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@SharonEvansrs7

6 жыл бұрын

Travis S I can relate! I like small groups and feel lost in crowds. I do most things on my own

@MaxineAGGuess

6 жыл бұрын

Travis S ❤️these videos. Thank you!

@JoseSanchez-bp7xz

6 жыл бұрын

Travis S The majority of people know these 2 things are obvious.

@dannyfletcher1965

6 жыл бұрын

Travis S thanks for the help

@johnoliveri4490

5 жыл бұрын

No bs this is an exact representation of me

"The realest people don't have a lot of friends" - Tupac Shakur

@mitchellpavlicek4818

6 жыл бұрын

finnishguy845 cringe

@avarose2038

5 жыл бұрын

Really ?? 🤔😏

@grenks6387

5 жыл бұрын

Mitchell Pavlicek u more

@jonas5361

5 жыл бұрын

Bullshit

@dtdslayer

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah that's true

better be a loner then chill out whit fake people

@Kay-Kays-reborns

5 жыл бұрын

P B exactly

@johnnyfrierson1458

5 жыл бұрын

P B right

@slut333

5 жыл бұрын

P B same 💀

@namo157

5 жыл бұрын

Well said P B

@silenteyidentityv2150

5 жыл бұрын

Completly Right

I sit at home alone all the time. Sometimes I'm lonely but when company comes I just want them to leave lol. My house is my alone time.

@AlphaSporeGaming

6 жыл бұрын

Two Cents same. I have to force myself to talk to people lmao.

@chirohisuke7800

6 жыл бұрын

@Two Cents @AlphaSporeGaming .... same

@LethalKicks

6 жыл бұрын

fuckign same

@kk5310

6 жыл бұрын

Wow - that's so like me. Isn't it odd? I feel super alone sometimes but when people come over to visit my landlord or house mates, i want them to gtfo. Why is that? I don't understand myself sometimes. Lol.

@twocents190

6 жыл бұрын

Idk but I do know tigers are lone hunters but lions live in prides.

People think i ghost them. I just don't like talking.

@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335

6 жыл бұрын

noelsoong777 u should let them know Jesus Christ. Damn pos.

@cookiemontr1357

6 жыл бұрын

XD true

@udaylall3691

5 жыл бұрын

@@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335 exactly

@MaryJosephrobi

4 жыл бұрын

People say I'm rude and cold coz I'm not a chatter box

@biasedjedi4353

3 жыл бұрын

@@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335 You are the reason we like to be alone

Fellow introvert here.. There's a quote.. "The most lonely feeling isn't when you are alone, it is when you are among people who you don't have a real connection to.." I COMPLETELY butchered that quote because I don't remember it, word for word, but paraphrasing here.. Maybe I'll post again when I see that quote among my photos.. =)

@TubeDeviant

7 жыл бұрын

"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone." -Robin Williams

@TheZenThug

7 жыл бұрын

So true. at least BEING alone is more peaceful imo. But being among people you don't know you suddenly crave a connection- that's what really hurts from time to time (for me, at least)

@andresvega2707

7 жыл бұрын

TubeDeviant Oh my god, that is beautiful

@SC-gp7kt

7 жыл бұрын

that is exactly how I feel

@life-curious

7 жыл бұрын

TubeDeviant I remembered reading that. If you're surrounded by the wrong crowd, with people you cant relate with no matter how hard you try, who don't really serve you as an individual, you will feel very lonely and kinda lost. But when you are just being literally alone, in your own company, your own space, you don't really feel that loneliness - you feel more grounded with a sense of direction instead.

I'm a loner extrovert lol because I see how fake and how much ppl lie. It's sick to me

@daviddominguez7629

6 жыл бұрын

Kulafachi same here man lol

@K1LL3rAzn

6 жыл бұрын

truth man

@danieldbor

6 жыл бұрын

KulaFachi You just gotta keep searching for the right people.. One day you wil find them!!!

@kulafachi9571

6 жыл бұрын

Daniel Bor yeah ur right. The people I'm referring to are all my closets friends and co workers. I love ppl, just not those types of ppl.

@Myhairyapples123

5 жыл бұрын

KulaFachi sorry to break it to you but u wont even have 2 friends that are "100" or "down to ride" later in life. Hope you know that.

I feel alone when I around people.

@bertwillis4832

6 жыл бұрын

arelis garcia Not me, I just mind own business.

@beerbeer6189

5 жыл бұрын

@@bertwillis4832 thats u

@realjqa

4 жыл бұрын

That's negative energy then. If u not feeling there energy & matching it just go on about ur day & focus on you 💯

@bretzwashington6064

4 жыл бұрын

Real talk

@SilenceSerene

4 жыл бұрын

arelis garcia that is so real

One thing I can't stand is when people try to get you to talk more, I talk when I feel like it or feel the need to, just because someone is quiet doesn't mean they're shy, a lot of people such as myself just like to mind our own business, thats whats wrong with people nowadays is that they don't mind their own business and worry about other people too much. I'm a pretty chill guy, I just keep to myself and like to have some alone time doing things I love such as: Drawing, sculpting, writing stories, watching favorite TV shows, video games, exercising, and walking my dog. I enjoyed this video, you basically nailed everything.

@RINNEMOON

6 жыл бұрын

same here bro

@cassielee1114

5 жыл бұрын

I hate that people assume I’m shy. I just don’t feel the need to verbalise any of my thoughts a lot of the time.

