“I stopped keeping friends that I like, and started keeping friends that like me” THIS ! ALL OF THIS !

@nowthen3638

4 жыл бұрын

A word!

@thatssoblessing

4 жыл бұрын

thefashionceesta yes!!! Such a word!

@mikaderisca8185

4 жыл бұрын

All of it! 💃

@hi-xd8wk

4 жыл бұрын

🙌🏾

@Annge2078

4 жыл бұрын

Oh Yeah !

“I don’t want to be liked, I want to be loved.” Say that Sophia ❤️

“Because I love my kids.. that I haven’t given birth to yet” I felt that, generational curses is so real and it definitely stops with me.

“As an adult , everyday is not gonna be your day . “ I felt that so hard 😩 this is soooooo true omg

@debrajames6316

4 жыл бұрын

Life is for the living. People are so filled with envy, they will come to work just to destroy your esteem!. I am living my life regardless of the hate and envy.

Don't let people's opinions of you make you forget God's opinion of you. He loves you. He'll always love you. I remember when you spoke your current life into existence 2 years ago. I'm always happy to see you thrive regardless of opposition. You got this girl!

@carlitiamotton

4 жыл бұрын

Screenshot for sure👑✨

Protect your relationship!! The most important thing that I've learned when it comes to being in a serious relationship, is to keep it private.

@majestic1151

4 жыл бұрын

Spot on , i definitely learned my lesson

@katlegomhlauli8423

4 жыл бұрын

Happy=Lola thank you... every time I say this my friends think am paranoid but it’s facts!

@TheTishaVintage

4 жыл бұрын

Katlego Mhlauli same! but now i don’t care it’s my relationship and my family to be so i’ll be as private as i want

@modernwomanTv

4 жыл бұрын

yes truly did show my now husband on social media or to some people till we got married this past weekend. Spiritual, emotional, physical and financial covering is essential, social media clouds it

@MissTracyyy223

4 жыл бұрын

@@katlegomhlauli8423 yesss

Listen young lady, you and anyone your age who shares your mindset is on the path to greatness. I’m a 42 year old woman who didn’t have your mindset at your age. I teach children for a living and I pray that my interaction in their lives help them to develop and mature in a way to support their lives and goals for success. You can’t please all people. Do what’s pleasing to God. Period.

yes. I'm determined to break generational curses. The cycle stops with me. I enjoy your spirit and thanks so much for sharing your life I know it gets hard sometimes. Girl I'm on a journey myself of not forcing things in my life realizing who loves and respect me and those that don't, does not hold a place in my life.

@_.CHI._

3 жыл бұрын

Amen ✨

My husband and I were really close friends throughout high school, then around 23 we started dating and got married 3 years later. Friends first really make the best relationships!

@NattyB_onTuby

4 жыл бұрын

My husband and I were bestfriends for year we got married and I think we should have stayed bestfriends

@nonameface4886

4 жыл бұрын

Natalie B that can happen too, why do you feel that way?

@NattyB_onTuby

4 жыл бұрын

@@nonameface4886 honestly we lacked passion in our relationship. I think we have always treated one another like friends. If that makes since

@ontheedge9708

4 жыл бұрын

@Natalie B I'm not sure if your gonna see this but I appreciate your reply b/c I'm literally going thru this RIGHT NOW. I'm in school and my parents don't want me to start dating again (I'm 19..) b/c they want me focus on college. I'm just nervous bc I just met this guy and I doubt he abouta wait a whole 2 years for me to finish school. Idk what to do.. Or how to feel 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

@leabeauty837

4 жыл бұрын

One way doesn't fit all, as I personally couldn't get with a friend

“You’re gonna run into a lot of takers when you’re a giver” girlllll! Story of my life! I an EMPATH and I totally understand you. I have given so much they have literally left me dry and for dead!!!! I HAVE NO FRIENDS. People scare the heck out of me-God have mercy! Sophie darling, do whatever is best for you! At the end of the day, it’s all up to you. YOU leave the legacy behind, not anyone else. And as for generational curses, you are totally right! I am so happy your are already enlightened on this topic- you have decided to break the pattern before it sips on to the next generation. I am super proud of you! I pray they God continually covers you and everything that concerns you. May your expectations never be cut short and May you love the life God He purposes for YOU. Sending you lots of love! ❤️

