We all love you mister! 💜

@lightningwaltz9705

8 ай бұрын

Mate I love you

@lightningwaltz9705

8 ай бұрын

You know that John wick Taylor vid, that was my favourite

@rhyswebb1297

8 ай бұрын

True words my dude. Everyone knows relaxing asmr is the true g.o.a.t

@CreeperIan02

8 ай бұрын

Awesome to see one legend commenting on another legend's video!

@Mohammed_Avdol

8 ай бұрын

Onggg 😭

Thank you for the 11 years of peace you have brought me R, anything you need I hope you find. We’ll always be here ❤

This hit me like a ton of bricks. I’ve watched your videos for years and I’ve heard you talk about your wife’s health issues but I was drifting off to sleep when you mentioned her passing and I sat straight up in bed. I immediately felt pain for your loss. I lost my dad a year ago and my mom is navigating the same thing after 60 years of marriage. I miss him so much but I know the impact is so different for my mom. I am trying so hard to support her though all of this but I feel so inadequate because my dad was irreplaceable. I’m sure your wife was as well. You don’t know me, nor I, you, but know I have and will pray for your peace and comfort. I have said that my dad was our true north. It would take a long time for us to find our way again but we are. You will as well in time

@estherleftcoast2601

7 ай бұрын

It seems like you sir are also irreplaceable, based only on the kindness and compassion demonstrated by your comment. I am praying for your and your mother's peace and comfort, along with Mr. Relaxing's peace and comfort. May God bless you all.

@federica4829

3 ай бұрын

Stay strong, my friend ❤️‍🩹

Oh mannn.. I didn't know about your wife's passing. I'm so sorry to offer such late well wishes, but I actually gasped. Had to come here and tell you that I appreciate all you do here for us, and I want to offer my sincerest condolences. (I'll never forget her matchbook collection with the one from the Toronto club just down the ways from me. I think it was a place on Queen St.) I've been watching you for ...a decade? more? ...something along those lines, and I can't thank you enough for all your videos have done for me and the whole community.

As everyone has said, I am a longtime subscriber and am greatful for all that you've done for me as someone who suffers from PTSD after losing my parents to cancer and my 37 yr old husband to cardiac arrest. You are an amazing person who married an amazing woman, had amazing kids and Im so grateful that you shared them and everything that youve learned along your journey with me ❤

@SonicGamerGirl2006

8 ай бұрын

That's awful! Losing loved ones can be devastating, and MY GOSH, I can imagine how traumatic it was to lose a loved one so unexpectedly in such a terrible way. I hope you're doing well, my friend. 💙🫂

@sweetnawesome23

8 ай бұрын

So sorry for your losses, I have PTSD from watching my mother choke to death and not being able to help her, and I also lost my 49 year old husband to cardiac arrest. I completely understand your pain. ASMR has helped me to carry on, and this channel in particular has been immensely comforting on the bad days, so thank you, Relaxing ASMR, for helping people like us in more ways than you can imagine! 🙏

@FaZe_Lemon

8 ай бұрын

I’m not trying to be insensitive…..but i partially don’t believe you. (If I offended you I’m very sorry)

@sweetnawesome23

8 ай бұрын

@@FaZe_Lemon What don't you believe? Because what you're saying is quite offensive and insensitive tbh, considering you don't know the person you're responding to, or anything about their life

@frododododo

8 ай бұрын

Wow how do you live through that? Amazing. And also a genuine question. I've never experienced loss through death before and I fear how difficult it will be

I’ve been watching for 11 years. Thank you for everything.

You helped me get through depression. Had it for 9 years. I beat it 2 years ago. I’m 26 Thank you so much. You’ve brought great comfort to my life

@mrinsanitee1821

5 ай бұрын

As a 24 year old, this man has been with me at my and lowest points points throughout the years. Couldn’t have said it better

@youdontseeanoldmanhavinatw4904

3 ай бұрын

How'd you beat it?

