Love in the Civil War: George Custer and the Confederate Wedding

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  • @pitsnipe5559
    @pitsnipe55592 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful story. My wife and I have something along those lines as well. One of my ancestors served in the 69th New York and one of my wife’s in the 2nd South Carolina. These two units fought one another at Gettysburg, in the Wheat Field. A few years ago we visited Gettysburg and together walked the field where our ancestors fought one another. It was a very poignant moment for us. Another time while in Richmond we visited Deep Bottom where another of her ancestors was killed and buried in an unmarked grave. It affected her deeply and moved her to have a monument placed beside that of his widow back in SC.

  • @studinthemaking

    @studinthemaking

    2 жыл бұрын

    That an amazing story.

  • @GringoLoco1

    @GringoLoco1

    2 жыл бұрын

    Great story -- thanks for sharing 👍👍

  • @Niinsa62

    @Niinsa62

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story. Gettysburg is food for thought. I visited back in 1990, I think it was. What amazed me was how tiny some of the separate battlefields were, like the area around Little Round Top. I don't remember now how many died there, but when I walked around there, it was like... wow. That many in this tiny spot, in just a few hours? That's brutal. And they were all Americans, they shouldn't have been enemies, they should have been brothers, like Custer and Lea.

  • @johncain1624

    @johncain1624

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s an amazing story. My GG grandfather also fought in the NY 69th.

  • @freethinker1378
    @freethinker13782 жыл бұрын

    Never a better tale to tell when trying to teach love, loyalty and compassion. Absolutely brilliant. Thank you

  • @LibertarianJRT
    @LibertarianJRT2 жыл бұрын

    My favorite Custer story is of Lt. Custer riding his horse into the middle of the river during the James campaign to settle an discussion among the generals staff as to how deep the river was.

  • @YahooMurray

    @YahooMurray

    2 жыл бұрын

    Shelby Foote's interview if I recall, and my favorite about Custer too

  • @lindaterrell5535

    @lindaterrell5535

    2 жыл бұрын

    “It’s this deep.” Another version is that he waded out into the river.

  • @nautifella

    @nautifella

    2 жыл бұрын

    _"This is how deep it is, General."_ At that moment he cleared up two important detail. One was the depth of the river, and far more importantly, that he was indeed the most demerited cadet at the academy.

  • @nautifella

    @nautifella

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@YahooMurray I have always felt that Shelby Foote's voice was the absolute gold standard of how a southern gentleman should sound and speak.

  • @tankwatkins
    @tankwatkins2 жыл бұрын

    Just as interesting is the fact that James Longstreet was best man at Ulysses S Grant's wedding in 1848.

  • @brentgranger7856
    @brentgranger78562 жыл бұрын

    I once read that Union officers who were friends of Confederate General George Pickett sent him congratulations when his wife gave birth in 1864.

  • @brt-jn7kg

    @brt-jn7kg

    2 жыл бұрын

    One thing that is forgot today is that these men love one another. It's hard to understand in our world where things are so much smaller and faster. I don't know for all of our technology that we are not worse off than these men were back then.

  • @patmcnamara9081

    @patmcnamara9081

    2 жыл бұрын

    The gift was a an engraved commemorative platter

  • @blacksheepbear6382

    @blacksheepbear6382

    2 жыл бұрын

    As a West Pointer, there’s nothing that could break the bonds between us as classmates.

  • @stevek8829

    @stevek8829

    2 жыл бұрын

    As thanks for wiping out an entire Confederate division the prior year. He was voted Union mvp for 63.

  • @jcsgodmother

    @jcsgodmother

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well he did help the Union more than the South at Gettysburg. Pickett's charge is one of the worst disasters for the Confederates who typically had superior generals than the Union. The exception to the rule was Pickett.

  • @WyomingTraveler
    @WyomingTraveler2 жыл бұрын

    A fun story and one with a somewhat personal connection. My great grandfather was at the battle of Williamsburg and also in the 5th NC. He served in that regiment until his capture at Cedar Creek in 1864.

  • @104thDIVTimberwolf

    @104thDIVTimberwolf

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mine served in Company K, South Carolina 8th Infantry, wounded at Malvern Hill.

  • @andrewwilson6726

    @andrewwilson6726

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mine served company B 36th Georgia volunteer infantry captured at Vicksburg and taken to a camp in northern Tennessee.

  • @ozonedoc

    @ozonedoc

    2 жыл бұрын

    What did they fight for? What was gained?

  • @andrewwilson6726

    @andrewwilson6726

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ozonedoc a pardon from the Union government

  • @paulmerritt418
    @paulmerritt4182 жыл бұрын

    Always enjoy these stories of lesser known history!

  • @robertsettle2590
    @robertsettle25902 жыл бұрын

    Great story that I have heard about my entire life. As I speak to my 97 year old Dad right now who grew up in Williamsburg, he is reminded about playing with other kids around that house where the wedding took place all during the late 1920's and 1930's. Our family has been in that same area since 1656.

  • @thetruthseeker5549
    @thetruthseeker55492 жыл бұрын

    It seems the more we are fascinated by historical figures, the more we malign them , loving them or hating them through our own contemporary ignorance. Thank you for sharing a human story of Autie.

