I'm also INFJ. I read that INFJs are usually reserved but highly sensitive to how others feel, they are idealistic, with high moral standards and a strong focus on the future and enjoy thinking about deep topics and contemplating the meaning of life. I can definitely relate to most of those things.

@Ashley-im5zt

3 жыл бұрын

I'm an INFJ too and completely resonate with that! I'm very reserved so I like to have a small circle of friends, but they're friends that I want a very deep and strong connection too

@TheSecretninja2001

3 жыл бұрын

Yup, I am too and that's exactly it!

@2311tish

3 жыл бұрын

how do u guys know? I've never heard of this before...

@dlestari3500

3 жыл бұрын

Me too!👋

@antoniasweetpassions4476

3 жыл бұрын

@@2311tish there is MBTI personality test online you can take and find your personality type

as someone that’s currently struggling with genuine friendships I’m really happy u uploaded this video🥺

@kggroom

3 жыл бұрын

Same!

@areyousaruh

3 жыл бұрын

same here

@wserenam

3 жыл бұрын

you’ll get there! i was the same as you too and i still struggle with cutting toxic people out of my life. i just seem to attract them! you’ll fine genuine friends soon. i did and it’s hard to get away from those toxic and bad friends. you’ll get there!

@vedikasharma2410

3 жыл бұрын

Samee

@dodosaeng9491

3 жыл бұрын

awww let’s be friends ! 💛

I’m genuinely impressed by people like you, who aren’t afraid to be themselves online. I couldn’t do it. I thought it was a choice but recently found out that I’m terrified of posting my personal thoughts and things that I like under my real name. I fear people irl would make fun of me or that my mysterious image would be ruined. I’m trying to change because it’s too stressful.

@mariee_e

3 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way. I even have an entirely diff IG that nobody knows abt in real life (if you add 1 person you get rec’d to others) so I can feel like I can post what I want w/o getting anxious about every move. And also just seeing other people’s lives all the time that I know in RL is not my thing, it’s depressing I think it’s fear of intimacy or smth

@madhura5118

3 жыл бұрын

Omg fr! I always have felt more comfortable making an anonymous account where I put my actual thoughts and feelings. Idk what it is but expressing any type of deeper feeling or thoughts under my true identity makes me so uncomfortable and I overthink it like crazy everytime!

@ReneeAlexandria

3 жыл бұрын

Me too ;-; I felt like I was hiding myself under anonymous names and pictures from google for a long time that I'm now trying to get out of that shell this 2021. :>

@sriravipati6526

2 жыл бұрын

I used to feel this way. I wore my anonymity as veil to protect myself. Being mysterious made me feel invincible and invisible at the same time. It's hard to be yourself IRL, let alone online. But once you live authentically as yourself without fear, you feel free. I hope anyone reading this finds courage and strength to be your true self always. You deserve to be the main character in your story. 🤍

@NoOneAlInOne

2 жыл бұрын

when it is hard for you to be real you should be anonym online. It is dangeress if all viewers know you address or your full name. I would not do this. I do videos with anonymity too

im also an INFJ :))) it usually means you’re soft-spoken, altruistic, and thoughtful. its supposed to be the rarest personality type but i see so many people with it lol. i definitely think it fits you!!

@lousbruise

3 жыл бұрын

I'm an INFJ but far from being soft spoken loll

@maiixo808

3 жыл бұрын

how do i know which one am i? is there a quiz for it?

@julesb4044

3 жыл бұрын

M if you just search MBTI test you should find one!

@whitney3196

3 жыл бұрын

Because we love being alone and we can all relate to her so we're here 😹

@jahanvishukla.3583

3 жыл бұрын

@@maiixo808 yes!

