At the end of a great concert you aren't mourning the loss of the concert are you? You are grateful to have been there . Happy to have had this beautiful experience for however long it lasted. In the same way you can regard the loss of people you love, you can rejoice in all the wonderful experiences you've had with them, and be grateful for what they brought into your life, instead of being sad about not getting more of it.

@lidsss1

2 жыл бұрын

Love this analogy...I wholehearted feel this too.

Yes. However the confusion here is the definition of love. What most people consider love, is actually obsession derived from a fear based reality. The fear of being alone. There is nothing to fear for one is always alone. Even in a relationship you are alone. You are born alone and die alone. Face it, accept it , overcome it and free yourself from this fear. Only then will you be loveable. A free person lives in the moment and is VERY loveable by ALL. I love you . Namaste.

@teresaboze69

4 жыл бұрын

Au contraire My Friend❣ Appearances deceive. We are never alone and ever one. One day, we all arrive at our Enlightenment and release death and fear. With this, we no longer tolerate ours or others delusions without intervening to aid. For their hurt and fear is ours, and ours is theirs. This latter is most important to be able to overcome on out own to help others, to know what to do. Rs

@bambinoesu

4 жыл бұрын

One is not alone in spirit

@huedatis1

4 жыл бұрын

anyone in a relationship and they feel alone, "get out"...point-blank

@shubhamtyagi717

4 жыл бұрын

Hare Krishna 💙🕉

@Esprite9

2 жыл бұрын

I used to this this way about been born alone, but I don't anymore. I understand that many people stay in relationships out of dear of being alone or accept things that they shouldn't accept. This part I agree with and when we can love without the fears of losing someone, losing some status, losing something, accept another with attachment yet detachment or rather the form of attachment that transcends normally what we perceive love is about (in the 3D sense)etc. Then if we are able to transcend the 3D reality based love, there are those who can achieve love which can be eternal. Coz I have started to believe that love actually never dies. We will always love those who we have loved, that's the kind of love that different religions have tried to teach people. We may have to move on from their lives or we may forget about them and they may forget about us eventually after we die, but the love never leaves us. When my parent and grandparents died with their death the love I had for them or that they had for me didn't die, that's the energy that doesn't die.

" When someone leaves you, you're not going to die" -Yes. 🙏

@nativechique7589

6 жыл бұрын

111.micarl feels like it lol at first

@JeffreyGillespie

4 жыл бұрын

@@nativechique7589 hahahaha

@teallevi823

4 жыл бұрын

I'm not afraid to die I'm afraid of staying without this specific person in my life forever.

@Venusianjonel

4 жыл бұрын

111.micarl lmaooo yes

@tahjfwell1798

4 жыл бұрын

odel levi they are not the key to your life. You are. Stay strong & get introspective

"You will not compromise your truth, for anyone".

@amreensaini329

4 жыл бұрын

Wow never thought this thank you

@Esprite9

2 жыл бұрын

Interesting, because these same words could be used about the love that's about attachment too. I agree there are different kinds of love and we don't need to be attached to only the one form of romantic love. But what if someone's truth is to find the soul with whom they can have a life with romantic love? What if that's the role they wanted to play in the illusion of life?

@imQueenable

2 жыл бұрын

@@Esprite9 I believe it is not a matter of "wanting", but a matter of discovering what is it that makes our hearts in peace and wholeness, because there lays our role in this life. If that is next to a person, our bodies will let us know, we won't have doubts, it will feel clear. But when fear is being felt, then we know that is time to let go of those situations and come back to self. And when we feel peace with our own selves, then naturally we will attract external situations, people, places, that match those vibrations and that does feel right and peaceful, but that thanks to that WE are in peace alone.

@sriramanajni3977

2 жыл бұрын

@@Esprite9 you will not find the truth with such high expectations. Also your relationship is to test you and life is ever change full i dont think you are ready for that

By realizing the truth. It is impossible to be with someone FOREVER. So Love them and leave them. Love with attachment is obsession. Obsession leads to suffering. One can never be alone. How can one be alone with 7 billion brothers and sisters. only if in the mind one considers themselves separate from others does one suffer loneliness. This obsession is a SELFISH thing because one who is obsessed is only concerned for their own happiness. So by rule of karma they inevitably suffer.