  • @tmcgill2219
    @tmcgill22192 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for another great video THG. You should consider doing a piece on Custer’s West Point roommate and long time best friend Confederate Major General Thomas Rosser. He faced Custer’s unit more than once during the war and they even conducted a taunting correspondence with each other between combats. Rosser later served in the US Army during the Spanish American War.

  • @allandavis8201
    @allandavis82012 жыл бұрын

    I have heard about G Custers record at West-point on many occasions and whilst it is nothing to write home about at least he did graduate, even getting into West-Point then and now is something to be proud of, and despite his academic failings he was obviously a skilled horseman and cavalry officer, just a pity that he lost his last battle.

  • @JayKayKay7
    @JayKayKay72 жыл бұрын

    Here is a military history nugget involving "The Battle of Greasy Grass." The time period: 2008 The scene: The Visitors Center at Little Bighorn Battlefield. The dramatis personae: The old Vietnam vet Lakota Sioux Guy who works as the "Old Indian Warrior" to represent the Indian's side of things who actually is related by blood to a ranking participant of the battle. My kid who is a Lieutenant commanding a Stryker Platoon on a pre-deployment to Iraq Staff Ride organized by the Brigade Major for all the lieutenants and captains, about 20 Officers. The Old Indian Warrior is sitting on a stool at the museum watching the soldiers as they wander about. Finally my kid walks up to the Old Indian Warrior as says; " Hello . SIr." Old Indian Warrior turns, looks him over slowly, and then raises his hand, palm out, bent at the elbow and replies in a deep sonorous voice, "How!" Then quickly cracks a smile as says, "I'm just fucking with you." "You guys are in the Army? Right?" "I was in the Army once. I was in Vietnam." My kid replies,"Wow!" The Old Indian Warrior then tells a story. One day his Sargent finds him as asks," Joe. You're an Indian? Right?" "Yes" " Go up to Battalion HQ and talk to the Major." "What about?" "I don't know Just go. They sent word down they were looking for an Indian." Upon arrival, Old Joe the Indian Warrior finds the Major and a captured NVA Intelligence Officer who had been educated in the US at some California University and had developed an interest in Indigenous Native Americans but had never actually met a real Indian. As part of his cooperation with the Americans he asked if he could meet an Indian if they had any in the Battalion. Old Joe the Indian Warrior introduces himself to the NVA Officer and the guy asks him in flawless English the following question. "Why is a Red man over here fighting the Brown man for the White man?" Old Joe the Indian Warrior now looks up and at the now spellbound group of young Army officers that have stopped and gathered to listen as says, "You know boys? He got me thinking on that the rest of the time I was there."

  • @ericbrawand1079

    @ericbrawand1079

    2 жыл бұрын

    Love that story as much as the one just heard by The History Guy.

  • @FJ80Coop

    @FJ80Coop

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol 😄

  • @AnarchyWerebitch

    @AnarchyWerebitch

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's a great story! Thank you!

  • @jcksnghst

    @jcksnghst

    2 жыл бұрын

    Whatever that means...

  • @easygoing2479

    @easygoing2479

    2 жыл бұрын

    You never know when you'll learn something new. "Dramatis personae" - The Latin phrase for ‘persons of the play’.(Oxford Reference)

  • @vcoonrod
    @vcoonrod2 жыл бұрын

    I lived down the street from Custer's grandson in the 1960s in Indiana. When he died, he left me his books. They were very nice people.

  • @stevek1018
    @stevek10182 жыл бұрын

    A real tearjerker. Stories like this remind me of my family. My mother's side of the family were Confederates from Alabama. My father side where Damn Yankees from Kentucky. Two of my great gr. gr. grandparents fought against each other at the Battle of Stones River, Tennessee. My father was in the US Army during World War II. He was later stationed at Fort Benning, Georgia whre he met my mother in 1951. He often told me that even back then they thought of him as a Damn Yankee. I was born at Ft. Benning in 1956. Where we made our home in Columbus, Georgia. Not Bowling Green, Kentucky! Goes to show you who won that battle.

  • @YahooMurray

    @YahooMurray

    2 жыл бұрын

    A southern girl in the 1960s told a northern girl she felt bad for growing up thinking damned Yankee was just one word. To which the northern girl replied, I just recently discovered Robert E. Lee was more than just a steamboat...

  • @tygrkhat4087

    @tygrkhat4087

    2 жыл бұрын

    IIRC, in the early 90s; the President was from Arkansas, the VP from Tennessee, the Speaker of the House from Georgia and Majority Leader of the Senate from Texas.

  • @Tmrfe0962
    @Tmrfe09622 жыл бұрын

    I hesitate to comment on every episode for fear of sounding insincere…however, episodes like this, overcome that fear…you Sir, spark such interest in me, that I do as I usually do, and leave this website, and dig deeper into the stories with which you tweak my curiosity. But alas, So much to learn, so little time…. Thank you once again.

  • @jackbaxter-williams8059

    @jackbaxter-williams8059

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes!

