Did you like our collab video? If you did check out the links below :) Korean guys react to my "what it's ACTUALLY like to date a Korean guy" video (feat.DKDKTV) : kzread.info/dash/bejne/faOmrc6xgpTOncY.html Kelsey's channel: kzread.info/dron/9TTs6WOdVYUMjAUTTTRA1Q.html Korean dudes react to KOREAN DATING CULTURE 101: kzread.info/dash/bejne/h4qsybaTnajMgbw.html Hear more about DKDK's dating life in Livestreams and Discord chat: www.patreon.com/dkdktv

@thestylishreveries7926

3 жыл бұрын

More! Of! These!

@gracemin8753

3 жыл бұрын

Please do more content with her, she brings out that free spirit in you all

@mayankjha7444

3 жыл бұрын

Indian content indian content indian content indian content

@mayankjha7444

3 жыл бұрын

Plz plz plzplZ

@Leticia-vf4iv

3 жыл бұрын

Please more!!!!

I'm actually glad that Kelsey is present here for this particular topic

@KelseytheKorean

3 жыл бұрын

Aww thank u XD

@hyuckiahcarey

3 жыл бұрын

@@KelseytheKorean luv your channel 💖💕

Kelsey is just spectacular. I'm in love with how unfiltered and raw she is. Best trio on KZread. Looking forward for more videos of you 3.

@kclarke421

3 жыл бұрын

Agreeddd

David: Korean Kelsey: Korean/American Danny: American 😂😂😂

@soundsoftheheart3164

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣 true

@TheHoonJin

3 жыл бұрын

i think kelsey is korean, she just lived in US for an exchange program or smth

@juliajade4173

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheHoonJin I don't think that was the point of the comment though, I feel like it kind of has to do with attitudes towards sexual stuff. For instance, Americans tend to be more lenient and flexible, Koreans are more reserved and shy, and Korean-Americans are kind of a mix between the two by means of morals, etc. I could be wrong of course.

@morningcalmrisingsun

2 жыл бұрын

@@juliajade4173 It also depends on the age and generation. I'm fifty years old and Korean-American. But I also went to church every week. So my dating style was very conservative even though I was very aware of the dating culture in America. There is a generational shift towards faster hooking up in the West because of the internet and dating apps and even more causal attitude towards sex and Kelsey is really representative of that millennial generation. I 'm just surprised at the level of Kelsey's awareness since she is a Korean Korean as she claims.

This lady keeps it real without going over line she seems very lively and free too, but it was too short would wish for longer content

@KelseytheKorean

3 жыл бұрын

Aww thank u! I really try to not cross the line ☺️

@soundsoftheheart3164

3 жыл бұрын

@@KelseytheKorean you're amazing... I love your personality

@yellowbeez93

3 жыл бұрын

@@KelseytheKorean Cross the line? What line? I thought morals are subjective...according to liberals?

@yellowbeez93

3 жыл бұрын

@@glas4849 Yes and what is on that line?

@yayayaon1325

2 жыл бұрын

@@glas4849thats subjective , im okay with it

This was too funny. “Candy is candy.” - best Danny line yet. Kelsey was a great addition to the mix. Would be great to see her collab with you guys again in the future. Love seeing DKDKTV relaxed. 💯💯👍🏻👍🏻

confirmed: danny is american 😂😂😂

I can’t believe Kelsey actually came to the show lmao

@soundsoftheheart3164

3 жыл бұрын

It's something I needed in my life

@user-pl8rm5xc9y

3 жыл бұрын

who is she?

watching David be uncomfortable for 14 minutes and 32 seconds straight is so entertaining LMFAO

@Joy-hs8zc

3 жыл бұрын

🤣😂Facts

@jumbeaux1

3 жыл бұрын

She was side glancing at him to check his reaction. 😂

*Damn Kelsey is wild* 👀... *But seriously, I love how she's not afraid to express her opinions and also I love listening to her talk, like her voice is just weirdly soothing. Loved this collab. Def will check out more of her videos right now.* ❤❤

Asians are generally conservative. Thats the answer. HAHAHA

@zefersanity6537

3 жыл бұрын

not after watching japanese adult movies😂😂

@user-ti5um5ek1t

3 жыл бұрын

Not all they are just more cultured than westerners

@Ro-cp8uf

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-ti5um5ek1t in what way are they more cultured?

@TropicL3mon

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-ti5um5ek1t Yeah, no. You can piss off with your ignorant xenophobia.

@sambatra6162

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-ti5um5ek1t what do you mean by more cultured?

