Its same for me, I am 33 still stuck in high school, stuck all the wrongdoings I have done, The guilt is kind of eats me alive.

@AlmightyMind

3 ай бұрын

You live and you learn man. Everyone’s young and dumb in high school don’t let it eat you up. Use it to move forward as the best version of yourself that you can be

@dwade3202

3 ай бұрын

I was the same dude, so much so that I got fuckin' gastritis because I was thinking about that shit all the time. The good thing is that you feel bad now because you are not the same guy as before, if you were, you wouldn't feel bad. We can't change the past but we can learn from it and let that shit finally go and be free from it. Turn your focus towards the present and be the guy you wanted to be now.

@iamworstgamer

3 ай бұрын

@@dwade3202 its not as simple as that, we dont deserve happy ending, at least i dont.

@ykbrandz9602

3 ай бұрын

@@iamworstgamerit was never simple ….. I’m sorry you feel a way that you can’t forgive urself…. But please only forgive yourself when you’re ready to forgive yourself and grow….change… you can make it out of what you’re going through… that’s if you want to make it out of the dark. Or that Darkness will carry on consuming you and you will feel worse

@sixxseven9144

3 ай бұрын

It’s tough I am the same age too hard thing to accept is all the wasted times and years, but it’s either we learn now and grow or let the guilt eat us alive 🤷🏾‍♂️ but I understand it’s still not as easy as it sounds

The more people you meet, the more events that take place, the more successful you become, the more life you live, the further your past becomes

@s0nnyburnett

2 ай бұрын

not for everyone

@Iamthesenateiwillmakeitlegal

2 ай бұрын

@@s0nnyburnett Jesus is for everyone my friend he will heal you if you call out to him accept him invite him into your heart and ask him to save you

@DingleCerri

Ай бұрын

I agree with this so much. I work in a hotel conference center and I meet new people every day.

The past is there to guide you, not to define you.

These past few days I have been hearing a lot of messages about letting go of shame. I think God is reminding me it’s okay to let it go. Not only am I forgiven, but I learned from those mistakes.

@jingleballs9935

2 ай бұрын

It’s just the algorithm bro

@ichigotheg.o.a.t

2 ай бұрын

​@@jingleballs9935God could can be controlling the algorithm bro bro bruh bruh.

Lowering your expectations due to past mistakes is so relatable

If you’re watching this video… you notice that you made those mistakes, which proves you care. Give yourself a chance to be better… for the person you were had to make those mistakes to become the person you are now. I am strong because I’ve been weak Brave because I’ve been afraid And wise because I’ve been foolish

@jm-drums498

2 ай бұрын

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

I’m 31 years old, I have been married to my wife for 6 years and we have a 2 year old son. They are my world and they are the only thing that has kept me going lately. I am constantly paranoid and anxious. I have been constantly thinking that people are out to get me, that I will lose my family and my life will be ruined. The feelings of not deserving to be happy have always been with me and I think my family deserves a lot better than me. I have had stretches where I have been healthy but the paranoia always comes back and this time it has taken its largest toll yet. I just want to come out the other side and enjoy my life with my wife and son. I appreciate all the positivity here, it’s encouraging and I wish the best to everyone dealing with similar thoughts and feelings that I deal with.

@hunteraguado1093

2 ай бұрын

Brother I hope you see this. Worrying does nothing but weigh you down. If somethings gonna go wrong it’s gonna go wrong. But what if it doesn’t? And you wasted all that time worrying for absolutely nothing. And if it does then let it be, learn from it, grow from it. Don’t be scared of pain. It’s necessary in order to appreciate the good. I e been there so I’m speaking from experience. Not preaching. God bless you

@kevins.279

2 ай бұрын

I did see this and I hope you see my reply. You made my day and helped me relax a bit. I have been sober 6 years now and since I got sober the anxiety and paranoia has been off the charts. I have spent years worrying about things that wasted a lot of my energy. My wife tells me the same thing you did that I am worrying for nothing. I keep working everyday to try and shake this and I am trying to tell myself that I am going to be okay. Thanks for your reply, means a lot to me. @@hunteraguado1093

@TheBrowning1911

2 ай бұрын

God bless you, brother. You need community, a good church. I'm not sure where you stand, but men need their true king, and Christ is whom you seek. Your family is a great treasure, and your wife and son's love will help heal you. Give him time to grow, see the man your son will become. Joy awaits, stay strong, and look to The Cross. Peace and Grace to you!