  • @larmondoflairallen4705

    @larmondoflairallen4705

    2 жыл бұрын

    🙄

  • @rnedlo9909
    @rnedlo99092 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. Such a senseless war, not that any are much better, but 'civil' wars have an especially senseless level, brother against brother; friend against friend.

  • @ericbrawand1079
    @ericbrawand10792 жыл бұрын

    A day doesn't seem complete without a tidbit of history from The History Guy. Kind of the Walter Cronkite of the internet. Thanks for sharing your passion.

  • @quillmaurer6563
    @quillmaurer65632 жыл бұрын

    This is another situation where we see military enemies respecting each other, even being friends. A reality I think we all too often forget as popular culture always portrays military enemies as awful people. But so many of THG's videos show how most military officers, anywhere from the Civil War to WWII, saw the battle as nothing personal, but a profession, each fighting on behalf of their nation, and seeing their enemies as the same. Respecting, even being friends with, and viewing as distinguished professionals, their enemy counterparts, despite it being their duty to battle them to the death. Sort of reminds me of various cartoon rivalries, especially Ralph Wolf/Sam Sheepdog, who's job was to fight each other, but off the clock they were very respectful of each other. Or perhaps Tom and Jerry, or even the student-versus-principal rivalry of Bart Simpson and Principal Skinner. On numerous occasions it's very clear that Bart and Skinner actually respect each other, at times have joined forces or even been friends, but their roles as mischievous kid and school principal requires their rivalry.

  • @watan9397

    @watan9397

    2 жыл бұрын

    Custer was raping the women captives. So were all the soldiers.

  • @swirvinbirds1971

    @swirvinbirds1971

    2 жыл бұрын

    You romanticize too much especially if you bring up WW2. Friends is far from the truth. The respected each other's abilities to kill each other for sure, but a Japanese soldier and and American Soldier we're not interested in getting to know each other and had hatred for each other. The other side killing your friends does that. The Civil War was a different era with literal friends and family fighting against each other and a country trying to come together and heal, not take revenge. Yet even then atrocities took place on both sides against each other.

  • @quillmaurer6563

    @quillmaurer6563

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@swirvinbirds1971 I'm not saying this was always the case, but there were examples of it. The Japanese and Americans were certainly more brutal towards one another, not even really regarding one another as human, probably due to race, while many Americans have German heritage so they don't feel as different. I wouldn't say many were friends (though there are stories of combatants later becoming friends after the war), but there are stories of chivalry, of officers who wished to behave as, be seen as, and see enemy officers as, gentleman rather than brutes. Especially earlier in the war.

  • @Relentless_Venture

    @Relentless_Venture

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@quillmaurer6563 theres officers who also shot up murdered and raped women and children in their camps and forced them on to reservations. So chivalrous

  • @fingerzfrienemy2226

    @fingerzfrienemy2226

    2 жыл бұрын

    frienemies

  • @leondillon8723
    @leondillon87232 жыл бұрын

    2:13)The pistol is possibly a Remington chambered for the 1852 .22 caliber short. 12:07)1859,"Dixie" was written one winter's day in the original part of New York City where it was first sung.Written by Daniel Decatur Emmett from Mount Vernon, Ohio. 12:54)After Appomattox, militia units were slowly disbanded until the war's end in August 1866. BREVET Maj. General G.A.Custer was discharged a Major(O-4).Brevet Brigadier Gen. Benj. Harrison had a Colonel's commission.A brevet officer's pay was set by the man's enlisted or officer pay grade.

  • @bjklein444
    @bjklein4442 жыл бұрын

    Through all the blurred memories of a history of life long ago, it is refreshing to see the fresh perspective you bring into our current events. For all the stories that have been sifted of their importance (and their color), General George Armstrong Custer's was one of those stories. Thank you for your channel!

  • @tedecker3792
    @tedecker37922 жыл бұрын

    One of my ancestors was Lt. Col. T. C. Hardness of the Pennsylvania 81st regiment. I have one of his medals, one engraved on the back with the battles he’d been in: Peninsular, Antietam, Fredericksburg, Gettysburg, and Appomattox.

  • @tedecker3792

    @tedecker3792

    2 жыл бұрын

    Harkness

  • @stevenshaw1299
    @stevenshaw12992 жыл бұрын

    Please do a story on the Vajont Dam tragedy. This is a tremendous story. wave over 800 ft. tall. Over 2000 Italians lost their lives in this tragedy. This story has everything. Disaster, coverup, suicide...

  • @Fuckthathoe
    @Fuckthathoe2 жыл бұрын

    One of the best civil war stories I've ever heard. Thanks history guy!!

  • @tylerfoss3346
    @tylerfoss33462 жыл бұрын

    Great job, THG! Bravo!!! I learned more about George Armstrong Custer the man in this video of yours than from all the reading I have done researching him in studying Civil War history. Bravo, sir!!! Thank you!

  • @sdefiel3719
    @sdefiel37192 жыл бұрын

    So well written. Thanks, S

  • @seanhill99
    @seanhill992 жыл бұрын

    Only a minute in and I already know this is going to be a good history guy episode because it just calmed my panic attack down. Thanks THG!

