If you're suffering with your mental health, contact your GP or freephone The Samaritans for confidential support 24 hours a day, on 116 123.

@newchannellookforlissaelle8507

5 жыл бұрын

thank you for doing this, hopefully this will have a positive impact on opening up about mental health.

@alair9286

5 жыл бұрын

Gigi gigi You're right but also I don't think people really understand the impact of going on reality tv shows and becoming a megastar, it all sounds so good and dandy despite videos like this coming out, people think their experience will be different because it's so sugar coated and that's what brings in a new cast each year

@themiddlejourney6286

5 жыл бұрын

This is wonderful what you are doing for mental health. Amazing. I transfer patients very day with mental health and I just want to help them. It is true mental health hits all parts of society. I have transferred Doctors, police, nurses, solicitors, unemployed, mothers etc. Mental health is growing. I have suffered for many years on and off and some of those dark whole have been impossible at times. I remember fearing telling people. I hid my mental health for many years. Good friends and family was a god send. Hey have a great day.

@TheWormzerjr

5 жыл бұрын

If you are suffering mental health, your government has had a hand in it. click my name to watch Son of Perdition part 3 then 4. wakey wakey

@Brokendreams77

5 жыл бұрын

Samatarians are awful, Ive rung them twice in my very very suicidal times and the people I’ve received on the other end of the phone and they didn’t really say much and it was just silence ☹️

Massive respect to them for doing this. We all need to look out for eachother

Alex (Miller) and Theo sound like they really understand mental health. Depression is not just sadness unfortunately.

@user-lr1ev6hr6r

5 жыл бұрын

I think Laura crane really understood it as well

@xlaurensj

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly, it can be absolutely numb. I remember the first time I had a suicidal thought & I felt NOTHING at all, I just wanted to die. The numbness is more distressing that feeling sad for me.

@annafrancessmith

5 жыл бұрын

3:16 he describes thoughts of suicide... maybe it’s not the time to pull apart people’s experiences and tell them who does and doesn’t understand

This is the reason Love Island needs aftercare. How the producers didn’t realise this or didn’t care is beyond me

@skyebrewer5569

5 жыл бұрын

it’s got nothing to do with the producers it’s not in their control it’s the people on social media afterwards to blame they’re the ones creating the hate

@maiaaa6474

5 жыл бұрын

@@skyebrewer5569 it's a show destined for pain and depression, producers suck

@prabesh8277

5 жыл бұрын

Its a shit show. Deserves criticism. Take it on the chin.

@barneyborbone4079

5 жыл бұрын

skye brewer The producers are clever people. They new what would happen if they plunged a bunch of already insecure people into fame. They should take responsibility.

@skyebrewer5569

5 жыл бұрын

gossipgirl 90210 littlemix maybe now but not in the beginning...the first series didn’t have as many problems bcos it wasn’t as well watched so the people didn’t gain as much fame which means less trolls

Charlie's tip of asking "are you ok?" twice is fantastic. That's exactly how i wish my friends dealt with me and my mental health. Your instinct reaction is to always brush it off and minimise things to not bother people but if someone cares enough to just ask you again, I'd be way more likely to open up.

And I have so much respect for malin

@AleNuexGamer

5 жыл бұрын

She mugged herself off going back to try and confront terry

@vickyjay6405

5 жыл бұрын

@@AleNuexGamer fuck that .... She lost her baby daughter.

@vickyjay6405

5 жыл бұрын

@Eranga Bentara she was pregnant, gave birth to a premature baby girl called Consy. Sadly Consy died. And the not long after that went through a separation with her boyfriend. So so sad. Love, light and blessings to you Malin. X

@noors7754

5 жыл бұрын

Vicky jay and her mother last year

@rosachamberlain6692

5 жыл бұрын

OnTheHouse Jesus Christ fuck off

Malins been through sm

@GE-lh8eq

5 жыл бұрын

gossipgirl 90210 littlemix honestlyyy

@melz-lz1sp

5 жыл бұрын

What’s. sm

@TomandStace

5 жыл бұрын

Sm is so much

@melz-lz1sp

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks

@chloex6845

5 жыл бұрын

my heart aches for her so much. she’s such a strong girl❤️

Gives me that achy pain in my throat before you cry listening Malin talk about her daughter

my heart aches for malin, she’s so strong and she’s been through so much. i hope life treats her better❤️

@chloex6845

5 жыл бұрын

Ruben Feneser and you’re fucking rude.

