At some point in the future, I WILL be doing an update responding to my Male Loneliness video and explaining in detail how my life has changed. Life is MUCH, MUCH better, and I'm forever thankful that this video has given solace and comfort to so many people, but we don't want to stay in this place forever. My friend says I'm taking the path of the Buddha. Everything we need is already here. 💛 If you want to continue the journey with me, consider watching some of my newer videos. Alternatively, you can chat and hang out with me while I play video games on Twitch www.twitch.tv/spincyclemkv I stream four days a week : Tuesday & Thursday 6:30 P.M. CST to 8:00 P.M. CST and Saturday and Sunday 8:00 A.M. to 10:00 A.M CST. 🎮🎧 If you find my videos valuable, please consider supporting me directly @ www.patreon.com/spincyclemkv With love, Spin 💛

@Ihavpickle

8 ай бұрын

Wassup

@sonalattapattu4402

8 ай бұрын

Love u dude.

@JJ88886

8 ай бұрын

I'm guessing this isn't on the table anymore, since you're leaving youtube?

@awoo21

7 ай бұрын

hope this is still coming!

@awoo21

6 ай бұрын

@@achmed2pac joe

*Feminists:* Men are Privileged *Reality:* I haven't been hugged in 10 years...

@SpinCycleMKV

3 жыл бұрын

Do you like Mega Man? I love that game series. I have Mega Man X Collection and Zero Collection. They are fun as hell.

@koalafromtomorrow5656

3 жыл бұрын

What about mega starfocre do you play that game

@lordzooq8987

2 жыл бұрын

@@SpinCycleMKV damn bro, you got the zero collection? Smart man. The zero games were some of the best platformers I've played to date. Also nice death note poster bruh

@SnepBlepVR

2 жыл бұрын

This! This fucking hurts!

@coolguy54life99

2 жыл бұрын

So so true

The worst part of loneliness is when you watch a movie and want to share your opinion with someone but you have nobody and you end up talking to yourself

@ludensrun

2 жыл бұрын

It’s me

@taketheblackpillneo3940

2 жыл бұрын

brutal

@ayushsevak916

Жыл бұрын

For what it's worth I'd love to hear it, I'm getting into some beautiful cinema recently and it feels amazing but sad that I'm watching alone

@paulallensdemise2533

Жыл бұрын

bro how did you know? I honestly thought I was the only one and was going insane. I love movies and always go to the cinemas on my own. When I get home I just talk to myself about my thoughts on the film…

@ikesalsberry7130

Жыл бұрын

So I'm not the only one who does that

“I used to think the worst thing in life is to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel all alone.” ― Robin Williams

@numpty94

2 жыл бұрын

Ive been in both spots and this is true . At least when youre alone you realise that, but with people that ignore and arent interested in what you say it hurts, makes you feel worthless

@maxmahan3291

2 жыл бұрын

Hooooly shit this quote resonated with me

@con9779

Жыл бұрын

@@numpty94 Fake friends automatically came to mind while reading this. If they can’t realize and respect your value then they are enemies.

@manhuntruler2

Жыл бұрын

Never liked Robin Williams. He always creeped me out when I was a kid and even now as an adult

@mr.peanut9434

Жыл бұрын

He was a really smart and kind guy

I'm a subcontractor and I tore my bicep tendon 6 months ago. My boss always told me I'm the best worker he's ever had,I made him a rich man off the sweat of my back. We do 1099 forms though so I'm not getting workman's comp or any kind of aid... Society itself has abandoned me. This injury ruined everything. The people in my life all act like I'm just lazy. I'm fucking broken man. I'd love to see them do a single shift pouring concrete, or building decks like I used to do. They wouldn't be able to handle it. I worked that job for years too. When you mentioned that in the video about getting hurt on a construction job... I feel that man. I'm completely alone and nobody in my church, family, or even my old coworkers want to reach out or help me. This injury is slow to heal, I didn't get surgery because I can't afford it. Distal bicep tendon tear. Fuck people man.

@SpinCycleMKV

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry, dude. I wish people would look at shit like this when they think that kind of stuff is fake. I know it doesn't mean much, but I hope you get back on your feet soon.

@Th3BigBoy

2 жыл бұрын

@@SpinCycleMKV It means a lot that you replied to me. Thanks man.

@MrKillswitch88

2 жыл бұрын

Your experience and being tossed aside faster than a used condom is why I don't like the white collar types especially when they are so entitled while everyone else is expected to hold the bag. As for being abandoned by the church is no surprise At All and is partly why so many have walked out never to return for a multitude of reasons. Anyway as for misery I would love to see those over compensated office drones clear out a thirty ton sewer blockage by hand and needles included.

@melissachartres3219

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed. Fuck people, man. They're awful. Sorry for your loss (regarding the humanity thing) but it isn't really a loss at all... you simply know the truth now- you can see clearly now, the rain is gone. So start taking CoEnzyme Q10. About 50mgs a day is good to start with. It will speed the rate of healing of your body. Also use heat nightly. Ben-Gay is nice, but Tiger Balm is better (if you can stand it- it's pretty hot). Soak your injury in hot water. Exercise regularly- just don't exercise the injury. Look up some KZread vids regarding physical therapy for distal bicep tendon tear and follow the regimen but DO NOT OVERDO IT. You'll get enthusiastic as soon as you start to see progress and you'll push just a LITTLE too hard, and you'll mess it up again. Resist the temptation- just let time heal you. Eat clean. Low fat, high protein (chicken and turkey breast and beans/rice dishes) and drop junk food altogether until you're completely healed. Refined sugar will increase inflammation and stop you from healing quickly. You should be good to get back to light duty within 4-5 months of that, but your mileage will vary of course. Best of luck. Peace be upon you.

@Meleeman011

2 жыл бұрын

Man I meet so many buff men that destroy their bodies for their job, no one will ever appreciate your sacrifice

one of the worst things i was told as a kid was dont get in relationships because you'll have your whole life for that.. the thing they failed to mention was how much harder it becomes to meet people as you get older

@SpinCycleMKV

2 жыл бұрын

Our entire generation was lied to about well, everything.

@michaelcooke8665

2 жыл бұрын

Find somebody younger healthier and better looking best revenge

@mimia.4810

2 жыл бұрын

@@michaelcooke8665 You say that like it's an easy task. What makes you think someone younger, healthier, and better looking would want you over someone who is also younger, healthier, and better looking.

@michaelcooke8665

2 жыл бұрын

@@mimia.4810 Well Mimi A because it worked for me before besides younger women tend to prefer slightly older men who have their lives put together and have things to offer her. Anything else?

@michaelcooke8665

2 жыл бұрын

It depends on what country you live in it's really easy in Colombia because age differences don't matter so a man in his 40s can date women half his age no problem

This world sucks when you are alone.

@SpinCycleMKV

2 жыл бұрын

Hard agree.

@ricardocastillo5485

2 жыл бұрын

I'm with you there. You have to find value in yourself regardless of our messed up world. You are a King.

@everydayfun9531

2 жыл бұрын

Fr it sucks Being alone in your Own World.

@christianbloke7002

2 жыл бұрын

It does man

@ceooflonelinessinc.267

2 жыл бұрын

I (32) never experienced love. I have never been huged, kissed or had a realationship. Every single women rejected me. I need to go alone to bed, wake up alone. When I am sick nobody takes care about me. Vacation, restaurant visits, hiking. I need to do it alone. I got the feeling that as a woman you have always company. My sister always had a bodyfriend though she is shy and insecure about herself. There was always a man ready to fall in lover to her. Even when she was single, her phone was full with text messages and had a lot men wanting to talk to her. Even the girl who are saying, they are unattractive, have always options. But I have completely nobody. The last and only hug I ever recived was, I guess 2010. From my mother.

I'm 29 years old and have never had a relationship with a woman. I feel this video completely. You have a friend in me. Thanks for this video.

@arielnormatov7906

10 ай бұрын

Same

@Dave_of_Mordor

9 ай бұрын

@@Rajat1293 Based on their comments, it seems like they already have friends

@voicefromtheabyss

9 ай бұрын

Same

@BeyondHelp15

9 ай бұрын

​@lum967same here brotha, but am 27.. You get used to it ig

@rahkriga

9 ай бұрын

Ive got you beat. Im 46 yrs old...no relationship. Im black though...so thats considered status quo for me. Wasnt born a thug or white so Im shit out of luck..loneliness is my just dessert.

I'm surprised at how many people here seem to think getting a haircut automatically cures depression. Especially those commenting years after this was posted, not even knowing how you're doing in life now.

@SpinCycleMKV

Жыл бұрын

PREACHING TO THE CHOIR HERE

@Jinars.

Жыл бұрын

Well, if you look now (21.09.2022) at his last video it's about the same topic as this video (loneliness). So, it seems like he's at the same point as he was when he made this video.

@SpinCycleMKV

Жыл бұрын

Five corners doesn't know how life functions, didn't even watch the video to understand the reasoning or motives or that the video was healthily acknowledging and issue I'm correcting hasn't looked at all at how I've changed. He hasn't deal with his trauma and is clearly mentally unwell. This is what people do who are not well, they bring down other people and seek other people to hurt not realizing that demeaning others is simply projecting one's own hatred for yourself. It's better to admit YOU are hurting and to acknowledge it. I don't understand what you get from this, and your other comment that is saying I'm going to be transgender. Who gives a shit? No one with a good life that's for one. Why not try to heal yourself? Why lay down in this depressing trench you're lying into trying to bring me down. Why not figure your own shit out and be happy yourself? I mean this genuinely. Demeaning others in the way you do shows a fundamental misunderstanding of what you are, a small part of nature playing out its programming. I am the same. You can't love yourself until you stop hating others because you see what you hate about yourself in others and project it onto them so you can keep your own bullshit hidden. Go heal yourself. You can do this. The resources are out there.

@Jinars.

Жыл бұрын

@@SpinCycleMKV YOU are the one talking to a camera about your mental health issues. I suggest you get a grip on life and stop complaining like a woman and do something about the situation you are in.

@serclfs

Жыл бұрын

Do you not have any self awareness? "Five corners doesn't know how life functions, didn't even watch the video to understand the reasoning or motives or that the video was healthily acknowledging and issue I'm correcting hasn't looked at all at how I've changed He hasn't deal with his trauma and is clearly MENTALLY unwell. This is what people do who are not well, they bring down other people and seek other people to hurt not realizing that demeaning others is simply projecting one's own hatred for yourself. I mean this genuinely. Demeaning others in the way you do shows a fundamental misunderstanding of what you are, a small part of nature playing out its programming. I am the same." All that in response to this : "Well, if you look now (21.09.2022) at his last video it's about the same topic as this video (loneliness). So, it seems like he's at the same point as he was when he made this video." Here's a legit response. "I wouldn't say I'm in the same place. I'm not sure if you watched the videos in full, but I've made tremendous progress. Thanks for watching!" Instead you blew it out or proportion, said the guy doesn't know the first thing about life, proposed he was attacking you somehow, then played nice guy at the end with a passive aggressive "Get help". Want to know what the likely scenario was? He probably didn't watch the video, like the vast majority of any youtube audience, was browsing your channel in another tab, half listening, and saw a video with a similar title. Oh Lord, what a sin!