I am 64 waiting for a triple bypass in the hospital and I see it as fresh start a chance to learn from the past experience and to be better finding places like this help because I have a painful hard challenge a head of me thanks for being here

That was awesome. I'm 73 so many mistakes and regrets. But I'm still learning. Doing good.

@AlmightyMind

2 ай бұрын

That’s great to hear. I’m glad you enjoyed 👑

Thanks, I really needed to hear this as I was stuck in High School myself and I just turned 21 this month still in my hometown right now. I am still fresh as a daisy but through Covid, my Uncle and mom passing during that time, also the process of losing your friends, man just so much pain and I am teaching myself not to play victim. The whole video from beginning to the end gave me a new perspective on what to convert my hurt into so thanks a lot for that. It’s not over till it’s over from what I learned 💯

@AlmightyMind

3 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that brother. It definitely sounds like you’re moving in the right direction with the right mindset. Keep pushing 💪🏽

@Brhoward31

2 ай бұрын

I lost my grandmother and mom by 21. My grandmother raised me, I know your pain. You HAVE to pick yourself up and use your pain as fuel.

3 days ago my ex gf broke things off with me. i did and said some things i shouldnt have, i know that, i apologized for them and now i am trying to move on and learn from my mistakes. but its hard. the memories feel like an anchor weighing me down, especially on days like this one. nice weather, its getting warmer again and the thoughts of what we could be doing right now and what we planned feel like a dagger being twisted in my heart. ive been here before and i know it will get better but its tough. i really love her. thankful for my family and friends around me and i know better things are coming, i just hoped i could share that with her. but now it is time to learn and move on, no matter how hard and painful it is i want to get through this and grow. thank you for this video

@peanutbutterpandapuffs

2 ай бұрын

Sorry you had to go through this, stay strong brother. Know that many of us have gone through and let us let you know that there is hope on the other side of this pain and suffering. Don't feel alone and dont ever be afraid to reach out to those around you for support

@Pillshere31

2 ай бұрын

@@peanutbutterpandapuffs thank you for your kind words, means a lot. hope you and your family are doing well and will continue to do so

@brianthomas3451

2 ай бұрын

You got this. Take time to work on bettering yourself, and someone else will come along.

@Cody339

Ай бұрын

Same here.. sooner you let it go the better. Wasn't meant to be.. don't waste anymore time.

I needed this 4 years ago... Still, better late than never❤

And regret is just a memory written on my brow, and there’s nothing I can do about it now.

letting go is my biggest challenge

@jm-drums498

2 ай бұрын

Mine too man

Needed to hear this, I feel like my relationship with my ex girlfriend went down the shitter because I made some mistakes and couldn’t get past them no matter how hard I tried to make it right. To anyone reading this remember that if you dwell on your mistakes, you are no better than the person who made those mistakes even if that isn’t you anymore.