@nnekavanessa3005

4 жыл бұрын

Yvonne Vixen we the same sis sorry about that though

@herplace1

4 жыл бұрын

Sis I felt this. I'm an empath and went through the same thing of not having friends and not trusting people. Last year I manifested and kept saying I want a genuine friendship..... I finally have it. I met another woman who is also an empath and we connected on another level.... it was like me seeing myself. I finally found a friendship where someone knows how to recipocate and not take. You will find a genuine friend. I'm speaking this into existence for you. Sending you good energy and postive vibes.

@westendsweetheart

4 жыл бұрын

Omg!!!! Yes people scare me so bad!!!! I pray for a genuine friendship all the time but I really think I’m fine being alone:/

@opinionatedgen5893

4 жыл бұрын

Yvonne Vixen I felt every bit of this💜

@Vixentopnotes

4 жыл бұрын

Nneka Vanessa Suss! It’s tough out on these streets for empaths but God literally blesses us for the love we put out! So continue to be you and watch things work in your favour! But, take time out for self care! ❤️

The "I WILL CALL THEM WICKED" took me out. Sis is Nigerian🙌🏽🇳🇬😂😂❤💕

I’ve been subscribed to you for *YEARS.* You have this aura about you that is genuine and lovely. You are very relatable; this life update alone shows that. You are a true inspiration. We have so much in common! I love watching you grow as a person and succeeding. Keep being amazing, beautiful.

@ErinJ7

4 жыл бұрын

Glow Bitty Agreed!

I’m at a crossroad in my life, with dropping everything and everyone who is going to hold me back from my success and destiny. I’m scared so so scared. And I’ve been giving excuses to keep them. Sophia after watching your video I cried after hearing your story. God was speaking to me in that very moment and I know the decision I have to make. I’m currently in a situationship with someone and your girl is tiiiiiiiired. Sis I’m walking away from it all! the toxic parents, the self doubt EVERYTHING! I just know I’m going to be the biggest success story! Thank you Sophia 💕

@MarissaJOAT

4 жыл бұрын

Abigail Asamoah pray sis you got this 💕

@opinionatedgen5893

4 жыл бұрын

Abigail Asamoah I’m rooting for you, 👑💜

@soothingsounds9143

4 жыл бұрын

Don’t be scared, everything will work out. Positive vibes to you ☺️

This pink outfit and blonde hair thou 😍😍😍😍😍I learned so much today.Thank you🙏🏾🙏🏾😊

@APTTMHYforever

4 жыл бұрын

Yaaaaassss!!! I need that outfit in my life💞

Such a well spoken young woman. I’m just here gaining so much insight 😭😭😭

@debrajames6316

4 жыл бұрын

She is glowing, for she is a responsible woman. She is taking accountability for her happiness.

The school part is exactly me. When my close friend passed, I tried to complete the semester - just dropped two classes but still failed out. I never went back. It's been a year and a half and I only have 14 hours left and everyone is like "You're so close" like yeah, but I'm not in the head space. BUT now I'M ready to go back and finish on MY own terms. So I'll be going back to finish this fall because I'M ready to.

@katiarayanna

4 жыл бұрын

Omg !!! This Happened To Me Back In September She Passed, I Decided To Not Go To School Hated That School Anyway. I Decided To Do My CNA School But I Couldn’t Drop Out, She Knew How Bad I Wanted To Be A CNA. School Rn Is Very Unmotivating. I Juss Needa Change My Environment. I’m Working On It !!

"Your destiny belongs to God but it is yours". So sweet💜 Amen.

Omg I needed this video ! I grew up in a strict Haitian family and I was told the only way to succeed was to go to school. But I realized school isn’t for me and it isn’t for everybody . I felt like I was the only person that felt this way. Thank you so much 💜💜

@DaGoodVybe

4 жыл бұрын

Sarah Calixte GURL I AM HAITIAN AND SIS😭😭 "say it again!"

@jemeisha2013

4 жыл бұрын

🗣Petit, pale!

