絕大部分人只是平平庸庸過一生，能夠鋒芒畢露的是極少數，這是現實，然而，這不代表這些平凡人沒有付出努力，也不是三分鐘熱度，而可能是能力有限，或者缺乏機會，甚至兩者也有。一個人能否成功，必須具備能力和運氣，缺一不可。對自己太嚴苛，常常與他人比較，不斷強逼自己，反而活得不開心，盡了力，便已經對得住自己，畢竟謀事在人，成事在天，不是人人也得追求一些宏大的理想，活得開心才是王道。張小姐，得罪得罪！

@jack19971965

3 жыл бұрын

只要努力 (成功道路) 一定有你份, 因為成功道路好窄 好多人未試已放棄或者中途放棄 到最好行出成功道路就係歸你! 加油!!!

@johnnyshek5130

3 жыл бұрын

@@jack19971965成功人士不應覺得自己高高在上，也需要對社會承擔更多責任，因為身邊的人沒有他們那麼幸運，能力和機會遠遠較他們遜色，說得不好聽，沒有這些人墊底，成功人士的光芒不能凸顯！

@user-fw8vx3kg7p

Жыл бұрын

其實問題係好多事情係由整體因素決定，某個人自已既努力只能夠有一定程度既影響，唔係話個人努力毫無作用，只係個人努力都唔係能夠完全影響所有事情。正如兩球隊落場比賽，兩隊人都盡百份之一百努力，但係始終都一定有一隊輸，呢個世界無絕對，所以我都認同你既觀點，就好似片主咁講，佢話無懷才不遇，何為懷才不遇，就係自已既才能得唔到認同，咁我呢家死都唔承認你嘅才能，我什至認為你一加一都唔識，咁懷才不遇係咪發生緊?呢個世界，其他人係外表係判斷唔到人地識D咩，而且總有主觀情緒，以偏概全，個人喜好，利益問題，人際關係，好多野都影響到人嘅判斷，認為，同行為，所以你想咁容易獲得客觀評價，公平對待唔係咁簡單囉，好多人會因為某個人既某個問題，而討厭某個人，之後就會指責某個人其他唔關事既正確問題係有問題。就好係你呢家明明做得幾好，我明屈你話你唔得，懷才不遇係咪發生緊?所以我希望片主明白，呢家個問題唔係你到，而係係我果到，我因為對你認識唔全面，只係知道你部份情況，同時因為唔鐘意你，加上你做既事影響到我利益，然後我就判斷你無任何才華，咩都唔識，咁你點樣解決?個問題明明係我判斷有問題，誤解左你。

張小姐慢慢學下，做人放鬆啲，俾咁大壓力自己好辛苦架。

生命寶貴，必須努力令自己成為一個優秀的人！才可做到更多！令人生豐盛！

真正的才女，係全才再加材，女兒身，男兒志「智」志與智雙全，十分喜歡台主的所有節目!👍👍👏👏🎋🎄🎋🎄🎋

華Dee, 你媽咪好叻! 呢個世界上没有不勞而獲的事～totally agree!!!!

對於張女士您有"盡心知性得知天"的天賦，在下感到十分佩服! 能多有您這類人，香港就一定有美好的前途!

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

3 жыл бұрын

Thxxx david!❤️

@chanshukyin6463

3 жыл бұрын

同意你說。

偶爾在KZread 看到張小姐的導讀，得益匪淺

仲記得以前睇黃子華的棟篤笑，佢在入面都講過話「問你借錢的人目的係想同你絕交」，聽你講番都好有共鳴呀。

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

很喜歡你今次的topic 我獲益良多！非常感謝🙏

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

3 жыл бұрын

😀😀😀😀😀

謝謝Sharon分享

多謝你的經驗之談！！！

Thanks Sharon ! I listened this KZread third times !

多謝Sharon 好鍾意看你d片 對人生有好多啟發 自己努力好緊要！！

真係好鍾意睇你做的講書片！好有意思！謝謝你的付出同分享！

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

2 жыл бұрын

❤️

I am very glad that you are very honest to share the true about people need to work hard to be success.

張小姐，你就似位人生導師！多謝您！

讲得很好，激励每个人都要求学，才能创造自己的价值。你的节目真的有用。👍👍👍💝💝💝

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

3 жыл бұрын

Thxxx candy !

@Annieling2688

3 жыл бұрын

你的导读和讲话很正面，希望能有多些年青人看到你的节目。现在这内容的传媒十今稀缺，励志的教育很必要。🙏🙏🙏

Very inspiring ! Thank you.