@AlmightyMind

3 ай бұрын

Great advice man 💪🏽

@Imitatechrist

3 ай бұрын

Look, let us just be genuine. In Truth and our depth of love. Your comment still reads hard on yourself, though you're on a good path. If it wasn't with cheating involved, don't beat yourself up anymore. The only Sin is adultery, that is, loyalty, trust we selfishly and cowardly ever put second. Gratitude helps being loyal. Which is not the same as pride. I usually tell myself if I did something well: not "I'm proud of you", "I'm grateful you took care of yourself". You're not alone. Your realisation reads really well, responsible, you did not fingerpoint to her - but take ownership rightfully; whatever it is what the mistake was of yours, you're past that. God bless you brother. ☦️ from Ukrаіne

@MasculineMeat

3 ай бұрын

@@Imitatechrist Thanks man, no I did not cheat and in all honesty it was not all my fault and the longer away from the relationship I spend I realize I had it pretty bad myself. I just am trying to better myself as well as surround myself with like minded people who don't judge but help you up. Take care man and I hope you are doing well.

got recommended to me in an opportune time when Im just about to take new direction in life.

This is great! Im not 100% moved on from an old mistake but will do soon

Thank you, I appreciate and needed this video so much.

@AlmightyMind

4 ай бұрын

I’m glad it helped you brother 💪🏽

God!! I love this! Thank you 🙏🏼

I'm not gonna lie. This almost brought a tear to my eye.😢

This was so inspirational. I can relate to this being a former veteran and addict who lost everything.

Just stoppin by to give the kuddos to my man Dwight. The realist of the real in YT.

Needed this today. Right on time.

I must let go of life and stop trying to survive 😞

I needed to hear this, I’ve been stuck in the failures I had in the army. I wasn’t the best soldier but I wasn’t the worst

Need to watch this. 🙏🏽

I think what I’ve always been lacking is having my dad around. How I am towards my daughter like encourage her to do things and give her advice on things to do and not to do in life, I wish I had that growing up. I’ve done some bad stuff and failed at a lot of things but had no encouragement to do better or anybody to let me know that I’m doing good. I had my mum around and she always been loving and caring but as a male, I needed my dad around to give me that masculine discipline and just to have a healthy father figure. I never did and I believe that had a massive impact on my life. From my experience, it’s vital for children to have both parents around because it puts to halves of coins to one (if that makes sense) because if not, then that children will forever be missing something because I am and will live the rest of my life with a missing part of me which I desperately needed.

I understand the message but its also important to heal the past through therapy etc..

I cheated on GF and she left me, I felt really bad for the first month. But I accepted what I did and I started to reflect on what went wrong. I can’t be living in the past, I have to acknowledge I fucked up. Learn and move on. Don’t make the same mistake. I hope everyone is doing alright.

@nickdiaz6095

3 ай бұрын

Been there. One day I reflected and was just honest w/myself and said I was doing POS stuff. Then asked myself do i wanna grow up and be a POS or a solid man. Make your aim to be a solid man in everything you do but also realize too that just because youre solid now, dosent mean everyone else is. The new code that you live by doesnt apply to everyone so be aware, sometimes your karma comes back to even the score.

@partaz4304

2 ай бұрын

I feel ya

@spacenightmares7767

Ай бұрын

I feel you, brother. I'm 26, and I never had a GF, although I would love to have/have had one. My greatest fear is not dying. My greatest fear is being cheated on. Cheating is something I would never do and never forgive. Cheating is not a mistake it's a choice. I one party says no, nothing will happen. That is, of course, my opinion. I'm glad you were able to take responsibility for what you did and learn from it. If you admit that you fucked up, take responsibility, learn from it, I bet you won't do it again. Hope you're doing well, brother.

Thanks for this post man.

@AlmightyMind

3 ай бұрын

Any time brother 💪🏽

I really needed this today. Thanks.

Joe Rogan’s voice eats me up man. What a guy, he’s the freaking goat. Beautiful vid brother

@AlmightyMind

2 ай бұрын

I appreciate it brother💪🏽

Ty for this.

I’d say the hardest part of my sobriety after a decade and a half of opiates was the guilt after. All the relationships ruined, music career lost, the people I hurt and bridges I’ve burned to the ground. Guilt is a bitch that will always be there. Stay strong out there if you struggled like me. You can make it through it you can make it out the hole you’re in brothers and sisters!