Sis we love long videos🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽, I can’t believe you’re only 22. You’re wise beyond your years. 2020 is your years and generational curse will be broken. Life and death is in the power of your tongue 🙌🏽

"I'm not looking to be liked, I'm looking to be loved" periodt!

"Its about Showing up even when I don't feel like it". I felt that so much. This talk was definitely needed. Thank you so much Sophiology.💜

The “you’re so close” message was for me. Being close means nothing if it’s not right !

When you learn how to love people from a distance! That’s only something God can give you and help and heal you through. I’m such a giver and I give to much to those whom I love... but God! Been there and done that. I gave up a lot of people to save me.

@MarianaNgombo

4 жыл бұрын

🙏🏾

I sooooo love Sofia, she inspire me so much. I don't even watch"you tubers" but she is so much more. My mother went back to college and finished here degree at 46 and she is now 48 working on her Masters. She withdrew when she was in her 20s, so don't let anyone dictate or try to make you feel guilty about YOUR life, love you from down the street in Dallas ♥️♥️♥️🥰

Sis you hit it right on the nail with the “so close” I left after two years too and I can’t tell you how many people has said this to me. People love to try to dictate others life. Continue to let God guide you ❤️

@yourcupoftea5066

4 жыл бұрын

Hello beautiful....New subbie😊 support bk plz💗

@DaGoodVybe

4 жыл бұрын

Uniquely Rae Topics let's support each other‼️

@iamnakeida5858

4 жыл бұрын

Uniquely Rae Topics hey girly ! I subscribed back 💕

@iamnakeida5858

4 жыл бұрын

Da Good Vybe subscribed💕

@yourcupoftea5066

4 жыл бұрын

@@DaGoodVybe just supported you

Do whatever God has placed on your heart! You live for Him & nobody else! 💕

Sophia, this was such an amazing video. I loved every second of it. Keep doing you, girl, and keep being amazing. 🤍

@JaDaisaRenee

4 жыл бұрын

Oh wow it’s weird to see you in the comments❣️❣️ I love youu🥰🤗🤗

Ah, as you mention “showing up even when I don’t feel like it”... it hits me that I have to wake up in 3 hours to get ready for my 7AM shift 😂😩 BUT I’MMA GO! The time spent watching this video was so worth it and very motivating, I needed this. I LOVE YOU!

@bintabarry9237

4 жыл бұрын

Lea as long as I’m not the only one who does that 🤣🤣

I loved this video, I dropped out of college over two years ago now. I genuinely couldn’t stand living with boys and one other girl & also I couldn’t stand being away from my family and being blocked out of whatever they was celebrating doing etc. & I prayed about it and it’s been the best decision I’ve made to this date. I’m working full-time and working on my goals day by day 💕✨.

With all of the negativity & toxicity of the world, this video was a breath of fresh air. I saw so much of myself in everything that you stated. The only difference is I haven’t received my King yet, but I am certain God is working on him. But with me being African as well, everything resonated. Your life belongs to God & to YOU. You always have to do what’s best for you. As long as you keep God first, everything else falls in line. You’re on a beautiful journey. I peeped the staring at the hand 👀 I can’t wait until the big question & the next life update. Keep being you & keep being DIFFERENT 💕 God’s blessings upon you always.

I seriously feel like we are going through such a similar phase in life & hearing someone else talk about it is an eye opener for me. I have gone through so many tribulations with my parents & what they want for me. I was disregarding how I feel to please them for no other reason than they are my parents. No more! I recently moved to a whole new state leaving everything behind, school, “friends”, toxic relationships, everything & I have found that I am so much happier doing things for myself and not trying to impress anyone. At times I have my doubts, but I will do school and life on my terms and regardless of what happens I will be happy and successful & most importantly pleasing to God which is the only thing that really matters. I know you will too sis, we got this with no fears of failure whatsoever!!!

@katp9901

4 жыл бұрын

Danielle Fedrick yesssss!!!!