This is so comforting just hearing you talk to your friends. After college, meeting new people and making friends has been a struggle especially since I'm a consultant so work by myself mostly..

michelle's the big sister/friend we all need periodt

@rociorivas3717

3 жыл бұрын

Jeri Camposano agreed

@fifix_xi

3 жыл бұрын

I agreee 😅😅😅💜💜💜

I'm also an INFJ and I thought they were very rare but reading the comments I'm surprised how many there are including Michelle! I'm glad that Michelle is a youtuber- I relate to her in so many ways such as being second gen Korean, personality traits, being very chill and introverted yet silly with friends, but also the struggle of making new friends and stepping out of that comfort zone especially when having social anxiety like myself. It's reassuring knowing you're not the only one and hearing her insight and advice. Love from Toronto x

@ValentineWan

3 жыл бұрын

I think INFJ is rare but many INFJs are here because we can relate to her.

@hennyhwang6941

3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree to every sentence you wrote here. I’m also an INFJ, Korean (not second gen but still lol) and living in Toronto! It’s just so 신기해요 that I have read someone’s comment who have some facts in common with me on Michelle’s youtube.

@ceni777

3 жыл бұрын

@@hennyhwang6941 Really makes you feel like it's a small world! ㅎㅎㅎ

@hennyhwang6941

3 жыл бұрын

@@ceni777 I know right!!! 유튜브댓글이지만 내 마음과 통하는 사람을 봐서 속이 좀 편안합니다 ㅎㅎ

i'm an infj :) it's interesting because i find that a lot of the youtubers i follow and am most interested by are generally infjs/infps (which is also the people i surround myself with) i had a feeling you were one! i feel like we all have that ~mystery~ to us and we have a lot of personality but it only shows to a select few people. i struggled growing up bc i was shy & i made it a point to be more outgoing in my teens/early twenties. now that i'm in my late twenties, i'm a lot more comfortable with myself and understanding that my "success" isn't defined by how social i am/how many friends i have but by the meaningful connections i make with the few people out there i call close friends. struggled with being hypercritical of myself and my work because i always look up to people who are phenomenal at what they do. so i always feel average. when i know i'm definitely above average. (but i would never actually admit that and it feels weird for me to type that lol) but love your talks girl!

@dayjina9923

3 жыл бұрын

omg sooo true I an INFJ too and i felt like i related to michelle on some weird level (until i realized she was INFJ and it made more sense lol). everything else u said i relate with too 100000%

@patriciamaebanday974

3 жыл бұрын

I never felt more understood. As an infj this is the summarization of my life too.

i literally drop everything when i get the notif that michelle's uploaded a video! love u michelle

Wait, your chit chat grwm with Esther made me so.so.freaking.happy. I struggle to make friends every time I move and know that pivotal moment when you finally find that FIRST true friend. Even better when they’re on the same journey as you. I love how comfortable you two are with each other now. ☺️☺️ go Michelle! Also, I’m the Advocate INFJ-T ✌️

"There's no point in doing makeup, where's my mask." moooooood.

i love michelle and her videos so very much. it’s so comforting watching her be real because she’s so relatable. also, i’m an istj but also follow with an isfj 💛💛

Watching Michelle makes me so happy!! 💖🥰

can i just say I LOOOVE this particular vlog michelle this is the first time that you introduced a friend who is similar with you like wanting to meet new friends too. aggh i miss my friends hahahahaha

You are one of the only youtubers I truly enjoy watching because you’re so genuine and kind!!

I'm sooo happy for you Michelle, because you look happy, and smiling with your friends. Love you girl🥰

I'm INFJ too. I like being alone rather than being in a crowd. I know many people because of it people say that I'm very sociable, but I'm not. I have can't say that all are my friends, just few are.

@gabrielleathalia1359

3 жыл бұрын

Yessss, we are only sociable with our closest friends (inner circle)

I love watching you Michelle. You always motivate me with a new video. Thank you. Take care.

