listening from afar, and suddenly "consuming feces from a diaper".

He's got that drunk uncle in your room at 4 in the morning look.

@michelefizer2774

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@Vlaloca777

2 жыл бұрын

The thumbnail pic looks like Frank from Shameless!!

@LeeDee5

2 жыл бұрын

Yep that one creepy “drunk uncle that always looks greasy” type of vibe.

@thejudgmentalcat

2 жыл бұрын

That was oddly specific 🤔

@Celtic_Iron

2 жыл бұрын

@@thejudgmentalcat Uncle Randy was a good man. He just had some drinking problems and wandering hands.

Mark knew that every year Dylan got closer to 18, he was losing his last hold over Dylan and Elaine. He had already lost Cory. Killing Dylan punishes Elaine, Cory, and Dylan forever. That’s why he’s not even bothered enough to act upset about going to prison for murdering his child. He got 72 years and sweet revenge. He gave them a life sentence. What a monster.

@goblin-night

Ай бұрын

I'm sure he's wondering how good a trade it was being the prisoner famous for having photographed himself gobbling poop out of a diaper, which would lead most to assume he is a particularly vile pedo.

Assassin bears carrying bleach. Makes perfect sense.

@ifakerr8369

2 жыл бұрын

Right 👍🏾

@bfdidc6604

2 жыл бұрын

One of the great threats of our time.

@jessestewart169

2 жыл бұрын

🤸‍♂️👍

@SofaKingShit

2 жыл бұрын

They probably fly in using helicopters. Possibly jet packs. Or camouflaged hot air balloons although they might be brightly colored and showering glitter below. Never know with assassin bears. DAMN THEM! Why can't we all just get along? I honestly don't know where I put my car keys and I'm running out of beer.

@r.f.pennington746

2 жыл бұрын

I've seen them! Mostly in the southern Rockies.

Since I have a little time while I’m eating my lunch, I think I’ll watch a Dr. Grande video. Five minutes later… Maybe I’ll just never eat lunch again.

@daverandall6352

Ай бұрын

It made me want to eat a diaper full of shit

Finding images like that on a parents computer should be immediate grounds for removal of custody privileges

@walleye364

2 жыл бұрын

The is no law that I know of that would give the courts the right to do that. It may have been weird and freaky. But nothing illigal.

@claricelyles8398

3 ай бұрын

​@@walleye364its shows mental illness. Who's to know that the parent wouldn't act out these behaviors in front of the children if they can photograph it!!

@SuperCelliott

2 ай бұрын

Especially if a child is that uncomfortable about it. He shouldn’t have to be around it

My attorney told me, “Never take a photo/video that your mother can’t see!”

@DonPeyote420

2 жыл бұрын

then how's porn supposed to be made, genius?

@artieche9

2 жыл бұрын

@@anavasquez5231 Yes it is supposed to be made.

@jordanklinski8944

2 жыл бұрын

I'd say never take a photo/video that your mother can see and recognize you

@artieche9

2 жыл бұрын

@@jordanklinski8944 Well people with tattoos are fucked.

@jordanklinski8944

2 жыл бұрын

@@artieche9 Indeed hahahaha

You forgot that Mark was a raging alcoholic on top of all the weird shit. He might have done this regardless of the photos, it seems like he was waiting for any chance to prove he was the boss, like his son was his property. I really wish kids weren’t treated as such when it comes to divorce :(

"There was some doubt in this case but it didn't rise to the level of reasonable." If only the Casey Anthony jurors had understood that.

@bellyfulochelly4222

2 жыл бұрын

Oh wow, that was my exact thought after hearing Dr. Grande say that.

As awful as the details are of any murder, I appreciate the humor and sarcasm you inserted in the story telling. It makes hearing this a bit more tolerable. I’m glad they caught the killer. It’s so heartbreaking that it was the victim’s own father. There are some things I will never be able to understand and that’s one of them.

@quotidian5077

2 жыл бұрын

Most folks in Bayfield where Dylan's friends lived always thought Mark was responsible.

So it's fair to say that Dylan was killed by a wild animal...."HIS FATHER".

@secerts711

2 жыл бұрын

ABSOLUTELY LESS THAN HUMAN- So Sorry for Dylan and the Family

@LDiamondz

2 жыл бұрын

More dangerous than any bear, in this case, anyway.

