Sarah you cut through all the noise and fluff on the internet. You my dear are so wise and I really enjoy these intuitive chats more than the astrology. I like how you've been leaning into them more. Curious if you thought of offering coaching? You would be great at it!

@Sarah_Vrba

3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much, Stephanie! I do think about getting back into those offerings as my energy starts feeling ready again.

I heard the word BRAZEN in my dream for the first time, when I googled it, it means being bold without shame. I’m taking the space I need at this time, wildly accurate! Wow ❤😮 I also felt called to watch this video right now before bed. My high intuition, fire, and living spirit is doing its thing! 🍃🙌🏽

You described it so well, so beautifully, and now I know I’m not alone. This subject is not talked about enough, and certainly not in the way you worded it. I’m in an inbetween space, everything in my life was swept away and I’m terrified. Sometimes I keep trying to push, sometimes I feel expansive, and other days I’m catatonic. There’s a lot of different emotions and different perspectives constantly morphing through me. Manifestation gurus urge us to find more clarity, they seem so sure of themselves. I’m not right now, but I’m sure as hell that I put in the inner work the last couple of years. Thank you so, so much for bringing new meaning to this for me, and helping me to understand that I don’t have to always understand.

@melissabrookedehart

3 ай бұрын

I hear you my friend. I felt a similar energy with Sarah’s words today. Your comment is overflowing with raw wisdom, and deep intuition. Thank you for sharing these feelings here in this community, with such an open heart, for a fellow soul like me to read. Sending hugs, dear friend. We’re all in this together❤

@lesleymcmillan1893

3 ай бұрын

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@Sarah_Vrba

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for these thoughts! It helps so much to share in this feeling together!

A deeply intuitive sharing, Sarah, I don't have the language to explain how it resonates so truly in my heart. I am a ceramic artist and I have been sitting in a dead zone of no creativity for a long time now. February was powerful in how a washing away of old sorrows in abundant letting go, maybe, occurred. I am so grateful to be able to listen to your notes and your wisdom for it has continually moved the duckweed so I can see the sky in all its blueness. Many blessings. 💛🧡💚💜

These comments! The poem! This Pisces season is finding me in a deep and dark place of transformation that I have not visited in a long time. On one hand, I have more self awareness and am taking better care of myself than ever. But on the other, I still feel deeply lost, sad and uncertain. My body and mind are in transition and I pray I can find my way back to being at peace and in some semblance of balance again soon. In the meantime, I will try and surrender to what is out of my control and am reminded when listening that we are not alone in this seemingly solitude journey and all lovingly connected by the mysterious forces of the universe. This gentle and wonderful little corner of space you have created for us sensitive souls to gather is an absolute gift of peace and safety in this increasingly overwhelming world. Thank you Sarah, and all you other lovely people in the comments who have touched my heart today. We need eachother and are going to be ok, one day at a time . Today, I will do my best to honor my need for rest and may you all do the same 💖🙏🏼 Many blessings, Courtney

I love this, and I am so grateful for your videos, Sarah. You are always shining a new, soft, loving light on my path through this season of night. Here is something that came up for me as I sit with these words. I read once about how it often feels like being a trapeze artist. One moment, you are holding onto one bar, flying through the air with a grip on things, then in one scary moment you have to let go of the first bar, so that you can free up your hands to grasp the new one. That in-between space, where we fly through the air is so frightening and unsure. Often in life, we are just flying through the air and praying for the next bar to show up for the next grasp. But then, always, the next solid bar somehow emerges, firm and available to be held onto and trusted. I’m sending appreciation to you Sarah, and to everyone. Be well all❤

I’ve been sitting and it hasn’t been pretty. A lot of tears and regret. I’ve been even taking therapy. I don’t know, it’s not working for me. I feel like I actually need to push forward but I’m at a standstill with sadness. I’m letting go but I feel like my future is so unknown.

Beautifully said Sarah. I am right there with you. I have been in the liminal space for months. I think this energy and time is calling us do just that. It's time to integrate what we have learned and experience. Allow ourselves time and space & be open to the process. Allow the process to unfold and find that balance of riding the waves. This is where our inner wisdom can come through. It takes a lot of deprogramming from all that you spoke about. We have to remember who we are and that the Universe loves and supports us. First there is letting go, then releasing, then surrender. All with trust and self compassion. Perfect cards! There are no failures, only lessons and feedback for growth.