@cheeks6310

4 жыл бұрын

I agree with you in some respects, although love with attachment is just not love. Full stop. it can be so selfish but I also wonder sometimes if maybe when I speak this truth that i am being too harsh on another's learning as everyone is along different parts of the path. What about do no harm. I learned in the hardest way yet it seemed cruel to me. I was having this conversation with someone tonight and he thinks I was trying to be cruel so I let him think I'm a monster when to me I was showing my idea of love by cracking an illusion he had. Some don't know they're being selfish but who am I to decide that they must know the truth that I've taken so long to learn myself? Perhaps my own arrogance playing god. I don't agree that it's impossible to love forever and you always gotta love and leave, some souls do love and stay together through to the end of that particular incarnation which is that forever. There's a difference between avoiding true intimacy and love that is free of all expectation and obstruction. We dress it up sometimes to suit our agenda. I'm clearly just thinking out loud here.

@huedatis1

4 жыл бұрын

people can love forever it's the receivers who can't for whatever reason. some people's middle name is love and love to love, it's about finding another who love to love without selfish conditions.

@bloodymirpoutin3825

3 жыл бұрын

Love them and leave them? wtf, bro.. You will never know the future if y'all be together 'til death separates them. So why assume to leave this person someday?

@princetonshot

3 жыл бұрын

Rule of karma? What other rules are there??

@camillabartlett9128

2 жыл бұрын

To love unconditionally even if it’s a short time whether it stays for awhile or teachers another to love we brought in this world to love our brothers and sisters unconditionally whether it’s selfish or and selfish one must trust in the divine for guidance

When you realise you are complete, love for another can only compliment your wholeness ❤ #twinflamelove

@teacher1291

5 жыл бұрын

HOW TO REALIZE????? WHAT to do to realize it????

@Sonic_sorceress

5 жыл бұрын

What are twin flames in disguise?

@cheeks6310

4 жыл бұрын

I think twin flames is another illusion of separation from the whole and notions of "the one" with someone "special". It's a trend notion. We are all one and we are many too

@SunQueenXY

4 жыл бұрын

Kooky Vidz l agree. We are the One we been looking for!

@return2innocence221

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly 🔥🔥

I’ve been single for over 20 years. It’s nice. If I found someone compatible with me, that would be nice too. I’m very happy.

@12ALLSPORT

4 жыл бұрын

What 20years??? How is it possible???why did you decided or you were not being approached

@bernardlartims9114

4 жыл бұрын

Thulani Mawelela but she's been having casual sex. That's wah she didn't add

@theworkethic

4 жыл бұрын

Elizabeth Faraone There are “compatible” people all over the place. Look in the mirror. People that know how to love and are self realized can interact with many people very easily. Your over valuation of your own self assessment should be addressed. Look in the mirror.

@engjigmail8442

4 жыл бұрын

I am on the same page. I've ever been in a relationship and I've discovered how to fulfill what I need by myself. Whenever I'll be or not in a relationship it will definitely be as an added value to my current life. That's why I'm in no rush. I know that what is true and what is authentic will find me.

@engjigmail8442

4 жыл бұрын

@@Istayready that's the issue. You are attaching yourself to this thought, which gives you fear. And then you look for a relationship not as an added value to your life, but as a neccessity. So when the relationship ends, you feel like you lost a part of you.

Most of us were raised to believe that we have a soul mate somewhere waiting for us but the truth is that first, we have to love and accept ourselves the way we are so that we are able to share our love with someone equally mature who is aware of consciousness. It took me a life of heart breaks to get here but now, though I'm 53, I totally understand what Mooji means. I've been single for 9 years and I've used this time to totally and completely heal myself and find God. Finally, God is now here, smiling as I write, the journey is far from over but every opportunity is a chance to let go of fear and trust the Divine within and outside because in presence, there is no separation.

@oscarvelay

7 ай бұрын

godspeed, thank you for sharing

@AT-eu4zu

7 ай бұрын

I like what you said. Good for you. And God is always there we just have to be conscious of His presence

The way he kept eye contact... the power of that!