@procrvstinvtion8479

3 ай бұрын

@@youdontseeanoldmanhavinatw4904 my journey was years of talk therapy and then a ketamine treatment while I was doing Dialectical Behavioral Therapy at the same time which is what I think ultimately cured it for me. I had my wisdom teeth removed and specifically asked to be put under with ketamine, knowing it’s anti depressant capabilities beforehand, and it worked. Doing DBT therapy at the same time was the perfect mix for me as I had the right mindset for when I got the treatment. I knew I had beaten it because i don’t dwell or ruminate on anything anymore. If I have a thought I don’t like I just stop thinking it, it’s pretty incredible. It’s very easy to move on from any bad thoughts now. They go away as quickly as they come. I took anti-depressants the whole way through as well. Went through a lot of em before I found one that works for me. I still take it in fact, even though the depressions gone. I don’t want to even risk it ya know, so I’ll keep taking em, that’s fine by me.

@WillHavle-jj1jc

Ай бұрын

​@@youdontseeanoldmanhavinatw4904I was about to ask the same thing how tf do you beat depression

@youdontseeanoldmanhavinatw4904

Ай бұрын

@@WillHavle-jj1jc I assume therapy? But I was curious lol

On the surface one may just see a sleep aid channel, but we can see here that you have brought together thousands of people with your beautiful stories and wonderful advice that i myself have used. You advice videos have given me so many avenues of improvement and I'm so much prouder looking in the mirror because of the choices you helped me to make. I wish you stress-free days and restful nights Mr ASMR.

I am sending you my most sincere sympathies. I am learning just now that you have been experiencing the loss of your wife and it breaks my heart. I hope you get the support you need and deserve from your loved ones in those difficult times. Sending you love and strenght. Just like you have been giving us for so long now. Hang in there, we are with you ❤

Sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies. I hope doing these videos gives you some kind of therapeutic benefits as I know they do your viewers.

Thank you for making a new video. You're still teaching us lessons.

@braydenfontaine1666

8 ай бұрын

Some of the best lessons I've ever learned

the content of your videos dosent matter. We all come here to spend time with YOU ❤

@ogofog9120

6 ай бұрын

Absolutely.

I can’t imagine what you must be feeling right now and I won’t pretend to understand. You have my utmost respect and sympathy just keep on doing what you’re doing and I hope you feel some form of peace.

I'm very sorry for your loss. Its has been more than a decade since I watch your videos, and know how much you cared for her. You are a inspiration for these times when we need a compass for our lives... Thank you, and be well...

I have been a subscriber from almost the start of your channel. You have helped me and I know so many others relax, sleep and even learn a thing or two.... want to say that I am so very sorry for your loss and send my very best wishes to you.

Thank you for getting myself and countless others to sleep over these years. It's hard to find comfort in life sometimes, but you've always made it easier. Best wishes and thank you for everything.

You have no idea what you’ve done for me. I have extreme insomnia and I’m not trying to sound weird, but your voice has some kind of magic that just helps me relax. I cannot begin to imagine what you have been going through. I’ve been with my spouse since I was 15 (33 years) and I don’t know what I’ll do if his time comes to go home before me. My thoughts and prayers remain with you.

Your bravery, courage and positivity inspire me. I was so sorry to hear about your wife, Mr. Relaxing ASMR. Those advice videos you put out were extremely helpful to me. I pray you receive comfort in the same measure as that which you have given to us, your viewers. Bless you.

I’ve been watching for many many years now probably since I was 12 honestly & I want to just say thank you! You truly help me on a daily basis. I’m now about to graduate nursing school and become an RN and I still look up to you when I need to relax or need help falling asleep due to stress. I’m so sorry to hear about your wife. My prayers & condolences go out to you!

You are a such a strong character and i hope you realize how many of us enjoy your videos! A 168k people is roughly half of the population of my country. I hope you continue to enjoy making videos!