"When poverty knocks at the door, love flies out the window." - Serbian proverb.

@JohnyJohnatanJohnson

2 жыл бұрын

To bre 💪

@stompingjacklope2217

2 жыл бұрын

Ima istine

@leahflower9924

2 жыл бұрын

how does that work historically when most people were poor? lol

@sophiadavid9227

2 жыл бұрын

i remember reading this line too in osamu dazai's no longer human

@Wrz2e

2 жыл бұрын

@@leahflower9924 poverty is relative. A decent income in the old days guaranteed a house and home but a loss of income meant genuine starvation.

People do care, the day they see a hearse and flowers. "if he reached out maybe things would be different teehee"

@latenrunor3591

3 жыл бұрын

And then they start gobbling down the free food at the funeral feast, and flirting with the hot chad priest/gravedigger. Life goes on for them.

@thewhynaut5070

2 жыл бұрын

It's very true. It's why people do it and think "maybe this will make you care"

@BL-mf3jp

2 жыл бұрын

@@latenrunor3591 lmao hot chad gravedigger

@latenrunor3591

2 жыл бұрын

@@BL-mf3jp If you only knew. Private or family-owned funeral homes do care about looking representable, so it's not a surprise to see a friggin' golden ratio Greek statue-like chad digging the grave, and doing it with calculated sophistication, effectiveness and care. The state funeral homes would hire a barely functioning -1/10 genetic refuse with military-grade autism, who will chuck your rotting remains in a hastily dug hole that he dug with his teeth and fingernails, as long as he is cheap to employ.

@thewhynaut5070

2 жыл бұрын

@SERIOUS CURIOUS 👂

You speak the truth. I just turned 30 and realized it the other day. No one cares. They just care about what I can do for them but when I need help, everyone says fuck you. For the men that deal with this, keep going. I got nothing to say to women though, they will be just fine and they know it.

@Mrs.JessRich

7 ай бұрын

I always did everything for my friends and would drop anything for them and listen to them for hours complain. When my mom died only one friend showed up. That was when I needed people the most. I dont want any of them now.

One thing young men need to learn and accept: Society doesnt care about you. You are all alone with your problems.

@gatoloco3949

Жыл бұрын

Since the beginning, we're disposable units.

@cooliest2267

Жыл бұрын

over.

@godofdeath8785

Жыл бұрын

Except if you will lucky find friend who actually care about you. But yeah its feels like society don't care about problems of guys

@jasebaz9941

Жыл бұрын

We know..

@brijmsn

7 ай бұрын

Everybody is alone in the adult world. Thats part of growing up! You guys need to stop the pity party and GROW UP. Nobody is going to coddle and hold your hand through life, not if you're a man or a woman for that matter. I think the problem is you incels are spoiled by your moms and expect the world to treat you the same?

"The only things that are loved unconditionally are women, children and dogs. Men are only loved on the condition they are providing something." -- Chris Rock.

@rico_suave688

2 жыл бұрын

Facts💯

@cooliest2267

2 жыл бұрын

Giga truth pill

@edgygingerkid9525

2 жыл бұрын

This will lead to war

@shrivatsankchari1729

2 жыл бұрын

I feel that's why you should have a good relationship with your parents. They're people you can always count on but sadly also the people we don't share much with.

@recklessnotion1899

2 жыл бұрын

@@shrivatsankchari1729 don't share much with?

You are not alone. Men with some level of intelligence and awareness are sick of this society. When I got into my 30s I realized most of the things I knew was a lie.

@brandonblount4170

2 жыл бұрын

Truth.

@ohnree4110

2 жыл бұрын

I am 18 and I have been saying for years that most things people care about and do are bullshit. It is a very lonely position but incredibly liberating when I am not caught up in the bullshit myself.

@SOLIDSNAKE.

2 жыл бұрын

I lost my mind.. The last 2 years have been fucking sad ... I was "forced" to clean it up this year but truth be told I have no idea what is going to happen.. Now that I can't secluded myself in alcohol and weed and hide my emotions and struggles... I really really don't know if I'm making it to 30

@GuiltySpark347

2 жыл бұрын

@@SOLIDSNAKE. Always move forward. Eyes on the prize, heads up, and forward.

@SOLIDSNAKE.

2 жыл бұрын

@@GuiltySpark347 thank you the words of wisdom mean alot 😢 much love and peace to you ❤️🙏

The only true path forward is to not let yourself get attached to anything, don't show any emotion, just don't care. Every time I care, I get hurt.

@MatthewGilligan

4 ай бұрын

Weed helps

Lonliness wears a man out...until he just cant move anymore.

(some) Women: i feel sad Society: we are here for you Men: I feel Lonely Society: we don't care man up

@user-en701

2 жыл бұрын

It's so fucked like men have emotions men are human and till this day we still believe in these fuck ass gender troops about men or women but besides that men need women support and men needs to support other men because it's not fair for guys to be trapped inside this bubble because of societies belief's

@aczetic3483

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah that's why we need more gender equality make people realize that we all have emotions just because men are physically stronger it does not mean ALL men are mentally stronger

@chamboyette853

2 жыл бұрын

One very disturbing thing I noticed which is very telling, I looked up on the internet the best films for men ever - on one site there were 30 listed and none were released after 2010. On another site there were 50 listed and none of those 50 were released after 2000. It shows how male films in the USA have almost all but disappeared, and shows how respect for men has diminished so much.

@ceooflonelinessinc.267

2 жыл бұрын

I (32) never experienced love. I have never been huged, kissed or had a realationship. Every single women rejected me. I need to go alone to bed, wake up alone. When I am sick nobody takes care about me. Vacation, restaurant visits, hiking. I need to do it alone. I got the feeling that as a woman you have always company. My sister always had a bodyfriend though she is shy and insecure about herself. There was always a man ready to fall in lover to her. Even when she was single, her phone was full with text messages and had a lot men wanting to talk to her. Even the girl who are saying, they are unattractive, have always options. But I have completely nobody. The last and only hug I ever recived was, I guess 2010. From my mother.

@breewashere

2 жыл бұрын

Where can I find that society? The few times I broke down in tears at school I got weird looks like people thought I was cringe for crying. One time I scraped the hell out of my knees when I fell on concrete and I got weird looks from people because I was tearing up walking to the nurses office. I guess cuz I was in 12th grade but that sht seriously hurt.

I have never heard a female saying. " after he got laid off, we became much closer." - Chris Rock

@ishitrealbad3039

2 жыл бұрын

As soon as modern women smell there's trouble in the water of their man's career, they immediatly start looking for a plan b, c and d.

@Journey_Awaits

2 жыл бұрын

Women are _ultimate opportunists_ above all else like Edge and kinda like Italy in the 20th century.

@crazyrr144

2 жыл бұрын

@@Journey_Awaits edge is great

@mikesantos011

2 жыл бұрын

@@ishitrealbad3039 facts

@squeaky1963

2 жыл бұрын

@@ishitrealbad3039 Plan Barry Plan Clyde Plan Derek

I (32) never experienced love. I have never been huged, kissed or had a realationship. Every single women rejected me. I need to go alone to bed, wake up alone. When I am sick nobody takes care about me. Vacation, restaurant visits, hiking. I need to do it alone. I got the feeling that as a woman you have always company. My sister always had a bodyfriend though she is shy and insecure about herself. There was always a man ready to fall in lover to her. Even when she was single, her phone was full with text messages and had a lot men wanting to talk to her. Even the girl who are saying, they are unattractive, have always options. But I have completely nobody. The last and only hug I ever recived was, I guess 2010. From my mother. Funnily I remember covid. My sister and her friends were most singles. After three months they all started complaining how hard it is to not meeting men in a romantic context. They said they are depressed and lonely. The advice they usually give - just hug your parents - they were off course not doing themselves.

@aes783

2 жыл бұрын

humans in general have a nature to take things for granted. Although it would be nice to see less misandry and more recognition of the mental health of men. so many times i hear women complaining about men etc.

@ForeverShadowBanned

2 жыл бұрын

Women can't experience true loneliness, there will always be someone waiting around the corner to comfort them but as a man you have nobody but yourself. They're blind and it's why I can't take any of their opinions seriously when it comes to this subject.

@aes783

2 жыл бұрын

​@@ForeverShadowBanned they literally are the black pill. just sucks. even when u are in a relationship if u piss her off or stand up for yourself she can just leave and find 100 other desperate dudes.

@Cristian-vh5fh

2 жыл бұрын

They are single but they are never alone. Im sorry about your situation. I dont comprehend it at 100% but I know what its like to be single and unloved for years while everybody else gets it like its no problem. People gaslight too much. World isnt fair and some get dealt a shit hand. Hope you can at least find comfort in a religion. I have a friend who copes with religion and it has helped him a great deal.

@sayedalazam4228

2 жыл бұрын

Hey CEO of loneliness I would like to apply a position for your company. I have experience...a lot of experience.

I'm a 24 yo man and you made me realize something I'd never thought of before, how this kind of loneliness is typically exclusive to men because women get constant attention (and that attention isn't always good, to be fair). On average women will not experience this kind of chronic loneliness and because of that, they don't understand what it's like from our perspective.

@divineeye1254

2 жыл бұрын

nor do they care to know... most people but especially women are sadistic

@bradb4446

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with this for younger women, but as women get older they definitely do feel this. And they don't know how to handle it because they've never experienced it before. I think something like 1/4 middle aged - older women are on antidepressants. It's why women are so obsessed with retaining their looks. Once their looks fade, their value plummets.

@fr33kSh0w2012

2 жыл бұрын

Man I'm 39 and at the last stages of my shelf life Women get "Pampered" too much and then expect it as normal then view normal stuff as abuse they wanna know REAL ABUSE someone slashing the crap out of them with a knife or smashing bottles through their fucking faces is ABUSE!

@fr33kSh0w2012

2 жыл бұрын

@@MB-xv7er Think about What Kylie Jenner is gonna look like OLD Horribly wrinkly and everything will sag! Over here in Australia women use men for their resources.

@UserName-hr5wb

2 жыл бұрын

loneliness is genderless/universal, happens to everybody you're most likely not gonna know about those people, because they are alone away from everybody

"I doubt anyone will make it this far" well I did and I can highly respect and relate to you

@oneAMghost

2 жыл бұрын

So did I 👊

@YupItsShadow99

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@dontcall9912

2 жыл бұрын

You have honestly thought About killing yourself because you haven't had a partner?

@bobbyboi7742

2 жыл бұрын

@@dontcall9912 have you heard of a mental illness or do you not know what loneliness can do if it gets worse it can cause depression anxiety and suicidal thoughts

@patrickriarchy6054

2 жыл бұрын

@@dontcall9912 At least 2 times a week.

