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LOVE LANGUAGES! Good Influences Episode 28
Love Languages! You known them, right? Quality time, physical touch, gift giving, words of affirmation, acts of service. Let us know what YOUR Love Language is in the comments! Remember to SUBSCRIBE!
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Carly is the only one who actually understands this test 😂 it’s about a relationship not YOUR relationship with the perosn your with
@aaaarly
Жыл бұрын
Yeah that was weird that it was so hard for them to get that
@lalangbelalang
Жыл бұрын
Yesss! They keep choosing the other option (b) just because in their current relationship, they already have option (a). That's not how this test work lol.
@pinkgalaxy5925
Жыл бұрын
Ryujin 😢t
Oooo I love the different colors for the squares in the thumbnail. Very appealing!😍 can’t wait to listen! Perfect timing
@taysworld7959
Жыл бұрын
AGREED
@katlin.christopher
Жыл бұрын
I just KNOW mike loved this feedback ❤
I LOVE Carlys assettive demeanor lately!!
@Littlepeach94
Жыл бұрын
Right? She's finally not letting Erin walk all over her and be rude to her, it's so nice to see!
@rororoisin
Жыл бұрын
@@Littlepeach94 I think she's just trying to help her out with her confidence!
@Kjmilly12
Жыл бұрын
No fr.
I need a compilation of every time Carly laughs, its my serotonin boost I'm not kidding
I love your assertiveness in this episode Carly!
@Meeeeeeeeee37
Жыл бұрын
I love everyone recognizing Carly as being assertive. We love our mental health queen Carly!
LOLing at Matt saying hes a “minimalist” over & over while owning an entire fake town that goes up one season out of the year 😂 no hate its just funny
Matt always thinks he shouldn’t have said something or that he sounds a particular way and it’s heartbreaking because I know a part of that feeling comes from his treatment on Unfiltered. I love the support he gets here because I feel like Matt is so much like me, I appreciate and love everything he has to say or think. Not everything you say needs to matter, you can speak to speak. Love you Matt ❤️
It’s funny how they ALL overthink every question😂 90% overanalyzing and breaking down questions
I can always relate so hard when Matt is overthinking anything, like I’ll start to go so in depth about it in my head that I change my mind or start thinking about how annoying I sound 😂 I could listen to him talk forever because SAME 😂 also love his self-awareness and apologetic nature is so endearing, even if it is unnecessary at times. Don’t worry Matt, we love ya 😂❤️ I know you wanna hear that too now after this episode 🤣
@quadmft
Жыл бұрын
i second this
I love Matt he is a perfect podcast personality. I’ve been watching him for years and he is always so interesting and charming!
@Sourpatchmel
Жыл бұрын
Agreed!!!
I get what Matt was saying about Harry Styles. He will always have that popstar label attached to him and a lot of people will always view him as less cool, more contrived, and less artistic than someone like Matty Healy. Same reason why Taylor Swift will unfortunately always be viewed as more of a product and less of a songwriter than someone like Phoebe Bridgers.
erin FULLY MISSING THE POINT LOL
honestly, for me my hatred of physical touch comes from being independent and single for so long. like I don’t mind some, but if it’s overdone I’m like 🙅🏼♀️ enough haha
@o12.7am
Жыл бұрын
exactly this !!
My love language has always been gifts and my boyfriend is like Matt saying to stop wasting money. I’m like “but how will I show you my love then????”
I totally understand where Mike is coming from on PDA, I’m not very touchy at all and I’m socially anxious so it’s just not for me either
@AZ-vj9fw
Жыл бұрын
Same. I've been married 12 years and I just don't like being touched.
I’m not sure it makes sense for those in couples to factor in what their partner already does for them. In the instance with erin saying tj already watches shows with her or whatever so she values the other thing more, consistently answering like that would skew the results to say your love language is just something you don’t get as much. I feel like that wouldn’t be the case, especially considering Erin and tj, who seems to have a great relationship and a great balance of feeling and expressing love to eachother!
The fact that Matt is so opinionated about gifts makes me think that is his love language. That’s why he cares so much. I am exactly like that!