@icedcoffee6461

4 жыл бұрын

Right

@Simz199x

3 жыл бұрын

Sounds like the perfect life

@garrysmith5562

3 жыл бұрын

dont ever say the n word, people have always used the n word. nowadays. that whats wrong with people nowadays bla bla bluh

I'm with u Trav, anyone else hate small talk?

@christinamedina5485

7 жыл бұрын

LEN90 YES! on a completely unrelated topic, how's the weather?😂

@TreySheltTV

7 жыл бұрын

LEN90 I can't stand it, even when I'm talking to someone on the phone and you have pause in conversation. I am ready to hang up because we don't have anything else to say.

@GlitzxxGlam

7 жыл бұрын

Yes!!! This is why socializing at the gym is such a struggle for me. I hate small talk but I don't have time for meaningful conversations in between sets haha

@XxAlex530xX

7 жыл бұрын

LEN90 hey wtf I'm here now thanks

@XxAlex530xX

7 жыл бұрын

Yeah I work as a dental hygienist, we have to make small talk but I can tell if someone feels uncomfortable or is a more serious person. I won't say anything because in truth I hate small talk and asking questions about their life.

introverts are the realist people on earth 1.we never gossip 2.we stay in our own lane 3.peep fake from 3 miles away 4.always gets our name drugged threw dirt 5.we never hate on others 6.always hope the best for everyone 7.and we are some of the most intelligent people on earth

@stanloonauglies9358

7 жыл бұрын

Joe Cashmere so true

@federicoauditore82

7 жыл бұрын

8 we are the strongest people on earth. The strongest walk is the one we do alone...and at the same time it brings the best out of us. #webringit

@fuidontneedu

7 жыл бұрын

Joe Cashmere you sum introverts up perfectly.

@Sheb8795

7 жыл бұрын

All of the above is true, except 5. We just don't show it.

@DenseCortex

7 жыл бұрын

Joe Cashmere 8. We don't have phone conversations outside on speaker at maximum volume and broadcast all the intimate details of our personal lives to everyone within the radius of a whole block.... 9. We don't aggressively shout at passing strangers when we're drunk.

How to make a loner feel lonely. Put them with a group of people.

@lunophile399

6 жыл бұрын

bodhi tree omg thank you for this comment 🙏 that s so true!

@toneriche

5 жыл бұрын

Wow, so true.

@stinkybean2004

3 жыл бұрын

Lol trueXD

@chronometa

3 жыл бұрын

I don't feel lonely in a crowd. I'm always hanging out and doing things .

@mphorametsi6399

3 жыл бұрын

So true

Introverts need time to decompress after social engagements. It is physically draining. They are perfectly fine around people in small doses, but they need to recharge afterwards by being alone.

Always been a loner, but never lonely. A few years back I was lucky enough to meet someone very special, someone I gladly wanted to spend the rest of my life with - myself.

@kristoff1939

6 жыл бұрын

Cool.

I'm in the same camp - a lot of people who aren't introverts don't understand, but I feel very content when I'm alone

@redcrossman9014

6 жыл бұрын

The Aesthetic Professional babe

@fraukunterbunt2509

6 жыл бұрын

Who cares if they dont understand. Why is it always about introverts who have to be understood. Like, I dont care, I love being alone, its awesome.

@PlusUltraAdrian

6 жыл бұрын

Frau Kunterbunt It's because people really don't understand what it's like to be an introvert. They think being an introvert is a bad thing. We live in a world where being social and out going is the norm. While keeping to yourself and being by yourself is considered weird. So people do need to understand that being an introvert isn't a bad thing.

Im a loner because i don't like people

@jeffbezos4746

5 жыл бұрын

Then you must not like yourself

@anhbayar11

5 жыл бұрын

@@jeffbezos4746 example of an idiot

@richierich3979

4 жыл бұрын

@@jeffbezos4746 i don't like people cause I love myself so much. The more they speak to me is the more I feel like becoming a mass shooter.

@snake-rp1yz

4 жыл бұрын

@@anhbayar11 😂😂😂😂 you kicked the shit out of me

@mitzithompson6585

4 жыл бұрын

I dont like them either!! I love dogs. I'm a proud beagle parent and I'd rather be with dogs than humans

I'm a loner myself, always has been since childhood. I have always felt more content alone. I highly enjoyed this video. Most people drain me from their energy. When I'm alone, I can control my own space and positive energy.

@bertwillis4832

6 жыл бұрын

Shalisha Sandey EXACTLY, well said.

@meganhughes723

5 жыл бұрын

Shalisha Sandey same!

@tigersrgoodswimmers7421

3 жыл бұрын

Real talk Fam. ....Salute

So dang true. Very introverted, but never feel alone. So much self-discipline comes from being introverted.

@sliferslacker4703

7 жыл бұрын

Zach Gonring ikr

@vividly94

6 жыл бұрын

They call that metaphysics.

@jebustavera8132

6 жыл бұрын

Vividly chill

@roykeane1222

6 жыл бұрын

Zach Gonring true

@shresthasinha115

6 жыл бұрын

I agree on this and most of the people assume that we are boring when I'm reality introverted people just have better standards.

I am an introvert, and living proof you are not destined to be alone, some day you will do what I did and meet another introvert and the two of you will live happily ever after. Just my opinion but I think introverts build better relationships because we aren't always looking for new relationships, quality over quantity.

@r4ym1n13

7 жыл бұрын

Brockway Babe jeez i hope so. Im 30 now & have never had a girlfriend. I am getting exhausted hearing questions from my family "when are you gonna get a girlfriend, get married, have kids ?"