I don’t need a girlfriend I just need friends and people to talk to, I’m getting tired of driving around at night drowning in my own thoughts. Edit: my pfp was for the memes and KZread won't let me change it for another week, so quit saying I deserve to die for my pfp

@raewynhaughton1585

3 жыл бұрын

How come you don't have friends? Do you not relate to humans at all in order to form a friendship?

@wastedtime4962

3 жыл бұрын

@@raewynhaughton1585 For me I want to be around people and friends but when I am I feel alone and just want to leave. Idk what’s wrong with me.

@Geroskop

2 жыл бұрын

Try inventing shit. When you bounce around ideas and begin to put them on paper you begin to descend into rabbithole of self education and designing shit down to minute detail like, whitch screwhead to use or leaving openings for assembly and maintanance it becomes addictive. When you are addicted to something productive and stop giving shit about ppl around, you become mestirios and intresting. Ppl will come up to you and try to befriend you. Just stop giving shit about ppl, it works. I met my wife only when i stoped chasing wemen and started doing selfeducation and did what i wanted. I started talking to her from position of power coz i thought - nothing gonna come out of it, dont develoup hopes, and opposite happened. The power dynamic didnt changed for 10 years now and i honestly think its because the very first interaction that set the tone of our relationship.

@Sosa081

2 жыл бұрын

@@Geroskop this is honestly the best advice ive received from a stranger, thank you

@hordevran

2 жыл бұрын

I'm driving alone at night too. Cheers mate!

i've also noticed society in general are more likely to hate you, or label you as incel mass shooter or w.e if you complain at all about stuff like this. Then when women complain about men and are all about that misandry nobody really cares.

@ForeverShadowBanned

2 жыл бұрын

And then people wonder why men are dropping out of society in droves. No point wage slaving to support a system that actively hates you and goes out of its way to do so.

@TheJas20

2 жыл бұрын

I have noticed this before. If you're in this kind of situation there's only 2 ways you can go about it: 1, you can complain and try to raise awareness, vent... It all falls to deaf ears. They call you an incel, a pathetic man. They tell you nobody owes you anything. 2, your move is to NOT play a game thats rigged from the start, you focus on yourself, etc. You forego all that stuff entirely to spare yourself the pain. Guess what happens? They call you an incel. A weirdo, creepy guy who thinks he's better than everyone else. I have seen both these scenarios happen in my life time. You just can't win.

@aes783

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheJas20 yep. Even other guys will call you incel its just a powerplay or bullying at this point.I agree that the black pillers who do nothing but complain are annoying but i don't even bring it up much and still get called that online when i mention like once a year that its mostly my looks preventing me from going anywhere romantically. It's why people pay therapists because its uncomfortable truths. Plus everyone is insecure because of stuff like instagram and other social media. Ugly people want to look normal, and normal average people want to be beautiful. They say don't compare yourself to others but it is partly human nature. Can only work on yourself and not expect much for your own happiness in this life.

@inconnu4961

2 жыл бұрын

@@aes783 Dont know where you are going on the internet, bro but just like on here, there are places where men stick up for each other and dont take the BS! But if you go to places with lots of women, there will be simps playing capn sav-a-ho! Go to men spaces, where we all can be legit with each other!

@aes783

2 жыл бұрын

@@badbeachindustry1615 comfort item huh? Also it's cringe because you are gender biased probably.

Your story sounds eerily close to mine. One thing I've noticed is that every single girl I've ever dated, *immediately* was dating another guy after we broke up. There's always someone on deck

@thewewguy8t88

2 жыл бұрын

Hey I know a girl she had a hard break up with her ex boyfriend just a few weeks ago maybe even less then a month ago guess what she is already seeing someone lol

@juliancarmonagarcia8170

Жыл бұрын

women wont jump from a plane without a parachute

@ogreface8

Жыл бұрын

You start to wonder if you ever meant anything if they can move on so easily

@michaelchong7818

Жыл бұрын

Modern women often have zero honour and zero respect for other people.

@JesusIsStillTheAnswer

Жыл бұрын

Yes, this is also me. Women have an innate need for security.

Being an average guy in this day and age is a battle that no woman will ever understand

@hannahcruz6754

2 жыл бұрын

This is literally everything. They will never understand. Even "lower" value women live a crazy abundance in dating.

@ShawnFX

2 жыл бұрын

@@hannahcruz6754 thats all thanks to the simps, white knights and social media

@torachan23

2 жыл бұрын

@Kloudz Thanks, I'm sure they never thought of that. Now, because of your advice, they'll be able to completely fix their problems.

@hannahcruz6754

2 жыл бұрын

@Kloudz above all. You have to have to have money. No way around it.

@wesleywallen9366

2 жыл бұрын

@Kloudz that’s kinda of the problem. Being a normal guy isn’t good enough. You have to be better in what feels like everything just to be noticed.

As a male it's very hard to openly express emotions without coming off as somebody who is "weak" or "vulnerable". This leads to bottling up my emotions a ton. I don't get along with my parents either so I often just have to deal with my own emotions.

@balls3832

2 жыл бұрын

Kinda reminds me of myself cuz I’d deliberately avoid physical affection as much as I wanted it or opening up about touchy subjects because it made me feel vulnerable and that’s why my first relationship didn’t work out. I was afraid of sabotaging one of the only things in life that brought me joy and sure enough I did. Not sure if that’s any similar with what you’re saying that’s just my experience

@voidburger2989

2 жыл бұрын

@@tomjenner6818 I've been writing notes for a while actually, it really does help

@cokedupcat

2 жыл бұрын

Oh yeah 100% , I can't share that even with my own family. I know from experience. I was looked down upon and still am because I was suicidal. They think I did it for attention. Little do they know I've come close to blowing my head off twice already and gone through even more sht without telling them because I've learned from that experience. I even went gun shopping three times. Every time I save up enough for a gun I end up spending it for some reason. It's like my brain won't let me do it because once I buy it that's it. I don't need a gun for anything else.

@cokedupcat

2 жыл бұрын

@@voidburger2989 Yeah I keep notes too it helps a whole lot. There's like over 2,000 notes on my phone 🤣

@arpitthakur45

2 жыл бұрын

@@cokedupcat same

The voice of a generation.

@SpinCycleMKV

Жыл бұрын

Voice that KZread is supressing.

@tomsn999

Жыл бұрын

@@SpinCycleMKV Yeah I have to verifying

Based. Never delete this video. They want us quiet.

My brother had clinical depression and self-harmed himself a lot. I was the only one who honestly helped him when he was suffering. My mom and dad basically just gave him "tough love" advice like "grow up and get over it" or "no one owes you anything". My dad was really brutal due to thinking cutting and cigerrete burning was a feminine thing to do. He commited suicide when he was 23. The worst part about it is, my older sister, who is a genuine spoiled brat, would always get attention and help from them no matter what happened. When benedict passed away, they would constantly tell people "they tried to help the best they could".

@MacDonagh

2 жыл бұрын

"They tried to help the best they could." It's amazing what people will do to lie to themselves than face the reality that they failed their son. You must have a hard time holding your tongue around your wonderful family. Take care.

@Mariam-ou8kt

2 жыл бұрын

That’s truly devastating. I’m sorry for your loss .

@breewashere

2 жыл бұрын

That's so tragic I'm so sorry. Your parents sound like assholes no offense...

@taketheblackpillneo3940

2 жыл бұрын

his-fate-is-the-fate-for-most-men,its-over.

@harveybirdman2674

2 жыл бұрын

If it was my parents i would literally assaulted these animals, im sorry but they are human garbage

This is a harsh truth of existence. You are way ahead at your age realizing that no one cares. That can cause 2 reactions: extreme suicidal depression or deep peaceful liberation. The second choice is the way of strength. We are born alone and we die alone, even if surrounded by others. Learn to embrace aloneness and be in total peace.

@lonewolfgamingplus379

5 жыл бұрын

Gy Bx Sometimes Peace is harder to get some days.

@BillClinton228

4 жыл бұрын

It's more than that... men are religated to a slave class now. We are told to spend our lives catering to the needs of women and if we are kicked out on the street with nothing well then that's our problem. When slaves were emancipated and had nowhere to go, very few people cared about them.

@BillClinton228

4 жыл бұрын

Women saying "oh I'm not that beautiful" is known as fishing for compliments. She knows she can get a guy, but she needs the constant reassurance that she's good looking because most women are total narcissists.

@2quick614

3 жыл бұрын

Hard to be at peace, when everyone is trying to tell you otherwise and/or break you down for doing so. I want to be at peace, but what I know now is driving me insane.

@jamescooper9573

3 жыл бұрын

Nicely put !

I have been single and lonely for over 10 years... It is hard being a lonely, single, and unattractive male in the modern age.

@opoxious1592

11 ай бұрын

Being lonely damages your personallity. I know everything about it It basically fucked me up big time.

@brijmsn

7 ай бұрын

And yet, the single, hetero male is the most catered to on the internet. You'd be delusional to say otherwise.

@bro918

5 ай бұрын

@@brijmsn Thats an interesting point but I think it depends where you are on the internet

Western society needs to acknowledge that men have feelings too. Depressed women are coddled and given all kinds of attention (which is not a bad thing), but depressed men are either ignored entirely or dismissed as not being manly enough.

@kaigallagher

Жыл бұрын

lmao im glad that happened

@brijmsn

7 ай бұрын

How exactly are they coddled more than you? You also have access to therapy but statistics show men choose not to go to therapy as much.

@biocular

5 ай бұрын

@@brijmsn You blaming men for their problems proves his point off the rip. Women are defended from that, guys are not. Maybe next time just watch the video and be quiet.

@brijmsn

5 ай бұрын

@@biocular Thats your problem, always telling people what to do and not shutting up yourself. Quit blaming everyone else because you are impotent and pathetic. This online echo chamber has constructed an entire worldview where losers are coddled and get to point the finger.

@kinsdonn

5 ай бұрын

⁠@@biocularWhere did they blame men? All they did was just refute a claim.

I haven’t felt genuine love or attraction from anyone in almost 25 years

@jderrickson4597

2 жыл бұрын

That sucks...

@leahjackiepeah4130

2 жыл бұрын

Get a cat or dog. I mean women do it all the time.

@borges3099

2 жыл бұрын

@@leahjackiepeah4130 no offense but there's a difference between human connection with the opposite sex and an animal, especially if you're a man.

@marco26gdm

2 жыл бұрын

Selection

@Grumpy_old_Boot

2 жыл бұрын

@@borges3099 Yes, there is indeed a difference, but I argue that a nice doggo will still help ... and a lot more than you might think !

Eh. As someone who's pushing 40, I've seen what happens to a lot of people who get married, have kids, and decide to meld into their couch and wait to die. There are worse things than being single. Also, don't live your life trying to bend yourself to meet and bond with women. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, there's more to life than coupling and living to society's norms.