I look forward to your videos every week and I like how genuine you are. It makes it really easy to connect with you.

omg yas i've been rewatching all your old videos to get me through this third wave of covid whilst working from home! so happy you uploaded ♡

Hey meech! You genuinely seem more happy in your latest vlogs and it’s good to see it! xx

I love how wholesome your videos are ☺️ Thanks for sharing, Michelle! 💕

I’m also INFJ. I've been struggling a lot lately with my sensitivity. I always care people’s attention so I was afraid to get out of my comfort zone and take an action. But I saw you and I felt better about myself. Thank you Michelle and I love you from Japan❤️

I'm actually so impressed how you were able to get into a relationship first after moving alone to the big city. I would be too afraid to even go on dates! Glad to see you loving your transition and finding a comfort zone with new friends❤️ love ya Michelle❤️

I’m INFP! I really value making deep connections and conversations with people, looking how much you grown Michelle, is inspiring to me❤️😭 you have come so far !!

I don't know but I love Esther so much. I love her personality and especially her smile ☺ She suits so much to be your friend..

It's really nice that you guys found each other. When i moved here in Australia, i worked really hard making friends and introducing myself to my peers, classmates and lecturers even though i'm a really introvert(INFP!) and shy person before. it really worked out for me because they taught me a lot of self love and reassurance to not be scared to talk to people. i really adore my close group of friends and even though we don't get to meet often nowadays, when we do its like we never lost touch. I'm really lucky that i made that decision to be open to people and many reciprocated. I hope New York life will be much kinder to you michelle! I got a sense that you are very similar to me. ngl i spend a lot of time alone or at home too because i'm not the type who would go out for fun, but having extroverted & outgoing friends really helped me to burst out of that bubble and actually experience new things. i don't regret it at all

I'm an INFJ! I heard INFJs want a meaningful life and deep connections with other people. All I want is same🧡

@dawnforlife

3 жыл бұрын

Same! 🧡

@anthipaganou3727

3 жыл бұрын

Yeap! As an INFJ that’s sooo true

@user-qm1dm9tf6g

3 жыл бұрын

same, me too!

@imanitabella2126

3 жыл бұрын

Saaame

@ninaoh798

3 жыл бұрын

Omg finally someone that can relate about this... 🙌🏽

INFP and I've found it so much more difficult to form genuine friendships since I've gotten older. I feel myself drifting from old friends due to living different lives, but being an introvert who feels things really deeply, it's hard for me to meet others similar to me Thanks for sharing this, I can definitely relate!

Your videos are so so so so so relaxing. I am blessed that I found your channel. Love you 💙

I'm INFJ too Michelle! and i can say i was always drawn to your videos because i can relate to you very well. Making friends is a very difficult thing but so rewarding once you find the ones who cares for you and vice versa. hope youre well!

i just love your videos so much, thanks for making my day better 🥺👉🏻👈🏻

I'm an INFJ as well. And yes we are similar in so many ways that is one of the many reasons why I love watching your videos because I can relate to you . Also I get the feeling that I have a genuine friend. Thank you Michelle. Lots of love!❤❤💖

Thankyou Michelle! I'm struggling with genuine friendships from the past few days. And your videos gave me motivation always. 💜💜

I've always wanted to move to a new city by myself and have a change but I was always too scared. My personality trait is ISFP and it's so hard to meet ppl when I'm so shy. So I totally understand where you guys are coming from and I'm so glad you guys have each other. God bless!

Hello michelle! I really love watching your videos, it soothes my mind and makes me temporarily forget my problems. I love you already..stay safe always😊

This makes sooo much sense!!! I am an INFJ as well and I noticed parallels in the way you friendship and a lot in general. I love your content and can’t wait to see the rest of your journey!

you and esther living together is such goallsss omg i love ur friendship!

I'm the same as Esther, ISFP! So cool to know that one of your now closest friends is the same personality type as me. Maybe that's why I always feel like I can relate to you and your vlogs! There's still so much I can learn in life when it comes to friendships and relationships. Thanks for having these chit chat talks :)

Your vlogs are so therapeutic 🥺❤. Love your vlogs ❤ obsessed

i'm also an INFJ! i've been watching your vlogs for the past couple years and you remind me a lot of myself. i feel the exact same way about what you said with finding friends in a new city/after college. hoping you and esther can continue uploading more videos together :)

Love Esther and your conversation!!! Plz have more of these sit down chit chats!!!

the friendship talk was so relatable! would love to hear your thoughts about changes that happen in a long relationship and adulting

Lol I’m an infj too so I’ve literally related to a lot of things you say/feel so it makes sense now! I recently read up more about my personality type and it really really opened my eyes up to why I am the way I am. Basically: we like to be in our heads a lot, introverted but also with the want to have extroverted feelings so that messes us up a little!

