Life Before We Met | Let’s Talk

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  • @patriciamccary8894
    @patriciamccary88942 жыл бұрын

    Hi TT & Jake! I can relate to this video. I left Ohio at 19, and relocated to Chicago. I say I grew up in Chicago, Partying, 1 hour sleep and go to work. I'm much older now, that draining yourself to build your significant other up was on point. Very good advise for those in relationships. Listen to them people😊. Showers of Blessings to you both!💯❤

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!😌🥰

  • @vanessabarsetti
    @vanessabarsetti2 жыл бұрын

    TT i can totally relate,being in toxic relationships and always wondering what you did wrong and constantly changing yourself to try and suit your partner's toxicity.I have been there and i am never going back.😂

  • @gwendolynforest9610
    @gwendolynforest96102 жыл бұрын

    Love watching you both, You both are so attractive and down to earth. Keep the flames burning.

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    Will do! Thank you 😌🥰

  • @dianneturner7026
    @dianneturner70262 жыл бұрын

    You Both are such a joy to watch. I Love watching your Good Energy, Honesty, Love and Respect towards Growth and Life Experiences and That You Are Bold Enough to Be Transparent and Share with us is Simply Amazing. God's Continual Blessings in Your Relationship!!!

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!♥️

  • @ericatoliver4175
    @ericatoliver41752 жыл бұрын

    Loved it!! I enjoy watching the both of you ! Such an amazing and beautiful couple. Stay blessed and healthy!

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!♥️

  • @danettelouise2921
    @danettelouise29212 жыл бұрын

    I loved this video! All I can say is that I’m glad each of you did the work, and went through what you needed to in order to bring you here. Giving us a glimpse of your very real and loving relationship!!!

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes ma’am 🥰🥰

  • @darlenetavares5641
    @darlenetavares56412 жыл бұрын

    Oooo chile! Whatchuknowboutdat Lawry's seasoned salt??? They betta know it!! You guys are truly twins..and 😁 😂 Both gorgeous humans too!! Much love from Bermuda 🇧🇲 ❤️

  • @shondahansen7594
    @shondahansen75942 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. I didn't learn a lot of what I needed about myself is really I. My 40's. I was a single mom in my 20's. Then I was Married. I didn't grow up with my dad so I experienced a lot of what you went through T.T. I've completed a lot of personal goals and I feel like I'm ready but really God does know the plan he has made for our life.

  • @TheresAlwaysTamara
    @TheresAlwaysTamara Жыл бұрын

    Love this so much! You guys dropped a lot of gems here 👏🏾

  • @brownetime08
    @brownetime082 жыл бұрын

    Great topic! And I 100% concur about the need for putting in the work to grow individually. 💯💯 Bring in more story time!

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes ma’am! 🥰♥️

  • @mellowhaven

    @mellowhaven

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah. More story time💯

  • @jenyfursmith8413
    @jenyfursmith84132 жыл бұрын

    My girl! Lawry’s is clutch! ❤️

  • @lalame23
    @lalame232 жыл бұрын

    I am just coming across your channel & this is the second video I’ve watched so far & I needed this one SO MUCH! Doing the work is key. Thank you!

  • @patricejackson2583
    @patricejackson25832 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely love watching you two!!!!

  • @kadianesson209
    @kadianesson2092 жыл бұрын

    I pray love and peace stay with you both

  • @sheena.m7802
    @sheena.m78022 жыл бұрын

    I can totally relate to what you guys said here . You guys should do some more sit down videos on more relationship topics .. would definitely love to hear your thoughts

  • @mellowhaven

    @mellowhaven

    Жыл бұрын

    Agreed 💯

  • @kckgirl78
    @kckgirl782 жыл бұрын

    You two are on the right path to keep growing and learning. Thanks for sharing! 😃❤️

  • @KhaliahAli
    @KhaliahAli2 жыл бұрын

    I’m quite a bit older, but I related to you TT when you said that you did the work and then God knew it was time. Then Jake really nailed it when he said he knew he was ready when he realized he would never be really ready. I met someone in the pandemic as well. I had completed almost a year of singleness and working on me/healing. They had been abandoned and asked could we hang as friends but I declined because I didn’t want to mess up what God maybe working on for us both. Then a few months went by and they asked again to go out as friends. I said yes, we really were there for each other so much. They had to move due to circumstances and still had some baggage and my heart hurts. We still speak often, but the distance. Thank you both for sharing your perspectives on intentional dating it’s quite lovely! 🥹🤗

  • @diannadawson4429
    @diannadawson44292 жыл бұрын

    Everything you said is on point! What we allow WILL continue. Taking the time to work on yourself before a relationship is tantamount, but also just for one’s SELF regardless of relationship status.

