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LOVE LANGUAGES! Good Influences Episode 28

Love Languages! You known them, right? Quality time, physical touch, gift giving, words of affirmation, acts of service. Let us know what YOUR Love Language is in the comments! Remember to SUBSCRIBE!
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  • @MANNNNWHAT
    @MANNNNWHAT Жыл бұрын

    Carly is the only one who actually understands this test 😂 it’s about a relationship not YOUR relationship with the perosn your with

  • @aaaarly

    @aaaarly

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah that was weird that it was so hard for them to get that

  • @lalangbelalang

    @lalangbelalang

    Жыл бұрын

    Yesss! They keep choosing the other option (b) just because in their current relationship, they already have option (a). That's not how this test work lol.

  • @pinkgalaxy5925

    @pinkgalaxy5925

    Жыл бұрын

    Ryujin 😢t

  • @Gentle__Mental
    @Gentle__Mental Жыл бұрын

    Oooo I love the different colors for the squares in the thumbnail. Very appealing!😍 can’t wait to listen! Perfect timing

  • @taysworld7959

    @taysworld7959

    Жыл бұрын

    AGREED

  • @katlin.christopher

    @katlin.christopher

    Жыл бұрын

    I just KNOW mike loved this feedback ❤

  • @danichesney1876
    @danichesney1876 Жыл бұрын

    I LOVE Carlys assettive demeanor lately!!

  • @Littlepeach94

    @Littlepeach94

    Жыл бұрын

    Right? She's finally not letting Erin walk all over her and be rude to her, it's so nice to see!

  • @rororoisin

    @rororoisin

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Littlepeach94 I think she's just trying to help her out with her confidence!

  • @Kjmilly12

    @Kjmilly12

    Жыл бұрын

    No fr.

  • @lucasbrunoz
    @lucasbrunoz Жыл бұрын

    I need a compilation of every time Carly laughs, its my serotonin boost I'm not kidding

  • @ashleysaavedra8445
    @ashleysaavedra8445 Жыл бұрын

    I love your assertiveness in this episode Carly!

  • @Meeeeeeeeee37

    @Meeeeeeeeee37

    Жыл бұрын

    I love everyone recognizing Carly as being assertive. We love our mental health queen Carly!

  • @erin-clareboulet3211
    @erin-clareboulet3211 Жыл бұрын

    LOLing at Matt saying hes a “minimalist” over & over while owning an entire fake town that goes up one season out of the year 😂 no hate its just funny

  • @connerconnerconner
    @connerconnerconner Жыл бұрын

    Matt always thinks he shouldn’t have said something or that he sounds a particular way and it’s heartbreaking because I know a part of that feeling comes from his treatment on Unfiltered. I love the support he gets here because I feel like Matt is so much like me, I appreciate and love everything he has to say or think. Not everything you say needs to matter, you can speak to speak. Love you Matt ❤️

  • @ariesbaby2330
    @ariesbaby2330 Жыл бұрын

    It’s funny how they ALL overthink every question😂 90% overanalyzing and breaking down questions

  • @ellenb577
    @ellenb577 Жыл бұрын

    I can always relate so hard when Matt is overthinking anything, like I’ll start to go so in depth about it in my head that I change my mind or start thinking about how annoying I sound 😂 I could listen to him talk forever because SAME 😂 also love his self-awareness and apologetic nature is so endearing, even if it is unnecessary at times. Don’t worry Matt, we love ya 😂❤️ I know you wanna hear that too now after this episode 🤣

  • @quadmft

    @quadmft

    Жыл бұрын

    i second this

  • @jamillel2536
    @jamillel2536 Жыл бұрын

    I love Matt he is a perfect podcast personality. I’ve been watching him for years and he is always so interesting and charming!

  • @Sourpatchmel

    @Sourpatchmel

    Жыл бұрын

    Agreed!!!

  • @Ashley-bj3sl
    @Ashley-bj3sl Жыл бұрын

    I get what Matt was saying about Harry Styles. He will always have that popstar label attached to him and a lot of people will always view him as less cool, more contrived, and less artistic than someone like Matty Healy. Same reason why Taylor Swift will unfortunately always be viewed as more of a product and less of a songwriter than someone like Phoebe Bridgers.