Thank you for being a soothing presence through this challenging phase. ❤😊

Oh Sarah, I’m in tears. This, all of this I’ve been feeling. It’s been so isolating because in one way I’m aware of all that I’m integrating (I even asked spirit to please slow it down for me). As I learn acceptance of where I am and how I’m changing, the world and everyone around me can’t seem to let the masked Mel go. To play into their acceptance feels like I’m betraying myself, and honoring myself feels like I’m letting everyone else down. I’m only “acceptable” if I do things that make them feel good, but what about what I need, what my energy needs, what about honoring what transforming in me. I need to stay in that self-honoring place but I also know that I may loose the people I love. That’s the hardest part Sarah. I feel like I’m meeting a new person, with new self understandings, realizations of the way my energy is wired, learning to accept myself and find belonging in myself. This is massive, but I can’t even explain the magnitude of this to anyone. I feel like I am the entire universe and to them, I’m not vast enough. If they only knew the energy it takes to hold that vision, that image of me that spirit sees and yet still be told I’m inadequate somehow.

so good to see and hear you. my mantra now "march winds , blow away the old beliefs, identities patterns.."

Your words have this amazing effect on me, Sara. My mind, which so often is hyper active, starts to feel calm and clear. I leave this video with a feeling of wanting to be really gentle and take care of myself. Thank you so much ❤

Sarah, it was helpful that you mentioned the 8-year-cycle. I had been exploring that theme earlier. Recently I found a box of photos, journal entries, and notes from 8 years ago. It was a magical encounter which rekindled a compassion for myself and the beautiful, sometimes crazy journey which, in the midst of it, appears to stop and start. Yet, from the soul's perspective it's all just flow. Thank you for being vulnerable in your chats, it creates a space for all of us to be honest.

Thank you so much, dear Sarah. This has been one of the most relatable messages ever. It was such a breath of fresh air when you said that you have been experiencing this for the past two years… so have I in various ways that seem to all blur into each other. I am so grateful you provide this space of reminding us of the inner wild knowing we already have. Looking back at these past two years, not one step has been a waste. While at times many of us might have worried or doubted the “use” of much of it, I am beginning to trust and see that every single step had beautiful significance. March to me feels like a perception shift of priorities. I feel like I am finally letting go of who I want to be, and finally accepting and loving all that I am in this moment. Thank you, fellow blobs 💗☀️🌈

Retreat into my own inner journey ~ this is what March is meaning to me. THAT POEM... Oh, my, goodness. I was deeply moved by those words and their meanings. I have been giving me to myself. I have pulled away from the normal pace and pressure of what I think I MUST do. I have been giving time to myself. Reflecting. Allowing change to occur. Remaining in the process. Giving myself time in the not knowing. Sleeping without guilt or consternation. Not punishing or condemning myself for not doing, going, making things happen, and being productive. Taking my time... I actually hugged a blooming tree today. It was blissful. I could feel its wisdom and buzzing energy providing nectar for the bees, bursting in full bloom. Ahhhh... gentle appreciation for the quiet moment of connection. True peace. Thanks again Sarah!

Beautiful words, my soul is comforted!!!! Thank you for expressing the shared experiences of our collective unconsciousness (or consciousness!) 💜💜💜

What I do is briefly scroll google news I dont lose sleep over the soap of harry and megan they are adults they need to take care of themselves and grt a real job obviously the king doesnt want them to screw things up. I have my unique creative life of writing poems, short stories, writing pen pals in different countries, I practice an Advanced Meditation and my progress is rewarding. I cant stop forest fires or earth quakes but I can become a more peaceful and Creative me. I dont need to watch the daily stressful breaking news that only triggers the fight or flight response. I can sit comfortably and close my eyes and enjoy my program and I can say some sincere prayers to the Creator of the Universe. Enjoy March and the beginnings of Spring, in spanish its primavera> the first truth

Sarah holding the Queen of Wands is powerful. I feel the energy she is communicating.

I, too have channeled let it go with a group of spiritual friends. We are infinitely collapsing timelines to come home into ourselves. Letting go of what we thought reality was giving way to what truly is.

Oh my goodness Sarah. I voice the strenght in your voice of claiming our right to rest and process. Thank you.