I love how honest and comfortable she is while talking about this kind of topic

Fact: Kelsey is LIT!!!

As a westerner I prefer the Korean way of dating. Here in the states dating is very rushed and is heavily focused on sex. I like the idea of taking things slow. I think it’s more romantic and sweet.

@euphg8604

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@neocrackheadtechnology2893

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@ignaciopazgarcia5370

3 жыл бұрын

Is just not things "slow".... There are a lot of other things that are not that great.

@neocrackheadtechnology2893

3 жыл бұрын

@@ignaciopazgarcia5370 I only like the “slow”

@ignaciopazgarcia5370

3 жыл бұрын

@@neocrackheadtechnology2893 yeah, that comes to preference. But it comes with the whole package of other stuff. Still, is up to you

Wow you guys just met her 5 minutes ago but looks like you guys have known each other for a decades.. She is So comfortable with you guys wow.. Need another collab with her.. So fun this video 👍👍

@INAN2222

3 жыл бұрын

Indeed! ❤️️

I admire how David date in an old fashioned way. Respect is way more important than physical attraction for a longer and happier relationship.

Imagine the perfect mix of Korean and Western dating. Where the guys treat the girls nicely and respectfully and there is more romance like in Korean dating but at the same time, the people don't feel pressure to go slow if they feel the vibe and feel comfortable to move faster like in Western dating and do it without worrying about being judged. That'd be pretty cool.

@zefersanity6537

3 жыл бұрын

europe is closest to that

@lechatnoir482

3 жыл бұрын

@@zefersanity6537 yes, but europe is too broad. I think it would differ from country to country.

@zefersanity6537

3 жыл бұрын

@@lechatnoir482 ya mostly western europe has that culture

@math7498

3 жыл бұрын

It’s literally Western Europe lmao

@milkbread5036

3 жыл бұрын

@@zefersanity6537 As someone who has lived in western Europe (Spain, France, Belgium etc) I would say they go fast as well... I mean in France you can see people doing the deed on public transport or public parks lmao. So no--- I don't think they're slow either. Maybe north europe?

Tip on holding hands: you can say something “hey let’s go to there(...)” and you grab their hand as if you’re guiding them - it won’t feel creepy as it is justified. Don’t let the hand go and keep walking as a couple lol, if you feel them letting go of your hand then 🤷🏻‍♀️ good luck next time I guess.

@frozenwoods863

3 жыл бұрын

Ohhh that’s actually a really good tip!!👍

@solvesoul727

3 жыл бұрын

surely better than Danny’s “ let me see how big is your hand” LMFAO

@iagreewithyou3478

2 жыл бұрын

@@solvesoul727 that legit would send the hairs on my arms raising

I laughed way too hard, Kelsey is so hilarious and her laughter is adorable, she's just won me as a subscriber 😂 I LOVED how she made both flinch in embarrassment at times, definitely want to see more collabs with her!

you guys really invited Kelsey! yay!!!

This is basically Danny and Kelsey ganging up on David. Lol 😂😂

@Joy-hs8zc

3 жыл бұрын

😂🤣👏Yes

As someone who hasn't had a serious physical relationship, I would appreciate the slower approach. But I can see both sides of the discussion.

Kelsey is honest and candid and very entertaining ! You go, girl!

I hugged a Korean guy I made friends with once in Korea-just a goodbye hug before I left-because his long time american/korean friends said it would be fine and encouraged me to do so. Needless to say...later found out he thought we were basically dating long distance after that lol. Welp. 💀

@etrikjen

3 жыл бұрын

Tell us what happened next 👁👁

@rhiko7

3 жыл бұрын

Whattttt!!!! Please update

@Victoria-bi8ee

3 жыл бұрын

No way wtf

@lm3341

3 жыл бұрын

what the hell

@selinafu

3 жыл бұрын

There are some ppl who thinks everything is a hint of you liking them....

I'm French but I really identify with the Korean style of dating. I'm married now and live in Seoul. I liked that my husband planned out dates in the beginning. We took it slow, he didn't touch me until we were in a relationship. I felt respected. We didn't live together before getting married either. We only moved in together two weeks after our marriage. When I met his parents in the beginning, I guess they were scared I would be a "Woohoooo" open-minded 외국인 but they were reassured when they realized I had that traditional side. I often hear that I have a Korean atmosphere. So, I'm on your side, David. ^^

@ngzual7325

3 жыл бұрын

Wow.. I really like your story . Coz everybody's talking about having sex so casually

@Raphanne

3 жыл бұрын

@@ngzual7325 yes, to each their own but I agree with you. Nowadays, I think people sexualize themselves a bit too much.