多謝寶華分享，支持你💪🏻

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

3 жыл бұрын

Thxxx dear

Good talk. Direct to the point and simple presentation.

Appreciate this video and the last one. It's like you are telling us all in person, I've learned a lot.

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

3 жыл бұрын

💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

。學無止境。活用於精。 Thanks for sharing 你嘅人生經歷 with us 🙏🙏

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

3 жыл бұрын

❤️

謝謝你

Miss cheng, A very good thinker, very inspired talk. Thanks!

講得好啱

Thanks Sharon, it is very inspiring!

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

3 жыл бұрын

💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

好激励，支持你的视频

Sharon, 你講書好好聽，我訂左這本書明天來啦😍💖

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

3 жыл бұрын

Great

好有啟發性 要一聽再聽 👍🏼👍🏼

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

3 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️🙌🏻

Tks for your sharing. Good to know 👍🏿

多謝分享。

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

3 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

就係要保持一顆too simple sometimes naive的心不斷長進自己👍

張小姐妳人美麗,高智慧,好值得欣賞

講得好

Thanks

這個世界是人才競爭的世界

Hello Sharon! My name is Jen and I am well over 40s with two young children. I have only just became your listener/subscriber!!! I have only discovered you in recent month (I left HK in 1996, so I am not been super close to HK scenes till recent years) and have been catching up with lots of your youtube videos recently. I really hope that you can see my comment here. I haven't came across one host/video that I felt 'YES! she completely nailed my life motto!' (sorry I don't know how to type chinese) We all need to be responsible for our own lives/actions/failures! I completely agreed with all the things you said in this video. This definitely is the video that change my impression towards you. You go girl! I am watching all the advertisements in order to show my support! Take care, Jen

讚👍!!

Thanks for sharing your opinions. 好似阿媽教仔咁(但我老過你), 但教得好好聽。👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

多謝你分享， 你真係講得好好。 人生哲學，一語道破。

I feel like lucky to hear that!

張小姐！好突出既個人性格！

不能同意更多！謝謝分享！

Good point

張小姐這麼漂亮，看她導讀，賞心悅目！而且又有內涵！

Keep up the good work 👍

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

3 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

Thanks Sharon for sharing! This video is full of wisdom. I used to be quite self-absorbed when I graduated from medical school and I thought I could already have a very decent life as a hospital doctor without putting much extra effort. A few years later I knew some successful entrepreneur and finance friends at similar ages as me who have already founded successful business / leading a big team and already semi-retired, then I finally realised that how ordinary and narrow-minded I was.

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

3 жыл бұрын

Thxxxxxx

@caticadailylife6237

2 жыл бұрын

Don't feel bad about yourself. I am always thankful for the doctors who looked after me when I was in the hospital. There are things that couldn't be measured by wealth, like making people's lives easier.

今日再嚟聽華Dee😉😉

說對

講得好啱，踩過一次屎，發誓唔借，衰心軟，我又借比另一個，還?又係一拖再拖，唉！做人真痛苦。

非常同意, 自强才能不息!

有呀！我曾遇過這種人，一借無回頭，少時不識推搪，現在年長才懂得點推，希望年青人學懂怎樣推搪。

讲得很好，有收获到

...張小姐，你好有DGS feel....really 女拔萃D女仔性格上及那種鬥心和你很相近！😆😄😄

立刻，就係最好時刻

👍👍👍👍👍🌷我們都是堅強的女性

被書名吸引。講得好好。我都係零同一的人

我諗起Steve Jobs，D人對佢又恨又愛：恨－－he never gives you an easy and dignified life. 愛: he stretches your comfort zone where self dignity is nothing at all

support ! btw見字飲水😊

Support 💪💪💪 CLS!

27:25 35:35 43:40 今集養分好高呀! 以上觀點十分十分十分認同!!! Workout都好辛苦, 好舒服個刻係workout完沖涼!!!😅😅😅

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

3 жыл бұрын

👍🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

Van Gogh 就係懷材不遇最好好嘅例子！

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

3 жыл бұрын

Sushan Zhang 他才不是呀！

讀書都要講天份 有人是一看書就想睡覺

@woochatming9917

Жыл бұрын

@B ecca 周迅騙你的。 你以為背劇本是容易的嗎？

到咗

借咗錢對方唔還仲要大條道理，最後仲要好似係我錯，本來好怒。最後我感恩咁短時間認識佢嘅真面目，同埋認識自己未夠修養。

我最近睇緊《告別沙婆》The disappearance of the universe 好難明…我每日睇少少，都有所得著… 推介比你，希望聽到你分享☺️好鍾意聽你，加油！

