I would have loved to hear Ben and Wanjiru's POV. They are a Christian couple, I'm curious about how they navigated intimacy while dating

Wapi makofi ya Faith👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿Our Christian girl is representing 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

@h.e.r.13611

Ай бұрын

👏👏

This podcast is constantly teaching me on how to accept people as they are .It's hard 😂😂

I had to comment bcoz of FAITH, I love your stand. Keep it up and sure there are guyz waiting!

I STILL BELIEVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS A SIN …WE SHOULD ABSTAIN TILL MARRIAGE💯!! *

I feel like you guys should do a podcast on godly waiting women like Faith❤..i felt she had no support and seemed the odd one out

Faith keep up with your stance , hauko pekee yakoo , there are people here rooting for you 🎉🎉🎉

Wow faith thank you for standing up for what you believe in 🤗

Wanjiru really enjoys listening to Sam😂😂

@wanjirumuturi

19 күн бұрын

Bet it's a Wanjiru thing. I am always looking forward . Like I would just befriend him for the vibes

We all know Sam is the situationship we would never date

Big up to joyride I really love how you people you're real...I started watching this pocdcast after you came to Kabarak and it amazes me. May the Lord continue blessing you

@TheJoyridepod

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much Faith ❤

Wueh! Thumbs up to Faith for standing her ground. Especially when almost everyone wanted to ask her questions. As for the rest, kudos to also being real👌🏿 Especially because such topics are uncomfortable and it's public.

Faith made me comment given that am a silent follower and fan. Am also a believer of sex before and outside the marriage institution is a sin. Keep the standard Faith

I live for Comfort 's answers 😂🎉nakujanga tu kumuonaa🎉love this episode

I love this conversation. I think that Sam is a real voice to most men in the society. He talking his mind. I also think Zanita needs to accept other people's view and receive with the right attitude.

@zan1ta__

Ай бұрын

Noted

Comfort to Sam: Why do you think you are the way you are,😂😂😂😂

@kendimwirigi2240

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

Ted haamini watu wanaweza kosa kumunju 😂😂

Not Ted starting by saying ati l have never kissed 😂😂😂

It's interesting how perceptions on sex have evolved over time, but I strongly believe the spiritual standpoint still stands stronger at guiding two people interested in each other. Above all, facets of relationships have deeper foundational values than simply far-fetched physical attributes and interests. I understand these have changed, but I think that's the point, to even focus more on those values. It's nice when these values can actually be discovered by two people so intentional about each other, am thinking. Amazing work Joyride Team.

On the mental part,someone's thinking(like how their mind works) can attract you or make you disinterested, so if someone's view on stuff irritates you, you can avoid intimacy.

I really enjoy This show😘😘😘... Always looking forward 😀

Honestly speaking, Ocampo being a believer I thought he would at least advocate for the idea of no sex till marriage , you even noticed the rest were like' but si wewe umeokoka' as in they expected a different opinion from a believer.

@PhylisAyuma-sr6hs

Ай бұрын

But nowdays it is hard to run out of it

@susanmwangi8341

Ай бұрын

It's hard because you don't trust God to help you run from the urge!!

@susanmwangi8341

Ай бұрын

That's being a double standard Christian, you are either got or cold

@salomeshiran1660

Ай бұрын

Because he is just kuokoka by name but no fruit of the Holyspirit

@Preneur_Gracefully_authentic

Ай бұрын

Me too. Was really surprised. That's like the standard for every true believer. It's a non negotiable.

These episodes are really the best, I just bumped into them.. how come you didn’t even post some snippets in your platforms..it’s very interesting and I think so many people should watch this..

Today let me comment about the attitude displayed by Zanitah on this episode, wueeh I was watching and any time the camera would show Zanitah I would be like "girl let everyone give their own opinion". No bad blood but the face frowning this time round was too much.

@evelynk3781

Ай бұрын

I thought i was the only one who noticed, its not good b'se it shows that others opinions are less deserving.

@zan1ta__

Ай бұрын

Facial expressions ** not attitude lol

@livingasleigh

Ай бұрын

@@zan1ta__ whatever it is, it wasn't good . I'm not putting you down as you might think, it was just my observation. Thank You

Ben and Wanjiru y'all are doing a good job with these young ones.💛💛💛

For once i agree wwith Sam. Sex does not make breakups harder. Sex is just an element of a relationship and not the end all be all. So it shouldn't play such a big role when deciding whether to end a relationship

Those who've been bedded should not be wedded...Ideally, this is actually the principle for those who are belivers and uphold the stipulations of proper morality and the standards therein and what a wedding implies..So let's not get it twisted, it's about the wedding not marriage.. That's why the wedding gown is white because it symbolizes purity for the lady. So that statement can be interpreted to mean as a non-virgin you can still get married, just not in a white wedding. With today's society, of course that's a thing of the past and non-virgins do hold weddings. That's what we've evolved into. Sex is now a norm and not much standards are upheld anymore about it to encourage non-indulgence and that's why our society is such a mess. Self-control and keeping sex for the right context is definitely the key to a much healthier society in terms of the kind of relationships we would have.