Matt has been unhinged lately 😂
@ttaylor8830
Жыл бұрын
Lmao it’s the nicotine withdrawal, mans has been hostile asf
lmao Matt had me cracking up when he was having a meltdown about the gift giving 😂
Mike was the last person on this podcast I ever thought I would relate with us actually the one I relate to the most and on a number of subjects y’all have talked about! PDA is for your benefit at home behind closed doors! I don’t need someone rubbing on me holding my hand every sec with in public to know I’m loved lol Sometimes I get freaked out when people are crying around me bc I get awkward thinking I should hug them🤣
i get what Mike is saying about the touch thing! i’m the SAME WAY!!
hearing matt say “we’ll be married one day” knowing he and patricia got married the other day warms my heart😭❤️
i looove carly's laughs 😭😭
a topic about life lessons or growth so far would be cool
@quadmft
Жыл бұрын
yes!!
I feel the same way that mike does about the PDA
Matt looks stoned 😂 love this convo
I love Carly and Matt in this episode!! :)
@Meeeeeeeeee37
Жыл бұрын
Always
one of my favorite podcasts!
I wish Erin would be more open to listening to others POV. For example, when Carly was explaining how to actually pick an answer for this. She’s so dismissive.
@Meeeeeeeeee37
Жыл бұрын
Don’t hold your breath!
@sydneytrevino7961
Жыл бұрын
PREACH
@oh_its.fatima7024
Жыл бұрын
yah and how she was about mike with the physical touch thing like its not that big of a deal people are different i felt for mike like he had to talk through that all 😢❤but yah ik thy are friends so no hate✨
hahahahahahaha Carly "I have red hair"
Carly I love you, you’re a queen
BEST DAY OF THE WEEK
@GoodInfluences
Жыл бұрын
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The questions are too broad too. Like little gifts can mean someone thought about you while they were out and big gifts can mean they were planning it for a while. Giving someone something they need vs a want are different as well. Like a friend spending time and money on a big gift means the same to me as someone I don't see often picking something up that reminded them of me waiting for the next time we see eachother. My mom telling me she's proud of me means more than my partner who I would more often. Someone I know very well telling others how great I am means a lot more than someone I don't see often. The quiz needs to me more specific
I love the silly and funny from the beginning of this episode! Tbh kept going back bc how funny it is 🤣💕💕
i agree with Matt. I have never trusted a dishwasher in my life. Theres no way that box can get our dishes clean, id rather hand wash them
my fav podcast
I relate to Mike sooo much lol
I don't like the way the questions are either or because a lot of times I'm like.. BOTH.. lol I wish it was like a range.. like 1-5 for each individual one.
MATTT I am the same way with other people buying me gifts. I am quite a particular person and prefer to pick what I want and what someone will potentially be spending money on.
You guys are looooopy on this one lol
R Kelly used to kiss his fans too, and look how that turned out... it's a power play, creepy af
Catch me being early every time 👏🏼
@GoodInfluences
Жыл бұрын
🫡🫡🫡
Random af but I would love to see you guys do a try not to eat 😂 maybe make it crazy food from favorite childhood shows
I am veryyyyy much an acts of service gal in the way I like to receive or be shown love. As for giving, I do tend to be big on gift giving which is something I rate very low in the way I like to receive love.
matt overthinks so much it take the fun out of it 😂
i was distracted by mike’s the mars volta hoodie the whole time. sick af 🔥🔥🔥
Love their dynamic 😂
im never buying matt a gift or letting him in my home bc he will judge the gift/my interior deisgn (or lack thereof) lmfao
My favorite podcast!!!
i love this podcast, i recommend it to so many people! i will single handedly spread the word to over throw joe rogan
Me going back and forth with the kissing Vs special project question.... While my husband listens to this podcast with me knowing full well he is not a consumer of KZread content HOWEVER knows all you guys your past and present relationships and still pretends to care when watching the roast of Zane ....
Loved this episode!
I definitely identify with Matt when it comes to love languages.