@KM-gp2yz

3 жыл бұрын

You can tell that Kelsey seems to be a self hating and probably thinks that everything in the western way is better.

@yayayaon1325

2 жыл бұрын

@@KM-gp2yz bro what

@welstonrodrigues571

2 жыл бұрын

@@KM-gp2yz no but you can live together before marriage. That makes it known how it is after the marriage. Who'll do the dishes , is the guy respectful enough to cook and so on. It's all about opinions. I am indian and i hate the culture here. Apparently even dating is a big no sometimes.

I honestly really prefer Korea dating culture. They go slower with their relationship. America goes to fast and just date for hookup.

@EVL-xj5vc

3 жыл бұрын

Hmm I’ve heard from conservative Americans who prefer to stay friends and get to know each other for months before they enter an official relationship, while in Korea the man and woman date 3 times and have to decide if they want to enter into an official relationship. They get hooked up fast and break up just as fast. Not exactly slow...

@katelady1370

3 жыл бұрын

I heard that Korean relationships go very fast too. Like they progress in their feelings faster. And they become bf and gf faster I hear too.

@EVL-xj5vc

3 жыл бұрын

@@katelady1370 because coupling is a culture there. Most (not all of course) like to experience romance.

@ppjskh

3 жыл бұрын

@@EVL-xj5vc The same goes for the U.S. Not everyone, myself included, is interested in a fast pace relationship and would rather take things slow and date for months or even years. My parents dated 10 years before they got married.

@EVL-xj5vc

3 жыл бұрын

@@ppjskh wow 10 years!! 👏🏼

I think when she said that the westren don't care, it's not entirely right. They just talk behind your back and with everyone , judgment is the same lol.

@TropicL3mon

3 жыл бұрын

Where are you getting this from? It sounds like you're basing your views off of teen dramas like Mean Girls or something.

@_lisa_8332

3 жыл бұрын

@@TropicL3mon No it's really like that though

@TropicL3mon

3 жыл бұрын

@@_lisa_8332 In high school maybe. But in the adult world, the amount of judgement is definitely not the same, at least not in general. I'm sure you could find specific cases that are but that's besides the point.

@ooupskitty7006

3 жыл бұрын

@@TropicL3mon Really? In Germany the judgement behind your back is normal. I tell you this because people actually told me in the face (that they like to talk behind somebodies else's back - it's call acting friendly 😂😤)

@lm3341

3 жыл бұрын

@@ooupskitty7006 empfinde ich auch so. finde es am extremsten bei nachbarn und schülern untereinander 🥴 vor allem an gesamtschulen

i 'm kinda in the korean's side since as an asian myself , i can say that you have to be careful about dating women and take everything slowly . rushing things in relationships can put you on the bad side . anyways loved your discussion .

@ignaciopazgarcia5370

3 жыл бұрын

So literally if you don't want to get in a serious relationship (further marriage). You can't do all the other variables without being judge by society?

@sk8aintstr813

3 жыл бұрын

Not all women want slow paced committed relationships. It depends on the person. Some women like casual relationships whcih are fast paced

@chrystianaw8256

Жыл бұрын

​@@sk8aintstr813 not many women though

@sk8aintstr813

Жыл бұрын

@@chrystianaw8256 it's not a small percentage. It's a handful of women who aren't extremely prudish or modest in their romantic or sexual endavours

really enjoyed this adult-talk session. more videos with Kelsey would be awesomeee

Kelsey is absolutely fantastic !!

2:59 The way Danny spilled the tea 🍵

I would like point out a strong distinction between "shaking your ass" and "wagging your butt". . "shaking your ass" has a strong mature and often sexual connotation. Usually related to dancing. . "wagging your butt" is usually more of a cute and non-sexual thing and is similar in context and movement to when dogs wag there tails (and sometimes whole back ends) when their are happy/excited. . so which is it that David does? it makes a difference.

@jocelyncarrillo7663

3 жыл бұрын

bruh its not that deep

@kairallison

3 жыл бұрын

​@@jocelyncarrillo7663 it's not necessarily that deep but how things are phrased can significantly change the meaning. . and you have to keep in mind the David, while fluent and extremely good in English, still has it as a second language and may not be aware of or naturally think of conceptual differences in similar English phrases and terms. . so while it may not be a significant thing in your mind, it can be extremely helpful for people who are not native in English. and the same goes for all other languages. it's not cool, quirky, or funny for you to try and shame or talk down to others that are genuinely trying to help. You may not think of it in this way, but leaving comments like "it's not that deep" is discouraging to people trying to help while also, inadvertently gatekeeping the subject in question (in this case it's language and cultural context in relation to it). . restricting knowledge (whether you do it on purpose or as an accidental side effect of you actions) is one of the easiest ways to cause completely avoidable misunderstandings.