I can definitely relate to the school side; I dropped this semester because I realized I was doing it just to have a degree and make my mother proud; but I was investing mad money on something I wasn’t happy about so I decided to open my business instead of spending on that. I’m not going to lie it feels weird lol... I’m the last child and all my siblings have they degrees, but I’m not following nobody. I’m proud of you sop 😍

@debrajames6316

4 жыл бұрын

I understand, make your own path. In the end, you will feel confident in your courageous efforts.

I’m in a Bad girls club roommate situation and it is honestly draining. Going home to my parents would be even more draining. I have officially decided to get an apartment by myself! I realized that if I want to be happy and comfortable I need to make the change. I’m a little nervous about the money aspect but With prayer and saving this coin I know it will turn out well. It’s comforting to see someone who has in this same situation and come out on top. ❤️

This video touched my heart in so many ways. I’m 25 and a single mom. I have a pretty decent job. But I’m so unhappy there. I dislike it so much that it affects every aspect of my life and pray to god for purpose and what to do next. I’m so close to 30 and Idk what I’m doing in life. Thank you I’m gonna really sit back and reflect on this video and my life.

@danielle4062

4 жыл бұрын

A Woman’s Walk God has a plan for your love. Everything you’re doing In this present moment has a greater purpose. Continue to pray and seek God. It’s only a season

@daniellemckee180

4 жыл бұрын

Sis I’m the same age and a single mom we in the same boat. We got this tho!

@awomanswalk2924

4 жыл бұрын

💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾 thank you ladies 🙏🏾

If you’re not already doing this. I think you should have certain key words blocked. Protect your energy ❤️. Completely feel you. I go back and forth with social media as well.

I had to make sure that “PERIOD” wasn’t my thoughts aloud 😂

Ok, so I commented& liked before actually watching, now that Ive watched it.. wow. Being one of the few who were here from the beginning ( and I mean the VERY beginning) I am so proud of the way you've grown & the way you do everything with grace and class. God can 100% be seen in & through you! Keep going Soph!

I’m so happy for you and pray that all you want happens for you. You bring out the best content and I’m so happy to have an inspiration like you as a Nigerian girl who’s going through life!

Love that you’re firm with the choices you want for your life and are in a position to do so. Many people are not able to do what they really want because of “circumstances” . 2020 is our year and we’ll work for it too 💕

Awww Sophia 🥺 I’m so happy you’re doing well & that life is coming full circle for you. Keep doing what you’re doing sis cause we’re praying for you ❤️

The part about school brought me to tears, you can’t imagine. Especially being so close, story of my life. Thank you for this video ❤️

God knows how much I needed this video 😭😭😭😭😭😭 love you Sophia ❤️❤️❤️

I'm just so happy to see Sophia genuinely happy it's always great to see God send people blessings

you're sooo well spoken! enjoyed the update! you look beautiful !💖🙏🏾

Wow, Thank you for sharing this to us. It is really important to know what you want, what you like, and who you want to be. I am glad you found your path!! Because is not easy.

My heart is filled with so much love after watching this! So proud of your journey and growth its been incredible and thank you for always being you and letting us in! You are truly an inspiration Soph! Love and light to you and yours, - Love OG Subbie from Australia xx

"Showing up when you don't feel like it" Wow! This video was for me! So much resonated with me. Thank you so much!

I was just thinking about you the other day then boom, a life update video! My heart is warm seeing you so happy ✨

I love you!!! This video was everything! I love how transparent you are! It was so cute how you looked at your finger when you said “something big in the making”! I’m so proud of you! And happy for you!!! You got this! Keep being awesome! 💞💗

You have a beautiful soul. So genuine. Girl I was really contemplating dropping out of school because my mental health was suffering. I pushed out my grad date and I’m working at my own pace because my mental health comes first. I love this, I love you for being you! 🤍🌸

I LOVED THIS ENTIRE VIDEO 😍😍😍 I feel so much closer to you and can relate to you so so so much!! I’m very happy for you and I know this video struck something within the hearts of everyone who watched it.

This was a great video and very inspiring. Sometimes when we are going through things it's influencers like you that gives us hope to keep pushing because if you can make it through it, we can. Keep opening up with us on your own accord. Letting people in is not easy whether you're on a platform or not and for those of us that love you understands. Thank you for always being you.