@beverlybalius9303

2 жыл бұрын

A monster,,,, an animal is innocent

@LDiamondz

2 жыл бұрын

@@beverlybalius9303 That's very true.

@edmondvalmont1546

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, with the pardon of the animals

So so so incredibly sad. My heart breaks for Dylan's mom and brother. I actually lived around the corner from this a$$ scum at Vallecito Lake, CO when this all happened. We all hoped and prayed that Dylan ran off but of course new deep down that his father was guilty. I will never forget this case. Glad he was found guilty after all this time. Have been following this case since 2012-2013. Hope his family finds peace.

@MusicLeeSarah

2 жыл бұрын

You live by this guy?! Oh my God I'm dying for inside information

@carolbenson6524

2 жыл бұрын

Has bothered me a lot too here in Colorado Springs. So heartbreaking..I've followed it all along too. I feel so much pain for Dylan's mother and brother too. I hope the father rots in his cell.

@beach85

2 жыл бұрын

My brother Tom Cowing was lead investigator on this case. It took a HUGE toll on him physically and mentally. I’m super proud of him

@carolbenson6524

2 жыл бұрын

@@beach85 My prayers to your brother...I also pray for Dylan to be at peace. I pray for Dylan and Gannon Stauch who were both killed by rotten humans. We are thankful for people like your brother.

I also think that killing Dylan could have been an act of revenge. This case reminds me of the Ancient Greek tragedy Medea, who also killed her children in order to seek revenge against her husband. Even though she was the mother and not the father, the elements of shame, hatred and revenge are the same. It’s an incomprehensible act, however I believe that many couples who are in acrimonious divorce often use their own children to hurt each other, obviously not rising to the level of murder, yet still cruel. 😕 Thank you as always Dr. Grande.❤️

@cottontails9003

2 жыл бұрын

Rejane ,I thought I knew history but you surpassed me. Love your comment, please keep them coming. Thank you.

@rejaneoliveira5019

2 жыл бұрын

@@cottontails9003 That’s so kind of you, thank you!😊 I also enjoy your comments, I may not read all the posts in this section but I make sure I read yours every time.😉

@LDiamondz

2 жыл бұрын

@@rejaneoliveira5019 That Chapter did a great job with this case, as well. Included videos of everyone mentioned, and some different content. Have you seen it? If not, you might want to take a look. It's incredibly informative, and Mike has a great sense of humor! Great comment, btw.

@rejaneoliveira5019

2 жыл бұрын

@@LDiamondz Thank you so much!😊 No, I haven’t seen it. Thank you for the suggestion, I will check it out now:)😉

@rejaneoliveira5019

2 жыл бұрын

@@LDiamondz I just finished watching that video on TC, omg those photos!!😱😨🤢 Great recommendation though, I enjoyed the video but certainly can’t unseen those pictures.😅😜

I love Dr Grandes sense of humor so much. "You can differentiate these types of bears because they're holding bleach". Lol

@alexrose8299

2 жыл бұрын

I laughed so hard when I heard this because he was so serious

@mollygreenspan

2 жыл бұрын

@@alexrose8299 It gets me everytime!

@thousandyardgavri2785

2 жыл бұрын

@@alexrose8299 I love how he sounds very serious

Always a "like" before a listen for Dr. Grande. 😎👍

@aileenburke4667

2 жыл бұрын

Right? I automatically “like “ before even watching!

@suryadas6987

2 жыл бұрын

@@aileenburke4667 😎👍

LMAO Dr. Grande "so i guess his attorney was considering experiencing both sides of the criminal justice system - probably just as research to be a better attorney"

This is one of the saddest cases I’ve ever followed. Dylan’s poor mother. I don’t know how she manages to go on.

@EyeLean5280

2 жыл бұрын

Oh dear, thanks for the warning. I think I'll skip this one.

Log assisted attack. Phhhft! The details and how everything is delivered so deadpan despite it being ridiculous makes this channel worth while.

@r.f.pennington746

2 жыл бұрын

From the man who brought us bleach cleaning bears.

@heatherbrenner8275

2 жыл бұрын

Better than Newheart lol

This one made me cry a little. Such a young person, likely killed by a parent due to uncontrolled rage and spite. Really sad to think of his mother wanting to protect him from his father, but ultimately being unable to keep him out of harm's way. Her anguish must have been intense.