  • @sheilar1051
    @sheilar10512 жыл бұрын

    You too are so sweet, I like how you learned and are learning yourselves and that's how you grow. You know when to give each other space but you know when to come together and be there for each other believe me know matter how old you get we will always be learning. Keep putting in the work and you will see the blessing :)

  • @sandythompson5096
    @sandythompson50962 жыл бұрын

    Hello my favorite couple!💞 Loved your mukbang, You guys obviously enjoy good food and this topic today hit home. Good Success in your individual pursuits and as a couple!

  • @katelynchristi5125
    @katelynchristi51252 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful couple! Thank you for sharing!

  • @deborahmartin1513
    @deborahmartin15132 жыл бұрын

    Such a great video!!! I think one important thing that y’all said, was letting God lead. So many times we want to do it our own way, but Gods plan is so much bigger and better. Y’all are such a beautiful couple!! 🙏🏾❤️🤗

  • @TheChocBeauty
    @TheChocBeauty2 жыл бұрын

    You two are so strong in who you are. A wonderful way to be.

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥺 Thank you!

  • @veradarby7222
    @veradarby72222 жыл бұрын

    I thoroughly enjoyed this! Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    ♥️

  • @gloriamkhize9586
    @gloriamkhize95862 жыл бұрын

    That is really eye opening. I adopt it for me.When my significant other is in some type of mood, it's not my fault and not my duty to fix it,I can just be there for when they need and ready for me,love that,and love you two ❤

  • @kimberlymitchell372
    @kimberlymitchell3722 жыл бұрын

    Loved this video experiencing that now and I was just having this conversation, with my boyfriend the other day. Now I want to get Chipotle and donuts.

  • @mphommaaga3965
    @mphommaaga39652 жыл бұрын

    I think this has been my favourite video. I wish I had met you in my lifetime I could have learned what you just taught me in this video, such wisdom and TT I really identify with all you said about toxic relationships. I am so happy for you guys to have worked on yourselves and now are together.It is true blessings and God's doings. I am in awe of you too

  • @yvonnemieux6624
    @yvonnemieux66242 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing. You couldn't have said it any better ❤💕❤.

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    😌🥰

  • @sheilabyrd2289
    @sheilabyrd22892 жыл бұрын

    I’m so happy that my favorite lovebirds in the whole wide world did all the work in their twenties to be fully ready for each other now. I so enjoyed as I always do listening to your stories. Please know I’m wishing you the best as you traverse this thing called li life together. God Bless.

  • @moe_creations
    @moe_creations2 жыл бұрын

    Loved the chat, thanks for sharing some of you, have a great night!

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    ♥️

  • @debradunham8508
    @debradunham85082 жыл бұрын

    Hey guys! I just love your relationship and you always keep it real. Good talk. Many Blessings .

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!♥️

  • @kerrypalmer2311
    @kerrypalmer23112 жыл бұрын

    Growth is good! Glad that you both found each other.

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🥰🥰

  • @angelamartin6211
    @angelamartin62112 жыл бұрын

    Love watching you videos great vibe between you two.

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    ♥️

  • @jennifergranati8096
    @jennifergranati80962 жыл бұрын

    You both are so refreshing and relatable. Love this video . Have a lovely week .❤️

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank youuuuu🥰

  • @deltoriamcclendon8246
    @deltoriamcclendon8246 Жыл бұрын

    You guys speak with both intellect and truthfulness to be as young as you are. I'm so invested......

  • @tmiller584
    @tmiller584 Жыл бұрын

    Love you guys. Love this❤but seriously, I wanna see some sponsorship on these restaurants now. Hope you guys start getting those ads.

  • @bettiesally6486
    @bettiesally6486 Жыл бұрын

    I agree with you Jake because I'm a happy person I let that person be who they are you have to know who you are

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor792 жыл бұрын

    Y'all are adorable! Tfs

  • @dajuannak
    @dajuannak2 жыл бұрын

    this was a really helpful video because i am 21 so i learned a few things from y’all so thank you 🤍

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching! Glad we were able to share something useful!!! 🥰🥰

  • @brendawalker8280
    @brendawalker82802 жыл бұрын

    You guys are so great to watch.....Keep on doing what your doing.....Much love....❤️

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!♥️

  • @patriciamorgan3171
    @patriciamorgan31716 ай бұрын

    Aww, I do whatever you like , ripping the bag. Such a gentleman. the little things count. TT thanks for sharing ; your adversites did not break you. I can relate to not knowing my birth father. It definitely affects yur relationships and I to had to learn how to cope with rejection and abandoment.