"Buzzing" is how I am feeling as I moved into March. Thank you for your work, and for sharing this wonderfully in tune poem by Mary Oliver 💜

Looking ahead at March is equally exciting but also overwhelming. A lot of change and all the tasks to gear up for a season of travel while also feeling anticipation for the mystery.

This is EXACTLY how I have been feeling. It’s so nice to know I am not alone and energetically this is where the world is at and it’s not just me. Thank you so much for sharing this message!😊

Thank you Sarah! This is the healing magic of Pisces season. We get to purge and cry but also learn such a love for ourselves that only the divine can teach us 💕 loved this video!

A serious transmuter.. that's how I feel this month

The word I've been feeling lately is liberated! Staying on my own path. I had a baby 8 months ago and feeling so much on such deep levels all the time. Every choice I've made from pregnancy and birth and now raising our daughter has been counter cultural. It's been one of the hardest things but the most amazing! I feel unleashed and so much freer than I ever thought was possible. I haven't wavered or come off of my path and I've followed my inner knowing, trusting my intuition. There has been so much I've had to burn away and so much learning all the time. Thank you Sarah for speaking your truth and sharing this intimate space with us all. You have such a delicate yet straight cutting to the point way about you. Keep doing what you're doing! 💚

Every word, yes. ❤ I will be listening to this over and over. I gave myself permission to completely unplug and rest this weekend, and every chance I get. Not knowing, uncertainty, exhausted, anxious, i have started 3 new pt jobs with their learning curves and pushing so hard “not to fail” at any of them. You had such words of wisdom. I want to let go of my old and dear people pleaser and perfectionist and do what feels right for me no matter how good it is on paper. Wow you are so attuned the the energies I am going through, we are going through. So grateful for your guiding light Sarah. Take care all❤ best wishes. This has been a very intense time.

Sarah, I haven’t even begun the video yet. But, thank you so so so much for this video. I just got my food, parked my car in a serene location and anticipated the arrival of a calming youtube video to watch, and here you are. ❤

thankyou for this, Sarah! ❤ Like you, I've been on what I feel is a 'death journey' since 2020. (Midlife transits of the Pluto square, Neptune square, Saturn stuff all at once). Being in a sort of fog or mystery is the norm it seems but its getting easier as I get used to it. I appreciate your articulation of navigating the mystery. Also, love the Tarot cards you pulled. I think of the words 'inner sovereignty' when I see Queen of Wands, and embodying that energy is so powerful in aligning with what feels right for us no matter what others think. She never lets me down! ❤

That poem… 💛 it’s everything and so full of beauty and knowing. March for me is always endings and beginnings, this year it’s moving house, making a new beautiful space and clearing out physical and emotional baggage I don’t need to carry any more. It’s expansive and refreshing yet I feel a more flowing gentle energy (listening to your video really helps this!) thank you Sarah 🌎

Also I’m loving the honesty and cinematic approach on the intro. I love seeing creativity blossom ❤

Sarah , I can so relate to this , very much in that space of needing to initiate a major change but just finding it so hard to feel my way through it all , and have been in this limbo like space for what feels like years now! I do think that things are shifting though, and have definitely been experiencing that sense of just having to let go and go with the flow this Pisces season. ‘The journey’ is one of my favourite poems. Thank you 💕💕💕

I’m right there with ya, couldn’t agree more on this energy. Thank you again for speaking your truth. I feel like I’ve been in a cocoon for a while, in the darkness; growing, changing, dreaming. This moment of reflection in Pisces season has allowed for growth that I don’t even know the full implications yet. Your message gives me strength to keep going inward, and not get distracted by the messaging around me. It’s been a lot of hard work these past 2 years to get to where we are but now it’s time to do the homework that really counts! It’s scary to leave the old ways behind and travel into new territory, but this is the only way to truly free our soul🌛Journey safe and well, light seekers. Thanks again Sarah ❤

February is feeling as you described for March. As a Cappy rising, Sag Sun, Pisces Moon, I am learning how to walk again, literally, with Pluto’s transit. Also facing economic reversal situation now, but somehow, in all that, I feel as if I’m being held and carried, emotionally and physically, by something much much larger than words can explain. Otherwise, I would have disintegrated. And I get what you’re saying about not trying to push the river. Thank you for your insight and inspiration. You’re amazing.

