I am a survivor of narcissistic abuse. I went through this abuse for twenty years. I stayed in my toxic marriage because my child was young and I had hope that some day my husband will see my value and my love. That day never came. I was very very strong spiritually. I used to meditate 2 hours daily and I used to spend time to forgive my husband and his mother daily. But as I approached my late 40's I started having a lot of stress related health issues due to the constant abuse. Finally it became a life and death situation and I left. My husband and my MIL blame it all on me and are happily living together. For narcissists the relationship between the mother and son is very sickening. My MIL used to be jealous of me as if I was the second wife of my husband and she was his first wife. It's been four years that my husband walked out on me and I am glad I am free from this toxicity. Healing from narcissistic trauma is a long journey, but worth the effort. And Shrutiji's soul surgery system is good. I have experienced it. I used to blame myself in the beginning, but not anymore, because I have come to see my in-laws for who they really are.

@drshrutiupadhyay

5 ай бұрын

More power to you Dear Aparna. Happy to help you with "Soul Surgery System"

Some people who have survived through real darkness of abuse have usually a higher soul purpose.

Now I finally understand why there are certain lifetimes which are very highly developed in terms of spirituality and even technology and yet after experiencing this, we come down to earth and experience toughest exams. It's to learn the lesson of self worth, self love, to leave behind toxic people. Not every bad experience means we did something in past. Sometimes it's a part of learning, once we learn the lessons we move ahead.

@drshrutiupadhyay

5 ай бұрын

Very Nice 👍👍👌👌💐💐

Hi di kaash aap mere samne hoti to apko gale lgakr khub jor jor se roti apki ye story aisa lg rha hai jaise meri zindgi ka hi hai Or kya kahu kash mai apse cinnect ho pati .lekin apne jo lesson bataya hai ho sakta hai wo mere liye v ho.i m really greatful to u di.ap hmesha hme aise hi guide krti rhiye.thank u thank u thank u my angle❤❤❤

@drshrutiupadhyay

5 ай бұрын

More power to you dear 🤗🤗. Stay strong and just remember you have all the abilities to achieve everything in your life.

Thank you for this beautiful video

@drshrutiupadhyay

5 ай бұрын

WELCOME

Well Explained, Insightful.

@drshrutiupadhyay

5 ай бұрын

Thanks

param shanti

Always waiting for ur videos. Saw it after long time🙏

@drshrutiupadhyay

5 ай бұрын

Thank You So much 🙏

Mam mujay bhi life regression krana Hai ❤

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Very beautifully explained... My question is what is the life lesson for toxic people? Why do they get such a life? What is their life purpose? Why would a soul chose such a low level of human experience wherein they destroy multiple lives and cause irrevocable damage to multiple people? Evil people have very smooth easy lives and face karma in old age only & sometimes not even in old age. Did you get any Narcissistic client ever?

@drshrutiupadhyay

5 ай бұрын

I lived with a group of narcissists for many years. Next main abhi ek new series lekar aa rahi hun. In that series, I will explain everything in detail.

@NS-id7ff

5 ай бұрын

@@drshrutiupadhyay jab maine aapki posts read ki thi, mai tabhi samajh gayi thi that wo black magic karwane wala covert Narcissist hai... Please try to answer my questions in your subsequent posts... All the best for your journey 👍

Hello mam, Thank you so much for this delightful content. Actually,i have a question in my mind that how can we distinguish that the relationship in which we are actually having is with a narcissist or that person is only rude by nature or we need to improve ourselves If there is still some hope in the relationship

@drshrutiupadhyay

5 ай бұрын

Wait for my new series on Narcissism.

Aap ka baat sunke lag raha hai ki god meri avi test le rahe hai.... Avi main to aapni husband ko charungi hi nehi,,,,usko sudhar ke hi rahungi

Aacha explain Kia he , me kosis kr rhi hu in sab se niklne ki ...pr pata nhi kya ho jata he nikal nhi pati. bas ye sochk ki akele rehna padega..but me niklungi kyuki me thak gyi hu , kaash me tere pas hoti to phir se mujhe jasu ki pudiya deti or Mera dar nikla jata...

@drshrutiupadhyay

5 ай бұрын

AWW Ranjana... Himmat rakh.

@ranjnagola6946

5 ай бұрын

Ha😊

@ranjnagola6946

5 ай бұрын

Ye vala video dekhn mujhe aacha lagta he. Bar bar dekhti hu😊

I have anxiety problem,medicine going on.what therapy will be useful for me?

Thank you ma'am.I need past life regression.How to contact u??

Mam hum agla janm kis base par lete hain aur kya is life ki galtiyaan hum phir se krte hai ya agle janm main aur behtr life jeete hai?

@drshrutiupadhyay

5 ай бұрын

Learn your lesson fast.

Hello Ma'am i want an appointment..

Mam, I want to know about my PLR, because I'm suffering from toxic relationship in my present life, so how to take this session of PLR from you. Please reply?

Its not opening

Aur lesson learn karna hai matlab exactly kya karna hai taki agli lifetimes mai firse aisa na ho aur hum peaceful and positive life ji sake.

@drshrutiupadhyay

5 ай бұрын

i have explained everything in video.

Thank you Mam.The video is very informative. But I have few questions in mind. There are many abusive, manupilative, dishonest people all around us. We may find them in our social circle, families nd work place. Manupilation, abuse, dishonesty are found everywhere. So what is a major thin line..by which we can differentiate that a particular person is narcissist nd we have to leave that person which not good for us. Please if you can throw some light on this. Because many families, people , women's nd even men. are suffering frm abusive relationships nd behaviors..so where we can draw line nd conclude abt narcissist nd abuse. Thank you🙏

@drshrutiupadhyay

5 ай бұрын

Neha... Don't worry I will create a new series on Narcissism and toxic relationship. In that series I will explain each and everything in detail.

@nehasinghal134

5 ай бұрын

Ok Mam..thank you so much🙏

Should we expose narcissistic people in our life in front of other family members since they are very good in having a good social face? Should we discuss the reality about them with other family friends or should we keep the abuse to ourselves ( in which case it becomes a winwin game for them)?

@m_ptl

5 ай бұрын

Just leave them. No need to waste your time in exposing anyone

@drshrutiupadhyay

5 ай бұрын

Wait for my new series on narcissism.

I appreciate this storey, however, if the se thing happens otherway round ? The sympathy always goes towards female.

@drshrutiupadhyay

5 ай бұрын

"I understand your pain. According to the research study, 70% of narcissist cases involve men and 30% involve women. Yes, it's true that narcissistic women also torment empathic men."

@avinashborgaonkar5392

5 ай бұрын

@@drshrutiupadhyay I had been into this pain for last 30 years. I could not able to understand as how Any one can enjoy Deewali by putting own house in fire ?

@avinashborgaonkar5392

5 ай бұрын

I was very reluctant to marry in 1990 however, kept few landmarks for would be wife, 1) would be wife's parents must not be Advocate or Teacher. 2) Must be from science stream, may be BSC./ BE like. 3) Her parental place must be accuitented to city life. Apart from these any thing could be adjustable. But, unfortunately my father chosen the family and their daughter is/was totally not fitting the above 3 criterias. Still I accepted that but when landed her paretal area, shoked to the extent but at that time could not oppose the same as we were there to complete the marriage ceremony. Still I was confident that I can make it. But it was nightmare for me till today

@ritujaiswal8871

5 ай бұрын

Mam main v apna pichla jnm Janna chahti hu q ki bachpan se meri lyf bhot kast aur sangharsh Vara hai

@annapurnachoudhary5304

3 ай бұрын

Hi Maam

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