Faith and nyokabi pls ongeeniìii

@edinahkendi9871

Ай бұрын

gurlll i knoww😅😅😅

@relahnyabate5709

Ай бұрын

Walishashoot😂😂

Sam's bombastic side eye😂 43:10

love this

Love it kabisa ❤❤, but when should we expect the episodes, Wednesday ama Thursday 😢

@98Patrobas

Ай бұрын

Thursdays

Also Ben umechange unakaa a very serious man😂😂

@wanjiruloveswaru

Ай бұрын

Baba Nani 😅😅😂

ocapmpo is so funnyyy

A thought to Ted though on whether sex past should determine whether you wed or not. Don't you think that it's their behavior when they've slept with over 20 people though.

Ocampo needs to see church elders apo nyuma ya tent😂😂

@iamocampo

Ай бұрын

Nimeitwaa inje Ya Tent Already…But Ni Ulimi Kuteleza 🙏💯

@Rispermacharia2801

Ай бұрын

@@iamocampo won't judge you but from my experience..as a Christian, abstain

Sam is such a vibe 🤣🤣

Regarding the matter mentioned about the priest whose sentence was reduced, if I remember correctly, as a form of punishment he is to teach and preach on the vice he was accused of. This is why his sentence was reduced. Quite unorthodox.

Sam talking about the bad kissing encounter Ati cheers🤣🤣🤣🤣

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13:30 emotions ain't byproducts of our thoughts so sidhani zinatoka kwa akili per se rather they are bodily experiences. -Dr Anita Phillips

@winnie-wk

Ай бұрын

Emotions come from thoughts. If you think a negative thought, you will feel negative emotions. It all starts in the mind.

@duretti

Ай бұрын

@@winnie-wk no dear.... Thoughts are not byproducts of our emotions. Use hate as the example but it applies to any other emotion. Prior to calling it hate, before you think to yourself, “this is hate” its just a feeling welling up inside you. It's a shift that has been in neuroscience last 15 yrs.. I ain't no expert tho.. Just saw that and it made sense.. See another example👇

@duretti

Ай бұрын

when we experience a rapid heartbeat and sweaty palms, our bodily sensations indicate physiological arousal. However, our mind evaluates and interprets this arousal as fear, excitement, or anxiety based on the context of the arousal and our past experiences. The story our mind tells us about these bodily sensations influences the specific emotion we feel. Yes our brain and neurotransmitters genetics and even our envt can affect and source our emotions but really they do come before our thoughts and that's why when the war with your emotions end you're able to lead a healthy mental, physical, and even spiritual life.

I have a lot to say, but I''ll keep it short. Ben and Shiro, in my opinion, ought to have at the very least given them some, if not all, of the perspectives they needed. Like demonstrating to them, to the other person's dismay, that holding differing views on a subject might not always be a terrible thing. It is acceptable to hold differing opinions, and the goal should be to help others understand you better rather than trying to persuade them. Sam and Zanita are a prime example. I hope that Ben and Shiro in the forthcoming episodes, with your remarkable intelligence and profound experience you two have had dealing with differences, will help make those who come to the show more aware of this things and less stiff-necked.

sam is just like me😂😂😂

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I watched this episode long ago but wasnt able to comment then. Ive been wanting to say, Ted is kind of mis-using his self-awareness.

Sam is so controversial, he just said he doesn't believe in soul ties but minutes later he is saying deep things of soul ties.... God have mercy on my generation🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀

Zanita needs to chill. Kudos to Faith!!!!!!!

Zanitaa Anaboo, si hate n true tuh

The Church is to be held on a higher moral standard- "Ceaser's wifes should be above suspicion"

I might be wrong but nyokabi is a pick me she always say what she thinks men would want to hear😢

@danonym9860

Ай бұрын

Noooooo. She is allowed to have her opinion, and if it is the same as men's then let her be. Maybe do some introspection and see. Love and light to you

@valortavasi2418

Ай бұрын

True true

A man can control 12 cows with one stick ,but a cow cannot be fed to a whole community since after that it wount be alive but the stick will be there to control other cows . Think

@Turizzy

Ай бұрын

Women are not cows

@zabbaitanki5956

Ай бұрын

@@Turizzy i havent said anyone is a cow 😂😂😂