I love your magic - Sarah - Thank you.

Transition~!!! Having to make a big decision , that will totally change my life. The fear, the unknowing, yet the realization of the next chapter will bring me to the next level of me. Thank you, Sarah, I love when you .. makes us feel not alone.

Oh Sarah, i’m grateful for your intuitive guidance video per usual. I have been feeling this deep mixture of the ending in the beginning, and how they swirl together sometimes I don’t know if I’m at the tail or the mouth which reminds me of the garland around the world card, which looks like an aurabourus symbol. But in someway that gives me some sort of hope, that there will be something after this. I’ve been doing my best to try to feel the balance between the action and the in action, and not grip so hard on holding onto some dream so that I can’t see what’s in front of me. Finding acceptance in a little moments, Peace, the joy of ecstatic movement, and really listening to myself speak. I’m guessing, You probably understand this last part because you also share your inner world with others. Grateful for you and your videos that help. Remind me that I can be soft and that’s OK too. Sending you love and light.❤

I literally had Chipotle for lunch on Sunday, but that's not what's important here, lol. I have been on a 8-year cycle with the end of erasing myself for the sake of others. Spring 2016 things started changing for me. I no longer want to be the one who bends to fit, fixes all the messes, absorbs the extra, and is 100% all the time.

.....And you gave tribute to Mary Oliver so beautifully~~~That would be a sincere wish for all of us~~~

I am so tired of noise and distractions. I crave for peace . I am also ambivalent. Numb . ..the poem made me cry .

I ask myself constantly if I'm just being ungrateful. At the same time, fed up with a stubbornness to not let go either. Yet also not know what kind of plan to make or which action to follow. My routines feel suffocating. Oh dear! 😊 💥🩷

@ericmcclanahanpws8793

3 ай бұрын

I don't know your story but it's been a brutal last 5 or so years. But I am coming to the end now.

Thank you so much Sarah. This chat was a gift.

I love the calm you bring. You have a very soothing disposition. I am giving myself the permission and compassion that I need more rest, and I am allowed to. I listen to my body, and I am starting to work with it in harmony. ❤✌️

relating to every single part of this reading and I'm deeply thankful that you are able to vocalize this experience that feels so hard to describe. transition is the major word and I know there is beauty on the other side of it but similarly, it has felt like something that has been happening for me for two years and seems like there is more to go and i am tired but i also know that what i find on the other side will be invaluable

Ryan Hurd is a dream researcher and he’s a great connect for someone like you! :)

Wow. Will need to listen more than once. Felt this in my soul. I feel so much less alone knowing I’m not the only one going through what feels like a crazy leap of faith. I don’t know what’s gonna happen, and i LOVE IT

Tired, confused, unknowing....all the above~~~~You my dear are the ‘cozy shelter amidst the blizzard outside’~~Bless You~~~❤️🙏🏼🌎💫

@Sarah_Vrba

3 ай бұрын

That means so much to me! So glad we can share a little bit of the journey together!

I love you and I see you! ❤️ Thank you for providing support always at the exact right time - its pure magic ✨

This video really spoke to my soul. So much gratitude to you and Mary Oliver. Rest, my love. You deserve it.

Sarah I've been feeling so lost, like a failure and like I'm treading water not moving anywhere. Everything you spoke about it is exactly the processes I'm experiencing. Your video has been like a hug for my tender heart. I've sent it around to all of my friends who are also experiencing big change processes at the moment. I really want to do your patreon course xx

@miaheath9580

3 ай бұрын

Thankyou you've helped me find that hopeful larger vision space within myself. Embracing the tension of change whilst also embracing the potential of it whilst holding patience xxx

Feeling this chat big time. It’s important to slow down and go within ! Society is Too fast and demanding. I think I am going to be spending the week in silence or a minimum amount of speaking. And communication. Much love always Sarah

Ending of a 5 year relationship, this breakup feels so different than the rest. I’ve changed internally knowing that all there is is the new chapter whether we want it or not. Thanks 🙏🏼

Yes I’m at that point now. Love you Sarah! 🤍

Girl, girl, girl! You are saying all the things I need to hear. 100% with you! 🎉

Hi Sarah, when you talk about change and tiredness' relation to forging new pathways in our brains, how I've been feeling finally starts to make sense. Thank you