@Sophie-zn6bg

5 жыл бұрын

Chloe x she’s such an amazing person! After all she’s been through the last 2 years is so heartbreaking

It’s interesting how Jeremy Kyle was cancelled immediately after the death of one of the guests, but despite two deaths of former contestants Love Island is still allowed to air and is super hyped up. Where is the line drawn?

@elizabethanne8566

5 жыл бұрын

suzanneflynn Jeremy Kyle wasn’t just cancelled because of the death lie detecter results were faked and dramatically changed. Also the show involved bullying/ exposing a family member or partner not finding love in a villa

@macdemarcaroni883

5 жыл бұрын

Elizabeth Anne I agree with you to a certain extent because two people Who participated on the show lost their lives due to the effects of fame and keeping up with the public’s standards .Just like Jeremy Kyle it also has a negative effect on the viewers too.

@samorry15

5 жыл бұрын

Love Island is an opportunity for fame and fortune. Jeremy Kyle prayed on the week, vunerable and naive

@macdemarcaroni883

5 жыл бұрын

Samorry Touray Jeremy Kyle is also for fame and fortune

@sayno2lolzisback

5 жыл бұрын

Jeremy Kyle definitely outstayed its welcome. Horrendous show.

I love Samira she has a good vibe

@KD-qr9ff

5 жыл бұрын

Wendy Mckenzie stop idolising people you dont know

@rochelle1199

5 жыл бұрын

@@KD-qr9ff saying you love someone isn't idolizing them

@KD-qr9ff

5 жыл бұрын

Rochelle LMAOOOO first of all, look up the definition of idolise because you’re embarrassing yourself.

@mel.ann.innmag7326

5 жыл бұрын

@K Z stop telling people how to feel, did you not just watch the video.?

@rochelle1199

5 жыл бұрын

@@KD-qr9ff I'm very much aware of what it means. If she had said "omg Samira is the best person in the world" then yes I would agree with you but all she bloody said was she loves her and she has a good vibe.... You could say that about anybody

Such huge respect for them also Samira looks stunning😍

Wow.. Just wow I never realised the problems with being famous. Massive respect for Cosmopolitan for this.. You're gonna save a lot of people because of this..

Huge respect, we all need to talk about mental health, if anyone reads this remember you are loved ❤️

So important to stress that physical and mental health are the same, no difference!

@jackrichardson766

5 жыл бұрын

y90_ xx I understand what you’re saying, but just want to say, mental health and physical health are completely different concepts. Physical injuries and problems with your physical health can be noticed and people can see it and there is no escaping. Mental health has been under thought of for a long time now and it’s important to recognise that people who are struggling with their mental health don’t often show it and it’s often that it can go completely unnoticed, as was the case with Mike and Sophie. Again, understand what you’re saying, but the way they present themselves couldn’t be further apart, there is still a stigma attached to mental health, and we need to break it down

@jackrichardson766

5 жыл бұрын

shitstarstea icons I didn’t say they don’t. I just think it needs to be clear that they are completely different things and are both just as important in their own right that’s all. I do agree with u of course though

@mollywhale9711

5 жыл бұрын

Jack Richardson yes physical and mental health may be different concepts but there is no difference in the importance of them both and they should both have the same amount of treatment available to make people better

Wow I didn’t even think about how they feel afterwards.

so necessary and to my girl Malin, keep on pushing xxx

Good luck for your exams.✍🏾

@gracebloore8438

5 жыл бұрын

Vogue Vibes thank you 🙏🏻

@gloriaeman6112

5 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU❤️🖤🧡❤️!

@jasminhalani6585

5 жыл бұрын

Thank youuuuu 💗

This is such an important topic, so glad that celebrities are talking about it. Well done cosmopolitan and all the people in this video. So much respect 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

My sister's mental health took her life in may this year and the fact that there isn't enough out there to help for people suffering with mental health makes me feel sick .yes there are helplines and counsellors but when u have mental health problems it can take alot of strength that you might not have to talk to someone or get help! Make sure u always ask if someone's okay and if they say yes ask them again and make sure they know you're a safe person to talk to. Always be kind to people because you never know what will change someone's life.

@emilyvanilla89

5 жыл бұрын

Eva Grace Hi Eva, thank you for sharing this powerful message. I’m so sorry you lost your sister, there’s nothing that can prepare you for that... As someone who also has experience of supporting a sibling with mental health difficulties, I know how hard it can be. Make sure you are looking after your own mental health too xxx

@evagrace3447

5 жыл бұрын

@@emilyvanilla89 hiya!! Yes it can be hard and if you need someone to talk about your sister or how you're feeling , u can message me on Snapchat or Instagram. I want to be able to help people. Losing my sister just motivated me to do more x

@emilyvanilla89

5 жыл бұрын

@@evagrace3447 Thank you! What's your insta?

