I'm so proud of this HMONG SISTER! Finally a sister who know her self worth and loves herself. All Hmong women should learn from her situation. Why stay with a cheater? Cheating is a choice. It is not a mistake. Once your spouse cheats on you, they no longer care or love you. Best wishes to this sister.

Sister you did the right thing I am so proud of you ❤❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Tus me niam tsev aw koj ua tau zoo thiab yog lawm os mog.

Leek twg kom nej mus yuav nkauj hmoob nplog tuajua Poj niam? Ruam los ntse hmoob nkauj hmoob nplog tsis zoo ua Poj niam tus zoo tsis txog koj > Cov thaub lau plab zais do pliaj.

I agree with you sister. I would “NEVER” tolerate and/or take back a cheater. And we should not stick around with an abusive narcissist.

thank you for such an inspirational story! i can reflec to this story however.. peb cov hluas tiam 21 dont tolerate 1975 life.. i applaud tus niam tsev no.. ❤❤

Cas cov mejcabnavlee pimhmoobnplog ib txhia yuav muaj lub peev xwm mus npuj lawv tej txiv kawg nkaus, g nyiam npaj lubneej tiag2!!

So true, NEVER EVER take a cheater back 😢if you are willing to suffer again. It's up to you. Please don't blamed on the skies and gods. When you die you will still have to go through a court trial 😅 😊

Strong women, wish all women be like u

I love this woman. She is so strong and is thr true definition of self-love. All of our hmomg women needs to learn from her. Why fight to stay? Why kill yourself for a worthless person who doesn't want you? I rather be single n live in peace then to be in a toxic marriage and live longer. So proud of you lady. You are a true warrior!

koj hais yog tshaj plaws is vivncaus

Love this strong woman! You go, lady, don't give him a chance, a cheater will always cheat.

ALWAYS REMEMBER: Cheating is NOT a mistake, cheating is a BETRAYAL! Once you've been betrayed, why would you let the traitor back into your life to "stab" you in the back again?!

I feel so bad for your brother. He's lucky to have a strong sister like you.

I feel sorry for your brother! Stay strong! Karma is going to get his ex-wife. She raised her hands to the sky ✋️!

Never take a cheater back…he/she is coming back to finish the kill only…you’re better off move on to a new life with someone else…😩🤠!!!

Wow! That is some serious betrayal by your ex-husband and ex-sil. Pls keep us updated on your ex-sil’s karma! It takes a strong woman to do what you did and I applaud you for not giving your ex a second chance because you could’ve been hurt again and again. Let cheaters be with cheaters!

Applause!! You are a strong woman.

kuv nquas koj os tus viv ncaus tus txiv zoo li ko ntxov tso ntxov zoo koj thiaj tsis zaum laub os viv ncaus

Hais lub yog kawg lis lawm os tus niam Tais! Those who is going to fell into Hell. Let them be. Dnt be drag into their hole.

Koj ua tau zoo lawm tu neeg uas tsis hlub koj lawm yuav tdum txiav txim siab muab tso mus thiaj tsis mob ntxiv lawm

Thank you for the encouragements and woman power!! A spouse that betrays you doesn't love you. There is no "mistake" in cheating.

I can't believe your Simp Brother chose to suffer more than he should for her!! He deserves better! He needs to love himself too and move on.

Sick!!!!!!!

I'm glad you are that strong and that smart to walk away sis. You're right you don't need to beg or change for him. He doesn't deserve you. I feel bad for your brother he's not as strong as you. Best of luck to both of you and your brother

This is the kind of attitude that Hmong women should follow. Strong, independent, and self love.

There is NOTHING more inspiring than a STRONG woman! I applaud you, sister!

Kav tsij xa 2 tug dev ko mus cuag dab ntxwg nyug ces yog lawm xwb mas..

Wow, you’re are a strong woman! Your brother needs to man up and be strong like you? There are plenty of good women for him. He shouldn’t allow a cheater to come back to his life. What is he teaching his children.

Thank you for seeing your worth sister.

hahhaha nej sib hlub thiab ua ke heev dhau lawm ne hahhaha

tu me viv ncau aw koj hai koj lawm os thiab ua li koj ua ko yog lawm ?

Nws rov qab los siv koj ua chaw tiag taw thiab txeeb tej yam tseem ceeb xwb. Txhob cia nws los nyob hauv lub neej.

Cov niag txiv neej tshob Cuab qias neeg txhob khuv xim .nws tsuas yog ib niag khib nyiab xwb...tsis txhob khuv xim 😊..