47 years it's taken me to let go of the idea of romantic love making me complete .. very very stubborn indeed .. but right now I'm just experiencing waves of love and it's just me myself i

@SublimeLullaby

4 жыл бұрын

mat B better late than never

@nativechique7589

Жыл бұрын

Are u in a relationship now

The happiest times I had in my life was when I was single. Being in a relationship honestly create more problems. Being alone helps you find your true self it's meditation avoiding distraction of giving and expectations. Relationships shouldn't be a priority you come first remeber that whoever is reading.

@abhisheksharma8374

4 жыл бұрын

While I do agree with the last part of your comment, that relationship shouldn't be a priority, I find that what Mooji said carries so much Truth in it, that sometimes these romantic relationships help you to identify the parts of your life where the ego rules with such great strength and you are not even aware. For ex, the insecurities and possessiveness usually bubble up in romantic relationships more easily than they do in friendships, and hence one gets a big opportunity to become aware of that part of yourself too and let it go. Otherwise it may just stay covered up for a long time.

@john1120

4 жыл бұрын

@@abhisheksharma8374 all I'm saying is a relationship shouldn't determine who you are you should know yourself already. You can't care for others unless you can care for yourself first.

"Don't let the mind set the stage for your life because it will always be a limitation" ~Mooji ♥

@auroraangeleyes1081

4 жыл бұрын

Elloooo😃

If you can understand Mooji, it means that you understand yourself. He is a complete being, an enlightened being, he is awakened. He doesn't need anybody. He is not telling the truth, he portrays himself as a truth, and you need to discover that truth into yourself.

@jeremystangness1592

6 жыл бұрын

Aleksandar Djurdjevic Very well perceived.

@ghadaj.mohammed6455

4 жыл бұрын

Aleksandar Djurdjevic amazing ❤️❤️

@arnishawebb2242

4 жыл бұрын

He maybe lived through experience

@iamaleo247

4 жыл бұрын

Wow♥️

@marijkevv11

4 жыл бұрын

He' is Not More God than you and me, he's not a saint. Stay grounded people. He loves chocolate and coca cola, he doesn't like exercising he is an human beiing nothing more and nothing less.

His peace just transferred to me 💙

love is freedom, truth... What an exceptional explanation said here. When you know who you are, all attachment falls away...

this guy knows his shit

@bellabtv377

4 жыл бұрын

xyne primavera wasn’t going to watch but your comment made me stay.

Freedom is loving all with no attachments as along as don’t allow anyone to dis respect you. I’ve been married 12 years and i learned this through trial and error

@myharmonybody

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

It's true, many people think being committed to one means you can't love others, and that is deluded and sad. That's when you get people jealously guarding their relationship, not allowing their mate to have friends of the opposite sex, etc. That is deluded, divisive, and egotistical. And in this world, most relationships are full of ego and possessiveness. But it doesn't HAVE to be that way. True commitment means UNWAVERING love, not exclusive, possessive love. Commitment is commitment to love.

@tbowpin7881

4 жыл бұрын

❤️

@pappas610

2 ай бұрын

Ok let me show you're girl some love then Mr not exclusive haha. Boundaries and preferences aren't bad. You seem nihilistic

Clarity of perception, accuracy of response. That is love. seeing everything exactly as it is and accepting it in that way. Attachment only breeds suffering.

@ronniacherry

6 жыл бұрын

InThe Mudra Quoting this. 💛

The solution to all these problems is to forge a mental link or love-bond with God, whose love towards human beings is spontaneous, absolutely unblemished, unselfish, and is the love of the Mother, Father, Friend and Guide- all in one. It is the only kind of love which elevates the person who receives it.

The hardest lesson for me...

@WarmMyHeart

5 жыл бұрын

Bart van der Horst me too

Wow. His words brought tears to my eyes.

I’m on a journey to come home fully to myself 🥰

@almanashshi

4 жыл бұрын

🥰🥰meetoo

Jessie, love can last. I have no doubt about that. The desire of your heart, to commit to someone, to be with someone, is not selfish or wrong. Commitment takes much more unselfishness than being a solitary spiritual seeker "avoiding attachment." In love, you can give, and grow, and you will be refined by dancing with the heart and soul needs of your beloved.

@agneslabyselberg6756

4 жыл бұрын

This☝️

You can be focused in a relationship, and give your all, and need someone, and all that is beautiful. It takes courage that most people don't have. And that's why these cold philosophies about not getting attached have arisen -- because most people don't have the courage to give their heart. Don't give up on what your heart knows.

