One of the things I've noticed is that I get way more attention and favorable treatment from others since I lost weight. I get discounts on discounted items at stores from management/cashiers, and more importantly, ppl take me serious overall when I set boundaries w/ them. Sometimes there's little to no consequences for standing up for yourself in general, or being somewhat of a jerk when you look the part of being select to others. Being taken serious is a huge compliment which can go a long way for you. When you do the work you'll be fully present in situations and have the attitude like "everybody wants to see me and I'm loving it." To be fully present in life, you have to be proud of your presence, instead of looking at yourself negatively thru other ppl's eyes and critiquing everything about yourself in a negative way. If you're not proud of who you are you can never own the moment, which is why becoming select draws so much of other ppl's interest/attention onto you favorably.

@Escobaz96

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This is true, I actually try not to be too sarcastic or joke when first meeting ppl b/c I'm taken so seriously.

@maravilloso002

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@@Escobaz96 they think you’re making fun of them. Yeah those ppl can go pound sand from the same box they haven’t grown up from.

@tylerdeshommes8505

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Yoo I really needed this man, preciate it ✊🏿

@rashadbaugh4928

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Beautifully said

Facts, all 📠... ALOT of dudes(myself included) are either JUST on the edge of select or are in the Select based off whether or not we style/groom our hair/facial hair a certain way and carry ourselves with swag/confidence on THAT particular day. I NOTICE 👀 the decent looking white/black vvomen are receptive when I do the ABOVE...and when I DONT they dodge my black aih like the plague🤣. That's just the way the game goes, meh🤷🏿‍♂️

Another strong message to the many men out here who are striving to be select and just need that little extra push on what needs to be done. Shout out to Rom Wills!

Rom is 100% right about this. Men need to cultivate their masculine charisma and fully embrace it.

I wish someone in my life told me this in my early teenage years. I had to fight through life to get to where I'm at today. I'm glad I found your channel in my early 20s. Thank you

Exactly unc I'm glad that you brought that up. I grew up in Philly and it's always been a struggle attracting women. I move to Pittsburgh and the women started to come. I moved to Vegas and even more came. I came back home to Philly after my pop passed away and I got involved with 2 women and it slowed down from there. I'm thinking about moving again because Philly women are rough.

@isaiahb.7956

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I’m from Philly too. I love our sistas, but the dating scene is horrible there. In certain cities, the women are more masculine than in other parts of the country. Typically if it’s high stats of crime present, then the women are more on edge and guarded. So places like Philly, Camden, Baltimore, Brooklyn, Detroit, LA, etc aren’t ideal for long term relationships on average.

@donnelladams8362

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@@isaiahb.7956 Thank You brother I thought I was the only one seeing masculine women. But I just roll with the punches and keep it moving. But much respect to the queens out there.

People thinking you being ‘non select’ and thats it always reminded me of this movie Sky High. Good lesson there. People don’t have thinking skills man

All I needed to do really was just put on some muscle mass, & dress better. Don't mean I walk around in suits all day, I got most of my clothes from Amazon for less than $40 ~ $64 with the exception of my redwing boots which were pretty pricey.

Uncle Rom, I completely agree. Your advice is the reason for a lotta men becoming select lemme tell ya that 🤟💯

@RomWills

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Much love to you Uncle Rom, giving hope to the youngin’s out here like myself. I see I’m select and my girl is all over me. Since I implemented body game, putting on more muscle, her attraction has increased WAY MORE. Im having females come up to me at bars/clubs and compliment my hair, outfit, height. You aint never told a lie Unc’

Another uplifting video from Uncle Rom🙏🏾🔥 we don’t deserve him but I thank God for him.

True you can become select just by changing small details about you such as dressing better and stuff, good video sir !

Peace and love Unc. Always bout building men and women up.

@RomWills

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Totally agreed with this video brother. Keep up the good work!💪🏾💯

✌️👌Rom yes you're 💯% correct about the short Brothers of statue in the taller Brothers of statues because, the R&B singer Prince was 5'2 in height an could magnetized any beautiful fine sexy woman international worldwide without little to no money!

@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485

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My wife loved him I never understood it but it is what it is

It really is just a personal choice. There are plenty of ugly, no good women who find partners and some dudes just don't believe they're good enough?? Get your mind right! ESPECIALLY if you're a decent dude

Got it.Loud and clear.

Fire as usual Unc, peace.

High level of understanding! Appreciate the wisdom og

Im on that road now I’m not messing up

Thanks for the strong message @Rom Wills👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@RomWills

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Tap into that self improvement and discover your Select version. It’s rest in the active Work (Doing & Being)

OG!

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Agreed

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So is being select mentally just mean that u have the abundance mindset or is their more to it?