@joemoshowasdfjoweifojaoifdwto

2 жыл бұрын

Easier said than done. People still want to find someone. when a man can't find anyone, it's really agonizing.

@artcorbeau

2 жыл бұрын

its not about living to society's norm. it's about receiving affection.

@artcorbeau

2 жыл бұрын

@Joshua Westop you can only say that because you have experienced a woman's affection. A lot of us havent got that chance

@ricperry8743

2 жыл бұрын

SPOT ON!

@thinginground5179

2 жыл бұрын

@@artcorbeau Fucking do something about it then. Fix yourself. Climb the mountain.

I've never known anyone who never had sex and relationships with woman by his mid twenties, and feels good with himself, has no mental problems, and is happy. That is just absurd man. Only those who experience that life can tell you how it feels like. And it's very very hard to dig it, sometimes is just impossible without help or medication. Woman just can't comprehend this kind of pain because it just doesn't happen to them. No matter how unatractive and disgusting they are, they will always have someone waiting for a date on tinder. I just want to say that i feel your pain. And your pain is also mine.

@taketheblackpillneo3940

2 жыл бұрын

never-began

@ghengiskhan9308

2 жыл бұрын

we're all in this together

@thewewguy8t88

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah I am still virgin and I am 34 and yeah I do not feel like I am a very well adjusted human.

@ghengiskhan9308

2 жыл бұрын

@@thewewguy8t88 never too late to start working on yourself let's get in the gym.

@aloe8483

Жыл бұрын

@@ghengiskhan9308 yeah cuz the gym solves all ur hatred for women ! 💪

The sad reality for men is that they are easily replaceable. For every man in a relationship with a woman there are at least 2 or 3 other men patiently waiting for their chance to take his place when the day comes that she decides she can "do better". It is what it is...and it ain't gonna change.

@aleksandrac9335

3 ай бұрын

Have you tried not being a🤡?

@user-yg7kb1mt9z

Ай бұрын

Facts man

Its really sad how guys get made fun off or discriminated for showing emotion :(

@danielinthemaiden9039

2 жыл бұрын

Your absolutly right.

@nickelsinacan3250

2 жыл бұрын

@@AK-mh4zb yeah

@Mr_C.Bacteria

2 жыл бұрын

My ex, who I'm still friends with, his son said his mother said men who cry are weak!!! WTF she's talking about my ex because he's a really sensitive guy who does cry a lot he has bouts of depression and BPD. Thankfully their son knows she is wrong and toxic but seriously who the hell tells their son they are weak if they cry or show emotion? I am a female raised by my father who always told me I was weak for crying (and still does even though I'm in my mid 30s) That shit does damage, I repressed my emotions and ended up losing it and trying to kill myself many times. I now have a son and I have always talked to him about emotions, the main thing being you're no less of a man if you are sensitive, you cry, you feel...You are human and I love you no matter what

@danielinthemaiden9039

2 жыл бұрын

@@Mr_C.Bacteria You're a hero.

@justinnamuco9096

2 жыл бұрын

Women also tend to dislike men that show emotions. Even the so-called feminists.

Looked up the definition of brave: This man showed up..

@brennendehexe7934

2 жыл бұрын

Complaining about having no success with women is basically the unsexiest thing a man could do. Women are disgusted by that and they automatically feel like tgeir value is being lowered by talking to you/being with you

@luthermcgee3767

2 жыл бұрын

@@brennendehexe7934 , I don't reach out now, simply because there's too many STDs out there. I still love women, but, I will be only a shoulder to cry on... nothing more.

@fucktheilluminati502

2 жыл бұрын

@@brennendehexe7934 this is why men kill themselves.

@bluemidnight5926

2 жыл бұрын

@@brennendehexe7934 I mean, duh. The comment was about him being brave enough to voice his lack of success in spite of knowing that it would have that kind of an effect, hence why he's brave for doing it.

@fr33kSh0w2012

2 жыл бұрын

@@brennendehexe7934 You are gutless.

Bro I've seen way too many feminist comments here 😂, can you guys not take a hint? This is litterally a video about a guy feeling down and how many men are feeling the same. Why are you here, and why are you trying to make this about yourselves?

@medo-ec3zi

2 жыл бұрын

True

@N0N.o

2 жыл бұрын

@@medo-ec3zi we live in a society Said this cuz of your pfp lmao

@polija9898

24 күн бұрын

You are here in a bubble that makes you see like a victims of a system, while the truth is that men don't care about other men. That's why you are lonely, not because you can't get laid. You can have a woman and nothing will change because valuable and deep friendships are more improstant. Most comments include a strong generalization of women and here we go.. you complain women don't care while also trying to diminish their feeling (of being lonely) and showing that you don't really care also..

Smartphones, social media and dating apps are some of the worst things ever made. It’s like we opened Pandora’s box. Made people less social, made male and female interactions less about personality and more about superficial things like looks, money and status. Made men have to work 10x as hard because there are all these rich, and famous guys on social media who have set the standard in a lot of people’s heads. Gave women too many options, to where they choose the best or not choose any at all because they couldn’t make up their mind. People are not supposed to have so many options like this in life. When we were living in tribes, all we had as an option to eat and drink was whatever animal we killed and water, that’s it. The human brain is not accustomed to so many options. Meanwhile, average men have either no options, or barely any options, and our problems don’t get heard because society doesn’t care. Men are seen as disposable tools and walking ATM’s in this society. And I already know someone is gonna comment something stupid about me “hating women”, or “stop complaining, and man up” but they’re just proving my point about how no one cares about men’s problems. I’m just stating facts.

for me personally, the most fucked up thing is how the patterns of behaviour regarding these things work in our society ... like, is there any way left to meet a girl apart from social media or getting drunk ? When I was younger I used to get with random girls all the time but there was never any substance to it. Then after 20, I started thinking deeper about things and realised that this didn't make me happy at all, if anything it made me feel somehow dirty. The very few times I had a genuine love interest I messed it up because I was a pretty troubled kid so it didn't turn out well at all. Now I'm 30, I have a good job and I'm actually in really good shape, probably the best I've ever been but now the idea of hunting for women in nightclubs or on social media just seems cheap to me. I haven't been with a girl in any capacity for 6 years now, but I actually feel incomparably healthier than back when I was in high school or early 20s when I used to hook up with girls on a regular basis while drunk. I think the minds of our generation have been molded by porn, social media and substance usage to the point that even the way we engage in relationships has become consumeristic and it's really hard to meet someone to have a genuine experience with.

@MrPriceo0

2 жыл бұрын

damn thats tuff brother, why dont you pick up tinder?

@evanalex4607

2 жыл бұрын

@@malik32345 As a female, i can confirm this description on attractiveness. Hypergamy does play a role. Please be able to do things we can’t do ourselves. This should be easy when men are biologically stronger and faster than us. If a guy is not in good shape, at least go the gym. Easy fix.

@LilXancheX

2 жыл бұрын

What I don’t understand is I’ve been going to this girls work every single day for the past 2 months just to see her. The damn manager made her leave cuz of me. They thought it was harassment when I never once said anything inappropriate to her. I bought her chocolate and flowers and yet they think I was being creepy... Tell me, is that really creepy? How is it creepy? I never said I wanted to do her or say anything bad to her. I told her I liked her and even followed her around like a pup on a leash. I don’t understand how that made me the bad guy. I thought I was being nice....

@Blackninjafox13

2 жыл бұрын

@@LilXancheX I think that in another time that would be seen as very romantic. By today's standards it's seen as coming on too strong. I'd recommend you just don't go there for a month, then come in one day and just ask her to something or tell her about something going on in town that your going to and you think she should go to it and if she does she could go along with you. People today are very scared of strangers, and very scared of talking to people in any real regards. Sorry that happened to you man, just move forward

@lemonoji288

2 жыл бұрын

Honestly, this is just a story that you're telling yourself to set yourself up for failure. You can always make meaningful connections with people wherever you go. Sure, talking to strangers is hard and nerve-wracking, but how will we ever make new friends and find new loves if we don't put in the effort?

Dude, you are not alone. It amazes me how many men are dealing with the same things and believe me I understand. Glad to hear you’re doing better. We’re pulling for you.

@kashwalton-tewes4624

2 жыл бұрын

bless

@folieadeux0531

2 жыл бұрын

Hey quick question does anybody wanna raise there hand if they can like if they just don’t care ? Raise your hand 🙌🏻 let me see them hands ;)

Dude I feel the hell out of this video, you're not alone

"I got very little sex" bro you're already ahead of 99.9% of us lmao.

@shittingtoothpaste4209

2 жыл бұрын

made my day XDDDD

@thecia9498

2 жыл бұрын

I'm 20 right now... I'm a Virgin whose never been able to get a girlfriend. I guess I mightve had 1 but the relationship only lasted a week. My parents keep asking me when I'll get a girlfriend and I'm sitting there knowing in my head that I don't even have any normal friends.

@alejandrobribiesca5002

2 жыл бұрын

fr jajajajajaj

@daebune9404

2 жыл бұрын

Bro, you can easily get an escorts or find some other ulternative. You'd screw your mental health if you got one, and she cheated on you. Chase money, and get a pack of like minded friends. You need therapy bro, not a girlfriend. They'll just make things worse

@underskillednunderpaid

2 жыл бұрын

@@daebune9404 I somewhat agree with you. They should for sure work on their mental health and self first before getting a girlfriend. Women can make you feel like you are on top of the world and they can also throw it away whenever they want and make you feel like absolute shit. Girlfriends can supplement you, but you can't use then for your main source of happiness

Im the mother of 4 men, im so sorry for what yall have to deal with. A momms ♡

@taketheblackpillneo3940

Жыл бұрын

all-ur-fault-if-those-sons-suffer.couldnt-keep-ur-legs-shut,now-didnt-u?

@enricomadrigal9168

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Mommy, we appreciate it ♥

why when i’m clicking on your video there’s a message « only for mature audience or something like this » ? everything you saying in this video is absolutely true , society and people fucking don’t care about men . I’m dying in an unexplained loneliness , im 37, i have a good job , i have my house but. years ago , i’ve been duped bu a woman who promised me everything and a family but she manipulated and humiliated me many times and dumped me line i was nothing and now everything in my life is gone , even the friends of my youth who were always there before i met her . I’m in a despair since , everyone don’t care about me . I have everything to share , i have knowledge, i have a good appearance but nothing . Im with you friend.

Having the balls to open up about this makes you an alpha to me, buddy. Hope you're in a better place today!

@SpinCycleMKV

2 жыл бұрын

I am, watch my newer videos if you care to.