  • @Michelle-mh1fz
    @Michelle-mh1fz Жыл бұрын

    erin FULLY MISSING THE POINT LOL

  • @ashleyhouston2010
    @ashleyhouston2010 Жыл бұрын

    honestly, for me my hatred of physical touch comes from being independent and single for so long. like I don’t mind some, but if it’s overdone I’m like 🙅🏼‍♀️ enough haha

  • @o12.7am

    @o12.7am

    Жыл бұрын

    exactly this !!

  • @montseveraud1504
    @montseveraud1504 Жыл бұрын

    My love language has always been gifts and my boyfriend is like Matt saying to stop wasting money. I’m like “but how will I show you my love then????”

  • @MeganBurr
    @MeganBurr Жыл бұрын

    I totally understand where Mike is coming from on PDA, I’m not very touchy at all and I’m socially anxious so it’s just not for me either

  • @AZ-vj9fw

    @AZ-vj9fw

    Жыл бұрын

    Same. I've been married 12 years and I just don't like being touched.

  • @user-ny4pn2wx9i
    @user-ny4pn2wx9i Жыл бұрын

    I’m not sure it makes sense for those in couples to factor in what their partner already does for them. In the instance with erin saying tj already watches shows with her or whatever so she values the other thing more, consistently answering like that would skew the results to say your love language is just something you don’t get as much. I feel like that wouldn’t be the case, especially considering Erin and tj, who seems to have a great relationship and a great balance of feeling and expressing love to eachother!

  • @babywcboo
    @babywcboo Жыл бұрын

    The fact that Matt is so opinionated about gifts makes me think that is his love language. That’s why he cares so much. I am exactly like that!

  • @Mamabear21
    @Mamabear21 Жыл бұрын

    Matt has been unhinged lately 😂

  • @ttaylor8830

    @ttaylor8830

    Жыл бұрын

    Lmao it’s the nicotine withdrawal, mans has been hostile asf

  • @megan_1
    @megan_1 Жыл бұрын

    lmao Matt had me cracking up when he was having a meltdown about the gift giving 😂

  • @erinlee8618
    @erinlee8618 Жыл бұрын

    Mike was the last person on this podcast I ever thought I would relate with us actually the one I relate to the most and on a number of subjects y’all have talked about! PDA is for your benefit at home behind closed doors! I don’t need someone rubbing on me holding my hand every sec with in public to know I’m loved lol Sometimes I get freaked out when people are crying around me bc I get awkward thinking I should hug them🤣

  • @alischreiner08
    @alischreiner08 Жыл бұрын

    i get what Mike is saying about the touch thing! i’m the SAME WAY!!

  • @rileighp213
    @rileighp21310 ай бұрын

    hearing matt say “we’ll be married one day” knowing he and patricia got married the other day warms my heart😭❤️

  • @redderlondon
    @redderlondon Жыл бұрын

    i looove carly's laughs 😭😭

  • @kskd33
    @kskd33 Жыл бұрын

    a topic about life lessons or growth so far would be cool

  • @quadmft

    @quadmft

    Жыл бұрын

    yes!!

  • @Al-br3fh
    @Al-br3fh Жыл бұрын

    I feel the same way that mike does about the PDA

  • @Dink_13
    @Dink_13 Жыл бұрын

    Matt looks stoned 😂 love this convo

  • @Blueberryl0v3r
    @Blueberryl0v3r Жыл бұрын

    I love Carly and Matt in this episode!! :)

  • @Meeeeeeeeee37

    @Meeeeeeeeee37

    Жыл бұрын

    Always

  • @quadmft
    @quadmft Жыл бұрын

    one of my favorite podcasts!

  • @LizLopezXO
    @LizLopezXO Жыл бұрын

    I wish Erin would be more open to listening to others POV. For example, when Carly was explaining how to actually pick an answer for this. She’s so dismissive.

  • @Meeeeeeeeee37

    @Meeeeeeeeee37

    Жыл бұрын

    Don’t hold your breath!