@iShredStreets

7 жыл бұрын

Don't worry about it.

@r4ym1n13

7 жыл бұрын

Jakme Auff i have dated & slept with many women but nothing ever really goes past that. I am a diehard introvert & i guess i am a loner as well. I can relate to this video. Maybe i should put myself out their more. I am not linked to any social media, i dont even like carrying my phone around with me, i am very private & like to lay low most of the time. Its not easy but its all i know and i am used to it. Growing up as the youngest of 3 to a single mother had a major impact on me. My mother & both older sisters went through divorces and had to raise childs alone until they found a better man. I guess marriage & kids is not a priority to me but i do feel lonely and bored sometimes and dream about it so this post at the top gave me hope. Haha you are 20? Jeez kid relax trying to look for "the one". Hook up with tons of girls, have fun hanging out with your boys, chase success instead

@r4ym1n13

7 жыл бұрын

BigBabyJesus i try but i get exhausted hearing these repetitive questions. I rather stay home alone then go to family gathetings sometimes

@asifismail7812

6 жыл бұрын

quality is not found in quantity it is the unique things that are quality, true things, not always new things all the time, time itself for connection

Can relate 100%. I'm like a hermit crab like that. I have no problem being around people and socializing, but after a while I feel like I need to be alone to "recharge" if that makes sense..

@DeiHarper9361

6 жыл бұрын

Erik Hansen makes much sense

@xXsamaruXx

6 жыл бұрын

You're not the only one :)

@motowncamaroz28

5 жыл бұрын

Makes total sense.

@harrisonmohammed1605

5 жыл бұрын

Basically me.

@robbirob557

5 жыл бұрын

Makes perfect sense man.

As a loner, i always said i wouldnt get married until i found a woman, whose company is so relaxing/easy going that i feel like im by myself when we are together

@Americansikkunt

6 жыл бұрын

Farmer Nate that is sadly happy.

@TomTomTom87

6 жыл бұрын

agreed

@bertwillis4832

6 жыл бұрын

Agreed very well said.

@davecore9305

5 жыл бұрын

Good luck on finding that in a woman. Your better off with a Japanese made sexbot.

@violetselene244

5 жыл бұрын

Farmer Nate omg saaamme expect with a man lol

I am alone all day, my birthday alone, christmas alone, each day alone. I walk alone, I ride my bike alone, I go to buy groceries alone, I live alone... and I enjoy it. Introverts are Awesome! Great video, thanks for sharing, you need no one else but you to be happy.

@smartwater598

6 жыл бұрын

Did all your family pass away?

@GreedAndSelfishness

6 жыл бұрын

Nah, he's just Finnish.

@cynder2465

5 жыл бұрын

*I walk a lonely road, the only one that I have ever known ~*

@avarose2038

5 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@joeargen440

5 жыл бұрын

I enjoy holidays like Christmas alone too. I hate waiting in the long lines at the airports and everywhere else.

This is so true. Being lonely allows me to recharge and be more social and actually listen.

I stay to myself cause I feel no one would really enjoy my company. I’m not talkative and I feel the whole interaction when we’re out will be dull and boring

@belle.ambrxs

5 жыл бұрын

Marvin's Reviews ETC. True say! Lol

@markwhittaker6866

4 жыл бұрын

Don't be so hard on yourself. I love being by myself. If I'm seen as boring or weird by others........GOOD. They will not bother me. Which means I can go about my business in peace and quiet. Stay strong and stay blessed.

@khxliakhxlia3605

4 жыл бұрын

I feel the exact same way

I'm 28, and I am a loner myself. I've learned people will let you down throughout my 20s. Relationships I've had didn't work out. So for a year now I don't really do anything social at all. I don't have friends, relationships, all that stuff. I like being alone . I'm not lonely either. But social situations make me really nervous and uneasy. I'm just socially withdrawn.

@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335

6 жыл бұрын

Derek Martin humans r pos and only care bout themselves

@PsychokoreUndergroundRap

6 жыл бұрын

I hear you.. thankfuly i work in a copyshop, so i have alot of conversations. But other than that. Women take literaly no initiative, which needs to change quickly.

@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335

6 жыл бұрын

Derek Martin people will let u down bec humans r pos and only care bout themselves

@markwhittaker6866

4 жыл бұрын

Join the club. I bet your life is even better.

@justathought-hj3lz

4 жыл бұрын

Did anything change since 2 years ago?

I enjoyed this. Introverts unite baby

@SC-gp7kt

7 жыл бұрын

we rule

@wzupppp

7 жыл бұрын

that wont happen because we are introverts

@Mr_T.

7 жыл бұрын

Divided we stand, united we fall:)

@nia.d3356

7 жыл бұрын

na u guys go on a ahead , ive got a thing tonight

@jeremywhitfield4556

7 жыл бұрын

Me af

Thank you for this!! I can relate to this on so many levels. As a fit professional in the medical field, so many people wonder why I'm single. I see too many people that aren't truly happy or content being by themselves. Too many people jump from one relationship to another. Too many people don't take the time to be single and "alone" to experience the true magic of self discovery. I've always loved the quote, "I'd rather be alone for the right reasons, than stay with someone for the wrong reasons".

@tupaicindjeke275

7 жыл бұрын

It is because, alot of people (especially extroverts), have not overcome their emotional & belonging needs (by themselves) first. Why they always need to be around other people.

I prefer being alone if I've got nothing to say, I dont feel awkward when sitting next to some one and don't talk, I talk loads when I'm interested, small talk can be so boring.

