Manifesting: Why things feel worse before it gets better

Have you noticed that when you ask the universe for more abundance in your life - more money, more love, more connection, more peace, more vibrant health, more freedom...
...usually it's not long before you experience the opposite! And if you've been asking for something that's a big stretch from what you know, the experience is intensely uncomfortable!
In this video I'm talking about why that is, how to move through the process with more ease, and I share a simple energy process to help you clear your energy field of denser energy.
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  • @mindmatters1119
    @mindmatters11193 жыл бұрын

    When you’re levelling up to the higher version of yourself it can be uncomfortable, as is most spiritual growth. But the pay off is worth it. She’s right, perseverance is key.

  • @FraterIgniUmbra-ci7gv
    @FraterIgniUmbra-ci7gvАй бұрын

    For anyone out there that thinks that you MUST constantly be on the vibration of having that thing. I want to tell you that it's bs. Everytime I have manifested anything... It has literally either been in the moment (like a car ride in a town where NOBODY will give out car rides) just imagining being picked up win detail with the feeling of knowing.... Or imagining getting a thing and setting it aside letting it go after that. I have done this with thousands of dollar manifestations at a time, Christmas presents for the kids when I didn't have a dime to my name, food, just by knowing that it's coming and even seemingly possible things like my bank just taking off $400 Dollars owed (which banks don't just do that). Almost Everytime I have manifested something it has been imagined with great enthusiasm and then let go of. No need to worry whether it is coming or not. And if the image comes back into the mind again and doubt comes for a second... Cut it off and say to yourself "I Choose for it to manifest, so I know it will, because that is my freewill choice". No need to pine over it ever.

  • @KAREN-rx9pq
    @KAREN-rx9pq2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Cathy,I'm a 63 year old now and I'm the very best version of myself I'll ever be I'm sure!!! I'm a complete free spirit and feel very light each and everyday I've worked on myself for many years and live in the flow and neutrality of life!! I love my life and wish everyone could have my energy!! I would highly recommend daily/evening affirmations as they really work to create your reality!!! Bless you!!🙏❤️🇬🇧

  • @toasted8432

    @toasted8432

    Жыл бұрын

    This sounds beautiful. I’m 20 now but much later in my life I will move into a little house in the woods near a river and live out my days in the flow of the present moment.

  • @louiseevans8118
    @louiseevans81185 жыл бұрын

    Thats exactly what happened to me. I was feeling great about my goals. Now i got a horrible fever with vomiting so randomly i could feel not just the gunk physically but emotionally too really deep purging. Thank you for this video. Keep up the videos!! :)

  • @BGivka
    @BGivka2 жыл бұрын

    WoW I couldn't understand what's happening with me. Emotions all over the place, and some weird excitement..but not in the usual way..and challenging situations coming up, almost opposite of my desire...

  • @cabaiste

    @cabaiste

    5 ай бұрын

    your comment exactly describes me now, has it improved for you since?

  • @harneiksandhu3916
    @harneiksandhu39162 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Cathy this is what I needed to hear

  • @calliebuttery3615
    @calliebuttery36153 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Cathy it was all going wrong today but I feel so much better now 😊

  • @lauray5495
    @lauray54953 ай бұрын

    Wow! Thank you so much! You spoke to where I am right now, and how to help it. You are great!

  • @Lucida1818
    @Lucida18185 жыл бұрын

    Thank you that was a very clear explanation 😊

  • @cheesy2970
    @cheesy2970Ай бұрын

    Best explanation I've ever heard on this topoc, which I've been researching for years. I learned so much from you in just a few minutes, which I can apply from now. Thank you so much

  • @PersonalGrowthNow
    @PersonalGrowthNow3 жыл бұрын

    Phenomenal insights, as always. Been tuning in for a couple years now. When I feel unsure, I love watching and listening to your essence. 💛

  • @cathyballard4442

    @cathyballard4442

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's so kind, thank you Personal Growth Now 🙏

  • @NadineHarrington
    @NadineHarrington Жыл бұрын

    Perfectly said . . . so helpful . . . thank you. 🌷

  • @MarvinMAl
    @MarvinMAl3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much my friend I appreciate your work

  • @PlannerPerfect
    @PlannerPerfect4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!! This really helped!

