Love With Flaws - Wonseok Coming Out Scene

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This scene means a lot to me. When I found it, I cried really hard. I realized that I didn't need to be sorry for being gay. It was that one line that made it click in my head.
So when I saw this scene, it was exactly what I needed to hear. Because I can't change who I am and who I like.
I'm a proud lesbian. When I first came out I was completely fine, but I think it was until I started seeing LGBTQ+ content where almost always they hated themselves and when I was on the internet for the first time that I saw how people hated people like me. Then I wasn't ok. Even though I was loved and accepted by so many people in real life, I think I became disillusioned with myself. I thought that I had to hate myself to please people who didn't even exist to me. I let the internet, people who clearly don't have the same energy in real life, effect the way I see my own sexuality. After years of struggling, one day I finally just woke up and realized that I was just a lesbian. And that was ok. Finally after so many years I found the same love for my identity as I did when I first came out.
Cha In-ha may have passed away, but I am forever thankful for his role as Wonseok. He helped me so much and I'm really sad that I will never properly thank him, but I share this in his memory. Please rest in peace Cha In-ha 💖
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music (in intro): Umbrella by Epik High piano cover
link: • 윤하(Younha) - 우산(Umbrel...
by the way, this is in the beginning of ep 28 if you want to find it.
and sorry about the clashing audio, but I'm trying to get copyrighted here

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  • @Ishanidewage
    @Ishanidewage3 жыл бұрын

    We must respect wonseok's dad💕

  • @Ishanidewage
    @Ishanidewage3 жыл бұрын

    I miss Cha inha😭 I got to know him after his death😭whyyyy did he left the world 😭

  • @malak_alzoubi

    @malak_alzoubi

    2 жыл бұрын

    건전한 인간의 본능에서 벗어나는 것은 옳지 않고 피곤하기 때문에 그가 이슬람의 종교를 찾은 이유는

  • @lynn0234
    @lynn02343 жыл бұрын

    this means a lot to me i know that my parents wont accept me and honestly this just gives me so much of comfort its something that i really needed

  • @symoore9381

    @symoore9381

    2 жыл бұрын

    Give them a chance when you are ready. You never know what they might be ready to accept or not. 🤞

  • @lynn0234

    @lynn0234

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@symoore9381 thank you so much. But I have had this conversation a few times but it never ended well.

  • @heenamota5162

    @heenamota5162

    2 жыл бұрын

    Make sure that in these process of coming out never harm urself because u r doing no wrong...u r perfect the way u are😊

  • @lynn0234

    @lynn0234

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@heenamota5162 thank you so much it really means a lot.

  • @adamffpro7800

    @adamffpro7800

    2 жыл бұрын

    👍👍🤞🤞

  • @ella_gha
    @ella_gha2 жыл бұрын

    You know I love his father behaviour hope all the family one day act like him for their child come out

  • @Aayushman_Yen
    @Aayushman_Yen Жыл бұрын

    In loving memory of CHA IN HA Thank you for everything ❤️ i miss you and really grateful to you for everything 💜

  • @notwerkinginthishouse8634
    @notwerkinginthishouse86342 жыл бұрын

    Whoever needs to hear this- I love you

  • @chrislockwood1476
    @chrislockwood14763 ай бұрын

    i wish there had been someone there for him. He was such a beautiful and talented young man. When his videos pop and i wish i could travel in time and save him. I know it's crazy but someone so young should not be gone.

  • @notwerkinginthishouse8634
    @notwerkinginthishouse86342 жыл бұрын

    Ik this is acting,i just feel like hugging him :(

  • @Ishanidewage
    @Ishanidewage3 жыл бұрын

    I read the description 😢 don't worry. It's okay to be gay/lesbian/bisexual. I'm also confused about my sexuality. I think I'm bisexual. Honestly I'm afraid to tell this to my parents. Cuz I really dunno what's their opinion about these kind of relationships😞anyways..I don't regret about my sexuality cuz I think it's my fate. It's what I belong to

  • @loststars_

    @loststars_

    3 жыл бұрын

    its okay 💓 no matter what i support you and i hope one day you too can come out 💓💓

  • @Ishanidewage

    @Ishanidewage

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@loststars_ thank you💓

  • @toniselhaver6251

    @toniselhaver6251

    3 жыл бұрын

    It will get better for you, keep your head up, stay positive avoid toxic/negative people. You are beautiful no matter what ❤❤❤!