  • @BigT2664
    @BigT26642 жыл бұрын

    Thank you from an old soldier and history teacher. I work every day to help my students understand the human side of war. Stories like this where close friends can end up on opposite sides of the battle and yet maintain that friendship are things that my students find difficult to grasp. What a bitter day it must have been when Colonel Lee learned of the death of his best man and friend General Custer.

  • @mollybell5779
    @mollybell57792 жыл бұрын

    THG mentions that love is the strongest of human emotions. I will counter that grief is the strongest. I will concede that grief is, however, a subset of love.

  • @quillmaurer6563

    @quillmaurer6563

    2 жыл бұрын

    What you say there about love and grief being related is something I've pondered a good bit. If sadness and love are born from the same place in psychology. Thoughts inspired by once hearing a classical music piece I couldn't tell if was intended to be sad or romantic, realizing those music styles are quite similar - as are the emotions perhaps. I feel like that could be really interesting to explore in the "Inside Out" universe, perhaps a sequel where Riley falls in love, I suspect it would actually be the sadness character driving it.

  • @CBUCK1994

    @CBUCK1994

    2 жыл бұрын

    grief is just love that has no place to go anymore

  • @raydunakin

    @raydunakin

    2 жыл бұрын

    Love and grief go hand in hand. Anyone who loves someone will eventually know grief, either when they lose the one they love, or when they themselves are taken away from that loved one. Yet to go through life without loving or being loved, is far worse than any grief.

  • @1LSWilliam
    @1LSWilliam2 жыл бұрын

    Really fine narrative, understated all the way. Excellent feel for the subject. This is history we need to know. Thank you. My uncle was a Second Lieutenant in the Michigan 7th Cavalry, and this account added to the family lore about Custer!

  • @robertsettle2590

    @robertsettle2590

    2 жыл бұрын

    Good GAWD! Just how old are you!!!

  • @terryrussel3369
    @terryrussel33692 жыл бұрын

    Yet Another Wonderful Story ! After all of the forensic studies were done at LBH showing what really happened, and that the Native Americans interviewed by a reporter told the truth, I was dumbfounded. I was very disappointed by the officially sanctioned dishonesty of that time.

  • @stephenrickjr.7519
    @stephenrickjr.75192 жыл бұрын

    Custer has always been my favorite from the Civil War. I did not know this story. Thanks!

  • @budahbaba7856
    @budahbaba78562 жыл бұрын

    History Guy, thank you for pursuing this angle that people just really don't talk about.

  • @kendebusk2540
    @kendebusk25402 жыл бұрын

    I was born in Monroe, Michigan, and Custer is revered there as a local hero since much of his childhood was spent there. My dad lived for a while as a child on Custer Road (or went to Custer School, don't remember which, but think both existed), there's a huge statue of him next to the river running through town, etc. It's so interesting so see a "legend" fleshed out with more than the normal Little Big Horn information!

  • @lindaterrell5535

    @lindaterrell5535

    2 жыл бұрын

    The council in Monroe has been debating whether to remove the Custer Statue because of his Indian activities. But the statue commemorates the Civil War Custer.

  • @kendebusk2540

    @kendebusk2540

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lindaterrell5535 I had someone tell me once that the way a horse is standing relates to how the rider died, and that Custer's horse in Monroe "lied" about that. But it may make more sense if it means he got through the Civil War alive and died later. It's not important enough to me to look it up, but I certainly agree that he tried to treat Natives badly and for the most part, failed. I tend to side with the Natives over the "invaders" even though I'm mostly (very small portion Native blood here) one of the Europeans who displaced the Natives.

  • @lindaterrell5535

    @lindaterrell5535

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kendebusk2540 He didn’t treat the Native Americans any worse than his contemporaries. And better than a few. He used sign language effectively. The Crow thought he was pretty special. As for my ancestors, they’re Algonquin. Not a lot to do with their plains cousins.

  • @mfhberg
    @mfhberg2 жыл бұрын

    Custer and his life was the topic of my history reports in many of my history classes. My neighbor John S. Gray wrote a couple of books about Custers' 1876 Campaign.

  • @RetiredSailor60
    @RetiredSailor602 жыл бұрын

    Tomorrow being Pearl Harbor Day, 80th Anniversary of the surprise Japanese attack, remember those who died that day and were wounded. Never forget the brave, honorable, and courageous Soldiers, Sailors, Marines, Army Air Corps, and Coast Guardsmen who served.

  • @TheHistoryGuyChannel

    @TheHistoryGuyChannel

    2 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/head/PLSnt4mJGJfGibUtzcMLD-RhxCcE5xURFq

  • @matthewpoplawski8740

    @matthewpoplawski8740

    2 жыл бұрын

    William Sanders, I HEARTILY CONCUR. God bless and rest those over 2,000 souls of December 7th.😪😪😪

  • @evinchester7820

    @evinchester7820

    2 жыл бұрын

    And US Merchant Marines as well.

  • @georgebuller1914

    @georgebuller1914

    2 жыл бұрын

    And the Japanese too?...