Those photos sound absolutely insane.

@jessepitt

2 жыл бұрын

Watch That Chapters coverage of this case, the pictures are hilariously disgusting.

@kemeee5407

2 жыл бұрын

DO NOT LOOK AT THE PICTURES. I MADE THAT MISTAKE!!

@LDiamondz

2 жыл бұрын

@@jessepitt Oh, I saw those pics on That Chapter, too. Disgusting, though some were dumb-funny. Mike did a great job with this case. Lots of info.

@Sara-9865

2 жыл бұрын

I made the mistake of looking and I feel some kind of second hand or third hand embarrassment I wish I didn’t feel

@maudemathildeh335

2 жыл бұрын

I saw them on Reddit very disturbing to say the least.

@8:44 “embarrassing images” is the understatement of the century 😳

"Mark of course was free to do what ever he wanted as far as apparel AND DINING PREFERENCES" Blahhhhhhhhh! No, No, No, Nooooo! Why'd you have to go there Dr. G?.... Why!!!!???? 😂😂😂😂

@MusicLeeSarah

2 жыл бұрын

🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤣🤣🤣

@sashafierce9879

2 жыл бұрын

This man is hilarious

@sashafierce9879

2 жыл бұрын

I haven't heard that. Send me a timestamp so I can hear the apparel and dining joke.

@regressmenot

2 жыл бұрын

​@@sashafierce9879 12:30 Watch the full video next time, you get more information and enjoyment by watching all of the content provided for FREE.

@sashafierce9879

2 жыл бұрын

@@regressmenot i did watch the entire video for free. Wait not really cause im a KZread premium subscriber. I just didn't catch it cause I was feeding my 4 dogs and letting them out and feeding my 2 year old.

"I guess it could've been one of those notorious bears who break into houses without causing damage, kill people with blunt objects, attempt to clean up the crime scene, then dispose of the bodies." Of course they carry around bleach duhhhhh

"Dining preferences" 🤣 lol thank you Dr Grande for always being there to making me laugh

Dr Grande I'm "BEYOND" happy that your covering this case !!.......you really are the best speculator on KZread.

@quotidian5077

2 жыл бұрын

Same. This happened in Vallecito near my hometown.

‘That Chapter’ is a great sister channel to this channel.

Forcing a child to stay with a debased disgusting man is appaling. If the mother knew about the photographs couldn't she have got a court order to protect her son?

@Kaylee-Renee

2 жыл бұрын

Nope. If it doesn't involve the child or put the child at risk then courts dont care about weird kinks adults have. They should of listened to the child and what he wanted though

@kemeee5407

2 жыл бұрын

I'm pretty sure, from what I've read previously, that the brother's kept the pictures a secret. I don't believe they told their Mom....I could be wrong....

@tnntlmmn277

2 жыл бұрын

parents don't actually like their children.

@lindsaybeyerstein7096

2 жыл бұрын

@@kemeee5407 But if Elaine Redwine’s friends knew about the pictures, it stands to reason that the word was out.

@cottontails9003

2 жыл бұрын

No the judge's in Australia, if the child is 12years and older ,will some times ask the child who would they want to live with. If there's abuse,the child will have sole custody of the children. If there is no abuse the judge with grant visitation rights, but they need too have a 3rd person to stay and watch. In Australia most of the time it's 50-50 custody. Meant to say the parent will have sole custody.

thank you for pointing out how to tell the difference between regular and assassin bears.

This is REALLY one of the saddest cases you have covered - and you have covered some sad cases. You did an exemplary breakdown as always but I just wish Dylan was listened to when he was alive😔

This case haunts me. Truly. Once again, looking forward to your analysis and thoughts on this case and this terrible father. Also, I want to just say "thank you" for all of your recent content! You and a couple of other of my favorite youtubers have helped me get through the past several days since being diagnosed with Covid19. I have been able to watch a lot of great videos to help keep my mind busy, (when I'm not sleeping!) Covid has been really rough for me. Keep staying as safe as you can, everyone! It's worth it.

@clearwoodcouk

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you recover completely, and quickly. It's a horrible disease, I wish SOME people didn't have to catch it to find that out. Best wishes from Scotland!