@evagrace3447

5 жыл бұрын

@@emilyvanilla89 evagrace._

Thank God for these Angels, Thank You for Talking Out and helping us all, God Bless and Thank You. God Bless all those who suffer from these issues and may God Guide everyone through these tough times ❤️🙏🏻. God Rest Mike and all deceased x

I LOVE this so much! Thank you Cosmopolitan for making such a powerful video!

From such a superficial show, I’m so glad they made this video! Thank you, this is so important and hopefully impactful!

It is just so heartbreaking😭💔 when they talk about mike I still can't believe he ended his life I wish he'd ask for help, now I can never ever enjoy watching love island it will never be the same.

I thought this was an amazing video💓💓 Thankyou so much xxxx

I love this video so much than you cosmopolitan for creating this and thank you to these amazing people for taking part in this project for such an amazing topic💖💘💞💗💓

I really really appreciate the amount of previous contestants that they got involved with this! It really is an eye opener to see how many people were affected in a negative way

The fact is alot of us are broken people and have different issues, so going on a show where people pick or refuse u aint easy then knowing it will be shown on tv , show support for people and dont get caught up with what people say that is negative . god is love.

this is so sad :( hoping that they'll make counselling absolutely compulsory before and like even 3 years after at the minimum of each series. I don't think the whole show should be cancelled. Every reality tv show is problematic. It's entertainment at the end of the day. However, we can change or there should be things set in place always for those that rise to fame on shows like this. I don't necessarily think there's a DIRECT correlation between this show and those unfortunate passing of the ex Islanders, but their agencies and managers need to be doing more for the people they represent.

Really good to see the proper manly men on here like Theo and Marcel sharing their feelings. Shows it affects everyone no matter who you might be and no matter how strong and manly you might appear

@basementbats

5 жыл бұрын

So only the black men are proper manly men? Really do agree with the sentiment and in fact especially agree with the idea that there is a lot of toxic masculinity especially centered around and pressured onto black men so it’s particularly great that they’re speaking out but the way you worded your comment comes off as though they’re somehow more masculine because of their race which is part of the same issue I just mentioned

@xoxooxoxoxxx2053

5 жыл бұрын

Skipper i see your point but i think they were more referring to their attitudes in the show . hence they didn’t tmention josh

@DT-ub6ud

5 жыл бұрын

Skipper what I meant was that on the show, Theo especially came across as very tough and very cheeky- you would never have thought he would be affected by mental health issues whereas people like Alex was a sensitive soul on the show who was especially attuned to peoples feelings more so than others- hence I didn’t mention Alex and a couple of the other guys. I mentioned Theo and Marcel but I didn’t mention them because they’re black- I just picked those two because of their personalities on the show

@DT-ub6ud

5 жыл бұрын

Skipper I didn’t mention them because they’re black, I mentioned them and they just so happen to be black so I do see why there was some confusion. Hope I cleared it up!

This is so amazing I’m so glad this was spoke about! I feel as if the whole ordeal with Mike and Sophie has been avoided so it’s great to hear it be spoken about by the people who had the pleasure of meeting the beautiful souls.

Thanks for doing this guys ❤

this is exactly what we need to see. mental health is not something to be ignored!

So much respect for you making this video 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼

this is such a powerful message. bless them all for sharing

They all look so pretty here!! Especially Samira & Laura 💕 alex is such a sweatie :)

@maddieb4248

5 жыл бұрын

Ella P yer cos that’s the problem

@bencb3

5 жыл бұрын

Ella P aye I thought Laura was quite ugly on the show but she’s not too bad here

@ChiaIsHere93

5 жыл бұрын

So that’s what you took from this video? 🤨

@abiscott857

5 жыл бұрын

bencb3 Why would you feel the need to comment this on a video about mental health and how much pressure they are all under to look perfect?

@ella3347

5 жыл бұрын

ChiaIsHere93 i’m spreading positivity hun, I don’t understand your problem.

This is actually just what I needed. My partner of 6 years just ended things with me and I've never felt lonelier. The realisation that other people are going through things too and I ought not to be ashamed is such a breath of fresh air.