@carolfung174

3 жыл бұрын

I am reading too

老師，起初我真系有d小看閣下，：，學術派我身边不少，且我覺得百無一用是書生，但聽聽下發覺您見地不止是學問

你真有愛❤

Hi:寶華。

字字珠璣，終生受用。謝謝！

通常借完錢比朋友，就會失去這朋友。

@chanshukyin6463

3 жыл бұрын

絕對同意。

@ngaielaine9327

3 жыл бұрын

q

@tomtu7555

3 жыл бұрын

是的，不过这也是看你跟这位朋友有没有缘分，我有借过两个朋友的钱，一位没了，一位不影响任何关系

I watched this late . Nevertheless, I concur no more. Will share to those I reckon who should find this talk useful. Thank you, Sharon.

👍👍👍💪💪💪

金石良言！

其實做人吾駛有成就，最重要用自己能力賺取生活費，動物都要物競天澤，適者生存!所以人類一樣為生存競爭，只不過層次高些，生活要求多些，並不是食物和洞穴，而係多方面物質和服務，總之凡有生命的物質都要為生存努力，總之眾生一樣。

靠自己真係好緊要

I have learned a lot : )

我唔钟意睇書，但钟意聽您分析🤣

真知焯見。 金言玉句。

父母 家教對孩子成長很重要

喜歡你有才氣。

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

3 жыл бұрын

🥰🥰🥰

有妳嘅導讀，我都可以增高八份一寸

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

3 жыл бұрын

😄😄😄😄

我讚成先錄，因為聽你講書時，如你要分心去睇comment, 或say hi 就中段咗train of thought(或任何 live)我會無耐性聽。有少少提意，你可以有些停頓位，呼吸位，會再舒服D，每次聽完我自己都有少少呼吸加快，心跳快，希望你唔好介意。😊 黃世澤介紹你的study channel,佢雖然不是說話好流俐，但有停頓位，我可以消化，思想。🙏

I couldn't agree more with what you said .👍👍👍

我有朋友十年身材如一日，我好羨慕，後來問佢地，原來是糖尿病

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

3 жыл бұрын

Omgggg

有 in the middle, in fact, always in the middle. My dad always says, 比上不足 比下有餘⋯⋯ in the middle, always

講足51分鐘辛苦了~

年初一出面無乜節目，聽返啲重播。1. 本書有啲 Brian Cha感覺🤣 2. 想睇下嗰件4萬蚊冷衫

2023年9月 聽 依然歴久不衰

I live by myself n very independent.

辛苦才學會做人生点光，唔醒殺間成功路。

才女！

@TooSimpleSometimesNaive

3 жыл бұрын

Thx Paul

其實我好認同張小姐的想法 ---》若果我們仍然活在舊時代的香港。我深信在一個講求公平/平等/民主或至少假設人是平等的社會，這些道理我都相信的。因為只要權力被制衡，平民才容許向上流。 我剛剛在想： 若果在新香港/共產政權/㙮利班/內戰中的叙利亞，這些道理是否一樣應用？我很懷疑。 用力上位？ 努力做好自己品牌？令自己發光發亮？ 在這些國度下會否提早死亡？

@user-fw8vx3kg7p

Жыл бұрын

一定要公平/平等/民主先得，有D人道理都唔同你講，你唔諗住果D人能夠客觀，公正同足夠公評咁評價你，有D人真係根據自已嘅利益，同喜惡，關係對人作出評價。總有人係以偏概全架，佢只係會根據自已認識果個部份黎評價同判斷你，佢唔會根據你真實既全部黎判斷， 無人可以知道曬你一生做過幾多好事或者壞事，所以你都係唔好諗住得到足夠公正嘅評價同認同。

我讀大學時, 個阿SIR話 從來只有技不如人, 世界上係冇懷才不遇

👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

'Ignorance is Bliss', if want to change that, either to develop a new meaning of 'Ignorance', or to accept a new meaning of 'Bliss'

分享某個人的一句格言： 做人志在開心，做人這麼辛苦，那麼為難自己幹嗎？！

若是值得幫助的朋友，根本不會開口問，是我自己覺得要出手的

必須做個自強的女人、 因為女人的幸福不是被飼養出來的！

圣经 叫我 要依靠 我们的 天父，因为他是我们的 creator. We can be friends with our creator.