@terrybennett6801

2 жыл бұрын

@@SpinCycleMKV I appreciate seeing another man be vulnerable. I had decided a while ago I would never emotionally open up ALL the way to any woman after my ex. And she was my only ex. I’m a solitary person but I’ve wanted to integrate into a more social life and gain more friends and get a girlfriend of my own. But tbh my problem has always been I’m picky when I shouldn’t be. Almost no women talk to me romantically and if they do I never pick up their hints. I’ve just kind of accepted that I’m probably going to live most of my life alone, I might be in a relationship with or marry a woman for a short period and then she will leave and I will live the rest of my life the same I did the first half, on my own. I don’t believe anything happens after death, we’re just animals and I’m not in the part of the social hierarchy that benefits the life I’ve been given whatsoever. Basically f*ck me I guess. I’m only 23 and I’m somewhat skinny at 5’7”. I’m not extroverted at all. I don’t consider myself to have a family anymore, I’m living on my own and doing things on my own for myself. Everyone deserves love but not everyone gets it and I guess that’s the hand I’ve been dealt. But at least hearing someone else’s struggle makes me feel less alienated. Thank you man.

@slopernafti902

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you realise that this "alpha, beta" nonsense is a contributing factor for why so many sad males exist. Incels, general sexists/misogynists, sociopaths etc. Just say he's a brave man, or something, instead of using the Greek alphabet to compliment him.

@fryone

2 жыл бұрын

@@slopernafti902 I am stating it specifically because he himselfs states that he isn't in the video, daddy chill 😆

@slopernafti902

2 жыл бұрын

@@fryone Doesn't change the fact that those terms are ridiculous and childish.

I'm from China and it's the same thing. Few people actually care what men are going through. I have a girlfriend which I think is a good girl. But I can't reveal any true negative feelings to her, cuz she thinks a man should sort out all the negative feelings all by himself. So yeah, no one cares. I didn't see any girls, even the good ones, who think about "giving"in love relationship. I only see "receiving".

@kaedelynn

3 жыл бұрын

Wut..as a lady I see that as an abusive relationship.O.o You're obviously not on same page as she's dominant position if you can't show her negative feelings & she can. It means you're not her equal. Have you told her you're not ok with this, if you do does she calls it your negative/you being selfish? As it can truly end you if you're compatible & she really cares about and loves you. If you can't tell her then I'm afraid for you guys, especially if you have any plans like marriage & kids this needs to be solved first. You should really talk if you're still together, goodluck! This is from someone without experience in any romantic relationship, but seen enough being broken/ruined sadly.

@FalseShepard119

3 жыл бұрын

​@@kaedelynn First of all, thank you for your comments. I never expect such a long reply and detailed suggestions. I appreciate it. Your suggestions are useful because I gained positive results from communication. I discussed with her regarding this issue. The first several times are not happy ones. But gradually she realized that it was a misconception of masculinity that man should not have negative feelings. Now she not only accept the existence of my negative feelings but also soothes me when I have them. Our relationship becomes great and more intimate.

@kaedelynn

3 жыл бұрын

@@FalseShepard119 Great! I'm glad & happy to hear you became closer!:)

@PeteS_1994

3 жыл бұрын

Elliott Hulse actually speaks about this in a recent video.

@kidkieran77

2 жыл бұрын

Bro, I live in China (I’m a foreigner) and what you’re saying is just facts. Girls here are sweet and well natured but they won’t necessarily give you much in return.

youre one of the first people who had the BALLS to talk about this. We respect you for this courage. thankyou.

@SpinCycleMKV

Жыл бұрын

Thanks. Means a lot to me.

Everytime that a man talks about their bad experiences with women, people will always call him an incel. The culture right now is to take those "incels" as punching bags. Yet everyone turns a blind eye when some women say stuff like "Fück men". I guarantee you that someone will call me an incel for what I just said. I'm not hating on women, I'm hating on hypocrites. All the people that have wronged men like me and then basically try to clean their hands, blaming society. Then people tell me that "you have to let it go, you're stuck in the past", when I talk about this stuff. It feels like they don't take me seriously, because I'm a men. When my abusive ex leaked really personal stuff about me (even worse than leaking nudes, honestly), people basically said "just let it go". THEY WOULDN'T SAY THAT TO A WOMAN, EVER. Some people literally need to know that I attempted suicide, before even caring a little.

@Ibrahimhr10

2 жыл бұрын

That fucking sucks man. I hope you're in a better place now, being betrayed by people you trust is literally one of the worst things anyone could go through.

@goodone5590

2 жыл бұрын

Im sorry buddy! Do you like pets? Get a dog or a cat, it helps a lot, their the most loyal! It will be a Great gift to give yourself.

@inconnu4961

2 жыл бұрын

The suicide rate among men is the highest it has ever been? does anyone talk about it? Do you know what month June is? its Men's mental health awareness month! You hear anyone talk about it? Nope! If we aint gay, we aint important to society. They want us to kill ourselves! They keep pushing us and pushing us! Don't give in! Give em the bird by staying in the game!

@SUPERDESERTOPIUM

2 жыл бұрын

your an incel

@thewewguy8t88

2 жыл бұрын

So a second story I was at bar and I met these 2 roommates a guy and a Lesbian. Me and the are drunk and kiss cuz we are drunk the girl slaps the guy for us kissing and here is the kicker more people are outraged I am complaining that this girl slapped the guy for no real reason then the fact she slapped him for no good reason(actually people defend her saying it's cuz she probably felt like well she probably felt like you guys were making fun of her by kissing)

I’m 19 and these problems are already starting for me, wish me luck kings…

@vklnew9824

2 жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZoifqM-mlNDRZZM.html

@davecurtis6930

2 жыл бұрын

Man up,both of u,get a tan, maybe go tagging,u sound like a nervous bitch

@ghostrecon7497

2 жыл бұрын

@@davecurtis6930 don't be a bitch man.

@itsalamp1175

2 жыл бұрын

Happens to the best of us

@justicethedoggo3648

2 жыл бұрын

Man up bruh , don't take it in a negative way tho . We are made like this we are better in everything that's why people expect everything from us , ur job is to satisfy yourself and not giving a fuc about the world . Move out play make friends with the boys you will be happy , and by boys in mean active ones not degenerates .

This video just shows that there is a huge lack of conversation between men and women.We need more conversations. Not arguing who has it worse and who's fault what is. No, clear conversations, sharing each others views, perspective, emotions and problems... it would help so much if we would instead of first seperating children by gender and later only building hyper sexual relationship between the genders build from early age spaces to have these conversations.

@Theodiorr

2 жыл бұрын

I agree this would also be a great help if we did this with different races, ethnicities, etc. If everyone just listened and learned without invalidating others or talking down, we could get somewhere

@DragonglEvgeniy

2 жыл бұрын

True. Modern conversation seems are processing only in virtual surface - speak irl with someone who dont know you - is something weird, and i dont know you right? 😉

@nicholasmills2005

2 жыл бұрын

This tbh, it baffles me that out culture now a day will separate kids when they're too young to even understand why. Then they will hypersexualize them when they are teens and promote unhealthy relationships and degrading views of women and men to the opposite gender?

@alivm2531

2 жыл бұрын

Most of is just nature Noone gives a f*** about you if you are not hustling your way up to live a meaningful and powerful life A woman has to be beautiful thats it She just can marry some high society dude for nothing Thats the truth You will get sorted out by nature if you dont get your shit together and live atleast a average life

@DivinityAwakened

2 жыл бұрын

You're just self-reporting the fact that you literally dont talk to woman, and you really think that's a societal issue? You really think there are no men and women having decent conversations every single day? Go outside and touch the grass for ffs. Women arent another species, the huge majority of them are just normal people. Stop basing your view of reality on what you see on the internet and actually go outside and try socializing.

This is such a relatable thing I am surprised there are not many support groups out there for guys like us.

@Andrewjc222

2 жыл бұрын

I can relate to this so much

@thewewguy8t88

2 жыл бұрын

@@Andrewjc222 yeah it feels like us guys are on our own and it's like yeah.

@user-kb8hp4nt5b

2 жыл бұрын

yall need to stop crying.... that's the problem..... if you stay inside doing noting productive... bruh that's on you.... go outside, hit the gym, do something productive and the rest will come.... man in our generation are fucked up.. we are becoming weak

Us Males have really hard life i dont think females understand how hurt and lonely some of us are

@ibeatmeat4feet

Жыл бұрын

ikr

@handsomediscordkinglord8122

Жыл бұрын

Definitely true

@davidwright1115

Жыл бұрын

They don't understand, nor do they care to understand

@backcure3621

10 ай бұрын

Just go to any video that touches on these subjects and you will find testimonies of hundreds of men which don't have any voice otherwise. I happened to see a short where some woman psychologist was recounting her experience of a man telling her how his wife and daughter would see him in a lesser light if he actually became vulnerable in front of them, the comments were quite telling. What's funny is that if you ask women online about the things men need to worry less about, not being afraid to be emotional and vulnerable is #1. They really want their man to open up, except they really don't. So what were the comments under the video saying? Hundreds of gut-wrenching stories of how their wives/girlfriends said they'd be okay if they open up about their insecurities, their traumatic past etc., but once they did--- these things were used against them in future fights, the woman's behaviour changed, she left/divorced. Others were about how they were openly ridiculed by women but only other men ever understood them and were supportive.

@ForeverShadowBanned

10 ай бұрын

They understand, they just don't care.

People only want to be your friend when you’re a winner, they won’t give you the light or day while you struggle. That’s why nobody cares. We struggling men need to find each other and work together to reach that common goal and build the strong friendships that only that can give.

@blooflazh7

2 жыл бұрын

FAX

@ElishaLong

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed man

@leothelion5035

2 жыл бұрын

Search for kind and empathic people, and be kind back to them. Love yourself and take out of your life the people who just want to abuse you, even if they are family. Clean your mind and body as much as you can, and then, engage in relationships with others.

@controversialgaming1364

2 жыл бұрын

You can have friends if you are a winner ? If you have that kind of mentality you can rest assure that you are going to die alone . I myself have really close friends while I'm struggling financially but I don't weight my friends with my problems . I was never successful ( I'm 23 ) but I'm not pretention that everything needs to be a competition , so automatically I can make friends because of my confidence .

@aldra8507

2 жыл бұрын

That’s actually really true. I think if you struggling men have your own group will really help all of you guys. You can talk to each other about your experiences then go out and do something together and build that strong friendship so you can shine. On second thought the winner part that you said is a bad mindset like someone else told you. Shine for yourself and your own growth. Never do it for anyone else cause if you do where is the happiness coming from. It’s only coming from you. You got this.

The difference between men and women: One isn’t sought after at all and the other is sought after too much.

@trippyparrot9281

2 жыл бұрын

its the basic principals of evolution sadly. Woman can only have a limited number of children whereas men can have virtually infinite of them. that creates the drive to play down men and push up women in society. Most "eminist" complain that women never were allowed to do anything because men wnated all the attention. That was just simply not the case! Almost every ancient script to this topic refers to women as having to be protected because of their value in society as cildbearers and men having to fight and die for them because factually only a single male is needed to get to the next generation.

@rudy1999

2 жыл бұрын

That's why like 80% of women reproduce while only 40% of the men.

@destinixshakur

2 жыл бұрын

Who is sought after too much?

