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This might be part...of the problem. In marriage - - 1) She stays: You pay 2) She goes: You pay 3) She cheats: You pay 4) You go: You pay

@AnnetteCurtain-tc4mh

Ай бұрын

Men have affairs to stay together, women have affairs to get away.

@mboiko

Ай бұрын

@@AnnetteCurtain-tc4mh Man has an affair..he pays Woman has an affair...he pays

@jackeagleeye3453

29 күн бұрын

That's why you make your lady get a job lol

There are just over 25 million single mothers in America. We need to work to get this to 100 million so that Oprah can be proud.

@theworthlessdrone5220

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂 "You get a baby! You get a baby! You get a baby!!! Everyone gets a baby!!!"

@honeysimon838

Ай бұрын

Loolll

Mr. Zubinator with guest Ms. Lila. Normally only see clips of her, so will be nice to see a longer discussion❤

I haven’t heard a single one of these type of “traditionalist female” influencers meaningfully advocate for any change to family court or anything at all about improving treatment of men. They spend way more time attacking the redpill often for just pointing the issues out. Lila herself bashed the whatever pod despite going on multiple times to spread her name.

@happydog6537

Ай бұрын

Because deep down in their bones, they know they might get divorced someday, and they like those rules. Men are bad no matter what, and on the other side, sugar and spice, and everything nice. And don’t get me wrong as a very simple man I wish she was sitting on a couch, not at the table, and I think she’s great. But I completely agree with you. Reverse the genders in Forrest Gump and Jenny’s going to prison.

@RichardTN

Ай бұрын

Cause it's just a jockeying for political power and influence. They don't actually care about changing the system they derive their position of influence from. For example, Trump wasn't a politician so he thought accomplishing the things he promised his voters would get him reelected. What he found out was, those moderate voters abandoned him after he sufficently accomplished the thing and they didn't need him anymore.

@ZubyMusic

Ай бұрын

It's hard for people to oppose things that benefit them. But at least the conversations are being had now.

@chuck1052

Ай бұрын

Trad Women like Lila support Divorce. She's even against getting a prenup.

@theworthlessdrone5220

Ай бұрын

​​@@ZubyMusicI think it goes further than that. I know these women are pretending family court is equally detrimental to women as it is to men. This is done to keep the meat grinder working. If women like her accept that the courts are horrendous, then marriage itself by extension becomes horrible, and for her to continue promoting marriage, she and women like her would have to be accountable and use the vote and rights they have to change things. You and I both know they will not. Not in this lifetime anyway. That being said, I really do appreciate your work Zuby. Thank you.

She says just because men and women vote poorly doesn't mean they shouldn't be the ones voting. So, it's fine if the country does poorly and eventually we lose everything, while people who know better sit by watching, cause muh rights make me feel good to have control and be equal with people who know better even if we are objectively not.

@b4zz3d59

Ай бұрын

🔥

@troydunn8463

Ай бұрын

Most men are eager to vote towards putting bad men in jail. They easily out vote the few men that vote 'poorly'. I can not imagine any politician ever winning while running on a campaign to put bad women in jail (i.e., Paternity Fraud, False Accusations...). The few good women will never be able to outvote the bad women.

@SoloRenegade

Ай бұрын

yup Voting needs to be something you EARN. People living on welfare for example, should not be allowed to vote until they get off welfare, otherwise they'll be incentivized to vote for more free stuff. Men have to Earn the right to vote through military service or the Draft. Women need to do something to earn the right to vote. Perhaps being married (and not numerous times) and having kids? They need to have a stake in society in order to vote, same as men.

@jaamall

29 күн бұрын

There are plenty of millionaires and billionaires who think the samething. People forget that the average working class male had to pay a poll tax inorder to vote in the 1700's. It was strictly elitist.

@SoloRenegade

29 күн бұрын

@@jaamall poll taxes are illegal. but women have yet to earn the right to vote, whereas men still have to earn their right to vote. the whole point of limiting voting to contributing members of society, is so that only those with a vested interest in the nation succeeding get a voice. If you are a leech, you should have no say.

family courts were established when women had no jobs and no income outside the family, there is no point to demand so much from men to pay after a divorce because we have now more equality than before.

@Dollface98

Ай бұрын

Alimony is only really given in cases where women left their careers to raise the couples children, it only happens in 8% of divorces. Also financially women do much worse after divorce than men.

Women are the only ones competing we need men only spaces

Feminism is a self fulfilling prophecy

@SoloRenegade

Ай бұрын

Feminism is Communism in disguise

@gloriathomas3245

Ай бұрын

Are you blaming feminism for me making the choice not be a parent?

@greyfoxice

Ай бұрын

@@gloriathomas3245 yes, mostly

I am now 63 but our little catholic chuch in an old cleaned up barn in San Jose 1971 had an Abortion awarness presentation with color pictures that horrified us. I was 10 and my parents were late Greatest gen and early Forgotten gen 1928-29 people. This was before Row v Wade passed. I was not to young to understand the pictures of body parts of a tiny baby.

1:17:55 "What do women fear most?" That's an easy one. Lack of money, wealth, and power. Loss of good looks, status, attention from others to feed their narcissism. Being held accountable for one's actions. Bearing responsibilities (especially in a family). Having to actually do real work (especially pertaining to family).

This interview is quite possibly one of the most important interviews of the 21st century!!!

Great conversation! Blessings to you both!

Nobody ever talks about the mental ramifications of post abortion for women.

A strong, beautiful woman ❤

@SoloRenegade

Ай бұрын

strong?

Good show

Omg Lila, how did you survive UCLA while being a Prolifer!?

And who caused these family break downs?government stepping in acting as surrogate father

@shortstraw4

Ай бұрын

Men and women in those relationships failed and then expected government to fill the gap.