@imasunflowerlilfunny3353

2 жыл бұрын

@@kairallison bruh lol..take it easy.. i guess everyone got it what he was trying to say...

You guys all mesh well together. This is hysterical. 😂

Ouuuuu David Kim I ain't knew you was a freak 🌝🤭 Looking all innocent

@kenzuriko4772

2 жыл бұрын

David so innocent he wouldn't even harm a fly🤣

I absolutely LOVE the chemistry between you three!! I love Kelsey and you three were sooo funny together! Please invite her for other videos ❤

We need more David's in this world 😁

guys make her a regular the vibes and chemistry are amazing

I'm so glad Kelsey was part of this! Thank you Kelsey! Your perspective is needed! I so vibe with you! Loved it!

this was so funny, honestly I find material for a series you three had a natural good chemistry. Loved it!

Fact: David feels like he's being watched. 😂😂😂😂

Omg! She actually came! Dkdktv! Make more videos with her. I love how free and open minded she is, plus she also has expierience in and out of korea as you guys. Next video with her could be about how koreans percieve korean americans like what are the advatages and disadvantages.

As a white American it’s so crazy I always end up agreeing with David in these videos lol I guess I’m just not that bold

@asdfghjkl-oo7lv

3 жыл бұрын

Not sure if you live in a conservative area in the US (like the Bible belt) so that could also be a factor.

@sjplus36

3 жыл бұрын

White American here and agree with David also!

@taki1255

3 жыл бұрын

Black girl from the Caribbean here. I almost always agree with David too 😆

@alisonfraser3305

3 жыл бұрын

Knowing your own preferences and limits and being able to communicate them, is the most important thing. It doesn’t matter where you are from. And lots of people feel as you do.

@Shady-vy8uh

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I agreed, its not really about geographical area. But more to your UPBRINGING & CLOSE CIRCLES. Like how do you value your potential relationship and potential bf. For me personally, i hang out with guys i dated for a while before any physical contacts, and the relationship lasted min 2 years+ and my current BF more than 3 yrs, and we seeing each other friends/families and of course intend to marry each other, even though later on broke up. I’m 30 yrs old now, i have 3 serious r/ship and a few just lasted for months only. I also have experienced like Kelsey & Danny’s approach on dating, but it never lasted > 3 mths. Cz obviously it was more to temporary desire than a deep emotional connection. Based on experience, i will be definitely conservative when dating cz I’m looking for a serious relationship rather than ONS. The guy’s intention when dating is really important, and for me to meet your friends/family are also equally important. Im surprised when David / Danny says their family doesn’t even know their GF. I will be hurt if I’m being hidden like that.

There is definitely a place for the David’s in the world! It’s nice to be dating someone without expectations of sex from the off. I like those first few dates and texting etc, the chase, that’s the best time, however, I think it probably would prove frustrating if someone wanted more but won’t/can’t due to “social expectations” or caring too much about people’s judgements. I’m on Danny’s side for this one, if you both want something, then go for it, it really doesn’t matter about anyone else’s views or opinions. A mix of the two would be a great combo!

Im so glad to see her here. This was a fun video and Im grateful for the variety of topics. Kelsey seems really fun. I enjoyed this one.

I was waiting for this video!! It was definitely worth the wait! You 3 should do more together!

I waited for this desperately. @kelsey thank you for showing up, @DKDKTV thank you guys for bringing her to the channel.

I'm latina so this is reaaally interesting, like both sides have struggles and benefits. However I would like to acknowledge that the person I`m dating is really into me, like some kind of clear signal and not wait 3 dates to hold only my hand, maybe like in the second date if we vibe and then at the third date a kiss, and then a continous progress Kelsey is real, I like it ! PS: cuando David dijo que una vez que una chica haya salido con un Koreano, you can never go back to western. I was thinking "once you go black you never go back" does that make any sense??!! lol

I'm so hyped for this I wanted y'all to interact ever since I saw your reaction video! This is gonna be gr8!!!🎉👍

Great video, loved the vibe that she had with you guys, would love to see more in the future of the three of you guys commenting on the Korean culture of dating!! Interesting subject!

I hav a feeling its going to b epic

12:30 "i don't wanna defend myself" mood

@DKDKTV There is great chemistry between the three of you. I think a segment for topics such as this with Kelsey should be added to your line up. This was fun to watch she is the perfect balance between the both of you. I look forward to seeing more in the future good luck.

