Its really hard to start a new life without parents 😅.... But it depends on family to family...

I have only one Son and being a parent i only thinking of his life to settle in abroad.There is no doubt we will miss him but seeing our son having better life in abroad will be proud feeling..So i feel bcoz of parents do not stop your dream of abroad studies..

@BharatinGermany

3 жыл бұрын

That's the right mindset. All the best for you guys.

@vivekverma1148

2 жыл бұрын

But my parents are old

@Melbournemiles

2 жыл бұрын

Sir I left my parents in India moved to Australia. I want to settle and bring them to Australia but before that could happen corona hit them and I lost both of them. I feel like a failed daughter. Now this comforts in Australia not making me happy. I miss my parents and I’m living with guilt. I feel I’m so cruel

@love13f

2 жыл бұрын

@@Melbournemiles this is so so sad. I'm 17 yo in class 12. I don't know if I should move to some.other country. I just can't leave my parents and friends here. I wish I could somehow live the "foreign wali lifestyle" while living in india. I wish you all the best for life and I hope you always know how much your parents love you and are proud of your success❤

@priyaravi789

2 жыл бұрын

@@Melbournemiles you are a good daughter. Please try to come out of the guilt

I feel the same as I am the only child, and my parents are old, My biggest fear is not being able to properly care for them as I will be studying in another country for 4 years. At the same time I want to enjoy the experience of studying abroad,learning new things, becoming a more responsible person.

@sumerahmed9816

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@veenaashokan4271

3 жыл бұрын

I have a only child & he's very keen to go abroad, to Germany for higher studies. I will miss him terribly.

@hayathcollection1863

3 жыл бұрын

😞 I also one child of my parent and I m planning for undergraduate

@user-kg4fx4tt3t

3 жыл бұрын

@@veenaashokan4271 parents support is tremendous if the child is still struggling between weather to change for better or stay the same. Right words and action will always help them shape up to be a better person in life. May your child chooses what is good for him/her.😊

@otismilburn1052

2 жыл бұрын

Same here

My child has just went to another country for higher studies. Even though I have 2 children, however I feel like I have lost my limbs or someone has took my heart from me . The only thing which is keeping me sane is.....imagining my child pursuing her dreams , making new friends , being a confident person. As a parent , I feel that we should let our children chase their goals and yes each and every day is a new lesson for us as Parents to our children .

I am not comfortable about leaving my parents and settling abroad. I think one has to have a plan that includes parents as no one would like to see parents dying alone with no one to look after. We owe it to them.

@Jack-tk1is

Жыл бұрын

Your parents BrainWashed you by Narcissism

@maroonenterprise677

Жыл бұрын

True currently I am living abroad have wealth but still nothing. I haven't seen my parents for 2 years. I feel that I am not a good son.

@Jack-tk1is

Жыл бұрын

@@maroonenterprise677 Your Responsibility is your future Children

@maroonenterprise677

Жыл бұрын

@@Jack-tk1is is it justified to let your aging parents die alone without us. We can't be selfish at least we Hindus love our parents as much as we love our children

@Jack-tk1is

Жыл бұрын

@@maroonenterprise677 who said they have to die without us ?? I said atleast we first have to focus on our carrier soo ae can provide better facilities to everyone...... & should not feel guilty moving outside India ,,, same as our parents moved from small towns to big cities for opportunities!!! & Overall, if you have skills you'll be better of in Developed Countries

This has given me a clear mindset about the rest of my life. Thanks man !

I'm afraid that while studying abroad, god forbid if anything bad happens to my parents like if they fall sick and die then I'll regret for my whole life that i couldn't able to see them in their last moment of their life.

Top notch video Bharat.... I am not sure but I think most of my generation have started developing a lot of emotional connect with parents to the extreme. If you take our parents gen, most of them left their home at ages of 18-21 and move to urban areas in search of career opportunities. In case of us, it is kinda the same but the distance is large. However, with technology we can catch up with everyone anytime. Anyways, as you said, in the end what matters is - How good of a life you as an individual lived, which should be more about making a difference in someone's life rather than just setting benchmark of money earned....

