Honestly the independence you get from living alone is so nice and being able to make your place your own

@simplyjaserah

8 ай бұрын

Omg I’m looking forward to that so much!!! Time to be a big girl 😅😅

@shaatrozan9763

8 ай бұрын

@@simplyjaserahyou are stunning Mashallah keep going May I know from where did u get ur scarf love the color please let me know love from California ❤

@samuelrigaud6595

8 ай бұрын

Haram.

Coming from Europe and being a revert I never understood why people feel guilty “leaving” their parents and moving out. They are adults who will be just fine! Thy should want the best for you and your growth. Honestly, I imagine some parents might also want to experience being kids-free in the house again in their older age. As long as they are not needing your assistance due to illness, there should be absolutely nothing wrong with moving away as an adult! I feel like so often it’s limiting people and not letting them experience life for themselves and be truly self reliant

After over 12 years as a registered nurse, I decided to quit two years ago. It was a difficult choice, but life is too short to be dreading coming to work every day. True happiness cannot be purchased with money. But, friends, I'm not telling you to quit your work or close your business; rather, be wise!

@hillaryvasquez9651

8 ай бұрын

You're right ma'am, were you a bedside nurse and how did you plan yourself before quiting

@bashirauwal5825

8 ай бұрын

I prepared for early retirement while still in the service, earning about 2k per week from my investment portfolio while striving to build new side hustles and extra income

@hillaryvasquez9651

8 ай бұрын

Wow impressive!! you're making quite a fortune, speaking of investing I've heard about it but I don't really know how to start and make a good investment Share more info please

@bashirauwal5825

8 ай бұрын

There's a lot of investing options real estate, stocks, crypto, ETFs but my best advice get a professional lead you into profitable one and make good financial decisions

@albertcharles4415

8 ай бұрын

So true that's a great idea. An expert will help you make the best decisions about investing. I can't just hope on my 9_5 job, I do more to earn $$ everyone should too

Good luck. It's very proud to see independent women from our community out there make their way in life.

How courageous of you Jaserah! May you find peace and happiness!❤

First of all congratulations for making two such big decisions, that's some real courage right there!! Second of all, i get you that sometimes girls are shamed for not being married and when they try to move out blah blah ,. just don't feel guilty or ashamed of that. You can still do a whole lot for your parents even when you're not living with them. And i hope this new beginning brings lots of happiness, guidance, peace, success and comfort to you by Allah, Ameen. I'm so excited to see your new content in your new home, Jaserah's Home !! 🫶🏻🫶🏻♥️♥️♥️✨✨✨

@simplyjaserah

8 ай бұрын

Omg thank you so much for ur kind words of encouragement!!! Ameen

Heyyy Jaserah congratulations and can’t wait to see what the future holds for you. May Allah bless you with all that’s good in this life and here after.💕

U seem so happy. Definitely will be watching on your new future!!!💞💞🙃💞💞

Goodluck to you duas. Can’t wait to see ur new home xx

OMG! I've been having the same thought (quitting my corporate job) for the past year and your video resonates with me sooo much! I pray that Allah makes this journey fruitful and puts lots of kheyr and baraka hun!

@simplyjaserah

8 ай бұрын

Omggg it’s truly one of the most difficult decisions in life financially and emotionally!! I pray the best outcome for you!!

I’m so glad you shared this! I’m also in my 30s and not married and I want to move out.. but I have the same guilt of leaving my parents behind(even though they encourage me and think it will help me grow)… I think part of me thinks that maybe I’ll move and then just end up alone! Or what about my parents. Lol I’m not sure what it is and where these fears come from?? Then I’m like if I rent I’m wasting money but if I own then I’m risking a lot(house are expensive in my area). But excited to follow and get inspiration from your journey!

@simplyjaserah

8 ай бұрын

I felt all of those emotions and sentiments too!!! I did a lot of istekara and it gave me ease and direction towards my decision!

Excited for you!!!