57:29 has me deceased lol
I thought Matt's shirt said Anne Hathaway Elementray at first.
love languages are different for what u want to receive and how u show love
I got ZERO PERCENT physical touch lmaooo
slay Matt with the Italian film reference
Wow I needed this
i just can’t agree w mike on the pda that’s so extreme 😭it’s just kinda of stupid to think it’s for the world when two people love each other lol
There should should be a love language tests for different relationships. Like what people want from their friend is not the same as what they want from their partner. What you want from your friend may be consistent but what you want from your partner may change over time. The questions generalized "someone you love" but asks if your in a relationship. It's confusing
@madeleineeichhorn7804
Жыл бұрын
This does exist! They have a romantic love one and a general love one
Matt is the star of this episode
I feel like Mike kept getting the cold shoulder in this episode :/
@Bluevelvetism
Жыл бұрын
Not necessarily. I feel like because they’re in long term relationships, they have a totally different mindset when it comes to love than mike so that’s why they all mostly agree and mike doesn’t agree with them
@hihii3902
Жыл бұрын
I kind of see what you mean, sometimes he makes jokes and no one says anything in response that I feel like they’d acknowledge if he said it a different day. I wonder if he was kinda on edge that day? He said he was trying to stay calm at one point. (Tbh I thought this said Matt not Mike so actually I take it all back)
Matt is soo cute and funny 😂
Thanks
I love the Simon Says background colors. Trying to figure out which boy picked it lol
Erin saying they recorded this august 3rd had me dying😂
Def need time stamps
i agree with MIKE!! OMG whats wrong with the rest
Anybody have the link to the quiz?
@kimkogneeto
Жыл бұрын
Seriously 😭 did you find it?
Lesssgooo🎉❤
I wish mike would confess his love for carly
Matty Healy is so absolutely cringy
kinda disagree about the taylor not being the one liking tik toks, a lot of the time she leaves comments and theyre definitely her. she’s been known to engage with fans in a personal way - she used to do it on tumblr a lot
Leave Matt alone lol
What is the website 😩 I was trynna do it with the video
The questions just are the exact same almost just worded different, nah ??
@MANNNNWHAT
Жыл бұрын
LIKE LITERALLY JUST PHRASED DIFFERENT
Is that Jerry Seinfeld and Larry David? If so where can I find it, I want it please!
u guys should’ve spelled out LOVE with ur hands for the thumbnail!!!
❤️
carly we have the same birthday and i feel like we should have a conversation about it…
I don’t think people are appreciated enough so I over say it to people lol maybe I’m projecting
@kimkogneeto
Жыл бұрын
Same
Why does Erin so rude with Matt
Hi
Is this really from august cause I’m dead
Nobody is following Kyle rittenhouse to “keep up” with what he says cmon what
@shankeduu
Жыл бұрын
Rite and trump as a joke ?😭 what carly
@ryanbickel3656
Жыл бұрын
Rittenhouse and trump are nowhere near the same
and that is why mike is single 😂
Matt has no idea what he says… he just talks to talk
@alexaramirez3072
Жыл бұрын
By the way, this comment was in context to Harry Styles being jealous of Matty.
@montseveraud1504
Жыл бұрын
I get his point tho, but also I think Matty is jealous of Harry🤪
Damn No Wonder Mike is single 🫣 Being like that he's gonna be forever single!! Relax a little bro🥴
so what if couples are affectionate in public? something is wrong with him he needs to mind his own business maybe
Love Kyle Rittenhouse ❤
@caram227
Жыл бұрын
So you have very low standards?
@jazminerodriguez9112
Жыл бұрын
what a loser lol
@charliedawn27
Жыл бұрын
It’s one thing to think he is innocent but it’s another to “love” him. Seek help, you brick
@sol.p2206
Жыл бұрын
@@charliedawn27 oh my gosh.. it’s an expression! I guess we all have to think and express ourselves in the same way or else we’re looked down upon. Not very inclusive of you lol
@caram227
Жыл бұрын
@@sol.p2206 we don’t have to express ourselves in the same way… but if you express something stupid expect to be called out for it. Like they said, seek help.
THANK U
The first podcast I listen to on Tuesdays and the most excited to tap on 🫶🏼
I think Taylors team might help her with making certain content on her page but otherwise with interactions they use the @TaylorNation and Taylor really uses her account because of how much she actually stalks the fans for who she wants to invite to secret sessions and meet and greets you can tell from people’s experiences that she really was the one looking at their social media when she talks to them in person