Thank u so much brother for sharing this valuable information.... Recently, I figured out your channel....and I really love your blogs❤️

thank you, your words really helped me🙂

I'm a Filipino high school student and an aspiring international student. I want to study abroad upon hearing the opportunities and the chance to get into a new culture. But a thing that breaks my heart is knowing that I'll have to leave my parents and home for me to be able to pursue my dreams. Another one that I mind is my brother who's an autistic kid living with my parents. They are not against with my plan as long as I can manage and live by myself. Yet they anticipate and worry that this might be a way for me to apply for citizenship and spend the rest of my life there. Well, I may not be firm with my plans after studying but it's still a decision that I have to consider. Hoping that the best plan works and God will guide me on my journey to future.

If someone wants to upgrade life in terms of financially, mentally, & physically then I think we should go for it. I think parents would proud. it depends upon your life So just ask yourself that Are u glad with what you have currently?

Good message 👏👏👏

Osm video Thanx for this one🔥🔥🔥🔥🤝🤝❤️❤️

Thank you for this video, it really helps release any guilt and give me a realistic perspective. When children grow into young adults it’s on,y natural to get out into the world and fulfill their dreams and goals, then to come back when fully grown. Throughout history that’s just how life’s journey has been!

Thanks man.. this was much needed.. i was kinda starting to second think me moving to Europe as a selfish move.. i was more or less lacking a certain clarity.. i guess i get it now.. thanks ❤️

@Animeking2024

2 жыл бұрын

So what u decided? U r moving or staying in india

Thanks for making this video

That's the reason every child at the age of 16 or 17 they start working independently away from their parents and live on their own in foreign countries. While we immigrants just find it as emotional attach as we still rely on our parents for most of the things and then some hardships seems to us like developing ourselves

Very well defined.👍🏻

Leave everything for parents But don’t leave parents for anything (as per my muslim religion ) I heard in Hindu religion The greatest worship you have to do is to serve for parents (Kesi ko rulla k hassy toh kia hassy , kissi ko ujjar k bussay toh kia bussay)

@Nana-lx1hn

2 жыл бұрын

Marvelous lines bro

@Kathakathan11

Жыл бұрын

Well I am stuck in this dilemma. I grew up with old people, my dadi dada. But I grew closer to my parents in 10 years of accident recovery. I am restarting my life. And I want best for myself, but without compromising my responsibility towards my parents. My aunts and uncles havae gone through cancer. By friends dad just had heart attack. She was at home and could drive him in time. And this year he gets to play with his grandson. I was very ambitious before accident, all my friends are super ambitious, all settled in Western Europe. I feel left behind. So in constant dilemma if u should upgrade my education and plan for Europe. But then my parents are still fit. But they might need me.

❤️ thank u for sharing

Sir take care ) hope you'll much healthy soon ❤ Love from India 🇮🇳

Parents come first ! If you try hard enough maybe you will make it big in India. It's not guaranteed that u will make it Big only if u leave India.

@gouravchaki7990

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly... The person because of whom I am here..... I should never leave them irrespective of what the situation is..

@awesomedude4428

2 жыл бұрын

I could have never lived a such a great life as i am living in Germany. India is just a corrupt hell.

@_dyson

Жыл бұрын

I want to move abroad explore the world and meeting with new peoples and want to try different cultures . How it is possible to live in india and you get global experience ?

Thanks a lot for this one . Thanks a lot for like every video You motivate me a lot . Hope you see your family soon ♥️

Your making me very comfortable to to come germany brother

wie ist deine gesund jetzt? Immer deine videos lieben ♥

I was waiting for this video since long Mr. Bharat.

Kudos to your dedication bharat. you are making videos even in this situation. get well soon brother:)

thank you bhaiya :)

Bharat, nice video there. However, some people such as myself dont have the privilege to go abroad to pursue my career or dreams as my home country has better salary which enables me to take care of my parents. If I go overseas for my growth, I will be unable to take care of them

Great video!😊🌻

I really think that I should chase my dreams and pursue my dream career cause there are almost no opportunities for me here but my family, relatives and friends that I love are in here and I wont have anyone else in my life for a long time so I wanna go, I wanna chase my dreams but I dont wanna abandon them in the process.

I dropped out my Degree for My father's business support But peaple think I am a looser I dont want leave my parents I am only son of my parents

Hello Bharat, my problem is slightly different- Yes, my parents, like most parents are able to take care of themselves, even my father has a pension, but my problem is that, they say that they will be unhappy by leaving me abroad! Actually they (actually my mother, who is just a house wife) haven't even lived for a continuous 24 hours except when my parents went to Chennai, and I stayed with my aunt, even then there were video calls after every 8-12 hours! My mother even say that there is no need of earning too much money but stay in the home place only, not even anywhere else in the country! I, like most others, do not have TOO MUCH problem in staying away but my parents may not be happy in leaving me!