  • @Laaea_8
    @Laaea_88 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video, sometimes I forget that the limitations become even more visible in order to get released / heal and not much people talking about this process of manifesting 💜

  • @violinwithcatherine
    @violinwithcatherine3 ай бұрын

    That’s encouraging, thank you ❤

  • @keirakeneallysupermodel560
    @keirakeneallysupermodel5603 жыл бұрын

    This speaks to me so much! Thank you..you explain this in such a different way and wholistic way..I feel resistance lifting off as you speak🙏🏼💖✨

  • @monaharper5574
    @monaharper55742 ай бұрын

    Thank you. So good ❤

  • @graceartsgifts
    @graceartsgifts3 ай бұрын

    Beautiful 😍 Thank you a great reminder ❤😊 God Bless

  • @paige3691
    @paige36912 ай бұрын

    Thank you love💛

  • @adityaranadive2664
    @adityaranadive26644 жыл бұрын

    Thank you😊

  • @WRAWRASWORLD
    @WRAWRASWORLD5 жыл бұрын

    I'm going out in a park to get rid. Of the gunk,and do the washing machine,I manifested abig one a few weeks ago,.loved watching this ,by the way in your new subbie,x

  • @lucybear5600
    @lucybear56008 ай бұрын

    I'm just finding your channel now. Thank you!

  • @yashkosambia3524
    @yashkosambia35243 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much

  • @ivanjaji7578
    @ivanjaji75782 ай бұрын

    Thank you, Cathy

  • @Petespans
    @Petespans Жыл бұрын

    Your words sound so honest. "Let it pass through". Thank you ! Put the conditioner in , hahahaha, brilliant

  • @paullewis7520
    @paullewis75202 ай бұрын

    Thank You 🙏💜

  • @lumb.2565
    @lumb.25653 жыл бұрын

    I really enjoyed this video, and the " washing machine technique", I need a good "wash" 🌝✨🌹

  • @malloriecook9838
    @malloriecook98382 ай бұрын

    Thank u!! ❤

  • @Bebobo444
    @Bebobo4442 ай бұрын

    Watched this I was having a low day and struggling had it on in the background whilst I jornelled as you said write from consciousness I realised I was in fact doing that!!!

  • @barbarastolzenberg527
    @barbarastolzenberg5273 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @gabriellegarrett7152
    @gabriellegarrett71522 ай бұрын

    Yes, this totally happens to me!

  • @marianapuljic3552
    @marianapuljic35523 жыл бұрын

    You’re awesome

  • @Telepathy723
    @Telepathy7234 ай бұрын

    U r very wise

  • @MysticMelody333
    @MysticMelody333Ай бұрын

    I think this is quite interesting that you say this. I started affirming for my SP to be obsessed with me and that he is the best version of him etc and up until that point I’ve had major major movement from him based on my previous affirmations. I got him to ask me out on a date. Suddenly one day last week the old story came up and I reacted and spiralled. I even had bad nightmares and bad sleep that week and I just found out it’s also a part of the purge. Took some days for myself but kept persisting and then 9 days later the old story came up again and this time I was neutral and calm and I was unmoved and unbothered. It brought up a fear I had since my last relationship in 2020. A feeling of unworthiness. I knew this came up again because I had to sit with myself and do the inner work. He is a reflection of my inner state. Each time this came up before I ignored it. But I sat with it last night and observed it and told myself I’m worthy of love no matter what. I was also feeling a bit ill and in general I feel very detached from it all. I feel like all of my fears have dissolved. I know it’s the purge and it’s the final purge too. I also don’t feel like I care at this point. Like nothing he does or say can move me now.

  • @cherryberry7357
    @cherryberry735711 ай бұрын

    please i need to know the mystery behind this why is it everytime i decide on being in a positive vibration and to start accepting my life as it is and try to stay fullfilled in my desires something bad happens right after I decide this like not even joking the next day i find myself in a bad situation or a bad mood or bad sometimes what so ever i really am struggling I decided to start fillfull my desire of having money and to feel wealthy like two days ago and now guess what I’m literally going through a financial break idk what am i doing wrong it’s crazy. And nott even financial but even physically like i try to manifest physical appearance improvement and change and all of a sudden i start to notice break outs in my skin and my skin becomes pale and i look way worse than before i decide to actually accept myself….

  • @johncletus369

    @johncletus369

    3 ай бұрын

    Same thing is happening to me

  • @athenafearon3853

    @athenafearon3853

    2 ай бұрын

    Same with me,but it's just a test from the universe.That means your manifestion is nearly here

  • @everythingsgonnabeokay5908
    @everythingsgonnabeokay5908Ай бұрын

    i know all my desires are coming 😊

  • @crystalwhxre2496
    @crystalwhxre2496 Жыл бұрын

    i've been tyring to manifest my sp and really bad things have been happening regarding 3rd parties but i keep persisting and I will not stop!! I know the universe is here for me.

  • @emmabellaqueen

    @emmabellaqueen

    Жыл бұрын

    Any updates?