Awe I’m so glad you guys collabed! Kelsey is hilarious and open! Yes!!

So glad you guys collaborated. Great video!

I'm not even finished the video yet, but I'm enjoying it so so much! It's just so fun to watch Danny and David triggering each other and Kelsey fanning the flames, and then everyone breaks down cackling. So much fun! Great collab, everyone!

Love it..unfiltered, open and honest... brilliant job you three!!

Loved the dynamic between the three of you and hearing all the different perspectives was super interesting.

Loving this content. Keep going guys!

You guys have such a great vibe together, love this 💕

I love this collaboration. I did watch Kelsey's video as well as the collabs she did with Annie Nova. My perspective is that we are all products of our cultures/environments/upbringing/generation. It's interesting to learn about other cultures and social norms...and they may seem awkward or foreign, but I think we should try to learn and understand versus judge.

THE best collab on YT I love how we get all perspectives

This was an awesome discussion. It made me think of the dating rituals when I was younger.. Things have changed so much..

@kingkong905

2 жыл бұрын

How so?

Que buen videoooo tan real y abierto, me gusto mucho la colaboración. Gracias.

I absolutely adore Kelsey!!! I loved how she was the same with you guys as she is in her videos. N didn't get all timid n shy... Keeping it real!!! So so funny!!!!!

David is adorable - love his attitude and style of dating. Danny is a typical ‘gimme sex now cuz that’s all I give a shit about’ kinda guy. Love that Kelsey is in the mix for this.

i have been waiting for this collab

Yes I was waiting for this colab

This makes me happy. I already subscribe to all of you and I'd love to see regular crossovers. The vibe is really fun. ❤️👍

Great collaboration. I subscribe both channels and the three of you together is gold!!!

I am so happy about this collaboration! This was funny!

That was such an interesting video 😄 I love the interaction 💜

i loved this so much! thanks guys

This was hilarious! I love Kelsey's channel too. I want to be featured on both of your channels one day. Manifesting it now 😜

i was waiting for this for so long

Another great discussion! I hope you collab again in the future.

I've waited so long for this collaboration and we want more! 😁 And btw, team David all the way! 😂👌

You guys should def make more vids together...was quite fun watching this 🤣🤣

This was so interesting to watch bring up more videos like this

My Favorite KZreadrs collabing😍💜💜

Great content guys❤️

This video is so hilarious! Should’ve been a podcast or something. You guys should collab more in the future

Lmao “candy is candy” 🤣 I could have watched a half hour of this tbh. Y’all are hilarious together.

I love the collaboration 😍🔥

"Forward faster bam bam" 👌 Golden words. Very interesting and I really appreciate Kelsey presence ☺️

Love this interview and Kelsey. Laughed hard.. very entertaining. Love Danny and David.. Kelsey was a wonderful mixed of a young woman point of view. Great job!

@kingkong905

2 жыл бұрын

What did you love about it?

IM SO EXCITED!!!

Love Kelsey so much, this collab was very fun watching. Please invite her again

😂😂😂 Yes!!! Love this video. Definitely gonna go check Kelsey’s page 😁😁

Kelsey is so fun and entertaining lol. Hope you guys have her on the channel more!

I keep watching this video again and again. It's never not entertaining! I love Kelsey with Danny and David.

I LOVE this collab :D Kelsey should be a regular!

This is very funny and natural. Kelsey should be on your show more. You three have great chemistry and it shows!

Hi! Guys. Loved this video and the interaction between you all. 🙋‍♀️ from Panama 🇵🇦

It's DKKTKDK TV!! I LOVE this vibe! 🙋🏼‍♀️👏🏼🙏🏼👍🏼✌🏼

Oh glad they actually collab. So funny to see the reaction.

Love this collaboration. I think I stumbled onto Kelsey's channel after she had posted a few videos and I found her to be so open. I hope she's a female voice we hear in future videos too 😄

Hahaha oh my gosh I loved this collaboration sooo much!! Kelsey is so down to earth & real shes the reason I came here but you guys are soo funny & open as well!! Cant wait for more!!:)

This was super fun! Kelsey's laugh is so cute haha

It was so much fun to see such an open and entertaining discussion! 😋♥️ Going slow and actually being chivalrous is so rare these days, that if you find a guy like that - you automatically think it's Sus. 😅😂

@kingkong905

2 жыл бұрын

True, most men are not mature due to many reasons. I love discussions like those. Btw are you single?

Omg finallyyyyy!!!!🙌🏻💙