  • @raylaymon344

    @raylaymon344

    2 жыл бұрын

    It wasn't a surprise, Japanese code was already broken, Roosevelt has alot of blood on his hands, out to sea would have been harder targets

  • @johnharris6655
    @johnharris66552 жыл бұрын

    My favorite scene in "She Wore a Yellow Ribbon" is the funeral of Trooper John Smith. " I also commend to your keeping, Sir, the soul of Rome Clay, late Brigadier General, Confederate States Army. Known to his comrades here, Sir, as Trooper John Smith, United States Cavalry... a gallant soldier and a Christian gentleman. " It shows the respect that Captain Brittles, played by John Wayne, had for his former adversary in the Civil war and that Sgt. Tyree was once Captain Tyree, former confederate officer. Captain Brittles then allows Abbie Alshard, wife of his commanding officer to make a small confederate flag to be placed on the coffin of General Clay, showing further respect for the man. It shows that the war was truly over and that some members of the CSA were welcomed back to the USA.

  • @robertsettle2590

    @robertsettle2590

    2 жыл бұрын

    I too am very fond of that very same scene. Love that movie!

  • @pete6102
    @pete61022 жыл бұрын

    i like you series a lot and i learn very much keep it up

  • @tomh6183
    @tomh6183 Жыл бұрын

    May the fountain of History always flow and may I always partake of its waters.Thank You History Guy.

  • @stanstenson8168
    @stanstenson81682 жыл бұрын

    Great story Lance. I had no idea.

  • @mattyz28kbrracing80
    @mattyz28kbrracing802 жыл бұрын

    One failure of many history teachings, in my opinion based on those I have received in the past, is the failure to help the student of said history recognize that there are humans on both sides of every conflict. Human beings just like you or I.

  • @benjaminbowman5557
    @benjaminbowman55572 жыл бұрын

    I really enjoyed the story of General Custer learning things I never new about Custer. I enjoy your history story's keep it up.

  • @thefireman8931
    @thefireman89312 жыл бұрын

    I've been a viewer of this channel for quite some time and this has to be my favorite video so far, great topic and great story. Keep doing what you're doing! -A fan in Louisiana

  • @richardklug822
    @richardklug8222 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for another interesting story. A bit like a 19th century version of the "6 degrees of separation" game.

  • @matthewpoplawski8740
    @matthewpoplawski87402 жыл бұрын

    AS ALWAYS THE HISTORY GUY, AN EXCELLENT VIDEO. If my memory is correct, Custer, also,had something to do with the recovery and burial of Confederate General Stephen Dodson Ramseur. He was at Ramseur's bedside when Ramseur breathed his last. It's been said that Ernest FRITZ Hollings, while a cadet at The Citadel. held the record for walking the the most tours. The joke was that he toured more than the USO!!😄😄😄🌞🌞🌞✌✌✌✌

  • @katmandudawn8417
    @katmandudawn84172 жыл бұрын

    Another sweet G. A. Custer story takes place at Belle Grove plantation, the site of the Battle of Cedar Creek in Middletown Va. The Union army were camped at the house while General Sheridan attended meetings in Winchester. The General was late getting back and actually had stopped to rest about halfway back. Shortly before dawn the Union troops were surprised by Confederates moving north to take Winchester. Winchester changed hands over 70 times during the war.( I always envisioned a French bedroom comedy with various people popping in and out of multiple doors. ) Anyway, the surprised Union troops broke and ran under the cannon bombardment that suddenly awakened them. There was fierce fighting but without General Sheridan to lead them, the Union retreated at speed. At the end of the lane leading to Belle Grove, Confederate Major General Stephen Ramseur was grievously injured. He was carried to the house where he was put to bed in the nursery but the outlook was bleak. Meanwhile, Gen. Sheridan was also awakened by the cannons. Realizing that his troops must be under attack, he leapt on his horse to rush the last 5 miles down the valley and as able to stop his men’s retreat. Regathering at Kernstown they pushed back down the Valley Pike and retook Belle Grove. Upon re-entering the house they found General Ramseur. He had been too injured to be moved went the Confederates retreated. Custer was one of the Union officers. He and Ramseur had been dear friends at West Point and had been best men at each other’s weddings. Custer was distraught finding his friend dying and sat with him until he passed that night. That was the best thing I knew of Custer for many years. He was also involved with the hanging of 5 of Mosby’s raiders in Front Royal. (One was just a local youth who had ridden out to see some fun). I also once saw a bumper sticker on a Native American’s car that read “ Custer wore Arrow shirts”. 😂 Belle Grove is now part of the National Historic Trust. They along with the Park Service and Battlefield Foundation run the whole area as a historic site. There were re enactments with large cavalry charges in October. Very occasionally, they were given permission to re enact the predawn cannons. Wow. Was that loud, with the horizon lighting up from the gun flashes. Edgar Allen Poe once stayed there too. I once met a descendant of General Ramseur, who had brought her young family to see where he had died.

  • @matthewellisor5835
    @matthewellisor58352 жыл бұрын

    So, they could keep incongruent opinions but not hold hate for the other? What might we know now if we held to that standard?

  • @VosperCDN

    @VosperCDN

    2 жыл бұрын

    People have become too attached to their opinion and are unable, or unwilling, to separate it from themselves when interacting with others of differing views. To be able to disagree, but not dislike, has been lost to a very large degree.