@tomm2647

6 жыл бұрын

Although I don't like being alon too long

@MegaElderscroll

6 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry that your mom did not treat you right when you were a baby. People aren't born introverted. They just develop that way thanks to the parents raising or lack thereof.

@travishill3256

6 жыл бұрын

Cosa Mona stfu that is horse shit.

@bertwillis4832

6 жыл бұрын

tom m Same for me.

Every time im alone with an extrovert, i feel like i have to always say something or else theyll think im uninteresting or boring or something..and i realized by watching this that i shouldnt even care if they think that..if we have a conversation we will..if not..we wont.

@shellyskiles9520

4 жыл бұрын

Alexis, I totally get what you're saying. Alot of times I feel like I've got to talk so that people won't think I'm boring or strange. I don't like it.

Being an introvert makes me the worst at conversations with people and gets really awkward real quick, so instead of talking I think deeply about important stuff...

Interesting stuff, Travis! I've noticed that fitness and martial arts has actually helped me to break out of my shell and open up more socially.

@lockonstratos7787

6 жыл бұрын

fightTIPS did the opposite for me I got even further into my shell. Felt better working out or doing martial arts a lone.

@dennisvang402

6 жыл бұрын

I did not expect to see your comment here.

@robertschneider4568

6 жыл бұрын

good luck doing martial arts alone xD what about sparring? I would miss it

@BitOfUltraviolence

6 жыл бұрын

Socialising? That's unusual.

@takai611

6 жыл бұрын

Yea I’ve always been alone and socially awkward and introverted. I have friends, but want to be a little more social. I’m thinking of getting into martial arts.

Just because I'm alone, that doesn't make me lonely. Good video

@BusinessAndFitness

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@robbiehall9958

6 жыл бұрын

school shooter I agree. Better to be alone and content than to be the outward center of attention but internally lonely

@Repented008

6 жыл бұрын

Introverts tend to be abstract philosophical thinkers, which is why we tend to recharge in solitude. When we're not saying anything, it's usually because we're deep in contemplative, strategic or imaginative thought. We're the visionaries...the architects...the artists...the writers...the musicians...ect. I myself love to go for long walks on scenic routes because I find it stimulates my thought process. Never be ashamed of what you are.

@bertwillis4832

6 жыл бұрын

school shooter Exactly, people always assume that.

@mizukagematt1186

6 жыл бұрын

school shooter someone said it💯💯

Solitude is Bliss.

As a child, I was never bullied, or shy, or anything like that; I just enjoyed being alone. I would always exclude myself from other kids because I find zen in loneliness. Even now that I'm in university, I just workout, go to class, and think about life. It's something I enjoy.

Well said bro “ I considered myself very introverted “ u don’t need to have many people in your life to be happy but happy within yourself is the key

@BusinessAndFitness

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for stopping by !

There's no better thing than a quiet house when you reach home after a mind-blowing work day! It is simply relaxing to be on your own.

I'm a proud loner - introverted and loving my self made sanctuary. I have a loving husband, a beautiful son and the love of my mother and siblings. I am a doting aunt to my nieces and nephews - I spoil them and spend my time creating an interesting life for them. Unfortunately the majority of people outside of my immediate family have let me down, or use me for their own gain, or their friendships are transient. I do however keep in touch with two women professionals through messaging who I consider as lifelong friends. I volunteer as I have a caring nature especially with animals and humans who need care the most. This is how I'm naturally hardwired and I love myself and I love my life!

You basically nailed it with how many men feel. I tend to be alone for 3-5 years and then get into a serious relationship for 2-4 years. I'm 36, a scientist, a bodybuilder, runner, father, and I'm happy. I'm not picky about people but I don't open up to anyone unless there's a gradual relationship brewing or there's really good chemistry. I have 3 REAL friends that's better than having a multitude of mediocre friends. If you're my friend you're a real friend. I tend to keep quite. I have Ph.D chemical physics and think deeply about very technical fields like quantum mechanics, partial differential equations, and many realms of theoretical physics. I've yet to meet a female that has any of the same interest as me but one prerequisite is for a lady to have basic logic and independent thought. If I'm at church or at the park at 5 a.m. in the morning, I never tell people really anything about myself. There's no need. If they ask where I work I tell them at a university (as a administrative). Don't tell them I'm a teaching professor, especially at church. What I detest about current society is that everyone assumes that if you're not with someone that something is wrong with you. I don't even attempt to explain. I recently had one of my teaching associates ask me out on a date. I lied to her telling her that I was kind of seeing someone for the simple fact that I don't want to be with anyone right now. In addition, she's the type that clings on from relationship to relationship. I'm perfectly happy being by myself. Part of who I am and a great deal of happiness, stems from who I am. I'm happiest when I'm pushing myself. My happiness is not dependent on someone else. Yes, I'm alone but that doesn't mean I'm lonely. The ability to take in life, like a beautiful sunset, and have a deep appreciation that I'm alive to see such an event gives me contentment. Life is truly a gift and it's only when I take life for granted that I'm at low points in my life. I know, I'm happiest than most and for that I'm most grateful.

@BusinessAndFitness

7 жыл бұрын

+ErwinSchrodinger64 really appreciate this comment

@DieByMyHand1

7 жыл бұрын

LMAO you claim to be super intelligent yet you go to church?

@asifismail7812

7 жыл бұрын

So what makes Religion and intelligence the defining factor of being a person? Is religion not personal feeling and intelligence actual experience or thought thereof? Does it make a weirdo to stand and admire the flowers in your own garden?