@rudy1999

2 жыл бұрын

@@destinixshakur Young and attractive women.

@destinixshakur

2 жыл бұрын

@@rudy1999 that is not true . We are abused and targeted for hate and sexual encounters

I feel this so much. 32 years old here. All I've ever known is rejection, getting ignored, people looking past me, not acknowledging my existence, actually telling me I don't look good enough or am not "boyfriend material". Most of my friends are all married and have a family. The toll it's taken is almost irreversible. All the therapy and medication isn't enough sometimes. The women around here are so pampered and any man that dares show any emotion or opens up about being lonely gets criticized. Hence why I personally don't talk about it with anyone here. Props to you for bringing it up.

I’m nearly 18 and have no idea what I’m doing. No friends, no job, no social life to speak of. All I do is watch movies and sleep, school is miserable. I’ll admit that it’s my fault for not putting myself out there enough, but my anxiety keeps me from even leaving the house. I don’t want to be the 22 yo virgin living in his moms basement.

@theonewhoknocks96

Жыл бұрын

You’re very young, your brain hasn’t even fully developed yet. Take advantage of the plethora of time you have. Don’t start out adulthood with the mindset that you’ll never be able to change, because you won’t if that’s your attitude. Exercise, read, get a skill, travel (if you have the means to), and try to go outside your comfort zone. Ingrain healthy habits into your life and by the time you’re midway through your 20s, you should be in a good place. Im 26 now and I never really had that message instilled into me during my teens. Spent way too much time with my head in the clouds, feeling sorry for myself and dwelling on past traumas and missed opportunities. Im a mess, though aware of it now and trying to change. Trust me you don’t want to just start on the path towards change at my age and older. It just gets harder as the years go by. I wish you the best of luck.

@myfoodisgrownnotborncompas362

Жыл бұрын

I think it s a fault of your parents, they must to think about you health, life, future by law, if not prisoned.

@shefalimehta9794

Жыл бұрын

dude… you’re 18. you don’t need a job, going to school is good enough

this is fucking incredible man, the vulnerability in this is inspiring as it gets to just be honest with people and your self

@MastersApprentice123

2 жыл бұрын

And yet there's too many "man up lol", "you've never been raped", "others have it worse", "it's the patriarchy's" fault comments. Perfect example of how little people are capable of empathizing with men.

@kingrue3057

2 жыл бұрын

@@MastersApprentice123 I think people just want to give him perspective that life can get shitty for everyone. Half of the population is lonely not just men, he's mentality will misdirect him from the true cause of his "issues" which isn't society or women's fault he's in that postion. The way he goes about putting forth the notion that because women easily get sexual partners they couldn't possibly understand him. As if easy accessibility to sex makes you exempt from feelings of loneliness. It's highly dramatic and very much loathing in self-pity- I don't mean to invalidate his feelings but the mindset he's stuck in is harmful to everybody not just himself.

@angstyh0313

2 жыл бұрын

@@kingrue3057 say it, SAY IT

@chasethefeel

2 жыл бұрын

@@kingrue3057 yall scream mansplain over shit like this but here you are explaining shit against facts. whole feminism movement is cancer.

@chasethefeel

2 жыл бұрын

@@kingrue3057 you dont get to talk about your point of view about a mans life.

No one cares about you,when people see a broken man or a man with a slightest bit of weakness their first instinctual response is to view him as pathetic and dismiss him or put him down further,only you can help yourself,only you can lift yourself out from any mess you are in,only you can make yourself stronger,you are your own greatest ally without any exaggeration.

@kubasniak

3 жыл бұрын

I understand viscerally no one gives a damn, even gods if they or one exists. If god exists he's my greatest enemy. I never asked to be born.

@tonyrich5282

3 жыл бұрын

@@kubasniak Without my God(Jesus) giving me strength to live another day, I would have been swallowed by the abyss.🙏 With a humble heart pray to Jesus he will give you strength even when you yourself can’t muster anymore willpower to live, he will give you his strength.

@randomserbianguy5677

3 жыл бұрын

@@tonyrich5282 please go knock on someone else's door. Nobody asked you to preach about jesus and nobody gives a shit except for you

@jeannedarc7533

3 жыл бұрын

@@tonyrich5282 Who gives a fuck about evangelism? This is unrelated to the video lad.

@randomserbianguy5677

3 жыл бұрын

@Sarah clark Patterson but why search for a relationship in the yotube comments where everybody is anonymous with a fake username and pfp?

It sucks to say but I relate to this. All the women who have ever shown interest in me always end up ghosting me randomly out of nowhere. It’s brutal and frustrating. Sometimes I blame myself on what I’m doing wrong but at this point it doesn’t even matter. I’ve become numb and emotionless. And the worst part is no one ever asks “what’s wrong?” We have to just keep moving forward even if this despair feels like it just wants us to keel over and die.

@CitiesOfAsh

9 ай бұрын

The key is to find happiness within yourself and stop looking for it from others.

I feel this on every level. I feel this day in and day out. I continue to fight, but I ask myself why pretty regularly. You are certainly not alone in these thoughts my friend!

When society mocks or doesn't care about the sadness and loneliness of men, you start to question who are the oppressed.

@linoleumbonaparte5798

2 жыл бұрын

It’s fucking pathetic. Maybe make male friends. Single women never whine this much lmao women owe you nothing.

@aramisy.cajigas744

2 жыл бұрын

@ZooyZoé That's what feminism indoctrinated you on. Sad. Thanks for proving my point.

@aramisy.cajigas744

2 жыл бұрын

@Isabella Thanks for making him right again.

@linoleumbonaparte5798

2 жыл бұрын

@Isabella girl thanks for joining me in injecting sense into this comment section. God bless us.

@linoleumbonaparte5798

2 жыл бұрын

@Isabella literally!!! They say they get raped and beaten too but who’s doing it? Other men. When men k*ll themselves it’s statistically to avoid consequences for a crime committed, relationship breakdown or for (minority) mental health issues eg alcoholism. When women do it’s often following male sexual and physical abuse, bullying and harassment, revenge porn etc. Then they want us to help them stop male suicide. GTFOH. They create their own problems AND ours then expect us to mommy them out of it.

I havent been on a date in about 3 years. I dont even know any women really. This is what I dont understand about all this MGTOW stuff, there arent even any available women around me to abstain from if I wanted to. Its just a cope. I care less and less about being single I think because I stopped using facebook/twitter/instagram or whatever and now that im in my 30s, im just not stressed out as much I cant do anything about. I highly suggest not using social media or dating apps, it kills your morale.

@MarcFun

3 жыл бұрын

@Caleb Ryan Koko That's a good motivation , honestly i have reached to a point that i like money much more than woman!!

@joeroot9142

3 жыл бұрын

@Caleb Ryan Koko not if you’re broke, if she had her own place you can’t move in.

@Subhuman5season

3 жыл бұрын

@Sarah clark Patterson I assume this is spam or a troll

@RekoneInkings

2 жыл бұрын

@Caleb Ryan Koko I'm in your same situation. I moved over friends, girls or stuff. After the pandemic is over I'll retake my gym, I'm 36 and I live in a 20th floor flat on the shoreline, parking, pool, I have a car... Man, I've got everything but a crazy bitch demanding attention or babies because she saw a picture in Instagram and a friend of her thats pregnant caused on her jealousy. Damn I'm good

@xq3975

2 жыл бұрын

I never even see young women outside. It's like they teleport everywhere or they just get driven everywhere. There literally is no way to actually meet women these days.

I'm in my early 30s and every relationship I've had has just been then using me. Even when we were together we never had sex they would give me every excuse in the book but I stopped tolerating that. I stopped relationships and started working out down 70 pounds and now women who rejected me in the past are messaging me but too little too late.

@domisthebomb09

Жыл бұрын

Fuck it. Get all the sex you wanted from them. Then dump them outta the blue

@RedXevious7

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, dropped 60 pounds myself and as soon as I did my ex started touching me up. As if I'm not the same person she once dated, bunch of fakes, as soon as you become better than them they drop

@Churlz

3 ай бұрын

You're starting to realize that women are just as looks based, if not more, than us guys. We always were taught that they care more about personality, which is only half-true. Looks ALWAYS matter.

Dude you hit the nail on the head every single point, I feel the exact same way. Hope you're okay brother, I hope everyone is okay.

@SpinCycleMKV

Ай бұрын

Thanks. I'm doing a lot better these days.

This bloke needs a hug. It's going to be ok mate. It can be easy to get caught up in all the bullshit people say sometimes, try and get outside when you can.

@cryptotazz6080

2 жыл бұрын

Yup and improvement health wise helps too. Exercise, meditation, good food, NoFap and all that good shit. Mind and body should be in balance.

@stadtjer689

2 жыл бұрын

@@cryptotazz6080 isn't NoFap just a popular movement instead of based in solid science?

@cryptotazz6080

2 жыл бұрын

@@stadtjer689 I can tell from my own experience it is very helpful. You have a lot more energy, motivation and better performance in sport. Also the way you look at girls can change from a lust object to a potential partner. All i can say is try it out, after 6/7 days you already can tell the difference.

@DonVigaDeFierro

2 жыл бұрын

@@stadtjer689 I tried it, but sincerely not looking at porn brings about 90% of all the benefits. The rest of benefits (productivity, better sleep, etc.) come after you're no longer staring at a screen in the middle of the night and wasting valuable time browsing porn sites...

@cryptotazz6080

2 жыл бұрын

@@DonVigaDeFierro releasing does cost energy and a lot of useful nutritions get lost when releasing. You are draining your energy, after you released you usually feel tired, exhausted. Also sperm takes 72 days to mature. So if you release every single day, it perhaps is a good ideaif you are allowing your sperm grow to maturity.

Damn, man. I relate to this SO much. I’m 34, single, and I don’t really have friends because they’re all in relationships or have moved away because of their relationship. It doesn’t really bother me, because I enjoy solitude, but I can really empathize with this guy’s grief and troubles. My heart goes out for you, dude. Hang in there. ❤️

@ZeranZeran

2 жыл бұрын

I'm 28 and often feel like life is already over, I'm trapped, things don't get better for me, they just won't. I know part of that is true, and part of that is my brain being negative. Thank you guys for letting me know I'm not alone. I know things can get better, but man, this sucks sometimes. Hope you're all hanging in there too guys. Seriously, thank you.

@hagenanon9484

2 жыл бұрын

Same buddy. Same. M34. Everybody is in relationships. Having kids. Friends circle been torn apart. And im struggling to even have 1 friend. Wondering if it even makes sense to keep going

@hagenanon9484

2 жыл бұрын

@@1CT1 thanks buddy but god is dead and we have killed him

@theostragonidis7548

2 жыл бұрын

@@1CT1 Cultist detected.

@helvete_ingres4717

2 жыл бұрын

why would your friends being in relationships mean they're not your friends anymore..?