@amsel256

2 жыл бұрын

Best wishes from germany i hope you get well soon💪

@countryhippiechick4466

2 жыл бұрын

@@clearwoodcouk Thank you so very much. I couldn't agree with you more. It's frustrating when people don't take this disease seriously. It's been very hard, both physically and emotionally. It's very scary. Very unpredictable day to day as well. You think you're turning a corner, then BAM! Some other symptoms show up and it's another set back. Stay safe, it's not over yet. Not even close. ❤️🙏

@eileenkyle7892

2 жыл бұрын

Eileen UK. Sending my love and best wishes to you. 🌹💜

@countryhippiechick4466

2 жыл бұрын

@@amsel256 Thank you very much for the kind words. I truly appreciate them. I love Dr. Grande's Subs. ☺️❤️🙏

When he sent his older brother the text message saying " Hey send me those poop pics of papa, he said yall were a bad influence, I want to show him what he really is". I lost in in laughter. I know this isnt funny but that part alone had me rolling on the floor

Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating on what could be happening with a cross-dressing craphound like this.

My broken heart goes out to the mother, my best friend lost her young son to leukemia 2 years ago, watching and being alongside her grief has changed me forever. I can’t imagine losing a child, let alone in such a brutal way.

@TheGrmany69

2 жыл бұрын

My grand father did, it destroyed the family.

@stormyskyz4251

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheGrmany69 I’m so sorry for your family’s loss and devastation. I wish nothing but the best for your family.

I like the jab about the "Assassin Bears", very nice.😆😁🤪

"I don't know if there is really an upside to memorializing that particular diaper related incident" 😂😂

So sad that this young man was robbed of his life. Haunting case.

Dude even looks like a super bad person…he’s one of those people that looks like he has meanness just oozing out of him.

@elizabeth2621

2 жыл бұрын

Slurs are definitely in his vocabulary

I thought those assassin bears only lived near the Urals?! Oh no....

Omg you humor is off the charts! Dwl@ differentiating between the bears!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣. I wish you worked in psych department at my hospital!

But now everyone knows about him/his story.

@MassEffectGER

2 жыл бұрын

The Streisand Effect, in a gruesome way.

"... probably just trying to understand both sides of the justice system". That's classic dry humor. Gotta love him.😂

So unbeliveble and sad....and disgusting. What a shame He blamed it on the poor bears.😡

I just can't get over Mark Redwine eating... you know what. I can't fathom anyone doing that. Cringe!

@janiceball8431

2 жыл бұрын

I know, so gross 🤮

@wandacole5784

2 жыл бұрын

My stupid ass look up the photos it is repulsive and nauseating to look up.☹

@LDiamondz

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, That Chapter did a great job with this case. You might like it. Has some additional info, and photos of many things. Some might be a bit disgusting, but others seem kind of funny to me.

@sdsurfgirl60

2 жыл бұрын

@@wandacole5784 wouldn't it be nice if we could un-see certain things? And if memories would stay where you put them?

"We are all suspects in this case" is my new goto response to all criticism.

Always enjoy your analysis of these cases so much !!!

I'm very thankful you covered this case; again, it is so sad that these types of disagreements lead to what is so tragic. It is good to have your insight, so that it may be prevented in the future. Thanks, Dr. Grande.

Thank you - for your delivery of the subject matter you cover on your stream (and I thoroughly appreciate the dark humor)

The calm and steady voice that is relaxing to listen to paired with the absolutely cutting shade thrown. You are amazing.

Good afternoon Dr. Grande! Counting the hours until I can sit back and enjoy the video:)🙂

Your voice makes me happy❤️Good day, Dr. G😊

This guy's humor and his approach to his humor with these cases give me a good laugh he's actually deep down low key hilarious LOL and informative and smart so keep it up bro

Pic at left is 20 miles south of Durango. Dr. Grande has innovated yet another way to analyze true crime questions and I’m ❤️ing how deftly Dr. G’s new narrative form for the Redwine content puts mental health down to another possible factor rather than the main factor in violent behavior. Thank you for being so smart and fair in your work, Dr. G.

That horrible that he killed his son for that liking him and to get revenge on Elaine. Great video Dr Grande!!! Hope you are having a great day!!!