Nkauj hmoob nplog zoo rau koj, kuv mus siv teg saum teg hauv tag yus los yus tsev xwb,

Tus niam tsev kuv mas nyiam koj txoj kev xav thiab coj kawg nkaus li os thov qhuas.

Kv xav tham kj tus nus os xav hlub ib tug neeg zoo e raug tsim txom siab ntsw puas tag li ntv

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 this is a lecture worth hearing- “I say what I do and done.” Hmoob women are finally evolving 👍🏼

Niam hluas aw.kuv xav li koj hais thiab os.kuv ces twb tu siab los ntev es twb tos seb yuav zoo li cas lawm xwb.

Ua ca teb chaw mekas liam npaum no lo nej pheej yuav sib yuav ua luaj na. Twb paub hai tia yuav mu lo yuav sib nrauj ib nrab neej xwb ce kuj txhob yuav. nyob ib leeg xb lol

So true! Sister you are strong. Good for you! One day I will be strong too😢

Niam ntsuab Teev, koj pheej hais lo lus tsis LAIB no mas meem 2 txom neeg nas , Koj yog 1 tug hais dab neeg sawv daws hmoog coob 2 es koj yuav tsum hais kom meej twb muaj lo lus hmoob hais tias tsis TAU no ne! Lo lus tsis LAIB no yog lus bouaib lus khib nywab xwb

Proud of you! Made the right decision! 💪🏼

Good for you sister. Stay strong and move on. He is not worthy of you time. Wish more sisters are as strong as you. Love is free, no one should beg for love. There is someone better out there. Happy for you

It must really hurt when he told you that nyab is better..😂

Such a sicken, betrayed family 😢😢

To the brother, WHY do you have to put yourself soooo low like that???? Tsis yog Txiv neej yawg los ? There’s soooo many women out there step up your game she is not the only one. This story makes me mad 😂😂

Yog li koj hais tshaj li os

Good thing you did not take him back! I honestly think they plan to get back with y’all just for their own financial benefit! I’m sure they were only going to stay temporary! Glad your brother found the strength to leave her!

His character is like those men that cannot forgive his wife if she were to cheat, so why would he ask for forgiveness after so many years away from his wife that he divorce. This dude got balls.

Sister your are strong woman!

Zaj no mas qhov zoo tshaj plaws mas > tus nplaum rau yawm yij ev > dab laug nyob ib sab Saib zoo lawm lau !!!

Poj niam Hmoob nplog mas liam tshaj plaws!!!

Xyov phem npau ko los tseem mi koj txiv mi koj txiv

Tos koj tus nus tso tsis tau koj tus nyab tseg los koj twb hnov koj niag txiv dev haistias txawm ib hnub nws tsis tau da dej los koj tus txiv ua npua tshom nws yeej tsis hnov tsw ces koj tus dablaug thiaj li tso tsis tau los ma ! neb ob nus muag ces ruam ib yam nkaus nkawd thiaj li ua ob tug yoov tshaj cum tom neb nqus ntshav ib ce ua pob tas los neb twb tsis paub. Nej cov kwvtij ntseeg neeg tso siab yuam kev rau tus neeg no lawm, ib tug neeg muaj lub siab tsis ncaj ncee tsis dawb huv coj tau tus cwj pwm phem tsis zoo li no tseev nws yuav txawj ntse npaum twg los tsis tsuam tsi dabtsi li.

It goes both ways. Be a decent human being and let a person go if you no longer have love for them. Don't keep them around for your benefit. Which in this case, your husband is indeed in the wrong. And it's true what you said about only two people who are good or bad together can stay together because that means they are a match!

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Cheating is a choice. It is definitely not a mistake. Once they decide to cheat on you, that means they no longer love you. People need to learn that cheaters will always be cheaters. Don't tolerate them. Move on. This is one strong woman. Love her!

Yuav tiag tuag tiag li hos zoo li koj tus nus na yog nws uv tau es txawm hluas nrog pw kiag rau saib los tsis mob lawm mas thiaj yuav tsis mob hos tsi li ces tau caij luab li hos

You are right sister.

Koj yog ib tug niam Tsev uas hlub koj tus kheej tiag2 li os li no thiaj tsim nyog vim yus ua neeg ib zaug xwb tsis pub lwm tus saib tsis taus yus tus phem ces cia mus nrog tus phem ua neej yog lawm

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Cov neeg niaj hnub sib steal spouse ces yog cov ua py zoo noj haus travel ua ke etc .ua phooj ywg tsuas ua thabmasdas xwb txhob ua hom noj nyob ua ke txhua weekend nawb

Men will forgive anything and everything for a pretty face and body, even when she doesn't like him 1 iota. I speak for myself too, even helped a dropout through university only to end up with her in the arms of at least 2 other men (not at once). It was a hard lesson learned.