@ErwinSchrodinger64

7 жыл бұрын

You're making a series of grave mistakes: 1.) I don't know whether I'm intelligent and frankly, I don't care whether anyone thinks that I am or not. Yes, I've had my I.Q. tested, it's approximately 140-145, however, I.Q. has little to no merit when you apply it to various metrics across the board of life and especially in science. The majority of people I was in graduate school and where I teach, I would say, surpass my intelligence. The only factor that has given me any edge is my tenacity to work hard (the primary reason why I don't have time for relationships). The ability to sacrifice and out work your competitors is a variable that is seriously undermined in today's society. So, no, I'm not sounding smart. You're the one that is making assumptions. Having a Ph.D does not make you smart and if I were you, I would stop making that assumption because by your comment you don't understand what it means to have a doctorate degree (doesn't mean your intelligent). 2.) When it comes to religion: yes, you're correct, there is an inherent logical absurdity in believing in religion (at face value) because most religions, at their central core, you can't prove their deitys as well. I will further validate, the primary reason I attend a non denominational church is because it's the church my parents raised me in (ie it's customary). To a large degree, the church I attend, the congregate don't even realize I believe the big bang, Darwinian evolution, and the majority of all science. However, in the end, the Christians I talk to, their motivation is not proving or disproving science, or attempting to increase member numbers, it's all about treating your fellow man with respect and helping (regardless of religious affiliation) and nothing more. On a personal note, if it wasn't for me attending my church in my youth, chances are I would of ended up like the majority of my now thug friends who didn't have the best of outcomes. Could I be an atheist and do the same, of course. So it's more customary and the degree of respect I have for the people I congregate with that bring any form of hope to more unfortunate individuals. So, your comment about all religious people not having any form intelligence is very generic and beyond elementary. 3.) I don't know your level of understanding of science (especially in quantum mechanics, general relativity, entropy, and so forth) but when you realize the insanity of the universe, any meaningful personal belief or objective understanding of reality (science) has serious limitations... even when accepting empirical evidence... the only logical conclusion based on our limited human comprehension of the universe is that the universe is the very definition absurdity.

@alexnezhynsky9707

6 жыл бұрын

ErwinSchrodinger64 But then how are you a father and alone?

Brb going to send this to EVERYONE telling me that I'm always alone and anti-social LMFAO

@BusinessAndFitness

7 жыл бұрын

+Daniel Emil Ussing please do share!

I like it. I'm a loner. More introvert than my friends but when I first see friends from loner spree I am actually more social. Be alone give me energy and having friends is a balance.

@bertwillis4832

6 жыл бұрын

Chaynber H Pretty much the same for me.

I am very lonely but kinda like it..people always say it is not normal and people are supposed to be social but i am really happy😺I hate talking, love being independent & learned how to deal with problems on my own. People in school think i am sick but many People can't understand some of us like being alone🤷‍♀️

@bertwillis4832

6 жыл бұрын

sal ly EXACTLY same here, people always think quiet people are shy or lonely when they're not. We just like to mind our own business while others are too focused on other people instead of themselves. Don't get me wrong I'm pretty chill, I just like being alone most of the time doing hobbies that I love.

your not alone you have us

It's hard to make being alone and an introvert and social awkward-ness sound positive in today's world. You did it :) Thank you.

I'm 72 an have always been a loner and I love it. I love people, just not always around me. If you are a loner and catching flack about it.....remember we did not all come here to experience the same thing...carry on!

I had a bad breakup 5 or 6 years ago and all our friends were bitching and being weird so I just left and haven't spoke to them since. I do like being alone but sometimes it's tough doing everything on your own.

It's hard being an introverted girl especially since I come from a family of extremely extroverted people. I felt like I was forced to be something I'm not and spent a lot of my early 20's partying and having meaningless connections. It wasnt until my baby brother passed away that I realized that in order to grieve properly I needed to be alone. And I spent a whole month at home alone really feeling all the hurt and pain of his loss. And it was then that I realized how much I missed just being with ME.

@katjerouac

6 жыл бұрын

Sorry about your little brother. But I must say it is one thing to soclude yourself completely and become cynical, and another to enjoy your own company, happily. Also remember, extrovertion and introvertion is a spectrum so some of your family might be more introverted but they seem very extroverted at times. I don't know if I understood you wrong in any of it but if I did, then nevermind.

@glitchinthematrix555

6 жыл бұрын

Nea Rose Rodriguez don’t sell out for society.

@BloodOnMars

6 жыл бұрын

Nea Rose Rodriguez Why do u miss him?

@JohnSmith-dk1mm

5 жыл бұрын

A whole month.. Wow.. *rolls eyes*

@JohnSmith-dk1mm

5 жыл бұрын

Plus the fact you mentioned you were a girl. Sorry abput the passing. But victim mode or what

Same here man. I love being alone. You get so much peace and quiet, you have everything all to yourself instead of having to share, you can be the king of your castle, and you can pretty much do whatever you want, whenever you want! :D

"Just because I'm alone does not make me feel like I'm alone" *Normies* will never understand this.

Solitude and Loneliness aren't synonymous.

@saulgarcia7083

6 жыл бұрын

Macent but slavery and civilization ARE!

@andrem4877

6 жыл бұрын

Solitude is a choice, loneliness a feeling :)

@Repented008

6 жыл бұрын

BOOM!!!!! You hit that nail dead on!