  • @matthewellisor5835

    @matthewellisor5835

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@VosperCDN I'll counter with: "Not lost, certainly lacking." I'll offer a wild guess that you're a bit North of my location. If you ever escape, you're welcome here.

  • @md7999
    @md79992 жыл бұрын

    Excellent episode, wonderfully delivered!

  • @pamelamays4186
    @pamelamays41862 жыл бұрын

    Such a story was never brought up in my schools' history classes. Many soldiers in the Civil were former classmates and close friends.

  • @nedludd7622

    @nedludd7622

    2 жыл бұрын

    Why should they be? They are just anecdotes and obviously in the limited time history classes have they stick to the larger important events.

  • @ronfullerton3162

    @ronfullerton3162

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@nedludd7622 We all realize that the schools do not have time to teach much history, civics, or economics any more. But wouldn't in be good for the young to see that even with enough differences of opinions to cause a war, that the people of our country still could interact and have friendships and be respectful and humane across the battlefield lines. Especially today when, without a war, we cannot even be respectful to others if they hold a different view or politics.

  • @liamroggenkamp

    @liamroggenkamp

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ulysses Grant and James Longstreet were friends before and after the war, with Grant, then president, appointing Longstreet as the ambassador to the Ottoman Empire

  • @RCAvhstape

    @RCAvhstape

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@liamroggenkamp Lomgstreet was an oddball in the CSA, being a Republican.

  • @liamroggenkamp

    @liamroggenkamp

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@RCAvhstape I find him to be a fascinating character. He fights in the Civil War for the Confederacy as a great general. Post war he, as you noted, became a Republican, endorsed Grant for president, became ambassador to the Ottoman Empire, converted to Catholicism, and ended up fighting white supremacists in the streets of New Orleans in the Battle of Liberty Place.

  • @RustyHaloMetalDetecting
    @RustyHaloMetalDetecting2 жыл бұрын

    This is a winner of an episode! Reminding us all, what we are capable of. Thank you HG!

  • @rickkinki4624
    @rickkinki46242 жыл бұрын

    History is so fascinating anyway, and the narrator makes it even better!

  • @majorronaldmandell7835
    @majorronaldmandell78352 жыл бұрын

    This was a most inspiring tale of George Custer! Thanks for bringing this to us!

  • @majorronaldmandell7835
    @majorronaldmandell78352 жыл бұрын

    That was most inspiring story concerning Custer! Thanks for bring this to us!

  • @surveyore7
    @surveyore72 жыл бұрын

    Wow! All the 'connections' and all the 'promotions'.. Crazy is, Crazy does!.. I'd read the (Historian Ambrose's) book where Custer's life/culture were compared to that of Crazy Horse. Never heard any of this or the 'relative connections' though! Thank you for a satisfying and informative 'history lesson'!

  • @tolvaer
    @tolvaer2 жыл бұрын

    completely changed my mind on the bearing and character of General Custer. Thank you History Guy, sir

  • @doa2758
    @doa27583 ай бұрын

    Each episode of forgotten history - well presented, researched and for the most part beneficial. Thank you.

  • @hollyjohnson5468
    @hollyjohnson54682 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for hanging your military kitty picture again!! I missed him🐈🐈‍⬛

  • @badguy1481
    @badguy14812 жыл бұрын

    I remember seeing an historical marker, next to a small pond, on the road between Yorktown and Williamsburg. It indicated that George Armstrong Custer had pass by that location on his recon approach to Williamsburg. I was shocked. That guy seemed to have been EVERYWHERE....at EVERY BATTLE...of the Civil War (and Indian wars)!

  • @Volfandt
    @Volfandt2 жыл бұрын

    Great story as it shows how those that were actually involved in a shooting war had empathy for one another. I had ancestors who supported and fought for both sides of that war. I am SO thankful I was not born in that time and had to choose.... Although contrary to post modern revisionist dogma, I hold that the men and women of both sides were honorable but that such an armed Civil War not be undertaken again. That said I'm afraid that in the present haste to either rewrite and/or "cancel" our past we're doomed to repeat it. One thing of note was that veterans of both sides held reunions, broke bread and assembled not long after they had been drawing a "bead" on one another. And yet some continue to fight this war to this very day.... I especially like your opening statement. Carry On.

  • @trj1442
    @trj14422 жыл бұрын

    Another excellent episode. Thankyou THG.

  • @edschermerhorn5415
    @edschermerhorn54152 жыл бұрын

    Great recounting of a lesser known friendship that was conflicted like so many during the Civil War.

  • @clinthowe7629
    @clinthowe76292 жыл бұрын

    always a pleasure to watch one of your videos. 👍

  • @karenkline7221
    @karenkline72212 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. George Custer and his siblings are my fourth cousins four times removed. We've traced our Kuster line back to Kaldenkichen, Germany. But our closest shared relative is Arnold Kuster born 1669. It made me sad when you said that the confederate soldier who I've seen in that photo with Custer was a relative of George Washington. I know that my first cousin 8 times removed Paul Custer, born 1720 married the second cousin of George Washington, who is Sarah Martha Ball born 1722. This whole Civil War thing makes me sad. I have British ancestry through Bixby and more. And I also have Scottish ancestry, Stuart, Ochiltree, Ross and more. But, I just recently found out, but you probably already know, that the Scots were helping the South during the Civil War which has been estimated to lengthen the war at least one to two years longer than it needed to be. It seems as if the British and the Scots were fighting each other again, only on this side of the pond.