@yadhukrishnan2264

3 жыл бұрын

Take care of your parents

@BharatinGermany

3 жыл бұрын

Hey Anik, The decision in the end is always yours. The only thing I hope for you is not to have regrets that you couldn't do one thing or the other because your family / mother didn't allow you. This kind of resentment grows really deep very quickly and in the end, it is your life. Nobody else is living your life, but you yourself. So you have to be happy with any decision you take.

@takari8076

3 жыл бұрын

@@BharatinGermany u are a real mentor bro

@hallo-xp2wh

3 жыл бұрын

hallo anik , I think my parents were in such situation when they got married! my opa,oma just didn't like the idea of leaving my dad from themselves but in the end my mom & dad made it to city for a better lifestyle and career growth! and my dad never ever regretted that decision! you being with your mother is on you for now! But in the future you aren't the only one who will decide that !

@b088mohdzaid5

2 жыл бұрын

Same my parents bro and I'm a single child also

Hello sir, my parents are afraid of the thing that all this may be fraud or misinformation, as they dont trust the internet informations much, how should i make them sure that going abroad for studies doesnt have to be like any fraud or failure...plz help

For me it's especially hard because my mother has alzheimers... I just want to make them proud because in my homeland i had no chance :(

I think its pretty simple... Be with your parents if they are in any which ways dependent on you. If they are good health wise, than go .. make your career, make money and like Bharat said, no one is stopping you to come back, just take a flight. Come Home!

Thanks a ton

Where can we take our parents with? Which country? My father is no more and I have to take care of my mom.

I am living abroad away from my parents. But I won't be able to send my children away at any cost. I love my kids and want them to stay with us forever.

Just one advice stick to a place. I have travelled much but have one regrette just have roots helps so much ❤

I am sad because I have a sister and I am her only friend and a person she relies on and she is 8 year old

I have 3 siblings. One brother who is with parents and two sisters who are married but in the same city. I still feel guilty for leaving my parents. I'm saying this for only kids. The feeling of longing will always stay

@deepshikha817

Жыл бұрын

I want to go abroad...travel to diff countries...but m single child.. I am stuck ..can you tell me is it possible to settle parents there later on?

@omerinflow

Жыл бұрын

@@deepshikha817 yes it is possible

@deepshikha817

Жыл бұрын

@@omerinflow but how ..to permanently settle them both of my parenfs

@omerinflow

Жыл бұрын

@@deepshikha817 you need to apply for parental visa when you are a citizen or a permanent resident

This is super 💕

Bhai will the universities physically open for winter semester?

You sound smart, quite something you have achieved in 2 years

Hey Bharat, I have been a regular follower of yours for a while now. I am greatly inspired by you and am coming to Germany in WiSe 2021 for my master's as well. But I do have a concern I would like to keep my mum with me after I am settled. She is a widow and 50 years old. Could you please suggest a country in Europe or anything in Germany(as I heard it's pretty difficult even to bring one parent in Germany) only to help me? I will be eternally grateful.🙏🏽🙏🏽Vielen Dank.

@prathameshganapa4150

2 жыл бұрын

Hi shray , were you able to get your mom to germany?

I have a single widowed mother and thinking of me moving abroad scares her deep inside but she tries to put up strong front. i can't leave her alone.

@Jeel31

Жыл бұрын

Brother, I don't know you and I don't even know your family condition. But I just wanna say you should not leave your mother alone at any cost . Should take care of her. And sorry for giving you unwanted opinion but I felt emotional reading your comment

@harsimranjitkaur9702

Жыл бұрын

@@Jeel31 thank you for genuine advice .

Hlo Brother, I just send my documents to university and i heard that there is lockdown for four weeks. Does it will affect my visa process? Please answer me anyone please 🙏🙏 It’s been like one year that i am waiting for October intake and now this pandemic 😷 wasting my time 😔😔

These are only applicable to well financially settled family.

In my case i am only child of my parents and i live with my mother My father is no more ,and I am interested to study abrod ,My mother never said no to me but somewhere in my mind i am very confused as shel will be alone in india if she need any kind of help someday who will helo her , what should i Do in this situation??

Sir, for how many months(duration) my parents can come to Europe using tourist visa? Before visa gets expire can they go to India and come back again in few days or months? Is that possible?