This is the reason why my husband restricts me from listening to these stories. These strong women help me to not accept his BS & infidelity; he doesn't like it. Keep sharing more of these to help wives like me.

Koj lub Facebook li cas kuv muaj neej neeg xav muab rau koj than

Never mus yuav hmoob nplog. They will destroy you 100%

Ua cas koj tus nus yuav ruam2 es nws twv yuav luag tuag 2-3 zaug. Zoo siab nws muab niag poj laib liam tso mus lawm os. Zoo siab koj tso niag txiv dev mus lawm thiab. A cheater will always cheat.

You are worth way more than that evil sister-in-law. The fact that he doesn't know is his own stupidity.

Nuav puas yog cov ntseeg Vaajtswv? cov ntseeg Vaajtswv ua txum mas mej yeej ntsw ntsuav rua cov ntseeg tabsi cov tsi ntseeg Vaajtswv ua txum, mej hov tsi has txug cov tsi ntseeg? From here and forward you must specify the religion of the people in the story.

Why not tell us what their last name is I bet these are the popular last names.

So sad so angry, people have no shame, no dignity anymore…

Thaum ub los yog niaj hnub niam no los xij tias cov tus hluas tsis tau muaj poj niam pheej mus yuav cov ntxhais nkauj Hmoob Lao tuaj ua neej los twb vim yog lawv ruam ruam tsis paub pib tog twg tham hluas nkauj nyob rau USA xwb. Koj tus nus ruam cias nws nws ruam nrhiav neej nyob USA xwb twb zoo txaus, tab sis cov ntse tseem haub nws mus nrhiav neej puag sab teb chaws Laos tuaj lom nws lub neej liam thiab piam.

You want to get back at your husband..call me up ok lol

@ooinkssies1142

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Lmao 😂

Your brother is so ughhh!!?!!??!🚩🚩🚩

Ua cas koj txoj neej neeg es yuav luag zoo li kuv txoj thiab. Cov niag txiv siab phem thiab poj niam siab phem cas yuav coob ua luaj. Kuv xav kom kuv strong li koj xwb os tus me viv ncaus. Kuv yeej tsis thov nws yuav lawm tiam sis nws los kuj mus tsis tau rau tus niag poj laus ntawv thiab es nws los cog lus rau lub ntuj kuv lam nyob saib nws puas ua tau li nws hais xwb. Kuv tus twb mus tham tus ex nyab no tau 7-8 years es kuv nyuam qhuav paub no xwb. Mob siab tshaj li os.

He said that his kwv tij liam liam, but he is worst. He slept with his ywm yeej's wife. Lol. He is such a hypocrite! It takes one to know one. Lol

Your brother is not a really man that's why he can't leave without her. A woman like that don't need it

Shame Shame. They watch 2 many mev cab movies. Sick family. Y your brother have to put himself down. Not being handsome it just a lame excuse. They r going to cheat again. 😮😮😮😮😮😮

She is disgusted at her husband because he cheated with her nyab. Then at the end, she said she's going to marry her ex's cousins. Haha wow just wow....just saying these people are sick!!!

@maylo8993

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It's not bad because they both are divorced so, nothing is wrong with that it's better than her ex is with her nyab.

@zoolisxyooj8251

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Yog sib nrauj li no xwb ces, nrauj tub yuav kiag txiv los tau ho nrauj txiv ces yuav kiag tub xwb. Yuav kwv yuav tij ces yeej tsis muaj teeb meem, yog tuag mas thiaj li yuav tsis tau.

@Shoua608

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She’s divorced now she can marry any of his unmarried cousins. Her ex and ex-nyab had an affair while they were still married to the siblings. Disgusting. I wonder what all their children are thinking about these two cheaters.

@monkeybanana9269

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Just cause you share the same surname doesn't mean you are really related. I have to call these people with my same surname cousins, uncles and aunts but in reality they are not my relatives. That's just how Hmong sees it. Related or not, she isn't marrying within his immediate family. So no, it's not disgusting.

@Peter123969

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@@monkeybanana9269 if you say so. Lol I feel otherwise.

Koj tus nws siab phem kawg li vim nws npw npw heev li yom.

Sounds like a couple of my stupid brothers. Haha

Disgusting

Everyone involved in this story is a dog.. lol.

I envy you. Such a strong and smart woman.

It is so hard to make the choice to divorce in our hmong community because our hmong people are so judgemental to anything and everything that it makes it even harder, but I am proud to see that hmong women are making the right choices and stand up for themselves against their abusive and narcissist spouse.

Txhob khuvxim tus neeg tua tau yus nawb.