  • @MegaJam64
    @MegaJam642 жыл бұрын

    Another great episode. I look forward to your installments.

  • @tomandalbert
    @tomandalbert2 жыл бұрын

    A wonderful presentation.

  • @proudvirginian
    @proudvirginian2 жыл бұрын

    I haven't heard anyone call it the, "Battle of the Greasy Grass," outside of the battlefield visitor's center. It was very good of you to do so. Interesting that, at that point of the war, southern sympathizing civilians were from the sounds of it, leading not so harsh times. I can only imagine had it been later under the commands of Grant or Sherman, Bassett Hall might have been used as an HQ and then burned after they left. And Gimlet Lea would have been sent to Johnson's Island. That said, Bassett Hall still stands in Colonial Williamsburg. John Lea is buried in Teays Hill Cemetery in St. Albans, West Virginia.

  • @jliller

    @jliller

    2 жыл бұрын

    "I can only imagine had it been later under the commands of Grant or Sherman, Bassett Hall might have been used as an HQ and then burned after they left." Sherman's army rarely burned private residences, especially not when treated hospitably. Grant's armies (under his direct or near-direct command) rarely burned anything. Phil Sheridan in the Shenandoah might be another matter.

  • @michaelzahnle5649

    @michaelzahnle5649

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jliller Sheridan was actually under orders to make sure that Shenandoah could not be used to support another invasion of the north following Early's surprise campaign.

  • @clinthowe7629

    @clinthowe7629

    2 жыл бұрын

    i still like the term little bighorn because of the connotations of chauvinism associated with the term little big man. it seems a fitting nickname for Custer.

  • @georgenahodil23

    @georgenahodil23

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow, I live three quarters of a mile from that cemetary, have family buried there.

  • @jliller

    @jliller

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@clinthowe7629 That's pretty coincidental. The Little Bighorn River is so named because it is the tributary of the Bighorn River, which flows out of the Bighorn Mountains. The titular bighorn is the bighorn sheep (Ovis canadensis) which is found in the area. Also, per Wikipedia (with a good citation), the river's name in Apsáalooke translates to "Bighorn Sheep River" so the Little Bighorn name is even of Native American origin.

  • @stanbat1
    @stanbat12 жыл бұрын

    “…or even between enemies across a field of shared sacrifice…” Such marvelous writing, sir!

  • @dpl235654
    @dpl2356542 жыл бұрын

    Great episode! Thank you!

  • @nilo70
    @nilo702 жыл бұрын

    You never disappoint Lance , Thank you for making this wonderful episode.

  • @dravotee
    @dravotee2 жыл бұрын

    You almost always put a little more to the story than I'd expected. Good of you to describe the battle as the Greasy Grass. Thank you.

  • @reelfit2815
    @reelfit28152 жыл бұрын

    Great video! Really enjoy all your oh so informative vids. History is of great interest to me and you certainly do your research! I enjoy learning something new about historical events and the people that were involved! Thank you!

  • @kaideechu
    @kaideechu2 жыл бұрын

    Friendship, love, and loyalty to one's own cause, all mingled with gentlemen's behavior. Something rare in a divided world of social media nowadays.

  • @BlueBaron3339
    @BlueBaron33392 жыл бұрын

    This episode is precisely what I come here for - a different angle on history. I joked when this channel launched with THG's original intro - "I have a degree in history and I love history" - that everyone following the channel had a degree in history, or close to it. That's probably not true but the point was that most subscribers had plenty of conventional history knowledge and had come here for something more. Such as this video 😉

  • @thomasb1889

    @thomasb1889

    2 жыл бұрын

    I would think that while everyone does not have a degree in history that we all are interested in history.

  • @BlueBaron3339

    @BlueBaron3339

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@thomasb1889 Yeah, that was my point. 😂

  • @stephenmtimmons
    @stephenmtimmons2 жыл бұрын

    Excellent presentation!

  • @terryp3034
    @terryp30342 жыл бұрын

    Outstanding story. Never heard this one before. You never cease to surprise me!

  • @Mike10001
    @Mike100012 жыл бұрын

    Regardless of your feelings about Custer, you have to admit he was a character.

  • @jliller

    @jliller

    2 жыл бұрын

    He was not a good person, but he certainly was an interesting one.

  • @Mike10001

    @Mike10001

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jliller Couldn't agree more.

  • @HemlockRidge

    @HemlockRidge

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jliller Why? Because he was a Martinet? So was Patton. So was Rommel. What they were was ... effective.