  • @sydneytrevino7961

    @sydneytrevino7961

    Жыл бұрын

    PREACH

  • @oh_its.fatima7024

    @oh_its.fatima7024

    Жыл бұрын

    yah and how she was about mike with the physical touch thing like its not that big of a deal people are different i felt for mike like he had to talk through that all 😢❤but yah ik thy are friends so no hate✨

  • @kelseyrempel6919
    @kelseyrempel6919 Жыл бұрын

    hahahahahahaha Carly "I have red hair"

  • @melissamunoz3283
    @melissamunoz3283 Жыл бұрын

    Carly I love you, you’re a queen

  • @avabrenneman4011
    @avabrenneman4011 Жыл бұрын

    BEST DAY OF THE WEEK

  • @GoodInfluences

    @GoodInfluences

    Жыл бұрын

  • @marcyanne8910
    @marcyanne8910 Жыл бұрын

    The questions are too broad too. Like little gifts can mean someone thought about you while they were out and big gifts can mean they were planning it for a while. Giving someone something they need vs a want are different as well. Like a friend spending time and money on a big gift means the same to me as someone I don't see often picking something up that reminded them of me waiting for the next time we see eachother. My mom telling me she's proud of me means more than my partner who I would more often. Someone I know very well telling others how great I am means a lot more than someone I don't see often. The quiz needs to me more specific

  • @emochoso
    @emochoso Жыл бұрын

    I love the silly and funny from the beginning of this episode! Tbh kept going back bc how funny it is 🤣💕💕

  • @summerhyden1879
    @summerhyden1879 Жыл бұрын

    i agree with Matt. I have never trusted a dishwasher in my life. Theres no way that box can get our dishes clean, id rather hand wash them

  • @slumbersome2477
    @slumbersome2477 Жыл бұрын

    my fav podcast

  • @terrynwilliamson5356
    @terrynwilliamson5356 Жыл бұрын

    I relate to Mike sooo much lol

  • @sourflower3727
    @sourflower3727 Жыл бұрын

    I don't like the way the questions are either or because a lot of times I'm like.. BOTH.. lol I wish it was like a range.. like 1-5 for each individual one.

  • @mirandaleigh9260
    @mirandaleigh9260 Жыл бұрын

    MATTT I am the same way with other people buying me gifts. I am quite a particular person and prefer to pick what I want and what someone will potentially be spending money on.

  • @jasonhunter2819
    @jasonhunter2819 Жыл бұрын

    You guys are looooopy on this one lol

  • @vaniaaaB
    @vaniaaaB Жыл бұрын

    R Kelly used to kiss his fans too, and look how that turned out... it's a power play, creepy af

  • @Ovalleale12
    @Ovalleale12 Жыл бұрын

    Catch me being early every time 👏🏼

  • @GoodInfluences

    @GoodInfluences

    Жыл бұрын

    🫡🫡🫡

  • @sierraquave
    @sierraquave Жыл бұрын

    Random af but I would love to see you guys do a try not to eat 😂 maybe make it crazy food from favorite childhood shows

  • @darlingdueck3676
    @darlingdueck3676 Жыл бұрын

    I am veryyyyy much an acts of service gal in the way I like to receive or be shown love. As for giving, I do tend to be big on gift giving which is something I rate very low in the way I like to receive love.

  • @marygracecorrao3054
    @marygracecorrao3054 Жыл бұрын

    matt overthinks so much it take the fun out of it 😂

  • @annalylia655
    @annalylia655 Жыл бұрын

    i was distracted by mike’s the mars volta hoodie the whole time. sick af 🔥🔥🔥

  • @anushakaliprasad1181
    @anushakaliprasad1181 Жыл бұрын

    Love their dynamic 😂

  • @jigglybits2092
    @jigglybits2092 Жыл бұрын

    im never buying matt a gift or letting him in my home bc he will judge the gift/my interior deisgn (or lack thereof) lmfao

  • @Robin-ladybug
    @Robin-ladybug Жыл бұрын

    My favorite podcast!!!

  • @mobojen
    @mobojen Жыл бұрын

    i love this podcast, i recommend it to so many people! i will single handedly spread the word to over throw joe rogan

  • @pixxie102
    @pixxie102 Жыл бұрын

    Me going back and forth with the kissing Vs special project question.... While my husband listens to this podcast with me knowing full well he is not a consumer of KZread content HOWEVER knows all you guys your past and present relationships and still pretends to care when watching the roast of Zane ....