Should i go itlay for bachlors in computer science?is there enough opportunity?

Damn.. I am applying to study abroad.. Which is like my big dream.. At the same time my heart is getting ripped by the thought of leaving my family and relatives😓😓😓.. I don't know what to do😢😢

@ayudhnagaraj3204

Жыл бұрын

I'm in the same situation , i love my friends and family here , my friends have been the best part of me. But at the same time we really should go as much as it hurts because if you don't now, your friends will because it's only some of us get attached deeply to sentiments , everyone is meant to tak different paths, so whether you leave or not as much as it hurts they will , one day 🤍 so please don't make a decision based on emotions but have a reality check . Call me a hypocrite because i feel the same way too 🤍

@jon46871

Жыл бұрын

@@ayudhnagaraj3204 yeah man,you are right...Thanks for your advice.. Gotta make these decisions with head even it hurts, especially as a man can't show weakness here....I only Wish I didn't have these emotions or sentiments...Life would be simple...

@ayudhnagaraj3204

Жыл бұрын

@@jon46871 Absolutely not. You should feel proud that you do. It's only then you know your family raised you right and you care for other people 🫶🏻. Be strong, everything happens for a reason 🤍 I'm going to Australia in 3 months and I'm nervous and scared ,but we have to move on with life 🕊️

@jon46871

Жыл бұрын

@@ayudhnagaraj3204 Thank you for the good words... I wish you good luck in your new journey...

Exact my situation, I left onsite few times , even learning A2 and on going I am in between my children future and parents to be valued. Still thinking...taking my time Great suggestion 👍 Thank you.

same problem facing

Well I have my father only . He would be pleased to have me go abroad

Thank you so much for making this video, however I have one favor to ask you, could you please make this video in hindi, so I can show my parents and let them understand it. @BharatInGermany.

@BharatinGermany

3 жыл бұрын

I’ll try to make one on the Hindi channel

I'm not an only child but my younger brother is not helpful and I want to move away again. I've done it before but of course everyone was younger. My parents are acting old now and I'm doing a good amount of the help work for them. I want to move out of the country again so bad but I don't know how to make sure they are good.

@Animeking2024

2 жыл бұрын

Bro take them with u or stay with them... don't just run behind money or career, its ur duty to take care of them as they already took care of u for years

@bindutiwari4263

2 жыл бұрын

@@Animeking2024 Well it was their choice to have a child so they are obligated to take care of the child

@Animeking2024

2 жыл бұрын

@@bindutiwari4263 who said its their responsibility to take care?....by ur words it also means that if they created you then they can destroy/kill u as well...and also it will be completely their choice since they made him and become god for them...is it?

@bindutiwari4263

2 жыл бұрын

@@Animeking2024 It is their responsibility to take care of the child . If they can't don't have one . Having children just so that they can take care of us in old age is selfish.

@Animeking2024

2 жыл бұрын

@@bindutiwari4263 why parents want to spend on children and take care of them? What they will get...no one said its their responsibility....if yes then it should be children's responsibility as well

It is really hard to make this decision

Hi Bharat, my dad already pass away only my mom and i live only with her, i want to go to germany to be nurse(im hochschule) learning but i worried to leave my mom alone, i wanna bring her with me while my departure😭 is it possible i bring her? What should i do? Hopefully you can tell me what should i do.. thank you very much🙏🏻🙏🏻

@Smitjoshi28

3 жыл бұрын

well tbh , that might be hard .... you should aim for your own pr and pc first , then you need to show that your mom is completely dependent on you ..... still it might go hard . ALL THE BEST

What happened to your house in Denmark?

Our parents our responsibility.... life is imp..

It's sad actually that young people don't feel able to pursue whatever their potential is because of parents' needs for attention. 🤨 I'd say whatever your culture of origin, travel while you can. Ideally, your parents should have their own life separate from their kids while they're not frail and sick. If they don't have any friends or hobbies there are bigger issues at play than you moving abroad.

hallo bharat, what's the deal with these spamming trader messages ? by the name bharat in germany!

Bhaiya m jee ka ek dropper student hu, mera drop ab almost complete ho chuka h mera kuch din m hi jee main exam h, mujhe Germany education k baare main abhi hi pta chala h kya m abhi bhi kya germany m becholor krne ke liye prepare kar sakta hu kya? Please answer me

Love from "Rajasthan" ❤️

*Can we bring our parents to Germany for settlement ? How ?*

I am dying to move to another country. But I cant leave my parents behind. Is it even possible to take them with us?