  • @Ambrosia_144

    @Ambrosia_144

    Жыл бұрын

    You need to have the belief that there is no 3rd party anymore. When you manage this and persist, that person will vanish form your reality and you win back your SP. Good luck! 🍀

  • @crystalwhxre2496

    @crystalwhxre2496

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Ambrosia_144 okay thank u 😭😭

  • @ascendedtimeline4078
    @ascendedtimeline40782 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @TheFocalProjectMusicProduction
    @TheFocalProjectMusicProduction2 ай бұрын

    E X C E L L E N C E ! 💎

  • @PamelaAnn
    @PamelaAnn3 ай бұрын

    Things do get worse before they get better. A situation is like a bruise, they get worse before they get better. :)

  • @paulinemegane5399
    @paulinemegane5399 Жыл бұрын

    🙏🏾

  • @LZMalik
    @LZMalik2 ай бұрын

    While manifesting abundance I had my car accident first and then a bone fracture in my arm. I ended up feeling worse and lost peace and money. I'm unable to feel positive and hopeful to continue

  • @Moreeelifeee
    @Moreeelifeee3 жыл бұрын

    5:29

  • @Akshay_Modak
    @Akshay_Modak Жыл бұрын

    Hi, I truly believe in the power of manifestation and I've had a lot of success with it with my soccer dreams and aspirations. And I've noticed how things fall apart before they come together. But lately I've been feeling too in touch with my body, with my heart especially, a sort of uneasiness and discomfort when I'm in a thoughtless state and can hear my heart beat, which causes a bit of anxiety at night. Does anyone else feel this way? Is this part of the process?

  • @arpitdayalmusic

    @arpitdayalmusic

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes I have problems sleeping and waking up..there is a hyperactive state

  • @arpitdayalmusic

    @arpitdayalmusic

    Жыл бұрын

    And I wake up at midnight sometimes and it feels so weird and fearful

  • @zaforahmed7119

    @zaforahmed7119

    11 ай бұрын

    Yes bro I feel it , a wave , shaking, inside vibration, headache or worries, sometimes a bit fear discomfort, and sometime it so strong positive vibration.. Thing's are like fall apart that make me kind of uneasiness 😮what is it , is it about to come on way of reality that has been manifested ❤?

  • @sexymf4626
    @sexymf46263 жыл бұрын

    i love you

  • @wolfandraven891
    @wolfandraven891Ай бұрын

    I'm going through it right now, I want to manifest a trip to North Korea because it has been my dream for over a decade to visit. But I keep running into obstacles like hearing things in the news, like political tensions or things from tour operators like a monument there being torn down that I wanted to see, or some things like that which make me think it's not possible. Because there is one really specific site there I want to visit and see and I have been trying to manifest it, but at the moment I am so filled with anxiety about things stopping me from achieving it that I feel like manifesting is almost impossible or won't work, even though it has worked for me before (like last year when I wanted my celebrity crush to notice me, I was so depressed for ages thinking it was impossible. Until one day he finally replied to me, and has even become an acquaintance of mine, maybe even what I'd consider a friend!) So I'm wondering is it possible for me to manifest this trip? It's really been my biggest dream for so long.

  • @corrinahansen2544
    @corrinahansen25442 жыл бұрын

    I've been manifesting for the past 6 months my partner asking me to move in with him I wrote the date being November, I have been feeling so amazing the past couple of weeks but the last few days I've had break downs and questioning his love for me. Is this all part of the manifesting process. ? I was so low today but put myself to bed and have snapped out of it now. Heading back upwards now and hoping this didn't surpress my manifesting

  • @CathyBallard

    @CathyBallard

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Corrina, it sounds like you are totally on track to me. I don't believe we stop ourselves manifesting when we're in the middle of processing something. Quite the opposite. It needs to pass out through your system by being felt, but experienced from a higher perspective, or through self-compassion and self-belief, not letting the head talk derail you from your dreams and goals, etc. It's really helpfu; to state "this or something better now manifests for me", so you don't get attached to the form or expectation of how yur manifestation will show up

  • @corrinahansen2544

    @corrinahansen2544

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@CathyBallard Thankyou Cathy . Love and light ❣️

  • @lucycoons

    @lucycoons

    2 жыл бұрын

    LOA is seriously demonic and Jesus is the only way truth and the life. Turn to Jesus, He loves you and will make things right and return everything the devil stole from you.

