Looks vs Status | What Men and Women Really Want in a Partner (The Desirable Truth EP 24)

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  • @isaacengineer2280
    @isaacengineer2280 Жыл бұрын

    Dude Patience is truly 10/10

  • @mco_jont

    @mco_jont

    11 ай бұрын

    He’s just mature

  • @Ribbitplease

    @Ribbitplease

    5 ай бұрын

    Why, would you get triggered? You need to get your temper checked.

  • @Yorubatroublemaker
    @Yorubatroublemaker11 ай бұрын

    I genuinely believe women hear what they want to hear. You ask them a question they dont like and they will twist it somehow. Its strange

  • @gertorrrrrr6

    @gertorrrrrr6

    7 ай бұрын

    Thats funny. I thought the same about the interviewer. He hears an answer he doesnt like at he twistes it 😂. Men and women we really are diferent.

  • @Ribbitplease

    @Ribbitplease

    5 ай бұрын

    @@gertorrrrrr6 yeah the interviewer is like “How do I frame it to get maximum rage and engagement from red pill folks? Must hit certain key points” Too bad most women don’t know what he is doing

  • @donno998
    @donno998 Жыл бұрын

    A women would never know the status unless they talk to a person, they won't talk to the person if the person doesn't have the looks and height. So I call BS to the status answer, they want it all!

  • @tajiri7

    @tajiri7

    Жыл бұрын

    No longer true due to social media; it’s the number 1 way relationships start now.

  • @gertorrrrrr6

    @gertorrrrrr6

    7 ай бұрын

    Exactly.

  • @armandoweckmann5699
    @armandoweckmann569910 ай бұрын

    Don't chase women my fellow men. Chase the bag and stay fit. The rest falls in place.😊

  • @JayJay-sq6rv
    @JayJay-sq6rv10 ай бұрын

    Women = finance,shelter,safety,food and the list goes on Men = beauty with good vjj and silence !

  • @Xenno.

    @Xenno.

    8 ай бұрын

    Bj with a sandwich after

  • @Ribbitplease

    @Ribbitplease

    5 ай бұрын

    Silence? Lol

  • @yyxx4174
    @yyxx4174 Жыл бұрын

    poor girl at the end...i felt this one

  • @RG-tt1ru

    @RG-tt1ru

    Жыл бұрын

    There are two sides to every story.

  • @seanouellette676

    @seanouellette676

    11 ай бұрын

    Damn fr

  • @mikeprice8307

    @mikeprice8307

    11 ай бұрын

    Why? She wasn't supposed to be shacked up anyways 😮

  • @um52
    @um52 Жыл бұрын

    Women come & go. DON’T raise your status for them. Only for yourself! I invested so much time gaining status for the wrong reasons. Now I’m finally making good money and own my house.

  • @jerardhawkins6004

    @jerardhawkins6004

    10 ай бұрын

    Now that’s motivating, thx for this response! Congrats on the home purchase!

  • @um52

    @um52

    10 ай бұрын

    @@jerardhawkins6004 thanks brother

  • @pwayne219
    @pwayne21911 ай бұрын

    Women wanna be attached to a powerful man thats why the mans status matters. Women also wanna be the envy of other women so being attached to a guy other women want is also why status matters to women.

  • @JackieLastrada

    @JackieLastrada

    8 ай бұрын

    So...thats 1or 2 guys they really want out of every 100 guys. So they will most likely end up like the last girl in the video. Sad

  • @pierregbalou7313
    @pierregbalou731311 ай бұрын

    That man hating on lil baby😂😂

  • @Rayin3rdperson

    @Rayin3rdperson

    10 ай бұрын

    That shi had me weak asl😂😂

  • @bishikon
    @bishikon10 ай бұрын

    girl in the purple crop jacket is a keeper

  • @blisguy

    @blisguy

    4 ай бұрын

    By "keeper" do you mean "Keeper of cats"?

  • @edgarbolden5742
    @edgarbolden57429 ай бұрын

    Men has to create their value in this world while women are born with there value

  • @Co_mon_now
    @Co_mon_now Жыл бұрын

    They want status, 💯. Also, they know the more money he has, the more she can get when she decides to divorce him 10 years, 3 kids, and 50lbs later.