@darar263

5 жыл бұрын

rh0211 Hello random person on the internet, as someone who has been through a lot I can tell you once you’ve hit rock bottom it only goes up! Even if you have bad days, it’s part of the process of doing better and living better. I’m happy you’ve come to this realization and wish you all the best with everything :) always remember to love yourself first as well, super cliche but it is true af

@rh0211

5 жыл бұрын

@@darar263 Hey, I thought id replied to this but apparently, it didn't post? Thank you for the random kindness/support. Your advice to love myself first is awesome. If I'm candid I kind of lost myself in the relationship and it's refreshing rediscovering myself. Hope you're well.

It’s really interesting watching this because on the show and even on Instagram to an extent they’re real people who are presented as characters, and it’s far easier to say ‘I don’t like this character’ or ‘I don’t like the way this character looks’ than it is about a real person with feelings. Really good check for myself on being slower to judge other people that you might think you know but really only see what is put across to yiu

Really cool. Thanks for this folks!

Lovely video. Respect to the love Island people x

I hope this makes viewers more aware on a deeper level.

so good you guys share these stories!

Wow, beautiful video, thankyou everyone for sharing

This is fab, well done x

I am really glad they did this, ik they probs had to do it to stay out of the press and get the show cancelled however it doesn’t make it easy especially the people from season 3 who remember mike

@jessie5279

5 жыл бұрын

I meant not cancelled

whoever’s reading and isn’t themselves at the moment, just remember that it is okay to not be okay, you are not alone and you are loved and cared about. self care is important❤️

I’m so happy they did this. Theo❤️❤️❤️

A lot about Mike but what about poor Sophie x

@HelloHello-ed6mm

5 жыл бұрын

Nancy Owen-Channon most of them knew mike really well, I don’t think they knew Sophie as much

@becca760

5 жыл бұрын

Thankyou x

I can’t wait for Monday but yet I’m hoping it never comes

On January 7th 2019, I tried to take my own life. I’m 14 years old. I never genuinely speak out about this because it’s a touchy subject but something needs to be said. There isn’t one day where I don’t think about doing it again. And actually I wished it had worked. So I’m not here to give empathy to anyone. I’m here to make sure everyone has a voice. Speak out about your experiences in the past. But for real, don’t fight this on your own. You’re stronger than you know 😕

I think it’s lovely that they r finally speaking out about this but I feel like no ones rly talkin about sophie

Such an awesome video, so much respect

The worst scrutiny is social media. Love island is a super famous show and yes people don’t know what to expect after the show but most of it is headline after headline, comment after comment and tweet after tweet and that’s what breaks the person!

So much Respect for this

Grace 💖💖 she was so underrated and should of got the screen-time she deserved and she would of got so much more out of the experience ❤️❤️

This video was really well done

I’m so proud of them for doing this. 💕

It's so important to show that fame and money doesn't automatically result in happiness and to give awareness to the situation

A mix of all the years

These people are isolated from society for a long time- that’s serious! Love island, like other shows, need to conduct thorough mental assessment if these young people are fit for this show!

Props to them for doing this.

Amazing vids 👏

Brilliant video

Malin I absolutely adore your beautiful soul, stay strong gorgeous♥️

Out of all the female contestants so far, Malin has to be the prettiest

So lovely x

it’s the people afterwards and on social media that makes it a problem not the show...it’s not in their hands they didn’t the create show knowing any of this would happen after they leave the villa they created it for us to watch it’s the keyboard trolls to blame not the show

@sanaachughtai5255

5 жыл бұрын

skye brewer but the show is the whole reason that the people on social media say stuff because those people watch the show

don’t suffer in silence

So happy to see Malin

This is so sweet.

I suffer from depression and anxiety if anyone reading this struggles with this believe me it’s so hard to push yourself to see your doctor but it is so worth it!! I just wrote a list of things that I was struggling with & handed it to my gp and he said ‘right this is really common and I can help you’ he prescribed me some tablets and gave me some info on counselling I wasn’t ready for that but I took the tablets and my life is so much happier yes I still have days when it’s hard to get the efforts to do stuff but I’ve stopped crying and my mood has improved so much & I see the point of living! So please if you read this just book an appointment it could completely turn your life around! And you are worth it 😘

Theo, so handsome... Like Will Smith

i have a lot of respect for these people.

Yes this is what matters!!!

This video is so important

mental health is so important💕

@Alex-fm5ke

5 жыл бұрын

Inaayah wow you’ve cracked it

@iz8051

5 жыл бұрын

Alex you’re sarcasm is amazing LOL.