Thanks for the update, I know a bit of this case from another channel (True Crime recaps) was really disgusted by his dad 's poop fetish, it haunted me for days

He killed Dylan out of embarassment and wanting his secret to die with him . Or to prevent further spread of the photo. Maybe he was unaware of how many people had it.

Thanks Dr. Todd, love your story telling.

Also its almost comforting hearing what you think happened in an event or situation...as we all are trying to figure these things out...especially when it's the murder of a child. Cant understand how a human being can kill their own child. Again...I hope Dylan's father rots away. Thanks again.

Elaine Redwine wisely chose to divorce this miserable human and tried to protect her children by keeping her sons away from their father . It always seems that few people believe women when they speak about the violence and degradation that goes on at home . Much of the murderer's behaviour is consistent with narcissism and other issues . Many divorced men use the kids to punish the ex partner and what works better than disposing of him ? This is certainly a case where one person's 'rights' should not have held sway over the courts .

Very good video. I did laugh at the "dining preference" and the bear analogy, that was great and lifted a small bit of this grim story off me. I think your analysis is correct. Heat of the moment striking out and then double shame on him for the fetish AND the murder of his own son. Sadly I don't think he is capable of fully owning his actions. Mental health is a very bizarre universe unto itself. Rest in peace Dylan, you didn't deserve this.

As usual, your analysis was spot on. Thank you Dr Grande.

Dr. Grande I think you hit the nail on the head. Great job on your summation. I totally agree with the way you believe things went down. I love the way you took one thing after another and addressed it. Great job. I subscribed because I think you did a wonderful job on this. A plus.

My heart breaks for Dylan.

Confronting Mark with the photos sealed Dylan's fate.

Another Fabulous Video Dr.!! Thank You Sooo Much!! Have a Wonderful Day!!!

Dr. Grande I think you got the nail on the head. Great job on your summation. I totally agree with the way you believe things went down. I love the way you took one thing after another and addressed it. Great job. I subscribed because I think you did a wonderful job on this. A plus,

What a horribly tragic case! Dillon's wishes should have been respected and then granted! So many unimaginable things in this case! Really enjoyed your thoughts on this, and your great wit is always appreciated! ♡

This video is so well done and straightforwardly clear. Good stuff doc.

So glad that you've been slowly covering all the cases I've been discovering and watching! Hearing your coverage and analyses always brings the most interesting aspects to these sad crimes. Thank you! "Assassin bears!" Where else would I hear this?😄

I’m going to be blunt when I first found your videos I thought you were boring but now I love when you throw in a snarky comment like assassin bears or joke still in mono tone that’s the best part now I watch you all the time! Keep it up! 😊

Ohhhh I've been waiting for you to cover this case!!!!! And of course you didn't disappoint!

@aeulogyforsociety2375

2 жыл бұрын

Log assisted attack

@aeulogyforsociety2375

2 жыл бұрын

Probably just his research to be a better attorney

@aeulogyforsociety2375

2 жыл бұрын

Assassin bears!!

@aeulogyforsociety2375

2 жыл бұрын

Dinning preferences!!

"Bear Assassin!" Menu Preferences! Top of your game, Dr. G! 🐾🐻

Dr. Grande, I am hooked on your story telling and analictic style!! Not to mention your humor and sarcasm!! I would really like to hear your take on the truly sad crime of the Roger's mother and her two daughters that went to Florida and had the misfortune to meet with Oba Chandler!!

I find it very ironic that in most interviews he clearly has "PINK EYE". How nasty can one be??🤢🤮

@amandanegrete1306

2 жыл бұрын

You could very well be right, I don’t know. I always thought MR was a bottom of the barrel alcoholic and his eyes like that from tremendous alcohol consumption. Could be both really, he seems like the kind of drunk with no concern for hygiene or illness. He’s so very foul.

“Differentiated from normal bears, by carrying around bleach” 🤣👍🏻

Hey Dr. Grande. Thanks for todays upload.

@theresar4617

2 жыл бұрын

Those sneaky John Wick assasin bears...

@theresar4617

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for my daily approval from you also :) you are very nice to give them.

Eating feces from a diaper. Dr. G. Please give us your analogy of this😆

Love Dr Grande's specifications without breaking out in raged laughters about the unusual assasination bears who are skilled to break into houses without leaving traces and also carry bottles of bleach. It sort of remind me of the businessowners who have this breed of dogs that can get into safe places and munch up years of result- and balancesheets.