I am so sorry for your loss man, I just discovered your channel a little while ago and had no idea, you really help me sleep a lot and I hope that you stay strong. you make a meaningful difference in this harsh yet beautiful world, thank you for continuing to put out content for us

All the way back when I was fresh in middle school I found your channel and now I’m 18, and you have brought me so much security in all my thoughts and worries with your wisdom that always managed to subdue whatever I was struggling at the time, thank you so much R

I've been watching you for years. I'm sorry to hear about your wife, I could tell in your videos how much you adored her and all the little gifts she would always buy you. That was true love. I hope you start to heal, her memory will always be in your heart. And thank you for all the relaxing content that has taught me to slow down and appreciate small things that seem to pass by without gratitude.

There are no words to rightly express how grateful I am for your presence and content over the years. Thank you for everything you do, are, and share.

Thanks for uploading a new video. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

You are an amazing human and I am glad you are finding your way. Your voice and knowledge has greatly helped me over the time you have been on KZread. When i have been through dark times your videos have helped me sleep and stay grounded. Sending you love and best wishes from the UK ❤ thank you

I've watched and listened to you for 14 years. Practically every night I'm listening to one of your videos, ever since your first video about ink in 2009. I'm usually slow to realize new videos have come out, and this is the first I've heard of your wife's passing. I am so sorry for your loss. I know holidays can be very difficult after the passing of a loved one. I hope you are with others you love this season.

@RelaxingASMR

6 ай бұрын

Thank you.

I feel as if you are the "Mr. Rogers" of ASMR. While you have been through so much, you continue to teach us, inspire us, show us your art, and offer us timeless advice about life. Thank you so much for spending these years with us and sharing all the ups and downs. You are in my prayers friend. ❤‍🩹

I've been watching your channel for YEARS, and I can say this with all my heart and soul that you have helped me through some really hard times. If you only knew what you helped me survive. I know that sounds dramatic, but I had a severe auto-immune disease that nearly took my life on countless occasions. Bless you! You are a wonderful human being in a stressful and toxic world. Thank you for just simply being you.

My heart breaks for your loss my friend. I couldn't imagine life without my love, I hope you can find strength with this community as some reprieve

Damn, I'm so sorry for your loss R. We all love you and the incredible content you have provided us all with over the years. You have truly helped me through some tough times. I wish there was a way I could return the favour during your hardship.

I've watched your past videos multiple times, but had no idea you were going though such a difficult juncture in life. It feels selfish to benefit from the comfort of your videos when we can't fully reciprocate it back to you in your time of grief. Thank-you, very sincerely, for these videos. They've bettered my life in times of stress and worry. They've reassured me that even when things get bad, it will be alright, and tomorrow is another day. Take care, friend.

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how hard this must have been. I'm sending you a big and warm hug.Thank you for being this wonderful person and continuing to make videos to help other people relax and fall asleep. You are truly special ♥

This is what I love about RelaxingASMR. He’s just doing what he loves. There’s no controversy or darker topics mixed in like other certain ASMR channels, and it’s not forced or over the top. It’s simply a normal older gentleman sharing and doing things he finds interesting. We love you RelaxingASMR!

I’m so sorry to hear about your wife’s passing. She must’ve been special. My prayers are with you.

Welcome back, my friend. Thank you for the video and the years of great videos. Losing someone is so profound and I hope you are hanging in there.

Godspeed on your new journey...I lost my brother(43) unexpectedly in a car crash. If there is any solace you can find, it's that maybe you got to say goodbye... Im sure you will cherish the memories. Thats really all you have when someone you love passes on. I know I cherish mine.

I remember seeing your drawing videos wayyy back when like 10 years ago and you had me hooked at the uranium glassware 😄 thank you for everything!!! Love when you post

Been watching your channel for a while now. Thank you for all that you’ve done for the community here. I hope that you’re doing well-you’ve built up a loving culture here, and we’re all with you.