@MarianaNgombo

4 жыл бұрын

Yess

I’m really glad that you’re blushing just talking about him that’s so cute

You’re amazing! Thank you for sharing what you feel comfortable with, it means a lot to us ❤️ “It’s stop with me!” Amen girl, that’s a word!

A WORD. This entire video.

I am SOOOO happy for you and your new positive life! I’ve been a subscriber for YEARS and watching the growth is inspirational!

"I don't want to be liked I want to be loved"!!! 15:30 I felt that. I've been watching you for 2 years now & it's so refreshing b/c you inspire me so much. Thanks for sharing.

I JUST LOVE YOU GIRL!YOU ARE BLESSED!!

Amen Sophie... I'm such a giver too... And it has hurt me so much in the past... And this year I adopted a policy of 50/50... if I give you must give back just as much as I gave you.... I'm tired of that I'm stronger now

@debrajames6316

4 жыл бұрын

It's time to live realistically!!. Life is not 50/50 nor is marriage. Life will never be fair. Never expect life to be fair for you will wait for an eternity. Facts . When you meet someone and they are a user, back off. Dont give to get. Best wishes to you.

Thanks for being so open with us I know it’s hard with the way social media is these days. But I appreciate your transparency ❤️❤️❤️

This was beautiful! You’re beautiful (inside and out sis). Thanks so much for being vulnerable with us ❤️ I hope you have an amazing 2020, you deserve it!

The way she looked at her hand at the end omg I love her. I lost all my inspiration for my channel I was in such a dark place but watching this I'm not alone and I cant let others continue to make me feel like nothing. With God anything is possible. Thank You, Soph.

You’re hands down my favorite KZreadr. Your energy, personality, and brain is just amazing to say the least and not to mention you’re very beautiful! You’re also very relatable and genuine ! I’m so happy that you are in a better and happier place in your life 😍😍😍😍

Watched this whole video and i loved every moment of it. You are by far my favorite KZreadr. Watching you grow has in fact been inspirational. I can relate to you in so many levels. When it comes to friends, family (being Nigerian and breaking generational curses) , and even relationships. God is shining his light on you and I pray that he will continue too. Seeing you happy is a great sight. Love you Soph 💕

I’m most definitely going to break every generational curses. I just found you today and it’s crazy because this video really helped me and I realize a lot watching this video.

Thanks so much on sharing. Am determined to take charge of my life this year and completely do what makes me happy. I love that you always put God first....love you always

Girl, I’m so proud of you for taking this big step! God bless you endlessly❤️ I’ve completely changed my degree 3 times and I’ve thought a lot about dropping out for the longest but I feel for my mum cos I just lost my dad and that’ll be the worst thing I could do to her. I feel you baby girl! Do what you need to! Love you!🥰

I haven’t had genuine love for a KZreadr but I think you’ve filled that spot 🔥🥺♥️

@debrajames6316

4 жыл бұрын

She is young and smart. Keto is not a true diet for it will fail. Carbs are necessary for energy.

I crieddd ugh girl you never fail to make me cry. God bless you, I’m so happy that you’re happy and you’re going at your own pace! I love you sooo much! Everything you talk about is relatable!

So many gems dropped in this video! So happy for you and all your success God Bless 💕

Awww Sophie, you’re so humble and relatable. I pray that God keep blessing you in every aspect of your life. Thank you for sharing this transparent side of you with us.

I love her energy! 😍🥰😘 Sophiology you a whole vibe sis!

I’m constantly praying for you, but that blonde hair is definitely a vibe😍💕

Wheww ‼️😭 Honeyy You Are Preaching To Me 💯 I Needed This 🤞🏽 Love You So Much 🤍🤍🤍

This was so pure, beautiful, and helpful. Thank you

This video took my heart and made it listen. So pure and open. I'm really happy for you, just your glow from doing things for you. You're an amazing woman and a great guidance. Thank you for being open with us.

This is probably my favorite life update. There's something different about it. It felt authentic and I relate to you. It was like listening to an older sister! Ugh I loved it and I'm so happy that you're loving your life!