Amazing post brotha great stuff

@AlmightyMind

3 ай бұрын

Much appreciated brother 👑

nothing to regret...we all a sinner .....forgive your self and move on 🤍🤍🤍🤍

@RoastTurtle2

2 ай бұрын

That contradicts itself. We are sinners in Christianity's eyes because of something two people did at the beginning of time. There is no such thing as sin

@TheSilverShadow17

Ай бұрын

Plus it's obvious that I never gave a single damn about people's religious beliefs and all that. They can believe whatever they like and I won't care at all.

Words of Wisdom😇

Struggling with this rn

This post just described me, I dwell and I regret, it eats at me

Thanks.

The kingdom of Heaven is my future, the earth is just a tutorial

@loveydove5477

2 ай бұрын

I believe you💜☦️💜

@Mindstangle

2 ай бұрын

Nice, two anime pictures having a spiritual conversation. This is useful.

@abigailepalacios5463

2 ай бұрын

Never said it wasn't do Good in u will enter

@darkoperator6732

Ай бұрын

Insha'Allah.. Imma make it.

@loveydove5477

Ай бұрын

@@darkoperator6732 Not under Islam brother

Letting go is something that happens as you heal, and less of an action one takes

@godman7331

3 ай бұрын

You need to let yourself let go (Stop holding on to the bad feelings)

@pineappleflow2876

3 ай бұрын

@7331 If you try to force it, it's just denial and avoidance

@AJ-xv7oh

3 ай бұрын

​@@pineappleflow2876That's not true. Once a person becomes aware they are dwelling on the past and it's having a negative impact, action can be taken. I know because I've done it.

To become the person you're meant to be you have to let the person you were rest, and become the past.

So i did wat i have too and thats forgive so we can get the next 7 years going.... i love u guys God bless u all...

Cool video

You let go. I’ve got nothing to let go of.

Wow. I needed to hear this. Why did this show up on my KZread feed page? Thank you god.

One of the best things to remember is that you will never be perfect and you will always do dumb things that you will look back on and laugh and think "how foolish". Even for bad things. But they do not define us. We are always learning and always growing up, we learn from our mistakes and gain wisdom from them. The best thing you can do is do your best to keep yourself in check on being a good person as much as you can. Because then you know you're doing your part the best you can.

I rlly rlly needed to hear this man holy shit.

So true

My dilemma is not dwelling on the past in regret and guilt. It’s more like I can’t venture out into new styles or like new things because I didn’t like them to begin with. Lately it’s been wearing cowboy boots and hats, because I genuinely like the style of them lately, but yet I fear that people I know will give me shit about it because I was never like that and now all the sudden I’m wearing this different style. I’m not too bad about it but it’s there subtly

Live and learn. It's ok to feel hurt when a wound is fresh, but don't let that wound become you. Let it heal, live, try new things, meet new people, reflect, learn and slowly but surely, the heal wounds. It may hurt for a bit, especially if you keep picking at it, but if you just let the process of time do it's thing and you do your best to live a life worth living, the wound heals

Sometimes to get where you want to be in life, you have to let everything go first. Don't dwell on the past.

He Is so deep. I never forgive myself..holla rogan

The problems is when others around you wont let you move on, constantly remind you of your failings.

@CooperZ2

3 ай бұрын

Those people aren't your friends man. Sometimes a friend just becomes someone that you has history with, or they were always shit to begin with. Our culture puts a lot of emphasis on friendship being this amazing thing when sometimes you're just not going to meet someone that is like the brother you never had for the rest of your life. Just doesn't work that way.

@rickyfoster5717

2 ай бұрын

Especially when it's family...I got tired of hearing their hypocritical and judgemental shit years ago and have been through stretches were we don't talk..and you know what?? We're in that state right now and I'm cool with it. People need to look in the mirror and see what they can do to make their own lives better..not constantly condemning and reminding someone of their past mistakes..because believe me..nobody has beat up Ricky Foster..more than Ricky Foster has for 30+ years.