I've been following your channel for around 6-7 years now, since the middle of high school. It's been a source of comfort for me ever since. I want to thank you for that, and genuinely wish you all the best moving forward.

You’ve helped me through many tough times in my life, and I hope everyone here can help you through maybe the toughest time in yours. You are loved by many.

Sending so much love to you as you try to find your new way. Thank you for all you do and for sharing your light with us.

@RelaxingASMR

7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!

So very glad to see you finding your own pace. That's a healthy sign. My Nana lost her husband and her world just around when I turned 2. I can't remember that, I have a few fuzzy memories of my grandfather, though. I am now pushing 40 and about to have my own child, a little late to the game. Nana is still with us and she and I have grown closer the older I get. When I got married, she told me so much about my grandfather and her and her wedding and their marriage. Now that we're having a kid she talks to me about that. I know from stories that it was very very difficult for her at first. And I am sure it is at times. But she's one of the most independent, strong people I know. And I know you are like her, though I don't know you, from all of the advice you've given me, either directly in reaponses or indirectly in your videos. A day at a time. We love and care about you, though it's a different kind because we don't really know you. So long as making videos is good for you, listening to them has and will continue to be wonderful for me. I've wondered how you were doing several times and its strange, but in a good way. I'm glad you are doing well. I am no expert, but I thought maybe waiting for the wax to cool a fair amount may work better. Sorry for the long and wandering comment, woke in the middle of the night with a million thoughts, thanks for helping sooth it for what must be the thousandth time.

Keep on moving and keep active. KZreadr Steve Wallis lost his wife as well. He went on trips and things that were on the “bucket list” in honor of his wife. Also love all your videos and you are honorary family to me. I watch your videos when I am lonely and makes me feel like I am with my dad hanging out. Thank you for being such a wonderful person to so many.

@oneofthesteves

8 ай бұрын

+1 for Steve Wallis...

I lost my mom recently, my dad's doing his best and I'm struggling by, I catch myself crying when I'm alone, it helps to know I'm not the only one who experiences this but all the same is but easy, especially because we were told it was preventable and shouldn't of happened but dwelling on the past when there's nothing I can do only makes it worse, all we can do is take it one day at a time. Thank you for showing me it's possible to keep going

I can imagine how you have been feeling. My mother passed away at 3:45 today. In home hospice. A horrible experience for the family. No room in the physical hospice for the elderly my mother was 85). We had to wait for hours for the hospice nurse and the funeral home. We’re this my spouse? I am not sure I could have been that strong. You are a very strong person. More than most. And most appreciated.

@RelaxingASMR

6 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry for your loss. I had to wait for a little while, not near as long as you did though. Hang in there and take it a day at a time.

I am so sorry for your loss. You have been helping so many people , I am sure your wife is very proud of you and now she really can see and feel all the goodness you give to strangers. Thank you for continuing ❤

My condolences to you Mr R. I have been following you for years. You are the only channel I specifically look for when i don't see you for a while on my feed. Your stories are so comforting, you truly remind me of my grandpa. He was so wise and calm, despite all the hurdles he had to go through. Thanks for everything you have done for all of us. 😢

I've been watching you for some time now. Just love your relaxing videos. I am so sorry for your loss of your wife. I have no doubt that she was a lovely lady. God bless you and may she rest in peace.

Been having a rough day, trying to figure out how to get some sleep tonight, and your video popped up. To hear about your loss, it gave me a shock. That you are working to find your path in life and yet you still share with all of us, helping us find a bit of peace to sleep. Thank you seems too simple & inadequate as does to express sadness for your loss. But it is all I have tonight. I am so so sorry for the loss of your wife, and I thank you for all you do for all of us. May you find your path, and a little peace along the way. *hugs*

Man you’ve brought me so much peace, I listen to these vids before falling asleep and if nothing else, please know that you’ve brought me said peace whenever I’ve needed it. I’m so sorry for your loss sir, we love you.