Amazing so happy for you!! 💕 😊

Congratulations on moving out and starting this next phase in life! May Allah make it easy for you :) I also moved out on my own (33 yrs old too) just this past summer and 100% understand the guilt part. However, looking over the past few months I think it helped me appreciate my parents more now than ever and it improved our relationship for the better. I still feel guilt, but getting an apartment close by (i still live in the same city) helped me get over the guilt. I'm around when they really do need me and I always make sure to see them at least once a week, or every other week and actually do things with them like going out to eat, watching a movie etc. It helps to call them at least every few days just to check in or talk about my day too. I still have my room at my parent's house too and try to stay there during the weekends when my schedule allows it. It definitely gets better with time! Alhamdulillah for supportive parents

@simplyjaserah

8 ай бұрын

Ahh this is so helpful and encouraging!! Thank you for sharing!! I’m hoping for the same experience 🥹💕

You have always been an online big sister to me, you are doing amazing. I can sense how emotionally it has impacted you in making these life long decisions. But you are doing the right thing, sometimes your job just doesn't serve you anymore and you are better off leaving to understand what other life opportunities are there for you to discover. Good luck with the house move, may allah bless you in your journey ❤😢

@simplyjaserah

8 ай бұрын

That’s sooooo kind 🥹💕 thank you so much!!

Congrats!!! I know a few girls who moved out as well ( desi) and are loving it ! You will do great! I am guessing you will do fulltime blogging as the next career or continuing that career and making that your focus?

I’m so happy for you girlie in your new season of life. Mashallah you are doing amazing for yourself. Whatever you’re feeling is normal but remember your breaking through generation cultural barriers that are engrained in us naturally. May Allah bless you ! Tabarak Allah ❤

@simplyjaserah

8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much love!!

As Salaamu Alaikum. I definitely understand the guilt feelings, for me it was more of missing my family and feeling sad for the first few months of moving out. I was 25 when I did. The last week before I did, I found myself just staring at them and my favorite parts of the house, like I was trying to create mental copies. In the long run, and fast forward to today, I'm 39, it was truly a very rewarding thing. I learnt soo many new life skills and the appreciation for my parents has just gone up notches. At the end of the day, family is everything and family is where the heart and home are. May Allah bless you immensely on this new journey, and place immense Barakah in all of your endeavors. Aameen.

@GalaxyisAmazing

7 ай бұрын

do you live alone? how do you find it?

You’re honestly glowing, the happiness is shining through!!! 🤩 I wanted to ask, what major did you do in college? I have been so lost on what I want to do w life/ my major so I’m considering all avenues right now 🫶🏼

So beautiful, I’m happy for you

Love that for you!! So inspiring

@simplyjaserah

8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Mirna!!

Glad you’re just leasing because this way it’s just a trial basis. If you’re already finding it hard and keep coming home, maybe that’s the better place for you. There’s no shame in leaving but also no shame in admitting that home is home and you made a mistake and changed your mind. Give it a few months and then reevaluate.

Power of Duah alhamdulielah. Hopefully, the feeling of guilt will ease fast so you can fully embrace this next chapter. If not now, then when.

Congratulations! May Allah bless this new chapter of your life with endless barakah, Ameen! 🤍

Can’t wait for the travel vlogs!!

@simplyjaserah

8 ай бұрын

Yay!!

@simplyjaserah

8 ай бұрын

Yay!! I’m so excited to share my experience in Korea and Palestine!!!

Did you say you are going to korea in November? Also, All the best with your new chapter Jaserah, I wish you all the happiness ❤

I just finished University and now I'm job hunting while staying with my family and most job opportunities seem to be in other cities but the thought of living on my own without family at 22 is really scary for me. I hope watching your journey will make it less scary. Thank you for always sharing your life with us and inspiring us 💖💖💖

Such a brave move on your part on leaving your job of 10 years and moving out! I have a similar story of moving out after I turned 30 and also went through a divorce after a short Nikkah… I can resonate with all the sentiments of guilt and apprehension and fear of ending up alone.. I think we’re so used to prioritizing others that we forget to think about ourselves. Insha’Allah the next ventures in your life bring more barakah and success 🥰 💕

@simplyjaserah

8 ай бұрын

Exactly!!! Thank you! 💕

Learning to live alone is a really good skill if you are able to do it.