@agneslabyselberg6756

4 жыл бұрын

YES! You put into words my doubts about the points made in this video

@bambinoesu

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@pappas610

2 ай бұрын

Cold philosophy? Attachment equals suffering every single time. It's practically science. All he is saying is you can love without attachment. You misinterpret what attachment means you're thinking indifference.

So glad the universe pointed me to this video today. Self Love to Self Realisation first. Ok. Here goes!

Love Liberates - Maya Angeloue 🌸

@teresaboze69

4 жыл бұрын

The meat of the nut. Perfect❣ 🙆‍♀️🙋‍♀️

I just wanna hug him🥺🥺🥺 He’s so peaceful so calm you feel like home with him❤️❤️❤️❤️

Thank you Mooji. It makes so much sense to me now. When I started to love myself I no longer felt dependent on my husbands love. I thought something was wrong with our relationship. Namaste

@hazielivich3711

7 жыл бұрын

explain me how to reach that Sara. I want to learn to love myself, still cant!

@nativechique7589

5 жыл бұрын

I set the intention to learn this in 2019.

@bridgetandrade349

5 жыл бұрын

How is that going for you Sara? I hope you can still reply after so long.

@teacher1291

5 жыл бұрын

@@hazielivich3711 I wish people could share this experience here. Cos I can't learn it either. I just do not understand what it is...

@MM-hk7ym

Жыл бұрын

I used to love my husband like crazy.. u see the worldly kind of love that is.. it is never lasting at all.. and when u attach yourself like that the high it brings is the same kind of fall your gonna experience sooner or later you see.. because everything is constantly changing in this world/universe.. that's just inevitable. The suffering is given so that u completely break down.. and if ur wise enough you will spring board that suffering and use it as a fuel to grow spiritually.. and experience divine love. I used to b frustrated and angry and annoyed all the time out of the disappointment of my expectations.. i started meditating trust me it was not easy at all and still i took a resolve to break the cycle that kept repeating itself in my life. Once i stated self enquiry questions that I would ask myself after and during meditation it became clear that the mind was not me.. that the body was not me what love was actually fear that i will b left alone societal pressure and the feeling that am not enough, i can go on and on.... Love shouldn't be about any of that... It shud be only given and not in the expectation that it will comeback. If that's the basis then it's merely just a transaction. And of this world. Any everything in this world has an expiry date.. everything.. even u and me as this body will fall one day that's the law of nature. * Stop watering ur grass/plants(mind) with entertainment glorifying the romantic love or familial love even.. these are purposely programmed to keep you going in circles in the hope that i will find ur ideal one day.. herd mentality is purposely induced. * Daily listen to half or one hour satsang atleast... These day u can find so much online from great enlightened beings online for free if u know what to sear instaed of getting absorbed into entertainment or Get into a community.. if possible (pls have a discerning mind as to it will help you grow or not.. pls don't get into a cult) if not learn to stay alone.. discuss and debate with yourself or others like minded as to what you learnt in that satsang that day.. ask questions and you will b suprised as to how your inner being answers them... * Read an enlightened masters work how many pages you can each day... After u finish that book go to the next master's experience... There's so much to know. The kind of inner peace is extraordinary.. in the begining your inner ego the mind will give u all sorts of obstacles and diversions.. but trust me eventually the voices will quiten down. Observe ur thoughts don't react... * Bajans or chants(whichever suits you, i have even experimented with intrumentals) hear them daily.. * Do guided meditation.. * Do breath work.. pranayama or wim Hoff(personally tired them and they are very effective..) * Meditate meditate meditate... * Use alpha beta theta sound when u go to sleep... * Most of all ask the universe the creator or god whatever u wanna call the divinity as.. to help u... To make circumstances in ur life so that u start down that down and u send u some soul to help u guide u.. and trust me u will find. Each time ur thought wanders u consciously bring it back each time.. it will b like a tug of war.. if ur dedicated enough u will conquer your mind. After a point this world or the things will stop mattering to u....

My favorite. I watch this over and over. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

The first part of my answer is in a different comment. Ran out of space. Anyway: You can commit to one, and love all at the same time. Commitment is simply holding yourself accountable to love someone, through challenges, through joys. Commitment is to NOT go with the whims of your ego. To commit to loving someone is not selfish, it is TRANSCENDING selfishness and whimsicalness, in order to be trustworthy to those you love.