  • @xtinakeren5575
    @xtinakeren5575 Жыл бұрын

    Loved this episode!

  • @coopd97
    @coopd97 Жыл бұрын

    I definitely identify with Matt when it comes to love languages.

  • @---rx6em
    @---rx6em11 ай бұрын

    57:29 has me deceased lol

  • @tarasteele278
    @tarasteele278 Жыл бұрын

    I thought Matt's shirt said Anne Hathaway Elementray at first.

  • @SabrinaAngelica
    @SabrinaAngelica Жыл бұрын

    love languages are different for what u want to receive and how u show love

  • @ElizabethLeeA
    @ElizabethLeeA Жыл бұрын

    I got ZERO PERCENT physical touch lmaooo

  • @annieceresia2148
    @annieceresia2148 Жыл бұрын

    slay Matt with the Italian film reference

  • @Kase1313
    @Kase1313 Жыл бұрын

    Wow I needed this

  • @secret99826
    @secret99826 Жыл бұрын

    i just can’t agree w mike on the pda that’s so extreme 😭it’s just kinda of stupid to think it’s for the world when two people love each other lol

  • @marcyanne8910
    @marcyanne8910 Жыл бұрын

    There should should be a love language tests for different relationships. Like what people want from their friend is not the same as what they want from their partner. What you want from your friend may be consistent but what you want from your partner may change over time. The questions generalized "someone you love" but asks if your in a relationship. It's confusing

  • @madeleineeichhorn7804

    @madeleineeichhorn7804

    Жыл бұрын

    This does exist! They have a romantic love one and a general love one

  • @jessicafoster5262
    @jessicafoster5262 Жыл бұрын

    Matt is the star of this episode

  • @adamlambert5737
    @adamlambert5737 Жыл бұрын

    I feel like Mike kept getting the cold shoulder in this episode :/

  • @Bluevelvetism

    @Bluevelvetism

    Жыл бұрын

    Not necessarily. I feel like because they’re in long term relationships, they have a totally different mindset when it comes to love than mike so that’s why they all mostly agree and mike doesn’t agree with them

  • @hihii3902

    @hihii3902

    Жыл бұрын

    I kind of see what you mean, sometimes he makes jokes and no one says anything in response that I feel like they’d acknowledge if he said it a different day. I wonder if he was kinda on edge that day? He said he was trying to stay calm at one point. (Tbh I thought this said Matt not Mike so actually I take it all back)

  • @samrinasiddiqui1015
    @samrinasiddiqui1015 Жыл бұрын

    Matt is soo cute and funny 😂

  • @johnstrange6799
    @johnstrange6799 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @AZ-vj9fw
    @AZ-vj9fw Жыл бұрын

    I love the Simon Says background colors. Trying to figure out which boy picked it lol

  • @yikessduude
    @yikessduude Жыл бұрын

    Erin saying they recorded this august 3rd had me dying😂

  • @tonydouglas334
    @tonydouglas334 Жыл бұрын

    Def need time stamps

  • @TaranBKAUR
    @TaranBKAUR Жыл бұрын

    i agree with MIKE!! OMG whats wrong with the rest

  • @icee2329
    @icee2329 Жыл бұрын

    Anybody have the link to the quiz?

  • @kimkogneeto

    @kimkogneeto

    Жыл бұрын

    Seriously 😭 did you find it?

  • @desthepsychonaut
    @desthepsychonaut Жыл бұрын

    Lesssgooo🎉❤

  • @tit2852
    @tit2852 Жыл бұрын

    I wish mike would confess his love for carly

  • @Slimshadybbyy
    @Slimshadybbyy Жыл бұрын

    Matty Healy is so absolutely cringy

  • @ajmajmajm11
    @ajmajmajm11 Жыл бұрын

    kinda disagree about the taylor not being the one liking tik toks, a lot of the time she leaves comments and theyre definitely her. she’s been known to engage with fans in a personal way - she used to do it on tumblr a lot

  • @ashleysaavedra8445
    @ashleysaavedra8445 Жыл бұрын

    Leave Matt alone lol

  • @kimkogneeto
    @kimkogneeto Жыл бұрын

    What is the website 😩 I was trynna do it with the video

  • @MANNNNWHAT
    @MANNNNWHAT Жыл бұрын

    The questions just are the exact same almost just worded different, nah ??