@supersuper3493

2 жыл бұрын

If you're rich, then I guess yes

@ShubhamSharma-lh2ji

2 жыл бұрын

Yes there is way first you have to become citizen of that country then you may sponser visa of your parents but remeber every country has there own laws.

Superb video Bharat,I was in a fix for my son to send him abroad as it's pretty difficult to convince grand parents as I hv a son and a disable bed ridden daughter and family thinks ,once he will b settled there he won't come back and then who will take care of us . there's a fear of Germany, it may change its policy after Angela Merkel . will it be a good decision to send him there or let him study here only. if u hv any clue of changing political scenario and it's impact on students so pls make a video .thnx my u get well sooner than others with all our blessings

@BharatinGermany

3 жыл бұрын

Dear Minakshi, The way things are still running, I highly doubt that Merkel getting changed is going to bring a lot of massive immigration changes in Germany, mainly because of the fact that people in Germany know already that it is not easy for them to sustain their economy, if they don't bring people from other countries to work in their work force. So, I wouldn't worry about it so much, but just focus on the next steps of what he feels comfortable in doing.

@takari8076

3 жыл бұрын

@@BharatinGermany thnx Bharat,ur answer made my day.i didn't expected an answer from such a busy guy.thnx for ur answer again

I dont have the money to take the risk if i take loan and dnt get job den ? The loan pressure will come on family Can u help me to clear this Mechnaical Engineer with interest in computational engineering 1.8 cgpa 1 research paper preparing for upsc ese and gate bt got low marks

@sujan5180

3 жыл бұрын

stuck with this man thanks for asking

@jaygalani8434

3 жыл бұрын

Bro, i know. your problem i am also one of them then i found the solution if you want to do and you are confident that you wil.l then stuck with your plan bcoz you couldn't spoil your future with some small kind of problem okk if you want then it will be normal after a some time ..

bhaiii get well soon from covid!

@BharatinGermany

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Aditya!

I m very much afraid to leave my mom alone...i dont know how she will handle loneliness.. My brother is also in hostel.. I will also leave and my father is working in other state... God give strength to my mom. I can't see her cry but at same time career is also important.. I haven't started my college too...

❤️❤️

What about a single parent?

@rashidansari4176

3 жыл бұрын

Be with your parents!

@mohamedsaifi5645

3 жыл бұрын

take ur parent also with you... 😇

@Pranjal12960

3 жыл бұрын

@@mohamedsaifi5645 this is possible germany has laws for these kinds of situations, of they are financially dependent on you and nobody is there to take care of them, then you can. How to go forward doing this? I don't know but I know it's possible given the conditions are fulfilled, ask Bharat directly via Insta!

@hallo-xp2wh

3 жыл бұрын

hmm are you going to stay away from mom/dad!

@giridharg104

3 жыл бұрын

@@hallo-xp2wh mom

You have to leave your parents and loved ones for your better future.😊

@jestondsouza6403

6 ай бұрын

Noo bvc

can we bring them in Germany later?

amazing

The video was nice but I think you are not covering the point. 😂

This is your opinion, not fact.

Bharat pls help regarding my situation I come from a poor background I want to study master's in germany but do not have the expenses to bear the cost of living and tution fees.

@bhaveshkumar9593

3 жыл бұрын

get a loan

@johnrebeiro1066

3 жыл бұрын

@@bhaveshkumar9593 what about after doing ms and not get a job den ? Then whole load of it will be on parents again

@Animeking2024

2 жыл бұрын

Bro what don't u try something in india like CAT exam or anything? Why u want to leave ur family and go far away?

Sir were u upsc aspirant

Yes sir... Is it possible to get citizenship for parents to after deciding to settle there?????

@alanna2

3 жыл бұрын

I think it's not possible in Germany if that's your requirements then move to a country like Canada which allows parents also

@shubhambharati2392

3 жыл бұрын

@@alanna2 thanks

This video related to my situation

Sir In Germany can we call our parents Permanently after PR

@yadhukrishnan2264

3 жыл бұрын

Only tor 3 months, and as Germany is european country, your parents will never get a citizenship

@rajansharma2968

3 жыл бұрын

@@yadhukrishnan2264 bro In case if my mother is dependent on me only So government will allow my mother to live with me.

Hi