Just currently turned 22 last month. I have never been in an intimate relationship. I've been close to getting a partner but I've always been rejected. I feel your pain, society has really brought men to a new low. No one cares about men mental state. We have to pick ourselves up. You must pick yourself up. Get stronger, work on yourself. Don't do it for women, do it for yourself. I believe in you.

@alexs.9192

2 жыл бұрын

Bro I'm 36 and never been in an intimate relationship. The only intimacy I've got was from hookers a few times. At 22 you're just a baby. But it's true, time flies quickly.

Damn. I remember watching this video five years ago. I am saddened yet not surprised this is circulating again. I hope you all are doing OK, most important things is we stick together guys

The sad reality of millennial men.

@christianedwards9025

2 жыл бұрын

I'm not quite 30 yet and it's odd how few men older men realize the game is rigged against them. There is one and me and him get along so well.

@badass6300

2 жыл бұрын

Of all men, it's just that previous generations were much tougher and men understood that they were men and that the woman experience isn't for them. The only thing that men are currently suffering from that is out of their control is femal attraction towards them and getting women in general.

@christianedwards9025

2 жыл бұрын

@@badass6300 don't forgot the gynocentric laws and views of society.

@gregorymoci6986

2 жыл бұрын

The sad reality of every man...

@wagondragon

2 жыл бұрын

@@christianedwards9025 Can you explain what you mean with "the game is rigged against them"?

"and my whole group of friends is just fucking gone." I've never felt love, and I also don't wish to have sex without love, as such, I just put all my effort into my friendships. I've lost so many friends over time, and that resulted in my only friend being my mom, until she passed back when I was in 7th grade. I wholly understand what you were going through at the time. I see you have a newer video I'll have to watch after this, but it appears you already know you're not alone in what you're going through. I'm sorry about what you've been dealing with, but I sincerely wish you the best.

@cankhovich1796

2 жыл бұрын

go to nature (sungaze & mushroom gather, grow a garden,...)

@carlbrenston8436

2 жыл бұрын

​@@cankhovich1796 this, it sounds cliche, but mother nature can be the best of friends

@Volzotran

2 жыл бұрын

well same but I am a woman, It's definetly not a male problem

@peepogob

2 жыл бұрын

@@Volzotran sure but think about how average it is for men to go that long without any care. obviously it happens to women too, not everything is black and white but it definitley isnt as painfully normal for it to happen to men

@velvetvulpix

2 жыл бұрын

@@peepogob why do you think it happens to men more often just curious i see alot of guys saying this in the comments that loneliness happens to men more ?

"..you really want to know what it's like to have no one care about you? Go for like 7 years where you have absolutely 0 affection from anyone whatsoever." Yep.

True... But I'd rather be alone though, its so peaceful. No friends. No girlfriend/wife. No kids. No one to judge me. No one to betray me. No one to hurt me. I don't need anyone to make me feel complete. Born alone. Die alone. Protect yourself and be happy Brother. Peace.

@joeschmo4646

3 ай бұрын

Amen. I’ll never bring a child into this shithole of a world. This rotting carcass of concrete and lies. Fuck it.

Mad respect all the ladies in here trying to understand and actually care about us men 🙏 we need more of yall

@fayray7399

2 жыл бұрын

of course, you guys need love too :) virtual hugs

@dxcember13

2 жыл бұрын

@@fayray7399 virtual hugs HAHAHA

@sushio4357

2 жыл бұрын

@Derp Inshmurtz Sucks cause there is actual truth to what you said. :)

@grant9589

2 жыл бұрын

In my experience, more women care about men - real men, than we actually care to think or hope. A lot of the man-hating, more & more every day, is coming from male Feminists who are jealous that they can't possess & control women. This may have not previously been the case, but as of the 2020s, your biggest obstacle is now basically envious soyboys, "player-haters" as it were. Meanwhile, women _used_ to hate men, but these days, the trend is waking up to the real problems & giving men who chose to grow up a chance, or at least to be supportive of them, just not sexual, which I get, considering how burdensome dating is these days. But yeah, a lot of the real problem these days is that men treat each other as villains if they have even the slightest competitive ability.

@nicecry9

2 жыл бұрын

Woman on these types of videos are just attention seekers. The absolute worst kind of woman that you should stay away from.

Honestly people don't really care much for men in society nowadays but that's why it's important for men to stick together that way we don't feel alone dealing with things like this

@tupapaenpelotas

2 жыл бұрын

@Vanima Woman detected Opinion rejected

@zerolelouch22

2 жыл бұрын

@Vanima why can’t we have “men” support groups? Specifically for men? Your argument to me sounds like the “all lives matter” argument.

@amourtoujours779

2 жыл бұрын

It's interesting that you say "people don't really care much for men" but then say "men need to stick together." Aren't 51% of "people" men? So, why do you avoid holding men accountable for not caring about other men? You say "people" when you want to generalize but are alright with saying "men" when you want sympathy. I find that most interesting.

@amourtoujours779

2 жыл бұрын

@@zerolelouch22 Maybe for the same reason that for CENTURIES, when women complained about their feelings, men told them to "shut up, be more feminine, and stop being bitter." Meet Karma. She never misses.

@dhaloh

2 жыл бұрын

@Vanima I totally agree. I have struggled with loneliness all my life and I'm a woman. I've never had a boyfriend/girlfriend and I'm not even ugly. It's my fault though. I didn't insert myself in social situations much and weren't emotionally available. I've almost killed myself once when I was really depressed. No woman would want to date some guy who's biased against women.

I’m going through the same thing lad, stay strong, for as long as possible, you’ll get through this

Loneliness will either make you or break you..

@joshuarichards9365

Жыл бұрын

Jeez you said it

@lukeaustin4465

Жыл бұрын

It always breaks you due to the nature of the flesh.

Damm this hit hard, hope this young man is well today.

@popstarprincess123

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah

@semi-animatronic9773

2 жыл бұрын

Same here, like hearing this stuff is making me sad and concerned for my male friends

@harvestingseason2725

2 жыл бұрын

Yup

I'm in the same rut as you are man. Preach 🙏 you're not alone in this lonely circle of life

@NedsonMonteiro

3 жыл бұрын

@Caleb Ryan Koko thanks man. I'm doin okay, getting use to it now but making good out of the whole loneliness thing. 🙃😁🙏

@NedsonMonteiro

3 жыл бұрын

@Caleb Ryan Koko thanks and yeah maybe I could. 🤔😁

This really sums up a man's life. I don't think women are able to conceive this. Judging by the complaints they have about life, I am sure their auto deletion rates would be 100% by their 30s if they experienced just a glimpse of what we go through everyday. Your video remembered me of that old saying "it is when the apprentice is ready that the master shows up" (maybe it is written differently in english, but you get the idea). I am almost 30 and surely 5 years ago this wouldn't have resonated with me the way it did now. It is kinda crazy how the algorithm knows us. It wasn't more than a few months ago when I came to the same conclusion regarding gynocentrism. Even though it is sad that this is even a thing, I found support in seeing guys from the community you quoted putting my thoughts into words and actually explaining why it happens. For those who have interest, check out Turd Flinging Monkey, bar bar, Thinking Ape and Stardusk channels. Stay strong. You are a man.

@aleksandrac9335

3 ай бұрын

Womp womp

I just told a girl that I was feeling really lonely and she said “quit being a sadboi lolol”

@jessicar3291

Жыл бұрын

That's such a horrible thing to say. :( I'm so sorry she said that to you

@chilliecheesecake

Жыл бұрын

Typical feminine shaming tactics. I'm sorry she tried invalidating your suffering, friend.

@Curtis.Carpenter

Жыл бұрын

this is coming from a 31y/o whos been in about 12 relationships since 14y/o, some short ,some long...but i learned alot. do not ever tell a women or admit to a woman any weakness or emotional feelings you have. especially to a female partner, they will say "you can cry infront of me its okay to open up..etc" but realistically they dont want to actually SEE you cry or witness you being weak. they dont even wanna hear that you crieD. regardless of what made you emotional. its changes the way they see you once you show sadness or cry infront of them. 100% of the time. regardless of what feminists or other guys may think or claim, many women have admitted this to me when ive asked. they have said in these very words-> "when i see a man cry he seems weak and i don't want a weak man, i want a tough man". women have said this to me almost word for word multiple times. PLUS, there is nothing that talking to a female (that your interested in) about your feelings will achieve if you hope to ever date or get with her. the only women that a guy would be so vulvlnerable with are typically partners or friends with benefits. the exact group of women who are turned off and away by men who emote openly and have no control, openly crying. or even just here or there. your never safe bro, unless your married for 20years, shes given you kids and aint going anywhere AND you don't care if she sees you as weak, THEN you could emote openly and not care. still can only cause problems, women cant understand men and they sure as heck cannot help us heal with their words.

@Curtis.Carpenter

Жыл бұрын

When im lonely which is often. i try my best to workout. even if that just means doing a real workout or just walking around the block and listening to music. then i get hungry, the food helps my mood/mindstate. then i feel tired earlier and usually get better sleep that night. a little exercise can be life changer and sure has been for me

@aloe8483

Жыл бұрын

@@chilliecheesecake “typical feminine shaming tactics” wtf u act like she’s some manipulative monster. clearly she just didn’t take it seriously and needs to grow up but to twist the whole thing around to make women in general seem like they want to hurt u on purpose is stupid

The algorithm does find their ways huh

@sweetxcalibur5319

2 жыл бұрын

Hey speakin faxx m8, hopefully it also leads ppl to finding crypto an possibly financial freedom 2 😁

@f1ah

2 жыл бұрын

😪

Life is a struggle. Stay strong, man. Personally, I've never dated and I don't think I will make a family or find a girlfriend or close friend. Loneliness has become a good thing to me.

@BlackFrostMusic

2 жыл бұрын

I’m alone but not lonely. Let’s focus on being strong & happy.

@thanos1229

2 жыл бұрын

@Silent Pain mirjn brahh

@officialclintrix2dwurld

2 жыл бұрын

@Silent Pain you need to participate in activities and u just let whatever happens, happens. . Don't force nothing. Work on yourself, love yourself and be kind to others.

@officialclintrix2dwurld

2 жыл бұрын

@Silent Pain you need to participate in activities and u just let whatever happens, happens. . Don't force nothing. Work on yourself, love yourself and be kind to others.

@HellboyBr11

2 жыл бұрын

@Silent Pain it's bad, but for some, what's left is to accept it all

Stop making phone calls and wait. If your phone is not ringing and you get no messages, it is the silent answer.

Bro im here to tell you that it's even hard for "jacked" guys like me with good physique. I gotten some hookups then and there but they eventually leave and ghost me. This girl that asked for my Instagram ghosted me the next day!! Same thing over and over again!! I feel like they just lust over me but dont want to form a connection with me. I've had to miss work some days because my mental health is getting worse! As a 26 year old Man who sees all your cousins your age or younger than you married with children and beautiful Wives just hurts your soul. Im happy for them but i feel like an Outkast! I don't go out hardly anymore my mental health is just getting worse 😥😥🥶😭

@hanalala3164

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao. A lot of those married folks especially the one with kids, are miserable. They hide it real well

@kingdoge69

Жыл бұрын

I feel you on seeing your cousins your age or younger getting married, I’m going through this right now. Soul shattering indeed😪

@kyleschwartz.