  • @hermesalonso3968
    @hermesalonso3968 Жыл бұрын

    STATUS RULES!🎼I ain't saying she is a Gold Digger🎵But she is not looking 4 a broke🎵 young man 🎵there!😎

  • @ms-corleone
    @ms-corleone10 ай бұрын

    I feel like these questions - and follow up questions especially - are so leading. I want more men to be asked what’s more important, career or family, and I want more women to be asked why they would even know about a man’s status unless they started chatting to them because of their looks. Also “GENERALLY SPEAKING” often means “please refer to societal expectations, not to your experience.” What was is not what is. Let’s stop the old tape player, it ain’t the thing anymore. Let’s just give it a rest and be free to imagine a life as we want it.

  • @pancakerepairman

    @pancakerepairman

    10 ай бұрын

    "I want more women to be asked why they would even know about a man’s status unless they started chatting to them because of their looks" women rarely approach men to begin with and are rarely going to instantly reject a man who approaches them politely so i don't see that there is any looks barrier for a man getting a woman to chat to him. status, as i would define it, is your reputation preceeding you. if you don't know who a man is before you begin talking to him then he does not have status. if status is code for income then you're right that is hard to determine.

  • @Google_Does_Evil_Now

    @Google_Does_Evil_Now

    9 ай бұрын

    The questions are good but he can be too leading. Surely he has an understanding of biology and animal mating selection? He never talks of feelings, falling in love, being driven by the connection between you both. He just talks in a quite negative brutal way and seems to reduce it down to money/status in order to have a good looking woman. Almost like prostitution but not quite. Like there's no love in his world.

  • @nadecha5326

    @nadecha5326

    7 ай бұрын

    U should start ur own KZread channel and ask those questions then

  • @abdulraheemowolabi3173

    @abdulraheemowolabi3173

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@nadecha5326Ouch!

  • @Ribbitplease

    @Ribbitplease

    5 ай бұрын

    @@nadecha5326he’s just saying recommendations to make his questions less leading. Which a good interviewer should do.

  • @pancakerepairman
    @pancakerepairman10 ай бұрын

    how did none of them ask him to define status? if a woman's status comes primarily from her looks how do you separate the two?

  • @wordsareweapons
    @wordsareweapons10 ай бұрын

    1:54 her jacket is fire 🔥

  • @gertorrrrrr6
    @gertorrrrrr67 ай бұрын

    These men talk as if all guys at 40 are millionaires. Amazing

  • @senai795

    @senai795

    6 ай бұрын

    haha yea

  • @ivanleon6164
    @ivanleon61648 ай бұрын

    0:26 LMAO, he switched and the blonde was ready to answer, lmaoooo

  • @jennleadley9080
    @jennleadley90804 ай бұрын

    The man in the black coat has a top tier mindset. She is lucky to have him .

  • @BonafideMane
    @BonafideMane11 ай бұрын

    The last girl, that's a pattern I don't really see brought up more often. All this misandry is spewed and some might think its from what the world is pushing, but more often than not, usually at the base of of what most women feel is one man (or a few) caused them to adopt this be on your own mentality. Then these emotions are aimed at mostly all other men.

  • @mikeprice8307

    @mikeprice8307

    11 ай бұрын

    Aint suppose to be shocked up anyways. Her screwup😅

  • @edgarbolden5742
    @edgarbolden57429 ай бұрын

    Women are visual as well.

  • @nivekrevilo9968
    @nivekrevilo996811 ай бұрын

    the reason why women call men creeps for dating younger is because they are no longer in that younger women ... period clear as day . but at the same time its ok if a younger woman dates an older man ... how does that make sense

  • @mikeprice8307

    @mikeprice8307

    11 ай бұрын

    You hust said the same thing 2x in one comment 😅

  • @davidestate
    @davidestate11 ай бұрын

    Woman... Money does not make anyone happy. Guys that like making money, like to invest and if there is a girl, he loves to buy things for her.. In the end, no amount of money makes anyone happy. You can see by look up how may musicians and actors who are successful and have money, who have taken their life. Also, woman if you want the commitment of a man to be husband.. do not move into together and mash your finances like you are a married couple. To many woman and men make this mistake today and end up finding out that they are not really for each other, money becomes an issue and the bachelor like may not have ended yet.

  • @osuk1
    @osuk110 ай бұрын

    looks come first for both men n women.