It's nice to see you with friends,you look happier

I'm INFJ and I struggle to make friends, but I actually like being alone.

@kristydang7100

3 жыл бұрын

HEY IM INFJ TOO

@ilhamesm7482

3 жыл бұрын

SAME

@asma9988

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@allenme8934

3 жыл бұрын

Me too.. im also INFJ

@gabrielleathalia1359

3 жыл бұрын

Same, it's hard to make new friends in a new environment and i really like being alone since i can focus on stuff i personally like

I’m INFJ too! I really relate lol, and I especially find that if I start a new chapter of my life, and I don’t immediately have these deep friendships, I end up feeling sad and unfulfilled, when it’s actually just because building these relationships takes time.

I'm also an INFJ! I can relate to you having a few genuine friends rather than having a bunch of casual friends. INFJs can seem outgoing but I think you and I both prefer to hang out in smaller groups or have alone time in deep thoughts about relationships, career, and life in general. I personally have been struggling to maintain friendships and make new friends ever since I graduated from college last year. Thank you for sharing and making me realize I am not alone in this!

I’m an INFJ too! I feel like I resonated with you watching your videos and how you have this way of looking off to the side like you’re searching for something when you speak. I do this naturally too! Also in terms of energy levels and how we speak, it’s pretty similar. Sort of monotone / lack of fluctuation in our voices which isn’t a bad thing.

I love u sm Michelle!!! thank you for creating such amazing content and giving out the best insights abt life

I always get excited when she post! 💓☺️

your vlogs are such a vibe!

Michelle I looove your videos because they are so friggin relatable!! 💖 I’m an INFJ too and although they’re the rarest personality type apparently lol, most people I’ve met are the same! I feel like we think sorta similarly, and I agree it’s hard to make a new circle of friends as we get older and in a big city, etc. Genuine friends are def hard to come by. Thank u for ur content 💜

Omg I can’t believe I came here first 😭 Michelle I saw your first video a few years ago and you’re such an inspiration which made me start my own channel too 💕💕

Omg you and esther are such a vibe, im a fannn

OMYGOd Michelle i always felt like we had similar personality and now finfing out youre and INfj too makes so much sense cause really I relate to your feeling so much and love your energy!!!!!

my day getting better bc of this upload ✨

This vlogs inspiring me as always. Thanks michelle 🖤

I'm also INFJ and can totally relate to depending on my boyfriend to make new friends. I made friends like this in college but now that I just graduated, I realize my bond with them just wasn't as strong because I only talked/hung out with them when I was with my boyfriend 😅I'm moving to a new city soon and I really want to make some new friends on my own! p.s. love you both! ❤

@dawnforlife

3 жыл бұрын

INFJ here! You can do it! =) Especially in a new place and alone it pushes us out of the comfort zone and sometimes, it just takes longer for us to find the right click but once it's found and we really want it, it's usually lasting and deep 😊

@kennyrakwong1707

3 жыл бұрын

When Michelle shared she was an INFJ before I felt I understood why I really resonated with all her vlogs. I mostly spend my time alone, decorating my apartment, playing with my dogs, and really just vibing on my own. I too face challenges sometimes trying to genuinely connect with others, but at the same time I barely leave the apartment, haha.

@dawnforlife

3 жыл бұрын

@@kennyrakwong1707 For us (INFJs) it's like..quarantine? What? Not much different than my normal life heheh

@peachylivi5180

3 жыл бұрын

I’m also an INFJ! It’s really interesting to see other INFJ’s as we are all so similar, I think that’s one of the reasons I love Michelle’s vlogs. She’s so relatable!