  • @candiceg_9713
    @candiceg_97133 жыл бұрын

    I have been manifesting a positive relationship with my sp I felt like I wa so close and it seemed so real but now I’ve discovered he’s been meeting someone else 😭I’m absolutely devastated I feel like the universe has tricked me

  • @cathyballard4442

    @cathyballard4442

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's really tough, I feel for you, Candice G_97. While you're in raw emotions right now it's going to be hard to see through to the other side. But eventually you will get there and see the lessons that your soul wanted you to learn. Although it doesn't feel like it now, the universe always works in the service of your soul evolution

  • @michellekruger3757

    @michellekruger3757

    3 жыл бұрын

    What I got from this is that perhaps he is not conducive to the person you are aiming to be.. Going through something similar and it is awful.. X

  • @candiceg_9713

    @candiceg_9713

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s really hard and god does it hurt I was so close I had the feeling I had dreams I could even smell him I had all the signs I was heartbroken but the best thing to do is keep manifesting manifesting manifesting ignore your reality n keep going I feel so much better now regardless of my situation I’m so glad I got into law of attraction and started learning more about it it’s saved me xxx

  • @rinosyah4161

    @rinosyah4161

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@candiceg_9713 going through an exact situation word by word.... its crushing... but trying to pull myself up... the universe has our backs

  • @candiceg_9713

    @candiceg_9713

    3 жыл бұрын

    Keep going I promise u I was literally suicidal n really poorly through the stress of it all I feel absolutely amazing now even though I have down moments no one on this earth will help you other than the universe

  • @asmitwish
    @asmitwish5 ай бұрын

    Hello 👋 I also manifest career but I get opposite result 😔

  • @anumrkn
    @anumrkn Жыл бұрын

    Recently jist few days back I started sending positive affirmations in the mirror. i feel very depressing and things seem to have worsend(relationship). . does it happen ? can this manefistation tech b cause of.this depression and disrupt???

  • @CathyBallard

    @CathyBallard

    Жыл бұрын

    HI Anum, I think it can. If you're telling yourself positive things as a way of setting a new belief about yourself, in order to change fully you have to release the old programming that says you're these untrue things. The way through is to acknowledge that part of yourself that doesn't want to change (familiarity is preferable to the ego than change, even if it's painful), listen to what it has to say, comfort it, send it love, but be clear that you are moving forward into who you do want to be. Don't believe everything you think or let yourself be pulled down by negative emotions if you can help it. It's part of the transformation process of breaking a mindset habit.

  • @tnijoo5109

    @tnijoo5109

    11 ай бұрын

    I was listening to youtubes about this kind of thing today. I think it’s similar to what Cathy said. It’s stuff that’s countering your core subconscious beliefs and as it gets into the subconscious it’s like the subconscious mind and energy you held in the universe is suddenly vomiting this really negative stuff up that’s painful AF. But it’s supposed to be an opportunity to deal with the beliefs that you previously had no idea were running the show. Now you get to deal with them head on. I haven’t figured out how yet, but at least I know kind of what is happening. A couple days ago I did all this visualizing and feeling of my relationship with my mom being healed and pictured getting a letter apologizing. Today I got a piece of mail from her (which is very rare so I was shocked and thought my manifesting techniques worked) and instead it was her being cold, insensitive, and unloving. So I looked up stuff on when you get exactly the opposite of what you tried to manifest. I’m still trying to make sense of it. But I hope there’s a gift here or that it’s resolving a deep heartbreak in me.

  • @rjjrdq
    @rjjrdq2 жыл бұрын

    How many decades does the process take? I've been confident in my expectations but life span is starting to become an issue.

  • @lucycoons

    @lucycoons

    2 жыл бұрын

    It will never get better!! LOA is from the devil and Jesus is the only way, the truth and the life. He loves you.

  • @Bidenomics2024

    @Bidenomics2024

    Жыл бұрын

    lol you sound like me. to me if manifestation works 100% these coaches would be rich already. some manifestation teachers have like 5 subscribers lol. its already destined. some people just meant to be rich and some has to suffer because of past life karma.

  • @deepquotes3319

    @deepquotes3319

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lucycoons why you Tell someone that their lives Will never get better? Just why? Did Jesus taught you to discourage people? .. please stop cursing people with your words. Follow your Jesus, leave people alone.

  • @lucycoons

    @lucycoons

    Жыл бұрын

    @@deepquotes3319 I was saying that using LOA doesn’t get better because it’s from the devil and not following Jesus! I was encouraging people in other comments to turn from this and follow Jesus because He’s the only way. I definitely wasn’t cursing people with my words, just warning them.

  • @lucycoons

    @lucycoons

    Жыл бұрын

    @@deepquotes3319 part of following Jesus is sharing the word with others.

  • @Musick328
    @Musick3282 жыл бұрын

    I actually disagree. Release what does not work, and focus on what IS working 👍🏻

  • @loridana8005
    @loridana80052 ай бұрын

    Isn't that also an assumption?

  • @richarddaratony6468
    @richarddaratony6468 Жыл бұрын

    Can't hear you

  • @dominique046
    @dominique046 Жыл бұрын

    Love your energy!! Thanks for the video 🧲✨🪐🪞💚 88888

  • @incognitosquirrel5825
    @incognitosquirrel58254 жыл бұрын

    Thank you