  • @llthompson07
    @llthompson07 Жыл бұрын

    Great video!

  • @mariamunroe6861
    @mariamunroe68612 жыл бұрын

    There is no such thing as perfect..., all You both need is love , trust and RESPECT..., now when is the wedding?

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥰🥰

  • @lakeshiajones5799

    @lakeshiajones5799

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TTandJake You guy’s are so adorable together ❤

  • @myspritelover
    @myspritelover2 жыл бұрын

    Great video as always! It was giving what it was suppose to give and then some🔥maybe you can touch on it in a future video but I am curious to know how Jake became vegan…The Who, the what, the when, the where, and the why. ❤️

  • @mellowhaven

    @mellowhaven

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm curious too

  • @spring7970
    @spring79702 жыл бұрын

    Hey TT and Jake. Enjoy your video and honesty

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!😊

  • @theonly1deidra
    @theonly1deidra2 жыл бұрын

    Such a breath of fresh air you two❤️

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥰♥️

  • @jeanmeullion6641
    @jeanmeullion66412 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for Sharing. Love y'all.💝🌹

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    We love you back!♥️

  • @lungilemkhize640
    @lungilemkhize6402 жыл бұрын

    Mature couple 💕 love how you grew from your experiences

  • @tmiller584
    @tmiller584 Жыл бұрын

    “I realize I was ready when I was realized I was never gonna be ready”. I. Felt. This.

  • @rievinebyshauntaemarie9515
    @rievinebyshauntaemarie9515 Жыл бұрын

    Mike Todd on deck!! Whoot Whoot!@ my kids love they part and so do I!! Transformation Nation!! Stay safe and Stay Blessed!! You all are a beautiful couple!!+

  • @backgroundsounds8529
    @backgroundsounds8529 Жыл бұрын

    You two are fun!!!

  • @1safespace828
    @1safespace8282 жыл бұрын

    I LITERALLY WAS ON YALL TIKTOK SAYING IM ABOUT TO BINGE WATCH YALL YT 😩😩❤️🥰🥰😘😘

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥰🤗♥️

  • @sodvine3486
    @sodvine34862 жыл бұрын

    Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future ...*snaps fingers* you heard!!

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes ma’am 🥰

  • @samuelgatling4635
    @samuelgatling46352 жыл бұрын

    I am a 66 yr old Gay Man living in Chi town and I find you Guys ABSOLUTELY breath taking and SO refreshing!! Keep doing what you do. I never do not feel good after watching your episodes -;) Much luv from The Chi!!!

  • @reggieredmond2432

    @reggieredmond2432

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m 66 year old married man in Madison Wisconsin married 34 years and I think they are absolutely refreshing too. I told my wife there are kids . We are a interracial couple also. I grew up in Los Angeles and my my wife Reedsburg Wisconsin. 🥰❤️🤪

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    LOVE the Chi! Thank you so much 🥰🥰

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥰♥️

  • @monteesworld2305
    @monteesworld23052 жыл бұрын

    Great content

  • @JayyBee5557
    @JayyBee55572 жыл бұрын

    Good to see two young people having such a mature conversation, I have high hopes for you guys, BUT don't make it sound that y'all didn't notice how cute y'all are !!!!! Hahahaha

  • @minimalassembly7893
    @minimalassembly7893 Жыл бұрын

    Terecia, I remembered when you were trying to find love on the tv show “Coupled” and how everyone thought that you guys would work out. Glad that you took time to heal and ground yourself in order to find your current relationship. Let him hurry up and put a ring on it after two years!!

  • @marymyatt3004
    @marymyatt30042 жыл бұрын

    💖Yall God Bless Yall❤

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    ♥️♥️

  • @jeanmeullion6641
    @jeanmeullion6641 Жыл бұрын

    👀 Watching again. Love y'all.💕💝

  • @Thatwhiteb
    @Thatwhiteb2 жыл бұрын

    Best video yet!