Жыл бұрын

read 3% man by Corey Wayne

@investertiger3777

Жыл бұрын

Stop meeting women on dating apps! I know you look good but most women on the apps are trash. Delete all your apps. Stay away, far away from it.

@kyleschwartz.

Жыл бұрын

@@investertiger3777 that’s a fact, just straight demotivating. Unless you’re top tier it ain’t worth it, mostly for self validation

I can see so much of myself in you man. I feel your pain. Literally 100% of what you said fits with what I think about this topic.

@SpinCycleMKV

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. Doing much better these days. I hope you can make it there too.

@yandenditt

2 жыл бұрын

Start lifting boys

@anderson-gb8rp

Жыл бұрын

“Just lift bro“ ”Just take a shower bro“ ”Just get a haircut bro“ ”Just talk to women bro“

Dude…I’ve never connected with someone on the same shit ever in my life. This is ridiculously accurate

@jasimsyriac1445

2 жыл бұрын

Are you intj by any means?

@ReclusiveNatured23

2 жыл бұрын

Seriously

@chadgrimes252

2 жыл бұрын

I connected with like one person but unfortunately the person was never in the same country as me and now moved on with different people so the connection is gone

@chadgrimes252

2 жыл бұрын

I connected with like one person but unfortunately the person was never in the same country as me and now moved on with different people so the connection is gone

I'm not sure if it's just me, but I really feel the situation was so different 10 or 15 years ago. When I was younger it was still difficult to meet and know a girl, but it sure wasn't as frustrating as it is now. I felt it was more of a game, where you sometimes won and most times you failed and learnt something. Nowadays you just get rejected by default. It is so strange to get a compliment. Couple weeks ago, I requested a coffee in the usual place, and maybe I was specially funny or something that day, but the waitress wrote have a nice day on the cup. I almost broke into tears, and I have a picture of it because I know it won't happen for years again.

@meeppeep4113

Жыл бұрын

You're right. Women treated men way better 10 years ago. Now even ugly women think they deserve a hot guy🤦‍♂️

Speaking for the masses. Straight facts man. Nice t shirt.

I was alone for 10 years, in great shape, had my own place, not ugly (I think), shirt and tie job and was still ignored. Now, I’m laid off. Economy is in the toilet, protests and riots everywhere, and I’m starting to lose hope. I shouldn’t feel sorry for myself and no one owes me a thing..but I just keep thinking...It’s not supposed to be this way.

@euroyen420p2

3 жыл бұрын

Homer, make your own way, dont let the TV set the narriative. Riots smiots, job smob.

@saadfreakinadhia6239

3 жыл бұрын

I wish you the best man. You’re doing well so far.

@TicketsTheMovie

3 жыл бұрын

I hope you’re doing well.

@bvdatech1

3 жыл бұрын

Modern Day Society is in a dark place with the illusion its better than ever =(

@greenthunder1000

2 жыл бұрын

You are the all seeing all dancing crap of the world. Welcome to hell.

"Its 16 minutes, I doubt anybody's made it this far" as if you wasnt spitting facts for 17 minutes straight that I can relate to today. I'm about to see the updates now but hopefully you've made it farther than how it was 3 years ago

Dude the amount that you've changed since this video is something you should be proud of every morning. Just the way you are holding yourself, the color in your face, your posture it all reminds me of a quote by Marcus Aurelius "A man cannot be held up right, he must hold himself up right."

Bro your emotions speak by your tone of voice . You’re a good person . Be strong and may God bless and help you. Love from Venice 🇮🇹 , keep it up 💪

That is exactly what happened to me! Now, at age 70, I am trying to get reconcilled to who I am and what little I have accomplished of a practical nature.

@FirstLastFirstLast

2 жыл бұрын

Living to 77 and keeping your sanity is an accomplishment by itself

@SpinCycleMKV

2 жыл бұрын

Happy to hear it. All the best to you.

@RalphDratman

2 жыл бұрын

@@FirstLastFirstLast I made a mistake. I am 70! Oops. Corrected.

@RalphDratman

2 жыл бұрын

@@FirstLastFirstLast But have I kept it?

@turhan6875

2 жыл бұрын

@@RalphDratman Well, you've certainly kept it better than me. You're still alive.

I watched some of your newer videos after I saw this one, and I was wondering, how are you doing, man? It seems like you're doing better, but how do you feel? I also wonder if you've quit any social media lately. I quit most of it, honestly. Never felt better.

@SpinCycleMKV

2 жыл бұрын

I have Facebook and KZread for keeping up with friends. And snapchat is kind of necessary if you want to interact with women. I use them minimally.

@bobbyboi7742

2 жыл бұрын

@Logan Roof yes not like everyone does

@buttholesurfer1266

2 жыл бұрын

@Logan Roof who hurt you

@benkelly6219

2 жыл бұрын

@Logan Roof Your a bitch made man if you have to dump on this lad whilst he’s at a low point. Little squirt of spunk

@jackshayduran

2 жыл бұрын

@@benkelly6219 nbs i guess some people cant help but be part of the problem

I was in my late 20s when I finally started to see life for what it was. I had spent 2 years making a mastery of my body trying to be the "perfect one" that they'd want to be with. The reality is, women don't like men like me. I mean what I say, and say what I mean. They want the dream, the could be, the butterflies from uncertainty. It's exciting. I don't live like that. It didn't matter how much improvement I went through. Unless I was willing to pretend to be the kind of guy I never wanted to be seen as. I was never going to be the recipient of positive female attention. It was shattering and I spent a lot of time angry at women. Mostly because it was women who raised me to believe otherwise. They lied to me about everything that would be important when I became a man. And why did they do it? To protect themselves from the shame of the society they have advocated for. It took a long time to get over it. Then I hated myself for a while for being so stupid that I believed in the great lie. I had to come to the reality that women are a certain way, and men are a certain way. Most women only want a certain type of guy, and most guys are not anywhere close. No matter what I did, how I tried to change, put myself out there. Be part of the community, volunteer, attend events, try to socialize. It was just depressing. You'd see people that put no effort into anything be given everything, and still be ungrateful for it. Now I stay home, tinker in the garage, play video games, or go for a walk with the dogs. I don't speak to women any longer. I avoid them completely where I can. I only give them attention when I have to in order to complete a service, or pay a bill etc. Even then every interaction is a challenge to myself to see what the minimum amount of energy and attention is required to complete it and be on my way. It's probably not preferable for most, and I'm certainly not the average guy. I was born with a giant head and a horseface. Like I said, women want what they want. It isn't me, it isn't a lot of us. All I can say is this. I'm never lonesome when I'm by myself. It's only when I put myself out there that I feel alone. I don't know if this helps, or is just rambling. I just want you to know that you're not alone. It's not just you, and to not beat yourself up to bad. I wish somebody had told me that when I was your age. It sure didn't feel that way, and I wasn't ready to see it through eyes not clouded by anger.

@orisplus3733

2 жыл бұрын

YES. I love being by myself and people think its weird. Not to sound full of myself but I'm a very good looking guy, girls flirt with me quite often, but I'm just not interested, or not ready(I'm only 19), never been in a relationship or anything, I enjoy hanging out with people, sometimes not all the time, and people always think I'm some freakshow because of all this. I think maybe one day I'll be apart of a relationship, but I really don't think I'm ready yet, I'm scared that once I do I'll build a codependence, and once it's gone I'm fucked, as for now since Ive never felt it I'm perfectly happy, ignorance is bliss I guess.

@jaredcannons6862

Жыл бұрын

bro this. i’ve been hitting the gym for a bit over 2 years, i’m only 17 but in todays societal point of view, girls don’t want that. I’ve been told straight up that they prefer feminine and vulnerable guys. it sucks man

@ytchannel1682

Жыл бұрын

as a woman, I can vouch for this. It's really shitty but most of the time the men we want are the ones we can't have, i.e. the ones everyone wants. It's shitty because it definitely plays into this toxic paradigm of high standards women have for this ideal man that almost doesn't exist, leaving behind a lot of really otherwise good guys and a large gap in the dating market. I appreciate your honesty and I think hearing men's pov can help us women become more self aware of the gender disparities that exist when it comes to dating, loneliness, friendship, intimacy etc. Thank you for sharing 🙂

@SingmetheSea

8 ай бұрын

You avoid 50% of the population because you've been rejected in the past? Jesus. You deserve to be alone if that's how you're going to behave. Have you never been bullied by a guy before? I'm guessing as soon as that happens, you'll have to avoid the other 50% 0.o It's just incredibly strange because despite facing several rejections myself AND having been bullied by guys, I proudly continue to treat everyone I meet, male or female, as individuals. So fuck you. Life is hard enough for ALL OF US, including the female ones, without random strangers acting cold to us over nothing we've done to you.

@ForeverShadowBanned

2 ай бұрын

​@@ytchannel1682 You know it's wrong yet you still do it? Now do you see why your kind can't be in charge? You can't even manage your emotions properly.

Met my current girlfriend in January. Honestly I don't know what I would do without her. I was feeling a similar way you were when you posted this... I am extremely thankful.

Honestly just do you man. You don’t need a girl to make you happy. People expect me to be depressed or something cause I don’t have a girlfriend. But I’m pretty happy myself.

@Pokepunk

2 жыл бұрын

I'm kind of in this boat. I've had very brief relationships and they are not as good as they are in your head. I'm pretty happy just being myself now and if I ever get a chance of a relationship anytime soon I'll probably be a lot more picky lol

@rabidhog4912

2 жыл бұрын

@@Pokepunk right

@Dandy-Lion949

2 жыл бұрын

That's the thing though, you aren't him. He wants to feel loved while in a proper relationship because he hasn't felt that, while you might've (I don't know your life, just a vague example here) felt that before, the fact that you've experienced it allows you to move past it and pursue other things. I personally was on both sides of this fence, around the time of this video I was single for a long time and quite depressed/lonely because of it. 2019 I found a relationship that lasted a year and a half, my ex and I never saw eye to eye because she often would insist that women had it worse. So for me, someone who's been through the shit, and shared the same bed as a woman who passively saw me as someone who had this invisible privilege while she constantly told herself that she had it worse, I'm absolutely done with it. Now, anyone can blame me for getting with a woman like that, and I won't disagree with you there. Anyways, this got a lot more wordy than I thought it would. Hope the OP is in a better mental place regardless.

@rabidhog4912

2 жыл бұрын

@@Dandy-Lion949 yeah I agree

@amourtoujours779

2 жыл бұрын

@@Dandy-Lion949 Would you be as compassionate to a woman or would you tell her to lose weight, "be more feminine", "be more approachable" in order to get a man? The hypocrisy is glaring.