@TheTsugnawmi2010

6 жыл бұрын

Since you're already on google, why don't you look upwhat "synonymous" actually means, then google the defintions of loneliness and solitude.

@TheTsugnawmi2010

6 жыл бұрын

I never once insulted you. You are just projecting your behaviours on to me so you can justify your own rudeness. No one asked or cares how many languages you know. The fact that you're going on about them tells me you're very insecure about making mistakes in your grammar and I touched a nerve. Further evidence for this is that you're still pushing this narrative that I'm lonely when there's no evidence to suggest that. You just want something to throw at me that you hope will upset me the way I've upset you by correcting you on the defintion of words. Again, loneliness and solitude are not "literally the same words". The former is a reaction to the latter. It's the same as grief and bereavement. The former is a response to the latter.

I think we need a rich homie podcast! Love it! Us introverts have alot of love to give, but just need to find the right people to give it to

@hellokitty5817

7 жыл бұрын

Agreed! 👌

@sparklypinkleopard26

7 жыл бұрын

Agreed!!

@juschill7

7 жыл бұрын

No doubt. "Agreed" was already said. One word that comes to mind is " Authenticity" The quality of being authentic is one we can give our love to.

@dd2441

7 жыл бұрын

hey bae (actually trying to pickup at the comment section yeah that's me)

@t100base

6 жыл бұрын

yea right, you got a lot of head aches to give.

Don't pay attention to the views in this video because this was one of your best videos to date! In my opinion ;)

Haven't really had a bad breakup, but a definite loner. I think we all feel alone once in a great while, but in general, 95% of the time, I actually prefer to be alone. I always have. Video speaks volumes.

this video has been in my recommendations for like 8 months, I'm finally watching it youtube, you won

@BusinessAndFitness

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you ! I hope you stick around

Have you read "Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking?" It's a super good book!!!

@BusinessAndFitness

7 жыл бұрын

+Emily Berdy no but I will!

@zakrichardson4196

7 жыл бұрын

YES! So funny to have run into someone else who read that book thinking I was the only one!

@spaceoutmisfit1738

7 жыл бұрын

Same

@drewjt50

7 жыл бұрын

That's a really good book. Different cultures see introverts and extroverts differently. Both types of people have advantages and disadvantages in life. That book really helped me see the advantages of being an introvert.

@juschill7

7 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the recommendation. That will be my next book for sure.

Bro, i watched this whole video just nodding, this whole video was COMPLETELY relatable. 👍

@juschill7

7 жыл бұрын

It actually feels good to know I am not alone hahah. Pun intended

Anyone else feel completely content while they're alone but they've been alone for so many years that it is just now slowly starting to effect them?

@belle.ambrxs

5 жыл бұрын

Ledo Mc Same! Becoming antisocial.

@katenka_ana3997

4 жыл бұрын

Yep, dunno if that's so good..

@boxelder9147

2 жыл бұрын

Yep. It can get a bit scary

Good to see that there are like 99% of the comments that agree to this! Better alone than a bad company, as they say. No? People trash talk, and harm you in the end! That is it. Don't give a damn about these people. Nobody is your friend these days!

@bertwillis4832

6 жыл бұрын

Prince Sharma Very true, too much fake people and drama, better to just mind our own business instead of worrying about others and getting involved.

@mizukagematt1186

6 жыл бұрын

Robbie Willz 💯💯💯

@telayajackson2.023

6 жыл бұрын

I used to have 2 friends, now i just have 1. College friends go in a flash. That one friend doesn't even go to my college.

Tis better to be alone than to be with someone and wish you were alone..

I can definitely relate, I have been and introvert all my life and I always felt like I had to force myself to go out and be social just so I wouldn't have to be asked if something was wrong with me, when really I just enjoyed doing things on my own sometimes. My kids always worry about me being by myself once they graduate.. little do they know, I'm a pro at being alone. : )

@BusinessAndFitness

7 жыл бұрын

+Bertha Mesa :)

@michaeldavis8800

7 жыл бұрын

Bertha Mesa I can relate.....

I like being alone. But it scares me if I'll be like this for my whole life.

@leansephbishop4309

4 жыл бұрын

same

@cheothegeo2742

4 жыл бұрын

RandomSubject I’m ready. Fuck it. So be it

@markwhittaker6866

4 жыл бұрын

I love it let me tell you.

@Felhek

4 жыл бұрын

When you get old you will need help and attention. If you get sick or injured, you will need help and company and attention. These things are issues i always have present in my mind. It won't be easy when we get old and unable to go alone to the bathroom or take a shower or cook. ☹

@daone6340

4 жыл бұрын

@@Felhek yes it will with The Most High help He understand our situation it's hard to find loyal friends and a wife these days so be content either way

Imagine if there was a lone wolf gathering, i was just thinking how weird that'd be.

@lda1472

6 жыл бұрын

mario condello everyone just standing there staring at eachother lol

@sly1013

6 жыл бұрын

LD A1 lol😂

@Koeras16

6 жыл бұрын

Being a lone wolf does not mean you are socially incapable xD Just quite likely. As far I'm concerned it would be a gathering between human being. Whatever your temper, habits ethnicity etc is.

@bryanmclaughlin1048

4 жыл бұрын

We would form a wolf pack.

@ankitshakarwal9995

4 жыл бұрын

seems like a good idea

Yes! This was so on point. I also find that spending time alone teaches you a lot of stuff about yourself that you would never know if you spent every single waking minute with people!

@justingeorge7665

6 жыл бұрын

Valentina Esteban i would like to spend every waking moment with you....