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    😌♥️

  • @Lioness22312
    @Lioness223122 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing.. I started my journey but now I am just waiting because the app I went on was nothing but (men)scammers on a Christian app believe it or not.. Thanks again❤

  • @cmdrew4409
    @cmdrew44092 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful couple-

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    ♥️

  • @michellewilkesmatthews246
    @michellewilkesmatthews2462 жыл бұрын

    We all have to grow up we have to know our worth and don't have to settle for less because I been there where I was settle for less but not any more but because I know who I'm as a woman

  • @deltoriamcclendon8246
    @deltoriamcclendon8246 Жыл бұрын

    You got him girl 😃😃😃😃

  • @cegecej
    @cegecej2 жыл бұрын

    "Still looking" 😂🤣🤣😅😅🤣🤣. You guys are absolutely hilarious! Jake, it's too obvious that you love TT so much to play a joke like that😂🤣😅

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    Haha love her forever!

  • @lightbrownsugarsister6141
    @lightbrownsugarsister61412 жыл бұрын

    There are KZreadrs that do ASMR videos where they just eat food and don't say anything. They just wave to say hello at the beginning of the video, and wave to say bye at the end of the video.

  • @sheena.m7802
    @sheena.m78022 жыл бұрын

    How did you guys handle your first fight or big disagreement

  • @debbiesmith3443
    @debbiesmith34432 жыл бұрын

    Oh my gosh me and my twenties, I thought I knew everything plus the guys was always calling me slim goody or a tall glass of water, I'm drooling over here watching y'all eat.😆🤤😃

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha didn’t we all

  • @Ellajack
    @Ellajack2 жыл бұрын

    hey guys looking good , all tan and relaxed ... enjoy your day

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!♥️

  • @icshawnie
    @icshawnie2 жыл бұрын

    I love the sofritas, brown rice, and black beans...and chips n guacamole

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤤

  • @Jazeerakiko
    @Jazeerakiko2 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @mssimplicity9072
    @mssimplicity90722 жыл бұрын

    Please do a story time about life in your 20

  • @mathildap.7705
    @mathildap.77052 ай бұрын

    Are you guys coming back to YT? Missing you both. Loved your chemistry. ...and you are such a cute couple.😊❤

  • @jillstreet8364
    @jillstreet83642 жыл бұрын

    💕💕💕

  • @romapatricia37
    @romapatricia372 жыл бұрын

    Hi guys! May I ask a question please? When Jake had to leave for work and you guys just started dating right like one or 2 dates, when he was away, were you consantly calling and or messaging each other or did weeks pass when you know like nothing, quiet. You know. Thanks

  • @larabelguzmana1166
    @larabelguzmana11662 жыл бұрын

    🥰

  • @hischosen1409
    @hischosen14092 жыл бұрын

    What part of FL?

  • @samuelgatling4635
    @samuelgatling46352 жыл бұрын

    PS I would like to hear about if either of you dated outsIde of your "Race" previously? Just wondering!!

  • @mellowhaven

    @mellowhaven

    2 жыл бұрын

    Good question

  • @francellamcgregor8616
    @francellamcgregor8616 Жыл бұрын

    trying to watch all your videos

  • @alicechilds6842
    @alicechilds6842 Жыл бұрын

    where are you guys

  • @jo-angolding7819
    @jo-angolding78192 жыл бұрын

    🤩😍

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    🥰🥰

  • @alveradavis9537
    @alveradavis95374 ай бұрын

    Where are you guys ??

  • @jonathanharvey4678
    @jonathanharvey46782 жыл бұрын

    ❤🔥❤= TT & Jake

  • @lastaciesmith8960
    @lastaciesmith896011 ай бұрын

    Where are you two??

  • @adepejuariori686
    @adepejuariori686 Жыл бұрын

    TT, pls lay very low on laury season. It’s not good for human organs especially female reproduction.😍 much love. Keep loving, learning and enjoying each other.

  • @lindawilliams3863
    @lindawilliams3863 Жыл бұрын

    I just notice Jake has big hands.....

  • @robertshanks3291
    @robertshanks329110 ай бұрын

    My dude! Get out of there isn't going to get worse.

  • @cuttieBUNNY1
    @cuttieBUNNY12 жыл бұрын

    How do you guys able to not release on friend approval on your relationship and like lock in on how you guys feel? Most of my life I relied on friends ( great friends) to help me in dating advice because I have not dated much but even when they encourage me to do my own thing I feel like insecure about making the wrong decisions. I also am christian and they to pray ... but I guess is there ever a time you feel 100% certain of your choice? or do you take it day by day?

  • @lisamarcelle4416
    @lisamarcelle44162 жыл бұрын

    Only Americans change mukbang…..they talk during mukbang. You are suppose to JUST EAT so we can hear the sounds.

  • @TTandJake

    @TTandJake

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ahhhh thanks for clarifying 🥰

  • @athleegraham8279

    @athleegraham8279

    2 жыл бұрын

    You guys are so cool blessing.