  • @Ishanidewage

    @Ishanidewage

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@toniselhaver6251 Thank you so much💕😍

  • @faridavs8671

    @faridavs8671

    Жыл бұрын

    We’re I can watch this? In full episodes? Can someone tell me pls

  • @loststars_
    @loststars_2 жыл бұрын

    ok uh holy sh&t i didn't even expect this to have 42k views ?????? I'm glad so many of you found comfort in this the way I did. I think it's just really nice to see lgbtq+ representation, especially in a really good scene between a family healing. if you're not gay, continue being an ally and listen to lgbtq+ voices. and just don't be weird, that's all really. as an Asian American & LGBTQ+ person, I had to face coming out differently than my white counterparts. So I think it's so important to continue to see people like me on television having diverse kinds of identities and sexualities just like me and so many others. I've seen the way the world has been handling LGBTQ+ content, and while I can point to others being better than the rest, I think as a whole we're moving forward. We are nowhere near done and there is a lot of work that has to be done. We can do better and be better. For all the people in the past who suffered so that we could even be seen, for all the people in the present making sure things will change, and for all the people in the future so we can assure them a world that will love them even more than the people before them. There is always room for improvement and never forget we are doing this so that the whole world can treat people better. We aren't barbarians, I think we all deserve a world that doesn't hate us for stupid reasons. p.s. this was edited on my really sh&tty LG tablet so sorry for the poor quality and bad editing lmao i have an apple now so i would've edited this better, but I guess will do and i like the thumbnail that I made and I don't even have the pic anymore so this video will just be the way it is

  • @javiermichaels3144
    @javiermichaels3144 Жыл бұрын

    One of the best part of the series.

  • @felixer2846
    @felixer2846 Жыл бұрын

    God, I just wanna wrap him in a warm blanket and tell him everything will be alright

  • @fuckoff9340
    @fuckoff93403 жыл бұрын

    hes literally babie omg

  • @parkjimin7191
    @parkjimin7191 Жыл бұрын

    I am waiting for this series I love it very much ❤

  • @jedahhyoung
    @jedahhyoung3 жыл бұрын

    Im new fan of cha in ha and the drama but damn im so shookt and sadt that he's already died huhu Why??😭❤️

  • @marciasanches8659
    @marciasanches86592 жыл бұрын

    Não encontro para assistir se puderem me ajudar agradeço

  • @alejandrosierra6000
    @alejandrosierra60002 жыл бұрын

    Where can I see all the caps?

  • @monserratgonzalezferreira5149
    @monserratgonzalezferreira51492 жыл бұрын

    Boa noite... Alguém teria o link deste serie Qua do procuro aparece outro Grata

  • @luisaruizarellano8417

    @luisaruizarellano8417

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yo la vi en viki : amor imperfecto

  • @ForgetMeNow1
    @ForgetMeNow13 жыл бұрын

    Why don't u upload any other videos in this channel? What about a video about sully😭

  • @loststars_

    @loststars_

    3 жыл бұрын

    nah, i made my acc for myself but then i saw this scene and thought that i wanted other people to see it too, so i uploaded this here since no one else wanted to. sorry im not that good at editing, but maybe in the future ^^

  • @ForgetMeNow1

    @ForgetMeNow1

    3 жыл бұрын

    U may be not good at editing but I'm impressed. 5.8k people viewed it . It is something be proud of.

  • @ForgetMeNow1

    @ForgetMeNow1

    3 жыл бұрын

    By seeing ur channel's name I thought u will make the videos of lost stars. Just recommending I'm not trying to force u

  • @nipun8168
    @nipun81687 ай бұрын

    "Numerous Times Ab Maa Bulayengii Tabhi Main Jaungaa".

  • @vitoriaamaro1228
    @vitoriaamaro12283 жыл бұрын

    💖💖💖💖

  • @pinktaylor3519
    @pinktaylor35198 ай бұрын

    Rip

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