@LethalKicks

6 жыл бұрын

what wrong with you?

@BloodOnMars

6 жыл бұрын

Valentina Esteban Please dont sit on my face.

@o0oStillWeRiseo0o

6 жыл бұрын

Valentina Esteban we need to be alone together baby

I'm a proud loner...but i still love people.

@saranagh7097

5 жыл бұрын

koban4max I Also am one PROUD loner...but I love Certain people.

@Felhek

4 жыл бұрын

People are children to me. I feel like a very old soul, like if i was on earth for thousands of years. So when i see other ppl i see children, young souls. Children with sharp knives

I’m an introvert and sometimes people just don’t understand why I don’t want hang out every weekend or have a girlfriend. I enjoy my own company and just like spending time doing things I want to do when I feel like doing it. Nothing wrong with that. Less stress, drama, and bs. More money saved too. #IntrovertNation

@yahyamaxwell3893

Жыл бұрын

Yeah man am here to introvert since i was 15 i realise it is better to be alone then to be in a bad company but it is also better to be in a good company then to be alone.

Being a loner is the best. No fake people in your life.

This is the best video you've made.

All my life I've been most comfortable being by myself. My profession forced me to open up somewhat, but I'm still perfectly fine being alone long periods of time.

I was 21 and recently in the the military. I won't forget those hot nights where I would go to the park alone with my music and begin my calisthenics journey. I'm in my late 20s now done with my enlistment and I'm still at it....... Let's go

personally I love to interact with people at work and at the gym, but when i go home, i prefere to be by myself. I dont really have the emotionally need to lean on others.

Really cool that this video is bringing a lot of people to the channel. Please subscribe while you are here! The intro song is : Me, Myself, and I - Omeo

@BharatinGermany

7 жыл бұрын

Subscribed! That was a wonderful video! Really liked the way you presented your thoughts. :)

@datdawg9291

7 жыл бұрын

Thats all about it dude sef acceptence and being naturally happy regardless of people validation and relationship, if you grasp for relationship or social life and believe it's gonna bring happiness you would be dead wrong because your whole happines would be about that person or friends and it wouldn't be sustainable, but if you are a naturally happy then there is nothing to worry about you can get people in to your life and if they leave, you will be just fine and still happy.

@ARedFiretruck

6 жыл бұрын

100% like me

@erich1070

6 жыл бұрын

Travis S Thank you for this gift. The first song reminds me of Post Malone.

@pupsalex

6 жыл бұрын

I just subbed and liked.Good stuff brother and all the very best.

I used to have my circle of friends back in my country, it was fun, but even with that I felt lonely. So sometimes friends cannot do miracles for you. I guess we are the way we are. Two years ago I met what i feel that will be my prettiest gf ever, although I hoped we would be together forevermore, reality just slapped my face, she just dumped me for silly reasons. Now I'm in my third year of engineering, no gf, no friends, tons of depressing and boring hw. Good thing is that I realized that I'm a loner, and I learned to feel good about it, I think loners appreciate more kind gestures from others, and when we met someone like us we can easily understand each other, thus become good friends. I want to state positive and I hope that after I get out of that shithole called college I will set my life back on trail. Let's stay positive guys, so much hardship can't be for nothing.

You're not a loner ,you have friends. whereas I have acquaintances :( anyway LOVED this video. You are one of the attractive introverts and the few that are positive. The fact that you accept being and introvert and loner and your happy is amazing. Gives me a lot of hope . The whole time in this video you were constantly happy and content, which is beautiful

I was a person that hated being alone. I liked to be with people. I was needy and always called them to check up on them. They took it for granted. They said I was too much and that they were not obligated to answer me. But everything changed with quarentine. Now,I love being alone. I learn to enjoy my own company. I don't disturb anyone so I don't get heartbroken. No drama, no problems. Human beings are hard to understand. I rather have a pet. People now miss me which is funny. They say why I don't call them anymore. I don't answer their call as well. I answer them when I want to. It's not a payback but I just do not feel like talking sometimes. I still talk with people but I cannot stay with them for too long. I feel tired. This quarentine was amazing for me. I'm happier with my new lifestyle. 😇

I'm trying to find that happy medium between being alone and being with people. I like being alone more but sometimes I get really fed up of doing things by myself. Just never really been any good at making friends so when I wanna do things with someone there is usually none to do it with so that kinda sucks but yeah I totally relate to this video.

@KingDayDayDay00

6 жыл бұрын

LightAndShapes I'm the same way. I'm lucky though since I met a lot of people through certain party scenes in the city so I just go to monthly events with basically the same people. Other friends will hit me up like once a month and that works for me too lol

i love being an introvert. i'm glad that i finally got around to watching this, seeing as i usually just watch the food vids, hahah!

@BusinessAndFitness

7 жыл бұрын

+elli aldrich :( makes me sad lol

@xxxman2225

7 жыл бұрын

Travis S : LIKE UR STYLE, MY MAN. 💪👍😎

I struggle some Myself, I am major introvert, alone at 50 no kids,or parents, family, friends. I just dont find most people interesting, or there not interested.

you gotta recharge your batteries, I feel the same way sometimes

Wow, this really resonates with me. I was actually very happy when I found out about the term introvert. Before I knew about the term people would just call me quiet and every time I felt like it was said with a negative connotation like something was wrong with me. But when I found out about the term introvert I realized that the way I act socially is actually normal and that a large amount of the population is like this. I think the hardest part about being an introvert is seeing (because we are good listeners and observers) all of the extroverts all of these groups interacting seamlessly and laughing and thinking to myself why can't I have that. But when I go back to my room I am content again, just happy to be the person I am because it reality myself is the only person who will be and has been with me for my entire life. I do love myself so I enjoy spending time by myself!