@auroraangeleyes1081

4 жыл бұрын

Wassup

Each time I listen to this man, I get a life lesson. He is just amazing. I am so glad I found him. I just found him this week, and I discovered he lives in Portugal, where I am from. I just can't believe it. Such a gift from God.

@shivanipandey8208

Жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️truly

'you will not compromise your truth for anyone' - truest truth

Someone might die actually. Someone got paralysed on one side of body because of sadness when her partner left her. I myself went into deep sadness and my trigeminal nerve got awakened...when I go through the pain I wish I die instead.Last time I switched into a joyful spacious full of freedom existence after non stop pain...It is only the Love of my brother whom my soul saw preparing hot beverage for me in the kitchen that brought me back to body...I was crying not from pain this time...but because I had to come back into this body and this physical existence. Attachment and Love are there for a reason. If you try to disconnect them you are creating imbalance. A mother attachment to the baby is what gives the baby a chance to survive.

@mirtefrommelt549

5 жыл бұрын

Love your coment 😊😘

@carmel-wayfinder5401

4 жыл бұрын

@@mirtefrommelt549 ⚖️is key

@parizadqueen5165

4 жыл бұрын

Almost same experience 😊

This is exactly what I needed. Namaste Mooji.

YES YES YES - thanks soooo much Mooji - for all of your sharings: ..... don't compromise your truth for anyone .... !!!!!

“You will not compromise your truth for anyone.” that in itself speaks volumes

I'm surprised because I actually agree with him. I love him for this. I'm here in life present day now. I've been here a bit, so I can definitely say he's right. Most people closest to me don't even know my deepest feelings on this topic. I talk to people, ask questions, but I never really share all of me. This video is definitely on point.

Love Mooji. I hope to meet him one day. His Satsang are so helpful.🤗

I don’t how he got on my video feed but I’m glad he is very wise man. 🙏🏾💯🌻

Each one lives by the guidance of their Higher Consciousness, give yourself private moments to be in tuned with the present. You need to do "Deep Breathing" and "Pranayama" this will give you deeper understanding of what "Self" wants. This Self keeps you attracted and dependent to everything. You cannot survive without this feeling! Accept everything that goes around you. Learn to feel happiness in being Alive and giving joy to the family for your support and care for each other. We all go through this feeling of freeing attachment. This is very natural, there is nothing to fear. Each one of us are captivated by the attachment of their ego. Meditation will free your negative energy and keep you feeling happy. Doing routinely all the things throughout the day is ok, but you must give a silence in your mind. This will take care of your emotions, God is mightier then ALL.

Indeed.🙏🏻 felt it through my heart. The love from being. Much love for all of us.

Powerful truth recipe for True freedom spoken in love. I'm grateful for the confirmation thank you!

Sometimes I feel like people ask certain questions just to see if he has an answer for them... Because he always has an beautiful answer.

..like coming home. Truth is so comforting. : )

Love is within us, you have to be selfish in order to find that. Just helping random people may not make you realize your love if you are just doing it out of conditioning. You must know yourself and love yourself before you can love others.

Dang that hit hard 😭 don't know how I came across this video but woowwww I needed this.

I honor you Mooji and i honor your words of wisdom .... 🙏

Wow 😳 totally got this message. My ultimate goal is to be able to love selflessly, unconditionally.

I agree with this comment...This young guy is very wise. It's much easier to say "I really need nobody" than to love sincerely without expectations. Unfortunately in the most cases people replace love by "5 mins impacts" and here Guru's advice is the only way out. He is just discovering easy knowledge "Every person should love him or herself"...but you know guys...the problems is..the exact significance of the word "love" is lost here..

@rpcrazy

9 жыл бұрын

Anna Lucky hard pressed to find acceptance of the idea of words that are no longer useful, especially widely-used ones like love.

Ow! Do you really think loving people and leaving them is good? I find that so heartbreaking, it makes me want to cry just to think about it. Do you really think no one could love anyone for their whole life? That makes human beings out to be such unloving creatures. Even some birds will love their mate for their lifetime. I mean, I think people should be able to rely on each other.