  • @yourenotthatguy6295

    @yourenotthatguy6295

    10 ай бұрын

    Ugly rich men can get beautiful women.

  • @digitall2848
    @digitall28489 ай бұрын

    These women know that if a man was making less money they wouldn't date him.

  • @DrRaro
    @DrRaro Жыл бұрын

    Rush hour? 10:17?

  • @starboy9384
    @starboy93844 ай бұрын

    Wrong question.. You need to ask status or men's nature, eg honest, caring etc

  • @ramzeyqablawi3122
    @ramzeyqablawi312210 ай бұрын

    Eastern European Girl: “Because the man have everything castle can offer the girl whatever she wants, and the girl in the new generation are looking a lot about that” 🏰🤑💰

  • @anon7684
    @anon768411 ай бұрын

    So much cap with these girls saying they'd date 35k men if they make 100k 🙄

  • @gertorrrrrr6

    @gertorrrrrr6

    7 ай бұрын

    I would. Sincerely would. But i would want him to be quite good looking hahaha and compatible personality too of course

  • @anon7684

    @anon7684

    7 ай бұрын

    @@gertorrrrrr6 you would until you realize you have to pay for everything and are the breadwinner, provider and masculine one. Wouldn't last long

  • @gertorrrrrr6

    @gertorrrrrr6

    7 ай бұрын

    @@anon7684 no

  • @ragespawn8043
    @ragespawn8043 Жыл бұрын

    dude was struggling just because his lady was there haha

  • @jonw.415

    @jonw.415

    11 ай бұрын

    yeah ...he was choosing his words carefully

  • @TonyT3
    @TonyT3 Жыл бұрын

    Generally speaking they want status. My wife married me when I just lost my job & was practically broke & at the time we were both from the opposite side of the tracks. I didn't want to get married, but I knew she loved me, she was intelligent & a go getter. We're are married almost 40 years now. Our only regret was we had no children. I can honestly say she has been a true partner throughout our life together. I repeat PARTNER. She always worked, was never a burden & if I ever needed anyone to stand next to me to help me fight for or about anything she was & still is more then anyone that person I would want by my side. In fact she's a better fighter then me with a quick mind. We've had plenty of ups & downs & numerous fights, but I know I've found my soul mate. Status & money are important especially with the greed that exist today, but you want in a man or a woman is a stand up PARTNER in every respect most of all & a friend at your side always. Thats really hard to find in a man or a woman. If you do find it cherish it, it's a rare gift.

  • @aronmaleh6319
    @aronmaleh63199 ай бұрын

    If your in NYC, it's all about the money and the energy, money is energy if you don't have live energy you don't have money, if you don't have money you don't have the energy, you understand?

  • @kompanjonac
    @kompanjonac10 ай бұрын

    5:34 Lol they all know the answer

  • @drdimic
    @drdimic11 ай бұрын

    of all the videos on this channel, the girl in 6. minute, the brunette is the smartest woman, I would marry her immediately

  • @Azz77A
    @Azz77A Жыл бұрын

    The last girl 20:03 . I am a man and I really felt your pain 💔.

  • @bxi1547

    @bxi1547

    Жыл бұрын

    Soy

  • @mgharb5565

    @mgharb5565

    Жыл бұрын

    Don’t be sorry, no one put a gun to her head and told her to stay with him for 5 years. Now the next guys have to deal with the aftermath

  • @mikeprice8307

    @mikeprice8307

    11 ай бұрын

    Wasn't supposed to be shacked up anyways simp😅

  • @useryu99

    @useryu99

    11 ай бұрын

    Why do u feel sorry when she knows she was with a man who was completely out of her league , chad definitely used her for years she deserves it .These are the same woman who would turn down a good person because he lacks looks height status .

  • @jerryhartnett4694
    @jerryhartnett469410 ай бұрын

    Big ups to the old and bitter statement. But women think the body is the prize and no it is not.

  • @useryu99
    @useryu9911 ай бұрын

    Almost all the woman lie in these sort of interview just to pretend not to be shallow .

  • @Van-du8uz
    @Van-du8uz6 ай бұрын

    I wish the guy asked the women about their parents as well. Would of love to know the family background as well. Society has moved away from religion and morality, that now people wonder why people can't find a person to marry.