I'm an introvert person, I like being alone, and being alone makes me happy. I don't need fake people in my life. I walk alone, I run alone, I answer my own questions alone.

The introverted alpha is an omega. Omega is someone who doesn't need to lead or be lead by a pack. The lone wolf.

@dinololic5676

6 жыл бұрын

no, the introverted alpha is a sigma, omega's are outcasts, people who are deemed not good enough to be in the pack, ie the wolf who does not contribute in the hunt.

@gamecouch1554

6 жыл бұрын

Jaythan King Humans are a little more complex than wolves

@VivaMessico

6 жыл бұрын

omega is the kid who gets bullied in school. i dont think you mean that. a lone wolf is strong

@ariantaghdiri7937

5 жыл бұрын

@@VivaMessico ive always been a sigma

@VivaMessico

5 жыл бұрын

arian taghdiri I was an omega and a real loser till around 22. Always doing my own thing and mostly rejected by groups, but low confidence and thought there was something wrong with me. But at 23-24 I started to notice there is more in me, there is a huge fire burning inside me. At that point I knew I don't need "them". Now, at 28 I would say I'm a sigma too. I'm stronger mentally and physically, have become Self employed and doing very well, confident, don't give a shit about others. And I'm happier...

It is all about balance and not labeling yourself

I've been a loner for 25 years, my emotions at this point are numb. Occasionally I wake up with a sickening feeling of painful desire for human affection. But if you are like me this can't be changed. It is my defense mechanism and it works almost subconsciously. I hate what I've become as a person, I think of the life I could've had if I weren't so damn weird. At a certain point it's worth just giving up on people an ensuring self preservation.

I do enjoy meeting my friends and family, but 90 % of the time I'm alone. And I love it!

As I grow up in schools, I've learned that being alone is hard to go through. The thing is, for me, I'm currently going through some friendship issue. And the only solution that I could possibly think of is to be a lone wolf for now or for a while. Maybe being quiet is good for me, back then I'd get good grades because I'd be quiet instead of talking to others like I'm doing right now as a Freshmen. I believe I've learned something from this video, and that is find or do something that makes you who you are. Thank you!

Where are all the introverts? Inside watching KZread videos at half past midnight #yupppp

@TXMadep214g

6 жыл бұрын

April 🙋‍♀️

@BloodOnMars

6 жыл бұрын

Ur my month ;]

@telayajackson2.023

6 жыл бұрын

Yep, I do that.

@telayajackson2.023

6 жыл бұрын

BloodOnMars She's my month, too.

@jessekirksey1980

5 жыл бұрын

Lol I do this

I actually prefer being alone, being with other people makes me feel uneasy.

"I almost need to be by myself to be able to be social" most relatable shit ive heard in a while

Im a loner but I have God and sometimes thats all I need honestly

This completely hits home for me! I went through a break up where I was told I'm not social enough therefore I'm not interesting to talk to etc. Just constant reasons why I wasn't good enough when there was nothing wrong with me in that regard. It's just how I am. I love my alone time, I love time in very small groups of close friends, and then, on occasion, I'm completely up and excited for larger social gatherings. I also went through a period after where I was constantly social and it truly helped me grow as a person and understand myself so much better. It even helped recharge friendships I let dwindle a bit after college. Heartbreak sucks but can lead to good things in the end. Glad you were able to find the good in your breakup too. :)

I love being an introvert but not during summer.

Definitely needed to hear this, working on being more okay with being who i am and not what others want me to be👍

Solitude is an introvert's best friend. Love this vid.

Love this one. I can relate so much to everything you said. I still struggle a lot with self-acceptance but it's something I've been working on lately.

Omg this is what I needed to hear! A person that means a lot to me just call me weird because I don't have friends , I'm very capable to have but I chose not to ,I'm content with myself , he's the opposite and probably think I'm from another planet , it really hurts my feeling to the point I though something was wrong with me . Thank you so much for sharing this!!💕

@BusinessAndFitness

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching !!

@gabrielarincon1454

6 жыл бұрын

He's basically telling me that if I don't chance we probably going to break up, idk what to do

@BusinessAndFitness

6 жыл бұрын

Tell him CYA LOSER

@gabrielarincon1454

6 жыл бұрын

Travis S love it! Thank you so much!

You hit the nail on the head, it's all about finding that right balance. It's strange yet comforting when someone so far away feels the same way I do.

Cool to see so many people kinda like me embracing their introverted self.

IMHO introverts have a great internal retrospective, and therefore ability to change. I used to be like you, and I've learned how to switch into extravert mode. Was hard and took a lots of time & effort, but now I'd say I'm more extraverted than introverted. It's great to have those two sources of energy :D I'd even care to say that introverts make terrific extraverts haha. Cheers!

You are not alone. We are behind you all the way

"To be truly happy, you have to know how to be content being alone, being by yourself. You cannot be dependent on one person to complete you". Agreed 100%! Cheers to you and all the lone wolves of this world! Because we are game changers, despite what society says. We will do it our way, and what's best for us in order to lead a fulfilling and happy life.

I feel the same way, always thought I needed to socialize more and "step out of my comfort zone". Yet it always felt wrong when I did go to more social gatherings. This video really opened my view to how I know I'm content alone and shouldent let others influence what makes me, "me".