This was beautiful. I listened to the ending on repeat a couple times.

Oh Love, peace ,serenity! What a great man!

sir, i like your speech ,sir you are such a mooji parsan love you so much....and i following you in my life

... so much wisdom shared

4:14 He says this and pauses. That pause has so much compassion for her.

A bird lands nearby you feel love. The bird flies away, you smile. This is love without attachment.

Comme il a raison ..... l'Amour est, et inclut l'amour...Merci de traduire cela, vous m'avez permis de découvrir Mooji, et cela m'aide énormément.

Thank you, Mooji. Truly.

All the commitment phobes like myself find this all very convenient. Maybe after all this time we are not commitment phobes at all but just appreciate our freedom. Freedom or fear of true intimacy, who knows...

Romantic love is the unreal love, ( fleeting ego based)

This was so powerful & the end made me cry for some reason

@janet_ra

4 жыл бұрын

Celisse Willis because you understood and became happy ♥️ and when we are happy , our soul is happy, and love enters with tears

Such beautiful truths, thank you Mooji, With or without a partner I choose to experience joy but it hasn't always been that way for me.. Loving someone out of desperateness, I think they're calling that codependency now, I've been there and it is the worst kind of feeling, but in experiencing it, and the loss of it, I began to find God and the goodness within myself, so my soul is grateful for the lesson. It's like you say here, those kinds of relationships teach us so much about who we are, or the patterns we repeat and the things in ourselves that call to be examined. Thank you. Love to all spirits in human form, Lori

This is good I needed this thank you 🙏🏽

Circling back here again :-) 10 months later

So beautiful and inspiring thank you💛

Wow! So Powerful My soul needed to hear this. :-)

My goodness, what powerful words!!

This is so beautiful!

nicely put Djurdjevic!

what a beautifl message Mooji... #lovepeacelight

❤ oratory skills with wisdom!

Love you mooji baba 😍

It is a great truth in this video. Thanks for it Sir.

🥰Today I came across Mooji for the very first time ever and it was NOT a coincidence....3rd video in👽🖖🏽💜💞♍

@intuitiv3taur3an91

4 жыл бұрын

THE REBEL same me too!!

Said it the best way I could understand it🎯

Fact you cannot compromise yourself for anyone! Fact Thanks Brother!

Die Angst davor irgendetwas zu verlieren macht immer mehr Angst...mehr Angst mehr Angst und immer ärmer im selbst... das brauchen von etwas oder jemand macht uns immer wieder abhängig und bringt Schmerz...und wenn du alles los lässt dann ist in dir innerer Frieden ❤

Expectations are such a pain...yup 😂

mooji quiero abrazarteee

Always so inspiring

yes, om namaste.

when i saw myself that is consciousness in every other being I began to love all and look past their form :)

Mooji is some wise dude! Here is my take on this, not sure how I arrived on these videos though haha but any way. I think if you are true to your self and genuinely love your partner with no hidden agenda and your partner is the same, then you will never get hurt. But if you are casual,devious and not sincere then ultimately you will leave your self open to being hurt where love is concerned. Some people often mistake Lust for Love, then wonder why their heart gets broken. Good Video!

Cosmos greetings and thanks for the important information.

~Freedom is love~

Boy oh boy you said it. Yes there is love for need, housing enough of whatever you need. You get used to each other and stay stuck even before passing over. Since awakening I have no needs not met by our Creator. I am devoted to Love. People are not Love to me any longer, The Great I Am is Love. God is Love. When: IS

I am so lucky listening to you 🥰

thank you for your words. beautiful

So you agree that those who need relationships are EGO maniacs. True Love is free of commitment. Any commitment is relative to the future. Life in the present requires NO Commitment. To have a commitment to one, means to interfere with, or have no such commitment to others. The relationship you speak of bonds you to one but separates you from the rest. A division at the root of ALL conflict on earth. Love thy neighbor as thy self. Unconditional love for all is the WAY. I love you! Namaste.

Beautiful!!!! So very True !!!!

Thankx so much mooji

This Is Beautiful

Just rings with clarity

i needed this

Thanks mojjii

Glorious!!

Beautiful....

People learn to be alone but not lonely..all these people seem broken..learn to love yourself..then you can be loved and love another..

Geweldig !!! xxx