NOTING IS GIVEN , EVERYTHING IS EARNED . WHATEVER U WANT , U COME GET IT

@TheSilverShadow17

Ай бұрын

Our physical existence wasn't 'earned' through anything. We're immediately given various privileges the second we're born. The thing I don't give is a rat's ass what anyone says.

I can’t let it go if people are shoving it down my throat every day systematically because they don’t want me to let it go

I have no regrets but I have no goals or desires. I won't unalive myself.

Its hard sometimes I still hear the the final words they screamed at me or just the voice and the memory of how it happened. Theyre many and each day passes it becomes blurry to me like its just a single voice. I dont even know most of them but I’m good at what I do but that was me 4 decades ago I already left that place hoping it wont repeat to my family. But i dont know how to let go of those times

🙏🏼

I really wanna quit boxing and have a moment of peace but just a couple months ago my dad passed away and a couple days before he died he told me he was proud of me the only reason I continue to do boxing is because of him if I quit I’ll regret it but if I keep going I’ll ruin myself I really do think boxing isn’t the way but in reality I don’t know the way I don’t have anything or anyone to look up too kinda weird cuz I never really been close with my dad but I think about him everyday same with my older sister life is hard it’s confusing

I prefer what Mike tyson said once. And I quote, "nah, its never in the past"

31 going on 60 My insides are tired, my bones are weary. Shame and regret feast on the soul, slowly taking their toll. Distant stares hide behind a racing mind. Slowly, eating away. The never ending, invisible war.

I left a half a bottle of Scotch I took to a party about a month ago. I regretted it for about 17 minutes. I stopped and bought another bottle on the way home and moved forward.

you are powerful beyond your wildest imagination

God does not play around. Sometimes it’s not pretty, but the lessons will be taught and sometimes you have to call on your own Divine might to make it through. 💪😎⚡️⚡️ cherish your victories, laugh at your defeats and learn from everything.

It’s the Poverty that hurts and burnt deepest

Actions define you. The only way to change the way you see the past is if you use it to fuel your decisions in the future. In my experience, if you wronged others, then you become more selfless. If you wronged yourself, then you invest in taking better care of yourself. Odds are we all have done wrongs to ourselves and others. So become selfishly selfless lol

real

🙏🤝

I guess my only issue with this is what if you hurt people? Family? Friends? I’m not sure if you should just move on and forgive yourself for hurting people and act like it didn’t happen…

Very true. I used to be struck in high school. We are just people. and we should show love. Understand now?

I just need an old man with a southern accent half-sarcastically cheer me on

The problem is that it is difficult to keep moving forward when you never have direction and you are never sure what you are doing.

I've been getting back up a little too long now. I'm 20 I know I know that I might be young but I've experienced my fair share of ups and downs in life. And I discovered that I'm tired now and I no longer want to get up I may not have experienced the worst in life or the best but I'm tired. So maybe it's time for this dog to be laid to rest and dream a better dream

It's hard

That’s me and I don’t know how to move forward

And about breakups? I hurt her, i broke up. Now i have second thoughts. And I feel bad.

@gond9166

Ай бұрын

What happens happens. Learn and move on. Just be better with the next woman you love. Because you can’t change the past. And apologizing will only make things worse. Let time heal the wounds and move on.

@Fly_CosLifeguard

Ай бұрын

We are talking for a human being tho.@@gond9166

The only woman I ever PROPERLY loved, I met in high school. I don't have a way to get over her. "Coping mechanisms" don't describe how to get over the person you thought completed you. There's no love left inside. At most, all that remains is a lingering curiosity. And that doesn't sell an invitation to a date, let alone my autistic way of attempting subtlety. (i.e., telling them I'm attracted to them, but if they're not down, that's fair)

unforunately, you would not stop

Easier said than done.