  • @MANNNNWHAT

    @MANNNNWHAT

    Жыл бұрын

    LIKE LITERALLY JUST PHRASED DIFFERENT

  • @maybebb
    @maybebb Жыл бұрын

    Is that Jerry Seinfeld and Larry David? If so where can I find it, I want it please!

  • @kaylavngo
    @kaylavngo Жыл бұрын

    u guys should’ve spelled out LOVE with ur hands for the thumbnail!!!

  • @lesliezuniga-diaz9541
    @lesliezuniga-diaz9541 Жыл бұрын

    ❤️

  • @elliedelvecchio3067
    @elliedelvecchio3067 Жыл бұрын

    carly we have the same birthday and i feel like we should have a conversation about it…

  • @kendrashae3614
    @kendrashae3614 Жыл бұрын

    I don’t think people are appreciated enough so I over say it to people lol maybe I’m projecting

  • @kimkogneeto

    @kimkogneeto

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @hebasiddiqui2862
    @hebasiddiqui2862 Жыл бұрын

    Why does Erin so rude with Matt

  • @nasyoutubechannel3245
    @nasyoutubechannel3245 Жыл бұрын

    Hi

  • @briandaitzel
    @briandaitzel Жыл бұрын

    Is this really from august cause I’m dead

  • @charliedawn27
    @charliedawn27 Жыл бұрын

    Nobody is following Kyle rittenhouse to “keep up” with what he says cmon what

  • @shankeduu

    @shankeduu

    Жыл бұрын

    Rite and trump as a joke ?😭 what carly

  • @ryanbickel3656

    @ryanbickel3656

    Жыл бұрын

    Rittenhouse and trump are nowhere near the same

  • @sarahli0609
    @sarahli0609 Жыл бұрын

    and that is why mike is single 😂

  • @alexaramirez3072
    @alexaramirez3072 Жыл бұрын

    Matt has no idea what he says… he just talks to talk

  • @alexaramirez3072

    @alexaramirez3072

    Жыл бұрын

    By the way, this comment was in context to Harry Styles being jealous of Matty.

  • @montseveraud1504

    @montseveraud1504

    Жыл бұрын

    I get his point tho, but also I think Matty is jealous of Harry🤪

  • @tammylee7377
    @tammylee7377 Жыл бұрын

    Damn No Wonder Mike is single 🫣 Being like that he's gonna be forever single!! Relax a little bro🥴

  • @VenLouie
    @VenLouie Жыл бұрын

    so what if couples are affectionate in public? something is wrong with him he needs to mind his own business maybe

  • @sol.p2206
    @sol.p2206 Жыл бұрын

    Love Kyle Rittenhouse ❤

  • @caram227

    @caram227

    Жыл бұрын

    So you have very low standards?

  • @jazminerodriguez9112

    @jazminerodriguez9112

    Жыл бұрын

    what a loser lol

  • @charliedawn27

    @charliedawn27

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s one thing to think he is innocent but it’s another to “love” him. Seek help, you brick

  • @sol.p2206

    @sol.p2206

    Жыл бұрын

    @@charliedawn27 oh my gosh.. it’s an expression! I guess we all have to think and express ourselves in the same way or else we’re looked down upon. Not very inclusive of you lol

  • @caram227

    @caram227

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sol.p2206 we don’t have to express ourselves in the same way… but if you express something stupid expect to be called out for it. Like they said, seek help.

  • @Dsbeat7000
    @Dsbeat7000 Жыл бұрын

    THANK U

  • @michelleparedes4629
    @michelleparedes4629 Жыл бұрын

    The first podcast I listen to on Tuesdays and the most excited to tap on 🫶🏼

  • @allisonv4270
    @allisonv4270 Жыл бұрын

    I think Taylors team might help her with making certain content on her page but otherwise with interactions they use the @TaylorNation and Taylor really uses her account because of how much she actually stalks the fans for who she wants to invite to secret sessions and meet and greets you can tell from people’s experiences that she really was the one looking at their social media when she talks to them in person