  • @jliller

    @jliller

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@HemlockRidge Custer was a good cavalry fighter in the Army of the Potomac and popular with his men. That's about the extent of the compliments I have for him. We can start with him accruing almost enough demerits to get himself expelled from West Point - a elite establishment he had lobbied hard to get into in the first place. Someone who behaves that way deserves the utmost contempt. He was also insufferably arrogant, and that arrogance ultimately got him and several hundred of his men killed. To my understanding, he wasn't faithful to his wife. And that's without criticizing his views on Native Americans, which were at least commonplace for his era.

  • @HemlockRidge

    @HemlockRidge

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jliller Can you prove he wasn't faithful to Libby? No, you can't. He was utterly enraptured with her to the point of receiving criticism for visiting her so often. Look, I have made a study of G.A. Custer. If you haven't, shut up.

  • @debbralehrman5957
    @debbralehrman5957 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this story of young Mr Custer. It was nice to hear a different side of him.

  • @krumple8560
    @krumple85602 жыл бұрын

    One of my favorite episodes. One of many. Thank you!!!

  • @jb6027
    @jb60272 жыл бұрын

    Fascinating, as always. Thank you!

  • @rumplestilskin5776
    @rumplestilskin57762 жыл бұрын

    That was an utterly fascinating story, thank you for sharing it.

  • @ExcalibursEdge
    @ExcalibursEdge2 жыл бұрын

    This was a real good one, THG! I enjoyed this immensely!

  • @shawnaweesner3759
    @shawnaweesner37592 жыл бұрын

    Thank you History Guy. This was so interesting, humorous, and educational!

  • @jimbiller9682
    @jimbiller96822 жыл бұрын

    A great story of humanity in a very bloody war. THanks for sharing it.

  • @markbyrum4743
    @markbyrum47432 жыл бұрын

    Just wow! I grew up from Junior High in Yorktown and a student of history and never heard that tale. Great vid. Keep at it!

  • @cinnion
    @cinnion3 ай бұрын

    Great video! While I have mixed feelings about Custer, particularly regarding his conduct during the conflicts with the varied Native American groups, I have always found him to be a rather interesting individual, especially when I was growing up. Little did I know that while in my 50s, I would be living a stone's throw from where he and his troops were situated during the Battle of Waynesboro.

  • @redthepost
    @redthepost2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, History Guy, for bringing alive the stories of our nation’s most significant contest.

  • @steveshoemaker6347
    @steveshoemaker63472 жыл бұрын

    Most interesting for sure👍‍....Thanks very much👏‍👀....!

  • @thomashenniger2070
    @thomashenniger20702 жыл бұрын

    Always enjoyable to watch! History was and is my favorite subject from school and since. To paraphrase “ Those who fail to learn from history are doomed to relive it”, a bad paraphrase I might add. Many thanx. Tom

  • @RatelLaw
    @RatelLaw2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your research

  • @imir8atu321
    @imir8atu3212 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful telling

  • @kristensorensen2219
    @kristensorensen22192 жыл бұрын

    As always Professor you keep my attention with a skillfully executed story about something worth learning!😀💛

  • @goofyiest
    @goofyiest2 жыл бұрын

    what a great story. Thanks for retelling it.

  • @bigsarge2085
    @bigsarge20852 жыл бұрын

    Fascinating!

  • @michaelch5060
    @michaelch50602 жыл бұрын

    Fascinating! Thanks for sharing

  • @mitchellbusinger4719
    @mitchellbusinger47192 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love history. I really enjoy the way you tell the stories.

  • @paulbettencourt9648
    @paulbettencourt96482 жыл бұрын

    Excellent History Told by THG about brevet Union Major General G. Custer and his best friend, an acting Confederate Brigader General having dinner the night after General Lee surrendered at Appomattox. You can't write these scripts but History Can! Sen PB

  • @RailfanDownunder
    @RailfanDownunder Жыл бұрын

    Very interesting as usual ... Superb work Sir

  • @tygrkhat4087
    @tygrkhat40872 жыл бұрын

    I have a friend who lives in Toledo and for a time was involved in a community theater group in Monroe, Michigan; which is a short drive from Toledo. Monroe has two claims to fame, it is the home of La-Z-Boy furniture and is the birthplace of George Armstrong Custer.

  • @lindaterrell5535

    @lindaterrell5535

    2 жыл бұрын

    And the Raisin River Massacre.

  • @dougthomas1582

    @dougthomas1582

    2 жыл бұрын

    Custer was born in New Rumley, OH.

  • @tygrkhat4087

    @tygrkhat4087

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@dougthomas1582 That I did not know, thank you for the correction. But Monroe does claim Custer as their own.

  • @lindaterrell5535
    @lindaterrell55352 жыл бұрын

    This story is detailed in Greg Urwin’s book “Custer Victorious”. His civil was career.

  • @jb6027

    @jb6027

    2 жыл бұрын

    "Custer Victorious" is an excellent book. I highly recommend it to anybody who cares to know the correct history of his Civil War battles and the 1876 perspective that culminated in and influenced the Battle of the Little Bighorn.

  • @terrywestbrook-lienert2296
    @terrywestbrook-lienert22962 жыл бұрын

    An absolutely riveting story. Thank you for sharing this with us.

  • @dewiz9596
    @dewiz95962 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely fascinating!