Perfect timing for the thunder.

On nights that I can’t sleep, you’re always the voice I hear as I drift off to sleep. Take care of yourself as you have helped me take care of myself, and do what you need to for you

Thank you for the many years of peace and comfort you’ve provided on restless nights. Sending nothing but love your way.

I know that nothing I could say here can take away the pain, but just know that you're such a positive influence in so many of our lives, and that we're all rooting for you.

Sending all our deepest sympathy and love from Ireland ❤️..you have helped so many people with you videos..we carry you in our hearts 💕

You're an awesome person for all you've done for us over the years. Your soft spoken words guiding us to sleep. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping me over the years. I and many others will be here to lift you just how you've gently lifted us ❤❤

I appreciate you and all that you’ve done for me both mentally and in terms of sleep. I’m so sorry for your loss, I hope that no matter how different things may feel, you will always understand that us, as viewers, will be here to unconditionally love and support you. :)

So sorry for your lost! I can only imagine how hard it must be for you.

My prayers go out to you. You've done so much for me, and thousands of other people! We all wish you the best, and are very sorry for your loss.

Hey R we love you so much and will support you through anything we are always here and we thank you for your relaxing service I’m glad you are doing alright and am sending lots of support your way ❤

Sorry to hear that brother. Truly am. I’ve been watching your channel for about 7 years now, you’ve helped me through 2 deployments, so thank you. Once again my condolences

I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you get as much serenity from creating these videos as I always get from watching them. I will remember you in prayer. Peace be with you.

I’m sorry for your loss. Thank you for these videos. I’m the kind of person that needs time after the day to myself to get grounded and these videos help. Cheers mate. I hope you find your way in life after the passing of the woman you loved.

Your one of my favorite ASMR channels, I’ve been listening to you every night for a couple months now! I’m so sorry for your loss and I will pray for you and I hope you can find a way to still feel loved by other family members. I genuinely hope you heal and still find happiness ❤️

I'm sorry to hear about your wife, I'm sure she was a lovely lady. glad to see you on my feed, keep up the good work mister.

So sorry for your loss. I come back to your videos time and again. Life changes when you lose someone, it will never be the same. Nor should it be, I guess. 💔 wishing you strength as you find your new way x

Praying for you and your peace. You have been a delight to watch over the years and I hope that you are ok in getting through this. We all love you!

Good Lord what a treat. Beautiful. I love the horror film sound design in 06:09 when you say it’s made of titanium and open the box to reveal the spin like a haunted artefact - perfectly to the sound of a rolling thunder! It only lacks some hysterical laughter in the background and a flutter of wings of a group of bats❤️

He’s back! I know it’s hard. She’d want you to keep doing what you love. Thank you so much for the video

I've always seen the wax dripped on the paper slowly and then stamped . The issue is probably that you melt it all in the spoon and once you pour it on the paper its all liquid . If it drips slowly it has time to cool and solidify but still be soft to stamp it .

I have a hard time sleeping I’ve been having problems for months but I made a playlist with your videos and you always put me to sleep. I just wanna say thank you so much

I’m so sorry to hear your wife passed. You are a blessing to thousands of us. Being newly aline myself I understand the loneliness. Much love from us all!❤️❤️❤️

Just now hearing about your wife....I'm So sorry to hear this...I lost my Dad 11/28, completely unexpected and even more realistic about the fact day by day....God Bless you and yours....

@RelaxingASMR

5 ай бұрын

Day by day Matt. Day by day. Time will help. Sorry for your loss. If you find yourself is a dark moment, try to break it by doing something. Doing just about anything will help.