Thank you Sarah! You speak to my soul Sister, and I am SO grateful for your energy and efforts ❤

needed this more than i could express. been on this journey with you for several years now in many parallels, I SEE YOU. thank you for your sage countercultural voice amongst so so much noise. i'm grateful for you. ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

Ugh thank you Sarah. Once again you managed to describe perfectly the shifts taking place deep with in me in the season of life I’m in. I just finished a 6 year cycle of unhealthy chaos. I feel like Un-shedding or Metamorphosis is the word I would use to describe my March. I was definitely resisting a little bit in the beginning of March. Now I’m enjoying taking moments of rest. Like you said that’s when I find the clarity or the muck starts to clear up. I’m so grateful for these little portals you create on KZread they have helped me so much over the years ( since 2018 I believe. I’m 24 now). And i always find my self wondering about you and your channel. So grateful and proud to be witnessing you grow& evolve before our very eyes.( well the parts that you show cuz i respect your privacy lol, rant over)

that poem to end the chat was beautiful and such a perfect contribution to a meaningful conversation! would love for you to share more poems you love when you feel they apply

Commuted -- was the strong 1st word in my mind when asked for the word for March. Feel this with people, places & things; & Energy [Especially in sleep] Loved the poem 📜💝

Yes! I am so feeling that need for change and trying so hard to evolve but I don’t really know what to do. Being open and watching for signs and guidance, asking for signs and guidance 🙏 thank you Sarah ❤️

I always feel like your chats give me such a great insight and validate similar themes I am also experiencing. For me I feel like March holds a lot of groundwork. I have made the decision to change careers and I’m in the season of preparing for the next chapter. It’s exhausting as I am already so burnt out from my current job but I know that this legwork will get me to a much more supportive and aligned space

Life is going through heavy ego death this past and probably next month.

Thank you for this vulnerable sharing, I resonate so much. So many endings and beginnings happening right now, a liminal time. Thanks for bringing your wisdom to the world. The cards are perfect too 💚

I feel this. Don’t know which end is up in this world right now. The things I thought I knew or paths I’ve thought were right seem unsure or up in air. Definitely need to spend the time looking inward. ❤

The vibe for me is knowing my value and refusing to accept anything less. I hope to be an inspiration to all others afraid to do so!

Thank you again for being so real. The liminal state is so challenging and so important. Sitting in it.

Thank you. You just gave me a permission slip to listen to my intuition. ❤

Always love your videos and I stay all the way until the outro because it’s always special and peaceful 😊❤

This was spot on with what’s going on in my life 🎯🎯

Thank you so much for the energy you put into sharing these beautiful messages. Taking time to myself and listening in and just holding space with you feels so comforting and truly does assist manage the ways I flow through my own energy. I feel like March will hold some conflicting energies with where I'm at verses some of those I share space with intimately. Big shifts, some big moves, some new opportunities are already taking shape and although I feel it will bring positive outcomes, there is a different energy in how we're navigating

Thank you, thank you 🙏 for the reminder and reassurance ✨️ Sending 🤍

Oh my god Sarah it's like you looked into my mind and pulled out the thoughts. I haven’t finished watching yet but I needed to reach out and say how much I resonated with this. I'm definitely in that transitional period, putting pressure on myself to move through it as quickly as possible and find the answers, then feeling down when it doesn’t happen. But I'm trying to get comfortable with sitting in the unknown 🙏 I love watching your videos. They are always such a comfort ❤ Much love

This is uncanny. I had a tower moment recently and it's hard but it also feels like a blessing in disguise.

This message was incredible, thank you thank you thank you 🙏🏽

thanks Sara. love this. totally feeling this

@danweberhealing

3 ай бұрын

sarah :)

Aww Sarah, 47seconds in and I am crying already. I dropped my muffin on the floor at the same time as reading “it’s ok to let go” 😅 maybe it’s a sign. I really needed to hear you today, I’ve feel so lost right now and in bed crying, so it’s like you knew! 😅Thank you Sarah for being so reassuring when you also have life to deal with. You the most warmest person I spend time with in any way, thank you sweetie, sending lots of love ☕️😘✨take care 💖

Part of me was listening to you with a bit of nostalgia remembering my 30s and 20s and wishing I had the wisdom you have. The I don’t have a choice resonated because I wonder how many single working moms allow themselves time to sit on the sofa for minutes let alone hours or days ❤❤❤ sending you love… this world is not for the faint of heart. I had my only son at 38 and he just turned 9 it’s been a decade like no other!! Almost indescribably difficult yet beautiful

I just got an interview after a very long journey of starting a second career. I am feeling very hopeful for this month!