Hey girl I’m about to be 22 years old in April too! 🎉 I am in the same position that you were before. I’ve lost all my friends by choice because I want to be better and do better for myself. It’s very lonely but I love the fact that I have my piece of mind. I feel like I have learned a lot from my past mistakes and the crazy life that I used to have before. I’m slowly discovering myself and finding my true purpose in life. I admire you and how you handle your life Sophie. Hopefully I’ll be on the same level of growth as you someday! May God continue to bless you, your family and your relationship 😃

I FELT YOU ON THIS!! Every part literally, you're such an amazing spirit and so real. I relate to it alllll!

i’m so happy for you sophiaaaaaa! you literally have grown to be an amazing woman that inspires me a lot. i thank God for your life🙌🏾🧡

Growth is always attractive and you're glowing sis. The love you give always comes back to you ten folds. Watching this vidoe made me feel hopeful about life, love and family. I needed to hear this to get a clearer perspective on my life

This was you in your purest form. I loved it and needed it. 💛 thank you!

I’ve been following you for a while now and always admire how you always stay humble. So excited to see what 2020 has in stores for you!

Watching this video touched me in so many ways especially the subject of school as an african, mental health, and even relationship. It’s honestly given me so much hope and courage in the dreams that I want to accomplish for myself and not pursuing things all for the sake of what family and friends will think. You are a light to so many ppl and I pray that God continues to let that light shine in and through you and even to the people who come in contact with you. You are so beautiful inside and out ❤️❤️❤️

Every time I watch your videos I feel as if you’re right in front of me having this conversation. Thank you for always sharing Sophiology even when you fear being judged.

I’m so happy for you baby! your peace is the most important thing to you , do what makes you happy & care less what other people has to say! you are one of the biggest inspirations in my life & I love you for that because this video has helped me a lot with my life choices. Thank you Soph! ❤️

I’ve watched you for awhile and as someone that’s about to graduate college you really resonate with me. Your spirit is so pure and you’re so real. I enjoy your message and heart. Protect your energy, protect your space, protect your heart. God got you. Keep shining love💗

I’m really settling here with tears 😭 every word you said was for me from family to friend even relationship I got it 🥰Thank You god bless you 😘

You’re truly an inspiration and I’m so happy for you ❤️

Love your transparency, loved that you covered generational curses. Thank You for sharing..

The way Sophia looked at her hand, imagining a ring there. OMG how precious. I love videos like this.

Sophiaaaa! Please do not let the negativity resonate louder than the ones CHAMPIONING you on!!! You’re are so beautiful-in and out! As far as school, I wholeheartedly agree! I finished my BS in 7 years because I went through a lot-including feeling lost. I also felt the need to pursue a degree because of the culture surrounding, “I went to school” or “I got my degree”...just like you said. You’re doing what you need to do do that you’re in alignment with God, your Father!!! That’s all you need ✨❤️ We are ROOTING for ya!! ☺️

I am always on here for your hair tutorials but this video took my heart. Your soul is sooooo pure. Being 22 now as well I can only Envy your mindset , your hustle, your growth, your bravery !!! Such a beautiful video . So glad I watched it !!!! 🙏🏼

I see thumbs down to the most innocent videos ie pregnancy announcements and I just said to myself that there must be some people out there that are really sad to feel they need to say negative things or give thumbs down. Huni just do you and live your life the way that makes you happy. It's your life. Curse those generational curse and end them with you.

I swear I love your transparency & honesty I know it can be hard especially on the internet May god bless you more 💫 Truly needed to hear this 💕

Honestly when she said she loved him I got goosebumps. Im so happy for you sophia. You really deserve amazing things in your life. Your spirit, your energy, just your entire vibe. And you always put God first I really respect

Sis, you, your bible verse intros, and your calm spirit is what I love about you!💕

I honestly love your energy, it’s so genuine and mature ❤️ I’m shocked that you’re only 22 sis you give off grown woman vibes

You are such a beautiful person! You radiate God from the inside out and I am so here for it!!

Loved this! That "I will call them WICKED" sent me😂. Your Nigerian jumped out and we love to see it. Loved what you said about our destiny belonging to God yet being ours. This video was filmed with so many gems and reminders that are relevant for where I am right now. Thanks for the great content, Sophia🌻