  • @elliottsanders619
    @elliottsanders6198 ай бұрын

    😢

  • @AllAmericanBoy
    @AllAmericanBoy10 ай бұрын

    Long or short term they both w.ant and need meaningful companionship

  • @ismaelhall3990
    @ismaelhall3990 Жыл бұрын

    Being a man is good.

  • @silvercontained

    @silvercontained

    10 ай бұрын

    Alot more pressure being a man

  • @tvazyou2
    @tvazyou25 ай бұрын

    The typical nuclear family is dying…both men and women in a marriage or in a relationship with or without children have too work…thus the whole family dynamic will/has changed forever

  • @andrew.702
    @andrew.702 Жыл бұрын

    @15:25 she literally doesn't even know what the woman brings to the table "the woman jusss .......... ........ "

  • @dusthue
    @dusthue6 ай бұрын

    The double standards are in the women’s favor. What is in the man’s favor? Getting a hot woman?.

  • @RG-tt1ru
    @RG-tt1ru Жыл бұрын

    The problem with the question is that you can't separate a man's good looks from his status. If a man has good looks, then it's a given, for any woman contemplating him, that he also has status.

  • @weho_brian

    @weho_brian

    11 ай бұрын

    that's not true, I have status (make over 170k a year) but I don't have looks. Most good looking men spend all their time in the gym and dont spend the time on their careers climbing the corporate ladder

  • @RG-tt1ru

    @RG-tt1ru

    11 ай бұрын

    @@weho_brian That's why I said that if he has looks he automatically has status. It doesn't work the other way around.

  • @mikeprice8307
    @mikeprice830711 ай бұрын

    12:16 young buck

  • @ericcarson342
    @ericcarson34211 ай бұрын

    Feel bad for the last girl. But women can only blame men so much. Ladies have a problem picking. They choose the wrong guy and overlook the guys who would have been great for them. 5 years and shacking up is a long time and risky without a proposal. If he doesn't propose within 18 months ask why or kick him to the curb. Now she seems like damaged goods and the next decent man that comes along is going to suffer. She needs a therapist first and foremost before hopping back into the dating pool.

  • @mikeprice8307

    @mikeprice8307

    11 ай бұрын

    Shacking up is a no no from the bible

  • @oyarzun8871
    @oyarzun887110 ай бұрын

    don't be mean to women, time will take care of it

  • @JamesEnriquez-dt5xg
    @JamesEnriquez-dt5xg24 күн бұрын

    Everything with woman is about the 💵 💴 💰

  • @GothboyKurt
    @GothboyKurt10 ай бұрын

    12:42 whoever gets her is lucky. She's obviously not from the u.s so she doesn't count in this video

  • @bensherman723
    @bensherman72310 ай бұрын

    Smh 😂😂😂

  • @danielmarquis5258
    @danielmarquis525811 ай бұрын

    Dude?? Women are ALL ABOUT THE LOOKS just as much as men are all about the looks. How many ladies do you know that would date an ugly man? The answer is zero because when it comes to having sex, she won't get turned on. It's not just men who are picky with looks, a lot of women are too.

  • @seventhkeyomegasghost8233

    @seventhkeyomegasghost8233

    11 ай бұрын

    When they are 25 and Under, they are all about looks. After 25 and it's time to pay bills that's when the looks thing become secondary.

  • @iamtesting3824
    @iamtesting382410 ай бұрын

    Looks is part of status so this is a dumb question

  • @dr.julianataylor4312
    @dr.julianataylor4312 Жыл бұрын

    what about a man who who is older and broke? lol. didn't ask...

  • @maherabdu5358

    @maherabdu5358

    11 ай бұрын

    i broke my back (spinal)

  • @gertorrrrrr6

    @gertorrrrrr6

    7 ай бұрын

    Same dinamics as for women. Dating will get very hard from an age.

  • @jlove8441
    @jlove8441Ай бұрын

    They value status because they want to take all your money as quick as possible and if y’all last long they wanna drain you through the ringer and if something was to happen to you, they want to inherit a lot of money never trust women !