@penguinswithwifi

3 жыл бұрын

Yay for us INFJs! We are an incredibly rare personality type. It makes sense that we are all drawn to Michelle’s YT videos as she reflects a lot of the complex qualities in our own nature.

love watching your vlogs michelle!!! please upload more videos 😭

My personality type is INFJ and i totally relate to you. Even i become close to someone it is always on my mind maybe they are getting bored or they are not enjoying my company and just thinking things or attitudes over and over

Yay! Always look forward to your vids, Meesh :)

oh Michelle, how I aspire to live an aesthetic life as you. Love your videos! 💓

I really love chit chats. Makes me feel like a lil sis!!

It feels so nice to hear someone else's thoughts about making friends and finding it hard to do, thank you so much Michelle! Also I'm an INFJ too :3

I feel uncomfortable being the only guy that's commenting, but I needed to let you know that your vlogs are very relaxing 🙂

@Mimi-rh7pu

3 жыл бұрын

That’s cool. Don’t feel uncomfortable about it

@nancytran2246

3 жыл бұрын

Also you’re probably not the only one!!

@dle234awesome

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly if I knew a guy who watches videos like these, I would approach them !

Your video lightened up my day, thanks Michelle.

Really inspired a lot by you and always get motivated when looking to your video 😍😍 take care and stay health ❤️

I don't know how many time I replayed the last minute, it was so funny, I laughed a lot hahahaha!! I love your vlogs Michelle! A greeting from Spain

michelle i freakin love u can u pls do more of these talks and also a closet essential or like "everything i have in my closet" because i loveeee your style

i'm an infp & they're very compatible with infjs too! glad to know there was a reason why i re-subscribed a few years later :) you're not in korea anymore but it's very cool how you've grown!

got so excited when this popped up in my subscriptions!! 😇😇

I'm INFJ! Personally, I see people with INFJ personalities put a bigger emphasis on quality time with the people you care about, you are able to have alone time, but at the same time still want to be with your significant other/family/friends, you are creative and thoughtful, you're always trying to learn something new, you're calm, when you get excited you can genuinely tell, emotions are strong, but controlled, and connections with people are felt deep inside so you know you truly connect with that person. That's me in a nutshell and I do feel like we share some of those traits. Because when I watch your videos, your thoughts and actions seem to follow what I feel and would do. So I truly enjoy your videos. :)

it's 2am here in germany rn and i was about to go to sleep, so i saved this to watch later lol love u michelle

@ahiahi5917

3 жыл бұрын

Omg sameee im from germany as well but i cant wait im so excited 🌸🌸 greatingsss and gn

@THELIFEOFBORA

3 жыл бұрын

Sameee😂

@mochichichi2458

3 жыл бұрын

alle aus Deutschland hier

@ahiahi5917

3 жыл бұрын

hey chuchu das ist so toll zu wissen !! 🌿

i love your videos so much! i wish you health and happiness always!!

im so happy that you have made an effort to make new friends its not easy i think for me it used to be easy but as i have gotten older and have had bad experiences with friendships i now have such a hard time i literately have like 5 friends but in a way i dont mind i rather have 5 very good friends than a bunch of fake friends that don't care about me ... I enjoyed the vlog so much Michelle im so happy to see u happy ♥

Hi Michelle! I'm also an INFJ-T. What you described in relation to meeting new people and not being dependent on your s/o really resonated with me. There are times where I have to remind myself that I should go out and meet people or hang out with friends rather than stay hibernated in the little hole I've made for myself. But on the other hand, there are times where I can't help but feel I'd rather be alone than use my energy in being around people. In any case, I really enjoy your videos and really "clicked" with you with the first video I saw. Anyway, enough of my ramblings. Hope you're doing well & take care :)

I'm an INFJ too , I struggle a lot in making new friends I like long lasting friendships that's why I have one friend only . Usually I like staying at home chilling and enjoying my time alone . I hope we can see Easther more in you vlogs , Love you Michelle ❤

The fact that i went from crying (bcoz the talk abt vulnerability is smtg i wanna achieve w/ others) to laughing abt michelle’s “INSFP” 😂 this kinda made my day

Your videos are great Michelle;) You have always been one of my favorite youtubers:)

I'm ISFP like Esther! No wonder I feel like Michelle's like my bff ❤

I'm an INFJ too! I've always wondered why I could relate to you so much and why I loved your videos and your personality so much. :)

Everytime i try to find a part that i like more in the video, but i can't! I always like everything DAMN!!!