I’ve been away from your channel for a bit. I just found out about your wife, and continued to scroll through to find out about your dog as well. I’m so sorry for your losses. You’ve always had such kind, wise, and thoughtful advise to give. I wish you nothing but the best good sir, sending you my best wishes and love ❤️ stay strong 🙏

Much love from the UK. Sorry for your loss ❤

Hey R, I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of your wife. I haven't been on your channel much for the past few weeks. You've brought rest to many of my sleepless nights. I feel I owe you in some way. I hope it gets better for you, I'm sure she's up there smiling down on you even now. It'll get better.

Just came back to watching your videos after a few years. Watched your videos a lot when I was a young teenager, I'm truly sorry to hear about your loss. May the Lord be with you. ❤

i've been watching your channel since your minercraft playthroughs years ago. i'm sorry to hear about your wife and I hope everything is going alright. keep up the quality content you're doing amazing.

Nothing like a man sharing something he enjoys

My condolences on your loss. Also my thanks for your videos over these many years, They have made a big difference in my life.

Been watching for years now and I picked up on it a while ago but I had hoped that it was just one more moment one more time. I am so sorry for your loss and I can't thank you enough for how much your videos have helped me calm down and sleep at the end of a long day. I don't know what to say, I can't relate to the loss of a life partner but I wish you the very best sir and I will still be here waiting and watching and wishing you find better days ahead of this loss. please take care.

I have never commented under your videos, always listened to your soothing voice since my uni years, gracious old man.In your voice today mister, I felt your sadness. I can only hope that you do well. Keep rocking, best wishes from Türkiye.

Thanks for all the videos. I've loved spending time with you over the years. Wishing you the best

The thunder and rain I absolute love this! Thank you once again!!!

I have been absent from youtube for a few months, and my hart dropped when I heard you mention the passing of your wife. My condolences. I hope the community can give you the support you have given us for the past few years. I'm am not allways the best with words when it comes to this but for what it means... I wish you the best through these hard and difficult times. If you feel like it, maybe you want to share some stories about you and your wife?

You've brought peace and comfort to many a stressful day or sleepless night. I am sorry to hear of your loss, and thankful that you have the courage to turn to this community and know that you have support here. I think I can speak for everyone when I say that we appreciate the effort you put into this. And I hope that you find new and old comforts and joys as you enter this chapter of your life.

Can't imagine what you deal with on the day to day but I think I speak for all of us in that we will be here for u as u have been for all of us through these years and we greatly appreciate u sharing the lovely experiences u had with your family with us.

Sorry for your loss! Thank you for all the amazing videos over the years you have brought so much peace to so many! Thank you for all you do!

My heartfelt condolences. Hope you find the strength needed. Thank you for all your relaxing videos.

Thank you for all your hard work and generosity in making these videos and sharing your life with us! I sincerely appreciate all your content and can honestly say you’ve helped enrich my life and help with my anxiety. Wishing you all the best during this difficult time 🙏🏽

We’re always here for you brother, not as viewers but as friends. Keep on keeping on we love you.

So sorry you have experienced such great loss. I have enjoyed your videos for many years and wish you the best. Regarding the wax: perhaps it needs to cool down first, so it's impressionable instead of in a liquid state

Bless your heart ❤️ thank you for all the relaxation you've helped bring

Thank you for all the relaxation you have given me throughout the years ❤❤

You are such a comfort to so many! We love you for sharing the parts of your life that you think will help others. I wish you peace and calm. And in time, I hope the memories of your dear wife will bring you more smiles than tears.

Thank you for the calm shelter from the storm. Very sorry to hear of your loss.

No !! I'm so sorry my friend! I knew she was ill , but didn't know you lost her .. I know this sounds stupid but if you need anything..please don't think twice ..any of us would gladly lend a helping hand !! We love you ! .. your videos are the only thing that seriously helps me sleep ..You an your wife will be in my prayers...love you my friend !

Thank you for your lovely, relaxing videos which I have watched countless times. So sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking of you at this difficult time.

Thank you for all your videos. Needed this one today. Reminder to keep spinning. ❤