Isn't it ironic that the word contraception is taken from the word contra which means war.

@73cidalia

Ай бұрын

Contra means against, not war.

@greyfoxice

Ай бұрын

@@73cidalia lol what do you think war is? It's deep meaning is war. I was in the military and it's a term the military uses to determine whether it's a civilian interaction or war interaction.

@cdrcluster9282

Ай бұрын

Basically means against life, or against conceiving, unnatural

@cryptojihadi265

Ай бұрын

​@@greyfoxicethat's absurd. People are AGAINST things all the time that they don't actually go to war over.

@greyfoxice

Ай бұрын

@@cryptojihadi265 Contra is a military term only used in war. You guys have no clue

Then draft women they want to vote rights no responibility

Pretty Lila ❤️

Who is going to help me out?

No sound

25M here. I kinda feel like the odds are against me in the dating market even though I'm somewhat tall and in good shape. I just don't seem to have any luck. I make an average salary and live at home. Which allows me to save aggressively. I've tried getting a better job and haven't had any luck. It honestly feels like marriage isn't really an option for me, much less to a woman who's more pleasant than remaining single. I do have a bachelor's degree in Management Information Systems for whatever that's worth.

@brianmeen2158

Ай бұрын

If you are somewhat tall and in good shape and make decent Money then you are already ahead of most men . Are you going out regularly and approaching women? Stay off the dating apps

@freecomet

Ай бұрын

@@brianmeen2158 I have a church group and an art group I attend regularly. As far as I can tell the women there aren't interested. I actually got turned down by one the other day

@Jayar_

Ай бұрын

Keep trying man. I know it’s hard.. early 20s for guys is hard even if you’re attractive. Especially in the modern market. Stay strong

@freecomet

Ай бұрын

@@brianmeen2158 I go to a church group but I don't seem to get much interest from the women there

@freecomet

Ай бұрын

@@Jayar_ thanks

The economic problems facing the family in the 21st-century could all be alleviated if women stopped working and simply stayed at home like they used to problem solved

Thanks feminism.

The American government became a husband for the women. So i want single women families to be 100% in America. He who controls the mind controls the spiritual and physical.

Marriage is just horrible - but do what you want !

1:20:25 men are looking at the statistics, anecdotes, but they are also observing what is going on around them for real. What is happening to their fathers, brothers, friends, themselves, etc. and they can see for themselves it's a disaster. I can count on one hand the number of men in my life who've not gone through at least one divorce. Over 90% of all the men i served with ended up divorced, and there were some horror stories among them. Divorce rate among pilots is ridiculously high, so much so they've studied it in the past (I'm also a professional pilot). If I know the outcome, why would I do it? I'm not a gambler, I don't make bad bets, and I only bet if I know the deck is stacked in my favor. Marriage is a bad bet, a surefire way to lose everything I've worked hard to achieve in my life.

@friedawells6860

20 күн бұрын

You're not going to marry the statistic. Get married and let divorce be unthinkable to both spouse. Personally, I don't believe divorce should be legal except in case of proven adultery or abuse. That's how the laws used to be. Those are my beliefs as a Christian, that divorce is not a real option. It's really tough out there. The only advice that I can give you is to build a relationship with God and pray. If it is God's plan for you to be married, He will provide the woman you are meant to be with. Whatever God's plan is for your life, it will be the best plan for you. He already knows your personality, strengths, and weaknesses. God can plan for it. God answered my prayer, and I'm married now. I also had a friend (who was also a Christian), he expressed similar views to you on marriage and had basically given up. I prayed for him every night for two weeks that if it was God's will that he would meet a good woman. A year later and he was engaged to great Christian girl! God is working, and He has a plan for those who would cooperate with His will. However, God's way is not like a magic trick or a government handout, we have to try to the best of our abilities to follow after God. Christ says "If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it. For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul?" -Matthew 16:24-26 However Christ also says "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” -Matthew 11:28-30 If you want to be married, don't read the statistics, pray for your future wife!

As a biblically literate pro life Christian who admires adoptive parents who can love children not of their blood that much as my mother did but my father did not. I have one hope inspired by Pastor John MacArthur, that these aborted children's spirits go straight into the Kingdom of Heaven but their mothers are in danger of eternal darkness if they don't find salvation in Christ. Many will not and we must pray harder than ever for their deliverance from the eternal enemy of humanity, Satan. It is their choice but we can offer God's love as an inducement.

You really missed the chance to push back here for a better conversation. Here are salient points that this poor lady hasn’t been given the chance to consider: 1. Women are paid to leave marriages (alimony/child support) 2. The courts rule in favor of the woman regardless of fault over 90% of the time 3. There are no legal benefits worth having in a marriage that you can’t get outside of marriage 4. Women can falsely accuse the man without any consequences 5. You are not judged by a jury of your peers 6. There is no standard or requirement for evidence in family court 7. Hoeflation - men have to work five times harder than their grandfathers did for women that are 5 times worse 8. Hypergamy is not regulated any more and social media is destroying women’s general mate expectations 9. Men have no true authority in the home and the government gun always backs the woman THE LIST GOES ON MAN!

Im not familiar with your guest but she very wise however your generations over use of the word "like" is like finger jails on a chalk board.

There would be less single mothers if the men actually step up and do their jobs.

His origin story is giving strong Bored White Woman vibes

There's just something about this woman that I straight up do not like lol

@blackmancarry

Ай бұрын

Probably that she has come from one of the most privileged areas in the country, and is trying to tell normal ppl what is right

@aguynamedjake462

29 күн бұрын

It’s because she claims she’s conservative yet doesn’t fight against bogus family court laws/mens struggles