Doesn't seem like a good support system in schools so Much pressure.

@itsmegsie

5 жыл бұрын

I think it all comes down to funding and that is related to academic achievement, unfortunately. In my school we had exceptional support and we were all taken care of. However, my school did achieve, which is easily related to support. I don't think schools with less academic achievement should have pupils suffer.

@annikaharries8864

5 жыл бұрын

Vogue Vibes yes so many exams

I always accoiate love Island with my exams I revise watching love island

malin is so strong !

i think the love island producers need to work on preparing contestants for life in the public eye so that when they leave they have the right support network with good coping mechanisms in place to make the transition easier. of course it’s gonna take a massive toll on their mental health but it’s very easy for people to overlook how difficult it can be. famous or not we’re all human and we all deserve support for our mental health, if you’re struggling please speak to someone even if it’s just a friend or your mum because talking to someone helps so much xx

Mike I still miss him.

Laura crane looks stunning😍

My guy marcel 👊🏾

bless malin 💛

One thing I never see people talk about, but have seen with myself and soooo many friends! Sometimes the Drs and therapists will fuck you up more than before, sometimes the person you choose to talk to isn't always right and they don't support you the way you need. That's their fault not yours - change therapist, talk to different people in your life, just because one person knocks you down doesn't mean another can't help you in your journey to lift yourself up again. Its not simply go talk to someone and its done, with true depressions there's a million and one cycles. You'll climb one cliff just to tumble down and need to climb another. Try the best you can to not hate yourself for hating yourself, to not get angry with yourself for not being "strong" enough to just be happy. There is no strength in just lifting a bar with not weights on it, your training yourself to lift so much weight and the true strength comes from keeping on trying to lift it even though sometimes your just not able to.

Love island cast talks about body image, mental health, etc... while 90% of the love island cast have had cosmetic surgery My heart is so heavy for Malin ❤️

amazing that you’re doing this, but so saddening that a youtube channel has done more regarding mike than love island thinking it’s acceptable to stick his photo at the end of an episode

Laura looks stunning 😍

0.24 is not Alex

I love Laura

I swear this is just saying all people who go into love island will come out with some sort of mental health issue, kinda sad really.

❤️❤️❤️

I feel like i have anxiety. I’m literally so uncomfortable anytime anyone is near me in public. I have panic attacks and stuff and I feel so overwhelmed by people. I want to go to the doctors bc I want to know if I could be diagnosed bc labels help me. But my dad told me that doctors will just diagnose me and give me medication that I won’t ever be able to come off. Idrk what to do.

@jesswood2787

5 жыл бұрын

go to the doctor! the medicine is there to help you and it should make you feel better but if it does make you feel worse then just tell your doctor and they can swap the medication or dose.

@wendyr6681

5 жыл бұрын

If you're in the UK watch the BBC documentary with Nadija from Bake Off called Anxiety and Me. Medication isn't right for everyone with anxiety (or even most people) but there are lots of other things you can do to control it. The earlier you start to tackle it the easier it will be.

@allyxx2128

5 жыл бұрын

Talk to a school counciler and let her/him speak to your father ♡

@pingupinga7688

5 жыл бұрын

You look young they try to avoid giving medication at your age (I'm 19 now, stated feeling the same as you at 14 they didn't give until I was 17) but it will get better and you can get a counsellor. Sometimes they might brush it off as teenage problems which gets annoying and you might have to keep going back a few times but it does help. Another good way to feel less anxious, is to realise who you are as a person and how much you are amazing it's hard but just acting as yourself and just doing what you felt at the time really helped me.

@Alex-fm5ke

5 жыл бұрын

And why are you telling people in a KZread comment section, get help from people you know

Any series 1?

@hellofriend2109

5 жыл бұрын

gossipgirl 90210 littlemix I’m pretty sure it’s ok Netflix

Laura's makeup look stunning 💄 they all look amazing 😍

Why does mercell seem so happy in this video. Lol

@hafsjama6414

5 жыл бұрын

Marella201 bc he is lol.

@happinessloading1198

5 жыл бұрын

He just has a smiley face. I am the same. Doesn't mean he is necessarily happy

❤️

The problem is because of the world we live in with all the science and technology people communicate less. The world is moving so fast that little things don’t matter anymore. Sometimes it’s the little things that matter.

I love this so much, it's so inspirational and it makes you remember that - even though they are 'celebrities' - they are humans. Really makes you think twice about posting a shit ass comment. It could be the last straw to break the camel's back.

Why wasnt Megan in this 😩😢