I made a costly mistake that lost me my wife, my job, my car, my homes... literally lost everything I had... and I'm ready for death because of it. As much as I've tried to move forward, I have to live with all the consequences of my actions... which has cost me a lifetime of any chance for happiness. I'm somehow still above ground... but hopefully not for long.

@billpappa5857

Ай бұрын

Love you brother

damnn

Stuck with horrific ways i trated my loved ones 30 years ago. No friends and will never date. I live alone and smoke till i pass out eveyday

@rileySOG.29

Ай бұрын

My exact position in life.🙏

Talk 2 the serial killers on deathrow or in prison from this perspective.😮

Let what go ? I’m not stuck

@rosse6705

3 ай бұрын

Obviously the video isn't for you then 😂

@books4739

3 ай бұрын

The fact that you’re not stuck is holding you back. Let it go and forgive yourself. It’s OK man.

Anyone know what podcast that Joe Rogan dialogue is from?

@danielgraver1829

2 ай бұрын

Theo von this past weekend 403

What do you do when you are relentlessly held accountable by society for mistakes made decades ago, how do you let it go when society constantly holds you accountable ?

Good thing I don’t look back.

LOOP THIS EPISODE FOR THE NEXT 2 HOURS. You'll wake up for sure. ( YOU'RE WELCOME.)

I destroyed the world and died that night Only GOD alone could allow an escape from that time place & hell I've created

You think when you grow up and matured you won't make mistakes. You will. And you will make stupid mistakes. And that's ok. Allow yourself to be stupid and not figure out everything at once. Now, I'm writing this all down when I still carry burden, shame and guilt for past and present mistakes. Talking about men now - when we race for superiority, strive and transformation, today's cult of constantly trying to prove we are better than what we are at the moment, looking for acceptance and validation, it often corner us because it turns our race is invisible for others, and it's exhausting. There's barely anyone here to tap you on a shoulder, hug you, telling you it's ok to slow down, just be here and rest... Like everywhere you look, there are expectations and demands men has to meet to prove themselves to be valued and respected. It can wear you out... But, as everyone says - you don't fail if you keep trying.

"im accepted in myself by what i am but not as i think i should be, because thats a lie

Fuck! Whenever I think about my regrets it just makes me pissed as hell! And I don't want to learn, so I just keep running and running and doing the same shit over and over again. NEVER AGAIN!!!! From now on I'm gonna completely expend myself all the time. From now on, I'm just gonna rage through life. I'm just gonna do everything out of spite and pride and self hatred! There's nothing left to lose! I'm either gonna kill the past and redeem myself, or die trying. Either way, the suffering will finally end.

Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus. Philippians 3:13-14

I regret therefore I drink.

Stuck at 4 years old for going outside and riding my bicycle when I was told not to… leading to me being abused physically and verbally by my biological father…. Stripped and Whipped until complete submission butt ass naked… at 4 years old… I hate thinking I was so weak… I couldn’t defend myself…. I was four fucking years old and just a child who learned how to ride his bike with out training wheels….

Twelve years ago I achieved the only thing I wanted in life... to be a husband. I've now been divorced for seven. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't regret who I was, and how I could have done better. Doesn't matter if she could have done better... she could have.... I can only account for myself. It haunts me because I never got to fulfill two promises made on my wedding day. 1)That I would ensure we were the old couple with wrinkles on the front porch in rocking chairs. And most importantly.... the promise I made to God that she would be the only one, til death do us part. I didn't file for the divorce... but because God wasn't in the center of our marriage, it failed. That was my responsibility. Unfinished business which is destined to stay that way. I still have to talk to her on a regular basis because we have a child together. Pleasantries are necessary to keep a good relationship for my child's sake, but it hurts....simply because we're better people now. Difficult to say how one moves past that.... and simply lets go.

NEVA

Anthony for being hanibal😂