Sarah, this is so bang on for me. Last year was huge in terms of 'milestone' events so I've been looking around feeling 'why am I so unmotivated?' and just feeling pressure to go go go in a way that I haven't in a long time. I love that you look at cycles in the long term, I feel that this one has been going for me since late 2014!

@El-lee-nor

3 ай бұрын

Also a word for this time RETREAT

You always say exactly what I need to hear in the moment ♥️♥️♥️

🎉Thankz Sarah 💜

This was beautiful Sarah.

I just received an answer for an art school I wanted to go to, and it's negative so what you say about ends and beginnings really speaks to me and I know is gonna help me thru this new process of finding what I want and what I'm meant to do in this world. I gotta think about me first and stop worrying about my parents worrying about me. I just gotta trust that process and stay loyal to myself mostly. I just hate uncertainty and sometimes it makes me feel so bad I just don't know what to do with that feeling and just want to drown. Yeah that answer kinda hurt me but imma stay strong and bold and confident.

We are in it! Thank you for your poetry :)

I love your chats! I've gotten so good at sitting in the quiet in-between spaces and following my intuition thankfully. It was painful before I figured out how integral that was for me over a decade ago. Also, as I age, I am stepping back from societal norms and success identifiers that never really suited me. I've felt so held by the Universe in doing so. I've never enjoyed my life more and resonated with both cards you drew. I especially identify with the Queen of Wands. Thank you for putting her into words for me. The tarot readings and poem gave me chills. Especially as part of my being true to myself is leaving the chronically ill community I've lovingly served for so long. I'm currently in the process of creating them one final gift. This was so validating and wonderful. I'm grateful for you! ♥️

loved this, thank you Sarah 💜✨

I think I get what u meen by truly letting go, like surrendering to the universe and just step back beacauss things are manifesting for us even if not visible in the physical its in the works but like u said in a world where we are expected to always take action it can feel not enough. Ive found myself chasing too much lately and having to realise by stepping back cause I feel this time like u said is more about lessons and self integration 🙏✨ive been feeling myself feeling in between worlds like you mentioned, looking at alot within

Oh WOW… Thank you, thank you, thank YOU for such a powerful message as an intro to my birthday month ❤❤❤

ya. Feel the same Absolutely. It's been TWO years, but especially strong for two months now. I am very tired, also physically. More physically than mentally. I do feel a difference to 2023 though: I am perceiving this yr as a more positive, somehow I don't know how yet. Don't know what it is that I'm becoming or on the verge of being, but feel an urge to trust, to have faith. I know it's confusing and am really confused as well, but strongly hope that what I have here can help someone

12:29 More more more, more more more, you are only allowed to grow….to 12:50 it drives you to the edge. The Fool !!! I can never have you in the background, for me you are the foreground of the foreground of my soul’s soul. Thanks SVB

Many blessings, beautiful soul 🙏 ❤

I am a house blob yay lol 😂❤😊 I made homemade chocolate pudding for the first time and it’s pretty blobby too. Love this hahaha :) 🎉

Thank you Sarah ❤

This is sooooo scary and also how accurate was every word you said! Thank you! 🙏🏼❤️ I really needed to hear this!

Ooof soo good

indeed Sarah ... it is now the sixteenth. .. and half way through - u just pulled up the tarot. .. 8 yrs also for me ( since sept. 2016 -forr significant changes in my life. thank you Sarah ... you lend a solemn presence and mindfulness as i listen in. .. .yes agreed Not the truth.. the truth.. Sarah.. .you are like Reiki personified. . . Ƹ̵̡⁠Ӝ̵̨̄⁠Ʒ

Thank you so much ❤

♥️ You just know!

Normally this time of year I'd blame this restless feeling on "spring fever" or "cabin fever". However, these current energies feel so incredibly potent. The challenge is being patient through these next couple of months 💖💖💖💝. Thank you so much for the reminder it's okay to sit in the unknowing 🥰.