I'm an INFJ too!! despite the age difference between us, I kind of find it difficult making new friend but I'm always trying to push myself out of my comfort zone and talking to people I haven't before. I wish you all the best

INFJ and I can totally relate w you!🦋 That's why one day, when I was watching the video in which you said you're an INFJ, I was Like 'YESS!! I KNEWW IT, THAT'S WHY SHE IS SO RELATABLE.' it made me so happy. 👉👈🥺❤️❤️

Yay! Good morning it is. ❤ Your videos are my therapy during this crazy times. Stay safe always. Xx. 💋

I'm ENFJ with introvert tendencies! You're so funny for getting ISFP wrong so many times 😂😂 glad you two are going out to build more friendships together!

Loved this video! You guys are adorable for each other

I love your vlogs so much!

I’m ENFJ! I actually think we’re super similar, that’s why I was immediately drawn to your videos. I think the test gave me ENFJ bc I trained myself to be extroverted when I hang out but I easily get tired from it so technically I’m borderline INFJ haha. I enjoy a lot of alone time to sort out my thoughts and to let my mind rest. I also think our perspectives of the world are very similar so a lot of what you say resonates with me. Love you Michelle!! 💕Your videos keep me sane. I hope that one day we can become friends haha...a girl can dream 😂

@berl5012

3 жыл бұрын

Hi! Im ENFJ too!

@eleneegutia

3 жыл бұрын

saaame

@k.2620

3 жыл бұрын

wow me too

@Sharondipity

3 жыл бұрын

Ber L hi fellow ENFJ!!

@Sharondipity

3 жыл бұрын

Kim haha glad to know I’m not alone!

Love these friendly chats on the videos recently❤️

I’m INFJ-A, I stumbled across your vlog about a month ago and I’ve been enjoying the chill vibes from your videos lol hello from a fellow New Yorker!

Is anyone else really happy at the fact Michelle seem to have found real friends?

the first time i struggled in making new friends is when i entered senior high school, it last over a year until i officially have my circle of friends. it’s kinda sad bec. i am now an incoming college student which means, im back at it again in making new friends. but its ok i understand this is what life means lol. i’m happy for u for having ur friend by ur side!!♥️♥️

just got my wisdom tooth removed and I recently got my lower molar removed so I can’t really eat with both sides and I’m just in so much pain 😔 so glad Michelle uploaded because I get to put my mind off the pain aaaa I love you!

yeyyy finally catched up on all of your vlogs. im so happy :)))))

Michelle ur hair looks so great at this length I love it

i love you michelle and i rlly hope u r okay now because you deserve everything in this world.

i’m an INFJ too and i relate soooo much i often find that after finding even just one person i’m comfortable with i tend to just stick to them out of comfort and lose the motivation to continue branching out to meet new people and it’s like if that person isn’t available i’m left alone again it’s it’s this constant battle inside my head of wanting to stick to my comfort zone and having to push myself to meet new people also just cause socialising is so draining for me and i find it difficult to meet people i really click with and at the same time i’m not the kind to invest much in relationships unless they’re more substantial. especially when meeting people in groups too it’s harder to really connect individually and then you tend to not meet unless it’s as a group and it just reduces the chances of making lasting relationships

im an INFJ too! for me, I have my circle of friends who are basically like family to me. we all live in NYC but once we entered college, half them went away to other states and it took a long ass time for me to find comfort within myself. right now, im just trying to figure out how to be a good friend to those i love while also being there for myself. it's always a work-in-process haha