I went to Fort Lewis College in Durango, Colorado. Ellan Redwine was my financial advisor at the college. She was so nice. It breaks my heart this happened to her. They found the son and arrested the dad...

I love it when Dr.Grande and That Chapter cover the same case.

Thank you!!!!!!!! For doing this one!!!!!

I am so glad you analyzed this case. I lived in CO at the time and my son is the same age as Dylan. We were in a similar situation with a very uncooperative, vindictive father/co-parent. It was highly contentious and frightening. My son constantly came home with untreated injuries or in the midst of severe asthma attacks that ended up requiring hospital admissions. But the courts wouldn't listen, and just like this case, I still had to send him to his father. This case hit me hard. My greatest fear. It is so sad that we are placed in the position of having to send our children into dangerous situations. I don't know about other states, but the CO courts are notorious for not listening/taking mothers seriously about these issues. I always told my ex that until he could love our son more than he hated me I would never trust him as a parent. This case is exactly why. Just heartbreaking. 💔😥

Great. Now I’m afraid of Assassin Bears..

@whoisharo4689

2 жыл бұрын

Lol

Here is a question I have to pose to Dr. Grande. I am what you may call a "recovering narcissist." Some life issues caused me to become self aware of my lifetime of narcissism, and I've been seeing myself and the world in a different light. I've treated my spouse and others badly, being deep in the narcissistic frame of mind. I'm looking for ways to heal and understand things, but...I see dozens of videos on youtube about how to leave the narcissist, beat the narcissist, defeat the narcissist, survive the narcissist, disarm the narcissist, shut down the narcissist, have revenge on the narcissist, crush the narcissist, destroy the narcissist, make the narcissist suffer forever (lots of videos on that one), and yes, kill the narcissist. It is very hard to find anything to help the narcissist change their ways. Can you please offer some insight into helping the narcissist to recover? I have read that it is rare for a narcissist to be self aware enough to change their ways, but can you offer anything on the spiritual battle of leaving your own narcissistic ways behind?

@wmdkitty

2 жыл бұрын

"Recovering", but it's still all about you, you, you.

@johntudor1828

2 жыл бұрын

@@wmdkitty Thank you Shawna Burt

@kieransoregaard-utt8

2 жыл бұрын

@@wmdkitty Idiotic comment, of course it’s about him, he’s asking for help for HIMSELF. Yet you made it about YOUR dig at him, sounds like you’re the real narcissist

@kieransoregaard-utt8

2 жыл бұрын

I would suggest 2 things, cognitive behavior therapy (there’s a very helpful book called Thoughts and Feelings by McKay/Fanning. Not all of it will apply, but a lot of it will help) and studying the techniques of a former FBI agent named Robin Dreeke. He has man techniques for taking the focus off oneself and putting it on other people. I think it takes a lot of practice to change our behavior but with lots of repetition, it sinks in and becomes reflexive. Good luck

deeply disturbing case. thank you for covering it in the wonderful way that you do.

Eileen UK. Thank you 🙏 so much for covering this I was hoping you would. I absolutely agree with you he should never have went on that show. Poor Dylan he didn’t want to see his father if a child gets to that point he shouldn’t be forced to the system let him down. I don’t have to say anymore DR Grande your analysis is spot on as usual. Love the shirt definitely one ☝️ of my favourites. Thank you 🙏 for another great 👍 analysis what can I say awesome 😎💙

Wasn’t easy but you once again addressed this case with your usual tact and grace. Still not dinner conversation. 🙊

Hehe love how you call it the “Phil McGraw show.” That man isn’t helping anyone!

Thank you for covering this.

Excellent analysis Dr Grande, esp regarding motivation for the homicide

He should have argued that the blood was actually red wine

Excellent analysis Dr Grande!! I agree with you all accounts. My heart goes out to the mother and brother. What a weirdo! She should have left him sooner and not had two boys.

What a disgusting crime, carried out by a disgusting person. That poor little boy, forced against his will to visit his father. Pity for the mother and brother left behind 😞🇬🇧

How anybody can murder their own child and then decapitate the body and scatter the seperate body parts , is really beyond my understanding ..........

"The Phil McGraw Show" ooo shots fired