Second missed youuuu

So exciting! Congratulations ❤. And yes I completely understand where you’re coming from. I come from the same culture (Pakistani) and being a girl especially oldest daughter/sibling, it’s so hard to make moves like such 😭. So much guilt and worry. But we have to remember to prioritize ourselves too. 😢 for how long will we keep sacrificing our wants/desires or needs. Anyways, I’m so looking forward to your next content. I really want to move out as well but it’s hard with being a student and not being stable enough to do so. But I’m really tired of living with my family now, I need time and space to myself. Please make a little dua for me 🥲. May Allah bless and reward you. May this new journey be easy and full of success and blessings for you 🤲🏽💕✨

Hi Jaserah, thank you for making this video! I’m a corporate girlie too - I’m turning 33 in 2 months, unmarried, and also live at home. I’ve been thinking about moving out for the past couple of years but exactly the same as you previously - just felt like it wasn’t right to. Well done for having the courage to do so - it sometimes feels like you’re alone in these circumstances, but it’s nice to see a beautiful young lady going through the same thing and handling it with such elegance and grace. Thank you again for sharing this. Wishing you every happiness & success in your new place insha’Allah. I can’t wait to see it 🥲🥰😘❤️

@simplyjaserah

8 ай бұрын

Aww I wish you the best on your journey!! Although this was difficult, I am excited for the growth this will allow me! Hoping the best for you!

MashaAllah sister Jaserah is back vlogging! I missed you a lot! I just feel like shorts and reels aren't enough lol... Alhamdulillah you got your own place and you seem very happy with what's been going on with your life and that makes us happy too. We will always support you. What a sweet message at the end of the vid. May Allah SWT always guide and protect you. For sure there will be so many blessings coming along your way. We love you! All the best always!🩵

@simplyjaserah

8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!!! That means a lot! Ameen! Yaay so excited to share this new chapter with you all 💕

Masaallah you're finally at this stage at your life where you can be totally independent.may Allah's blessings be with you . Where are you livin rn .country?

Congratulations!!! How did you get yourself to a financial space where you were able to retire? Looking to retire early as well so I’d love to learn!!

@simplyjaserah

8 ай бұрын

Lots and lots of saving!! I also had 2 jobs essentially that allowed me to quit earlier in life!

@shakz_9118

8 ай бұрын

Retire is not having to work Ever again? So im confused at Jaseras age shes already retiring. Or is that an American thing of leaving a job for good?

Congrats! I think therapy would be an excellent tool to discuss and work through your emotions in this chapter of your life. Speaking from experience! Especially a Muslim therapist

Assalamu alaikum mashallah beautiful sharing Sister Allah pak apko aor apki family ko slamt rkhy Ameen Sum Ameen 🤲🤲

MachaA Allah my sister

May you find your other half soon Jaserah! I wish that his heart is pure and he will be a devoted husband to you and will be a real follower of Allah. May you find him soon!

Jaserah I am so glad you are doing well, I was wondering what happened to you, and wanted to reach out and connect actually. Congratulations on quiting your corporate role, InshaAllah the next role brings you further into your purpose. I'm so excited for your upcoming travels, especially Palestine, wish I was coming with! Also why did you move out, if you plan to travel so much? Of course I fully support your new lifestyle, I am all for growth! Salamo Alakykom

@simplyjaserah

8 ай бұрын

Thank you for your concerns 🥹💕 the travels and move coincidently lined up at the same time but inshallah I plan to be more still come December!

I know u glad ur moving nothing like ur own place insha Allah u get married soon 😊

Ur so inspiring 😊lol

Congratulations may Allah Bless you on your journey

@simplyjaserah

8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!!! Ameen!

Heavan incha Allah my sister

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Aww beautiful may Allah grant you ease in every step you take… may he grant u happiness and put your heart at ease wherever you go in life… you got this girl ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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How come sister you have such a large family and still unable to find a better half? Insha allah, May Allah unite you with your better half soon ❤

Only one thing comes to mind when mentioning Cabo. Shanquella Robinson. May she rest in peace. Be careful who you hang out with.

Iam Hassan From Morocco my sister

Wooow mashallah How old are you?

whatever you wish to Do allah help you with it.

there are no norms if its halal and you can handle it what are you even saying? I am divorced single mom living with my mom because I am not financially or mentally capable at this point but maybe when I am 60 I will take the jump too... we are all different levels of stability and mental competence not everyone is able to do what you're doing

😮😮 ur 33

@simplyjaserah

8 ай бұрын

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