  • @ramzeyqablawi3122
    @ramzeyqablawi312210 ай бұрын

    It’s sad that people place so much emphasis on looks or aesthetics rather than health and wellness. Health and Fitness are things you can improve through practice and discipline. Most people take the easy path of superficial ‘looks’ with make-up and fashion trends or whatever other bullshit is popular on insta or tic-tock. Invest in yourself not the corporate consumer products that profit on your insecurities. 10,000 years ago the most beautiful woman were graceful, athletic, and supportive partners - very different from the modern day entitled princess who only seeks 🤑

  • @MILABRRA
    @MILABRRA2 ай бұрын

    0:32 MEN THINK WITH THEIR P FIRST LMAO

  • @julythrunov
    @julythrunov11 ай бұрын

    who are the younger guys that are like “ooh I really want a 45 year old woman!”

  • @anon7684

    @anon7684

    11 ай бұрын

    Beta simps

  • @eldrgio

    @eldrgio

    11 ай бұрын

    actually, most likely its just for fetish purposes. God knows when it will last, but I don't think that any of them would wife this old woman having 20 years

  • @jamesrick7351

    @jamesrick7351

    9 ай бұрын

    for a quick nut if she looks good but thats about it

  • @biffbifford402
    @biffbifford40210 ай бұрын

    Status = $$$$$$$

  • @harshy_9975
    @harshy_9975 Жыл бұрын

    🤣 I keep forgetting what his interview is about cause he keep changing the person bro just Pearlly things on KZread. She hit 1 mil in a year learn from her style.

  • @ismasoc5
    @ismasoc510 ай бұрын

    Im sorry, but you let that girl at the end get away with murder. She really thinks she's right. The mental gymnastics.

  • @monem583
    @monem583 Жыл бұрын

    Family and friends is not the same as a husband or wife. A marriage is a covenant with 5 loves in one union it’s the most unique union there is.

  • @Foreign84
    @Foreign848 ай бұрын

    Lil baby ugly 😂😂😂 but he not lying. Women date pockets. But get mad when men judge their bodies

  • @MasterZhao
    @MasterZhao9 ай бұрын

    Pea coat cat is a simp

  • @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149
    @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 Жыл бұрын

    18:40 Dont ask loaded questions man. Very unprofessional. And comes off as biased and personal.

  • @jonw.415

    @jonw.415

    11 ай бұрын

    his job or his the reason he's interviewing....is to ask questions wtf

  • @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149

    @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149

    11 ай бұрын

    @@jonw.415 I specified loaded questions. Cmon man read and comprehend before replying

  • @jaxonwoods8181

    @jaxonwoods8181

    10 ай бұрын

    @@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 Nah bro, he was joking in that one. Relax.

  • @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149

    @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149

    10 ай бұрын

    @@jaxonwoods8181 Make me relax

  • @jaxonwoods8181

    @jaxonwoods8181

    10 ай бұрын

    @@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 This response indicates why you need to relax. Your agitated for no reason lmao

  • @Striker1A
    @Striker1A10 ай бұрын

    About the last women speaking at the end of this video. Let me guess, she feel like she wasted her time becaue she wanted boyfriend to propose to her, but he never did. When it comes to men and women, that usually means that she found the guy she wanted to marry, meaning he had his finance together and most likly was decent looking, however, she didn't have what he was looking for in a future wife and was most likly using her for sex until someone else comes along. It could be that he thinks that she is only with him for his finacial status, so he decided to use her for sex. Women love to hide the fact that they are with a guy because of his fincial status and hoping he think she is his dream girl. As a man, base on what I know about women, I probably would have done the same thing boyfriend probably did. It's all one game people. Men and women are just trying to get the best mate possible even if they have to use each other or break each other hearts!!! And at the end of they day they both say men are no good or women are no good. To both men and women, be with the person who put your personality above everything else.

  • @pancakerepairman

    @pancakerepairman

    10 ай бұрын

    you're so bitter with redpill rage you want to take it out on even the few humble girls out there. if you had any clue about people you could tell from the way she's dressed, her posture and the way she talks that she isn't trying to get attention from high status guys and that no high status guy would look at her as the girl he wants to use for sex.

  • @gertorrrrrr6

    @gertorrrrrr6

    7 ай бұрын

    If he used her for sex during 5 years in a fake relation waiting for something better he was for sure not a high status guy

  • @mikesmith9368
    @mikesmith93684 ай бұрын

    "Me personally, I'm attracted to someone's personality".....hahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahaha. yeah right lady. And I'm Tinkerbell with a magic wand here to grant your every wish. hahahahahahahahahahhahahaa. LIES, ALL LIES.